TOP 3 THAI GIRLFRIEND SCAMS TODAY IN PHUKET THAILAND AUG 3 2022

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  • 5 Thai girlfriend scams in Thailand today!!!!
    everyday it seems that guys are getting scammed here on Phuket of their life savings...... here are just three of the top ways that the girls are padding their purses,,,,

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  • @WocPaul1
    @WocPaul1 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Never paid up for the sick family member scam, but had a few girls back in the day try it. That’s not to say I never got scammed, but learned early and quickly and didn’t lose too much. Very good video. Compulsory viewing for any single dude coming to Thailand. Thx.

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks Paul maybe if you wouldn't mind sharing this ,,,,,,,,,,,,
      Cheers Mate

    • @Ben__P
      @Ben__P ปีที่แล้ว

      @garry davies are the majority of visitors to Thailand from USA?

    • @rishiout5233
      @rishiout5233 ปีที่แล้ว

      I paid for a lump in her sisters breast but I don’t believe it now

  • @allen9129
    @allen9129 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    You are Brutally Honest. Its so cool to hear someone tell the truth. HATS OFF TO YA

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks dude I really appreciate that,,, maybe you can share the channel with your friends!
      :)
      Cheers Mate!

  • @dmann7004
    @dmann7004 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Never enough of these “beware the scam” videos but yours are clear and drive the message home. Unfortunately, some guys IMHO seem to want to be scammed where the little brain takes over. Up to them - perhaps they need the attention - but no real excuses for ignorance thanks to your efforts. Well done mate, and you have my subscription 🍺

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks Mann
      I appreciate the compliment and the follow!
      And yeah too many think with the little guy!
      Cheers Mate

    • @happyslave6783
      @happyslave6783 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Takes two to tango. Post holiday blues get so bad that guys go along with the scam knowingly.

  • @lawrencelawrence3920
    @lawrencelawrence3920 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Been in Thailand a number of times, been scammed, had fun, paid for it. I only give what I can afford to lose. I have a limit. Then I return home and work and easily make up what I lost. Life is short, explore it even if we get scammed but set your limits.

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      and that's the trouble is that most of the guys that are here just don't know what their limits are and they're unable to protect themselves!!!!
      you have to remember a lot of guys come here because they can't meet women back home women won't give them the time of day back home and it's not like you can go buy one back home like you can here let's face the facts....
      so yes if you're lucky enough to be like yourself and know your limits and be able to stop yourself fantastic come here enjoy yourself as much as you possibly can then go home....
      But if you're one of these guys that has low self-esteem that has a problem with their own self-worth and they feel the need to come here and get into a transactional relationship where they're paying some woman to pretend that she loves him....
      It can be emotionally and financially bankrupting!!!
      And that's the sad reality that happens to so many men here
      Thanks for watching and commenting
      Cheers Mate 🍺🍺🍺

  • @damienohagan8550
    @damienohagan8550 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Congratulations Mark your channel is finally being recognised by others those of us who have been with you the the early days always realised that you are informative funny etc well done Sir 👍👍👍

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow, thank you
      Yes you've been a sub for a long time Damien and I really appreciate the support!
      Hopefully you'll keep watching!
      Cheers Mate!

    • @damienohagan8550
      @damienohagan8550 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean absolutely you are one of the best vloggers out there Mark 👍

    • @dealerslicenseops
      @dealerslicenseops ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@damienohagan8550 Most underrated Thailand channel out there. Keep up the great work Doc!

  • @ThaiLife2122
    @ThaiLife2122 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Yup - I got the "daughter in an accident" 3 weeks ago leaving a pedestrian on his death bed. The rent scam was a week before. Dont let yourself be a victim. Just to get her out of my room (before the "beat me" scam could start) I told the girl I would help with 20,000 but had to send money from home bank to Thailand. Then she stopped crying and asked how long it would take. To beat the scam you have to be a bit of a scammer yourself and outsmart them. Nice video - subscribed!

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว

      BEST COMPLIMENT OF THE DAY,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, AND YES I MEANT TO USE CAPS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
      Cheers Mate

    • @jimmydempsey6857
      @jimmydempsey6857 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Reading your story Living Thailand about the daughter brought a tear to my glass eye.

  • @allen9129
    @allen9129 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this is total honesty........very much appreciated

  • @williamconquest5066
    @williamconquest5066 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great information.. thanks so much and it’s so fun to hear you explain it..

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว

      You are so welcome!
      Thank you for the compliment.
      Hopefully you'll check out some of my other videos!
      Cheers!

