Thank you for that video. I made those same mistakes. I did not heal my inner child before dating and getting married. It caused a lot of pain in out marriage. I was counting on my husband to make me happy and give me the emotional stability I missed in my childhood. 11 years into our marriage, God opened my eyes and I realized that the source of my unhappiness was me. I asked too much from my husband. Now that everything is clear in my mind, I start enjoying my marriage instead of having constant fights.
Oh Winnie!🥺 I don't know how to thank God for your life. You've had a positive impact on me and I've learnt alot from you. I'll never run away from conflict and I'll definitely read the books you recommended. I pray you continue to grow in strength and wisdom. I hope to see and talk with you one day❤️
I keep loving you, every other day. People who venture into this kind of aspect of work (like you're doing) probably got to a point where they had to do this (courageously sharing their experience), because, it actually connects them more to their audience and showing the practicality of what they teach. All I could muster, was "hmmmm"... Because, if they remove that dating, everything you said looks like you're describing the me that hadn't evolved (I'm still working on me, by God's Spirit). Thank you, I personally appreciate your genuineness.
Why do i get to reasonate with every piece of what you wished to have known earlier....thank you for mirroring them out,and now the me is getting better(work on progress) ,thank you to the the likes of your videos.
Winnie thanks for always educating us on this channel. Most especially this new course "art of speaking eloquently and elegantly" it just feels like u're looking through the mind of people to know the right things to bring to them. That course is really meant for people like me and I'm definitely purchasing it. Thanks once again for everything. Much love 😍
I didn’t know how much my wounded immer child was haunting my adult years…but I am glad we had the much needed talk and she’s healing just fine now.❤️✨
The intuition part, it is so true. It's more than a feeling. It leads me to restlessness but most times, I go against it and it is never funny, the situations I will find myself in and know I could have avoided. Most of them, I still blame myself for.
It's a privilege to be learning this even at 27! I've come to learn a lot from your experiences, and I hope to learn more on financial literacy. God bless you
Thanks for sharing, we heard almost similar experience, your teaching has given me courage to deal with the most difficult moments of my life especially now that I walked out of a toxic marriage, as a single mother of one, thanks Winnie I hope to met with you one day. Your videos are so inspiring and life changing. I will love to have you as my mentor, each time am down emotional I quickly run to your channel.
Yes ... Allways learn through mistakes, & I learned to not expect everyone to be like me, not everyone has a good heart, take time to learn a person, & intuition, have a high level of that is good, most women have that naturally, &if I knew what i know now i would have never Divorced my husband, would have worked it out! I really like your classes... 💞💯
Hi "Winnie!! #1. Do you mind me asking you , how old you are??? If you don't want to answer 🤦🫣 o. K.. #2 & Outside of your tremendous web-site, what's your line of work. , you don't have to answer, 💞 Have a nice day!
I can overly trust people eh! My husband will keep warning me until these past 5 yrs. I started meeting friends that were stabbing me at the back. Now I'm W.I.P. I like to please people to my detriment, I care a lot about what people say, I like to make people smile, I feel I must be there for everybody,. You know like I'm superman, saviour of the world, I think people are like me. My husband has really helped me to deal with these things o! I didn't know how to say no but now I've learnt it. Winnie it really was not a way to live. I wish I could go back in time and correct some things. I reckon with a lot of your past mistakes. Thank God for where we are now. I love the conscious efforts you made to correct them. Thanks for this. I'm inspired to correct myself the more.
That's good you decided not to be a people pleaser, most dont care anyway, I've really never been a people pleaser, but I know people who are, people like at that as a person with low- self esteem, or weakness, we all have areas that needs improvement, that why I like this class.
I'm in this presently but I'm happy I'm able to figure out in time and adjust. Thank you for also coming out to teach on these things I've gotten deeper knowledge and learnt more.
I don't know how people can have same stories, and I just trying to improve everything on me you know it's journey and believe everything will be fine soon
Winnie the first mistake surely made my life terrible. Trusting people till i am still struggling with this. They use to tell me that I never learn but now........ thank you
Still in my 20s mine is feeling that people don't own me anything, this mentality stopped me from requesting for what i need, from pushing, i accepted No too easily. So i guess a balance is good.
