My Parents Spoiled My Golden Sister So Much While Using Me as Their Scapegoat, So I Left. Now The...
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 3 ส.ค. 2024
- 00:00 1st story:
AITAH For telling my mom I won’t be the “good kid” for free anymore? (u/Rottikinns in r/AITAH)
14:45 2nd story:
My (m23) parents (m58, f63) have taken me out of the will in favour of my sister (f26). Am I wrong to be so angry about this? (u/disinheritedson in r/relationships)
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Parenting classes really need to be a mandatory thing for couples going through pregnancy
Mandatory even if they are thinking in having them.
You do realize that they can't mandate this?
Because they can go to the class and answer the questions and decide to not implement any of it
This is what happens when you don't discipline your kids. Then when your kids are parents, they will not discipline their kids
That is what has happened in this case
@shadowcollins4589 You are absolutely right. Really what we need is a culture change. There are nowhere NEAR as many of these stories in Europe as in the US, Australia, and Canada. It's a huge culture problem. I wish we could turn the US into Switzerland or Germany, but no. Our cultural melting pot does not allow for that to happen.
There are not enough mental health professionals for this. I have had three children in three different states, and every single time I was made to take a class about caring for baby. Don't shake them. Don't put them in a suitcase. It's okay that as long as they're safe. You can go outside for just a few minutes to catch your breath. As well as Basic care things like don't spank your child. But anything more.... There simply is not enough mental health professionals in the United States. For that to be a thing as much as it needs to be a thing. We don't have the infrastructure for it.
@@shadowcollins4589agree their mess is 100% generational.
terrible parents = terrible children
Parents who practise favourites getting the golden child they deserve.
Not always the case. There are parents who do their absolute best and still end up with terrible children.
@@Alissandre_Iskander or terrible parents endup having the best children and still not be reaching the standards of their horrible parents
Story 1 mom needs to suck it up and leave. Or she will stay miserable. U need to stop being the door mat.
There are kid kids of terrible parents who have consciousness that they are trapped with such awful people and can escape, like OP. They have a chance at being normal.
1st story: You should absolutely expect support from a stepparent, that's part of the deal when you marry someone who already has children. What an utterly insane concept! Wtf is wrong with people nowadays?!
Narcissism
My father died from polio when I was three years old. My mother married again when I was five years old. I remember being told that I could call him daddy or Uncle Dave which ever I wanted. I was thrilled to have a daddy like the other kids. He was the best dad and I grew to love him dearly. He walked me down the aisle on my wedding day. I am eternally grateful for having such an amazing stepfather.
00@@princessmarlena1359
they created this monster and wants op to handle it
Story 1, LET CPS HAVE HER. And good riddance
OP compared her to Varuka, but that’s putting it very mildly.😂
@@LunaP1varuka has standards 😂
@@H4V3NVaruka, as in Varuka Salt?
