How She Survived A Challenging Childhood
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 30 มิ.ย. 2023
- In today's episode of Unfiltered Stories, we have the privilege of hearing from Earlina Gilford, who bravely shares her personal journey marked by unimaginable challenges. Earlina opens up about the profound trauma she faced from a young age, when two family members she should have been able to trust subjected her to deeply distressing acts. Despite the series of heart-wrenching events that followed, Earlina's story is a testament to the incredible resilience of the human spirit.
Through her courageous decision to share her experiences, Earlina sheds light on the importance of speaking out and seeking support in the face of adversity. Her message is one of hope and empowerment, reminding viewers that their past does not define their worth or limit their potential for a brighter future. Earlina's story serves as an inspiration to anyone who has faced traumatic circumstances, emphasizing that healing and growth are possible. Join us as we listen to Earlina's powerful story with empathy and respect, standing in solidarity with survivors everywhere. #UnfilteredStories #SurvivorStories
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Can you sue these punks
I have a story about my life that will make a dog cry.
I too have a juicy story, jellysmack is confusing to me . Can anyone help ?
I'm listening and I am hurting I feel encouraged 😎👍
I would love to talk to her
The ending of the story when sug finally fulfilled his promise, gave me chills all over. Absolutely beautiful.
Also, RIP Sug. Cancer is a cunt.
Yesss
Absolutely Love!❤️
God bless that good man , God is faithful forever ❤
Me too. It was almost like a fairy tale at the end, where the guy finds her 40 years later. He truly loved her. And I can't forget her brother. He was her hero too.😊
…. Grandma was NOT a good grandmother. She failed to protect her grandchildren. So sorry for this woman’s pain! 😢
She sure wasn't....I'm a grandma, and I'd NEVER EVER pull some mess like this😡
@asshatslovejohnnydeppjohnn8377that has nothing to do with this story. Amber Heard surely didn't go through the childhood abuse like this brave woman did.
She showed a hell wasn't a good grandmother
She was not a good grandmother. Smh but as a child she thought she was. How horrible Lord Have Mercy 🙏🏾🙏🏾🌱
It sounds like that was a generational curse in their family
Grandma was turning a blind eye. Burying herself in the Bible cause she didn’t want to acknowledge her sons were predators, she protected them and fed these girls to them, I can feel the pain in her voice! 😢
Absolutely. Disgusting
Condolences for the loss of your loving husband and daughter RIP
Sadly this went on a lot back then
@@cinnamonaries7031💯💯
@@BigSevynWillStill goes on today sadly. 😡
There's something seriously wrong with the Foster parent system when ALL but TWO were horrible places.
Right!! It's so sick.
I can't wait to become a foster parent all children deserve a loving home. This is heartbreaking! 💖
It's appalling what some people have to endure.
I'm so, so sorry.
Having large breasts is an issue as well. It's such an issue
@@calliope4293i feel like if you barely have anny as a female its more of a problem because you get made fun of etc
@sheepyleepy..2806 not always, or at least I've never been made fun of for having small boobs. My friends have big boobs and they have dealt with predatory boys and grown men since they were 11 or 12. At that age we were still watching cartoons and decorating our binders.
Heartbreaking story 😢😢
@@sheepyleepy..2806Man please! You can get over being made of WAY FASTER then being a preyed on Sex Object because you have big breasts!
Her brother is her hero and her boyfriend was another angel! I’m in tears I hope one day your baby will find you!
She said the baby died
Baby died of asthma she revealed at end was a girl.
Yea I watched the whole thing then heard that part😢
But at least she married her angel
Glooooraaayyyy Hallelujah ❤❤❤
Omg 🥹🥹🥹🥹😭😭her last husband was definitely an Angel for her life. I’m so glad at least once she experienced, true romantic love. God bless you dear lady, you are awesome & resilient!
3 years of age is a baby 😭 this is so hurtful to hear. I can't even imagine going through it as a little child. May you live a long prosperous, healthy, and happy life ❣️
Trust me, parents, grandparents, aunts will cover up these things and act like nothing happened. So many lives get ruined and these perpetrators carry on with the help of the elders in the family.
Respect to you sister Sug, you are not worthless! you are a beautiful, amazing, pateint and a good hearted person.
Nisey her husband was sug
All because that’s the generation they come from never saying nothing
That's what happened with R. Kelly, he had sooooo many enablers that are responsible as well 😢
This really touched me. I know that it’s God 🙌🏽 Thank you for confirming my ministry of recovery from childhood trauma and abuse.
