Experienced divorce lawyer here (Pennsylvania and New Jersey). Marriage is an outdated technology. Most of my inner circle friends are professional, unmarried (divorced or never married) guys over 50 who date and travel with beautiful women but do not cohabitate. All of my male divorced friends and former divorce clients will never get remarried. Once you have tasted the freedom and bliss of joyfully dong the things you love, whenever you want, with whomever you want, there is no turning back. Great video!
Yes it's easy to see how outdated it really is with all the people getting divorces after 30+ years of being married. Women especially just don't love their spouses for life anymore or think there's something better out there (which usually there isn't!) By about age 32-33 I knew I wasn't the marrying kind. That was 34-35 years ago.
I was once asked about my stress level and I told the Dr that I had no stress in my home life. She looked at me kind of shocked. I'm a bachelor and my time is mine to spend as I wish. It's definately not lonely, but it is real nice live my life without compromise and on my terms. Have a great day Jim!
Being married & having kids is so overrated, for real. Nothing beats my freedom and I'm not willing to give that away. I see people going through hell and back due to financial struggle just because they have to pull a carriage that society impose on them.
@@notimefornonsense722 Hey notimefornonsense. Thank you for watching my video and I appreciate your comment. I agree, freedom is important to me. At this point in my life, I’m pretty sure I won’t get married. Lol. Thanks for your support!
@elsynjogu7578 i wasn't missing anything, believe me...😃. Besides in my communist country they were forced to have kids. I wasn't a wanted kid so where is the point?
The last single mother I dated, I wasn't interested in " waiting and building a relationship " bullshit. We slept together the night of the first date. Guys don't have time for that.
Functional adults don't require another person to cherish or miss them. That's for a person who hasn't learned to be good company for themselves, and doesn't understand the difference between alone and lonely.
I would assume most bachelors already have friends and family members so I don't see why it is sad if one chooses to not get married. Different strokes for different folks.
It's to each their own. I have a beautiful, loving wife and a 2 year old son. We share financial, parental, household duties etc. Seeing my son running to me coming from work is the best feeling in the world.I still have time to play golf, go fishing and I encourage my wife to do the same with her hobbies. It's about compromise. Some people are married and sad, some are happy, the same with single people, some are happy and some not. Internal hapiness is inherent, hereditary, so it can't really be attributed to being single or not. Anyways, as long as any person is contributing to the world in a good way, I could care less if they're single or not.
There's always pros & cons to everything. But for me with divorce rates so high why risk losing so much if your marriage ends? I prefer to have less & own it fully than to have more with a partner & then lose it all with a divorce.
I'm 58 and never been married myself. I'm in a relationship right now for 14 years but no children either and I had fibroids at 29 and then at 31 a myomectomy and then at 41 a hysterectomy. ZERO REGRETS.
My brother is 53....never married, no kids. He's had a fling here & there (rarely, actually) but nobody stuck. Now my youngest is a 28 year old bachelor, about to give up on women. They're both heterosexual, they want a woman....but don't like their attitudes.
I’m going to share this video with my youngest son. He is a 30 yr old Bachelor who has no problem finding a girlfriend. He claims he doesn’t want to get tied down, loves his freedom, and the responsibility of children scare him mainly because of the current times we live in.🫣 He also claims women are to complicated (confusing). As a woman, I’d have to agree, women are complicated and have difficulty keeping it simple. I’ve been married to the same man for over 30 years because he keeps it simple, and I really appreciate him for that. Thank you for sharing, make it a great day! 👏🏼💪🏼❤️
Hey CDC Dogs! Thank you for watching my video and I really appreciate your comment. Being open-minded has really helped me enjoy the times when I'm in a relationship/dating and when I'm not. Basically just having a good attitude. Thanks for your support!
Just turned 61 and I have never married. Straight white male, have had numerous girlfriends but never wanted to enter into a contract with any of them. I believe I wouldn't have been able to retire at 50 if I had taken on a wife. My days are filled with doing things I want to do. Pure freedom. I am a loner by nature and prefer solitude with the exception of having dogs. It is amazing how clearly you can think without interruptions and having to do things you don't want to do. I always get a kick out of talking to married guys when they ask why I'm not married. I always respond "Sure, it would be nice to have sex whenever you want it....." That always seems to spark some soul searching in them.
