Absolutely! Anything that catches your attention or annoys you... it exists in you already. In both the cases you need to talk to yourself only. You don't meet people, you meet yourself every single time. And the idea is to love oneself the most, once you understand this... you'll stop questioning and doubting things. Acceptance is the key as well as goal, not easy all the time. :)
@ItzGiggles🌺🥰 I believe It's more like they show you yourself and if you analyze you will truly learn more about yourself and dig deeper into yourself. I believe you only experience this with people you have genuine connection with.
Im not sure but ,if anyone else wants to discover how to get a guy to like you try t.co/MTPSR5qOxf ? Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my co-worker got great success with it.?
An example of a literal dark side is wearing black vixen lingerie while wearing a summer dress on top. Dita Von Teese recommends wearing lingerie that is out of character or is the mirror of your style.
I have ALWAYS been aware of what I call my “other side” and have embraced it. I attribute this reason to why I’ve always stood out from other woman. I love having an edgy darkness that makes me feel rogue and is also what makes up part of my personality. Been doing my own thing and against what people expect, because I’m both book and street smart. Crazy sexy and cool, never afraid to put people in their place when they step out of line cause it’s respect above all else! 😎👌🏻💯
Im gay but I come from a conservative family so I was always taught to keep it hidden. Im masculine (mostly) but there is a feminine side to my personality also. After getting familiar with the Robert Greene book series, LOHN taught me to embrace my shadow side, which for me is at times defying social conventions. Guess What? When I tap into this side of my personality, I literally f🖕🏾cking magnetic! People follow me around subconsciously, they don’t realize it but I sure do, I’ve learned to flick on/off my shadow side like a light switch and now I’m able to manipulate my environment and the people in it at will. It’s a inner strength that not many people can’t tap into, but embracing the aspects of myself that I cannot change is a very unique form of POWER. I’m more attractive now and I’m more successful at dating because I upfront and honest with myself first and foremost! RG helped me to acknowledge it, and Alex taught me how to hone it 👍🏽
You truly have the God given gift of insight and self awareness. You have an understanding of human nature beyond your years. Thank you for sharing your gift in a positive way and not using it to manipulate and control but instead educate and enlighten. You are a blessing. Thank you. Keep on sowing your gift.
Excellent content thank you And this is why we end up falling deeply in love with men that destroy us They have that shadow out of the closet. And that shadow resembles ours although we keep it closeted Once we embrace it and let it out in the light, we don’t need another person to complet us and we are protected by our own shadow side
I really love The Weeknd’s music and how dark it can get. In my opinion, I would think The Weeknd displays his shadow side through his music. You fine af by the way you are looking all cleaned up. ;)
As a scorpio, my shadow is a energy that will shred a guys chest open. I have to be very very careful with letting it out cuz people fear me after it comes out. It's like the HULK situation.
I'm extremely vindictive. If I see someone trying to play games with me I'll let them think that they've won. I'll do my research, wait until the right time, and then come guns ablazing with an army ready for world War 3😂 I'm a Cancer.
I'm also a Scorpio. I'm the same as @BluePillowLDN. If someone makes a fool of me I am determined to make them pay. I'll carefully devise a plan and then lie in wait for the perfect moment to detonate
The guy said ok I’m fine with that after I texted him there’s a lot of guy’s here at the gym who’s caught my interest! I’ve embraced my shadow self/ dark side!!!😎🥸💪🏻⚽️🏸
I'm going to explore this. I definitely think part of my shadow is that I like the taboo and can become obsessive/indulgent... Maybe I can learn to accept this and manage it a little better... Use it to my advantage by not hiding it...
The moments I ignored my shadow when guys did crappy things I should've lashed out. I wish I did. And now I know, next time I will and the next ones will watch my lines
I love to help people and i always try to make them believe in themselves and to understand human nature. On the other hand, i have a big as shadow side. I like to bring chaos in Situations when bored and to spice things up. I can also be cold as hell and get vindictive when disrespected.
Lmao I got hella confused and taken aback at 10:58. I was listening in the background while doing other stuff. Then suddenly I see Alex go from grubby to GQ and for the first time I was like... HAAA-AAAAY!👋🏾👋🏾😍😍😘😘 😂🤣😂🤣 Looking good. Cleaning up nice there young brother. That was funny as all get up.
