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I can’t even imagine the amount of emotional damage this causes these kids living like that. And physical illness. Poor babies. I hope these parents can keep the home clean for them
@ The damage is immeasurable. My brother and his wife were like this. Their children went to school as the “smelly” kids. They were taken out of class for having fleas, and cockroaches crawled out of their backpacks. The children were ashamed and humiliated.
@@annetttamas3565you can clearly see all the liquor bottles auri throws away when she starts the kitchen… I’m assuming she didn’t mention the alcohol problem out of respect for the family. But it was very evident at the amount of bottles she threw away
I don't know who the viewers are that expect of you to clean only bug-infested homes, but be very careful in those houses! Cockroaches can spread diseases and cause asthma and other respiratory illnesses.. I'm always amazed that you help everyone so willingly, but please also take care of yourself! Stay safe, auri!
@@MrNesscity i believe they carry over 52 diseases, if memory serves. It hurts me imagining children sleeping in their beds with those. I mean there were birthday candles on the sink. How are you having a birthday celebration there with those all around? I would have had it outside.
They also crap on everything 🤮 I used to live in a roach OWNED house and almost everything I had got ruined. I was in an abusive relationship so when I left that house I was leaving my ex and a month later someone broke in and robbed the place. Part of me was glad that I left in time, another part of me was wondering why the hell would someone rob a place covered in roach feces
That's not "illness" either. It's LAZINESS. There is literally no mental illness that prevents you from cleaning your filth and putting your trash in a bin. None. This is LAZINESS.
They could have hired someone to clean weekly if they were too busy to do it themselves. I get the sense that the guy left all the cleaning chores to the mother. Just my intuition.
When I saw that they smoke inside, it really bothered me. I don't want to judge the parents, that won't help them, but as someone who grew up with parents that smoke indoors I really REALLY hope they will not do that around their kids anymore. I used to wake up for school not because of my alarm, but because my mom was smoking downstairs and the smoke rose to my bedroom and choked me awake. Second hand smoke is just as bad as smoking y'all. Don't make your children go through that
@@arinabk3674 I didn't mean it in a way to downplay other bad life choices, the smoking inside is just something I can relate to. And yes they should just smoke outside instead. I can say from my own experience, my parents didn't smoke outside, even when I got old enough to actually ask that of them. The alcohol doens't affect the children (with that I mean they hopefully don't let the children drink alcohol). I do hope they get therapy as a family and work things out toward a better and healthier future.
@@kenenigans I understand. Drikking to much alcohol effects everyone in the family (kids to). It effects the mental state of the adults so the adults can't be at their best for the kids saddly and it can create a caotic home like the one in the video. I just hope they get proffecional help after this cleanup♡
Yes, I grew up in a home with two smoking parents. They also smoked in the car on road trips. No regard for any of us kids. As an adult in my 60s, I still battle with upper respiratory illnesses and sinus problems. Thanks mom & dad!
No matter what you are going through no one should live this way especially kids and a dog. Gif bless you for helping them. I really hope they keep their place clean moving forward. Just thinking about how they slept with all those roaches is going to give me nightmares
I made this remark before I had come halfway… After watching this all I can tell you is that they should still get pest control into the house. ( twice with a few weeks interval) The cockroaches are still around, in cracks, in holes in the walls, behind window sills, etc. Besides the egg pods are still around, and will come out in a few weeks despite spraying insect repellent.( doesn’t kill the eggs)
You teaching the little girl how to clean has me tearing up!!! This is such a huge deal. If they know how to do things, they will! I just saw a video yesterday teaching people, particularly young people, how to clean. I think that's so cool. They just need an example. ❤
Я могу сказать, жаль что пришлось ее учить. Ведь если бы она видела пример от взрослого родителя, то это делать бы не пришлось. Ведь редко когда кто то кого-то нацелено учит убираться, все детят смотрят на родителей. А тут родители не показали пример. Зато судя по и количеству алкоголя, они подали соответствующий пример.
It is not normal for an adult to live like this. The adults in this home need some intervention to assist them. Many people can be high functioning (as in, hold down a job), but other areas of their life are suffering severely
The kind of cockroach that was in the clock are a kind that are really hard to get rid of, they get into appliances and cracks and pest control isn't as effective as it is for other species. Getting things clean is so important, you are a blessing!
@@donnamaco1 Yes. And many times people being "dirty" isn't the cause an infestation is an infestation they would be there even if people didn't live there. But living with roaches like this will have you living in filth after being so exhausted waking up with bugs on you all the time..
As a cleaner and detailer, it looks to me like she is cleaning this house without water or electricity. This lovely lady is amazing. Living in the Caribbean after two Cat7+ hurricanes and having no power for 4 months, I know just how impossible this can be. Auri, you are an angel. Maybe you can follow natural disasters? It could take you to the Caribbean for hurricanes and the Midwest US for tornados, among other places. I send you love, hugs and gratitude for all you do. 🫠🤗😘
Where was CPS, with children living like this?! Reading through some of the comments, I totally agree with those who commented to be careful when going into homes and cleaning those homes with infestations 🪳🐀 Like on that television show "Hoarders", those people - Cleaners and Organizers - go into those homes dressed in HazMat suits. And your idea of possibly having Better Help offer their services to the people who are occupying those homes, with Mental Health intervention, is a Great Idea! I Love what you do to help people and I Love watching your videos (you have given me cleaning tips & ideas), but just be careful! God Bless You Auri 💖
Where were they 7 years ago when the then 28yo was knocking up a 15yo!!! Or did I misunderstand that the mom is 22 and the dad is 35 with 6 year old kids?
@@lailaes802 😳😳😲😲😨😱😱😱😱😱 I didn't even notice that!!!! OH MY GOODNESS. So she was 16 (give or take a year) and he was 29 (give or take a year).... Wow. Yeah, no.
auri, i deal with a lot of mental issues and dont live in the best home, whenever the house gets bad i watch your videos, they're so inspiring, and they keep me motivated, keep up the amazing work, i love your videos so much !!
I fell down the rabbit hole that is your videos. I literally did a 4 day clean on my bedroom and bathroom. I'm talking sweeping, mopping, disinfecting, dusting, scrubbing. The whole nine. Thank you for your work and thank you for inspiring me to clean. Btw I turn 30 tomorrow!
For an non english native it makes sense to add "es" at the end of the word.. There are so many english words who ends with "es". Just like "houses" "beaches" "watches" and so on.
Auri, you have a huge heart!! Adults can choose to live like this but children have no choice. It’s unacceptable that the children are made to live in this horrific roach infested environment. I hope the pest control company can get this under control for them. Everything in this home is infested and if they moved they should start completely over with nothing from this home.
Cockroaches are a very serious infestation. They can cause so many different diseases, some very serious. Really everything in the house needs either throwing or an extreme deep clean. If any of you watch Mack he throws everything contaminated by cockroaches and mice. Auri you should wear a mask and gloves the whole time your health is important. You are right we should not judge and sounds like the parents are dealing with a lot but they do have a duty of care for the girls so hopefully now they will get pest control in and keep on top of cleaning. I think they are very lucky to not have got sick from contamination. Well done a great clean and thank you for helping them x
Yes, we can judge these people's behavior. No excuse exists for adults allowing children to live in this disease-ridden chaos. None. I don't care how tired they are. Throw away your trash! Clean up after yourself. If they have time to drink all that liquor, they have time to clean.
@@estherwagner6735 a few people have mentioned liquor and you say "all that liquor" I didn't see it, Auri said they drank a lot of energy drinks, where are the liquor bottles?
Those are NOT cockroaches. Cockroaches do not run around like that in groups and not in the daylight. They’re German roaches and very difficult to get rid of. They need a pest control company to continually treat them or they will not go away even in a clean house. They also need DCF to monitor this family.