It reminds me of a meme I saw with 2 long-beaked birds where one looks like it is squawking at the other. The caption reads "I don't know much about birds, but I know which one is the wife".
This IS the best option for most self respecting men now. How is not being in a 'relationship,' considering being in a co habitation relationship, a con?
Hey ICFUBAR. My “con” statement was way too broad. Lol. I just meant, sometimes I miss the companionship. But I choose to continue not to date because overall, I’m happy. Thank you for watching my video and I appreciate the support.
@@JimAgate I got your drift. It's a different being and conversation with a gal than with the guys and sometimes we might miss the former.... but at our own peril.
I am the Forever Bachelor!! Did a 7 day river rafting trip through the Grand canyon two weeks ago and today I'm back from a week beachside camping San Diego. Best decision of my life was not getting married!! I enjoy women but don't take them serious, great way to lose your wallet. Timmy C Arizona 59.
FREEDOM both personal and financial is the biggest benefit. Settling down is usually toxic as is living with someone or vice versa. I wouldn't consider it these days. Most in my age group (mid 60s) are turning into old ladies before their time with their negative wavelength mostly complaining how rough it is being old. If it isn't that they're always talking about their saintly grandchildren which I have no interest in. Being unattached is the best choice no matter your age group.
You don’t really know the pros and cons because you’ve never been in a real relationship with kids. You are missing a lot, and I hope you don’t stay alone much older with no one to care about you or for you.
@@toddsickinger3934 Hey Todd. Thank you for watching my video and i appreciate your comment. I’ve always been open-minded, so maybe some day I will settle down. Thanks for your support.
I respectfully disagree. There are folks out there (myself included) who love the freedom of living alone and don't feel lonely doing so. Keep in mind also that married people can be lonely, too.
@@Black-Circle Maybe for some people, but not everyone. Besides, a bachelor can still get together with friends to go out to eat, catch a game, concert, etc. I, personally can go either way. I treasure my alone time.
That you've had many girl friends along the way, that's good. Not having kids is good too. The freedom is precious, as you do what ever the hell you want without someone there to complain if they don't agree. Yeah, between girl friends are times when they are missed and could be useful.
Hey Tensionality EFex! Thank you for watching my videos. The bachelor life definitely gets lonely sometimes, but it definitely has its advantages. Lol. Thank you for your support.
Yeah, I hate when society pressures people to get married, have kids, etc. I think everyone should be so free to choose the life they want to live. I'm almost 50 and hearing people asking me if I'm not scared of growing old alone is driving me crazy. No I'm not scared , I'm wild and free I do what I want, when I want.
@@notimefornonsense722 yeah, people ask me that same question: Am I scared of growing old alone. I stay busy, I’ll be fine! Thanks again for your support!
I notice this guy looks healthy and young.
Must due to lack of stress.
@@benserkowski4663 Hey Ben! I’m feeling pretty good man, thanks! And thank you for watching my video! I appreciate your support.
I'm a 65 year old straight male and have never married. In my early 20's, I had a vasectomy because I never wanted children. Overall, no regrets.
@@amarilloaristocrat8435 Hey Amarillo. Thank you for watching my video and thanks for sharing. I appreciate your support!
Hear ya. Got mine in 1985 when I was 30. No regrets and it's permanent insurance.
A eunich!
Silly old man
Experienced divorce lawyer here (Pennsylvania and New Jersey). Marriage is an outdated technology. Most of my inner circle friends are professional, unmarried (divorced or never married) guys over 50 who date and travel with beautiful women but do not cohabitate. All of my male divorced friends and former divorce clients will never get remarried. Once you have tasted the freedom and bliss of joyfully dong the things you love, whenever you want, with whomever you want, there is no turning back. Great video!
@@jcnlaw Hey Johnathan! Thanks man! And thank you for your expertise! I really appreciate you watching my video!
Marriage is a technology? You are confused about one word of the other. How about marriage is an outdated institution. A lawyer, huh?
Yes it's easy to see how outdated it really is with all the people getting divorces after 30+ years of being married. Women especially just don't love their spouses for life anymore or think there's something better out there (which usually there isn't!) By about age 32-33 I knew I wasn't the marrying kind. That was 34-35 years ago.