@@LunaP1 lol
My younger cousin was like this, completely out of control. Her parents were addicts and felt guilty about neglecting her in favor of drugs/booze so they let her act like a wild animal who could do anything and get away with it. She was a nightmare to be around. People would hide and not answer the door when they saw her coming. Somehow they convinced my mom to watch her for a while when I was 13 so they could go do something. She was probably six years old at the time. Maybe seven, I can’t remember. Mom told her not to touch the elderly cat because she was old and fragile. All she did was sleep on a cushion at that point. Everything went ok until her mother arrived. Suddenly it was “go!” time and she could do anything she wanted and get away with it because her mom was there. She got this look of devilish glee on her face and grabbed the old cat around her neck and lifted her into the air-just dangling and struggling to get free as she was being choked out by this kid mid air. She walked towards us triumphantly dangling the cat with smugness as she walked with the cat struggling in her clenched hands. I jumped up, took the cat from her and grabbed her by one arm and beat her little butt right in front of her mother. It was not hard enough to do damage, but hard enough to startle and enrage her. She screeched in outrage and shock because someone actually did something about her bad behavior. Her mother was livid and stormed out with her. I was underage as well so nothing much could be done to me legally. Not that she tried. Anyway as my cousin aged they lost control over her completely. They hated dealing with their own kid and spent a ton of time away from her doing anything else but parenting her. I noticed at family gatherings that her condition continued to deteriorate and no one seemed to care. I get it-the kid was a nightmare and no one wanted anything to do with her. But what I saw was a sad lonely neglected little girl with no upbringing in dirty clothes who had learned to feed herself whatever because no one else cared enough to try. I had just graduated high school and gotten married to my high school sweetheart. We had our first baby boy by then. I felt bad for her. I decided to go get her one day. I enforced rules by threatening to take her home when she misbehaved too much, did activities with her, fed her healthy home cooked meals, we baked together, did her homework together, I had parties for her with her friends and took them roller skating and to movie/pizza nights. I cleaned her up, did her hair, took her shopping for clothes. Basically she just stopped going home much at all for years until she graduated herself. She was with me through my foster parenting years and saw all that going on. I had started but not finished college for psychology which was due to our family dynamic being so badly unhealthy etc that I wanted training to find out why and what to do about it. It didn’t work out and I dropped out and pursued other opportunities. But with my help she signed up for financial aid and enrolled in college for the same thing and got her degree in that for the same reasons that I wanted to. She also became a foster parent and adopted a child in the system. I’m proud of what she accomplished with hard work and dedication. She’s in a much better place than the majority of our messed up family ever was because of it.
Wow that was a sad/beautiful story. Thank you for sharing.🙏🏽❤🙏🏽❤🙏🏽❤✝️✝️✝️
You saved her and she's going to pay it forward and hopefully you two will be the one to break the family curse ❤
You have a great heart! You did something others didn't - you stepped up and took the risk to care! Kudos to you and best wishes!!
@@mirrorflame1988 thanks, I’ve raised a couple kids that aren’t mine. I was raised in an extremely abusive environment and I know what it’s like to be that kid so it’s kind of a soft spot for me. Kids are innocent and unable to help themselves, they need protection. So I’ve done what I can when the opportunity presented itself.
@@Queenofthatank thanks, I’ve raised a couple kids that aren’t mine. I was raised in an extremely abusive environment and I know what it’s like to be that kid so it’s kind of a soft spot for me. Kids are innocent and unable to help themselves, they need protection. So I’ve done what I can when the opportunity presented itself. She’s definitely stepped up and helped others so she’s a great person. Her adopted son is now away at college so I think his life is better because of her.
I love when spoiled children threaten to call CPS. Go right ahead, lets see what kind of life you have in the system WITHOUT my money buying you things. That wont last long.
I've heard the 2nd story before. It's really sad that parents do things like this to their kids. OP is a good man and when his parents eventually do die, their precious, perfect daughter will blow any inheritance she gets. She's still broke for a reason. At least her son, the nephew OP is helping, has a bright future ahead of him. I have no doubt that OP and his new family can acquire wealth greater than any inheritance his 'parents' could ever leave behind. Continue crushing it OP, there are lots of us out there rooting for you.
OP 1 needs to realize she is not responsible for her mother or her sister. As much as she may care for her family, she has been roped into taking on responsibility that isn't hers and it is unhealthy for her.
Let CPS take her. She'll love the foster care system!
#2: Leave their will on the kitchen table and walk out while blocking their numbers.
"I really appreciate knowing that I mean so little to you in comparison to my sister. Don't contact me going forward."
😂😂😂 parents decided to not have any more children, but dad didn’t get a vasectomy to support that choice. Dad resents and is angry at the son they chose to bring into this world for being born and claims that he “could not connect with his kid because he had to work”. He may not be aware of the millions of parents who have to work incredible hours and still have no problem connecting with their children… because they actually love their children. Mom is just as bad, if not worse. Only loving her first daughter.
