why was I so touched you sent the 23 year old home haha. I feel like a lot of guys wouldn’t. I’m turning 21 (been watching you guys since middle school though!) in a couple of months and still feel like an absolute baby so I appreciate it
@@nofungabydunnno literally on the floor. Few years ago I met a guy on Grindr and he had good skin and was muscular and didn’t list his age and after hooking up like 3 times he told me his birthday is coming up and I asked how old and he said he was turning 36 and I was 18 and had my age on my profile -.- I’m not scarred for life or nothing but I thought that was shady bc he was DOUBLE my age and didn’t think to say nothing. Gay guys are a different breed 😂 now I only go on Grindr if someone is being gen bc you right ppl love a trans boy twink especially 🤣
23 didn't sound soooo bad to me at first but then I heard "born in the year 2000" and now I have to lie down as I confront my age and looming mortality
Thanks for announcing the live show here as well, I'm saving up podcast episodes for some travel I'm doing in may and would've been sad to have missed it!
This was really interesting as someone who’s never had a one night stand before, I loved hearing about what those convos are like when you actually meet in that situation.
Been on and off watching you both for years and I remember my young bisexual self was so attracted to Gaby and now also to Gabe. I think that just speaks volumes for attraction being so much more than the body and gender.
i don't know how recent these are but I think podcast episodes are released way after they are recorded. I mean who knows when we will get that episode :)
I tried searching the transcripts but I guess the episode is not transcribed yet because there were no results for "sauna". Which podcast episode is the one they mention with the sauna story and the bachelorette stuff?
Hey Sam! Can I buy you a ticket? this is such a wonderful community and I'd be more than happy to get one for you. The money would go to JBU anyway, so it's a win win. I'd probably just need your email!
I can't wait for the JBU Live event- I'll be buying my ticket as soon as I get home (Thank you for reminding me at the top- it took hearing it here, on JBU AND on Bad With Money for me to remember😅)! I hope it's also a blast for you guys!
I'm pretty sure he was referring to a common slur against trans people, which not everyone knows is a slur outside of the community but is sort of akin to the f word for gay men. By which I mean, it's just very very bad and no one should really ever use it unless they've got a personal connection to it, which is why it's OK for Gabe to say. Kind of like when Black folks use or reclaim the n word but def no one else should use it. You can Google it easily. But a good rule of thumb is that ppl add an "ie" sound to the end of a descriptor of someone's identity group, it's pretty likely a slur. I'm guessing, linguistically, that would be because it kind of turns it into a diminutive or pet name. Examples of it in non-offensive words where it becomes a pet name/diminutive: hubby, wifey, doggy, blankie.
Petition to bring back the handmade Just Between Us sign in the background
Pleaseee. That would probs cure my anxiety
This request is brilliant.
yes please omg this would be incredible
VOUCH
Where do i sign?!
why was I so touched you sent the 23 year old home haha. I feel like a lot of guys wouldn’t. I’m turning 21 (been watching you guys since middle school though!) in a couple of months and still feel like an absolute baby so I appreciate it
hahahaah thank you. the bar is on the floor
@@nofungabydunnno literally on the floor. Few years ago I met a guy on Grindr and he had good skin and was muscular and didn’t list his age and after hooking up like 3 times he told me his birthday is coming up and I asked how old and he said he was turning 36 and I was 18 and had my age on my profile -.- I’m not scarred for life or nothing but I thought that was shady bc he was DOUBLE my age and didn’t think to say nothing. Gay guys are a different breed 😂 now I only go on Grindr if someone is being gen bc you right ppl love a trans boy twink especially 🤣
23 didn't sound soooo bad to me at first but then I heard "born in the year 2000" and now I have to lie down as I confront my age and looming mortality
Okay, but why did Gabe going “you were born when? 2000?- You gotta get outta here!” make me laugh so hard?
The title tricked me into thinking Allison was going to share a one night stand story LOL! Should have known better
The most important question. Does Gabe still do the "hey, come here" to make a move?
It's been years but every now and then his "hey, come here" still pops into my head
It works!!
@@nofungabydunn It would for sure work on me!
I love those of us who remember
Wait could you link the reference??
I always appreciate hearing Gabe’s POV. He’s such a thoughtful person with good values
thank you!
Thanks for announcing the live show here as well, I'm saving up podcast episodes for some travel I'm doing in may and would've been sad to have missed it!
allison mouthing "you're a little man" to phantom while gabe is talking is just like me fr with my dog
Was waiting the whole video to hear about Alison’s one night stand! Give us the juicy details. Maybe she’s saving it for the live show?
OMG the condoms thing is so scary. I just can't process why they do so
This is what happens when there's no LGBT sex ed at school 🤷🏿
Absolutely not. Antibiotics twice a year is how you lose the ability to be cured with antibiotics and you also ruin them for the rest of us.
This was really interesting as someone who’s never had a one night stand before, I loved hearing about what those convos are like when you actually meet in that situation.