German cockroaches are still cockroaches. They are the most common cockroach in the U.S. because they can easily infest restaurants and apartment buildings.
I'm sorry but children don't deserve to live like that in in in in in sex with insects crawling all over them or in that mess I'm sorry but like you got to keep it clean for the children and teach them how to clean too
@@mariamaria2751 you don’t know what the family struggles with and regardless of how they got here Auri is giving them an opportunity for a fresh start. Having 2 small children to look after while you’re struggling to take care of yourself can get out of hand fast, I was lucky enough to have support and help for my issues, but not everyone has that support. Auri doesn’t judge anyone, all she is worrying about is giving this family a new start in life. You shouldn’t judge someone based on how their life looks at their lowest, and shame on you for judging their situation. If you continue to watch her videos you should listen to what she says about the correlation between cleaning and mental health; you would learn quite a lot.
I have to agree, I somehow came across this channel,also Midwest magic cleaning and clean with barbie.and since I started watching my house is spotless.if I see a mark on a wall from my dog I immediately get the CIF out.i have major depression and let things go for a long time just couldn't face it,but since these channels I see a vid and want to get up and clean everything. Not just clean I start making repairs and painting got new flooring and really start being proud of my house again.all thanks to these channels. ❤ From ireland
Just in case your situation is one where no one has told you, I’m going to be that person and tell you how freaking proud I am of you! Those are monumental changes that you have made to improve your life and a whole lot of effort! Keep up the good work and have a happy upcoming holiday!
I saw that title and came to read all the comments, LOL. Happy the parents recognized a need for a fresh start and thankful you could make that happen for them. That kind of mess can be so overwhelming and I don't think they'll ever forget that someone cared enough to come in and truly help in a loving way. There are so many people that will sit around judging others but very few who will just roll up there sleeves, jump in, and help.
It is a soulful experience to see a room go from chaos to orderly. One can imagine the state of mind of the inhabitants who tend to ignore basic necessities of cleaning and hygiene. I love your videos where you not only support people wanting help, but also try and help them solve their deeper issues ❤❤❤. The world needs many more Aurikatriina in every depressed person's locality ❤
I really appreciate all te work aurikatarina does to help the people of this house and other houses. Without the help of professionals the house gets back to the old state in no time. I dont know how it works in America but we in the netherlands have mutiple services to call to rapport this family (ggd, veilig thuis) not to punish them but to protect the children. Houses like this are this way because off serious mental issues that are not solved by just talking en cleaning a house. I hope this family can get the help they need!
Auri has stated before that she would never report anyone, that's not her job. She wants it to be safe for people to ask for her help. If people know there's a risk of being reported, they most likely won't ask for help.
@ but she is not really helping these people. Its temporary clean. Within no time the house is dirty again. The use of alcohol is not different. She should take responsebilty or work together with a social worker. This is not helping!
I have been in depression before but never let my house go to this. I feel sorry for these people and pray they get back on track. I Thank God for you sweetie.
Same. I think it’s far worse when alcohol is involved and this looks like a major depression, not a less severe one. I always come to a point when I start to take the clean dishes out of the dishwasher and put them where they belong. Then I put the dirty ones into the dishwasher. I follow up by collecting the garbage from the kitchen counter, put it in the trash bags and bring them outside. Then I do the laundry and collect the dirty clothes from the floors/ couch etc. Sometimes it’s really hard when the depression is pushing me really into the bed but I am a fighter and know my depression is lying to me. We should never listen to it. It’s bare self respect to clean up the mess.
My granddaughter lives in Clovis NM and she could really use your help. My husband and I spent over three weeks there cleaning and she still has a long way to go.
@@musical_costumer7976 There are more videos she's posted from homes in Florida. You can tell by the American looking sinks and the stoves. But she also says the location in the video.
When I lived with my grandparents we had those big, brown cockroaches for about a year. We were very clean, meticulous and organized. We still had them in our home. Every day we had to check our beds for eggs. Sometimes, in between the box spring and mattress, I would find these little sacks that looked like beans. Once I had a giant cockroach crawl across my face in the middle of the night. After two extermination treatments, my grandparents finally got rid of them before selling the house. Before moving, we combed through everything we owned before packing. For years I had nightmares about bugs crawling on me, waking up terrified. Somehow, I have no issues watching Auri clean while they crawl every where haha!
Yeah, I believe you can still have cockroaches even if it’s pretty clean. They’re apparently drawn in by dark, moist places and in places where there’s plenty for them to eat - such as Kitchens where there’s lots of food debris, for example. Usually, if you don’t leave food debris around, you shouldn’t really have a problem with them - but it’s very difficult to do that, because we can’t exactly see micro particles. It’s probably likely that you had a nest somewhere without realising or knowing where it was.
Did u live near lots of trees? The giant cockroaches are actually tree cockroaches. Those little cockroaches in the videos are attracted to dirt and food and stuff but those big ones are bc of trees.
@@catrice1296 Just a few trees. We lived in a subdivision behind a dog food plant, and we also kept a tortoise in the back yard. That could have brought them in.
You’re so patient and kind to your families, Auri. The cockroaches live in the walls, as well as beds, furniture, stuffed animals, and piles of trash. Cleaning, removing trash, eating only in the kitchen, and hanging clothes can help. Looks like regular visits from an exterminator may be needed, too.
Auri! When you come back to America, please know that Dawn Power wash is highly concentrated. Using it to clean the floor isn't advised, it would take many rinses in order to not leave a sticky residue. Hope this helps!
I just got a ptsd flashback of my childhood from the cockroaches, oof. It's alright though, thank you Auri for all that you do to help these people. Glad you enjoy doing it as well, also sharing your experiences along the way and everything else with us. It's very motivating having someone else cleaning while you clean.💜 Poor kiddos though, I can imagine how the family feels living in that.
It’s so crazy how the pdf file behaviour was overlooked ….. and you know they didn’t meet when she was 17 and got pregnant .. he probably groomed her since she was 15 and he was 27 that’s just 😶
I want to add that I've been in therapy for years, and as a mom whose story parallels this one to a T, therapy only goes so far. They need community support. They need someone coming into their house once or twice a week and cleaning it for them so they can focus on raising their amazing children. Children with neurodiversity NEED that support more than anything.
До этого додумается адекватный человек, а тут алкоголь я так понимаю присутствует. Я не осуждаю, но и не жалею этих людей. Кроме детей, детей всегда жалко, ведь родителей не выбирают .
@@delyda One very good post, and I love you for the word neurodiversity!!! Thank you! These kids are not silly, stupid, crazy or demolished or uneducated and certainly - at least I hope so- ill. They are just another way of Gods creation.
@saraha7632 I agree. And I mean someone to come for free, which I realize is impossible. But that's what they need! They need community support and care.
This one was amazing. Honestly. Idc how it started or what position the parents were in. A fresh start is what they all needed and they really did get it!
Today I cleaned my whole room, it was tiring but the result was worth it. I hate cleaning because I have to touch dirty things, but watching Auri's video gave me the spirit to do it.
