I think I speak for many when I say that videos split in parts 1 & 2 are hopefully a thing of the past for this channel. The longer, full videos are so much more enjoyable! They will never feel too long!
100% love the longer videos. Creators split them in half so they can double monetize the same content. If she needs to split them to help more people, I'll be here for it. (: Buuuut I definitely prefer the long ones!
Seriously come on you guys I've never seen a cleaner on TH-cam who cleans and all of the messages she comes across in every apartment is exactly the same same s*** strolling around same same same same same same same same same same this s*** stage this girl's stage of s*** and it's disgusting and insulting and she should be ashamed of herself she absolutely stages s*** come on if there was boys or whatever living in here the bathroom sink the bathroom sink wouldn't be filled with cans at least that would be cleared off so people can brush their teeth and s*** I can see the mess on the floor or whatever same s*** if people have like she goes into like a store garbage bins and she pulls out like I don't even know like she goes behind bars and she pulls all like cans of s*** or something this chick is disgusting I'm actually starting to get pissed I used to like your videos but I'm actually starting to get pissed watching these she's a liar this isn't real none of this is real this chick should be so ashamed of herself and actually she's not even that really a good cleaner she leaves a lot of s*** behind
Likewise! I end up watching them several times over. I also enjoy hearing the stories of the residents. I usually use them to sleep too :) love her voice. ❤
My heart broke when i heard he had been watching cleaning videos 😢 he was looking for hope and remedies 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔. Im so glad you actually helped them THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR GIVING THIS KID THE HOPE HE WAS LOOKING FOR 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
You are a saint. Not only do you do a fabulous job cleaning- you do so without judgment or condemnation- just compassion and understanding. I admire and respect you very much.
I was in an abusive relationship for 30 years. We had 3 children I raised during the chaos. I worked full time as an RN to support my children as their father never worked. During this time I was in survival mode constantly. So when I finally got free of this person my survival instinct was not needed on the level it had been. Believe it or not but it opens up a huge void. What do I do now? So it’s really easy to stop functioning and fall into a depression. Especially if you do not have support and counseling. I still fight a debilitating depression but I’m learning to live a somewhat normal life. Yet I still pick up the pieces of the old life all the time as I try to help my adult children survive their own trauma. I love watching your videos because I need motivation to clean my house. I also love learning the methods and tools you use. Thank you so much.
Clicked as soon as i saw this. This was my situation growing up. I would have given anything to be able to have my friends over, to be rid of the fleas and abuse, to walk into a nice smelling home. I was lucky to get out when I did. Now as an adult, whenever I have trouble keeping my apartment clean I watch your videos. It reminds me of where I came from and how far I have come. Thank you.
@@cintiasantana8448 it's true. Sometimes it can get a little cluttered dealing with it on my own... But never like this. Never again. I will never subject myself or any other living creature to such a thing.
I think this was a case of alcoholism, clinical depression, trauma and domestic violence. This is the result when your life becomes unmanageable. Thank you for helping her complete her her healing journey!❤️
Hi @Auri, I am a therapist and I study trauma. There are a few things that might be happening when someone who has experienced an abusive relationship stops being able to clean their home. First of all, depression happens after trauma more often that not. So, if someone is very depressed they won’t have the energy to clean. Also, if someone has experienced trauma inside the home, they may shut down when they are inside the home because the house causes fearful memories. This may also prevent someone from being able to clean, because their body goes into a fear state reexperiencing past memories. I hope this information is helpful. Thank you so much for the work you do helping people who suffer. ❤
Yes a lot of people don't recognize that and judge them but no one knows how to help them. Only God can deliver them and heal them inwardly I believe ❤
Thank you for your insight. So maybe to move physically to a new area and house can also make healing easier and quicker I suppose ( or cleaning by Auri)😊
Thank you. Someone who gets it. Iv been through a lot of trauma and suffer depression, anxiety, social anxiety, ptsd and ocd. No not the cleaning type the bad thinking type that takes all my motivation away. And I have 5 children and have had 4 miscarriages , my house isn't this bad but it once was and sometimes my house now gets bad and I just don't want to move at all. But what makes it worse is noone fully understands what its actually like. I just get judged and called lazy. And that is not what it is... I want to clean I want to declutter but mentally I really struggle. Thank you for saying this its really respectful 🙏 ❤
Because of you Auri, I visited my family and it made their home look so much easier to help them clean, so I was able to clean their bathrooms and bedrooms without feeling so gross myself. I attribute you to me being able to help without judgment and without feeling so dirty while cleaning the dirt up! Thanks for your loveliness and kindness! I am also now thinking about cleaning homes myself to help others like you!!! I love cleaning too!!! God Bless!
I love the generous "homey" touches you give people - the plants, the rugs, towels, toilet seats, tableware, placemats, etc. It's already a wonderful gift for you to clean for free, but when you go one step further and include those sweet touches, it just makes it SO WARM!! You're the best, Auri!
So well done to the mom for going into rehab and starting to get her life back. That is such a courageous thing to do. Loads and loads of love to her and her son. This cleaning is likely to make such a difference in their lives.