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Wow the fact that she forgave her mother AND even took care of her when she was ill is mind blowing 🤯!! This lady is A M A Z I N G!!
Thats what true forgiveness is only with the help of Jesus!
@@Rose_buddThat's it ma'am.
Because as a child of God, that's what you're supposed to do!
@@mimifinesse1845really? Why?
@@liinaallikas6926 Because that's how a person can really, and truly move on with their lives in peace. Hate gets us nowhere in life, it only destroys you from within because of the fact you're holding onto whatever trauma you may have faced, if any. I feel when a person is at peace, their the most happiest, to be honest! That's what the Lord wants for us.
I'm literally bawling my eyes out. Such an inspirational, motivational, heartbreaking story. It breaks me that such evil exists in this world.
He kept his promise and that’s beautiful.
What promise 🙁???
Wow. She’s not only beautiful on the outside but the sweetness of her soul shines brighter than the sun. I’m in tears at all she went thru and yet she never lost faith. What a wonderful lady.
Cousin, cousin...wow. May God continue to keep you in the palm of his hand, and bless your life. Carol Briggs
(my nephew changed my icon and user name!)
Exactly you are so right
Faith is brainwashing she's been brainwashed so of course she hasn't lost that
Yes, such a beautiful soul!
Danm shame granny supposed to protected yall
Unfortunately too many of them were like that back then.
@@TheFabgirl333 back then? Lol. There still like that. Countless women protect their rapists sons, boyfriends, husbands...
Granny probably was abused and gaslighted and indoctrinated to believe this was life from her own childhood. She didn’t know anything else.
Fr!
Mothers always protect their eviI sons
I wish I could just wrap my arms around this woman to give her a good hug! I hate that all of this happened to her. I was so happy when her and her first love finally found each other then my heart broke when she said that he died. She deserved to live happily ever after with him. I hope you continue to have happiness.
I really needed to hear your testimony tonight. I’m in such a lonely place right now. Many of the things that happened in your testimony are a part of mine. I’m 49 now & feel completely unworthy & way to damaged to truly be loved. I have worked so hard on my healing but I still can’t heal myself from feeling this way. My Faith in GOD is all I have. I believe my pain has a purpose. Thank you for giving me hope for what God still has in store for my life ❤
You are worthy of love and just remember its not your fault sweetheart. 🙏❤
Hang in there Sister, Abba and Jesus got You. Peace and Blessings
@@o0R3stless0o: Exactly
The grandmother knew what was going on she wanted to push it under the rug she knows she has sick monster sons and wonder what her daughter was so messed up kudos to you you're such a strong amazing woman I wish you nothing but the best and prayers and hope all is well
Exactly
This is the strongest woman I have ever seen. Her faith is stunning.
Wow. A part of me doesn't even know what to say. She is a walking testimony. I cannot wait to go and watch her movies. I'm so proud of her. I'm so happy she was able to find her love again. She is so inspiring.
Wow. Weeping like a baby as I sit in my office. I've watched so many of these horrific videos but this story got me in tears. I used to be a mentor/peer counselor for at risk-youth & adolescent girls rehab homes when I was in College. As a criminal justice major, I felt so deeply to be of help to girls placed in the system. Pieces of her story makes sense because most of the girls preferred group homes than foster parents & their stories were very similar even with teen pregnancies resulting from the r-word. Many times I would take them out with the little money I had as a "big sister" but felt helpless in providing long term solutions. This story reminds me of the sufferings of girls in the system & the damaging false labels put on them "damaged goods" "troubled kid" "violent" "unwanted" "drughead" Its unfortunate how wicked the world is, & wickedly enabling "grandmas" can be. Thank you for sharing your story, turning your pain into purpose. God bless you. You're hope in a Woman.
Your story made me cry happy and sad tears. After 23 years I turned my uncle in for molesting me and 3 other family members. Thanks God Wyoming has no statue of limitations. He got 2-7 years and ironically was just released last week after serving 3 years. I was able to get his parole denied twice and I am at peace with it, I just wanted him to be accountable. We tried to tell my Grandma, she called my aunt a liar and told my cousin she was never to speak of it again. When I wrote her a letter to tell her her only response was he's my son what do you want me to do? I cut off my Grandma for a long time cuz I was so angry and hurt. And she is gone now and never saw him go to prison. I told my Grandpa the truth befihe died last year and he had no idea.. Other family members had told him my uncle was in prison for drugs.. Bcuz everything always a secret. I have family that call me their hero for doing what they couldn't and I have family that are still mad at me to this day. Even one of my cousins that it happened too I reported for her and she just wanted to let it go. I never meant to hurt her and things are still not ok with us after 3 years. Anyways it's fine and over with and I don't regret my decision. You are so brave to tell your story ❤❤❤❤️
You did the right thing. I'm sorry your grandma was a stupid F. I don't use swear words but this is too terrible. It's her son. I would beat the crap out of him and notify all family to keep their kids away. I won't invite him to any family gathering with kids. If he ever does it again, he's not my son anymore.
