SIGNS A FEMALE COWORKER LIKES YOU! (5 Subtle Signs You Need to Know!)

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  • @CoachMelannie
    @CoachMelannie  4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Thanks for watching! Question of the Day: Would you like more videos on flirting/dating and the workplace? 🤔

    • @Oranguice81
      @Oranguice81 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes! & Happy Easter Melannie!!!

    • @mattosborn9619
      @mattosborn9619 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      yes yes yes pleaaseee

    • @dennisyemianjor9036
      @dennisyemianjor9036 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes please. Im watching this video late but its really helping. I work in a Hospital and all nurses are super attractive but can't risk my job . i get compliments all the time and its quite flattering

    • @denniswhittlesey6407
      @denniswhittlesey6407 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes please.... I have a coworker that said she loves motorcycles and horses. I have both. So I said we should go for a ride. I gave her my number.

    • @walterburnsjr.2035
      @walterburnsjr.2035 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      yes

  • @robparous1753
    @robparous1753 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    You have a great speaking voice

  • @paulmesler9412
    @paulmesler9412 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Office romances can be very delicate situations with complex awkward consequences. However, wise and clear treatment of the subject, Melannie, as usual. As for me I've been working full-time at home for years, so no coworkers winking at me! lol. So any video that you produce is informative and appreciated. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and wisdom.

  • @braniofan7894
    @braniofan7894 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I think a young lady at work likes me she gave a ride home tells me personal things but I still want to throw caution to the wind...

    • @jcman-lp6lg
      @jcman-lp6lg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      damn bro, are you me we have the same situation btw its been 2 years did you ever find out?

    • @MrSorinCl
      @MrSorinCl 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jcman-lp6lg 😁😂

    • @andrewbees5705
      @andrewbees5705 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She giving you rides home? Nah bro you’re here bff

    • @jondough3339
      @jondough3339 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Caution to the wind? Try farting in the wind

  • @jimsullivan2813
    @jimsullivan2813 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Thankfully, my co-workers despise me so I don’t have to be burdened by these signs!

    • @80skid83
      @80skid83 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here

    • @lonelypigeon7562
      @lonelypigeon7562 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      this asian female worker despises me nowadays because she "used to" get almost daily gifts from a p no worker from another dept. He is hitting on her until I notified my boss and hr person about it....he has been warned BUT I think he told her I ratted on him so now SHE is mad at me and doesnt want to talk. I wait patiently til the hubby visits with a glock.....lets see how fast pno can run up to his house!

    • @bobsanderz3005
      @bobsanderz3005 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good man.

    • @organicmechanic5150
      @organicmechanic5150 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol

    • @kaibalfour2318
      @kaibalfour2318 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Lmao what did you do?🤣🤣

  • @Mike-fg9tx
    @Mike-fg9tx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Work crushes are the worst crushes to have 😒

    • @Nono123-v9z
      @Nono123-v9z 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why??

    • @heyoudodobird
      @heyoudodobird 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why??

    • @Mike-fg9tx
      @Mike-fg9tx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Because if you make a move and it’s not reciprocated, you’ve just made the workplace awkward.
      If you play it safe and don’t make a move, you’re left forever wondering what could have been.

    • @Nono123-v9z
      @Nono123-v9z 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Mike-fg9tx thnx

    • @kurtwong8222
      @kurtwong8222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Don’t crush just straight smash and pass lol😂

  • @Tray-5
    @Tray-5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is a much needed video because if you think about it, you spend more time with your co-workers than anywhere else. People tend to date people they are more familiar with but you are spot on. You have to be very careful because you can risk your job in the process

  • @Shadow12aven
    @Shadow12aven 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I find it that how a girl looks at you really tells you everything you need to know IMO. If a girl constantly looks at you, then I think there is a sign of attraction, but she won't make a major move because girls don't really do that.

  • @organicmechanic5150
    @organicmechanic5150 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I've had two opportunities with women in my work as a chef. They gave me clear signs and I knew that they wanted to be more than friends but my career was more important.

  • @Truesight333
    @Truesight333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Yes, especially how not to overstep at work,is helpful, thanks again for your wonderful input and it's really good stuff I appreciate you much, God bless you and your ministry

  • @ahmedalmeleh
    @ahmedalmeleh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I have this crush on a young lady in another department I actually went to her office just to give her a hint I liked her but one of the bosses asked me which department I worked in. She must have known there was something fishy going on!