I’m glad you moved that heavy safe off that flimsy ikea cabinet Auri - it could have easily fallen on that little girl. She must have been thrilled with her lovely clean room 😊
Cleaning their home and helping the parents get therapy is a great idea. Cleaning support, respite care, and therapy for the children will help, too. Happy Valentine's Day 🎉
I'm proud of the parents for reaching out for help. I hope they continue to ask for help in other ways, especially to benefit their children. They all deserve better than this. 🙏🏻
I feel an empathy to the family and really happy they asked for help. People don't know, how it is, when you raise children with special needs. I leaded social sessions with kids with ADHD and after 1,5 hour I was more exhausted than after 10 hours office work. My cousin has ADHD and as a child he was full of energy not able to unload, there was no possibility to focus him for longer time, he played with no thinking about consequences - my aunt and uncle had to keep an eye on him all the time. Thankfully, they lived with grandparents, who were great support. It's vicious circle, because parents mostly try to pay the attention with new toys, but a clutter is overwhelming for sensitive kid's nervous system
I'm amazed the Child Protection services haven't intervened, i can't believe that an outsider hasn't seen the inside of this house and reported the parents. If they don't want to have their kids sent to foster homes, they'd better turn over a new leaf. 1. Get sober 2. call pest control and fumigate that house 3. Don't ever , ever let the place get filthy like that again. They might be nice people and they're embarrassed and sad about how it got out of hand, but the fact that they've exposed their children to this dysfunction is unforgivable.
@@Borderlinegoldenretriever Yes exactly. All the filthy parents I knew when we were kids growing up were actually nice people, but their lice-ridden, malodorous children were teased, bullied, and had horrible conditions to go home to. So sad.
They are both working, as a mechanic and a nurse. I didn't hear any mention of addiction, if it was said I apologise. Life can get out of hand very easily for some people, nobody ever wants to live like that. Pest control will be called to the house, now it's been cleaned.
I hope they can call the pest control service after your beautiful cleaning, Auri...I would think it will work better... and hopefully keep their home clean!
I kept my house spotless and still got roaches from my neighbor. 2 years of hell and over $2k in pest control on my house. Sadly he passed away, but his house was so badly infested it had to be gutted. I'm sad he passed and sad he lived like that, but boy was I happy to see those little nasty things go. CPS should have been called here in my opinion. No one's perfect, but no kids and animals should have to live like this
I am a worker type person, I could do this (if I had opportunity) but also like to enjoy a party after work lol. I don’t think you took picture off the wall, in bathroom above toilet. No doubt, there were cockroaches under it. I did go help clean a place that was 100% worse than this, for cockroaches. With 3 kids. The walls (so dirty), the smell (unbelievably), the mess was something even you couldn’t believe. You shook laundry in basement and they come out of pockets. And one kids bedroom was right beside the laundry room. Any book, cockroaches. Open oven and the cockroaches were everywhere. Pots all over kitchen, with old food and in oven. Took long time to clean it. And, if you know anything about cockroaches, you must have a professional get rid of them so I am glad this owner is getting a professional, after it was done being cleaned.
The police/CPS should have been called immediately! This is child/animal neglect!!!! I know you like to joke about the roaches but they’re dangerous and can make you sick!!!!! Those children and that poor dog do not deserve to live like this!
Then you had the cigarette ashes that were in the cupholder of the couch that could start a fire. And I don’t know if she just accidentally said the wrong age but if that girl is 22 years old and been with him for about 10 years and he’s 35. there may be a lot more going on in this situation.
If children's services had seen that house those kids would have been removed and put into foster care. That family is so lucky that you stepped in to help them. God bless you Auri.
Auri you are a cleaning angel. I think that recommending better help to the residents and families is a great idea. After you give them clean homes, some may not know how to help themselves mentally.
I started watching your videos awhile back, and honestly the compassion you show and love for what you do is what helps me through cleaning. You do amazing things for people and their families
If you set up a fund to help pay for betterhelp for families, ppl would probably donate. Thank you so much for what you do! You are the best cleaner on TH-cam and I find your videos so inspiring. As a person with adhd, watching you gives me motivation to keep trying. I have gained so much knowledge on products and methods of how to clean by watching you. When I feel overwhelmed you help me to change my mindset about cleaning and not feel alone or ashamed. I actually feel good about cleaning when I watch your videos and hear about how happy you are to clean "trashes" : ). You are awesome and thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Leaving Terro in little squares helps- Spraying is only a temporary solution Cleaning helps. Spraying the whole house should be done once every month or every other month helps. $$ n can’t be too good for their health. Great job Aurii.
@@saranzm2977 Sammi is very cute, but he wants many many children. He really does not approve of a working wife. He does not want her to earn her own money. Eventually this will cause big strife in the relationship.
Good job but the cochroaches made me feel itchy. Glad they are getting ahold of this problem. I noticed a lot of cleaning are for people in the health industry. I know the job is stressful 😫.
It's amazing how many families buckle under the stressful low wages and relentless pressures at a 9-5 and raising kids they just turn their minds off and start to just live in their own filth most likely turning to drugs and alcohol making it all worse.
Sami’s a keeper, he valiantly fought cockroaches for you on Valentine’s Day!😊 There’s a large age gap between these parents and that might have something to do with the state of the home, if the mom is 22, that means she had kids at 16 and at that point they were already living together and got Peanut. She was a child herself and most likely doesn’t have a clue how to manage a home. Imo the houses are way too big in the US in general and having such massive houses is not really a plus, there’s more space for kids to mess and it’s harder to keep them clean.
Yes and their twins were diagnosed with "adhd". Alcohol in the womb can lead to subclinical fetal alcohol symptoms, which are indistinguishable from ADHD. Not to mention growing up with dysfunction and trauma also leads to adhd symptoms.
I love that you have cleaned up another dirty home! Especially with two little girls and a cute little dog living there. The bugs give me the creeps. I would do more running than cleaning I’m afraid. I pray the parents can get some help so this doesn’t happen again.
I am really sorry for saying this Auri..but when you have kids you can take some days off of your work and clean up your mess. When i see that pile of garbage under people's beds i can understand that they eat or drink stuff and they just throw the garbage on the floor and i cannot get it. I'm sorry.☹️
So the husband is 35 and the wife is 22. Their kids are 6 years old. You mean to tell me the husband was a father at 29 and the wife was 16 when they had their kids? Dude, wtf?
maybe she meant back in the time before this she was 22 as a nurse then they got peanut and now he is 35 with the dog and kids and she looks after them? idk
When you start cleaning, you have to take all the furniture out and fight the insects. This is followed by the cleaning stage, then rearranging the furniture. As for the kitchen, you must open the cabinets and take out everything to clean, then put everything back in its place, because cleaning in the presence of insects and furniture is like spreading a rug when the wind is blowing.
We lived in an apartment with a moderate infestation while my first husband was in medical school. Our newborn was so allergic to them that he stayed ill the whole 18 months before we moved elsewhere.
In Florida, everyone who knows children are being abused or neglected is a mandatory reporter, so yes, legally she probably should have contacted child services, but by remediating the house, that would have probably meant case closed, so..
Auri, you sacrificed a lot to help this family. A 5 hour drive! You have such a kind heart ❤️. And you DID give them a fresh start. I hope they get someone to come and help 4 hours per week to help the mom keep up. It's a lovely home once clean and fumigated.
I'm inexperienced in all of this, but, in my mind, it seems logical to have the house sprayed for roaches before the cleaning. Then, you'd be sweeping up and cleaning after dead bugs instead of later finding the dead ones in places like the cleaned toy box, the oven, etc. You did an amazing job on this house. I'm so happy for the little girls. Your idea of approaching "Better Help" about helping these people sounds like a great match.
Clean with barbie has just done a house clean where all dead cockroaches were there I think the house had just been dominated so barbie went in to clean it all up and she did a fantastic job,she was clearing them all away,I think she had been at this particular house a few times in the same week as the authorities gave this young woman a whole week to clean it up so she could get her 2 yr old son back and according to barbie at the end she did say she got him back.but she has cleaned other houses with big cockroaches in too alive ones they was you could see them running all over.
@@christinegill3425 - Yes! That's exactly what I thought of when I saw this. On day 2, I believe, Barbie went in and they'd all been exterminated overnight. She ended up just sweeping and cleaning them all away.
