Brother I recommend you advise those who have watched/listened to your discussion with this sister to fear Allah when it comes to making Takfir, slandering, and backbiting.
Actually she has a point. Just like Islam is not a "theocracy" nor is it a "patriarchy". Allah سبحانه وتعالى said, يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا لَا يَحِلُّ لَكُمْ أَن تَرِثُوا النِّسَاءَ كَرْهًا ۖ O you who believe! You are forbidden to inherit women against their will; and you should not treat them with harshness... [An-Nisaa' 4:19] 1) Chapter: Love of Women It was narrated that Anas رضي الله عنه said: "The Messenger of Allah صلى الله عليه وسلم said: حُبِّبَ إِلَىَّ مِنَ الدُّنْيَا النِّسَاءُ وَالطِّيبُ وَجُعِلَ قُرَّةُ عَيْنِي فِي الصَّلاَةِ 'In this world, women and perfume have been made dear to me, and my comfort has been provided in prayer.'" [Sunan an-Nasa'i » The Book of the Kind Treatment of Women - كتاب عشرة النساء » Hadith 3939 » Classed as Saheeh by Al-Albaani رحمه الله in Saheeh Al-Jami' 3124] (81) Chapter: The exhortation of taking care of the women Narrated Abu Hurairah رضي الله عنه: The Prophet ﷺ said: "Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should not hurt (trouble) his neighbor. And I advise you to take care of the women, for they are created from a rib and the most crooked portion of the rib is its upper part; if you try to straighten it, it will break, and if you leave it, it will remain crooked, so I urge you to take care of the women." [Sahih al-Bukhari » Wedlock, Marriage (Nikaah) - كتاب النكاح » Hadith 5185, 5186] The only way to treat women is with gentleness. If you try to straighten her, she will break. But if you leave her be, she will remain crooked and thus the only way is kind treatment. 39) Chapter: Good character, generosity, and miserliness Narrated Anas رضي الله عنه: I served the Prophet ﷺ for ten years, and he never said to me: "Uff" (a minor harsh word denoting impatience) and never blamed me by saying: "Why did you do so or why didn't you do so?" [Sahih al-Bukhari » Good Manners and Form (Al-Adab) - كتاب الأدب » Hadith 6038] It was narrated that Abu Hurairah رضي الله عنه said: "It was said to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ: 'Which of women is best?' He said: 'The one who makes (her husband) happy when he looks at her, obeys him when he tells her to do something, and does not disobey him with regard to herself or her wealth in a way that he dislikes.'" [Sunan An-Nasaa’i (3131); classed as Saheeh by al-Albaani رحمه الله in Saheeh an-Nasaa’i] It was narrated from 'Abdur-Rahman ibn ‘Awf رضي الله عنه that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: "If a woman does her Five (Daily Prayers), fasts her month (Ramadan), guards her chastity and obeys her husband, it will be said to her: 'Enter whichever of the gates of Paradise you want.'" [Musnad Ahmad (1/191). The editors of al-Musnad said: It is Hasan li-Ghairihi (Hasan because of corroborating evidence). It was Classed as häHasan by al-Albaani رحمه الله in Saheeh al-Targheeb (1932)]
Brooooo. You got patience ...it's par excellence.... She got so much personal and dealt so calmly...yo much love and respect peace on you bro and your family Ameen
Unfortunately I am from this type of family, let me share a bit. My mother was and still is an ambitious career woman. She prioritised her education over me and my brother when we were little. Then completely put us aside as she pursued her career. During the busiest time of her career she got pregnant and immediately raged on my father. She would do anything to get rid of the things that come on her way of career path. And she did, she took a pill and we lost our soon to be sibling. She was happier than ever. Later on my father faced bankruptcy and our family need to rely on her income to live. She made that as if now she’s the head of the family and treated my father with disrespect because he’s not the one who’s making money right now. A decade later, she’s getting old and just reached the peak of her career and I never felt like I’ve ever had a mother. Instead it feels like I have two fathers. This is how non patriarchal modern liberal system works. They’re destroying our society starting from family through messing with gender roles and their obsession with ‘equality’. It’s sickening. May Allah forgive and guide us all to his straight path.
Im not saying you’re complaining at all, you’re just telling a story but i want you to not speak ill of her regardless of her behavior in order to maximize your reward, that is what true “Sabr” means. This is just general advice since you’re going through so much so i thought i’d show you that having patience over this will be worth it trust me. May Allah multiply your reward and increase your rank🤍
Monotheism of Allah is found Judaism and The Prophet ﷺ said do not follow the Jews therefore according to her understanding we should not follow Jews in Allah's worship! 😂 Same with those who say Jews don't shave their beards and the prophet ﷺ said do not follow the Jews therefore shave your beards 😂 It's amazing how these desires and whims logic led by Satan appears
@@Diamondraw4Real this is a big problem. words have meanings. we dont need to interpret some random stuff and attach different meaning into it to support or oppose an ideology. we see this nonsense stuff on a big scale. Liberals cant even define the word "woman" as wonderfully demonstrated on dr phils show with walsh. this is just cringe
@@ummerfarooq5383 what? You can't be serious. You really think militant groups from the middle East have connections with a nerd who knows a lot about Islam and has a webcam? I mean no disrespect to Daniel but I doubt he has such a large reach to influence groups from middle East.
