Ikechi saw Emem house that why he was salty , like you already order taco,s this girl has money , he was jealous that she can buy the tacos and he has to make them.
Let us not forgot Ikechi was not accepted for the Houston cast so he traveled far and wide to get on the SAME show, but he’s not an opportunist? He’s that much of a lover boy that this show is the only way he can find love? I’m from Houston and connected with Ikechi BRIEFLY! We chatted a few times, he suggested a coffee meet up but never made the official plans due to his schedule. He gave “I am the prize, chase me” energy way back then so after 2 business days, I never said anything else. We’ve been IG friends since then and other women have said the same things about him.
Ikechi wants to do the questioning….not be questioned! So he will always be defensive because he can’t control the situation but in doing so, his true character comes out each time because why notate that he’s not scared of her cousin? Nobody wants you to be, sir!
We have seen aggressive on MAFS. Makayla from MAFS Houston was aggressive. Lindsay from MAFS Boston was aggressive. Emem has not demonstrated an ounce of it.
Camille is extremely immature for even having this swag discussion on national TV and an embarrassment to her family. What adults ask “what kind of a black woman did you date?” She’s feeding all the stereotypes!
David's friend was the MVP 🏆 for me. He let Michelle know what's up and she needed that reality ✔️. Michelle comes from humble beginnings (nothing wrong with that) but she lost her humility on her way up and thats not a good look. I think Michelle is insecure by David's family/upbringing. He didn't have to struggle like she did and doesn't come from dysfunction like she may have come from. Low key that intimidates her. Thus why she keeps dragging him for living on his parents property. Could be wrong tho, just my opinion 🤷🏾♀️. (Edit was a typo)
Your comment was MVP for me. I couldn’t agree more. I hope they go deep enough to discuss the differences in their upbringing and how that could possibly play a role in how she feels about him. Everything she’s picking a part is surface, meanwhile she could learn some things from David (and his friend).
Thank you 🙏🏾 and to your comment I say: Exactly!! That's why I appreciated Michelle's sister for her input. She was very poised, kind and honest. She brought light to the fact that unlike David, they come from divorce. Even for her own self, shared that before she married her husband they dated 11 yrs. Really hope they get to look deeper.
Meanwhile she’s renting. Which there’s nothing wrong with I just thought that all this smoke she has for David’s living situation she was coming from the place of a home owner.
Michelle falls part because she thinks she’s better than David so how dare he say things about her or insinuate that the lifestyle she has worked REALLY hard for is anything but that. I think a part of her is envious of David and the help that he got and is still getting that she never got!
At this pont, anyone that goes on that show should be surprised if they find a match because its CLEAR TO ME that they only match people for rarings and to trigger the audiennce into oblivion.
I agree wholeheartedly with El Cid ! Ike is a petulant child! He isn’t smarter than Emem & I think he’s frustrated by that. He tries to start fights with her but she has peeped game early on during the honeymoon. He has to go another route Emem isn’t falling for it.
Latoya was spot on about David and Michelle! no sympathy for him! and Koko-- David indirectly said he wanted a submissive woman in the first episode. He said something like "I should want a strong woman but the blonde hair, blue eyes keeps calling me"
Everybody sayin Madison and David but we are forgetting that Juan loves the gym and white women too. I’m starting to wonder if Juan and Madison got together because he don’t like Karla.
But the reason that Ikechi gave for the aggressiveness Tre is not why you are saying she could come off as aggressive. He said when they are chilling and perhaps watching tv, she turns around and is like ok turn that off let’s talk and she asks questions! That’s why he said she’s aggressive so her being driven and that making her ‘aggressive’ is not a reason to say someone is aggressive. That’s the problem, she has to be aggressive in her career to get where she is and maintain that lifestyle that he cannot measure up to. Why is that bad? Saying aggression is a character breakdown because context matters. The question asked was to describe her in 5 words! So he was describing her character.