Abusive relationships cause the person continuous stress, and they end up having bodies with high cortisol levels/deposits. Trauma, abuse and stress cause post traumatic disorder, and depression, and those combined will make you feel absolutely powerless and exhausted, from life itself. Cooking is a chore, cleaning is a chore, washing up is a chore, even showering is difficult. This lady needs proffessional help, and therapy, to be able to cope, even with simple every day tasks. You have made such a huge difference in their life, it is a jump start in a new life. Thanks for what you are doing Auri ❤
In my own experience, after finally getting free, the hypervigilance that kept you alive turns into a deep deep deep depression. Your cortisol counts are all over the place when you're in the stress. When you leave the stress, your body reacts with downer hormones, and also ptsd. I never got to this point of not cleaning, only because I had a child to keep me functioning. I'm so sorry for those women that become addicts or hoarders. I know they hate their situation, it's as bad a the bad relationship. Bless this boy, mom and YOU, for making progress towards happiness. ✨️
Something about the cortisol comment just really annoyed me. I can't stand when people reduce complex emotional states that resulted from abuse/trauma to hormone levels in the body. Sure there might be some correlation but so say that the emotional states are a result of the hormones is so overly reductionist and conveys a deeper level of understanding than one actually has. How many hundreds of hormones/neurotransmitters could be floating through the body affecting one's moods that scientists are completely unaware of?
It’s not the cortisol that creates the problem. It’s the problem that causes the cortisol elevation. It’s a well documented and well known phenomenon that cortisol is a reaction to stress; not the cause of it. … There’s something about uneducated judgements that bothers *me.*
I so enjoy your videos. I don't care if it's in parts or a whole home. I just like seeing the home become clean and organized, and I love your joyful attitude.
One thing i would really like to see is the people's reactions to their homes after you've cleaned them. That would be so cool to see. As long as that person is okay with it, that is.
I love that you’re doing something for other people who at the moment cannot see past the chaos in their lives, and stepping and doing the things that you are doing helps them see a new beginning. It is a lot easier to fall back into that dreadful place but I hope some therapeutic support comes along to help them rebuild their lives. God bless you, you’re very brave to pull this off.
Auri, amazing job!!! Congratulations to Mom for not just listening to her son but hearing his plea and having the courage it takes to reach out for help. Mom you are a super hero!!!✌🌻😊
I do like it better when it's a a completed episode. I look forward to each cleaning and it helps me understand how it happens and how to help ourselves. The commentary is important as well. Abuse, depression , etc.
I absolutely love watching the full home cleaning videos!!! Thanks so much Auri! And I love seeing your hair like that, it suits you. Since you asked, I think that women stop taking care of themselves during and after an abusive relation because they come to believe they don't worth, or think they don't deserve dignity, they stop believe in themselves and they think they have no values in life. Different wounds of the soul has different impact on the people but they are quite strong. I don't know her entire story, but if she's dependent of alcool, she might have had the abandon wound.
@@AllyCakes12 I get it! Maybe it wouldn't keep the attention of the regular 9 year old but I do understand why he would keep watching, seeing homes like his own being cleaned for free, it must've felt so hopeful to him! :)
My 5 year old and 11 year old watch cleaning videos with me. I don't think it's that unusual. I would have been OBSESSED when I was a child if TH-cam was around back then
I think the chaos house happens after a bad relationship because of burnout. Most people can’t even recognize themselves after abuse, so they have to process that and rest now that they’re finally “safe”
Honestly, I’ll watch anything you post! Whether you put out a 10 minute video of cleaning 1 room or a 3 hour video of a whole house clean, I’ll watch it all!!
I don't know if you'll talk Mom again, but if you, tell her I think she's incredibly brave and strong. I had my own problems with painkillers, and when I finally got my back fixed and my depression managed, I had a huge mess to clean up, too. Fortunately, I had some very loving friends who helped without judging, and most of it is done now, but I can't imagine how hard it was to let a stranger see her mess. Also let her know that there's a mom in Connecticut, USA who's pulling for her and her son. I know they're going to do great with this fresh start! (And thank you for helping so many people. I still have some areas I almost wish I had a you to help with!)
Ужасно,когда дети страдают от беспечных взрослых со сложными зависимостями, но надеюсь, что хозяйка квартиры уже на пороге новой жизни и её сын будет расти не в приюте, а рядом с мамой и огромное спасибо Аури, что своей уборкой приблизила этот момент💕💕💕
Such a brave and smart little boy! A hero for sure. Helping someone who’s asked for your help is such a boost for the person receiving it. In a situation that equates needing help with weakness or a burden to others, generously given help can be life changing for the person asking. They are heard rather than judged, their needs accepted rather than dismissed. Auri, your attitude of acceptance toward those asking for help is inspiring. ❤
i also prefer the full home cleaning videos, mostly bc sometimes youtube doesn't automatically recommend the next part and my attention span isn't always long enough to look for it myself lol. wonderful work, as always, auri!
After a traumatic event people can get stuck in a freeze state, because they are unable to process the trauma and grief because of how overwhelming these events were for them. When they are in a freeze state, they can dissociate from reality, and find it really difficult or impossible to deal with day to day tasks. They may use substances to try to manage their pain and grief. In effect they are stuck in the pain from the past, and they require trauma therapy (and lots of support) to help them process their painful past, and move forward with their lives positively ❤️
Bless you for helping without judgment or ridicule. I hope the mom gets the psychological help she needs, or I’m afraid things will deteriorate back to the beginning.
Bad relationship is exhausting it takes everything away from you it took me years to realise I needed to get out I hope this mother and son will be happier thanks to auri 🙏
I love the longer videos! My only suggestion would be slightly longer before/after sequences at the end. I just love seeing the immediate change and want a slower shot across the room to see how nice it looks when it is all clean! 😄❤ Also, I missed seeing a before and after of the kitchen in this one!