As a child I hated when my mum didn’t give me undivided attention. I hated sharing my toys too. Now I resent my friends who complain to me because I’m “nice” I want them to listen to me! I wonder what that means.
I was literally thinking to myself a minute ago how I am just like Simon Cowell low-key; and that nobody likes someone like that, but in the same instance how I never spoke up before and got burnt 🙏🏼 this was a confirmation to me too just be that bih in a sense lol.
Arent you the greatest youtuber💜... At work at home and when am confused about life honey alex i watch your videos... Thank you so so much.. Icant thank you enough 😍😍😍
Lol you switched up on us halfway through the vid 🤣 you look good either way btw not gonna front some of the titles deter from watching the video but you always tend to dive into a deeper meaning and convo. Glad I watched this. I realized I've been creatively energizing my shadow for a while now. I just never knew it was my shadow I always thought it was just anger of some sort. Thanks for the vid.
Wow you look great at the end. I love this topic. I've embraced a negative comment and am free because of it. I don't care. I find the light in my shadow and it sets me free. It's powerful seeing both light and shadow without repressing the shadow side.
What's the purpose of embracing your shadow? It seems really toxic at some point. Also I really hate people because our shadows are polar opposites and nothing inside of them reflects me.
One way of Shadow or dark sides are not meant to be manipulate, not ever one do negative how a bout some mean well or let's inspirations too, positive joy if u got u got it no msn have it. , of course I have a associates that were so hurt and they grown but want to get back or revenge man no self control, fun explore shadow I like creative positive for the greater good.yeah know evil many ways this topic was funny differences ok lol ok this sounds true
My shadow was fear of abandonment. 2 Years ago I decided to face my shadow cuz I was frustrated I didn’t know u or Robert green back then it’s just true what u say.
How can I speak up to in law bullies that are passive aggressive shit talking, smiling in your face, and normalize their bullshit where it goes undetected by other family members (my man and his father). I'm to conscious to their bullshit they always aim for me cause I never speak up. Help me be free I don't want to be nice anymore they need a taste of their own medicine. Here's an example Once on a camping trip sister-in-law and mother-in-law were in the kitchen talking indirectly about me saying " Yeah, I just don't get it someone putting their selfish needs before others, what is up with that. Blah blah blah hate hate hate." It was clear they were talking about me because the day before after talking kids (niece and nephew plus my kids) to beach I came back to cabin a little irritated because it felt like a field trip and my man didn't really help much so I was the only adult in charge and when I came back I decided to smoke weed in my car. (kids where with my father in-law in the back yard being watched) My sister-in-law smokes too, fucking hypocrite but the fact that its indirect I feel like should I speak up? Idk Alex help me stop taking their shit. They hate me but I'm clearly not going no where. Help me embrace the shadow be more bold but also to a certain degree knowing me ill talk it to far lol just out of anger so I guess I need info on how to control my emotions as well. 😊😈
What if you didn't want to be unique growing up... but now just accepting yourself for whatever it that you are with no label to it like uniqueness or different... just me as I am... whatever that may be
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Hi I am trying to purchase your seminars or course but not sure what the difference is ? Also from the tow courses which one do you recommend I see first?
I wear my shadow side and then surprise people with my kindness. I come strong gangsta but don’t want the dick down in which you described . I don’t take shit off of men but it weeds out the players faster. I admit my own own agenda like why hide it like how selfish I am. I know the game is rigged. I just try to be a grown up about it.
Absolutely! Anything that catches your attention or annoys you... it exists in you already. In both the cases you need to talk to yourself only. You don't meet people, you meet yourself every single time. And the idea is to love oneself the most, once you understand this... you'll stop questioning and doubting things. Acceptance is the key as well as goal, not easy all the time. :)
Thank you for your videos ❤️
Sorry but no... When I was young I was bullied and abused. I was absolutely innocent and I didn't saw my self in those people at all
Great comment. This is a big Fact!
@ItzGiggles🌺🥰 I believe It's more like they show you yourself and if you analyze you will truly learn more about yourself and dig deeper into yourself. I believe you only experience this with people you have genuine connection with.
I’m just beginning to understand the power in being truly unapologetically me. Integration is key. Takes courage!
Im not sure but ,if anyone else wants to discover how to get a guy to like you try t.co/MTPSR5qOxf ? Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my co-worker got great success with it.?