Auri you crack me up! While you're saying hello to the Cockroaches I would have been screaming like a little girl running out of there as quickly as possible! 😂😂😂😂
This clean will help in more ways than one. Kids with ADHD benefit greatly from having an organised home, in addition to love, structure and discipline. When they are given (important) jobs, like cleaning, it helps them to feel good and it’s less stressful and chaotic for them to live in.
I was thinking living in that environment has to have made the girls ADHD worse 🥺🥺Hopefully they can keep the apt clean and deal with the roaches. It would probably take a few months since they are inside the appliances and walls.
I had German roaches about a year ago because they got out from the sink. Gosh It's so difficult to really destroy them. I asked an roaches company to come 3 times. And still 1 whole year after I still find 1 or 3 per month. Twice a year I'll bring the company for treatment repeat.
Hopefully you don't miss them too much. Cockroach eggs can attach themselves to your shoes when you walk in an infested house. Make sure to either stamp your shoes when you leave or throw them away. Also, putting plastic over your shoes is a smart idea, this can prevent that from happening. Otherwise you WILL be seeing them again. And what others here said is correct. Being in a trashed house like this could make you sick, please use protective gear like an N95 mask. That mold on the ceiling (if that's what it was) was alarming. Take care Auri!
I understand mental illness keeping many from the ability to keep a clean home. But anyone can carry the trash out, especially when they know the cockroaches are caused from the trash. They can throw away bad food, and take bags to the trash can. I appreciate your videos, and always get up and clean something after watching your videos. I bought scrub daddy, scrub mommy, pink stuff, power paste, squeegee, all after watching you! I have to have a clean bathroom and kitchen!
Me and my 4 years old kid very like to watch your videos together.. Whenever he throw trash not in a good place i always said.. oo i need to call aurikatarina here.. And he said no mom dont, i can throw this trash to the bin by my self.. 😂😂😂
1:30 The Hello Kitty mirror is a really nice item to keep! 😊✨ Can't help checking out items, I sell all sorts of vintage things 😃 Those houses have really tons of things- even too many! 😯
Auri you are so sweet and non judgmental that it amazes me. To me the parents are irresponsible and social services should be called. Yes, twins are hard but come on, tons of children have ADHD, it's annoying but doesn't justify even remotely amount of trash in there. By the amount of alcohol bottles in the kitchen, I suspect the reason is very different..
To me the house was surprisingly not that dirty. The main issue is the cockroaches, which your house has to be super clean to have an exterminator come in. Also I'm pretty sure that was a bottle collection, which I don't think they probably wanted thrown away. While I agree that there are times kids should be taken away, this is probably not the situation. If they can get the cockroaches killed I guarantee they'll find things a lot easier to manage.
@ I was thinking this too. If both kids have it, it's very likely both adults might have it too, because of the genetic component. A lot of people will struggle all their life not knowing they have it, the parents might benefit a lot with an evaluation themselves.
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I think u frgt to clean the kitchen cabinet nver been touch and i believe that has more cockcroach in there
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Kids shouldn't have to live like this. 😢
And animals 😢
CPS would come take those children away!
Looks like an alcohol problem as well.
I can’t even imagine the amount of emotional damage this causes these kids living like that. And physical illness. Poor babies. I hope these parents can keep the home clean for them
@ The damage is immeasurable. My brother and his wife were like this. Their children went to school as the “smelly” kids. They were taken out of class for having fleas, and cockroaches crawled out of their backpacks. The children were ashamed and humiliated.
One thing that pisses me off is seeing homes in this condition where kids and pets are living in it where they have no control or decisions
Дети, животные и алкоголь 😢
@@snusmumrik9839never a good mix…
@snusmumrik9839 she didn't mentioned alcohol. She was talking about that the parents drink a lot of energy drinks.
Right, like someone call CPS! 🤦🏼♀️
@@annetttamas3565you can clearly see all the liquor bottles auri throws away when she starts the kitchen… I’m assuming she didn’t mention the alcohol problem out of respect for the family. But it was very evident at the amount of bottles she threw away
I don't know who the viewers are that expect of you to clean only bug-infested homes, but be very careful in those houses! Cockroaches can spread diseases and cause asthma and other respiratory illnesses.. I'm always amazed that you help everyone so willingly, but please also take care of yourself! Stay safe, auri!
@@MrNesscity i believe they carry over 52 diseases, if memory serves. It hurts me imagining children sleeping in their beds with those. I mean there were birthday candles on the sink. How are you having a birthday celebration there with those all around? I would have had it outside.
Exactly.
She needs to wear a mask when she cleans !
@@trisharowland2257 she does, its tough to watch her clean stuff like this knowing all the nonsense she is breathing in.
They also crap on everything 🤮
I used to live in a roach OWNED house and almost everything I had got ruined.
I was in an abusive relationship so when I left that house I was leaving my ex and a month later someone broke in and robbed the place. Part of me was glad that I left in time, another part of me was wondering why the hell would someone rob a place covered in roach feces
Terrible conditions. That’s not being “busy”. That’s an illness. I hope they are doing better now
Illness, LAZY A$$ PEOPLE!!
Those childrens should be taken. THIS IS NOT NORMAL
Exactly.
That's not "illness" either. It's LAZINESS. There is literally no mental illness that prevents you from cleaning your filth and putting your trash in a bin. None. This is LAZINESS.
They could have hired someone to clean weekly if they were too busy to do it themselves.
I get the sense that the guy left all the cleaning chores to the mother. Just my intuition.
When I saw that they smoke inside, it really bothered me. I don't want to judge the parents, that won't help them, but as someone who grew up with parents that smoke indoors I really REALLY hope they will not do that around their kids anymore. I used to wake up for school not because of my alarm, but because my mom was smoking downstairs and the smoke rose to my bedroom and choked me awake. Second hand smoke is just as bad as smoking y'all. Don't make your children go through that
Just smoke outside instead. I was more botherd by all the alcohol, but I hope they get some help as a family♡
@@arinabk3674 I didn't mean it in a way to downplay other bad life choices, the smoking inside is just something I can relate to. And yes they should just smoke outside instead. I can say from my own experience, my parents didn't smoke outside, even when I got old enough to actually ask that of them. The alcohol doens't affect the children (with that I mean they hopefully don't let the children drink alcohol). I do hope they get therapy as a family and work things out toward a better and healthier future.
@@kenenigans I understand. Drikking to much alcohol effects everyone in the family (kids to). It effects the mental state of the adults so the adults can't be at their best for the kids saddly and it can create a caotic home like the one in the video. I just hope they get proffecional help after this cleanup♡
Yes, I grew up in a home with two smoking parents. They also smoked in the car on road trips. No regard for any of us kids. As an adult in my 60s, I still battle with upper respiratory illnesses and sinus problems. Thanks mom & dad!
Or your pets.
Poor children...poor little dog...thank you Auri for what you do :)
No matter what you are going through no one should live this way especially kids and a dog. Gif bless you for helping them. I really hope they keep their place clean moving forward. Just thinking about how they slept with all those roaches is going to give me nightmares
I agree!
Auri, please wear a mask when using chemicals!!!
Everything is a chemical.
she knows what shes doing
@@SageRichtofen until the xrays come back with growths, then what?
And always gloves!
@@Deangirl86 everyone knows we're talking about harmful chemicals and you're here thinking you're so smart
I made this remark before I had come halfway…
After watching this all I can tell you is that they should still get pest control into the house. ( twice with a few weeks interval) The cockroaches are still around, in cracks, in holes in the walls, behind window sills, etc. Besides the egg pods are still around, and will come out in a few weeks despite spraying insect repellent.( doesn’t kill the eggs)
It will probably take at least 3 professional treatments.