I also felt this way and it was hard to speak up even when I wanted and needed something badly 😢 I just kept quiet because I felt no one was entitled to me and everyone had enough on their table 😔
Oh Winnie, I bless the day I found your channel. So I came online to check on tutorials for a dress and stumbled on this one. This speaks to me big time! New experiences ❤❤ ah, I need to break this cycle😢😢
For the fact I am concerned lady Winnie you are the best content creator in the hole world. I love you so much thanks for all your good works I pray you have more wisdom and God bless you 🙏
📍Being overly dependent 📍Avoiding Friendship/thinking you don't need friends 📍Using avoidance methods to solve conflict 📍Being unnecessarily fearful of the future Will work on these. Thanks Madam
My absolute pleasure!! No you aren’t late… your life just literally started! Take it one step at a time, one day at a time.. you will be amazed at how much progress you will make in 6 months. I am rooting for you!❤️✨
Wow! I am filled with awe. Thank you very much for this. It's just as if you were referring to all the mistakes I had made too. I have learnt from this video so much. I am happy I eventually subscribed to your educational TH-cam channel after seeing it on IG for years and dismissing it
As a Christian, your Invincible force, strong intuition..I believe that the HolySpirit. The more you acknowledge Him in your life the more reveal Himself to you . I learnt a lot from this video, my life has been just a routine everyday, from work to home to church then again and again. It’s changing now😊
Oooh my word Ms.winniefred ,May the Holy spirit continue to bless you with the gift of wisdom and continue to use you. This is whole me 😂😂😢😢😂😢it's just a mixed feeling at the moment
Please teach us more about Financial literacy , I'm 22 and I'm in college and I'm doing business as well, I learnt from your previous videos on how to make money while you're in college and it's helping me a lot but I now want to make more and be financially independent.
Pls teach us on the finical literacy. We need it, I personally. Plus the last slide got me, let's scatter it and arrange it again, I call it yam pepper scatter scatter😅
Thanks for this Winnie! I'm also the kind of person that tries to please everyone, tries to make everyone happy at my own cost. Plus, I also have a triangular lifestyle, I find it really tasking to go out. Haven't seen some of my close friends for up to a year or 2.. but we do chat everyday, they all know I won't come out for a drink. I'll change I promise 😂
I always know how to run away even in my relationship with I’m having any misunderstanding I just gradually unlove and move on for the sake of my sanity and it’s help to an extent so in the future if my partner does something to me I don’t feel much hurt and I don’t over think
I'm currently still watching and it's just been hitting me,... I'm currently fighting to come out from some trauma that I should have literally avoided just because I failed to listen to my intuitions 😢...
Winnie! You made valid points and I can relate to everything you said. Sometimes I just sit and regret but then again, time is moving. If I don't do anything, the next 5, 10 will still be the same so I get to get moving. In my early 30s and I feel its too late but I believe it's not. I can start from where I am and be better. Thank you for your vulnerability Winnie. May God help us and continue to give you more grace for this chanel 🙏
It’s certainly not too late dear…your life literally just started and you haven’t lived your best years yet. So please put in the work that allows you to be the best version of yourself and I promise you, you won’t regret that you did. I am always rooting for you!❤️✨ 2:03
I always look up your videos for update! Our government has no idea how people are suffering these days. I feel for people with disabilities not getting the help they deserve. Thank you Mrs Pacey Arnold, imagine investing $1000 and receiving $7,300.
I think Going to Ms Pacey Arnold has brought me and my family great success! Irrespective of the economic depression I can boast over $7,300 every week investing with her service.
Thanks so much Winnie for sharing, I have really learnt a lot from you, may God bless you. We wish we could hear more of this to make our 20's fruitful, much love 😊
Thank you for that video. I made those same mistakes. I did not heal my inner child before dating and getting married. It caused a lot of pain in out marriage. I was counting on my husband to make me happy and give me the emotional stability I missed in my childhood. 11 years into our marriage, God opened my eyes and I realized that the source of my unhappiness was me. I asked too much from my husband.
Now that everything is clear in my mind, I start enjoying my marriage instead of having constant fights.
Same with me
Oh Winnie!🥺
I don't know how to thank God for your life. You've had a positive impact on me and I've learnt alot from you. I'll never run away from conflict and I'll definitely read the books you recommended. I pray you continue to grow in strength and wisdom. I hope to see and talk with you one day❤️
Amen!! Thank you so much!❤️
I keep loving you, every other day.
People who venture into this kind of aspect of work (like you're doing) probably got to a point where they had to do this (courageously sharing their experience), because, it actually connects them more to their audience and showing the practicality of what they teach.
All I could muster, was "hmmmm"...
Because, if they remove that dating, everything you said looks like you're describing the me that hadn't evolved (I'm still working on me, by God's Spirit).
Thank you, I personally appreciate your genuineness.