  • @chadchivrell2606
    @chadchivrell2606 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Everything you're saying is 100% true i hope any guys planning to go to Thailand listen to your vlogs and take heed and beware... i was living in Pattaya 10 years ago and got married to a beautiful Thai lady and was actually living there for two years working as a seaman in America California USA and when i came back from a four month tour she was already gone...she met another American tourist from Colorado USA and left me... unbelievable... after I went back to the states broken hearted she would call me sometimes asking me for some money because she said her brother had gotten into a motorbike accident and needs to pay for is hospital bill...
    Wow that whole thing really messed me up until this day .. be careful man... And listen to this guy here on this utube channel... he's telling you like it is... Thumps up to him...

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey lesson man thanks for having the courage to share your story...
      it is so sad when you hear something like that man I feel for you I really do..
      Cheers Mate 🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺
      Here is a bunch of beers you deserve them

  • @jfresko10
    @jfresko10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    great vid my dude. frist one I seen. I'm glad your putting out these raw no bs info. vids about thailand for new comers

    • @jfresko10
      @jfresko10 ปีที่แล้ว

      This also happens in the D.R. as well, Dominican woman are ruthless and persistent, they do view kindness as weakness.

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're welcome
      Thanks for watching
      Hopefully you'll catch the next one I am doing this week
      Cheers

  • @philhunt2797
    @philhunt2797 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your on fire buddy! Best advice I’ve ever got from a dr

  • @zoltanl8056
    @zoltanl8056 ปีที่แล้ว

    3rd video i watched from you, and you are telling it as it is, as i too see it happening here the last 20 yrs, first hand. Dr. Mark, you got a new subscriber! :)

  • @texasruss
    @texasruss ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video! Very informative and spot on from my experiences. Every man needs to see this before he gets off the plane. Get smart or go broke.

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's shocking how many guys fall for these and how many of the girls keep using them
      Lol
      Cheers Mate 🍺🍺🍺

  • @chrismiles8297
    @chrismiles8297 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Whether it's Western women or Asian women, it still going to cost you either way.
    I got cleaned out by my Western wife and it took me 10 years to get back on my feet again.

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sorry man it sucks!
      But this is for the guy that thinks a girlfriend, especially a Thai GF that is 30-35 years younger and hot as F is free!
      Cheers

    • @philipnguyen3107
      @philipnguyen3107 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      In America there is no such thing as a free lunch. My life hasn't been the same since the accident. The one where my finger got stuck in that wedding ring.🤑😭

  • @nigelbaker2717
    @nigelbaker2717 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Hi Mark!
    After visiting Thailand for 3 times a year since 1986, I'm constantly amazed how many times I hear of guys getting their heartbroken. As for me, I don't have a heart, I have a swinging brick. I don't buy them a drink. I don't pay bar fines, I arrange a meet either at the end of business or even the following day. I tell them this is only short time and you get 500 thb.
    I always, with regard to the sympathy tricks, tell them that the best place to find sympathy is in the dictionary between s..t syphilis. I leave them, go find another.
    The joy of having a swinging brick. 😂😉

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว +11

      lol
      I spit out my beer reading this!
      Great one!
      Cheers Nigel thanks for watching!
      You were actually one of my first subscribers..... I really appreciate that!

    • @nigelbaker2717
      @nigelbaker2717 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean Lol! I'll be in Patong 10/9/22-20/9/22.
      If you swing by the Orange Restaurant/Bar (soi R-marr), I'll stand you that beer.
      When I get my Thai number, I'll drop you my Line details. In the meantime, good job mate.

    • @godiamkrae8045
      @godiamkrae8045 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lol 🧱

    • @philipnguyen3107
      @philipnguyen3107 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      In America it called pay as you go. Or a fancy way to say disposable sex. Smart man🙊👍🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

    • @jimmydempsey6857
      @jimmydempsey6857 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I'm very similar your not obliged to buy anyone a drink and the freelancers are much cheaper and just as hot ! 👍

  • @Referee006
    @Referee006 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I believe that many guys go to Thailand for a week or two for fun only but find the "woman of their dreams" and fall in love with her and then get scammed because of their feelings for her. The best thing that guys going to Thailand or being anywhere else in the world can do for themselves is watch your videos, period.

  • @philipnguyen3107
    @philipnguyen3107 ปีที่แล้ว

    More than awesome video. Thanks for posting.

  • @markshaw4190
    @markshaw4190 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Mark another life skills video mate keep all the good information coming and you've got the best life how to join you soon cheers

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว

      Welcome aboard!
      Listen life is great here if you're smart about it!
      Cheers Mate
      looking forward to grabbing a beer someday

  • @mikewakefield9547
    @mikewakefield9547 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    As I commented on your previous video, I fell for the hospital scam. As for the babysitter scam - How about being asked for rent AND to pay an expensive childminder back home, so she can be with you. I did kick her out when the costs began to spiral, but I wish I had seen your video before I came to Patong. I like to think I'll be much wiser next time (probably not!).

