You're emotionally intelligent if you: 1. Have a high level of self awareness. 2. Have healed your childhood traumas. 3. Have mastered the art of self control. 4. Have learned how to respond instead of reacting. 5. Have a high level of empathy and understanding. 6. Have a good interpersonal and social skill. 7. When in doubt on how to respond, they use the power of silence.
Mastering intelligence of our emotions is very vital in life, it brings internal peace and enhances our self esteem, making us to appreciate ourselves and others more... Thank you Winnie for this
This is exactly the message I need on this special day, a colleague wants to play superiority over me, I didn’t argue. I played along and she pulled me out of my unit to a different unit. As a midwife am not suppose to be in that unit am currently in now. This is just because of racism. Thanks Winnie
You are such a blessing ma'am,you always educate me in all the videos. You are such a blessing from above and may the Good lord bless you in everything you do. I love you❤❤❤ from Zambia🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲
Understanding self is crucial to physical, emotional and spiritual growth. Whatever we resist would persist so therefore, we should try to quench the fiery conflagration of anger with the water of calmness. Whenever good things are coming your way, anger is a test you must pass to get them. That is a secret. This video is brilliant! Thanks my dear Winnie!
We were in preps and we heard noise outside, everyone was running I even run and left my physics text book on the floor and they torn it up. But my close friend was sitting quietly on her desk. We run and came back to meet her sitting and studying and everyone was so perplexed 😂
Thank you for the video on emotional intelligence, I'm always enlightened by your teachings please go ahead and make that video on healing childhood traumas.
I think prayer and asking God to reveal past hurt/trauma and how it impact our daily life help as a starter❤ there is that verse in Jeremiah 33 verse 3 that is quite powerful to pray with in order to get revelation about ourselves or even our family lineages (as some toxic behavior are repetitive from one generation to another and need to be broken through prayers and therapy tips like Winnie is sharing🙏🏾)
Steps to become an emotionally intelligent person. 1. You need to become very self aware. 2. Embrace your feelings. 3. The next time you engage in a situation that is not pleasing to you, do not react immediately. Take your time and have an internal dialogue. 4. Watch your behaviour closely when a feeling arises, and instead of reacting try to respond. 5. Tell yourself the hard truth when you know you have displayed an unpleasant behaviour and make things right. 6. Ask others to evaluate you, 7. Be very open-minded and accept people for who they are not who you think they are. 8. Master the art of empathy. 9. Learn from mistakes and constructive criticism.
This is beautiful winnie,I think this should be a series on its own,it needs to be reallyaddressed.please upload the video on how you healed your childhood trauma. Thank you very much for everything.
The first step to emotional awareness is to begin to understand what kind of thoughts, emotions, and behaviors you have with regard to different situations. There are various common thoughts that go with each emotional state, understanding yours, noticing them when they come on, helps you approach a situation more rationally
One of the content I am on social media for. All the way from SA, 🇿🇦 Self awareness ❤ Childhood traumad😢😢(this is a must take on process to truly in becoming a better version of yourself) please do a video on this🙏 I have mastered the power of silence and it works all the time to my advantage 🤞
WINNIE!!! This is exhaustive! Informative, Life-saving and SUPER MOTIVATIONAL video. God bless the efforts you are making to impact the society through your insightful videos. And YES, to drop of a video on healing from childhood trauma and the other request. Thanks again. Infact, this should be made a book. Weldone!
Please mama, i i would likw to have your note, i am 30 now, i really have a really bad anger issue, i dont know how to control my emotions amd it ends up making me loose friends and i tend to say lots of bad words in my moments of anger, i also have the problem of loving and trusting people easily, and when i do end up divulging everything single thing about me to them and at the end it still fires back at them, it's just like i have a loosed mouth😭, i really need help and im ready to work on myself, i just need to know what to do, the steps to take
Hello Winnie, thank you 🙏 😘 sooooooo very much for sharing this beautiful topic.... I would really appreciate it if you can upload the video of your childhood healing trauma...
Thank you so much for sharing this powerful message, i am interested in, dealing with the childhood drama video, am a victim of it and it disturbing me already.
Hi winnei , I love your channel actually my sister knows how to deal with this problem 👉my sister is too emotional that she cries suddenly whenever someone says bad about her
You're emotionally intelligent if you:
1. Have a high level of self awareness.
2. Have healed your childhood traumas.
3. Have mastered the art of self control.
4. Have learned how to respond instead of reacting.
5. Have a high level of empathy and understanding.
6. Have a good interpersonal and social skill.
7. When in doubt on how to respond, they use the power of silence.
I needed this because i don't know how to control my emotions 😭😢 I keep losing friends.
Thank you so much ma'am
You are absolutely welcome! ❤
How do I join the telegram group?