Why do i get to reasonate with every piece of what you wished to have known earlier....thank you for mirroring them out,and now the me is getting better(work on progress) ,thank you to the the likes of your videos.
Knowing you found this video helpful makes me feel fulfilled and thank you for taking the time to write this comment.❤️
Winnie thanks for always educating us on this channel. Most especially this new course "art of speaking eloquently and elegantly" it just feels like u're looking through the mind of people to know the right things to bring to them. That course is really meant for people like me and I'm definitely purchasing it. Thanks once again for everything. Much love 😍
That point of not dealing or healing the inner child is so on point
I didn’t know how much my wounded immer child was haunting my adult years…but I am glad we had the much needed talk and she’s healing just fine now.❤️✨
This points are what I'm going through at this my teen age non has been missing,thanks to God and you I'm learning this today😊
The intuition part, it is so true. It's more than a feeling. It leads me to restlessness but most times, I go against it and it is never funny, the situations I will find myself in and know I could have avoided. Most of them, I still blame myself for.
Thank you so much for this piece. This is just me. I literally broke down crying this morning. I trust people easily and at the end I get hurt badly.
It's a privilege to be learning this even at 27! I've come to learn a lot from your experiences, and I hope to learn more on financial literacy. God bless you
Amen! Thank you!
Thanks for sharing, we heard almost similar experience, your teaching has given me courage to deal with the most difficult moments of my life especially now that I walked out of a toxic marriage, as a single mother of one, thanks Winnie I hope to met with you one day. Your videos are so inspiring and life changing. I will love to have you as my mentor, each time am down emotional I quickly run to your channel.
Please winnie, i need the names of those books you mentioned earlier. Thank you and i love you and what you do.
Yes ... Allways learn through mistakes, & I learned to not expect everyone to be like me, not everyone has a good heart, take time to learn a person, & intuition, have a high level of that is good, most women have that naturally, &if I knew what i know now i would have never Divorced my husband, would have worked it out! I really like your classes... 💞💯
Hi "Winnie!!
#1.
Do you mind me asking you , how old you are??? If you don't want to answer 🤦🫣 o. K..
#2
& Outside of your tremendous web-site, what's your line of work. , you don't have to answer,
💞 Have a nice day!
Thank you so much for sharing this!✨✨✨
@@winniesschoolofelegance
Thank you Winnie! Your very sharp mentally!
I can overly trust people eh! My husband will keep warning me until these past 5 yrs. I started meeting friends that were stabbing me at the back. Now I'm W.I.P. I like to please people to my detriment, I care a lot about what people say, I like to make people smile, I feel I must be there for everybody,. You know like I'm superman, saviour of the world, I think people are like me. My husband has really helped me to deal with these things o!
I didn't know how to say no but now I've learnt it.
Winnie it really was not a way to live. I wish I could go back in time and correct some things.
I reckon with a lot of your past mistakes. Thank God for where we are now.
I love the conscious efforts you made to correct them.
Thanks for this. I'm inspired to correct myself the more.
That's good you decided not to be a people pleaser, most dont care anyway, I've really never been a people pleaser, but I know people who are, people like at that as a person with low- self esteem, or weakness, we all have areas that needs improvement, that why I like this class.
I'm in this presently but I'm happy I'm able to figure out in time and adjust. Thank you for also coming out to teach on these things I've gotten deeper knowledge and learnt more.
I don't know how people can have same stories, and I just trying to improve everything on me you know it's journey and believe everything will be fine soon
Thank you for allowing yourself be vulnerable in this video. Thanks for sharing.
Winnie the first mistake surely made my life terrible. Trusting people till i am still struggling with this. They use to tell me that I never learn but now........ thank you
Hmmm is true oo trying to make everyone happy when they don't appreciate really hurts
You are making me to enjoy myself at my single stage of my life. I am about to turn 30. I have few months ahead
I love you so MUCH Winnie.
Most times I regret never trusting my intuition because it is mostly right but I believe now100%
Still in my 20s mine is feeling that people don't own me anything, this mentality stopped me from requesting for what i need, from pushing, i accepted No too easily.
So i guess a balance is good.
I also felt this way and it was hard to speak up even when I wanted and needed something badly 😢 I just kept quiet because I felt no one was entitled to me and everyone had enough on their table 😔
I'm so relieved watching this ❤❤❤😊
Thank you so much Ma'am.
You just lifted off something from my shoulders.
I enjoyed your lesson.
Girl you just like me... from Ghana. I like you and I could learn from you. I need to have someone like you very close to me.