Combat products work fast and very effectively, and can get the job done almost immediately to eliminate cockroaches.
Maybe the homeowner needed help to clean the place first before calling in pest control?
@dweamy1 No doubt about that!
@@dweamy1 true
You teaching the little girl how to clean has me tearing up!!! This is such a huge deal. If they know how to do things, they will! I just saw a video yesterday teaching people, particularly young people, how to clean. I think that's so cool. They just need an example. ❤
Я могу сказать, жаль что пришлось ее учить. Ведь если бы она видела пример от взрослого родителя, то это делать бы не пришлось. Ведь редко когда кто то кого-то нацелено учит убираться, все детят смотрят на родителей. А тут родители не показали пример. Зато судя по и количеству алкоголя, они подали соответствующий пример.
I am so sorry but the kids have to leave that house! And she is a nurse? OMG! I HAVE NO WORDS 😢
Every nurse I've ever known has been like this, what's up with that?
@@WendyP1965 A lot of it has to do with burnout from working a very stressful job with little to no mental health support
It is not normal for an adult to live like this. The adults in this home need some intervention to assist them. Many people can be high functioning (as in, hold down a job), but other areas of their life are suffering severely
I can't watch this! The babies, crawling around on the floor, will have eaten cockroaches or their eggs!
CPS needs to be called in on this one!
And she was 16 when her twins were born. Yikes.
The kind of cockroach that was in the clock are a kind that are really hard to get rid of, they get into appliances and cracks and pest control isn't as effective as it is for other species. Getting things clean is so important, you are a blessing!
@@mieander Yeah I've seen people post photos of their air b&b with them inside the clock. So that's definitely a common thing, how weird.
Are they German Roaches?
@@donnamaco1 Yes. And many times people being "dirty" isn't the cause an infestation is an infestation they would be there even if people didn't live there. But living with roaches like this will have you living in filth after being so exhausted waking up with bugs on you all the time..
They kill the motherboards too. Very annoying
No children should live like that 😢 very sad.
Dog too
theyre not. its clean.
These people are garbage.
As a cleaner and detailer, it looks to me like she is cleaning this house without water or electricity. This lovely lady is amazing. Living in the Caribbean after two Cat7+ hurricanes and having no power for 4 months, I know just how impossible this can be. Auri, you are an angel. Maybe you can follow natural disasters? It could take you to the Caribbean for hurricanes and the Midwest US for tornados, among other places. I send you love, hugs and gratitude for all you do. 🫠🤗😘
This affects the child into adulthood...growing up this way is traumatic, at best. Blessed are those who walk towards people ❤
Where was CPS, with children living like this?! Reading through some of the comments, I totally agree with those who commented to be careful when going into homes and cleaning those homes with infestations 🪳🐀 Like on that television show "Hoarders", those people - Cleaners and Organizers - go into those homes dressed in HazMat suits. And your idea of possibly having Better Help offer their services to the people who are occupying those homes, with Mental Health intervention, is a Great Idea! I Love what you do to help people and I Love watching your videos (you have given me cleaning tips & ideas), but just be careful! God Bless You Auri 💖
Have you looked up the controversies surrounding Better Help?
Omg, those parents should be in jail, disgusting 🫣
Exactly. This is abuse and Sara and Mike are two complete losers.
Where were they 7 years ago when the then 28yo was knocking up a 15yo!!!
Or did I misunderstand that the mom is 22 and the dad is 35 with 6 year old kids?
@natashafletcher600 nope you heard that right, you can tell by the writing on the bathroom wall, this place was disgusting 🫣
She's 22 and had kids with 35 y o man 6 years ago 😮 I hope it was a mistake and she's actually 32
I was looking for someone to comment on this... like WTF
Seriously! Poor girl didn’t have a chance to have a life. Kept seeing wrappers for cigar blunts too….hmmm.
@@lailaes802 😳😳😲😲😨😱😱😱😱😱 I didn't even notice that!!!! OH MY GOODNESS. So she was 16 (give or take a year) and he was 29 (give or take a year).... Wow. Yeah, no.
She said afterwards that they lived there their whole life, so yeah, I believe the mom is actually 32.
I think she was 22 when the kids were born
auri, i deal with a lot of mental issues and dont live in the best home, whenever the house gets bad i watch your videos, they're so inspiring, and they keep me motivated, keep up the amazing work, i love your videos so much !!
💐🎂🍰
I fell down the rabbit hole that is your videos. I literally did a 4 day clean on my bedroom and bathroom. I'm talking sweeping, mopping, disinfecting, dusting, scrubbing. The whole nine. Thank you for your work and thank you for inspiring me to clean. Btw I turn 30 tomorrow!
Happy Birthday Nikki from the Cayman Islands 🇰🇾 🎉
Happy Birthday
Happy Birthday for tomorrow nikki,wish I was 30 again,😅 hope you have a great day.
Happy birthday
Happy 30th Birthday! 🎉🍀🎈🍻
Sami will do anything for you. You need to keep him hes one in a million ❤
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Think they worked things out ❤
@@sewgeekdesigns9113 I wasn’t sure bc I thought her brother is named sami…she’s back with the ex boyfriend?
@LucyOEB her brother is Sandri (something like that, I think)
@@LucyOEB yes they were apart for ?about a year. I think (but not 100%sure )that he may have sold his business to be with Auri more.
The cockroaches inside the oven clock...I SCREAMED.
That stove needs to be tossed immediately! But I'm afraid that probably won't happen. 😭
And I love the word “trashes!”
@@karincampbell9289 Anybody does! My friend is native English speaker and loves it so much.😂
For an non english native it makes sense to add "es" at the end of the word.. There are so many english words who ends with "es". Just like "houses" "beaches" "watches" and so on.
Auri, you have a huge heart!!
Adults can choose to live like this but children have no choice. It’s unacceptable that the children are made to live in this horrific roach infested environment. I hope the pest control company can get this under control for them. Everything in this home is infested and if they moved they should start completely over with nothing from this home.
As a mom of three, bless you for acknowledging the plight of mothers everywhere.
I love the idea of asking Better Help to help these families!
*The fact that you not only cleaned the house but also brought hope and joy to this family is truly admirable. Thank you for what you do!* ❤❤❤
Cockroaches are a very serious infestation. They can cause so many different diseases, some very serious. Really everything in the house needs either throwing or an extreme deep clean. If any of you watch Mack he throws everything contaminated by cockroaches and mice. Auri you should wear a mask and gloves the whole time your health is important.
You are right we should not judge and sounds like the parents are dealing with a lot but they do have a duty of care for the girls so hopefully now they will get pest control in and keep on top of cleaning. I think they are very lucky to not have got sick from contamination. Well done a great clean and thank you for helping them x
Yes, we can judge these people's behavior. No excuse exists for adults allowing children to live in this disease-ridden chaos. None. I don't care how tired they are. Throw away your trash! Clean up after yourself. If they have time to drink all that liquor, they have time to clean.
@@estherwagner6735 a few people have mentioned liquor and you say "all that liquor" I didn't see it, Auri said they drank a lot of energy drinks, where are the liquor bottles?
Those are NOT cockroaches. Cockroaches do not run around like that in groups and not in the daylight. They’re German roaches and very difficult to get rid of. They need a pest control company to continually treat them or they will not go away even in a clean house. They also need DCF to monitor this family.
Auri said they were going to get pest control in to sort it.
German cockroaches are still cockroaches. They are the most common cockroach in the U.S. because they can easily infest restaurants and apartment buildings.