@@deadliftalot true. but we as muslims are still accountable for our actions and will be faced with consequences. and onto that not one muslim can claim for himself that he WILL go to paradise cause hes muslim. you have to have real iman. and allah is the only judge over that.
Every parent should educate their kids about the reality of life based on Kitab and sunnah, they would forever appreciate it,in this world and the hereafter.May Allah guide and forgive us all,Ameen
"tHiS iS yOuR cAliBrE" No this is brother Daniel getting down to YOUR calibre because logic, reasoning and decent intellectual conversation didn't work with you 😂
That was psychological damage and he knew it, which is why he was trying to console her in the end. A true savage(when he needs to be), but a wonderful Muslim, with a huge heart. May Allah bless our brother Daniel.
Look what feminism does to women. I swear i am so grateful that i live in a healthy family. So happy to have none of these "types" of people in my family.
@@thealpha1687 I have tried doing that for the past 3 years, she just starts hating me whenever I try to have a peaceful discussion with her.(she's 4 years older than me) Growing up she never was materialistic but now she spends 90 percent of her allowance on fashion stuff.
My sis became like this in grade 10. Ruined marriage, single mom, and still blames everyone for everything. I love her but I'm worried it will not end. She is nearing her 40s.
When I watched the debate, my immediate reaction was, "I feel bad for her husband". But then another thought came up: what if she's not married?! And now that it is confirmed - that she is not married - I am surprised that she is out to influence other women without having a home of her own. Seeing her adab, or lack thereof, however, I'd have been equally shocked if she was married.
@@Emsyaz Don't feel sad. They arrogantly cling to their ideologies and refuse to admit fault. Let them learn the hard way. The most we can do is make dua.
@@cool08player It's just unfortunate that by the time many of the feminists learn how messed up their ideology is, their wombs dry up and they can't have kids anymore. Maybe they can be a good 2nd or 3rd wife to someone? I'm not joking when I say that, this is pretty much the best option I can see for former feminists that have have reformed, but who can't provide kids anymore. And of course this is as long as the laws don't punish men for marrying these former insurgents.
You are so blind to how dangerous Islam is just look at what you're saying to a man who thinks women shouldn't be educated, beaten and slavery is ok. What's wrong with you. Like me you're so used to oppression that you don't see it
@memphis diplore I am cringing at the fact that these women are feminists. I am cringing at the fact that they blame Patriarchy when there is nothing wrong with Patriarchy.
Middle age childless feminist should be the last person to talk about relationships, marriage, leadership. I pray for man who's thinking of marrying that.. before marriage he watch this debate and say alhamdulillah, good bye.
Many people will think that what Daniel did by "attacking" her with the cat pictures was inappropriate, well that's just good old naseehat that saafiyah really needed. These muslimah feminist don't realize that their ideas are eating them from the inside and ignoring the whole picture of deen. Really hope other muslimah look at this as a lesson.
The part was she claimed that "Hisba" (Islamic Police) means accountant "Muhasib" was where I stopped trying to stop people from roasting her too hard.
4:40 It's funny how when she couldn't counter his argument and she knew deep inside her she was bluffing she turned and attacked Daniel as a person. So desperate of her.
Br Daniel hit the nail on the head when he asked her "are you married?". The way she quit the talk shows that she's really going though tough times getting married.
@Ceiling Fan sincerity was only on Daniel's end if you watched from after that point. The sister was the first to attack him throughtout and associated him with extremists. So no, insults were NOT mutual.
@Ceiling Fan Yet she continued to behave like a feminist void of any adab. She didn’t come to this debate in good faith to begin with. Matter fact she didn’t even come to “debate” just hurl insults and ramble incoherently and abruptly leave once she was called out as a fraud.
I love how whenever you trap her in the debate then she starts slandering you by saying "i thought i was debating a graduate" "You have some audacity! "
Thank you for making this video. I tried to watch the full 2 hour one but I couldn't bare the nonsense this feminist was spouting. Props to you for being so calm and your ability to swiftly shut her down. Icing on the cake when she up and left. May Allah reward you and protect you, Ameen.
Men shouldn't misuse patriarchy. We should never look down on women, disrespect them, overload work on them, rebuke them. Authority doesn't mean they are our slave. We are their protector. We have to protect our mother, sister and wife.
@@ErnolDawnbringerthe last time a women became P.M in India, she dragged Indian into a war, Recommended Army General to use nukes (He refused🗿) got caught breaking election law and so Declared State emergency, messed arround with Sikhs and their sacred place of worship and so got assassinated by a Sikh nationalist. That was the most unstable time in our politics of South Asian because of a narcissistic socialist women.
@@AJ-il1lm8ph7z one of the reasons is to show that they are people like her who are misguided and are misguiding others, with no no true knowledge of Islam... For example I didn't know.. So for me this debate as disappointing as it was from the sister is a sign to me to seek more knowledge in my religion so that i don't go astray inchaaAllah. May Allah give us the strength to follow his guidance and don't go stray from it.
ONE CAN SEE FROM THE DEMEANOR OF A PERSON THEIR KNOWLEDGE, WISDOM AND PRACTICAL UNDERSTANDING OF THE BASIC RULINGS IN ISLAM IN COMPARISON TO ANY OTHER IDEOLOGY
Very similar to christian misionaries when debating, rambling on and on, but when confronted with question and weakness of arguments suddenly change the topic, "i don't want to talk the topic." "Let's not talk about it"
Poor sister is so lost. I wonder how many more Muslimas are lost and confused. Men, let's help them like brother Daniel is doing. Lol I'm glad you started showing her cats and cat food because that's exactly where she's headed with that kind of misunderstanding of Deen and gender roles.