I bless the very day i came across your channel, since that day you became my role model. I love you already thank you so much
I am so glad you find this channel valuable. I love you too!❤
Yes ooo
Mastering intelligence of our emotions is very vital in life, it brings internal peace and enhances our self esteem, making us to appreciate ourselves and others more... Thank you Winnie for this
Well said!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
you know this! lack of emotional intelligence will make you lose relationships, affect your mental health
If this is not the truth!!❤
I co-sign whole-heartedly
Absolutely
This is exactly the message I need on this special day, a colleague wants to play superiority over me, I didn’t argue. I played along and she pulled me out of my unit to a different unit. As a midwife am not suppose to be in that unit am currently in now. This is just because of racism. Thanks Winnie
You are such a blessing ma'am,you always educate me in all the videos. You are such a blessing from above and may the Good lord bless you in everything you do. I love you❤❤❤ from Zambia🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲
Thank you so much! I love you too!❤
This came at the right time.. it's my major challenge now but I know I'm rising above it from now on... Thank you Winnie.
It’s my absolute pleasure!❤❤
Understanding self is crucial to physical, emotional and spiritual growth. Whatever we resist would persist so therefore, we should try to quench the fiery conflagration of anger with the water of calmness. Whenever good things are coming your way, anger is a test you must pass to get them. That is a secret. This video is brilliant! Thanks my dear Winnie!
God bless you maa. Keep the good works, you're such a blessing......from Ghana
Kindly we need that video on how to heal childhood traumas. Lot of love Kenyaaaa
Noted Dear!❤
Fellow Kenyan search for the video in her page it's there
Am a very happy student of yours madam in all the topics you educate us on.
Love from 🇰🇪 🇰🇪 Kenya
Oh my! It’s my pleasure! I love you!❤❤❤
fellow kenyan here
So timely
God is sure using you to get to me
Thank you Ma
Me too she is so blessed ❤
My pleasure dear. I thank God!❤
Thank you for the video, it actually came the right time. I’m on my healing journey 🙏
11:12 That self-awareness is key to making progress on that Emotional Journey.
I started learning emotional intelligence recently and I’m surprised at how calm I could be.This came at the right time.Thank you❤
We were in preps and we heard noise outside, everyone was running I even run and left my physics text book on the floor and they torn it up. But my close friend was sitting quietly on her desk. We run and came back to meet her sitting and studying and everyone was so perplexed 😂
This is sooo me. Thank you for this piece
I have been waiting for this and it’s finally here ❤️❤️
Thank you Winnie
It’s my absolute pleasure Dear!❤️❤️
What a beautiful elegant Woman ! Thank you for sharing ❤
You always give out value, Winnie. May God bless you richly, ma. Thank you so much for the discussion on overcoming childhood trauma.
Hey Winnie you have no idea how much these videos have helped me thank you
Thank you for the video on emotional intelligence, I'm always enlightened by your teachings please go ahead and make that video on healing childhood traumas.
Yes please do the how to deal with child hood trauma
I will film that video this week and on Sunday okay. It’s already in the works.❤️
I really need to hear what you have to say about this topic Winnie.Thanks @rachaeldanda470
I think prayer and asking God to reveal past hurt/trauma and how it impact our daily life help as a starter❤ there is that verse in Jeremiah 33 verse 3 that is quite powerful to pray with in order to get revelation about ourselves or even our family lineages (as some toxic behavior are repetitive from one generation to another and need to be broken through prayers and therapy tips like Winnie is sharing🙏🏾)
Thank you Winnie...i really needed to here this!🤗
You are absolutely welcome!❤
I really love your teachings. God bless you dear
Steps to become an emotionally intelligent person.
1. You need to become very self aware.
2. Embrace your feelings.
3. The next time you engage in a situation that is not pleasing to you, do not react immediately. Take your time and have an internal dialogue.
4. Watch your behaviour closely when a feeling arises, and instead of reacting try to respond.
5. Tell yourself the hard truth when you know you have displayed an unpleasant behaviour and make things right.
6. Ask others to evaluate you,
7. Be very open-minded and accept people for who they are not who you think they are.
8. Master the art of empathy.
9. Learn from mistakes and constructive criticism.
This came in at the right time. Thank you sincerely Winnie ❤.
Elegance of man and women are going to the only quality road forever
This is beautiful winnie,I think this should be a series on its own,it needs to be reallyaddressed.please upload the video on how you healed your childhood trauma. Thank you very much for everything.
The first step to emotional awareness is to begin to understand what kind of thoughts, emotions, and behaviors you have with regard to different situations. There are various common thoughts that go with each emotional state, understanding yours, noticing them when they come on, helps you approach a situation more rationally
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Thanks so so much❤
It's not going to be easy but I will make an effort ❤
Yes, Winnie do a video on how you healed your childhood trama.
You're always inspiring. Please do the video on healing your childhood trauma.
Thank you Winnie, to be honest I learnt something very vital today!
You are absolutely welcome Dear!!❤️❤️❤️
One of the content I am on social media for. All the way from SA, 🇿🇦
Self awareness ❤
Childhood traumad😢😢(this is a must take on process to truly in becoming a better version of yourself) please do a video on this🙏
I have mastered the power of silence and it works all the time to my advantage 🤞
Thank you ma'am for this video. I was blessed 🙌
Yes, please, do the video of how you overcame your childhood trauma.