Im from Iceland and I wouldnt go in a house with a cockroaches never ,u are very brave Auri blessings to u sweetheart❤
The answer to your question Auri: the cockroaches went into the walls. You’re a saint, I hope their lovely family gets rid of the roach problem.
You cannot have children and let them live like that. I'm sorry. But children do not deserve the bugs nor the mess. Teach them to clean too
I'm sorry but children don't deserve to live like that in in in in in sex with insects crawling all over them or in that mess I'm sorry but like you got to keep it clean for the children and teach them how to clean too
@@mariamaria2751 you don’t know what the family struggles with and regardless of how they got here Auri is giving them an opportunity for a fresh start. Having 2 small children to look after while you’re struggling to take care of yourself can get out of hand fast, I was lucky enough to have support and help for my issues, but not everyone has that support. Auri doesn’t judge anyone, all she is worrying about is giving this family a new start in life. You shouldn’t judge someone based on how their life looks at their lowest, and shame on you for judging their situation. If you continue to watch her videos you should listen to what she says about the correlation between cleaning and mental health; you would learn quite a lot.
After watching you I've turned from lazy girl into hard working, clean person. Welcome to America, Auricatariina
😊❤
I have to agree, I somehow came across this channel,also Midwest magic cleaning and clean with barbie.and since I started watching my house is spotless.if I see a mark on a wall from my dog I immediately get the CIF out.i have major depression and let things go for a long time just couldn't face it,but since these channels I see a vid and want to get up and clean everything. Not just clean I start making repairs and painting got new flooring and really start being proud of my house again.all thanks to these channels. ❤ From ireland
@@starseedindigo2043this is great, just be careful not to go from one extreme to the next. It does need to clean, but doesn't have to be spotless. ❤
Just in case your situation is one where no one has told you, I’m going to be that person and tell you how freaking proud I am of you! Those are monumental changes that you have made to improve your life and a whole lot of effort! Keep up the good work and have a happy upcoming holiday!
@kukumaku That's Auris Superpower. 🙂 🔥🔥🔥
That “outside” room is called a Florida room. It’s a residential amenity living space addition built onto a home's back or side wall with a roof.
I saw that title and came to read all the comments, LOL. Happy the parents recognized a need for a fresh start and thankful you could make that happen for them. That kind of mess can be so overwhelming and I don't think they'll ever forget that someone cared enough to come in and truly help in a loving way. There are so many people that will sit around judging others but very few who will just roll up there sleeves, jump in, and help.
Auri has certainly rounded up a large group of judgmental people, hasn't she? lol
It is a soulful experience to see a room go from chaos to orderly.
One can imagine the state of mind of the inhabitants who tend to ignore basic necessities of cleaning and hygiene.
I love your videos where you not only support people wanting help, but also try and help them solve their deeper issues ❤❤❤. The world needs many more Aurikatriina in every depressed person's locality ❤
Wow this home hasn’t been cleaned in years😢. Feel sorry for the little girl and pup🐶
God bless you and Sami! Praying you guys are always happy and in love! You are such a kind sweet soul ❤
I really appreciate all te work aurikatarina does to help the people of this house and other houses. Without the help of professionals the house gets back to the old state in no time. I dont know how it works in America but we in the netherlands have mutiple services to call to rapport this family (ggd, veilig thuis) not to punish them but to protect the children. Houses like this are this way because off serious mental issues that are not solved by just talking en cleaning a house. I hope this family can get the help they need!
Auri has stated before that she would never report anyone, that's not her job. She wants it to be safe for people to ask for her help. If people know there's a risk of being reported, they most likely won't ask for help.
@ but she is not really helping these people. Its temporary clean. Within no time the house is dirty again. The use of alcohol is not different. She should take responsebilty or work together with a social worker. This is not helping!
I have been in depression before but never let my house go to this. I feel sorry for these people and pray they get back on track. I Thank God for you sweetie.
Same. I think it’s far worse when alcohol is involved and this looks like a major depression, not a less severe one. I always come to a point when I start to take the clean dishes out of the dishwasher and put them where they belong. Then I put the dirty ones into the dishwasher. I follow up by collecting the garbage from the kitchen counter, put it in the trash bags and bring them outside. Then I do the laundry and collect the dirty clothes from the floors/ couch etc. Sometimes it’s really hard when the depression is pushing me really into the bed but I am a fighter and know my depression is lying to me. We should never listen to it. It’s bare self respect to clean up the mess.
My granddaughter lives in Clovis NM and she could really use your help. My husband and I spent over three weeks there cleaning and she still has a long way to go.
You are a hero... I would scream my life just getting in there
I had no idea you came to the USA, awesome!! Thanks so much for helping, I'm gonna watch thing through.
Have fun!🥰🥰🫶
@@musical_costumer7976 There are more videos she's posted from homes in Florida. You can tell by the American looking sinks and the stoves. But she also says the location in the video.
When I lived with my grandparents we had those big, brown cockroaches for about a year. We were very clean, meticulous and organized. We still had them in our home. Every day we had to check our beds for eggs. Sometimes, in between the box spring and mattress, I would find these little sacks that looked like beans. Once I had a giant cockroach crawl across my face in the middle of the night. After two extermination treatments, my grandparents finally got rid of them before selling the house. Before moving, we combed through everything we owned before packing. For years I had nightmares about bugs crawling on me, waking up terrified. Somehow, I have no issues watching Auri clean while they crawl every where haha!
Yeah, I believe you can still have cockroaches even if it’s pretty clean. They’re apparently drawn in by dark, moist places and in places where there’s plenty for them to eat - such as Kitchens where there’s lots of food debris, for example. Usually, if you don’t leave food debris around, you shouldn’t really have a problem with them - but it’s very difficult to do that, because we can’t exactly see micro particles.
It’s probably likely that you had a nest somewhere without realising or knowing where it was.
Did u live near lots of trees? The giant cockroaches are actually tree cockroaches. Those little cockroaches in the videos are attracted to dirt and food and stuff but those big ones are bc of trees.
@@catrice1296 Just a few trees. We lived in a subdivision behind a dog food plant, and we also kept a tortoise in the back yard. That could have brought them in.
@@catrice1296 Oh, I didn’t know that!
You’re so patient and kind to your families, Auri. The cockroaches live in the walls, as well as beds, furniture, stuffed animals, and piles of trash. Cleaning, removing trash, eating only in the kitchen, and hanging clothes can help. Looks like regular visits from an exterminator may be needed, too.
You can just FEEL the fresh air in the after pictures I love it!
Auri! When you come back to America, please know that Dawn Power wash is highly concentrated. Using it to clean the floor isn't advised, it would take many rinses in order to not leave a sticky residue. Hope this helps!
Sizi Azərbaycandan izləyirem. Bir sozlə möhtəşəm insansınız.❤
Auri, you're amazing! You guys gave new life to a couple, a pair of twins & a precious puppy. God bless you many times over. ❤🙏
I just got a ptsd flashback of my childhood from the cockroaches, oof. It's alright though, thank you Auri for all that you do to help these people. Glad you enjoy doing it as well, also sharing your experiences along the way and everything else with us. It's very motivating having someone else cleaning while you clean.💜
Poor kiddos though, I can imagine how the family feels living in that.
Did you say she's 23 with 6 year old twins and a 35 year old husband ? So she was 17 and he was 29? That's just wrong
Yet it happens all the time.
Most teens pregnancies are by MEN
Wouldn’t that have made her 16 when she got pregnant?
She said 22yrs old, means she got pregnant at 15!
It’s so crazy how the pdf file behaviour was overlooked ….. and you know they didn’t meet when she was 17 and got pregnant .. he probably groomed her since she was 15 and he was 27 that’s just 😶
I want to add that I've been in therapy for years, and as a mom whose story parallels this one to a T, therapy only goes so far. They need community support. They need someone coming into their house once or twice a week and cleaning it for them so they can focus on raising their amazing children. Children with neurodiversity NEED that support more than anything.