Indeed she was debating a Harvard graduate who’s knowledge exceeds secular scholarship metrics and decorative degrees, but brother Daniel seems debating a child who has not reached balagha yet. Hysteria and fear was instant when Daniel hit her with her inevitable future as a cat lady, that’s going to be the second golden age for all feminists not just Muslim ones
I was really disappointed about the sister's nonsensical argument. Leadership is already given to men, the aspiration for leader is prohibited, but men is the leader that' s already give. and stop talking about hindu.
I was eating while watching this and when she said " you couldn't answer any of my INTELLECTUAL questions " i almost spilled my food trying to control my laugh
Ibn al-Qayyim (رحمه الله) said: *"The eye is the mirror of the heart, so if the slave lowers his gaze, the heart will lower its desires and whims, and if he lets his gaze wander, the desire in his heart will be released."* (رَوضةُ المُحبينَ صَـ ١٠٩)
I don't agree with all these sisters' views, but it really breaks my heart to see her humiliated and made fun of like this. Inshallah, she will make a wonderful wife to the right husband, and Inshallah, she'll make a wonderful mother to her human children.
Lol, I thought I was debating a Havard graduate, are you even a Harvard graduate? Who doesn't love a no true scottsman fallacy. She's so full of it, the discussion was is there patriarchy in islam, she said no, if you look up the definition of patriarchy it definitely is a concept in Islam.. what does she not understand? Either she is as smart as a rock or just disingenuous to the point she is willing to make contradictions for her own benefit. Either way not worthy of having intellectual conversation with.
Just watched the full video. May Allah heal this sister - "Muslim Feminism" types are a tired and desperate bunch. Not sure if it's emotional trauma, ignorance or just arrogance at this point.
at 2:27 Feminist says "We don't compete in leadership" at 2:56 Feminist says "We should aspire to be leaders", contradicting her statement at 2:27 Whoever ends up with a feminist, all I'm saying is "good luck"
I am a fan of you from a long time dear brother Daniel, but on this one allow me not to agree with you making it personal, even if she was truly obnoxious and accusatory, we should give her the best example despite her weird attitude. Jazak Allah khairan
Sadly the nice guy attitude does not break the reality into these types of people. You have to take a very direct, almost brutally honest approach in order to get through and make them ‘feel’ the difference between right and wrong.
@@Saber23 I saw the debate bro. It is known that you as a Da'ia or caller to Allah's path, you will be offended, attacked, and unfairly hurt by people,; it's sort of a tax that you will have to pay for the goal you want to reach in the end to please Allah the Almighty by clarifying the truth and dismantling falsehood. This all what makes us different from "them".
@@sproutkraft6690 I never said that you should be lenient to the extent of becoming weak or not unfaltering. Of course the Muslim should be firm and straightforward without any selling of his/her principles and values. I am talking about a specific point of getting down to a level of personal attack that will most likely do harm than good. A strong Muslim is not just the brave one, but also the wise who knows how to calculate the wins and losses of his move.
Abu Udhaynah reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “The best of your women are loving, fertile, suitable, and comforting, if they fear Allah. The worst of your women unveil their beauty, take pride in their appearance, and they are hypocrites. None of them will enter Paradise except as rarely as you see a red-beaked crow.” Source: al-Sunan al-Kubrá 12480 Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Albani
There are some points Daniel made which were troubling . He mentioned banning women from masjid which is a sin and spoke about 'farz Kiffayah' and said there are "other solutions" to accomplish this but never said what they were.
@@AJ-il1lm8ph7z Banning from the masjid is simply saddan lilbab - to stop more corruption happening its better if women don't go. It's also better for her to pray at home, she gets more reward. And it's easier!
Subhana Rabbi al A'laa. Once debates become exchange insults it is far better for both believers to cease. I feel sorry for this sister that she has misinformed herself. May Allah guide her.
The hypocrite men and hypocrite women are of one another. They enjoin what is wrong and forbid what is right and close their hands. They have forgotten Allah , so He has forgotten them [accordingly]. Indeed, the hypocrites - it is they who are the defiantly disobedient. 9:67
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Brother I recommend you advise those who have watched/listened to your discussion with this sister to fear Allah when it comes to making Takfir, slandering, and backbiting.
Actually she has a point. Just like Islam is not a "theocracy" nor is it a "patriarchy".
Allah سبحانه وتعالى said,
يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا لَا يَحِلُّ لَكُمْ أَن تَرِثُوا النِّسَاءَ كَرْهًا ۖ
O you who believe! You are forbidden to inherit women against their will; and you should not treat them with harshness... [An-Nisaa' 4:19]
1) Chapter: Love of Women
It was narrated that Anas رضي الله عنه said: "The Messenger of Allah صلى الله عليه وسلم said:
حُبِّبَ إِلَىَّ مِنَ الدُّنْيَا النِّسَاءُ وَالطِّيبُ وَجُعِلَ قُرَّةُ عَيْنِي فِي الصَّلاَةِ
'In this world, women and perfume have been made dear to me, and my comfort has been provided in prayer.'"