3:08:05 I’m 40, and I’ve seen too many men in my age group that don’t care about their body. Even the ones that work out in the gym don’t actually workout, they’re just there socializing. So I agree with Cway.
I believe Ikechi thinks that Emem is coming on too strong. He likely wants to “chase” her and she’s treating him like a husband and trying to meet him halfway. He’s ridiculous.
Ikecki think he smart Emem can't ask him nothing what is important because he dont want her, he afraid that he will be reveal , may the liar stand up , I loved the cousin. Its weird that they didn't talked about what they were going to make for the friends. Emem knows that ike dont want her she is smart , but playing it along.
South sider here. Let’s be honest, Camille’s white mom did not raise them in the inner city. Agree, they have Evanston or Oak Park energy, communities that are more diverse, but do not have inner city swag.
3:03:07 So uh yea…CWAY arrived 😅 just hilarious chaos Alright my review here goes: *Ikechi & Emem* Aggressive translates to masculine Ikechi. We know what you’re trying to say bruh. And Ikechi, you’re jealous of Emem, it was written all over your face when you saw her apt. When you thought beforehand u we’re going to impress her with yours. We caught your humble brag homeboy, you tried to pull that Hakeem line from coming to America. “I must warn you Lisa, i am a very poor man, and where I live is very poor” boyyyy you not fooling nobody. You want to be seen as a unicorn 🦄 to black women, some creative marvel of a man who’s so well spoken. You have a grandiose view of yourself. Fall back. *Michelle & David* David being 30 years + and living like a 17 year old in his parents basement does not excuse your poor behavior Michelle. You have to be careful bc you’re showing your poor character to eligible men watching. And it’s showing exactly how you view people in general who are not on your same plane. That’s a general character flaw you have. David’s patient w her bc he saw his parents work through many of arguments and are still together and it’s not lost on me that they got married on the 13th. There’s some meaning behind that family wise so he’s going to cling to Michelle for fates sake. *Madison & Allen* Allen WAKE UP! Snap out of it! You sound like Middle school Science teacher. All drowsy, lazy, sleepy faced, monotone. Where is your spine sir. In my Mike Tyson voice “SPINAL”. Madison stayed out the whole first night being back and told your she was going to do it more and here’s you…”uh, I get it, you need time w your friends 🥱😴” Madison, I get you like buddy’s that train but those are the same buddy’s that landed your single behind here. There’s something you didn’t like about them, they’re cocky, they cheat, they lie, you and Allen are both sabatoging yourselves *Camille & Tom* You can’t choose your name or where you grew up Tom, just keep being you. Camille, you were obviously bullied in school by the darker skinned girls and possibly the white girls too, being mixed has got to be tough. You have trauma but you learned that the men who liked you were the more confident men, and those men so happened to be black. Dark skinned men will gravitate to lighter skin toned women, and I think you learned culture through them. Now you’re ashamed of being w Tom but remember those “smooth, swaggy” men landed your behind here, so how’d that work out for ya? *Carla & Jo-Wan* (right Kojo? 😅) Carla wants affection and I’m here for it 😍 Juan, I was wit u at first bc we don’t want to be like animals all over the woman, so i respected the slowness with touch but my man, there’s just no way im sleeping next to her, watching her get out the shower and not....well you know. Not sure if you’re nervous…but give up the whole “bro” vibe and see how she moves and slightly adjust. Make rm for her in your life. Plus I dont know how you're doing 2 startups at the same time...makes no sense. An app well easily run you $100K from any third party development firm just to get it off the ground, and looking at that apt, you aint got it.
Aggressive???? As a teacher, your vocabulary should have improved over college! What school did you go to? AGGRESSIVE!! how about STRONG!!! That's what it took that woman to hear your nonsense, pure strength! 💪. No etiquette or shivalry on this man's part. Good day sir.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 @littleblackbook breakdown of Emem & Ikechi!!!! And Michelle is ruuuuuddeeeee I can’t stand her she didn’t even say thank you when he complimented her ignored it the first time then he said it again & she turned it round saying he didn’t dress well….like what??? Even after the friend broke it down and showed her that she was loosing!!!!!’ Juan is annoying me now like are you the only one with a business? Like c’mon!!! I actually understood Camille this episode! And her sis articulated it very well but she cannot get angry that he made the comment about her dating light skin men…like seriously!!!! Get over yourself!