An example of a literal dark side is wearing black vixen lingerie while wearing a summer dress on top. Dita Von Teese recommends wearing lingerie that is out of character or is the mirror of your style.
I have ALWAYS been aware of what I call my “other side” and have embraced it. I attribute this reason to why I’ve always stood out from other woman. I love having an edgy darkness that makes me feel rogue and is also what makes up part of my personality. Been doing my own thing and against what people expect, because I’m both book and street smart. Crazy sexy and cool, never afraid to put people in their place when they step out of line cause it’s respect above all else! 😎👌🏻💯
I do the same. I've always embraced it and I'm confident in it. Men love it.
Shin'nai Absolutely men sure do love it when I’m bad... 😈👿🔥
soul sistah!
Im gay but I come from a conservative family so I was always taught to keep it hidden. Im masculine (mostly) but there is a feminine side to my personality also. After getting familiar with the Robert Greene book series, LOHN taught me to embrace my shadow side, which for me is at times defying social conventions. Guess What? When I tap into this side of my personality, I literally f🖕🏾cking magnetic!
People follow me around subconsciously, they don’t realize it but I sure do, I’ve learned to flick on/off my shadow side like a light switch and now I’m able to manipulate my environment and the people in it at will. It’s a inner strength that not many people can’t tap into, but embracing the aspects of myself that I cannot change is a very unique form of POWER. I’m more attractive now and I’m more successful at dating because I upfront and honest with myself first and foremost! RG helped me to acknowledge it, and Alex taught me how to hone it 👍🏽
You truly have the God given gift of insight and self awareness. You have an understanding of human nature beyond your years. Thank you for sharing your gift in a positive way and not using it to manipulate and control but instead educate and enlighten. You are a blessing. Thank you. Keep on sowing your gift.
April Green 👍❤️
Excellent content thank you
And this is why we end up falling deeply in love with men that destroy us
They have that shadow out of the closet. And that shadow resembles ours although we keep it closeted
Once we embrace it and let it out in the light, we don’t need another person to complet us and we are protected by our own shadow side
I really love The Weeknd’s music and how dark it can get. In my opinion, I would think The Weeknd displays his shadow side through his music. You fine af by the way you are looking all cleaned up. ;)
As a scorpio, my shadow is a energy that will shred a guys chest open. I have to be very very careful with letting it out cuz people fear me after it comes out. It's like the HULK situation.
J Beats Lol k
I'm extremely vindictive. If I see someone trying to play games with me I'll let them think that they've won. I'll do my research, wait until the right time, and then come guns ablazing with an army ready for world War 3😂 I'm a Cancer.
I'm also a Scorpio. I'm the same as @BluePillowLDN. If someone makes a fool of me I am determined to make them pay. I'll carefully devise a plan and then lie in wait for the perfect moment to detonate
Did he give us his shadow self n then higher self when he switched up his shirt lol
Again, just wisdom all over the place. I come here for relationship advice and get a psychology lesson. Great time Alex, great time! Love this stuff.
The guy said ok I’m fine with that after I texted him there’s a lot of guy’s here at the gym who’s caught my interest! I’ve embraced my shadow self/ dark side!!!😎🥸💪🏻⚽️🏸
My shadow side says to tell my bf that I wish he was more mindfully attractive like Alex. 🙊
groundbreaking stufff damn. You never disappoint Alex! and you look good cleaned up like that for a change! x
That wardrobe change really grabbed my attention lol, you’re very handsome!
Today I'm going to study the shadow side. Wish I knew this in my early 20's. Good info! Thank you!
Wait a minutel when you changed you just looked like the guy I'm in love with !!! Omg
Shady Mukbang he looks very Dominican with this cut 😚😋
I'm going to explore this. I definitely think part of my shadow is that I like the taboo and can become obsessive/indulgent... Maybe I can learn to accept this and manage it a little better... Use it to my advantage by not hiding it...
omg you look so cute in that white shirt!
Yup! Being too nice is weird and boooring
“Getting a little giggly right now” lol ME ! 🤣💛
The moments I ignored my shadow when guys did crappy things I should've lashed out. I wish I did. And now I know, next time I will and the next ones will watch my lines
I watch your videos even tho i kinda already do the things u give advice on i just like hearing it 😁 got to reinforce it and stay sharp
I wish you could do a session on Cardi B. One of the reasons she is so successful is because she embraces her shadow side.