[Sunan an-Nasa'i » The Book of the Kind Treatment of Women - كتاب عشرة النساء » Hadith 3939 » Classed as Saheeh by Al-Albaani رحمه الله in Saheeh Al-Jami' 3124]
(81) Chapter: The exhortation of taking care of the women
Narrated Abu Hurairah رضي الله عنه:
The Prophet ﷺ said:
"Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should not hurt (trouble) his neighbor. And I advise you to take care of the women, for they are created from a rib and the most crooked portion of the rib is its upper part; if you try to straighten it, it will break, and if you leave it, it will remain crooked, so I urge you to take care of the women."
[Sahih al-Bukhari » Wedlock, Marriage (Nikaah) - كتاب النكاح » Hadith 5185, 5186]
The only way to treat women is with gentleness. If you try to straighten her, she will break. But if you leave her be, she will remain crooked and thus the only way is kind treatment.
39) Chapter: Good character, generosity, and miserliness
Narrated Anas رضي الله عنه:
I served the Prophet ﷺ for ten years, and he never said to me:
"Uff" (a minor harsh word denoting impatience) and never blamed me by saying: "Why did you do so or why didn't you do so?"
[Sahih al-Bukhari » Good Manners and Form (Al-Adab) - كتاب الأدب » Hadith 6038]
It was narrated that Abu Hurairah رضي الله عنه said:
"It was said to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ: 'Which of women is best?' He said: 'The one who makes (her husband) happy when he looks at her, obeys him when he tells her to do something, and does not disobey him with regard to herself or her wealth in a way that he dislikes.'"
[Sunan An-Nasaa’i (3131); classed as Saheeh by al-Albaani رحمه الله in Saheeh an-Nasaa’i]
It was narrated from 'Abdur-Rahman ibn ‘Awf رضي الله عنه that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said:
"If a woman does her Five (Daily Prayers), fasts her month (Ramadan), guards her chastity and obeys her husband, it will be said to her: 'Enter whichever of the gates of Paradise you want.'"
[Musnad Ahmad (1/191). The editors of al-Musnad said: It is Hasan li-Ghairihi (Hasan because of corroborating evidence). It was Classed as häHasan by al-Albaani رحمه الله in Saheeh al-Targheeb (1932)]
This women is bound to be divorced multiple times ..
@@zaid4785 this woman is bound to get multiple divorces
Brooooo. You got patience ...it's par excellence.... She got so much personal and dealt so calmly...yo much love and respect peace on you bro and your family Ameen
"You could not answer any of my questions"
>Daniel asks 10 times what the definition of patriarchy is
>Does not give any answer.
English words are atheist in nature. There is no concept of Allah as authority in English terms and definitions.
QAWWAMA not patriachy bro lol
@@UFTV247 patriarchy is in the lit Daniel H is always imbibing. Is it supposed to impress us?
@@ummerfarooq5383 there is nothing in 2:59 which relates to this topic?
@@ummerfarooq5383 Using your logic, Brother Daniel does not need to answer her ignorant questions.
Unfortunately I am from this type of family, let me share a bit.
My mother was and still is an ambitious career woman. She prioritised her education over me and my brother when we were little. Then completely put us aside as she pursued her career. During the busiest time of her career she got pregnant and immediately raged on my father. She would do anything to get rid of the things that come on her way of career path. And she did, she took a pill and we lost our soon to be sibling. She was happier than ever.
Later on my father faced bankruptcy and our family need to rely on her income to live. She made that as if now she’s the head of the family and treated my father with disrespect because he’s not the one who’s making money right now. A decade later, she’s getting old and just reached the peak of her career and I never felt like I’ve ever had a mother. Instead it feels like I have two fathers.
This is how non patriarchal modern liberal system works. They’re destroying our society starting from family through messing with gender roles and their obsession with ‘equality’. It’s sickening. May Allah forgive and guide us all to his straight path.
"straight" path
Im not saying you’re complaining at all, you’re just telling a story but i want you to not speak ill of her regardless of her behavior in order to maximize your reward, that is what true “Sabr” means. This is just general advice since you’re going through so much so i thought i’d show you that having patience over this will be worth it trust me. May Allah multiply your reward and increase your rank🤍
@Alboo333 For someone who knows almost nothing about Muslim lifestyle, you sure have a big habit of lying.
@Alboo333 More than 90 percent of women given power will treat any man who is close to her and with disrespect and I speak with experience
I'm sorry to hear that Brother, May Allah reward you with a good wife who would make up for the missing love.
"so because they also have fasting in other religions, it means fasting is a pagan concept?" 😂😭🔥🔥🔥 ahahaha brilliant I'm crying with laughter
Monotheism of Allah is found Judaism and The Prophet ﷺ said do not follow the Jews therefore according to her understanding we should not follow Jews in Allah's worship! 😂
Same with those who say Jews don't shave their beards and the prophet ﷺ said do not follow the Jews therefore shave your beards 😂 It's amazing how these desires and whims logic led by Satan appears
@@HD13POWER depends on what someone's definition or understanding of patriarchy is
If we accept patriarchy can we also accept feminism as meaning women's rights? Which is found in Islam too?
@@Diamondraw4Real You should look at what does feminism really means before commenting.