Shawn, I think Emem has already asked the questions you are suggesting off screen, hence the question “what are five things you like about me?” He got mad about that and suggested he double-teamed her and had her friends ask. She is trying to get him to admit off camera that he’s just not that into her so that she can plan accordingly.
Kojo - Tim and Camille : You said when you choose a partner , they didn’t /could not choose their partner. That’s was done for a reason. The whole purpose of the show. If she wants to choose go ahead but tht got her nowhere she needs to be open minded if she wants to “choose “ love and a healthy relationship with a great man.
Kojo regarding Camille & Thomas you make good points but the problem with Camille is that she is questioning his blackness because when he said he had dated a black girl she said what type of black woman? That’s a problem!!!!! That’s questioning his blackness because what she is insinuating is that the woman he dated was clearly not black enough because she didn’t have an impact on him. That’s the problem I got. I understood her point with the bars and perhaps the places he may go but that’s not all she’s saying!
i think Juan and Karla need to switch with Allen and Madison. Juan was wants a strong independent woman busy with her own life and Madison wants a man that's into fitness and dresses more conventional and is conventionally attractive. It won't work though because two self-centered people don't work. Complementary relationships work best. Being with someone just like you typically doesn't work in the long term.
I just want to know what happened to the actual fun dating, outings, or even the experts homework? I mean its episode 8 and we just at the housewarming...but we dont see the couples do anything together that they would in a dating scenario which would help build connectivity and chemistry somewhat organically. Vs focused on the marriages and they dont like. Based on that alone dont think any of them will make it.
David is going to have to show me something because it can’t be his friends plan he has to have his own plans his friend may handle things one way and apparently David handles things another way. Regardless of whether or not your love, language is touch why do you think someone wants to be touching and feeling all over you when you’re not the person they thought you were give it up daddy say you are not gonna be in the bloodline so you can forget the touchy feely . Black or white we are never going to be right. This conversation is an age old conversation from back in the yay hay days.Spike Lee is sitting 🪑 in disbelief 🫢.
I think Karla is attracted to Juan but she said that Juan has made their relationship platonic and doesn’t want to be affectionate and he only wants to kiss on the cheek or as a peck so that makes Karla feel like they are cousins. Juan has made it that way.
The last lady who joined the panel was awful.Such a foul mouth and just so disrespectful and rude. kept cutting off others and interrupting folks and making ridiculous statements . Isn't this supposed to be a Christian chamnel?
I think you all made one of your people on the panel feel bad by speaking about gay people . I’ve noticed he left. I’m not sure if he is or not though.
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Ikechi saw Emem house that why he was salty , like you already order taco,s this girl has money , he was jealous that she can buy the tacos and he has to make them.
Let us not forgot Ikechi was not accepted for the Houston cast so he traveled far and wide to get on the SAME show, but he’s not an opportunist? He’s that much of a lover boy that this show is the only way he can find love?
I’m from Houston and connected with Ikechi BRIEFLY! We chatted a few times, he suggested a coffee meet up but never made the official plans due to his schedule. He gave “I am the prize, chase me” energy way back then so after 2 business days, I never said anything else. We’ve been IG friends since then and other women have said the same things about him.
I've been seeing a lot of ladies say they dated him and he be acting sassy. Wow.
I get a g a y vibe from him.
Ikechi wants to do the questioning….not be questioned! So he will always be defensive because he can’t control the situation but in doing so, his true character comes out each time because why notate that he’s not scared of her cousin? Nobody wants you to be, sir!
So true!