    • @lonelypigeon7562
      @lonelypigeon7562 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      watch out man!!!! dont fish too far.....fkn women got the upper hand when they feel uneasy and guess who ends up terminated or looking for another job.............................u.

    • @MujerDivina-v9p
      @MujerDivina-v9p 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lol​@@lonelypigeon7562

  • @64_jhex
    @64_jhex ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Touchy ✅
    Notice little things ✅
    Frequently asks questions outside of work ✅
    Remembers random things about ✅
    Jesus those are a lot of passed opportunities, add the fact that one of my buddies said to me that one of the girls in my workplace confessed to him she would say "Yes" if I ask her out... Problem is idk who it is (work Buddy doesn't want to snitch lol) and a lot of girls does it

  • @rayc1692
    @rayc1692 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    A big YES and kudos for another insightful vid! Hopefully the "Quarantine" is treating you fair and things aren't TOO hectic where you are 😁

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awesome! I'll keep them coming 😀 Thanks for watching!

    • @timbayliss4153
      @timbayliss4153 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@CoachMelannie Dear Coach Melannie,
      As I have been trying to get you to talk to me, but I sense I have not been listening, and being a bit pushy, as you say, and that I have been scaring you away, or through asking stupid questions, can I ask you as you and your sister admitted to both being "naughty but nice" flirty girls, are you both Christians or God Squad, as I seemingly offended you, mentioning Hell's Angels, as a joke.
      Also, what do you think of strippergrams, are they harmless fun?
      Finally, is your white coat that I see you wear, is it leather? I shall continue to watch your videos, if you don't decide to reply to me.

    • @timbayliss4153
      @timbayliss4153 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@CoachMelannie I'll be interested in you, if you will be my leather girl. I presume your not married.

    • @timbayliss4153
      @timbayliss4153 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @karma tam My apologies if I have offended you with my comments, but I am not the only person, who has tried not to do this sin, find her attractive, because other people have tried to get her successfully to reply to them, paying her a compliment, liking her biker leather jacket.
      If you listen closely to her other videos, you will find that she as good as admits to liking guys in leather jackets, and admitting in a nice way, to being a leather girl. I am going to make this a new years resolution, not to do this sin, in future, and also with someone who is a similar person, if you know her, called Lindsey Tingles.

    • @jondough3339
      @jondough3339 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Beta male

  • @Invertmini1212
    @Invertmini1212 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dealing with this now.. Found out shes single but got out of a long relationship so time to put on the brakes and just be friends.

  • @jons7955
    @jons7955 ปีที่แล้ว

    A big YES Indeed! Thanks i had a co worker touch me on shoulder as she said hi as she walked by me. We're professionals but i think she likes me alot 😊

  • @christophervanzetta
    @christophervanzetta ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is a boundary I never crossed and never will cross. Most likely because the potential for a major fall out to happen if it doesn’t work out 🤷‍♂️
    I work to bring home a paycheck and develop skills, not to date

  • @RRD518
    @RRD518 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    YES! Any videos about properly complimenting a female coworker, while at work, without coming off too strong?

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great question! Here are some videos I've done on coworkers. th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-XEr6aVUyugIMLE8kesJ9Bh.html

  • @larrytroyer1957
    @larrytroyer1957 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes,please say more on the workplace relationshops

  • @hunterterhun3
    @hunterterhun3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hellow beautiful 😘 Hope your day is as amazing as you are!

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm so glad you liked it! Thanks for watching! 🙏

    • @darkmidnight818
      @darkmidnight818 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Down bad

  • @arkang3l80
    @arkang3l80 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Before that last time I seen her she said to me my coworker said she hadnt seen me in a while and why I hadnt come talked to her/co workers teasing me about forgetting my old coworkers/her and she asked me "so you cant give me a hug" and I gave her a hug and it felt kinda warm...I used to hug her all the time🥰🤗

  • @rogerb.4959
    @rogerb.4959 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Seeing Melanie's leather motorcycle jacket so makes me miss mine. Now I have to start shopping around for another one.

    • @samuelperkins3318
      @samuelperkins3318 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I've never had a leather jacket before. I have always wanted one but they're way too expensive for me to buy right now.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey thanks! 😀

    • @timbayliss4153
      @timbayliss4153 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@CoachMelannie Do you know, the best genuine Christians are the God Squad motorcyclists, because they go around on their bikes, spreading the Gospel, and there are more God Squad people, then Hell's Angels?
      You should do a video about the sort of toxic woman, who naughtily puts things up people's backsides, because they are lonely, and deny it, then end up doing this and other similar toxic sins. Thank you.