My dear! You are an amazing person!! I dont understand how mother can aloud her self to raise her son in place like this!! Thank to you this kid has a second chance.... I hope she gets right medical care...
The reason you find so many women living like this after a bad relationship is because this is a truma response, building walls around you to keep people away so you are never hurt in that way again.
Absolutely spot on comparison. We build 'walls' up for protection. It took me a long time to understand this.. Now I'm struggling to clear those walls, and having a tough time of it.
@@АринаИванова-ш3йin a lot of ways mental health is like physical health: when it gets really bad, it doesn’t matter how much a person might WANT to do something, they are literally unable to. That’s what’s so great about living in a society, where we can help each other out when needed.
@@АринаИванова-ш3й she's not well. She probably feels horrible for her son and is why she's accepting help, for him. It's a sad situation but this hopefully will be a big step to healing.
Sometimes people really do need a helping hand to set them up in moving forward. I have done this recently! This is so lovely this lady doing this for free. A rare thing nowadays.
I like when you give context to the cleaning case. I enjoy the cleaning process and challenges but I like when you take your time to tell the story of it all. Thanks Auri. You are the best cleaner in the world.
Love watching your cleaning posts! I have cleaned a few friends homes over the years, they get lost. A deep clean of their surroundings really does help their mental state and it aid’s in bringing them through those dark times.
Howl's Moving Castle is also one of my favorite movies. I love the cleaning scenes with Sophie. And, I agree, sliding the dust rag along the top of the TV and watching the dust disappear into the rag is very satisfying.
You gave this incredible boy and his courageous Mom a new start. Alcohol addiction is terrible and a huge battle so congratulations to the Mom for becoming sober. I hope her Son is enjoying the newly cleaned home with his Mom. I like the watching the whole cleaning process in this format. Auri, you're the best 🫶🏼 Cheers from 🇨🇦
Whenever I feel demotivated to clean. Too tired to do anything sometimes. I watch your videos. Clean as much as I can in a day. So every 15 days I just watch the videos and deep clean.
I do like the whole house cleaning videos the best. When done in parts, I can't remember the other room(s) from previous video. So for me, I enjoy the longer ones that show the before, during and after cleaning videos 😊 👍 👌 So extremely proud of this Mom for deciding on a new path for herself and hopefully this cleaning is going to be another step in a very positive and hope-filled direction. We all need a helping hand from time to time when life gets too big, too hard to face it. Thank you, Auri for being that help for others when some pretty major cleaning needs done. You're such a sweet person 💗 💕
Auri please also hiring a handyman to go with you to these cleanings. There is always a repair needed and an additional person for your security would be helpful.
i don't think that's her priority. Having to find a handyman for the homes she cleans is like having a second job. Also, where would the tenants/homeowners find the money to pay a handyman?
I have been told that some women hoard after an abusive relationship as a form of protection. It is physically harder to get to them when you have to climb over things to find them in the chaos. Also, severe self-esteem issues can make it so you don't care for your home or surroundings, similar to how someone might stop showering after a traumatic incident. You make the life you think you deserve :(
I too love to clean up & organize messy/dirty spaces. For me, it's like creating a piece of art. It feels so good putting in the effort & then receiving instant gratification. All the better if it directly benefits someone or a community! Thanks Aurikatariina! 💖
Yes! Yes! Yes! I love the full house cleaning videos. It's about 30 to 45 minutes long. That's just perfect. Auri you don't have to talk throughout the entire video. I think it's enough to introduce yourself, briefly tell you what the problem of a dirty house is, talk about the products you use during the video and that's it. In between the voiceover you can play music. It's always cool. Love you Auri ❤❤❤
@@clairegilliesprecisely why I also love RemiClog's channel too! 💗 Her talks about mental health and her neuro-divergent family (like mine too) are so amazingly insightful! She's also in the UK, which is a refreshing change from all the other European, American and Canadian channels I watch too 🤭
Hey Auri. My girlfriend and I have been watching you for a while now and we wanted to thank you for your content. We would like more whole home cleanings. Also we would like you to post more because its always such a pleasure to watch fresh new cleanings. Stay healthy and keep up the good work. You are making a change!
I love the long videos! i struggled finding part 2's and stuff with soo many of your older videos that i never saw the finished product or story! this way i can have them on as a backround while i work and take peeks of clean satisfacction when needed untill completion and it's soo nice! thank you so much Auri :)
I really really want a bathroom & kitchen that has a drain holes & all tile walls & floors . American style houses don't believe in that. Soooo easy just to flush it away. Clean environment helps a clean mind so happy to see her & her son get help . You are an angel.
I prefer full videos, because when I get an older video of you recommended in my feed it’s difficult to find the following parts😂 I need to scroll for ages to find them, because they’re never linked in your description heheh
You don’t just help those people. you’re an inspiration for a ton of other people including myself! Thank you for your videos and you helping those who need help! These videos literally help me get up and do things i feel like I can’t do but I need too as a single mother staying with my parents and grown brother it’s tough keeping up with everything but thank you for what you do and inspiring me to keep on keeping on! ❤
AURI I was in abusive marriage and I don't know about everyone else but I felt like nothing he made me feel like I was worthless because of abusive remarks calling me the worst names I felt worthless . I became like hermit crab in closed into my shell so maybe that is big reason It was for me ,I have been divorced since 1994 ONLY GOD BROUGHT ME OUT I KNOW IM WORTH SOMETHING AND AFTER A YEAR FROM BEING AWAY FROM CHAOS GOD GAVE ME MY LIFE BACK by the way im still single and staying that way. GOD bless you AURI your 👍 great . PIKEVILLE KENTUCKY HERE ❤️ MUCH LOVE .