We have seen aggressive on MAFS. Makayla from MAFS Houston was aggressive. Lindsay from MAFS
Boston was aggressive. Emem has not demonstrated an ounce of it.
It seems like Juan is in love with himself, he just needs a mirror and some lotion.
Correct. Juan thinks he's too good looking to be married to Karla. I hope she hasn't had sex with him.
Camille needs to find something to do. Gone down to the Southside for the man you want because Lakeshore Drive Thomas ain’t it😂
Camille is extremely immature for even having this swag discussion on national TV and an embarrassment to her family. What adults ask “what kind of a black woman did you date?” She’s feeding all the stereotypes!
David's friend was the MVP 🏆 for me. He let Michelle know what's up and she needed that reality ✔️. Michelle comes from humble beginnings (nothing wrong with that) but she lost her humility on her way up and thats not a good look. I think Michelle is insecure by David's family/upbringing. He didn't have to struggle like she did and doesn't come from dysfunction like she may have come from. Low key that intimidates her. Thus why she keeps dragging him for living on his parents property. Could be wrong tho, just my opinion 🤷🏾♀️. (Edit was a typo)
Your comment was MVP for me. I couldn’t agree more. I hope they go deep enough to discuss the differences in their upbringing and how that could possibly play a role in how she feels about him. Everything she’s picking a part is surface, meanwhile she could learn some things from David (and his friend).
Thank you 🙏🏾 and to your comment I say: Exactly!! That's why I appreciated Michelle's sister for her input. She was very poised, kind and honest. She brought light to the fact that unlike David, they come from divorce. Even for her own self, shared that before she married her husband they dated 11 yrs. Really hope they get to look deeper.
Meanwhile she’s renting. Which there’s nothing wrong with I just thought that all this smoke she has for David’s living situation she was coming from the place of a home owner.
Michelle falls part because she thinks she’s better than David so how dare he say things about her or insinuate that the lifestyle she has worked REALLY hard for is anything but that. I think a part of her is envious of David and the help that he got and is still getting that she never got!
Not a swag less meal… Shawn is taking me out!! I’m screaming😂
😂😂😂
At this pont, anyone that goes on that show should be surprised if they find a match because its CLEAR TO ME that they only match people for rarings and to trigger the audiennce into oblivion.
I agree wholeheartedly with El Cid ! Ike is a petulant child! He isn’t smarter than Emem & I think he’s frustrated by that. He tries to start fights with her but she has peeped game early on during the honeymoon. He has to go another route Emem isn’t falling for it.
Latoya was spot on about David and Michelle! no sympathy for him! and Koko-- David indirectly said he wanted a submissive woman in the first episode. He said something like "I should want a strong woman but the blonde hair, blue eyes keeps calling me"
Ikechi thinks he’s Lorenz Tate aka Darius Lovehall in Love Jones
Everybody sayin Madison and David but we are forgetting that Juan loves the gym and white women too. I’m starting to wonder if Juan and Madison got together because he don’t like Karla.
Juan never dated Latinas. He liked Karla until he saw Madison’s muscles and her wallet.
But the reason that Ikechi gave for the aggressiveness Tre is not why you are saying she could come off as aggressive. He said when they are chilling and perhaps watching tv, she turns around and is like ok turn that off let’s talk and she asks questions! That’s why he said she’s aggressive so her being driven and that making her ‘aggressive’ is not a reason to say someone is aggressive. That’s the problem, she has to be aggressive in her career to get where she is and maintain that lifestyle that he cannot measure up to. Why is that bad? Saying aggression is a character breakdown because context matters. The question asked was to describe her in 5 words! So he was describing her character.
3:08:05 I’m 40, and I’ve seen too many men in my age group that don’t care about their body. Even the ones that work out in the gym don’t actually workout, they’re just there socializing. So I agree with Cway.
Okay, so David cooked this episode. Whoo whoo whoo. That's what you're SUPPOSED to do as an adult!