@@Diamondraw4Real this is a big problem.
words have meanings. we dont need to interpret some random stuff and attach different meaning into it to support or oppose an ideology.
we see this nonsense stuff on a big scale. Liberals cant even define the word "woman" as wonderfully demonstrated on dr phils show with walsh. this is just cringe
That lady was very rude and didn't even implement basic debating etiquette
agree but sadly these feminists will never talk logically.
@@mirakbar9029 logic and etiquette are two different things.
@@Diamondraw4Real they lack both
And so does he
@@nervnicht9870 go cry about it
I felt bad for her until she started accusing you of having links with extremist groups. Then she deserves the humiliation she got from this.
You dont understand is qawwamah pffffff
@@ummerfarooq5383 what? You can't be serious. You really think militant groups from the middle East have connections with a nerd who knows a lot about Islam and has a webcam?
I mean no disrespect to Daniel but I doubt he has such a large reach to influence groups from middle East.
Me too. I even said make dua for her she's our sister but soon as heard that comment I took my comment back and diagnosed her as a sociopath.
@@ummerfarooq5383 so does your mom.
I just realized my name must annoy her 😂
The sister has been lied to and unfortunately she still hasn’t realized the joke is on her. Hopefully she wakes up before it’s too late
Guidance is from Allah
If she dies as a muslim she still goes to heaven so there is no such thing as too late"
@@haraka8123 indeed the guidance is from Allah, but it's upon you to follow it or to not follow it.
@@deadliftalot true. but we as muslims are still accountable for our actions and will be faced with consequences. and onto that not one muslim can claim for himself that he WILL go to paradise cause hes muslim. you have to have real iman. and allah is the only judge over that.
My Allah the arrogance you have needs to be checked
Every parent should educate their kids about the reality of life based on Kitab and sunnah, they would forever appreciate it,in this world and the hereafter.May Allah guide and forgive us all,Ameen
Daniel:
-Who’s the head of the household in Islam ?
Safeyyah:
-We shouldn’t aspire to be leaders
its like saying we shouldnt aspire to pray 5 times a day.
You misquoted her
@@jmurdock8303 sorry where did I do so?
@@ramialhamad8768
You quoted her perfectly..
@Ceiling Fan leadership about what ? We are talking about family. She is just confusing everything.
"tHiS iS yOuR cAliBrE"
No this is brother Daniel getting down to YOUR calibre because logic, reasoning and decent intellectual conversation didn't work with you 😂
I lost it when he looked up cat food 🤣🤣🤣
That was psychological damage and he knew it, which is why he was trying to console her in the end. A true savage(when he needs to be), but a wonderful Muslim, with a huge heart. May Allah bless our brother Daniel.
🙏Ameen. 😂That part was funny!. I almost dropped my food lol Alhamdulillah there is a table next to me 👍
Look what feminism does to women.
I swear i am so grateful that i live in a healthy family. So happy to have none of these "types" of people in my family.
congratz
Unfortunately my sister has turned out to be a feminist after joining med school. She wasn't like this few years back. 😕
@@oNE-ru5lu Warn her and advise her. It is a part of your duty to advise your siblings....
@@thealpha1687 I have tried doing that for the past 3 years, she just starts hating me whenever I try to have a peaceful discussion with her.(she's 4 years older than me)
Growing up she never was materialistic but now she spends 90 percent of her allowance on fashion stuff.
My sis became like this in grade 10. Ruined marriage, single mom, and still blames everyone for everything. I love her but I'm worried it will not end. She is nearing her 40s.
When I watched the debate, my immediate reaction was, "I feel bad for her husband". But then another thought came up: what if she's not married?! And now that it is confirmed - that she is not married - I am surprised that she is out to influence other women without having a home of her own. Seeing her adab, or lack thereof, however, I'd have been equally shocked if she was married.
They both display lack of adab
With all due respect please shut up
@@jmurdock8303 In that case, you belong with them.
@@salahuddinayubi4137 you are right
It really is a sad state of affairs when so many you will come across are no different than this woman. May Allah make it easy for us.
Safiyya: Let’s talk about patriarchy ,we don’t have patriarchy, patriarchy is not qawwamah
Daniel: k ,what is patriarchy?
Safiyya: it doesn’t matter
Height of stupidity😂😂😂
May Allah protect us and our families from women like this.
In sha Allah🙏🙏🙏
Ameen.
Amiiiin
Ameen
And May he guide or destroy women like this raising our kids
Shes not married or engaged. No surprise there
Feel sad for her.
Genuinely.
She needs to change her attitude.
@@Emsyaz Don't feel sad. They arrogantly cling to their ideologies and refuse to admit fault. Let them learn the hard way. The most we can do is make dua.
@@cool08player It's just unfortunate that by the time many of the feminists learn how messed up their ideology is, their wombs dry up and they can't have kids anymore.
Maybe they can be a good 2nd or 3rd wife to someone? I'm not joking when I say that, this is pretty much the best option I can see for former feminists that have have reformed, but who can't provide kids anymore.
And of course this is as long as the laws don't punish men for marrying these former insurgents.
Most of my friends hate their seniors are work, The last thing a man wants is a boss at home.
😂
I flinched so hard when she said “patriarchy”. I hear this stupid silly argument from feminists all the time.
I can only wish that you are not one.
@@juxtapositionMS this is the 3rd time I am seeing u, in the comment section trying to create problems. I suspect u r a Munafique.