I love to help people and i always try to make them believe in themselves and to understand human nature. On the other hand, i have a big as shadow side. I like to bring chaos in Situations when bored and to spice things up. I can also be cold as hell and get vindictive when disrespected.
Best video I’ve seen from you ever! OMG
Omgawd HANDS DOWN my most favorite relationship guru almost similar to Esther Perel
thanks for existing man
I love this video, and I absolutely love the REAL background 😂 that wardrobe... And I'm loving that painting
Your a mfkn GENIUS! such a virgo🔥🔥🔥
He's talking about authenticity!
Please come to Houston, Alex! You're always spot on! Love you ❤️
Shera isnt stupid
Lmao I got hella confused and taken aback at 10:58. I was listening in the background while doing other stuff. Then suddenly I see Alex go from grubby to GQ and for the first time I was like... HAAA-AAAAY!👋🏾👋🏾😍😍😘😘 😂🤣😂🤣 Looking good. Cleaning up nice there young brother. That was funny as all get up.
Roxie Beckles - RoxStar Fitness same for me girl I was doing something else turned around and was like!!! Ouffff who is this handsome man LOLOLL!!!
😆 I was watching and wtf accidentally slipped out my mouth 😆 he switched it up like Clark Kent
As a child I hated when my mum didn’t give me undivided attention. I hated sharing my toys too. Now I resent my friends who complain to me because I’m “nice” I want them to listen to me! I wonder what that means.
How do I integrate someone who is a caretaker and the shadow of someone who is heartless? 😂
Caretake your loved ones who are reciprocal, punish those who abuse that with extreme prejudice. (within reason)
Atio Chryst God I love this 😳 u may just be my hero
Don't work with kids
Wow. You clean up well in this video and I don't know why this video really resonated with me but it did. Keep the great videos coming!
I was literally thinking to myself a minute ago how I am just like Simon Cowell low-key; and that nobody likes someone like that, but in the same instance how I never spoke up before and got burnt 🙏🏼 this was a confirmation to me too just be that bih in a sense lol.
DAYUUUUUUUM! WASN'T EXPECTING YOUR CLEAN LOOK. VERY NIIIICE👏👏👏👏
This is the best explanation abaut shadow.
Arent you the greatest youtuber💜... At work at home and when am confused about life honey alex i watch your videos... Thank you so so much.. Icant thank you enough 😍😍😍
We need a top 10 books 🙋♀️🙋♀️
Lol you switched up on us halfway through the vid 🤣 you look good either way btw not gonna front some of the titles deter from watching the video but you always tend to dive into a deeper meaning and convo. Glad I watched this. I realized I've been creatively energizing my shadow for a while now. I just never knew it was my shadow I always thought it was just anger of some sort. Thanks for the vid.
I love your woman voice it kills me every time 😂😂😭
Zactly!!!! I ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Wow you look great at the end. I love this topic. I've embraced a negative comment and am free because of it. I don't care. I find the light in my shadow and it sets me free. It's powerful seeing both light and shadow without repressing the shadow side.
I LOVE your channel! 😊😀
Ur new look is enchanting
Thank you for your service and making this world better by helping people be their best selves. Especially us ladies. ;)
You deadass giving better advice to women than to us men, I take more advice from the women’s channel than the dude’s
My God,what happened? 28 going on 15?!
Has anyone ever told you you look like the actor Larenz Tate 😍
What's the purpose of embracing your shadow? It seems really toxic at some point. Also I really hate people because our shadows are polar opposites and nothing inside of them reflects me.
ATTRACTIVEEE ! WOAH. Didn't even recognize you model man !
I'm confused yo. How do I integrate my shadow & stand out in a positive way? I think I already stand out but ended up getting more haters. Lol
Woahh 10:58 looking like Bruno mars 😍
Why would you use gang bang as example? It is true all women should find a healthy way to keep their jealousy(emotions) in check.
the badass in us-yah, I have them-very jealous and a tease
One way of Shadow or dark sides are not meant to be manipulate, not ever one do negative how a bout some mean well or let's inspirations too, positive joy if u got u got it no msn have it. , of course I have a associates that were so hurt and they grown but want to get back or revenge man no self control, fun explore shadow I like creative positive for the greater good.yeah know evil many ways this topic was funny differences ok lol ok this sounds true
everytime i listen to him..im like..he is my shadow side...