I believe Ikechi thinks that Emem is coming on too strong. He likely wants to “chase” her and she’s treating him like a husband and trying to meet him halfway. He’s ridiculous.
Ikecki think he smart Emem can't ask him nothing what is important because he dont want her, he afraid that he will be reveal , may the liar stand up , I loved the cousin. Its weird that they didn't talked about what they were going to make for the friends.
Emem knows that ike dont want her she is smart , but playing it along.
Good point about Kay from Houston! Ike's responses are excuses and dont suppport anything he is saying.
Phil, We see each other! (**Kandi’sVoice)😂 you hit the nail on the head with ikechi! I said the exact same things.
I noticed Michelle said David didn't come home that night when she mentioned the written note he left....I wonder where he was 🤔 Was he with Madison?
South sider here. Let’s be honest, Camille’s white mom did not raise them in the inner city. Agree, they have Evanston or Oak Park energy, communities that are more diverse, but do not have inner city swag.
I don’t think any of these couples is going to say see on decision day.
Shawn was 🎯 re Ikechi.
3:03:07 So uh yea…CWAY arrived 😅 just hilarious chaos
Alright my review here goes:
*Ikechi & Emem*
Aggressive translates to masculine Ikechi. We know what you’re trying to say bruh. And Ikechi, you’re jealous of Emem, it was written all over your face when you saw her apt. When you thought beforehand u we’re going to impress her with yours. We caught your humble brag homeboy, you tried to pull that Hakeem line from coming to America. “I must warn you Lisa, i am a very poor man, and where I live is very poor” boyyyy you not fooling nobody. You want to be seen as a unicorn 🦄 to black women, some creative marvel of a man who’s so well spoken. You have a grandiose view of yourself. Fall back.
*Michelle & David*
David being 30 years + and living like a 17 year old in his parents basement does not excuse your poor behavior Michelle. You have to be careful bc you’re showing your poor character to eligible men watching. And it’s showing exactly how you view people in general who are not on your same plane. That’s a general character flaw you have. David’s patient w her bc he saw his parents work through many of arguments and are still together and it’s not lost on me that they got married on the 13th. There’s some meaning behind that family wise so he’s going to cling to Michelle for fates sake.
*Madison & Allen*
Allen WAKE UP! Snap out of it! You sound like Middle school Science teacher. All drowsy, lazy, sleepy faced, monotone. Where is your spine sir. In my Mike Tyson voice “SPINAL”. Madison stayed out the whole first night being back and told your she was going to do it more and here’s you…”uh, I get it, you need time w your friends 🥱😴” Madison, I get you like buddy’s that train but those are the same buddy’s that landed your single behind here. There’s something you didn’t like about them, they’re cocky, they cheat, they lie, you and Allen are both sabatoging yourselves
*Camille & Tom*
You can’t choose your name or where you grew up Tom, just keep being you. Camille, you were obviously bullied in school by the darker skinned girls and possibly the white girls too, being mixed has got to be tough. You have trauma but you learned that the men who liked you were the more confident men, and those men so happened to be black. Dark skinned men will gravitate to lighter skin toned women, and I think you learned culture through them. Now you’re ashamed of being w Tom but remember those “smooth, swaggy” men landed your behind here, so how’d that work out for ya?
*Carla & Jo-Wan* (right Kojo? 😅)
Carla wants affection and I’m here for it 😍
Juan, I was wit u at first bc we don’t want to be like animals all over the woman, so i respected the slowness with touch but my man, there’s just no way im sleeping next to her, watching her get out the shower and not....well you know. Not sure if you’re nervous…but give up the whole “bro” vibe and see how she moves and slightly adjust. Make rm for her in your life. Plus I dont know how you're doing 2 startups at the same time...makes no sense. An app well easily run you $100K from any third party development firm just to get it off the ground, and looking at that apt, you aint got it.