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm doing my best to educate!
      Hopefully you'll make out easier next time as you'll be that much more prepared!
      Good Luck
      Cheers and thanks for watching!

  • @michaeljenkins2294
    @michaeljenkins2294 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Enjoy the videos! Does the place you are renting offer short term rentals? I’m interested in checking it out. Thanks

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes they do!
      Michael they offer everything from daily, weekly to monthly.
      I am sure if yo asked they would do a year here!
      Great place I love it.
      Super nice neighbors
      Awesome location
      Cheers Mate!

    • @makeyourlifeeasier5794
      @makeyourlifeeasier5794 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great video. I was told once " Women reach in their toolbox loaded with tools, to con the many men who are fools." Tread carefully guys & watch your back.

  • @morganlake41632
    @morganlake41632 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    After our book "Love, Sex and Trust" was published in Thailand and many of the girls we knew in Patong read it or had it translated...Half of the girls were angry at us for revealing their scams, the other half thanked us for giving new ideas...

  • @rethairedinasia
    @rethairedinasia ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think we all got scammed at one point, Years ago i had a girl from the village come on holiday , Had a lovely two weeks then I went home. She went to Bkk instead of going to Buriram. Next visit a few months later we were going by taxi to Koh Chang, She was asleep in the back and her phone kept pinging so i opened it, Messages from two guys saying how much the loved being with her. Wake up time. Confrontation time. I stopped the taxi. Paid the guy, Gave her 1000 baht told her to get her own way home.. Last time ive KNOWINGLY been conned. Good fun channel mate. I'm liking it

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh man that is a brutal one!
      The advice I give a lot of the guys I meet is don't ever check her phone if you are interested in the truth!
      lol
      Sad but sage advice!
      Thanks for sharing and thanks for watching
      Hope you continue to follow me.
      Cheers Mate

    • @rethairedinasia
      @rethairedinasia ปีที่แล้ว

      @@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean I was just confirming what I already surmised. But its better to find out early rather than these fools throwing money at them,

    • @propellerhead2000
      @propellerhead2000 ปีที่แล้ว

      Where did you meet said "girl from the village"?

  • @Joergenator
    @Joergenator ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I have seen it all, I have tried it all and as you correctly say especially for the bar girls and freelancers, they are gonna suck you dry if you let them. I have dated bar girls and massage girls and freelancers and sometimes you just get caught up in their beauty and charm and cuteness and you just know you are being run over. I have spent countless money in the past. But then 7 years ago I met my present wife here in Thailand and it changed everything. And we have a son together and living a quiet family life without drama. So it is possible to find love here, but definitely not in a bar, freelancers and shady massage parlors. Make sure they have a "proper" job and date them like equals. I know it's not easy but seek and you shall find. I know many happy mixed couples in Thailand so it can be done 😁

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey Jorgen thanks for sharing your success story!
      That is awesome man congrats!
      See boys it can happen!
      Cheers Mate!

    • @Joergenator
      @Joergenator ปีที่แล้ว

      @@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean You're welcome mate 🤩

  • @johnjury4334
    @johnjury4334 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    If you hunt in the bars you will get scammed, from experience. Have learned my lesson. I am now dating a career women, own house and money. Not a mention of wanting anything. More mature beautiful lady. Look in the jewelry box not the trash can.

  • @miosylvester225
    @miosylvester225 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video, thanks Doc, like being punched in the gut by a drill sgt to make you stronger and wiser!

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว

      That is the plan to educate the newbies so that they don't get that gut punch because it is a brutal reality when you get here and see what it's really like!!!
      Cheers

  • @michaelaxford7257
    @michaelaxford7257 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bang on advice Mark I have done silly things learned a lot over 30 plus years of going to Thailand obviously keep your guard take a big over view of everything because many things are not what they seem

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is one of those magical mystical places where nothing is what it seems at all
      Thank you for watching and commenting
      Cheers Mate 🍺

  • @ioannisdaras1870
    @ioannisdaras1870 ปีที่แล้ว

    very good video and information!!!

  • @katana2665
    @katana2665 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nicely done.

  • @josegarcia3316
    @josegarcia3316 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for your tips!!!!!

  • @robertjosan
    @robertjosan ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good for you for telling it like it is men need to hear the truth

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว

      hey Robert I hope you'll check out some of my other content I do do some fun travel stuff but I'm also trying to help guys that are coming here understand what it's like what happens and how to protect themselves
      Thanks for watching and commenting
      Cheers Mate 🍺

  • @naresrit
    @naresrit ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So right on the money my friend, thanks for sharing.