  • @SNOWBLOWER-dq8mu
    @SNOWBLOWER-dq8mu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Yes, Question .But what if you in a group setting she want even talk to you just looks and smiles?

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is pretty common actually! When a girl likes a guy she is often too nervous to talk to him. Especially if they work together and she doesn't want to get in trouble. It's hard to tell for sure though which is why the more signs you know the better! Here are some other videos on this that will help th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN.html

  • @roscoehurd2226
    @roscoehurd2226 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes, flirting in the workplace please!

  • @richardsullivan2749
    @richardsullivan2749 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes most definitely ❤😂

  • @Praveen-jg6jn
    @Praveen-jg6jn 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    can u pl do a video on various types of company policy in context.

  • @damage6836
    @damage6836 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Like your giggles and laughs

  • @blackdawg7361
    @blackdawg7361 ปีที่แล้ว

    Keep everything professional in the work environment!😆If ever in doubt, don't. 😊

  • @MobileMobile-ql5se
    @MobileMobile-ql5se 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She asked me my day off today

  • @waudicas
    @waudicas 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    A Corona-adapted video on this would be great, bc some workplaces has restrictions that makes it impossible to use touch, bumps, etc as well as ‘being close’.

    • @Glenn705
      @Glenn705 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +1

    • @andreccc4
      @andreccc4 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Stop being lame

    • @playlistiphone8743
      @playlistiphone8743 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      no woman that really likes you is going to let any policy get on the way

    • @levijames96
      @levijames96 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@playlistiphone8743 gigantic facts

  • @arkang3l80
    @arkang3l80 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yeah it can be awkward talking to an coworker because if it doesn't go right you have to see them sometimes the time if it doesnt go right

    • @lonelypigeon7562
      @lonelypigeon7562 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      the awkward thing is....if you both break up, then....a new coworker is hired or someone in another dept has also "eyed out" your 1/2......he will make his "moves" and try to score her.....making YOU very upset and then, you cannot concentrate on your work.

    • @arkang3l80
      @arkang3l80 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lonelypigeon7562 true

  • @klewis4377
    @klewis4377 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was amazing! Thanks!

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks for your kind words! I'm so happy you like my videos 🙏

  • @Cantaloupesandwich
    @Cantaloupesandwich ปีที่แล้ว

    Been there once didn’t work out now I’m there again hoping this one will work out

  • @tacticalgreyghost1717
    @tacticalgreyghost1717 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I been waiting for this one !!!!!

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much! I'm glad you enjoyed it 🙏

  • @abdaraziqadamabdallah8302
    @abdaraziqadamabdallah8302 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Could you please tell me more, my a manager she’s always looking at me turned away we having crush since 2022 still 🥰🥰so sweet

  • @ctes3436
    @ctes3436 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Yes more vids . I sometimes get these signs but the coworker is much younger so I don't make too much out of it . You think she is flirting?

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Great! I'll keep them coming. The more signs you know the easier it is to tell if she is interested. Here are some more videos that will help! th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN.html

  • @gamescube
    @gamescube 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes please do so. More videos on this topic

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      More to come! While I work on that here are some that are similar! 😀 th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-XEr6aVUyugIMLE8kesJ9Bh.html God bless!

  • @glenngibson4001
    @glenngibson4001 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes it would be very helpful. Thank you 😊.

  • @banderas2000
    @banderas2000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    i know it's looked as bad to get at your co workers. i know if your job is in on the line if it doesn't work out or makes it awkward. then it could suck. but the truth really is MOST ppl meet ppl in proximity. work is were u are most of the day. and crazy enough lots of ppl hook up at work because it's proximity. like highschool it was a sea of potential mates. like it's own little world. and u had more than a few ppl interested you even if u didn't pick up on it.

    • @playlistiphone8743
      @playlistiphone8743 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      how many of your neighbors on your block have you hooked up with?

    • @levijames96
      @levijames96 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This comment is prescient and I agree proxemics matter.