Aggressive???? As a teacher, your vocabulary should have improved over college! What school did you go to? AGGRESSIVE!! how about STRONG!!! That's what it took that woman to hear your nonsense, pure strength! 💪. No etiquette or shivalry on this man's part. Good day sir.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 @littleblackbook breakdown of Emem & Ikechi!!!!
And Michelle is ruuuuuddeeeee I can’t stand her she didn’t even say thank you when he complimented her ignored it the first time then he said it again & she turned it round saying he didn’t dress well….like what??? Even after the friend broke it down and showed her that she was loosing!!!!!’
Juan is annoying me now like are you the only one with a business? Like c’mon!!!
I actually understood Camille this episode! And her sis articulated it very well but she cannot get angry that he made the comment about her dating light skin men…like seriously!!!! Get over yourself!
I think she always dated dark skinned black men who adored her because of her light skin .
Where is JR n Jai?
Absolutely Shawn
Shawn, I think Emem has already asked the questions you are suggesting off screen, hence the question “what are five things you like about me?” He got mad about that and suggested he double-teamed her and had her friends ask. She is trying to get him to admit off camera that he’s just not that into her so that she can plan accordingly.
Kojo - Tim and Camille :
You said when you choose a partner , they didn’t /could not choose their partner. That’s was done for a reason. The whole purpose of the show. If she wants to choose go ahead but tht got her nowhere she needs to be open minded if she wants to “choose “ love and a healthy relationship with a great man.
I agree but she said she is struggling with attraction...so that is the reasons she is struggling lol
ALLEN has a nice face but his teeth I cant do it, spiky shark teeth
I agree!!
Agreed! Luckily that can be fixed if he wants now Ikeche he’s a lost cause
Nose way too big snd unattractive mouth.
That were my thoughts also, maybe after the show he will fix his teeth
Right. Allen & Thomas both have horrible teeth. It's distracting.
Kojo regarding Camille & Thomas you make good points but the problem with Camille is that she is questioning his blackness because when he said he had dated a black girl she said what type of black woman? That’s a problem!!!!! That’s questioning his blackness because what she is insinuating is that the woman he dated was clearly not black enough because she didn’t have an impact on him. That’s the problem I got. I understood her point with the bars and perhaps the places he may go but that’s not all she’s saying!
‼️‼️ That is THEE part 2:28:13
i think Juan and Karla need to switch with Allen and Madison. Juan was wants a strong independent woman busy with her own life and Madison wants a man that's into fitness and dresses more conventional and is conventionally attractive. It won't work though because two self-centered people don't work. Complementary relationships work best. Being with someone just like you typically doesn't work in the long term.
I just want to know what happened to the actual fun dating, outings, or even the experts homework? I mean its episode 8 and we just at the housewarming...but we dont see the couples do anything together that they would in a dating scenario which would help build connectivity and chemistry somewhat organically. Vs focused on the marriages and they dont like.
Based on that alone dont think any of them will make it.
David is going to have to show me something because it can’t be his friends plan he has to have his own plans his friend may handle things one way and apparently David handles things another way. Regardless of whether or not your love, language is touch why do you think someone wants to be touching and feeling all over you when you’re not the person they thought you were give it up daddy say you are not gonna be in the bloodline so you can forget the touchy feely . Black or white we are never going to be right. This conversation is an age old conversation from back in the yay hay days.Spike Lee is sitting 🪑 in disbelief 🫢.
I think Karla is attracted to Juan but she said that Juan has made their relationship platonic and doesn’t want to be affectionate and he only wants to kiss on the cheek or as a peck so that makes Karla feel like they are cousins. Juan has made it that way.
Because he’s not attracted to her. I bet if she looked like Myrla from Houston, he’d be down with using sage in the house lol
The last lady who joined the panel was awful.Such a foul mouth and just so disrespectful and rude. kept cutting off others and interrupting folks and making ridiculous statements . Isn't this supposed to be a Christian chamnel?
I think you all made one of your people on the panel feel bad by speaking about gay people . I’ve noticed he left. I’m not sure if he is or not though.