Yes I enjoy the full house cleaning and I LOVE long videos. You don’t have to cut most of the cleaning out. Even if you don’t speak thru most of the video. I like to watch the whole process of the cleaning. When it’s sped thru, we miss a lot of what we love. But definitely much better having the whole home in one video
Wow 👌 you did a brilliant job as always my love!!! Ive been sober myself now for 10 years (Thank God) so i can understand how this poor woman was living! I also went through some awful times in my life violent relationships etc and the drink seemed ro numb the pain and although the mom doesn't know me or i doubt she will see this message i want her to know im proud of her of everything shes achieved and i pray she continues to find the strength 💪 to fight each day to be sober and well ❤️ blessings to the mom and her son ❤ ❤️
Yeah, I’m really happy for that little boy that he can bring his friends over and he needs to be able to do that. And have a normal and a happy childhood. Those abuse days are behind him.
I was so depressed after my husband and I divorced. He was just like the man in this video. I couldn't do anything other than the bare minimum. The depression made me sooooo tired and I isolated myself. Dark dark days. But things are much better now and I now have a very kind and sweet husband ❤❤❤
Alcohol is never the answer in life. I am a foster mother of two children with alcohol-related problems. One mother died, the other is in prison. The children are disabled, even though this could have been avoided. Auri, I really appreciate you and your work. It helps strengthen the bond between mother and son. No child should live like this. Alcohol is not an individual's problem, alcohol is a society's problem. Everyone who condemns alcoholics should know this.
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You are such a blessing. I can not imagine how much pressure you just removed from this mom's shoulders. Hope she gets it together and get s her son back.
I think I speak for many when I say that videos split in parts 1 & 2 are hopefully a thing of the past for this channel. The longer, full videos are so much more enjoyable! They will never feel too long!
I agree, I think this is a great format and the editing is very well done.
For me the hassle is that it is hard to find ‘part 2’ sometimes cause it’s not clear in the title.
Yes, I love them to be long too!!!!
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100% love the longer videos. Creators split them in half so they can double monetize the same content. If she needs to split them to help more people, I'll be here for it. (: Buuuut I definitely prefer the long ones!
That boy has to be such a beacon of hope for his mom. He was brave to ask for help. I hope his living conditions only improve from here.
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I hope they really bought a new bed and not just pretend to.
Seriously come on you guys I've never seen a cleaner on TH-cam who cleans and all of the messages she comes across in every apartment is exactly the same same s*** strolling around same same same same same same same same same same this s*** stage this girl's stage of s*** and it's disgusting and insulting and she should be ashamed of herself she absolutely stages s*** come on if there was boys or whatever living in here the bathroom sink the bathroom sink wouldn't be filled with cans at least that would be cleared off so people can brush their teeth and s*** I can see the mess on the floor or whatever same s*** if people have like she goes into like a store garbage bins and she pulls out like I don't even know like she goes behind bars and she pulls all like cans of s*** or something this chick is disgusting I'm actually starting to get pissed I used to like your videos but I'm actually starting to get pissed watching these she's a liar this isn't real none of this is real this chick should be so ashamed of herself and actually she's not even that really a good cleaner she leaves a lot of s*** behind
Now they can ask someone to help them carry it!
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Really prefer the full home cleaning videos, thanks Auri and editor! :)
Likewise! I end up watching them several times over. I also enjoy hearing the stories of the residents. I usually use them to sleep too :) love her voice. ❤
Yes, I do prefer a whole video vs. one in several parts. Keep up the good work!
I also like full story videos. No part 2, please. Good luck for the mom and her kid. Love your work, Auri. You inspire me.
Me too❤❤
I love your videos
My heart broke when i heard he had been watching cleaning videos 😢 he was looking for hope and remedies 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔. Im so glad you actually helped them THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR GIVING THIS KID THE HOPE HE WAS LOOKING FOR 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
You are a saint. Not only do you do a fabulous job cleaning- you do so without judgment or condemnation- just compassion and understanding. I admire and respect you very much.
I wish that nine-year-old boy and his mom all the best.
Tadinhos, acredito que isso possa ser depressão 😢
I believe it
I was in an abusive relationship for 30 years. We had 3 children I raised during the chaos. I worked full time as an RN to support my children as their father never worked. During this time I was in survival mode constantly. So when I finally got free of this person my survival instinct was not needed on the level it had been. Believe it or not but it opens up a huge void. What do I do now? So it’s really easy to stop functioning and fall into a depression. Especially if you do not have support and counseling. I still fight a debilitating depression but I’m learning to live a somewhat normal life. Yet I still pick up the pieces of the old life all the time as I try to help my adult children survive their own trauma. I love watching your videos because I need motivation to clean my house. I also love learning the methods and tools you use. Thank you so much.
I cross fingers for you❤❤.
I wish you the best. That will be better day by day.
It can only get better. Hang in there, babe!!❤
I’ve been there with you, sister; I think we lived parallel lives? Just not as long… it gets better, I promise. Recommend therapy. Happy healing!
Sending Love & Blessings to you Mama 💗💗💗💗
Вы 30 лет жили с мужчиной, который не работал и был жесток и Вы рожали детей от него? Что с Вами не так?! Зачем и ради чего Вы делали это?!😢
Clicked as soon as i saw this. This was my situation growing up. I would have given anything to be able to have my friends over, to be rid of the fleas and abuse, to walk into a nice smelling home. I was lucky to get out when I did.