    • @playlistiphone8743
      @playlistiphone8743 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Levi James
      I think proximity is convenient and that's it.
      Notice he hasn't answered my question

    • @lastmanstanding7155
      @lastmanstanding7155 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@playlistiphone8743
      Not all neighborhoods are the same. In mine people don't really interact. At a job you are forced to get to know people and interact. So physical proximity isn't the only requirement. It's also the closeset proximity to getting to know someone. At jobs or at school opportunities show themselves more often. Not just for dating but friendships.
      Also your question "hooked up with?" is a bit odd. Most people arw referring to long lasting relationships. If you are talking about flings that's a completely different ball game.

  • @micheasjuarez9979
    @micheasjuarez9979 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love hearing your voice. It relaxing and soothing.

  • @RH-xs8gz
    @RH-xs8gz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your hair!

  • @gabrielf1213
    @gabrielf1213 ปีที่แล้ว

    What if she does all those things minus the touch and then she tells me that she wants to break up with her boyfriend?

  • @migui8850
    @migui8850 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yes!!! Would suggesting a group hug between four of us be considered a subtle way to break the contact barrier?

  • @mahmoudramla3490
    @mahmoudramla3490 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I don't want them all " my coworkers" , I want someone else

  • @arkang3l80
    @arkang3l80 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes! More about the work place

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      More to come! Have you seen any of these? th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-XEr6aVUyugIMLE8kesJ9Bh.html God bless 🙏

  • @AchillesRage501
    @AchillesRage501 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    at work it always better to flirt with your eyes or body language over touching never physically flirt

  • @scotthenry6786
    @scotthenry6786 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Mel,I get all these bar 1 is she hasn't put me on social media .
    But now she realizes I'm not for her But thanks for all the TIPS.

  • @jackschleich9475
    @jackschleich9475 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this video is funny considering my former coworker and friend kept calling you an office lady, probably the sister of that one we knew.

  • @glenlepeska8951
    @glenlepeska8951 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    After watching the video, I seem to still be confused as a particular woman is interested in me or not. We work at a utilities company. I work in IT on the 2nd floor and she works in customer service on the first floor. The woman who I think has a crush on me but all the things mentioned in the video she does not do. However, every time we see each other, she smiles widely. I have caught her looking at me several times now. And, every morning, she waves at me through the customer service window just smiling! About every day, she comes up to an area where a printer is, and she looks at me and smiles. She calls me by a cute name. She says "Hi Mr. Glen", we smile at each other. She doesn't say hi to any one else in my area, just me. A lot of the signs are there but I am not sure. She does ask me how my weekends are, when we do talk. I walk past her once in a while and she just smiles and looks. As I mentioned, I have caught her looking, then she will look away. Any comments on this?

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      It does sound she is interested. Have you watched these videos? th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN.html The more signs you see the better. Let me know if you have questions after watching! Best of luck!👍

  • @Mike-xt2lh
    @Mike-xt2lh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Coach Melanie I needed this 😊!

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm so glad you liked it! Thanks for watching! 🙏

    • @Mike-xt2lh
      @Mike-xt2lh 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@CoachMelannie Always !

  • @xBrandon18786x
    @xBrandon18786x 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Coach is beautiful and she helps us men out alot. She has for me, I friendship love her, she's awesome 👌 👏 👍.

  • @liamedwards752
    @liamedwards752 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have feelings for someone at work she got someone but do I tell her anyways

  • @samhrdlicka1387
    @samhrdlicka1387 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I don’t take it personally I have been teased by female adults before

  • @MEC-mn4lb
    @MEC-mn4lb 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What's the best way to approach one of my customer that I like so much?

  • @TheOgreMan
    @TheOgreMan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Here’s something that I’m wondering about. Is it possible for a female coworker to like me but at the same time doesn’t go all the way with the hints that she likes me because she is already in a relationship with someone else? This one woman is constantly showing about 50 % of the signs, but I know she is in a relationship with someone else. She’s definitely interested in me in some way shape or form, but obviously isn’t jumping at the chance to be with me. This is just kind of confusing to me

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That is a difficult situation to find yourself in! I never suggest getting involved with a woman who is in a relationship. She owes it to the man she is with to break it off before pursuing a new relationship. Also, if she is willing to flirt with other men while in a relationship with him she will be willing to flirt with other men while in a relationship with you. It's best to find someone you can really trust. Best of luck!

    • @TheOgreMan
      @TheOgreMan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@CoachMelannie I don’t feel comfortable acting on it, it’s just confusing. I’m just letting it go and run it’s course

  • @Brenelael
    @Brenelael 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Sorry but dating a coworker is never a good idea. Most relationships don't work out so you have a very good chance of turning a good working relationship into having to work with someone who hates you. Even if the relationship does work out that can bring a whole host of other issues. It's just not worth it so just don't. My best advice is keep your personal life and your work separate. This will ensure you are happy in both.