They blame the OP for being independent because they forced him to be. 😂😂😂 they hold OP to the expectation of being a lawyer but apparently have zero expectations about his sister which is a screw up.
These parents are just awful human beings.
Tell CPS to come get her...# fostercare! She doesn't realize she will be going to fostercare..or juvy!
This is why I’m glad I was raised by a parent who punished me instead of spoiling me
Same
Same
Fuck'n eh
I got the middle ground: I got some things I wanted but I was punished if I stepped out of line
The only time my dad ever parented me was to punish me. He'd just lock himself away for the rest of time.
Punishment and discipline is imperative, as is showing your kid that you care about them.
They raised a monster and crying now it going on a rampage.
that sister, me personaly my anger issues could never.
I come from an abusive home. Put up nanny cams w/o telling them.
Story 2: get yourself legally emancipated, with a public announcement to the extended family.
S2 Ah the emotional support animal of a troubled golden child. Parents keep them that way on purpose. My mother chased my sister down no matter where she moved. My sister had run away at sixteen, she finally got married and moved to a whole other continent since another country didn't work. I'm so glad I was hated and didn't have my crazy pants mother stalking me
1 grand as an allowance is crazy
When enabling your daughter goes wrong. 😮
Story 1: You reap what you sow. OP has no obligation to help them.
Story 2: If I were OP, I’d contest the will, sue the estate and sue the sister. Even though I know it isn’t about the money, it’s about the principle of things. Also a good way to spite all of them. Heck, it would be funny just to bankrupt the estate so she wouldn’t have anything left.
As for story 1, Given all the ?#*$ the mother, stepfather, and half-sister put OP through, I predict that, OP will move to another city, farther away from those bozos, stay with/marry a guy who controls her, and abuses her (emotionally/mentally, verbally, and physically, to the point of putting her in the hospital), traps her, and threatens to either, un-alive her, call animal control to have her cats put to sleep, or worse, BOTH, if she divorces him, next, with the help of DV (domestic violence) social workers, take her cats, all her belongings, including valuables, essentials, and important documents, flee to another state to create a stable and safe home environment for her kid, and keep him away from her half-sister, and stay temporarily with roommates, then, find a cheaper apartment in a safe neighborhood, plus another job, to provide for her one -parent family, rely on neighbors as her new support system, throughout her pregnancy, ask one of them to rush her to the hospital when her water breaks, plus, be in the delivery room with her; not only that, but also, to cat-sit for her. But sadly, OP will lose contact with her bio-dad, and her kid will never get to know his grandfather; all OP and her kid will have in her new state is each other. Plus, instead of keeping her mother, stepfather, and half-sister afloat, OP will need to leave them to her grandparents, and go full NO CONTACT, concentrate on getting therapy for herself, raising her kid, and being the best single mom he's so proud to have.⚠️
WAIT FOR IT.... "bipolar disorder"... Just there we go.
Story 1 - Op's parents: "We've tried nothing and we're all out of ideas".
Seriously. How pathetic are op's parents to believe it's the child's job to discipline their sibling. Op's mom should have never had kids. The stepfather is just a lazy coward. They raised a monster but op was correct earlier. The sister never had a chance. "I'd rather die than go to public school" lol okay. I guess op's sister will die.
Story 2 - Anyone want to bet op's sister will just blow through the inheritance in less than a year and go demanding op for more money? Screw these parents. They should have used protection or terminated the pregnancy if they really didn't want a surprise kid.
--- Call the police on your sister and press assault charges on her. If you are there when she attacks your mother call the police immediately and stay so that you are a witness.
--- Do not confront your parents, just do not help them by doing things. Sorry your parents didn't want another child and don't consider you their son. So don',t be.