You are so blind to how dangerous Islam is just look at what you're saying to a man who thinks women shouldn't be educated, beaten and slavery is ok. What's wrong with you. Like me you're so used to oppression that you don't see it
@memphis diplore I am cringing at the fact that these women are feminists. I am cringing at the fact that they blame Patriarchy when there is nothing wrong with Patriarchy.
Feminists are just a bunch of NPC's parroting few words/lines they heard from other feminists
Middle age childless feminist should be the last person to talk about relationships, marriage, leadership.
I pray for man who's thinking of marrying that.. before marriage he watch this debate and say alhamdulillah, good bye.
She will happily accept patriarchy when a burglar breaks into the house smh
THE PROBLEM IS THAT MANY OF OUR BROTHERS AND SISTERS HAVE NOT HAD THE OPPORTUNITY OF ENGAGING WITH THE SCHOLARS OF QURAN WA SUNNAH
THATS A GOOD POINT THANK YOU BROTHER.
@Abu Muhammad I DONT KNOW IT KINDA JUST HAPPENED
WHY ARE WE YELLING????
“that doesn’t make sense”
“that’s irrelevant”
sounds familiar.
Apoop 👀
Their fathers probably left them and now they are taking their frustation on others....
Many people will think that what Daniel did by "attacking" her with the cat pictures was inappropriate, well that's just good old naseehat that saafiyah really needed. These muslimah feminist don't realize that their ideas are eating them from the inside and ignoring the whole picture of deen. Really hope other muslimah look at this as a lesson.
She attached br Daniel's wife first. Kept persisting with personal attacks which led to Daniel mocking back.
2:56
Feminist: "we shouldn't aspire to be leaders"
Doesnt that destroy her feminism!? yes, w0men shouldnt aspire to be leaders, we agree.
@@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543
Aamiin.
Thanks bro, I love your name
She clearly said she detests femenism
@@deadliftalot But she is anti-patriarchy - which means feminism.
@@TolerantAcceptingModernCommuni Recently this tolerant accepting imam met with brother Khabib. Do you know that?
@@deadliftalot She believes in everything that feminists do but then says that she isn't feminist. Hypocrite!
The part was she claimed that "Hisba" (Islamic Police) means accountant "Muhasib" was where I stopped trying to stop people from roasting her too hard.
She's not an Arab i guess 😅
@@Diamondraw4Real ok so shes not even arab and shes giving us Quranic interpetations
@@Diamondraw4Real Yes but then she says Daniel doesn't know Arabic!
4:40 It's funny how when she couldn't counter his argument and she knew deep inside her she was bluffing she turned and attacked Daniel as a person. So desperate of her.
I have no idea how Daniel survived that, my braincells almost melted listening to her, may Allah guide her
Br Daniel hit the nail on the head when he asked her "are you married?". The way she quit the talk shows that she's really going though tough times getting married.
9:07 absolutely disgusting. Can't believe she actually aimed that low. Br. Daniel responds with much wisdom after.
Typical desi women's response.
@@ahamedsalim9338 *typical feminist response
@Ceiling Fan sincerity was only on Daniel's end if you watched from after that point. The sister was the first to attack him throughtout and associated him with extremists. So no, insults were NOT mutual.
@Ceiling Fan Yet she continued to behave like a feminist void of any adab. She didn’t come to this debate in good faith to begin with. Matter fact she didn’t even come to “debate” just hurl insults and ramble incoherently and abruptly leave once she was called out as a fraud.
@@ahamedsalim9338 I don’t like her but that was a nice joke
Her saying she's not married put the cherry on top
Sadly she and many sisters will never accept that they could be wrong. May Allah guide us all.
I love how whenever you trap her in the debate then she starts slandering you by saying "i thought i was debating a graduate" "You have some audacity! "
If You Fear Allah , the fear of creations will disappear
❤
Thank you for making this video. I tried to watch the full 2 hour one but I couldn't bare the nonsense this feminist was spouting. Props to you for being so calm and your ability to swiftly shut her down. Icing on the cake when she up and left. May Allah reward you and protect you, Ameen.
Men shouldn't misuse patriarchy. We should never look down on women, disrespect them, overload work on them, rebuke them. Authority doesn't mean they are our slave. We are their protector. We have to protect our mother, sister and wife.
Oh my God she just proved more so why women shouldn't be leaders... 🤦🏽♂️
World war
@@ErnolDawnbringerthe last time a women became P.M in India,
she dragged Indian into a war, Recommended Army General to use nukes (He refused🗿)
got caught breaking election law and so Declared State emergency,
messed arround with Sikhs and their sacred place of worship and so got assassinated by a Sikh nationalist.
That was the most unstable time in our politics of South Asian because of a narcissistic socialist women.
This sadly was a debate with a 12 year old.. May Allah bless you brother Daniel..
So why did Daniel debate her? How is debating a non mahram women permissible in islam? Smiling and joking?? This is completely wrong!
@@AJ-il1lm8ph7z one of the reasons is to show that they are people like her who are misguided and are misguiding others, with no no true knowledge of Islam... For example I didn't know..
So for me this debate as disappointing as it was from the sister is a sign to me to seek more knowledge in my religion so that i don't go astray inchaaAllah.
May Allah give us the strength to follow his guidance and don't go stray from it.