    • @Guccimane0713
      @Guccimane0713 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m almost at 5 years with my woman 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @timm8998
      @timm8998 ปีที่แล้ว

      I keep reading this but I so hard disagree. It depends on your mindset ofcourse. To me ending up with the right woman is much more important than a career. I can just go work somewhere else easily. If 2 colleagues have very strong feelings for eachother they should explore that further. Also you simply meet a lot of people through work, and you are often 'forced' to get to know them. You might not have this opportunity with other people. So, you get to know eachother first, through working together. And after that figure out you like eachother and fit well together.

    • @Brenelael
      @Brenelael ปีที่แล้ว

      @@timm8998 But here's the thing... A good career will help you get a good woman. Men should concentrate on improving themselves in all aspects of their lives and career is a huge part of that. When men focus inward women notice and will chase you. At that point all you got to do is pick and choose. Working with a mate gets in the way of that and should be avoided. It just makes things overly complicated for very little gain and possibly huge losses. Your career should always come first.

  • @benkohout5047
    @benkohout5047 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Co worker is a flirt, got my personal number hung out and she doesn’t mind rumors we’re a thing. When I asked her if she has feelings she says she does but not worth risking friendship. Mostly one sided and she has 10 guys she can reach out to. It seems when it’s convenient for her she reaches out but always has a back up. Now I am in the awkward rejected phase and regretting admitting anything. Better off keeping it quiet it seems. Still tries to hang out im thinking about cutting her off to my personal life.

  • @arkang3l80
    @arkang3l80 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes! More on the workplace

  • @carlosviquez239
    @carlosviquez239 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes Talk more about it .Thanks

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great! I'll get started!👍

  • @purvishah2588
    @purvishah2588 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do you also do videos for women as well.. like -“how to tell if a guy at work
    Likes you”?

  • @unappealingundesirable2826
    @unappealingundesirable2826 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was born in Seattle in 1973, where I grew up. Japanese-American male. There was a Thai woman who is literally 4'6" (but born in 1978, so she's an adult). I was NOT interested in her. However, there was one time she came to my desk (pre-pandemic) for a legit work-related question, BUT she was "bouncing up and down," and get this, she "did a quick 360" by pivoting on one foot! What the heck was that? Then, there was a Cambodian woman, clearly not happy in her marriage (largely because her husband drank). That husband got suddenly sick, and died in 2017 (probably related to drinking). I don't even go out of my way to look, but I noticed that, for the first time, she was wearing eye makeup! She came up to my desk, to ask a work-related question, and I noticed the eye makeup. She didn't seem to do that, when her husband was alive.

  • @david91676
    @david91676 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes
    More about work place women flirting

  • @THI5GUYY
    @THI5GUYY 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yes! Please more work place videos!

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You got it! Here are a few I've done in the past. th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-XEr6aVUyugIMLE8kesJ9Bh.html Best of luck!👍

    • @THI5GUYY
      @THI5GUYY 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you!

  • @rickkillian2378
    @rickkillian2378 ปีที่แล้ว

    A woman that I am attracted to at work on one occasion came into my personal space zone and responded to a comment I had made. I listened to what she had to say. When she was finished , she paused and must have realized that she came into my personal space. It felt kinda weird. I wasn't expecting this of her. Our faces were about 12 inches apart. Our eyes were on each others eyes. I almost thought that something else may happen. Nothing else did. She appologized for being so bold and coming so close to me. I wonder sometimes why she did that? Could she have been testing me to see what my reaction would be?

  • @yorsamore
    @yorsamore 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yesssszz, please thanks 🙏🏽

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Perfect! I'll get right on it 💪

    • @yorsamore
      @yorsamore 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Coach Melannie thanks you are awesome 👏

  • @johnnyboyyyyy
    @johnnyboyyyyy ปีที่แล้ว

    I have a coworker-friend who does most of these with me, but, she’s married…
    I didn’t know she possibly likes me until one of my male work friends noticed it and told me behind the scenes. She’s a great friend to me, but I feel kinda guilty for talking to her so much without knowing.