Now as an adult, whenever I have trouble keeping my apartment clean I watch your videos. It reminds me of where I came from and how far I have come. Thank you.
God bless you and anyone else that was subjected to this 🌸
Cuando pasas situaciones similares sabes lo que se siente y que nunca más queres ver desorden en tu casa
I’m so sorry for what you had to endure as a child. I wish you only the very best! (((Hugs))) from Chicago ❤
@@cintiasantana8448 it's true. Sometimes it can get a little cluttered dealing with it on my own... But never like this. Never again. I will never subject myself or any other living creature to such a thing.
Hugs to you! I'm proud of you, you got out of your situation! I wish you a lifetime of love & healing! May you be blessed
I think this was a case of alcoholism, clinical depression, trauma and domestic violence. This is the result when your life becomes unmanageable. Thank you for helping her complete her her healing journey!❤️
Я думаю, исцеление возможно, если человек САМ поднялся и принялся за уборку. В остальных случаях дом продержится чистым всего несколько дней.
Hi @Auri, I am a therapist and I study trauma. There are a few things that might be happening when someone who has experienced an abusive relationship stops being able to clean their home. First of all, depression happens after trauma more often that not. So, if someone is very depressed they won’t have the energy to clean. Also, if someone has experienced trauma inside the home, they may shut down when they are inside the home because the house causes fearful memories. This may also prevent someone from being able to clean, because their body goes into a fear state reexperiencing past memories. I hope this information is helpful. Thank you so much for the work you do helping people who suffer. ❤
Yes a lot of people don't recognize that and judge them but no one knows how to help them. Only God can deliver them and heal them inwardly I believe ❤
Thank you for your insight. So maybe to move physically to a new area and house can also make healing easier and quicker I suppose ( or cleaning by Auri)😊
@@veronikasemanova1374 Yes. Hopefully, with this fresh cleaning, the mother can make a fresh start.
Thank you. Someone who gets it. Iv been through a lot of trauma and suffer depression, anxiety, social anxiety, ptsd and ocd. No not the cleaning type the bad thinking type that takes all my motivation away. And I have 5 children and have had 4 miscarriages , my house isn't this bad but it once was and sometimes my house now gets bad and I just don't want to move at all. But what makes it worse is noone fully understands what its actually like. I just get judged and called lazy. And that is not what it is... I want to clean I want to declutter but mentally I really struggle. Thank you for saying this its really respectful 🙏 ❤
I have seen this with someone I love as well.
Because of you Auri, I visited my family and it made their home look so much easier to help them clean, so I was able to clean their bathrooms and bedrooms without feeling so gross myself.
I attribute you to me being able to help without judgment and without feeling so dirty while cleaning the dirt up! Thanks for your loveliness and kindness! I am also now thinking about cleaning homes myself to help others like you!!! I love cleaning too!!!
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God bless you and your family abundantly ❤
I love the generous "homey" touches you give people - the plants, the rugs, towels, toilet seats, tableware, placemats, etc. It's already a wonderful gift for you to clean for free, but when you go one step further and include those sweet touches, it just makes it SO WARM!! You're the best, Auri!
So well done to the mom for going into rehab and starting to get her life back. That is such a courageous thing to do. Loads and loads of love to her and her son. This cleaning is likely to make such a difference in their lives.
Abusive relationships cause the person continuous stress, and they end up having bodies with high cortisol levels/deposits. Trauma, abuse and stress cause post traumatic disorder, and depression, and those combined will make you feel absolutely powerless and exhausted, from life itself. Cooking is a chore, cleaning is a chore, washing up is a chore, even showering is difficult.
This lady needs proffessional help, and therapy, to be able to cope, even with simple every day tasks.
You have made such a huge difference in their life, it is a jump start in a new life. Thanks for what you are doing Auri ❤
I just went and cleaned my kitchen and living room after seeing this. Thank you. I don’t know when I would have done it otherwise.
In my own experience, after finally getting free, the hypervigilance that kept you alive turns into a deep deep deep depression. Your cortisol counts are all over the place when you're in the stress. When you leave the stress, your body reacts with downer hormones, and also ptsd.
I never got to this point of not cleaning, only because I had a child to keep me functioning. I'm so sorry for those women that become addicts or hoarders. I know they hate their situation, it's as bad a the bad relationship.
Bless this boy, mom and YOU, for making progress towards happiness. ✨️
Something about the cortisol comment just really annoyed me. I can't stand when people reduce complex emotional states that resulted from abuse/trauma to hormone levels in the body. Sure there might be some correlation but so say that the emotional states are a result of the hormones is so overly reductionist and conveys a deeper level of understanding than one actually has. How many hundreds of hormones/neurotransmitters could be floating through the body affecting one's moods that scientists are completely unaware of?
It’s not the cortisol that creates the problem. It’s the problem that causes the cortisol elevation. It’s a well documented and well known phenomenon that cortisol is a reaction to stress; not the cause of it.
… There’s something about uneducated judgements that bothers *me.*
I so enjoy your videos. I don't care if it's in parts or a whole home. I just like seeing the home become clean and organized, and I love your joyful attitude.
I don't mind either, but it's hard to find the second part.
Marvelous, it's more fun to watch the whole house cleaning in one video rather than in parts😊
One thing i would really like to see is the people's reactions to their homes after you've cleaned them. That would be so cool to see. As long as that person is okay with it, that is.