  • @robertlemoine3500
    @robertlemoine3500 ปีที่แล้ว

    Heh Mark Thankyou for your insight.diggin the program.

  • @quantumallure5479
    @quantumallure5479 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Funny AS great video

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Really glad you enjoyed the video thank you so much for watching it and taking the time to comment
      Cheers mate 🍺

  • @thisweekbestvalueapartment
    @thisweekbestvalueapartment ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really like the way you speak and tell your stories 🤣🤣😅

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks I really appreciate the comment!
      Would love to share some of your content!
      Cheers!

    • @thisweekbestvalueapartment
      @thisweekbestvalueapartment ปีที่แล้ว

      @@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean Youre one of the good ones 😀 Funny and interessting to see your videos! Keep up the good work 😀

  • @joeuwest489
    @joeuwest489 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really appreciate the tips; we all. Gots to know

  • @TravelChanelBangkokThailand
    @TravelChanelBangkokThailand ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing 😊👌🤠

  • @ChrisSmith-mh6vk
    @ChrisSmith-mh6vk ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yep. Got caught on a variant of the baby sitter scam. ..."Her couldn't look after the kid anymore, so needed money for babysitter or would go back to village" Good one.( I said, maybe it time you are a true mum, and go back to village..!!!)

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว

      This one I have a buddy here dealing with it right now!
      I am actually adding it to my Part II follow up this week!
      Cheers

  • @M_Ladd
    @M_Ladd ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great job! Thank you very much! Why woman behind you, hate you?

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว

      She heard my topic and my opinion on the subject!
      LOL
      Oh well,,,, we won't be going for Pad Thai any time soon!
      Cheers Mate

  • @NissanR33Ztune
    @NissanR33Ztune ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Gold.... well done....

  • @konixtwenty8275
    @konixtwenty8275 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Every single thing you said is exactly right on. 100% true

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks man I really appreciate that and hopefully you'll catch some of my other videos about scams and all of the craziness that goes on here in Thailand.
      Thanks for watching and commenting

  • @joenewontheblock2404
    @joenewontheblock2404 ปีที่แล้ว

    100% correct! Cheers🍻🍻

  • @donpardo1
    @donpardo1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😂you’re vlog is very funny and confirming my opinions , being an older hetero white man and smitten with you know what…. I subscribed! Keep up the humorous way you dish it up to us Homer Simpson’ s Dumbas….doooh!!

  • @peanuthead1397
    @peanuthead1397 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Did you buy that shirt on Bangla road towards the beach end ?

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey Adam , actually I got this one on TWO HUNDRED YEAR ROAD, there is a shop I go to there to get my shirts.
      200 Baht been buying from him since I arrived.
      I am doing a video this week about shopping on and off Bangla!
      Cheers Mate

    • @peanuthead1397
      @peanuthead1397 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean Cool Mark. There is a clothing shop on Bangla rd where the owner is from Miramar that sells high end sport clothing like yours. My Under Armour shirt like yours was 300 bhat tho. If I were you,I would join Hero Fitness Pa-Tong. The owner is from Sweden. Thanks for the videos. Adam from Buffalo New York

  • @julian_1111
    @julian_1111 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Every interaction with a Thai woman is a transactional situation. Half the time I’m doing a hobby, reading in coffee shop or in my apartment.

  • @bryanlonger8646
    @bryanlonger8646 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good work

  • @nealsmith1083
    @nealsmith1083 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Man, you r gold

  • @hestonhutaue1214
    @hestonhutaue1214 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very good advice for young singles that travel there 😆. Love struck by a girl there

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว

      Sadly it's not so much the young guys, believe it or not they're smarter it seems that the older guys that should know better!!!
      Thanks for watching and commenting
      Cheers Mate 🍺

  • @thia1963
    @thia1963 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are correct, but they still won't listen !

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh you're right about that sadly enough most people have to learn things on their own!
      As they say you can lead a horse to water,,,,,
      Cheers

  • @xaviero7715
    @xaviero7715 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are right!!

  • @louisromano3961
    @louisromano3961 ปีที่แล้ว

    Question, once they bring up the scam is it over? Or do they just hit you up later?

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว

      Do you mean if they get you with one of these scams is it over they're not going to scam you again????.
      Hell No!
      If you fall for the first scam they know that they've got a whale on the line and they will just start milking you every chance they get
      Sad but true
      Cheers

  • @tman46544
    @tman46544 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Is the girl at the beginning of the video the same one by the pool behind that hates you the same?