Thank youuuu 😊
Miss winnie you are amazing I so much love you.....your speaking was very clear
It’s such a delight learning from you Winnie. I loved last week’s newsletter.
Now, let me focus on this video 🤗🤗
It’s my pleasure Darln! Thanks for being a part of our community!💖
WINNIE!!! This is exhaustive! Informative, Life-saving and SUPER MOTIVATIONAL video. God bless the efforts you are making to impact the society through your insightful videos. And YES, to drop of a video on healing from childhood trauma and the other request. Thanks again. Infact, this should be made a book. Weldone!
I love you ❤️ winnie , thank you for making me the lady i am today, you are my role model and i have learnt alot from you.
Thanks a million,😊 Winnie for this video. I was always waiting for you to release a video on this topic🎉🎉
This is so beautiful we appreciate you ma❤❤
This definitely came at the right time ❤
I am glad you found it valuable!💖
Thank you so much for this topic, great video
I love u Aunty winnie u have become my guildiance for sometime now thank u so much
Winnie please film it, and thank you for the newsletter
I will!❤ And you are absolutely welcome!❤
Thank you for the educational talk God bless you
Thank you Winnie. Looking out for the video of how you overcame your childhood traumas ❤
Thank you very much 🤝 ❤
You are absolutely welcome!
You are so blessed. Thank you sister
Winnie this is so educative,I made the right decision choosing you to be my mentor
You are a good teacher
👍🏼👍🏼❤️❤️ love everything about you ma'am ❤️
Thanks always for educating us🙌
Thank you! It’s my absolute pleasure!❤❤
Thanks Winnie for this tips,there is also a book for emotional intelligence as well to help us live elegantly to be able to react positively well
My pleasure! What’s the name of the book please?
The title of the book is emotional intelligence by Daniel Goleman
I would like to see a video on how you healed your trauma ❤
Yes, working on it already and will be up this Sunday okay.❤
❤❤❤ Thank you so much Winnie.
Thank you ma'am, this video will help a long way
My absolute pleasure!
Thank you for sharing this basic information. Would expect you to cover more deeply this topic.
Hmm. This video should be watched daily before you master the emotions. I have learnt to give people reasons. Thank you
Thanks for this ❤
It's really made my day😩
❤❤❤ thank you Winnie
@@lebonemahlake833 my pleasure!❤️❤️
Here to Learn...
I am glad you are here! I love you!❤❤
@@winniesschoolofelegance
Love you too winnie
This video is everything to me so helpful for some time now I have been emotional down thank you so much sis for this video ❤️❤️❤️
Very very helpful, I have longed for this
Thanks for sharing,Winnie!😊
My absolute pleasure always!!❤
Self control very important 💯💯💯
My sis really needs to see this
Thank you so much Winnie for this. Am learningalot. Kindly also share how you overcame your childhood traumas
Please mama, i i would likw to have your note, i am 30 now, i really have a really bad anger issue, i dont know how to control my emotions amd it ends up making me loose friends and i tend to say lots of bad words in my moments of anger, i also have the problem of loving and trusting people easily, and when i do end up divulging everything single thing about me to them and at the end it still fires back at them, it's just like i have a loosed mouth😭, i really need help and im ready to work on myself, i just need to know what to do, the steps to take
I think you should send an email
This is so helpful
Thank you ma'am.
Please do make a video of self awareness sis Winnie. I love you so much❤
Hello Winnie, thank you 🙏 😘 sooooooo very much for sharing this beautiful topic.... I would really appreciate it if you can upload the video of your childhood healing trauma...
Thank you for educating me so well ma.
Thank you for your videos.They are really helpful
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 well said.
Here to learn, happy mother's day ma'am 😘🎁
I am so so happy you are here!!💖💖💖
Thank you Winnie, thank you so much. ❤
Thank you winnie
Thank you so much for sharing this powerful message, i am interested in, dealing with the childhood drama video, am a victim of it and it disturbing me already.
Please do the video of how you got healed from your childhood trauma
Yes I will okay.❤️
Thank you soo much winne..please can you give a talk on Low-self esteem
I need that book, Inner Child Healing.
Helpful tips.
Thanks gorgeous ❤
Thanks for sharing this ma'am
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You are absolutely welcome!❤️
Kaii wisdom ❤❤
Thank you dr I love you ❣️
I'm so happy seeing this video, please is it possible to talk to you privately, I'm going through so much right now.
Please 🙏🙏
Thanks ma 💞 this is amazing ❣️
You are welcome! And thank you!!❤
Good job sis well said
I appreciate that❤
Totally 📍
Please do a video on how to react to false accusations and rumour that people throw on you
Thank you my superstar
Hi winnei , I love your channel actually my sister knows how to deal with this problem 👉my sister is too emotional that she cries suddenly whenever someone says bad about her
I really find this video helpful 🎉🎉🎉
Thank you
Thank you 💝
Thank you.
Thanks so much for sharing ma
Thanks alot Ma'am