    • @norapper6182
      @norapper6182 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m kinda in the same boat 😅

  • @samhrdlicka1387
    @samhrdlicka1387 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What if she like touches u and teases u/flirting well she’s married and has kids maybe it means nothing but I’m like she doesn’t do it with anyone else literally

  • @usfederalgovernment
    @usfederalgovernment 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes more work related videos.

  • @dubongros3108
    @dubongros3108 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Melannie ? The elephant in the room you never mention is : yes she's flirting with me but maybe she has a boyfriend ? How do you inquire about this without being " awkward " ?

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That is tricky! One thing you can do is find her on social media. You don't have to add her if you don't want to but at least check to see if her relationship status is stated. You can also look for pictures with another man.

  • @thefella131
    @thefella131 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you do a video on how to spot if a male likes you at workplace. Thanks Mr John Dohe😅😅

  • @Feralia1987
    @Feralia1987 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well how about a coworker from another department?

  • @joshuafuqua4154
    @joshuafuqua4154 ปีที่แล้ว

    My coworker shows signs that she has feelings for me by flirting with me and staring at me every so often. When I tried to ask her to hang out with me, she agreed but then she told me that she isn’t interested in having a boyfriend right now so she'd like to just be friends instead which I have no problem with🙂. What would be some reasons as to why she may she that she isn't interested in having a boyfriend at the moment?

  • @terrelljones69
    @terrelljones69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Coach Mel.... I work in a very fast pace atmosphere. A beautiful younger woman works across the way and has a different breakroom. I've talked to her several times, but I really can't tell if she's being nice or she may be interested. I'm not big on giving my personal information out, especially at work. A guy that works with her said that her previous boyfriend was older but not as old as I am. However I'm constantly told that look 10yrs younger than I actually am. I catch her staring because I stare at her. I can't help it everyone does even other women, she's gorgeous. What do you think Coach Mel....too vague or can you help me. It's really hard to just go for it at work.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you’d like to email me I can help you with this. coachmelannie.com/contact-me/ God bless 🙏

  • @donaldbadeIII
    @donaldbadeIII 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes flirting in work places

  • @dkeith520
    @dkeith520 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Need another vid pronto, I need to know if this girl I took out to lunch(it was just two us and I treated her) actually likes me before I try to reach out again.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      These videos will be a big help with this. th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN.html

  • @raulmejia2066
    @raulmejia2066 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you . raul

  • @andrewmckinley6571
    @andrewmckinley6571 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    May we get more bloopers please 🙏

  • @noelgibson5956
    @noelgibson5956 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It's ironic how when I'm at work, I just get on with what I'm doing and don't think much about the female colleagues. I'm polite and easygoing, but otherwise just knuckle down. But the women are very flirty and chatty. I don't ask for the........ attention if that's the correct word.
    On Sunday at church where we're meant to be sociable and looking for a wife......I can't get boo out of the women there. They're often reserved and stuffy with no personality, and are evasive.
    I just wish it worked the other way.
    I also find most women who flirt are either too old for me, or too young.
    I just can't win.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That does sound very frustrating! I have some free training that I know will help you with this TONS coachmelannie.com/free-training-how-to-get-the-girl-sign-up/ Once you know these secrets everything changes!

    • @noelgibson5956
      @noelgibson5956 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@CoachMelannie
      Thank you 😊 I'll look it up!

    • @playlistiphone8743
      @playlistiphone8743 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      women inherently crave attention, especially at work.
      I bet if they didn't work with you and lived on your block, you would barely get a hello

  • @chischas10
    @chischas10 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    yes co-worker signs

  • @headlyjohnson1365
    @headlyjohnson1365 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes more workplace coments

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awesome! more to come, In the meantime, here are some more on this subject!😀 th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-XEr6aVUyugIMLE8kesJ9Bh.html God bless 🙏

  • @levireichel8786
    @levireichel8786 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Would these tips all apply for a female superior? Or would there be other things that would be important?

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you’d like to email me I can help you with this. coachmelannie.com/contact-me/ God bless 🙏

    • @Shah-of-the-Shinebox
      @Shah-of-the-Shinebox 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Don't tread those dangerous waters.

  • @MrJanimro
    @MrJanimro ปีที่แล้ว

    I touched my work partner hand accidentally when i helped her at work. I think something initiated from that. Touching is so powerful thing. Apparently it made something for her too, how she was more silent. She knew already about my feelings about her.