I love that you’re doing something for other people who at the moment cannot see past the chaos in their lives, and stepping and doing the things that you are doing helps them see a new beginning. It is a lot easier to fall back into that dreadful place but I hope some therapeutic support comes along to help them rebuild their lives. God bless you, you’re very brave to pull this off.
*The way you narrated the family's story is really captivating. You didn't just clean the house; you brought hope and joy to them.* 💯💯💯❤❤❤
Auri, amazing job!!!
Congratulations to Mom for not just listening to her son but hearing his plea and having the courage it takes to reach out for help. Mom you are a super hero!!!✌🌻😊
👽👽👽The fact you have 4.3 million subscribers says it all. You and your editor/filmer are doing an excellent job all around ☺
My God! Aurikatarina, you must be an angel sent by God in the lives of people who feels completely alone and sunk in deep sadness! God bless you!
I do like it better when it's a a completed episode. I look forward to each cleaning and it helps me understand how it happens and how to help ourselves. The commentary is important as well. Abuse, depression , etc.
I absolutely love watching the full home cleaning videos!!! Thanks so much Auri! And I love seeing your hair like that, it suits you. Since you asked, I think that women stop taking care of themselves during and after an abusive relation because they come to believe they don't worth, or think they don't deserve dignity, they stop believe in themselves and they think they have no values in life. Different wounds of the soul has different impact on the people but they are quite strong. I don't know her entire story, but if she's dependent of alcool, she might have had the abandon wound.
I can't believe a 9 year old likes watching cleaning videos lol. That's too cute!
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@hennapartala2603 but he stayed to watch it was what surprised me lol
@@AllyCakes12 I get it! Maybe it wouldn't keep the attention of the regular 9 year old but I do understand why he would keep watching, seeing homes like his own being cleaned for free, it must've felt so hopeful to him! :)
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My 5 year old and 11 year old watch cleaning videos with me. I don't think it's that unusual. I would have been OBSESSED when I was a child if TH-cam was around back then
I think the chaos house happens after a bad relationship because of burnout. Most people can’t even recognize themselves after abuse, so they have to process that and rest now that they’re finally “safe”
Honestly, I’ll watch anything you post! Whether you put out a 10 minute video of cleaning 1 room or a 3 hour video of a whole house clean, I’ll watch it all!!
Auri, you could really see your heart in this one. You brought the light back to their lives.
I don't know if you'll talk Mom again, but if you, tell her I think she's incredibly brave and strong. I had my own problems with painkillers, and when I finally got my back fixed and my depression managed, I had a huge mess to clean up, too. Fortunately, I had some very loving friends who helped without judging, and most of it is done now, but I can't imagine how hard it was to let a stranger see her mess.
Also let her know that there's a mom in Connecticut, USA who's pulling for her and her son. I know they're going to do great with this fresh start!
(And thank you for helping so many people. I still have some areas I almost wish I had a you to help with!)
Ужасно,когда дети страдают от беспечных взрослых со сложными зависимостями, но надеюсь, что хозяйка квартиры уже на пороге новой жизни и её сын будет расти не в приюте, а рядом с мамой и огромное спасибо Аури, что своей уборкой приблизила этот момент💕💕💕
Such a brave and smart little boy! A hero for sure. Helping someone who’s asked for your help is such a boost for the person receiving it. In a situation that equates needing help with weakness or a burden to others, generously given help can be life changing for the person asking. They are heard rather than judged, their needs accepted rather than dismissed. Auri, your attitude of acceptance toward those asking for help is inspiring. ❤
i also prefer the full home cleaning videos, mostly bc sometimes youtube doesn't automatically recommend the next part and my attention span isn't always long enough to look for it myself lol. wonderful work, as always, auri!
Omg I love your accent! Also, you are amazing at this. Keep up hard work.
I also love how you were helping families like this❤
After a traumatic event people can get stuck in a freeze state, because they are unable to process the trauma and grief because of how overwhelming these events were for them. When they are in a freeze state, they can dissociate from reality, and find it really difficult or impossible to deal with day to day tasks. They may use substances to try to manage their pain and grief. In effect they are stuck in the pain from the past, and they require trauma therapy (and lots of support) to help them process their painful past, and move forward with their lives positively ❤️
there’s absolutely no excuse for neglecting children. if ur mentally ill don’t have kids …
@@chanelghostin6060 It’s not an excuse, it’s a reason why people are unable to clean their houses and function in their lives.
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@@chanelghostin6060watch out for karma lady. When you judge others like this you are in for a fall.
@@chanelghostin6060What an usefull advice (irony)! What to do if problems came up after your Child is already born?
Auri, you have changed many lives around the world. Your cleaning advices encourage people to keep their homes tidy and nice.
I like watching the whole clean.
The world needs more Auri's! Thank you for helping!
Bless you for helping without judgment or ridicule. I hope the mom gets the psychological help she needs, or I’m afraid things will deteriorate back to the beginning.
Bad relationship is exhausting it takes everything away from you it took me years to realise I needed to get out I hope this mother and son will be happier thanks to auri 🙏
It's amazing that the boy took the initiative to mention Auri to his mom. God is working through her.
It’s been 14 days since I started folding my cloth. I will never go back to old non-folding habits. Thank you Auri.
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I love the longer videos! My only suggestion would be slightly longer before/after sequences at the end. I just love seeing the immediate change and want a slower shot across the room to see how nice it looks when it is all clean! 😄❤ Also, I missed seeing a before and after of the kitchen in this one!