Absolutely! Parenting is work, only we don't get paid for it. Or time off. We need help, and when we don't get help, things don't get done.
До этого додумается адекватный человек, а тут алкоголь я так понимаю присутствует. Я не осуждаю, но и не жалею этих людей. Кроме детей, детей всегда жалко, ведь родителей не выбирают .
@@delyda One very good post, and I love you for the word neurodiversity!!! Thank you! These kids are not silly, stupid, crazy or demolished or uneducated and certainly - at least I hope so- ill. They are just another way of Gods creation.
It's a bit expensive to have some come in and clean. Also, based on the age difference , I am guessing there is probably not much support from family
@saraha7632 I agree. And I mean someone to come for free, which I realize is impossible. But that's what they need! They need community support and care.
This one was amazing. Honestly. Idc how it started or what position the parents were in. A fresh start is what they all needed and they really did get it!
Today I cleaned my whole room, it was tiring but the result was worth it. I hate cleaning because I have to touch dirty things, but watching Auri's video gave me the spirit to do it.
I’m glad you moved that heavy safe off that flimsy ikea cabinet Auri - it could have easily fallen on that little girl.
She must have been thrilled with her lovely clean room 😊
Cleaning their home and helping the parents get therapy is a great idea.
Cleaning support, respite care, and therapy for the children will help, too.
Happy Valentine's Day 🎉
I do hope this family enjoy a better life from now on! Thanks, Auri and Sami x
The girl tried to help you clean! So cute❤. With kids and the cute dog, looks like such a cute family though😊. I hope roaches leave them alone!
I'm proud of the parents for reaching out for help. I hope they continue to ask for help in other ways, especially to benefit their children. They all deserve better than this. 🙏🏻
I feel an empathy to the family and really happy they asked for help. People don't know, how it is, when you raise children with special needs. I leaded social sessions with kids with ADHD and after 1,5 hour I was more exhausted than after 10 hours office work. My cousin has ADHD and as a child he was full of energy not able to unload, there was no possibility to focus him for longer time, he played with no thinking about consequences - my aunt and uncle had to keep an eye on him all the time. Thankfully, they lived with grandparents, who were great support. It's vicious circle, because parents mostly try to pay the attention with new toys, but a clutter is overwhelming for sensitive kid's nervous system
It is exhausting being a mom for sure Auri hahah thx for your kindness towards mommys. We really ❤ and appreciate you!
когда я увидела, что у девочки так неряшливо завязаны волосы, я поняла, что их мама нуждается в помощи. спасибо Аури, замечательное видео.
Думаю, тут с первых кадров видео понятно, что мама нуждается в помощи.
I'm amazed the Child Protection services haven't intervened, i can't believe that an outsider hasn't seen the inside of this house and reported the parents. If they don't want to have their kids sent to foster homes, they'd better turn over a new leaf.
1. Get sober 2. call pest control and fumigate that house 3. Don't ever , ever let the place get filthy like that again.
They might be nice people and they're embarrassed and sad about how it got out of hand, but the fact that they've exposed their children to this dysfunction is unforgivable.
@@Pizzageek-jc4xp Yeah someone mentioned seeing blunt wrappers so they might have a substance use disorder.
Nice people can still be bad parents
@@Borderlinegoldenretriever Yes exactly. All the filthy parents I knew when we were kids growing up were actually nice people, but their lice-ridden, malodorous children were teased, bullied, and had horrible conditions to go home to. So sad.
They are both working, as a mechanic and a nurse. I didn't hear any mention of addiction, if it was said I apologise. Life can get out of hand very easily for some people, nobody ever wants to live like that. Pest control will be called to the house, now it's been cleaned.
You just know those kids aren't having play dates. Any guest would call.
I hope they can call the pest control service after your beautiful cleaning, Auri...I would think it will work better... and hopefully keep their home clean!
I kept my house spotless and still got roaches from my neighbor. 2 years of hell and over $2k in pest control on my house. Sadly he passed away, but his house was so badly infested it had to be gutted. I'm sad he passed and sad he lived like that, but boy was I happy to see those little nasty things go. CPS should have been called here in my opinion. No one's perfect, but no kids and animals should have to live like this
I am a worker type person, I could do this (if I had opportunity) but also like to enjoy a party after work lol.
I don’t think you took picture off the wall, in bathroom above toilet. No doubt, there were cockroaches under it.
I did go help clean a place that was 100% worse than this, for cockroaches. With 3 kids. The walls (so dirty), the smell (unbelievably), the mess was something even you couldn’t believe. You shook laundry in basement and they come out of pockets. And one kids bedroom was right beside the laundry room. Any book, cockroaches. Open oven and the cockroaches were everywhere. Pots all over kitchen, with old food and in oven. Took long time to clean it. And, if you know anything about cockroaches, you must have a professional get rid of them so I am glad this owner is getting a professional, after it was done being cleaned.
The police/CPS should have been called immediately! This is child/animal neglect!!!! I know you like to joke about the roaches but they’re dangerous and can make you sick!!!!! Those children and that poor dog do not deserve to live like this!
Then you had the cigarette ashes that were in the cupholder of the couch that could start a fire. And I don’t know if she just accidentally said the wrong age but if that girl is 22 years old and been with him for about 10 years and he’s 35. there may be a lot more going on in this situation.
You do a great service for these families ❤❤❤
I love the way you speak English, your cute giggle, and your sense of humor. I agree the cockroaches are too much!
I love that you do this to help others out. You will be blessed in more ways than one. ❤
If children's services had seen that house those kids would have been removed and put into foster care. That family is so lucky that you stepped in to help them. God bless you Auri.
Auri you are a cleaning angel. I think that recommending better help to the residents and families is a great idea. After you give them clean homes, some may not know how to help themselves mentally.
I started watching your videos awhile back, and honestly the compassion you show and love for what you do is what helps me through cleaning. You do amazing things for people and their families
If you set up a fund to help pay for betterhelp for families, ppl would probably donate. Thank you so much for what you do! You are the best cleaner on TH-cam and I find your videos so inspiring. As a person with adhd, watching you gives me motivation to keep trying. I have gained so much knowledge on products and methods of how to clean by watching you. When I feel overwhelmed you help me to change my mindset about cleaning and not feel alone or ashamed. I actually feel good about cleaning when I watch your videos and hear about how happy you are to clean "trashes" : ). You are awesome and thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Leaving Terro in little squares helps-
Spraying is only a temporary solution
Cleaning helps.
Spraying the whole house should be done once every month or every other month helps. $$ n can’t be too good for their health.
Great job Aurii.
Thank you so much for helping this family Auri. ❤
Sammi is a cutie 😊 he’s a keeper 😃
He isss💖💖💖🥰🥰🥰
@@AurikatariinaI felt shy to ask you this, but are you together? ☺️😊 you two are very kind and hardworking! ❤
@@saranzm2977 Sammi is very cute, but he wants many many children. He really does not approve of a working wife. He does not want her to earn her own money. Eventually this will cause big strife in the relationship.
@@donnamaco1umm how do you know that
@@donnamaco1 You're talking out of your ąss. No Finnish man thinks like that.
Good job but the cochroaches made me feel itchy. Glad they are getting ahold of this problem. I noticed a lot of cleaning are for people in the health industry. I know the job is stressful 😫.
It's amazing how many families buckle under the stressful low wages and relentless pressures at a 9-5 and raising kids they just turn their minds off and start to just live in their own filth most likely turning to drugs and alcohol making it all worse.