@@AJ-il1lm8ph7z you are a feminist
ONE CAN SEE FROM THE DEMEANOR OF A PERSON THEIR KNOWLEDGE, WISDOM AND PRACTICAL UNDERSTANDING OF THE BASIC RULINGS IN ISLAM IN COMPARISON TO ANY OTHER IDEOLOGY
9:01 Imagine if Daniel responded here with "Um Khalid can have kids that will cheer her up" That would have been KO!
Best comment. I want be your best friend
Nah that's messed up
😂😂😂😂
Very similar to christian misionaries when debating, rambling on and on, but when confronted with question and weakness of arguments suddenly change the topic, "i don't want to talk the topic." "Let's not talk about it"
She's too angry to debate with.
Last bit cracked me up😂 May Allah ease her troubles and grant her a good spouse. And may Allah shield Ummah from Western ideologies.
Dont pray like that. Anyone became spouse of feminist will get a lot of headache 😑
@@redemissariumhow do you know, good husband could be a man through whom she could move away from this madness. Real men inspire Real women
@@Boss-313 feminist are not real woman
The world's IQ dropped every time she spoke
& world's cat products skyrocketed
It was a miss match brother. She brought her emotional baggage with unjustifiable accusations
The patriarchy is the natural order, even feminists became supporters of the patriarchy and uphold patriarchal norms when the chips are down
What does that mean?
Can you elaborate?
@@Ya39oub_G it means women and feminists uphold mens patriarchal roles when it suits their needs and when society is in a state of struggle
@@theoblivionlord
Got you
They are basically looking for their own benefit in every situation in the way they see fit
Look at Ukraine war 😂
@@Ya39oub_G in times of Toughest!!, there’s no feminist
“ we shouldn’t aspire to be leaders “ 💀💀💀
She still hasn't got married😂
Poor sister is so lost. I wonder how many more Muslimas are lost and confused. Men, let's help them like brother Daniel is doing. Lol I'm glad you started showing her cats and cat food because that's exactly where she's headed with that kind of misunderstanding of Deen and gender roles.
She acted like a child through out this whole debate she was just insulting you and saying you beat you're wife etc, absolutely disgusting behaviour.
Indeed she was debating a Harvard graduate who’s knowledge exceeds secular scholarship metrics and decorative degrees, but brother Daniel seems debating a child who has not reached balagha yet.
Hysteria and fear was instant when Daniel hit her with her inevitable future as a cat lady, that’s going to be the second golden age for all feminists not just Muslim ones
What's balagha?
Also you're writing is hilarious 😂 loved it
@@LelouchTheFirst1 it’s coherence in speech
So here you are praising Daniel because he's a Harvard university graduate whilst he's opposing women from gaining basic education?
@@Shiroyashasama I though it meant maturity. In urdu we have 'baligh' which means mature
I watch this debate every day 🍿That's the most entertaining thing I've seen for months
What's the meaning of Irish hot head profile picture?
I was really disappointed about the sister's nonsensical argument. Leadership is already given to men, the aspiration for leader is prohibited, but men is the leader that'
s already give. and stop talking about hindu.
I was eating while watching this and when she said " you couldn't answer any of my INTELLECTUAL questions " i almost spilled my food trying to control my laugh
"thats the point" as if she made some profound point 😂
Ma Shaa Allah brother Danial, May ِAllah strengthen you, my beloved brother Daniel.
She memed him the whole time, but once he brought up the cats, "you showed your caliber."
Brother Daniel's humour is gold 🏆 7:40
Lol when that cat with glasses popped up 😂😂😂😂😂
Daniel’s face at 7:18, you can see the mischief on his face 🤣
He was about to unleash with those roasts.😂😂
Ibn al-Qayyim (رحمه الله) said:
*"The eye is the mirror of the heart, so if the slave lowers his gaze, the heart will lower its desires and whims, and if he lets his gaze wander, the desire in his heart will be released."*
(رَوضةُ المُحبينَ صَـ ١٠٩)
Whats sad is that even though these feminists are embaressed when reality hits, yet they are unable to accept it. The programming is too deep.
9:42 I NEVER THOUGHT I'D HEAR THOSE WORDS IN A MUSLIM DEBATE 💀💀💀
I don't agree with all these sisters' views, but it really breaks my heart to see her humiliated and made fun of like this. Inshallah, she will make a wonderful wife to the right husband, and Inshallah, she'll make a wonderful mother to her human children.
Lol
With such an argumentative, non-agreeable, accusatory, non-submissive nature, I doubt it.
May Allah protect us all from such spiteful feminist.
Lol, I thought I was debating a Havard graduate, are you even a Harvard graduate? Who doesn't love a no true scottsman fallacy. She's so full of it, the discussion was is there patriarchy in islam, she said no, if you look up the definition of patriarchy it definitely is a concept in Islam.. what does she not understand? Either she is as smart as a rock or just disingenuous to the point she is willing to make contradictions for her own benefit. Either way not worthy of having intellectual conversation with.
@@ummerfarooq5383 do you know what patriarchy is?
@@ummerfarooq5383 hasbiAllah u wa Ni3mal waqeel may Allah punish you if you dont retract that statement.
Harvard graduate vs a PowerPoint presentation 🤣
The trolling at the end was hilarious😂😂😂 She didn't like brother daniel coming to her level😂
She doesn't even know the definition of intellectual either
She really got on my nerves. I salute you for handling this so respectfully and eloquently.