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LOL
      No Timmy, the girl at the beginning is a friend of mine that did a few voice clips for me that I use in different videos.
      I am hoping she doesn't hate me!
      I woman in the video by the pool, she hears my thoughts on the current topic and isn't too impressed with my honesty let's say!
      LOL
      Oh well!
      Cheers Mate!

  • @modern.performer
    @modern.performer ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The amount of absolute *SIMPS* out there is staggering! I pity all of them but I appreciate you trying to warn the brightest amongst them 🤝🏼

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I try my best
      Look not all guys are Simps sadly some are just lonely
      Thanks for watching and commenting.
      Cheers Mate 🍺

  • @davidkane9657
    @davidkane9657 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Top Stuff👍

  • @brerrabbit4265
    @brerrabbit4265 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The dying family member is the #1 reason that I wouldn't get involved in a relationship there. Even if they really are sick, do you really want to be the guy that is expected to pay for medical bills, funerals, leaky roofs and sick farm animals? Cmon, really? Here's the kicker. If you are married to her and you do not pay these bills and the family member dies, they will blame you because you could have helped but didn't. From that point on, anything that you have done for them prior will be forgotten and anything that you do for them after that will be owed to them. You can't win in that situation.

  • @tripore
    @tripore ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks.

  • @horacecomegna335
    @horacecomegna335 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Simple fix:
    You tell her that YOU just received a phone call before you met her today that YOU had a SICK family member that needed help! 🤣🤣🤣
    That you already sent money to and would NOT be able to help her out.
    Even a Gold Digging Thai lady wouldn’t expect you to NOT pay for YOUR sick family member, in lieu of paying for her sick family members medical issues.
    Just reflect the EXACT issues they bring to you right back on them every time! After a few weeks the butterfly will be running away from you! 🤣🤣🤣

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว

      this is great advice if guys could take it but the sad truth of it is guys won't listen to what you're saying guys can't do what you're saying
      Cheers Mate 🍺🍺

  • @lancewright2518
    @lancewright2518 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As the saying goes. "" a hard D. Has no conscience ""....have the attitude of "" Loyal to fun...attached to none""... keeps you safe everytime....peace brother!!!

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I should get that on a T-Shirt and start selling my own merch!
      I'll give ya a cut
      LOL
      Cheers Mate!

  • @gooblio
    @gooblio 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That Thai girlfriend experience that was there 20 plus years ago is long gone.
    Even twenty years ago I remember one girl talking to a boyfriend back in the UK, while she was in bed with me.
    Don't get scammed guys, learn to say no and remember to most of the girls you're just a walking ATM. 😅

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      it's absolutely crazy I watched girls sit there with five different phones mate talking to five different guys in an evening getting money from all of them while they were back home working their asses off and she was getting ready to go out for short time loving

  • @christopher480
    @christopher480 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow you got ripped off alot eh.....thanks for the info.

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      no I actually Christopher what I'm doing is I have interviewed between 3 and 500 men here on Phuket Island alone and I'm sharing stories trying to educate people and show exactly what happens here how guys lose their money how easily they lose their money
      I'm releasing another scam video here in a couple of days hopefully I'll catch that one.
      Cheers

  • @petermykichuk3714
    @petermykichuk3714 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes I had a girl send me a hospital visit and requested money. Never did get sucked in all thanks to watching videos like this

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว

      Awesome Peter!!!
      Sadly not enough guys are watching these and learning from others mistakes!!
      Cheers Mate

  • @drdr76
    @drdr76 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good video. I've been here 13 months on Phuket and can attest to what you say. I know that resort;south end of Patong right?

  • @virilman818
    @virilman818 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Then where did u find nice girls over there in which area bcoz same situ in Malaysia n here filpinos doong the same practice

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You can find them in hotels or at the shopping mall, restaurants are a good place as well.
      Also if you're young enough university.
      Cheers

  • @tayloralvidrez4342
    @tayloralvidrez4342 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for the info! Subed
    Im heading there next, no actually, THIS year. Hopefully to bring home a lucky lady. I do have a question... In my mind, it's the dream of every young foreign woman to come to America. Finding a man that wants to "make her dreams come true", is exactly what they are looking for.
    Is that true?

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not exactly no...... you'll find some freelancers who are willing to do it if you pay them enough, but brother you better have a crap load of money and a hell of a lot of game if you think you're gonna keep her once she gets to Arizona or anywhere else,,,,,
      That dream thing isn't reality bro....
      The whole Passport Bro thing is bullshit if you're coming for that....
      Like I said come, have fun
      Go home alone
      Repeat
      If you're lucky to meet one that is not a professional it will take you a long time and a lot of effort to win her over......