Sami’s a keeper, he valiantly fought cockroaches for you on Valentine’s Day!😊
There’s a large age gap between these parents and that might have something to do with the state of the home, if the mom is 22, that means she had kids at 16 and at that point they were already living together and got Peanut. She was a child herself and most likely doesn’t have a clue how to manage a home.
Imo the houses are way too big in the US in general and having such massive houses is not really a plus, there’s more space for kids to mess and it’s harder to keep them clean.
The amount of alcohol bottles everywhere
Yes and their twins were diagnosed with "adhd". Alcohol in the womb can lead to subclinical fetal alcohol symptoms, which are indistinguishable from ADHD. Not to mention growing up with dysfunction and trauma also leads to adhd symptoms.
The hole is the wall as well..😢
Yep!
I love that you have cleaned up another dirty home! Especially with two little girls and a cute little dog living there. The bugs give me the creeps. I would do more running than cleaning I’m afraid. I pray the parents can get some help so this doesn’t happen again.
I am really sorry for saying this Auri..but when you have kids you can take some days off of your work and clean up your mess.
When i see that pile of garbage under people's beds i can understand that they eat or drink stuff and they just throw the garbage on the floor and i cannot get it.
I'm sorry.☹️
So the husband is 35 and the wife is 22. Their kids are 6 years old. You mean to tell me the husband was a father at 29 and the wife was 16 when they had their kids?
Dude, wtf?
If the kid is 6 then he very well could have been with her at 15! Pregnancy takes 9 months 😮
maybe she meant back in the time before this she was 22 as a nurse then they got peanut and now he is 35 with the dog and kids and she looks after them? idk
Love, laughter and cockroaches.😊
They are pigs
I think she was 22 when the kids were born, so now the parents are 28 and 35?
When you start cleaning, you have to take all the furniture out and fight the insects. This is followed by the cleaning stage, then rearranging the furniture. As for the kitchen, you must open the cabinets and take out everything to clean, then put everything back in its place, because cleaning in the presence of insects and furniture is like spreading a rug when the wind is blowing.
We lived in an apartment with a moderate infestation while my first husband was in medical school. Our newborn was so allergic to them that he stayed ill the whole 18 months before we moved elsewhere.
I know they asked for help, but shouldn’t child services still be contacted? Those living conditions should be considered neglect. 😢
Cleanliness may be next to godliness, but sadly it’s not grounds for cdc involvement. 😢
In Florida, everyone who knows children are being abused or neglected is a mandatory reporter, so yes, legally she probably should have contacted child services, but by remediating the house, that would have probably meant case closed, so..
You did a great job! That was a cool way to spend Valentine's Day!
100%
@@cindysmithlucinda6369 Those cockroaches are game-changers. That was a serious infestation and not a safe environment for anyone.
That was so awesome, you are so special. So the glad the kids have a clean house now.
Auri, you sacrificed a lot to help this family. A 5 hour drive! You have such a kind heart ❤️. And you DID give them a fresh start. I hope they get someone to come and help 4 hours per week to help the mom keep up. It's a lovely home once clean and fumigated.
I'm inexperienced in all of this, but, in my mind, it seems logical to have the house sprayed for roaches before the cleaning. Then, you'd be sweeping up and cleaning after dead bugs instead of later finding the dead ones in places like the cleaned toy box, the oven, etc. You did an amazing job on this house. I'm so happy for the little girls. Your idea of approaching "Better Help" about helping these people sounds like a great match.
Clean with barbie has just done a house clean where all dead cockroaches were there I think the house had just been dominated so barbie went in to clean it all up and she did a fantastic job,she was clearing them all away,I think she had been at this particular house a few times in the same week as the authorities gave this young woman a whole week to clean it up so she could get her 2 yr old son back and according to barbie at the end she did say she got him back.but she has cleaned other houses with big cockroaches in too alive ones they was you could see them running all over.
@@christinegill3425 - Yes! That's exactly what I thought of when I saw this.
On day 2, I believe, Barbie went in and they'd all been exterminated overnight. She ended up just sweeping and cleaning them all away.
Auri you crack me up! While you're saying hello to the Cockroaches I would have been screaming like a little girl running out of there as quickly as possible! 😂😂😂😂
I love doing housework, cleaning especially, I find this video very motivational :)
This clean will help in more ways than one. Kids with ADHD benefit greatly from having an organised home, in addition to love, structure and discipline. When they are given (important) jobs, like cleaning, it helps them to feel good and it’s less stressful and chaotic for them to live in.
They are also not so quick to mess it up when they know they have to clear it up afterwards
I was thinking living in that environment has to have made the girls ADHD worse 🥺🥺Hopefully they can keep the apt clean and deal with the roaches. It would probably take a few months since they are inside the appliances and walls.
I had German roaches about a year ago because they got out from the sink. Gosh It's so difficult to really destroy them. I asked an roaches company to come 3 times. And still 1 whole year after I still find 1 or 3 per month.
Twice a year I'll bring the company for treatment repeat.
You are so right!
The best thing the parents can do is get the children involved in cleaning help to release a lot of energy
You are just an amazing human being. Your lack of judgement and positivity is so refreshing.
Το βασίλειο της κατσαρίδας τι κρίμα. Μπράβο Αρικαταρινα για την δουλειά σου.
Hopefully you don't miss them too much. Cockroach eggs can attach themselves to your shoes when you walk in an infested house. Make sure to either stamp your shoes when you leave or throw them away. Also, putting plastic over your shoes is a smart idea, this can prevent that from happening. Otherwise you WILL be seeing them again. And what others here said is correct. Being in a trashed house like this could make you sick, please use protective gear like an N95 mask. That mold on the ceiling (if that's what it was) was alarming.
Take care Auri!
Parenting is definitely the hardest yet most rewarding thing I’ve ever done :)
I understand mental illness keeping many from the ability to keep a clean home. But anyone can carry the trash out, especially when they know the cockroaches are caused from the trash. They can throw away bad food, and take bags to the trash can. I appreciate your videos, and always get up and clean something after watching your videos. I bought scrub daddy, scrub mommy, pink stuff, power paste, squeegee, all after watching you! I have to have a clean bathroom and kitchen!
Me and my 4 years old kid very like to watch your videos together..
Whenever he throw trash not in a good place i always said.. oo i need to call aurikatarina here..
And he said no mom dont, i can throw this trash to the bin by my self..
😂😂😂
hahahhahahha this made my laugh out loud!!!!
Lol 😂
1:30 The Hello Kitty mirror is a really nice item to keep! 😊✨ Can't help checking out items, I sell all sorts of vintage things 😃 Those houses have really tons of things- even too many! 😯
Auri you are so sweet and non judgmental that it amazes me. To me the parents are irresponsible and social services should be called. Yes, twins are hard but come on, tons of children have ADHD, it's annoying but doesn't justify even remotely amount of trash in there.
By the amount of alcohol bottles in the kitchen, I suspect the reason is very different..
To me the house was surprisingly not that dirty. The main issue is the cockroaches, which your house has to be super clean to have an exterminator come in. Also I'm pretty sure that was a bottle collection, which I don't think they probably wanted thrown away. While I agree that there are times kids should be taken away, this is probably not the situation. If they can get the cockroaches killed I guarantee they'll find things a lot easier to manage.
My parents have 3 kids with Autism. My mom is a neat freak! Our house was always clean and no animals inside
If the kids have ADHD, chances are one of the parents does as well.
@ I was thinking this too. If both kids have it, it's very likely both adults might have it too, because of the genetic component. A lot of people will struggle all their life not knowing they have it, the parents might benefit a lot with an evaluation themselves.
@@evanaftonexotic9878 Nothing wrong with a pet inside, you just have to tend to them like they are a child and clean after them also.