Oh Winnie, I bless the day I found your channel. So I came online to check on tutorials for a dress and stumbled on this one. This speaks to me big time! New experiences ❤❤ ah, I need to break this cycle😢😢
I am so glad you find my content valuable.❤️ Thank you for being a part of our community.
For the fact I am concerned lady Winnie you are the best content creator in the hole world. I love you so much thanks for all your good works I pray you have more wisdom and God bless you 🙏
📍Being overly dependent
📍Avoiding Friendship/thinking you don't need friends
📍Using avoidance methods to solve conflict
📍Being unnecessarily fearful of the future
Will work on these.
Thanks Madam
Thanks so much winnie for sharing this ❤🥰. I always learn alot from this community 😊.
It’s my absolute pleasure!❤️
Thank you so much, winning. you just narrated what's happening to me currently which I have been looking for a way to free from it
It’s my absolute pleasure. I am so glad you found this video helpful.❤️
Thank you so much that is me now trying to get out of all this mistakes and I think am not late at 39.
My absolute pleasure!! No you aren’t late… your life just literally started!
Take it one step at a time, one day at a time.. you will be amazed at how much progress you will make in 6 months.
I am rooting for you!❤️✨
Wow thanks 🤧🥺 I'm doing all these mistakes now. I'm 21 years old thanks for waking me up
I feel it was Gods will that I found this channel. Thank you
Wow! I am filled with awe. Thank you very much for this. It's just as if you were referring to all the mistakes I had made too. I have learnt from this video so much. I am happy I eventually subscribed to your educational TH-cam channel after seeing it on IG for years and dismissing it
I like how you spelt out your points. They are helpful. Thank you for this particular one🎉
These points are what I'm going through at this my teen age non has been missing,thanks to God and you I'm learning this today😊
Thank you so much Winnie, this will really help me a whole lot
Oh sis this is sooo me 😢🙌thank u for this❤
Thanks Winnie for your vulnerability alot of the things you are saying are soo relatable like trusting that gut feeling.
Gosh this so like me I really need to change a lot of things in my life ,Everything in this video I’m all in, thank u for sharing
As a Christian, your Invincible force, strong intuition..I believe that the HolySpirit. The more you acknowledge Him in your life the more reveal Himself to you .
I learnt a lot from this video, my life has been just a routine everyday, from work to home to church then again and again.
It’s changing now😊
I really enjoyed this video, All you said here is what I'm dealing with right thank you
May God bless you sister
I can feel your passion in this video. Thank you for doing this💕
What a timely video, I needed this information I now know better and for sure it's time to do better , thanks very much
Wow, thank you Winnie, am gonna change
My absolute pleasure!❤️
This is very educative, thanks for dishing out all this. I love you
You just gain a subscriber
Oooh my word Ms.winniefred ,May the Holy spirit continue to bless you with the gift of wisdom and continue to use you. This is whole me 😂😂😢😢😂😢it's just a mixed feeling at the moment
Wow dix video is for me, I’m actually working on myself on all d point u mentioned, I can’t waiting to get out of dix circle, thanks Miss Winnie
This is totally relatable. Thank you for sharing this was very insightful
I am in my 20's , ever since I started watching and following your videos, I started changing my ways. I thought I had friends. Thank you Winnie.
My pleasure!!❤️
Seems like you just narrated the story of my life right now. Thanks for these tips, on my way to work on me. 🚶🚶💃
It’s my absolute pleasure!!❤️
Thank you ma'am. I can relate to everything.
This is screaming me, thank you so much
This felt so much like me, I'll definitely be better, thank you Winnie ❤
You are absolutely welcome!❤️
Thank you auntie, you really teach me a alot.This are some of things I'm trying to come out of it.A very big thanks you .
Please teach us more about Financial literacy , I'm 22 and I'm in college and I'm doing business as well, I learnt from your previous videos on how to make money while you're in college and it's helping me a lot but I now want to make more and be financially independent.
I will share more videos on finance in the coming weeks…watch out for them okay.
Keep soaring and making great progress. I am rooting for you always.
Please can we get the title of the books to help heal the inner child?
@@umunakwezechisom5827 it’s in the description box
Am interested too please
I'm interested
I just turned 30, and I can relate to EVERY point you just stated.
Let's just say I'm living better now.
Well done!🙌🏼
Thanks dear
Mine is trying to make everyone happy and like me, minding what people thinks of me and not able to say no.
But I am working on them now
Winnieee really impact my life❤❤❤ I would really like to meet you 🇬🇭🥺. I love you Winnie
Pls teach us on the finical literacy. We need it, I personally. Plus the last slide got me, let's scatter it and arrange it again, I call it yam pepper scatter scatter😅
I don't know why I'm seeing part of you in me....