  • @angel-1666
    @angel-1666 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes more co-workers vids

  • @mikej779
    @mikej779 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Melanie with this one girl at work I like we went on a couple of hockey game dates and she put her head on my shoulders and we talk a lot at work and get close to each other and jokes and other hints of liking each other and a couple of weeks later I asked her out and got rejected and then found out she just likes me as a friend so I have no idea what to think now

    • @cullenatwood5149
      @cullenatwood5149 ปีที่แล้ว

      You went on hockey dates and she put her head on your shoulders but just wants to be friends? She’s such a tease. You can be friends still but I would definitely move on to someone else.

  • @kevinpople7828
    @kevinpople7828 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good video! However, you overuse the word 'however'! x

  • @jamesbelmore4705
    @jamesbelmore4705 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What do I do if my female supervisor likes me and she is married

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yikes! I would be very careful!

    • @markd8469
      @markd8469 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tell her your Gay! She'll move on

  • @darkmidnight818
    @darkmidnight818 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😔 pain she don't like me....

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Here are some other videos that will help you make sure...hopefully she does. th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN.html God bless! 😀

  • @williamsimmons4678
    @williamsimmons4678 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ive had pretty good luck if i asked to speak to them off the record 🤣🤣

  • @dejayz0166
    @dejayz0166 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is the one I want to see ..

  • @kevthedynamo
    @kevthedynamo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    But this woman is touching me and brushing up against me. If I did the same, it would be sexual harassment!

  • @mikes7446
    @mikes7446 ปีที่แล้ว

    Never add you’re coworkers to social media lol

  • @terrygoode1716
    @terrygoode1716 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Should I ask her out? If she compliments my social media pics.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's a good indication she is interested! These videos will help you to with this. th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN.html Best of luck!

    • @terrygoode1716
      @terrygoode1716 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Melanie!

  • @NoteFlakez
    @NoteFlakez 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You should because the way the world is now its were most people can see people anyways plus girls at work give more unspoken cues because of the professional setting so it would help with wr had some light on how girls may operate in work situations

  • @victorflores6335
    @victorflores6335 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yesss! Please..😘

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sounds great! I'm on it 💪

  • @TheMongolat
    @TheMongolat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was crushing on this girl I used to work with and I feel so stupid now cause she was literally doing everything you just said. Touching my arm or shoulder all the time, talking about personal things, she was the only one commenting on me getting a haircut. She was always kinda around where I was and I caught he looking over at me all the time smiling and blushing. I feel so dumb.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don't feel dumb! It's actually really hard to tell until someone teaches you. Most people aren't taught these things. If you think there might be a chance she's still interested you could always consider asking her out.

    • @bananian
      @bananian 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      On the bright side, she probably doesn't actually like you. 😂

    • @TheMongolat
      @TheMongolat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@bananian She admitted afterwards that she did, but she has moved away now. So that was a real mindf*cker 😂🤦‍♂️🤷‍♂️

  • @mariatay7329
    @mariatay7329 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes❤️

  • @agui0011
    @agui0011 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    When talking to others she is loud, but with me she whispers so softly that I have lean into her to hear her. But b4 that to get my attention she will put her hand on my shoulder and during
    the conversation she will touch my forearm or knee several times when I'm at my workstation. She intiates qll conversations and I don't touch her during them. But she has mentioned on several occasions that she has a BF already, so I just brush off her interactions as simple attempts to get attention.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is a difficult situation to find yourself in! I never suggest getting involved with a woman who is in a relationship. She owes it to the man she is with to break it off before pursuing a new relationship. Also, if she is willing to flirt with other men while in a relationship with him she will be willing to flirt with other men while in a relationship with you. It's best to find someone you can really trust. Best of luck!

  • @bamatitan1726
    @bamatitan1726 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes more coworker videos. I have a female coworker who constantly says .y name. Kind of sweet kind of annoying lol

  • @renfredcherry8935
    @renfredcherry8935 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes🍒

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great! Have you seen these videos? 😀 th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-XEr6aVUyugIMLE8kesJ9Bh.html God bless!

  • @timothymacdonald5694
    @timothymacdonald5694 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ty, for u videos Melanie. I hv a gf so, most of them I've made a checklist, & most boxes were checked even though, I am not looking for validation that this is my 1 true -love because she surely, is the one-- no one, else could eva fill my heart's desire -- I'm in love with my soul--mate! U r muchly, appreciated.

  • @hea4nothin
    @hea4nothin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    YES!

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great! I'll be sure to make more💪