    • @tayloralvidrez4342
      @tayloralvidrez4342 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      Thank you
      You kinda shattered my dreams, LoL,
      But it's better to know that that is rare.

    • @tayloralvidrez4342
      @tayloralvidrez4342 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean do you have any eastern European experience? Those women are beautiful. I'm still debating Bulgaria or Thailand.

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Come to Thailand and see for yourself, but learn enough talk to enough guys so that you are prepared,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, then PROTECT YOURSELF!

  • @randallanderson4560
    @randallanderson4560 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Tell them you're not my wife, so that is your concern. That could possibly end those scams real quick, and not make you look like a jerk.

  • @ricochete5875
    @ricochete5875 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    words for the newbies!

  • @megret1808
    @megret1808 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Variations abound. Had one tell me it was her 18th birthday. I said, happy birthday

  • @gloofisearch
    @gloofisearch ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Haha, love that analysis "There is nothing stupider than a man when it comes to women".... so true;-)

  • @fcruz43215
    @fcruz43215 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Curious. Why does that lady behind you hate you?

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Because she hears the video that I'm doing and she's not overly impressed with me talking about the scams!
      Lol
      Cheers

  • @mgvikings1484
    @mgvikings1484 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Well, as always nice to the point vlog. If we look at "us men" regarding our "addictin" to women, it can and will, happen all over the world. For me the "Thai way" is way more honest than many of you think. They go straight forward in "milkng you" and at least you enjoy what you pay for, for a time. In western cultures many many women behave EXACT like the same. just, they do it in a way more hidden way. At the end you still pay, you still do other things, and they still get as much out of you as they want. And in the west you do not get "a reward" for your efforts, you get blackmalied if you don't pay and obey....Of course beware of scams...cheers man, keep going and stay safe and healthy.

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Awesome commentary!
      Total truthful!
      There is something about the Thai Way that, as long as you are aware and understand it, works!
      Cheers Mate

    • @wahoofan222
      @wahoofan222 ปีที่แล้ว

      @MG Vikings In the west the scam is called Marriage!

    • @0Turbox
      @0Turbox ปีที่แล้ว

      I never met a woman who wanted money from me.

  • @moideenp7616
    @moideenp7616 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good information my friend, appreciate you. I am an Indian, 60+ years old. I didn't visit Thailand yet. I wish to visit Thailand especially Phuket, Pattya and Bangkok. Could you please advise me recommended hotels and few girls to spend couple of weeks there?

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Phuket is the place to be my friend!
      The Tony Resort in Patong is a great choice.
      Super location nice rooms good pool area and fantastic price!
      As for companionship if you want to email me I can give you some names
      tastytravel4u@gmail.com

    • @moideenp7616
      @moideenp7616 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great, I shall email you shortly

  • @tinoros3112
    @tinoros3112 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey 👋🏽 Sir thank you for the warning 💲🚨 we are known to be called their bank we can be soft LoL

  • @jocko_
    @jocko_ ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video, thanks. Thai bar girls are so damn addicting.

  • @boricuabro
    @boricuabro ปีที่แล้ว

    Hahahahahahaha you're the best, dude...

  • @ma3stro681
    @ma3stro681 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Never had the sick family scam laid on me ...

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว

      it's funny actually because I'm working on another video and there's a derivative to this and that's the sick buffalo scam

  • @jonknee7287
    @jonknee7287 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hilarious but so true. I have fallen for the lot!! Have recently promised to buy the Thai gf a couple of calves for her farm as she lives in the Provinces, so looking forward to to the "sick cow 🤮 🐮" scam in the coming year or two 😢.. 🙄 (Probably a scam about the calf buying too come to think of it 🤔)!

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh My!
      How much is the calf???????????????
      I've heard horror stories!!!
      Good luck

    • @jonknee7287
      @jonknee7287 ปีที่แล้ว

      Originally... 30,000 baht. But it goes up every time we have a chat about it!
      As we will be discussing the subject at least 3 more times before I arrive there at the end of September(at an estimated 5,000 baht increase special farang tax per conversation ), I can confidently predict that the final price, exclusive of delivery and surcharges, will be at least 45,000 baht 😢.... 🙄 😂!!!

    • @jimmydempsey6857
      @jimmydempsey6857 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jonknee7287 U must be loaded Jon !

    • @michaelhession8235
      @michaelhession8235 ปีที่แล้ว

      I mate wake up !!

  • @trungpham9763
    @trungpham9763 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can u do a video on how much for a boom boom on walking street or soi street? 😜🤙

  • @theopinion9452
    @theopinion9452 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Good thing I am a 'cold as ice' bastard...Anything that any woman tries that involves waking up my dead conscience means that is a scam,end of the story.