Ohh Winnie this felt so much like me .. i had to hold back my tears thanks for sharing ❤ I will definitely do better..
I just started following you. I'm glad what I'm seeing.❤❤❤❤❤
This was very helpful
This was a very good video... Educative and as always, fun to watch. ❤
Going through the overly care something and it really hurts
I like 👍 the way you teach English...I'm learning a lot from ur video
Thank you so much for this powerful information
I watched this video and said, God brought your channel to me, not by myself, you always hit the nail on the head, thanks for everything Winnie.
oh wow! why did i think you were in your mid twenties? lol! you look great
😍😍😍😍
You were just hitting the point 🥰
Winnie...you literally described me😢
Thank very much, u just says everything happening to me...Thank so much❤
Thanks for this Winnie! I'm also the kind of person that tries to please everyone, tries to make everyone happy at my own cost. Plus, I also have a triangular lifestyle, I find it really tasking to go out. Haven't seen some of my close friends for up to a year or 2.. but we do chat everyday, they all know I won't come out for a drink. I'll change I promise 😂
Thanks so much Winnie ❤❤❤
😂😂😂 exactly why i left my Dubai job back to Nigeria to have my life back biko. Am Done doing the same routine everyday 😂😂😂
Thank you so much Winnie ....God bless you You're like my virtual big sister 😍☺️🙏
You are absolutely welcome! I feel honored to be called your sister…lots of love!!❤️❤️
I always know how to run away even in my relationship with I’m having any misunderstanding I just gradually unlove and move on for the sake of my sanity and it’s help to an extent so in the future if my partner does something to me I don’t feel much hurt and I don’t over think
I'm currently still watching and it's just been hitting me,... I'm currently fighting to come out from some trauma that I should have literally avoided just because I failed to listen to my intuitions 😢...
Thank you Winnie much love
Winnie! You made valid points and I can relate to everything you said. Sometimes I just sit and regret but then again, time is moving. If I don't do anything, the next 5, 10 will still be the same so I get to get moving. In my early 30s and I feel its too late but I believe it's not. I can start from where I am and be better. Thank you for your vulnerability Winnie. May God help us and continue to give you more grace for this chanel 🙏
It’s certainly not too late dear…your life literally just started and you haven’t lived your best years yet.
So please put in the work that allows you to be the best version of yourself and I promise you, you won’t regret that you did.
I am always rooting for you!❤️✨ 2:03
@@winniesschoolofelegance Thank you so much 💛
I always look up your videos for update! Our government has no idea how people are suffering these days. I feel for people with disabilities not getting the help they deserve. Thank you Mrs Pacey Arnold, imagine investing $1000 and receiving $7,300.
I think Going to Ms Pacey Arnold has brought me and my family great success! Irrespective of the economic depression I can boast over $7,300 every week investing with her service.
How can i reach out to ms pacey??
You are absolutely correct, I used to think everyone is like me o 🤣🤣🤣 dem show me pepper ehn
Sorry!!❤️
That my problem I trust people easily 😢
Thank you Winnie...I have really learnt a lot today❤
You're like the older sis I never had😂... But fr, all these things you listed describe me right now😭😭😭
Esp the intuition and empathetic part
Just discovered this channel today but I already love you winnie❤..u inspire me
Thank you as others one can still relate ❤️❤️🙏
Thank you very much winnie❤
Im learning a lot sis,God bless you 🙏😍
Thank you for this piece, I learnt alot
I just subscribed 😘
Am 35, and I must admit I made that mistake of not making friends, am very shy by nature so, I struggle to make friends now I feel lonely at times
It seems you are my twin😱 because all the points listed are just same thing with mine.However I was able to point some out on my own before now .
I think a lot of us went through same issues…😊 the most beautiful part is acknowledging them and choosing to do better going forward.
@@winniesschoolofelegance Wow I feel so honoured seeing your reply now ,hope to see you one day
Thank you so much Winnie for this piece ,i needed this but please can you talk about financial literacy I need to know more...thank you
My house, work, church 😢 story of my life right now
Thank you so much for sharing
Thanks so much Winnie for sharing, I have really learnt a lot from you, may God bless you. We wish we could hear more of this to make our 20's fruitful, much love 😊
It’s my absolute pleasure and I am so glad you found this video helpful.❤️
Seriously seems like you were me now hmm would try to work on them and change some things around here.
Thank you for this I have learned a lot