I was once asked about my stress level and I told the Dr that I had no stress in my home life. She looked at me kind of shocked. I'm a bachelor and my time is mine to spend as I wish. It's definately not lonely, but it is real nice live my life without compromise and on my terms. Have a great day Jim!
@@joe.mascolo Hey Joe! Well said! And thank you for watching my video, I appreciate it. Thanks for your support!
51yo. Also never married. It's just me & my 3 feline buddies. Life is great for me.
I fly solo-----no co-pilot needed or wanted.
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Yessir!
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You've been spared.
@@jim-se5xc hey jim! thanks for watching my video! i appreciate your support.
keyword "FREEDOM"
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Table for one please. And yes, I will have the steak.
Makes cent$ to me.
@@user-tb5xu1gx7g Hey Jack! Thank you for watching my video! And I like your comment! Thanks for your support!
Thanks Jim, bachelor here as well.
Me too! 57 and never married and love my freedom
@@commonsenseisntcommon1776 Hey man! Thanks for watching my video! I appreciate your support.
Being married & having kids is so overrated, for real. Nothing beats my freedom and I'm not willing to give that away. I see people going through hell and back due to financial struggle just because they have to pull a carriage that society impose on them.
@@notimefornonsense722 Hey notimefornonsense. Thank you for watching my video and I appreciate your comment. I agree, freedom is important to me. At this point in my life, I’m pretty sure I won’t get married. Lol. Thanks for your support!
Really..if our parents had that thought we would've not been here 😅
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@@JimAgateyou are missing alot ❤
@elsynjogu7578 i wasn't missing anything, believe me...😃. Besides in my communist country they were forced to have kids. I wasn't a wanted kid so where is the point?
@@elsynjogu7578That's what you think...
The last single mother I dated, I wasn't interested in " waiting and building a relationship " bullshit. We slept together the night of the first date. Guys don't have time for that.
Hey William!
Thanks for your support man!
I appreciate it!
a lone eagle - no one to cherish him while he's alive... - and no one to miss him when he's gone.... - to me, it's sad.
@@Mikeman07825 Hey Mikeman. Thank you for watching my video.
Functional adults don't require another person to cherish or miss them. That's for a person who hasn't learned to be good company for themselves, and doesn't understand the difference between alone and lonely.
@@p.g.reitsma7245 Hey P.G. Thank you for watching my video and I appreciate your comment. Thanks for your support.
We all die alone, matters not
I would assume most bachelors already have friends and family members so I don't see why it is sad if one chooses to not get married. Different strokes for different folks.
It's to each their own. I have a beautiful, loving wife and a 2 year old son. We share financial, parental, household duties etc. Seeing my son running to me coming from work is the best feeling in the world.I still have time to play golf, go fishing and I encourage my wife to do the same with her hobbies. It's about compromise. Some people are married and sad, some are happy, the same with single people, some are happy and some not. Internal hapiness is inherent, hereditary, so it can't really be attributed to being single or not. Anyways, as long as any person is contributing to the world in a good way, I could care less if they're single or not.
So? Nobody gives a f, you are not a bachelor,so why are you looking bachelor content,that's the question...
@@jandregerber7534 Hey Jandre. Thank you so much for watching my video and sharing your insight. I really appreciate it. And thanks for your support!
@@gintonicx6 breathe and relax. it’s a comment section don’t be triggered so easily.
@@daveg2199 From what I can see you are triggered by my comment...
@@gintonicx6 Hey gintonic. Thanks for watching my video! I appreciate it!
For me, it's not that she didn't defend him enough, she always talked over him. Defend him enough? No, she just didn't gaf....
Hey William.
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And thanks for your support.
There's always pros & cons to everything. But for me with divorce rates so high why risk losing so much if your marriage ends? I prefer to have less & own it fully than to have more with a partner & then lose it all with a divorce.
@@jasoncrandall73 Hey Jason! Good point! And thank you for watching my video. I appreciate the support.
When man is single, he is a whole person. When he gets married, he is only half.
@@vilod Hey Vilod! Thank you for watching my video and I appreciate your comment! And thanks for your support!
I'm 58 and never been married myself. I'm in a relationship right now for 14 years but no children either and I had fibroids at 29 and then at 31 a myomectomy and then at 41 a hysterectomy. ZERO REGRETS.
Hey Darlene.
Thank you for sharing.
And thank you for watching my video, I appreciate your support!