  • @stegura83
    @stegura83 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    One of the more comical things is how quickly Thai girls will become attached to you and latch themselves on to you. I call it the 3 day rule. If you take the same girl out on a date (whether it's to the beach, out for dinner, to the movies, nightlife etc.) 3 or more days in a row she will automatically assume she is your new long-term gf. She will then become very attached to you and become super jealous of other girls.

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      100%
      Or how fast they tell you how much the love you etc etc etc
      You can see hoe guys with lower self-esteem get trapped so easily.
      Know the game guys!
      Cheers Mate

    • @ActiveAussie2024
      @ActiveAussie2024 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I lived in Asia for a long time, in China, HK, and Thailand ( BKK, but also spent a lot of time in Pattaya) I agree with all points in this video. A lot of Asian gals ( not just Thai) are great, and fun to be with, but men need to use common sense and don't just believe anything they say.
      The comment about jealousy is true also. Some Thai and also Chinese women can become very jealous to the point of violence, and it's happened before.
      Marriage especially is a very bad idea in 2022, I think men should avoid long term relationships altogether, you can have a Thai GF, but don't spend too much money on her. If she becomes too greedy just ditch her, cut your losses early on. And never buy houses or cars for these gals, I can't believe stupid men still do this.

    • @jimmydempsey6857
      @jimmydempsey6857 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's probably an act the " super jealous" number to try and make u think the relationship is more important than it really is.

    • @adnandzindosoda
      @adnandzindosoda 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It is not only for normal girls. I paid sex 3 times to freelancer. She became jelous on other girls. One night she saw me with another girl and her mom start to attack me because her daughter cry. Lol

  • @brettchun38
    @brettchun38 ปีที่แล้ว

    spot on as everything i already know from being there 6 months per year in the past,after a while if your not as cold or street wise or dont have your guard up at all times thats when you get popped

  • @cryptomgtow3928
    @cryptomgtow3928 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    grown adult Thai family members with no health insurance. every month some random monetary emergency

  • @glaubhafieber
    @glaubhafieber ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Stupid shit like this happened to me, too. But luckily i met more good people than bad ones. I’m a happy single and don’t need a gf and I’m still here 😂

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awesome glad to see you're enjoying your time and not getting scammed
      Cheers
      Thanks for watching

  • @stevekostakis2983
    @stevekostakis2983 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    KAPOW....Bang On.

  • @samuelmendoza8585
    @samuelmendoza8585 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The truth hurts, but it is what it is

  • @BCBTC2012
    @BCBTC2012 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    hahaha you are funny hahah longer than 2 minutes hahaha

  • @jkgoogle5185
    @jkgoogle5185 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why do you put the title 'Dr' before your name???

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว

      Dr Mark Sabean came from a parody video I did on Facebook that went viral
      I was making fun of the the fact that everyone because an infectious disease specialist or Doctor overnight during the hieght over thw pandemic on Facebook.
      People loved it and started asking me to do more from " Dr Mark" so it kinds stuck
      Cheers

  • @KIR23679
    @KIR23679 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lol @ longer than 2 minutes 😂

  • @chuckholmes9125
    @chuckholmes9125 ปีที่แล้ว

    He is right

  • @ChrisSmith-mh6vk
    @ChrisSmith-mh6vk ปีที่แล้ว +2

    And another new scam...Urgent dental care.!!!
    It goes like this, terrible toothache, need to go to dentist...can I have 3000B. Yep, you say. Then there's terribly sad news she's got one or five root canals. Needs urgent surgery... at least 20ks a tooth... The expression on the cutie's face while explaining this terrible news, was worthy of an Academy Award.
    ( I said OK, I'll with you to the dentist and get him to explain why he's charging twice the going rate for Thailand... of course it was all BS )

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey Chris mind if I use this in a video?
      This is a totally new one that I've not heard before!
      Cheers Mate

    • @ChrisSmith-mh6vk
      @ChrisSmith-mh6vk ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean Feel free. Gotta love the Thai women they very creative.

  • @sehtabhossain
    @sehtabhossain ปีที่แล้ว

    So what will be the way to get a long-term relationship in Thailand?

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Retirement Visa,,,,,

    • @sehtabhossain
      @sehtabhossain ปีที่แล้ว

      @@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean That may be a solution. What will be the solution if a man wants to take her to his home country?