"Let's be intellectual"
This is coming from the woman who used memes in a debate.
Poor Sister isn't married, i think she will understand more after she complete her half Deen after marriage
Whattttt how did I miss this patriarchy part when I watched it. I didn’t realize she was arguing against it.
You were busy fighting in the live chat
@@juxtapositionMS nope
Just watched the full video. May Allah heal this sister - "Muslim Feminism" types are a tired and desperate bunch. Not sure if it's emotional trauma, ignorance or just arrogance at this point.
The cats bit is a straight up violation bro
Everytime I remember her arguments I cringe so hard my body takes a screenshot.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
A scholar is debating with an ignorant kid. This is why I think it was not good for brother Danial to go down to her level.
She only asked
at 2:27 Feminist says "We don't compete in leadership"
at 2:56 Feminist says "We should aspire to be leaders", contradicting her statement at 2:27
Whoever ends up with a feminist, all I'm saying is "good luck"
Damn cought in 4k
Love the content brother! From toronto 🇨🇦
How peoples listen her? i cant tolerate her for 2mint !!
JazakAllahu khairan
I am a fan of you from a long time dear brother Daniel, but on this one allow me not to agree with you making it personal, even if she was truly obnoxious and accusatory, we should give her the best example despite her weird attitude. Jazak Allah khairan
Sadly the nice guy attitude does not break the reality into these types of people. You have to take a very direct, almost brutally honest approach in order to get through and make them ‘feel’ the difference between right and wrong.
@@Saber23 I saw the debate bro. It is known that you as a Da'ia or caller to Allah's path, you will be offended, attacked, and unfairly hurt by people,; it's sort of a tax that you will have to pay for the goal you want to reach in the end to please Allah the Almighty by clarifying the truth and dismantling falsehood. This all what makes us different from "them".
@@sproutkraft6690 I never said that you should be lenient to the extent of becoming weak or not unfaltering. Of course the Muslim should be firm and straightforward without any selling of his/her principles and values. I am talking about a specific point of getting down to a level of personal attack that will most likely do harm than good. A strong Muslim is not just the brave one, but also the wise who knows how to calculate the wins and losses of his move.
Long Time? How long?
Looks like you are very new here.
@@MindandFaith I agree with you bro.
Qawammah is DIFFERENT!
How so?
It's DIFFERENT!
Abu Udhaynah reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “The best of your women are loving, fertile, suitable, and comforting, if they fear Allah. The worst of your women unveil their beauty, take pride in their appearance, and they are hypocrites. None of them will enter Paradise except as rarely as you see a red-beaked crow.”
Source: al-Sunan al-Kubrá 12480
Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Albani
@@Directlite664 love u akhi
@@Directlite664 who is that wicked ustadh who brainwash women to have such mindset?
@@Directlite664 Those "Ustadh" will be held accountable in the hereafter for misguiding our sisters, inshaallah....
Mashaallah, it seems that the best of women in the modern world are so rare....
THIS SISTER IS IMMATURE, HAS NO CLUE OF BASIC PRINCIPLES OF ISLAAM
I tried to sympathize with her points so much but even the Devil's Advocate in me didn't let me to take her side cuz of her arguements🤦♂️
There are some points Daniel made which were troubling . He mentioned banning women from masjid which is a sin and spoke about 'farz Kiffayah' and said there are "other solutions" to accomplish this but never said what they were.
@@AJ-il1lm8ph7z Banning from the masjid is simply saddan lilbab - to stop more corruption happening its better if women don't go. It's also better for her to pray at home, she gets more reward. And it's easier!
After the demise of the Holy Prophet, many of the companions stopped their women to pray in the 2nd best Masjid in the world.
Umar ra didn't stop his wife even though he wanted to but he upheld prophet's allowance
@@abka5532 Can you provide evidence based on authentic hadith?
If she doesn't care about the definition of patriarch, then what is she arguing against? lol
It felt like she roasted herself😂😂😂
You couldn't answer any of my "INTELLECTUAL" Qs!! 😂😂😂
This was very fun to listen to , i don't regret these two hours
How did she graduate from a disciplinary where logic is a crucial part?
I'd love to see Jordan Peterson on this channel.
8:14 "You're gonna be in the market for cat food, this is ur future Safiyyah"
She is the most intelligent and intellectually capable Muslim feminist I've ever seen... By far...
this woman must be taught some manners
Subhana Rabbi al A'laa. Once debates become exchange insults it is far better for both believers to cease. I feel sorry for this sister that she has misinformed herself. May Allah guide her.
I feel second hand embarrassment when I hear her responses 😹
She has turned comment section off on her video
The hypocrite men and hypocrite women are of one another. They enjoin what is wrong and forbid what is right and close their hands. They have forgotten Allah , so He has forgotten them [accordingly]. Indeed, the hypocrites - it is they who are the defiantly disobedient. 9:67
lool bro busted out the cats. loool love it.
Proof is in the pudding 🍮 she will be forever alone no real man can tolerate this type of female. A moment of silence for her...
Plenty of Homer Simpsons out there.
@@dehaman_4_144 True. Just look at the comment section.
@Rewan Ehab Sour grape syndrome
@Rewan Ehab that's what they all say till they're old, alone, and miserable.
جزاك الله خيرا.