My shadow was fear of abandonment. 2 Years ago I decided to face my shadow cuz I was frustrated I didn’t know u or Robert green back then it’s just true what u say.
The book of human nature 🙃
I think you're onto something...
This info is great I want to embrace my shadow side through rapping once again.
Spitting so much knowledge!
That's so interessting, Alex. You are totally right.
How can I speak up to in law bullies that are passive aggressive shit talking, smiling in your face, and normalize their bullshit where it goes undetected by other family members (my man and his father). I'm to conscious to their bullshit they always aim for me cause I never speak up. Help me be free I don't want to be nice anymore they need a taste of their own medicine. Here's an example Once on a camping trip sister-in-law and mother-in-law were in the kitchen talking indirectly about me saying " Yeah, I just don't get it someone putting their selfish needs before others, what is up with that. Blah blah blah hate hate hate." It was clear they were talking about me because the day before after talking kids (niece and nephew plus my kids) to beach I came back to cabin a little irritated because it felt like a field trip and my man didn't really help much so I was the only adult in charge and when I came back I decided to smoke weed in my car. (kids where with my father in-law in the back yard being watched) My sister-in-law smokes too, fucking hypocrite but the fact that its indirect I feel like should I speak up? Idk Alex help me stop taking their shit. They hate me but I'm clearly not going no where. Help me embrace the shadow be more bold but also to a certain degree knowing me ill talk it to far lol just out of anger so I guess I need info on how to control my emotions as well. 😊😈
Looking very nice & polished🍭🌺
How did you know I've been watching videos on Carl Jung?
May you make a video of why men like strippers and how the average women can learn from them?
The way your eyes keep rolling back with excitement is entertaining lolol x
This is a great video Alex - thank you 😘😘
What if you didn't want to be unique growing up... but now just accepting yourself for whatever it that you are with no label to it like uniqueness or different... just me as I am... whatever that may be
Alex, I love this clean-cut look on you…….very handsome. ( I this is an old video I’ve never seen ) I meet the new you never saw the “older you”.
Only my shadow side preferes you shaved! Unshaved is way cuter. Besides that: Intelligent video!!
You are real good man! And you are right about those fantasies 😉
Wow ! Blow mind ! Cool stuff you say, dude
I thought that was XXX tentacion for a second wtheck.
I’m inner shadows yooo! I’m so clumsy and dorky.Sometimes it’s came out naturally when the right man. Dayumm! Literally I laugh like a pig.
Chowwww u look amazing, and professional just hide the closet lmao
Very nice concept I like it
What book are you reading from? Is it Robert Greene?
Creative energy 👌🏾.
My shadow side is mean possesive and jealous ! Thats why i supress it
14:57 You're hilarious!😂🤣🤣
And you look fine in this video. Nice and cleaned up!💇♂️
I like you and Shera7😍
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Mindful Attraction 2.0 te ves muy lindo
Hey can you do an expose on Lucy Shahjaran?
Where is your art from?
Omg the switch up! 😩🥰😍our coach looks sooo handsome!
Hi I am trying to purchase your seminars or course but not sure what the difference is ? Also from the tow courses which one do you recommend I see first?
I hate fboys and players so now what am i supposed to do Alex .... 🙄😅
Your teeth 🦷 are fixed ...yay !
The fit change took me out🤣
You're so dope, everything you say is real. thank you
Ur amazing hunnie love ur videos very much God bless u
The gang bang example had me ded 🤦🏽♀️
I used to hate greedy and selfish people.... and guess what I've become??? Yep greedy and selfish!!!!
My goodness it's as you are talking about me❤️
SUPER INTERESTING could you make this course online?
Short Hair is good😊with dreads you seemed relaxed and Kind. Now you are looking more could and distant
Lmbo! Di*k down lol 😂 😝 Hahahaha
I wear my shadow side and then surprise people with my kindness. I come strong gangsta but don’t want the dick down in which you described . I don’t take shit off of men but it weeds out the players faster. I admit my own own agenda like why hide it like how selfish I am. I know the game is rigged. I just try to be a grown up about it.
WTF is this Hoodoo/Voodoo that occurred at 11:01?! I’m shook! 😭😭😭😂
😂😂😂Tht 10:58 mark👌🏾...👀👏🏾!