I support going into all dating with the “this is an experiment” mentality”
This title is click bait -A
I love this video. So informative! Now I know what to do when I want to have a one night stand -with Gabe-
I love the couch videos soooo much. Love when you guys are just gossiping/ chatting about your lives!
gabe is giving Connell vibes with da chain
COMPLIMENT
Lovely to hear that Gabe is getting his confidence back in this area.
The “our” in the title makes this clickbait
I agree and was shocked to see it - A
I LOVE CLICKBAIT
"I get a little loose"... My mind IMMEDIATELY flashes to Loosey LaDuca's Let Loose hahahahaha
oh, that's a good one. my mind went to middleditch and schwartz wedding improv scene where middleditch yells, "I'M LOOSE"
ROCK ON gabe. And ROCK ON Alison I love you both so much can't pick a fave xxxxx
im so obsessed with your guys' outfits in the video
"The Cost of Doing Business" should be the title of a sex ed curriculum for middle schoolers.
lol at allison thinking 11:30 is late and then it was actually 1AM
sugar and phantom look like the best dogs to nap on the couch with 🥺
Damn Gabe, hitting those sexy low notes
I 100% support Gabe's idea of doing things for the story! You just have to think about it like, it's for YOUR story though. It's for the plot!
Been on and off watching you both for years and I remember my young bisexual self was so attracted to Gaby and now also to Gabe. I think that just speaks volumes for attraction being so much more than the body and gender.
Big respect for the 23 thing but this is how I find out im too young for Gabe as a 2000s baby 😔
God damn, Phantom is so adorable! He looks so much like my dog.
Your puppy is just too sweet.
Also laughing because I am 23 but WAS BORN IN 1999 so it hits different than 2000 😌😂
i don't know how recent these are but I think podcast episodes are released way after they are recorded. I mean who knows when we will get that episode :)
the no condom part, my god, it really is the wild west of stds ☠️☠️
Find someone who looks at you the way Phantom looks at Allison.
cannot wait 2 celebrate w u guys on 4/20 this is a dream come true 4 me
Omg it is absolutely insane the amount of people who are willing to not use condoms when they’re about to have sex with a stranger!!
I tried searching the transcripts but I guess the episode is not transcribed yet because there were no results for "sauna". Which podcast episode is the one they mention with the sauna story and the bachelorette stuff?
You both are awesome!
So sad I can't afford to do the live but love y'all!!! Thanks for being awesome
Hey Sam! Can I buy you a ticket? this is such a wonderful community and I'd be more than happy to get one for you. The money would go to JBU anyway, so it's a win win. I'd probably just need your email!
@Sam-xr9lo
Oof, yeah, Grindr can be absolutely wild. Especially if you don’t pay to upgrade. ALWAYS bring your own condoms (and lube)
The "raw is law" group on Grindr is getting out of hands!!!
This is so reassuring to me as a bi trans man who is pretty scared of dating/sleeping with cis men
Welcome to the wild ride
@@nofungabydunn omg no don't say that
Grindr will both restore your faith in humanity and crush it at the same time. So many buttholes 😂
Omg the dog is soooo cute 😭❤️❤️❤️
I feel like alliaons dogs have been playing dead for the last 3 years😅
I can't wait for the JBU Live event- I'll be buying my ticket as soon as I get home (Thank you for reminding me at the top- it took hearing it here, on JBU AND on Bad With Money for me to remember😅)! I hope it's also a blast for you guys!
I truly cannot guess what word Gabe said that they had to bleep. Can someone please fill me in?
I'm pretty sure he was referring to a common slur against trans people, which not everyone knows is a slur outside of the community but is sort of akin to the f word for gay men. By which I mean, it's just very very bad and no one should really ever use it unless they've got a personal connection to it, which is why it's OK for Gabe to say. Kind of like when Black folks use or reclaim the n word but def no one else should use it.
You can Google it easily. But a good rule of thumb is that ppl add an "ie" sound to the end of a descriptor of someone's identity group, it's pretty likely a slur. I'm guessing, linguistically, that would be because it kind of turns it into a diminutive or pet name. Examples of it in non-offensive words where it becomes a pet name/diminutive: hubby, wifey, doggy, blankie.
It looks like he said Pu$$y
I couldn't understand it either
Gabe, you are a very attractive and funny man! So of course these guys are seeing it ❤
Gabe I would love to see a mullet on you :)
Gabe's hair is looking good these days
Why is rubbing a thigh bad? You mean like... they don't know where the equipment is?
Yepp
@@monicaavenidabrasil I mean, like I enjoy a good thigh rubbing, but that's unfortunate.
You could say Gabe's not a fan of when they beat around the bush
Love from the UK!
Is the white dog okay??? Why is it so stiff?????
Allison's dogs are always extremely chilled out on video they're both totally okay! Lol
Omg hi! I love yall! Havent been this early ever!
omg I’m so early!!!! I love your adventures Gabe lol
Now I'm wondering how old Gabe is 🤔🤔 although when I was 23 I was rejected by someone on the basis of age, and they were in their late twenties
I'm 34!!
@@nofungabydunn Okay 11 years is a big gap 😅 also you look younger 🤷🏿
"our" one night stands??
Can you make Gender Nonconforming Man? Behavior of Women with He/His/Him
Now to 2026
xd
First!