I love when you do a breakdown of these relationships. I learn as you analyze the behaviors, and interpret the deeper meanings as they play out. The self-knowledge I get is eye-opening and helpful. Thank-you❤
Sandy seemed like she was more in survival mode than giving Nick another chance. He’s so volatile that you have to give him what he wants to keep him calm. She’s ready to be done with him, it’s just not safe yet. EDIT I commented before I finished the video, but I agree with what you said lol.
4:19 Oh 💯 it's less "what do you do?" and more "what are you doing?" It's like be predictable so my anxiety doesn't kick in. But when you grow secure, you know when that emotion is sabotaging you and you try to let life happen more naturally. That's like moving from "save me" to "teach me".
I love when you do a breakdown of these relationships. I learn as you analyze the behaviors, and interpret the deeper meanings as they play out. The self-knowledge I get is eye-opening and helpful. Thank-you❤
Maybe it's me, but Nick gives addict energy.🤷🏿♀️
Everything you said about a fearful avoidant hit so hard! I feel like I understand myself more. Thanks for this😊
Sandy seemed like she was more in survival mode than giving Nick another chance. He’s so volatile that you have to give him what he wants to keep him calm. She’s ready to be done with him, it’s just not safe yet.
EDIT
I commented before I finished the video, but I agree with what you said lol.
When you think you’re watching a video abt silly xss Sandy and you realize the video is actually abt silly xss you 😮🙈😹 thanks Kojo 😭💯
Looool I didn’t like Sandy because she was playing about but there is reason
Great analysis
4:19 Oh 💯 it's less "what do you do?" and more "what are you doing?" It's like be predictable so my anxiety doesn't kick in. But when you grow secure, you know when that emotion is sabotaging you and you try to let life happen more naturally. That's like moving from "save me" to "teach me".