S2: sister is a screw-up because they gave her everything with no consequences. tell them they aren't your problem anymore and to rely solely on the screw-up they raised and to not bother with you. with sister being the way she is, they'll see how badly they messed up
First story, BOOT CAMP.
is she only doing this weirdo stuff with your parents or does she do that at cheer as well? something tells me shes only doing this at home. A national cheer team would kick out any kid from the slim spots if they acted like this. second part requred therapy for your visits. Your mother and sister must go to therapy for your appearance and apear at it regular with quailfied professional. people NEVER do this and you make this type of requirement folks never do it. It allows you to walk away and also stop enabling them. What is upsetting you is the enabling.
For 1st story
OP needs to throw hands with her sister, the way I see it, if the bratty 🤬sis can swing at the mom and get away with it, then OP can swing at bratty sis and get away with it too.
First story they did parentification on her.
Story one….. I heard a professional victim
Take your mother to live with you away from them. Solves everything.
Story 1 I would sue gold digger mommy dearest and step-dad into the poor house after what they caused.
Ive heard this story before, the parents have nothing to blame but themselves for the monster their daughter became.
She married my step father out of wedlock???? How???
If you're NOT in the will at all, it's possible to contest the will in court, if you really want to. When a family really wants to cut someone out of the will, they will leave them $1 or something else super small, to make it clear they don't want them getting anything of worth, but they didn't just not include them, which makes it a lot harder to contest.,
Seriously i think people need to attend a class if they are aspiring to become parents cuz if you need a test just to drive then you most certainly need one to raise a living being that has complex emotions.
This story is so sad. The parents have turned her sister into an unbearable little monster. It's entirely the parents fault that the sister is so abusive and out of conrol. The sister is guilty of elder abuse OP coukd try getting advice about that. CPS looked for abuse to the sister by the mother. They weren't looking at abuse of the parents by the child. The parents are entirely to blame for the sister's out of control behaviour. One day she will kill them.
Story 1: The grandparents guilt-tripping OP into handling their own daughter and grandchild like OP was only created for this purpose and should be idk...Thankful? Thankful for what, having to parent their entire family as a child AND a grownup? They're just all horrible people who are using OP to get out of handling what's always been their responsibilities as parents and adults! OP doesn't owe anybody shit and should leave GP's and P's to deal with their own mess!
Story 2: So they're literally punishing their son for being born and making a life for himself while helping them and their deadbeat daughter...
Disregard what grandma said and tell your truth. Mom and stepdad have to beheld accountable for what they have let happen. Yes your mom’s mental health will take a hit but as things stand now she may get more mental problems. Let sister call CPS and if she gets taken away she can learn how good she had it. Don’t spoil here and just give her the basics and set up cameras to document everything. Don’t let mom and stepdad make you parent your sister she isn’t your child and all three should go to therapy they will only get worse if they aren’t held accountable for their actions or inaction and can’t get better if they’re not aware of their shortcomings and work to fix them
Good luck Op
Lmao that shit wouldn't fly in a black home js 👀
I think I’ve heard story 1 and there was an update I believe the sister go so bad the mom tried self harm and that opened the sisters eyes I’m pretty sure
Story 1 OPs an idiot for sticking around.
Well OP is a moron.
Story 2.
Wow…
Those parents are even worse than the ones in Story 1 in some ways.
And I don’t blame OP for just leaving. Not disappointed at all. He didn’t need to try and earn the approval of his progenitors after they’d made it clear that unconditional parental love was never in their repertoire. And it sounds like he’s happier without them.
Reddit is so black and white often, so many stories i read where op is clearly in the wrong so the comments feel justified in accusong them of anything and tearing apart any response they make. H3s a narcissist cheater and bad employee but he was never a rap ist or murderer like come on, there was so much to judge him for without stretching
I absolutely hate the constant wild changes on the video background. It gives me a headache to watch the screen. Fortunately the stories are well read so that I don't have to look at the screen.
The way this guy plays Minecraft is really irritating me for some reason
Good storys but oh my god you are atrocious to watch and play minecraft. its just so Horrific to watch. I thought the first story was bad but your skills at playing the game is worsr
It's not about that money. People are seriously missing the actual point.
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