@@JimAgate you're very welcome 🤗
My brother is 53....never married, no kids. He's had a fling here & there (rarely, actually) but nobody stuck. Now my youngest is a 28 year old bachelor, about to give up on women. They're both heterosexual, they want a woman....but don't like their attitudes.
@@kittensugars Hey kitten sugars! Thank you for sharing. I'm still open-minded.
Thanks for your support!
I’m going to share this video with my youngest son. He is a 30 yr old Bachelor who has no problem finding a girlfriend. He claims he doesn’t want to get tied down, loves his freedom, and the responsibility of children scare him mainly because of the current times we live in.🫣 He also claims women are to complicated (confusing). As a woman, I’d have to agree, women are complicated and have difficulty keeping it simple. I’ve been married to the same man for over 30 years because he keeps it simple, and I really appreciate him for that. Thank you for sharing, make it a great day! 👏🏼💪🏼❤️
Hey CDC Dogs!
Thank you for watching my video and I really appreciate your comment.
Being open-minded has really helped me enjoy the times when I'm in a relationship/dating and when I'm not.
Basically just having a good attitude.
Thanks for your support!
Just turned 61 and I have never married. Straight white male, have had numerous girlfriends but never wanted to enter into a contract with any of them. I believe I wouldn't have been able to retire at 50 if I had taken on a wife. My days are filled with doing things I want to do. Pure freedom. I am a loner by nature and prefer solitude with the exception of having dogs. It is amazing how clearly you can think without interruptions and having to do things you don't want to do. I always get a kick out of talking to married guys when they ask why I'm not married. I always respond "Sure, it would be nice to have sex whenever you want it....." That always seems to spark some soul searching in them.
@@Wartrace Hey John! Thank you for sharing your experiences and perspective! I definitely can relate! Thanks for your support!
you write comments like I wrote this myself... glad youre having a good life too
@@bza069 hey bza. thank you for watching my video. i appreciate the support.
It reminds me of a meme I saw with 2 long-beaked birds where one looks like it is squawking at the other. The caption reads "I don't know much about birds, but I know which one is the wife".
@@stephenshelton4267 Hey Stephen. Thank you for watching my video.
Tia made a complete ass of herself...plain and simple.
Being in a relationship doesn't automatically mean you have a companion. people always react irritated when someone is going against the flow.
@@rangosantana Hey Dom! Thanks for watching man! And I appreciate your comment. Thanks for your support.
Yep one (usually the guy) is often wearing a slave bracelet.
I love the single life. No regrets whatsoever!
@@dianehill3279 Hey Diane! That’s awesome! It’s nice to get a woman’s perspective, so thank you! I appreciate your support!
No wonder you look so young and happy, with true happiness in your eyes.
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All good. I'm also 52, never married, no kids.
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YESSIR!
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Hes not even a bad looking guy either, mad. fair play to you sir
@@XORTION Hey XORTION! 😂 Thank you for watching my video and I appreciate your comment. Thanks for your support.
54 years here and not much chance ill ever have anyone
She'd have to be a hell of a wife to beat no wife. Cormac McCarthy.
@@terrysbarker1 Hey Terry! Thanks for watching my video! And I appreciate your comment. We’ll see what the future holds! Thanks for your support.
Who do you list as beneficiaries ?
@@RoBDeeZL42 Hey Rob! My two sisters. But like I always say, I'm open-minded and ready for anything that comes my way.
Thank you for your support.
This IS the best option for most self respecting men now. How is not being in a 'relationship,' considering being in a co habitation relationship, a con?
Hey ICFUBAR.
My “con” statement was way too broad. Lol.
I just meant, sometimes I miss the companionship.
But I choose to continue not to date because overall, I’m happy.
Thank you for watching my video and I appreciate the support.
@@JimAgate I got your drift. It's a different being and conversation with a gal than with the guys and sometimes we might miss the former.... but at our own peril.
Jim, do you know how thrilled the Church of your choice would be to have you as a parish member?
@@suetipping4841 Hey Sue! 😂 Thank you for watching my video and I appreciate your comment. Thanks for your support!
Keep living the dream🌴🏄😎💪
@@johnnyr859 Hey Johnny! Yessir! Thank you for watching my video and I appreciate your support!