My dear! You are an amazing person!! I dont understand how mother can aloud her self to raise her son in place like this!! Thank to you this kid has a second chance.... I hope she gets right medical care...
Not only do you inspire me to clean, but I put this video on PAUSE to clean my kitchen LOVE YOU
I'm proud with you! Keep up the good work!
That poor boy don't deserve to live in fifth no one does.😔 Thanks Auri ! ❤for coming to the rescue of those in need.
The reason you find so many women living like this after a bad relationship is because this is a truma response, building walls around you to keep people away so you are never hurt in that way again.
Absolutely spot on comparison. We build 'walls' up for protection. It took me a long time to understand this.. Now I'm struggling to clear those walls, and having a tough time of it.
А ребёнок в чем виноват? Почему мать не думает о безопасности ребёнка, а только о своих чувствах?
@@АринаИванова-ш3йin a lot of ways mental health is like physical health: when it gets really bad, it doesn’t matter how much a person might WANT to do something, they are literally unable to. That’s what’s so great about living in a society, where we can help each other out when needed.
Or you just get overwhelmed & give up because you're so low. You might not want the walls, you just don't have energy to do anything about them.
@@АринаИванова-ш3й she's not well. She probably feels horrible for her son and is why she's accepting help, for him. It's a sad situation but this hopefully will be a big step to healing.
Thank you for making the videos a full house clean each time! And of course, thank you for being the Best Housecleaner in The World!
Sometimes people really do need a helping hand to set them up in moving forward. I have done this recently! This is so lovely this lady doing this for free. A rare thing nowadays.
I like when you give context to the cleaning case. I enjoy the cleaning process and challenges but I like when you take your time to tell the story of it all. Thanks Auri. You are the best cleaner in the world.
Thankful you gave so much help to that mom and child. I am so happy that the child can now have friends over. As always, awesome job, Auri!
That drain in the middle of the bathroom floor is a genius idea!
Love watching your cleaning posts! I have cleaned a few friends homes over the years, they get lost. A deep clean of their surroundings really does help their mental state and it aid’s in bringing them through those dark times.
How I would love to see the reaction of the people you're cleaning for.. Especially the little boy🎉
Great job you make wanna join you❤
I love the full house clean. You are so amazing. Can’t wait for Sunday’s. I been cleaning all morning, then rested to watch you.
Howl's Moving Castle is also one of my favorite movies. I love the cleaning scenes with Sophie. And, I agree, sliding the dust rag along the top of the TV and watching the dust disappear into the rag is very satisfying.
You gave this incredible boy and his courageous Mom a new start. Alcohol addiction is terrible and a huge battle so congratulations to the Mom for becoming sober. I hope her Son is enjoying the newly cleaned home with his Mom.
I like the watching the whole cleaning process in this format. Auri, you're the best 🫶🏼
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Whenever I feel demotivated to clean. Too tired to do anything sometimes. I watch your videos. Clean as much as I can in a day. So every 15 days I just watch the videos and deep clean.
Good idea. Exhaustion can take us over. I've been decluttering my life. I have a storage unit that is waiting for me.
I love that the whole house cleaning is in one video instead to part 1 and 2! You are amazing! Keep up the great work!!
I do like the whole house cleaning videos the best. When done in parts, I can't remember the other room(s) from previous video. So for me, I enjoy the longer ones that show the before, during and after cleaning videos 😊 👍 👌
So extremely proud of this Mom for deciding on a new path for herself and hopefully this cleaning is going to be another step in a very positive and hope-filled direction. We all need a helping hand from time to time when life gets too big, too hard to face it. Thank you, Auri for being that help for others when some pretty major cleaning needs done. You're such a sweet person 💗 💕
Auri please also hiring a handyman to go with you to these cleanings. There is always a repair needed and an additional person for your security would be helpful.
Yes, that would be so great to fix some of the things in the home.
i don't think that's her priority. Having to find a handyman for the homes she cleans is like having a second job. Also, where would the tenants/homeowners find the money to pay a handyman?
I like the idea, but the cost would be too high.
These are older videos...(I can tell by the older pink boots she used to wear, but doesn't anymore) I think she's usually got people with her now.
Why on earth would she pay for a handyman for people? That is not her responsibility. Good grief.
I have been told that some women hoard after an abusive relationship as a form of protection. It is physically harder to get to them when you have to climb over things to find them in the chaos. Also, severe self-esteem issues can make it so you don't care for your home or surroundings, similar to how someone might stop showering after a traumatic incident. You make the life you think you deserve :(
I don't think any of us mind which way you film your videos. They're always great anyway! Thank you for helping this mother and son x
I too love to clean up & organize messy/dirty spaces. For me, it's like creating a piece of art. It feels so good putting in the effort & then receiving instant gratification. All the better if it directly benefits someone or a community! Thanks Aurikatariina! 💖
Auri, the changes in your videos have been AMAZING ! It's much better to have these longer videos with the full clean. Cheers !!
One of the things that make my Sunday a better day is the fact that your video is going to be posted!
I love the full cleaning videos from start to finish. The longer the better! ❤
I just think you are a very loveable person, the happy tone of voice, kindness and all, and I love your voiceovers.
I love when you do the whole apt cleaning videos. The before and after pics are so satisfying to watch, you do excellent work ❤😊
I LOVE the full videos.
Watching your videos does NOT make be want to clean. I am, however, more motivated and knowledgeable when I MUST clean.
I like the full home cleaning videos. After watching your videos it gives me the motivation to clean my own house.