  • @stegura83
    @stegura83 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    One of the best things about Thai girls is how well they age. Thai women can still be smoking hot until their mid to upper 40's. (Even the ones who have had kids). They just age better then western women and they hit "the wall" much later in life. Once had a coworker accuse me of pedophilia because of my yearly trips to Thailand. She was accusing me of sleeping with teenage girls. Was 33 to 36 on my trips there. Honestly, most of the girls I slept with were in their late 30's and early 40's. Youngest girl I ever slept there with was 25.

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว

      I know what you are saying,,,,,,,,,,, the most beautiful woman I have met here is actually 52!
      52!!!!!!!!!!!!!
      In a land of absolute smokin' hot chicks the sexiest more beautiful one I've met is 52!
      Just crazy
      Cheers Mate

    • @ActiveAussie2024
      @ActiveAussie2024 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      These comments are so interesting
      I have also had the same experience. Accused of being an abuser or pedophile for living in or travelling to Thailand. I ve also never been with a gal under 25. Nearly all Asian gals I ve been with were over 25. I actually prefer the older women. In Pattaya I only look for women in the 32 to 45 range. They treat men better and are less materialistic. And in LK Metro and especially the Beach Rd end of Soi 6 most girls are in that age bracket.
      In China I had a smoking hot GF , she was 43, and best sexual experience I ve ever had.
      The people who accuse Western men in Thailand of being pedophiles don't even know a lot of men are not interested in women under 30 there.

    • @ActiveAussie2024
      @ActiveAussie2024 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean you are right There are some real beauties in late 40 s and early 50 s there.

    • @jonhobson3592
      @jonhobson3592 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Agreed. My gf is 37. Looks 25.. 😊

    • @silverfox6883
      @silverfox6883 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Post-Wall western womanists will always try to shame men from their own country like this because they know they cannot compete with much younger, attractive, feminine women …

  • @billiam4835
    @billiam4835 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Men being sucked in by a hustler is their own fault, thinking with their second head. Don't want to get scammed? stay away from bar girls, massage girls, freelance women and salon girls. On the other hand if you want a quick poke don't pay up front only after the dirty deed. Don't leave valuables laying around tempting the girl to steal.

  • @MeMyHustleN-I
    @MeMyHustleN-I ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sounds like Brooklyn to me.

  • @lorinkundert
    @lorinkundert ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happens in China too, I ignore it

  • @happyslave6783
    @happyslave6783 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's an entire industry over there. Measurable part of the GDP.

  • @eigobike3929
    @eigobike3929 ปีที่แล้ว

    I sent flowers

  • @douglaswilliams4274
    @douglaswilliams4274 ปีที่แล้ว

    Buckle up, let’s go !

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes come along for the ride it's absolutely crazy!!!
      Cheers

    • @douglaswilliams4274
      @douglaswilliams4274 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean you have to pinch yourself sometimes to remind yourself that this is not real. This is the reality of Asia. Don’t get caught up in the lifestyle.

  • @geargnome7368
    @geargnome7368 ปีที่แล้ว

    I heard this scam back in 1979!

  • @tom.d.9917
    @tom.d.9917 ปีที่แล้ว

    They are "clever". that is the word...Clever.

  • @theguynextdoor4978
    @theguynextdoor4978 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My mom's uncle made a terrible mistake in Thailand. He met a bar girl, and got her pregnant, she didn't want the boy because he refused to marry her. She came to his city here in Norway twice a year to take him on a shopping spree. Mom's uncle became a single dad at age 68. He is dead now, his son is in foster care and his mom don't want anything to do with her son. As they say: Don't put your d*ck in crazy. It can cost you too darn much!

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh wow man thanks for sharing that story that's crazy...
      a lot of guys are not smart enough to wrap it I don't understand how they don't get that concept here..
      Cheers Mate 🍺

    • @brettchun38
      @brettchun38 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean 100% if its not on its not on

  • @silasketgaskets8709
    @silasketgaskets8709 ปีที่แล้ว

    First time i got a request was to rebuild a house that allegedly burned down in a fire the prior week. photo showed a small house surrounded very closely by dry tall grass. grass was inches from house on all sides. house still had concrete walls intact, no roof or doors. Thing is the dry grass color was uniformly untinged or burnt and grassline was uniformly flat. no way that burnt down last week and grass unscathed. if your gonna scam someone at least dont make idiotic mistakes.

    • @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean
      @whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah some of the scams the fall apart pretty quick once you start looking into them.
      Trouble is a lot of guys are so love struck that they just don't look into them very well.
      But there goes the old adage....
      A fool and his money are soon parted
      Thanks for watching and commenting
      Cheers Mate 🍺🍺🍺

    • @silasketgaskets8709
      @silasketgaskets8709 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@whyhellotherewithdrmarksabean Can I ask what kind of doctor you are?