No drama cane farmer/ choice.its great being single/no hassles/got coin.lifes a breeze
@@gavinelliot3564 Hey Gavin! Thank you for watching my video. I appreciate your support.
I am the Forever Bachelor!! Did a 7 day river rafting trip through the Grand canyon two weeks ago and today I'm back from a week beachside camping San Diego. Best decision of my life was not getting married!! I enjoy women but don't take them serious, great way to lose your wallet. Timmy C Arizona 59.
Hey Timmy!
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Cool video, thanks
Hey Jennifer.
Thank you.
You look good buddy, nice skin quality.
@@suspicionofdeceit Thanks man! And thank you for watching my video. I appreciate your support.
You might have made the right choice I married a monster buy had to get out of my com fort zone and find strength I didn’t know I had
@@danielsemmens6640 Hey Daniel! Thank you for sharing. And thank you for watching my video, I appreciate your support.
Genius!!
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After my separation in 2015 I consider myself a born again bachelor lol.
Hey Brendan! 😂
That’s cool man!
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FREEDOM both personal and financial is the biggest benefit. Settling down is usually toxic as is living with someone or vice versa. I wouldn't consider it these days. Most in my age group (mid 60s) are turning into old ladies before their time with their negative wavelength mostly complaining how rough it is being old. If it isn't that they're always talking about their saintly grandchildren which I have no interest in. Being unattached is the best choice no matter your age group.
@@muffs55mercury61 Hey Muffs! Thanks for your perspective! I appreciate your support!
@@JimAgate Never a problem.
I’m 30 I couldn’t imagine having 2+ kids and a psycho wife who is cheating on me
I’d rather have my private island with a decent amount of amenities.
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You don’t really know the pros and cons because you’ve never been in a real relationship with kids. You are missing a lot, and I hope you don’t stay alone much older with no one to care about you or for you.
@@toddsickinger3934 Hey Todd. Thank you for watching my video and i appreciate your comment. I’ve always been open-minded, so maybe some day I will settle down.
Thanks for your support.
The sun shines alone.
What’s up Project B!
Thank you for watching my video.
I appreciate it.
Yes… I have had a lot of girl friends along the way!!!!!…Hahahahahahaha
@@brent1387 😂🤣😂🤣 Hey Brent! Thanks for your support!
Truly sad. Selecting “do not recommend channel”.
Hey Dave.
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How so?
freedom or lonliness.... it's either or.
@@Black-Circle Hey Black Circle! That's a good point. I appreciate your comment. Thanks for watching my video!
I respectfully disagree. There are folks out there (myself included) who love the freedom of living alone and don't feel lonely doing so. Keep in mind also that married people can be lonely, too.
@@bryanjones8778 Hey Bryan! Thank you for watching my video and thank you for your comment! I appreciate your support.
@@bryanjones8778 yeah well going to the beach alone and eating alone is boring
@@Black-Circle Maybe for some people, but not everyone. Besides, a bachelor can still get together with friends to go out to eat, catch a game, concert, etc. I, personally can go either way. I treasure my alone time.
Let us not forget....women cut stinkier farts.
Hey Jerry! 😂🤣
Thanks for your support man!
That you've had many girl friends along the way, that's good. Not having kids is good too. The freedom is precious, as you do what ever the hell you want without someone there to complain if they don't agree. Yeah, between girl friends are times when they are missed and could be useful.
Hey Tensionality EFex!
Thank you for watching my videos.
The bachelor life definitely gets lonely sometimes, but it definitely has its advantages. Lol.
Thank you for your support.
Yeah, I hate when society pressures people to get married, have kids, etc. I think everyone should be so free to choose the life they want to live. I'm almost 50 and hearing people asking me if I'm not scared of growing old alone is driving me crazy. No I'm not scared , I'm wild and free I do what I want, when I want.
@@notimefornonsense722 yeah, people ask me that same question: Am I scared of growing old alone. I stay busy, I’ll be fine! Thanks again for your support!
I can see why you are happy
@@sandybeach3576 Hey Tiki! Thank you so much for watching my video! And thanks for your support!
53 years since birth. Don't need it at all
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freedom to watch porn 6 hours a day??? lmaooooo
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@@JimAgate like you have a choice at being single lmaoo
Tia made a complete ass of herself...plain and simple.
Tia made a complete ass of herself...plain and simple.