Auri she is the most beautiful and kindest woman ever 🥺
Auri, you are the sweetest lady and such an amazing cleaning!
I do love the full home cleaning videos! I was so glad when you brought that back again. Thanks you, Auri and your editor! 💕
Yes! Yes! Yes! I love the full house cleaning videos. It's about 30 to 45 minutes long. That's just perfect. Auri you don't have to talk throughout the entire video. I think it's enough to introduce yourself, briefly tell you what the problem of a dirty house is, talk about the products you use during the video and that's it. In between the voiceover you can play music. It's always cool. Love you Auri ❤❤❤
@@clairegilliesprecisely why I also love RemiClog's channel too! 💗 Her talks about mental health and her neuro-divergent family (like mine too) are so amazingly insightful! She's also in the UK, which is a refreshing change from all the other European, American and Canadian channels I watch too 🤭
@@clairegillies if you hate something, stop watchjng. Psycho
@@raymondmiller9798 I don't hate it, love watching the cleaning videos and hearing auri chat... why have you tagged me?
I love hearing ALL about the family and what you are cleaning and why and I love to hear you talk all the time, Auri!😊
Hey Auri. My girlfriend and I have been watching you for a while now and we wanted to thank you for your content. We would like more whole home cleanings. Also we would like you to post more because its always such a pleasure to watch fresh new cleanings. Stay healthy and keep up the good work. You are making a change!
I love the long videos! i struggled finding part 2's and stuff with soo many of your older videos that i never saw the finished product or story! this way i can have them on as a backround while i work and take peeks of clean satisfacction when needed untill completion and it's soo nice! thank you so much Auri :)
You are so so kind and compassionate. It helps me see myself and others with the utmost kindness. Thank you. You are a ray of sunshine
I really really want a bathroom & kitchen that has a drain holes & all tile walls & floors . American style houses don't believe in that. Soooo easy just to flush it away.
Clean environment helps a clean mind so happy to see her & her son get help . You are an angel.
Great remarks about alcohol addiction👍. And, of course, the cleaning is remarkable❤️❤️
I prefer full videos, because when I get an older video of you recommended in my feed it’s difficult to find the following parts😂 I need to scroll for ages to find them, because they’re never linked in your description heheh
I love seeing the full cleaning video. Singapore fan here!
I love your attitude and how you've found your purpose in cleaning! It is very energizing to see.
You don’t just help those people. you’re an inspiration for a ton of other people including myself! Thank you for your videos and you helping those who need help! These videos literally help me get up and do things i feel like I can’t do but I need too as a single mother staying with my parents and grown brother it’s tough keeping up with everything but thank you for what you do and inspiring me to keep on keeping on! ❤
I like the full home videos. Please keep doing them like this. You’re the best Auri!!
AURI I was in abusive marriage and I don't know about everyone else but I felt like nothing he made me feel like I was worthless because of abusive remarks calling me the worst names I felt worthless . I became like hermit crab in closed into my shell so maybe that is big reason It was for me ,I have been divorced since 1994 ONLY GOD BROUGHT ME OUT I KNOW IM WORTH SOMETHING AND AFTER A YEAR FROM BEING AWAY FROM CHAOS GOD GAVE ME MY LIFE BACK by the way im still single and staying that way. GOD bless you AURI your 👍 great . PIKEVILLE KENTUCKY HERE ❤️ MUCH LOVE .
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Yes I enjoy the full house cleaning and I LOVE long videos. You don’t have to cut most of the cleaning out.
Even if you don’t speak thru most of the video.
I like to watch the whole process of the cleaning. When it’s sped thru, we miss a lot of what we love.
But definitely much better having the whole home in one video
Wow 👌 you did a brilliant job as always my love!!! Ive been sober myself now for 10 years (Thank God) so i can understand how this poor woman was living! I also went through some awful times in my life violent relationships etc and the drink seemed ro numb the pain and although the mom doesn't know me or i doubt she will see this message i want her to know im proud of her of everything shes achieved and i pray she continues to find the strength 💪 to fight each day to be sober and well ❤️ blessings to the mom and her son ❤ ❤️
Thank you for filling the home with such loving energy. Great for momma and child to get a fresh healing start.🙏🌎✝️🌹🗝️
I like the the whole cleaning in one video much more motivating and I stay here the entire time 🙂🥰
Yeah, I’m really happy for that little boy that he can bring his friends over and he needs to be able to do that. And have a normal and a happy childhood. Those abuse days are behind him.
I was so depressed after my husband and I divorced. He was just like the man in this video. I couldn't do anything other than the bare minimum. The depression made me sooooo tired and I isolated myself. Dark dark days. But things are much better now and I now have a very kind and sweet husband ❤❤❤
I love the full house cleaning videos! I get very immersed in the story and the whole deep clean.
I just love your happy banter and giggles. You lift my spirits
Alcohol is never the answer in life. I am a foster mother of two children with alcohol-related problems. One mother died, the other is in prison. The children are disabled, even though this could have been avoided.
Auri, I really appreciate you and your work. It helps strengthen the bond between mother and son. No child should live like this.
Alcohol is not an individual's problem, alcohol is a society's problem. Everyone who condemns alcoholics should know this.
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I so agree!
LOVING the TOTAL house clean in one video!
I love the whole home/longer videos! Excellent job 🎉❤
You are such a blessing. I can not imagine how much pressure you just removed from this mom's shoulders. Hope she gets it together and get s her son back.
Oh yes, SO MUCH motivation! I love watching you!