It's painful but these deeds are very serious.
Your lucky TN has a limited time you can file charges for S.A/C.A as an adult its five yrs past 18yrs old I still belonged to religious cult til 26yrs old and didn't have the guts to report it I left cult at 26 I have ZERO CONTACT WITH BIO FAMILY BECAUSE OF ABUSE I don't talk abt childhood ppl dont believe the shyt I went through as a kid so I keep quiet I also known how abnormal my home was kudos to you for you following thru with getting the cops involved tht took GUTS WHEN BEEN BULLIED INTO SILENCE so when we speak ppl are angry and shocked
Proud of u
Respect,listen they’ll be fine with denial n probably happened a closer than you think,as for me i would forgive n no more conversations period,family knows n don’t say or do anything/my grands know nobody touch unless I’m checking a sore,dr n other than that say something n 911 on scene with whatever i tell they must bring/stay strong n continue going forward,blessings
Respect,see when you hold all that pain/trauma n side it’s hurting you/one man that truly loves you ,doesn’t have a clue on past trauma and let it out/forgive n move on without em being n ya life,it’s sad how some mad,some would say guess they wanted more relatives to endure pain/definitely know how you feel n betcha if you wrote a book they’ll smile/there’s a lot of people that endured this n books published/letting em know im still standing
This has been one of the most encouraging testimonies I have EVER heard. I as well have been through my share of trauma and your story really hits home because now I work with moms whos children have been taken by CPS. I know the evil that goes on in those foster care homes. I am gonna share your story with all these mom's I work with who feel like their trial seems too big for God to even intervene, but ma'am your story proves that NOTHING is impossible for our Heavenly father. I am gonna look for your books and everything else your involved with because this is just BEAUTIFUL!!
Our Foster Care system is a JOKE. Actually a Nightmare. A kid's nightmare. This is why having no planned parenthood and a horrible health care system in this country leads us here!!
@@hnybee113 💯💯💯
Your so sweet ❤❤❤ beautifully written…..
Amen Jesus bless you ❤
If nothing is too impossible for God then it should have never happened in the first place. God should have never put her, her sister or any other child in such a position. What happened to God protecting children and fools? Save your God scriptures for someone else!
Sug’s eyes look very kind, and y’all are beautiful. I’m sorry for your loss, but so happy for you that you found your original love after so much time and pain. God bless you❤
Earlina, if you ever read this, I just wanna say how thankful I am that you're sharing your experiences and just how incredible of a human being you are. You deserve nothing but love and happiness in your life, God bless you.
Your story gave me chills. I am so glad you and Sug found each other in the end.
Earlina is an unstoppable force. Definitely on this earth for a specific reason.
That woman she met in hospital....wow that gave me chills.
What an INCREDIBLE woman to do that.
Omg!!!! She ended up marrying the guy she met when she was 14!
You ARE somebody!! You are NOT damaged goods!! YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!! You ARE LOVED!!
Amen!
Sometimes they need to be told they did nothing wrong. Family can be the worst. Her brother is also traumatized. Imagine he being better than grown men. Those males needed a bullet how can you destroy kids. Grandma was just as bad. They always protect the males.
Tears filled my eyes towards the end . Thank you Jesus for turning this story around 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾I don’t know you ma’am but I love you ❤️
Awww. Amen!
Yes!! You are loved!! Your story brings encouragement and perspective. Thank you! May God RICHLY bless you on both sides of heaven
Got me over here crying. I was happy she got her man then cried edd ben more when i hesrd he passed.May God continue to bless and keep her as He has.
Im from Canton & I wish I knew these ppl you speak of. This is a small town everybody knows everybody. These monsters need exposed.
Incredible woman. Spreading God’s love, what a blessing she is
I can’t stop crying! What a testimony!!
This is such a sad story, and I cringe to think about how much our system fails children on a regular basis. I am so sorry for everything you went through, and thank you so much for sharing your story.
Thank you Lord! As a Christian this is so encouraging. Thank you Lord for this sister in Christ! Thank you for her testimony! Thank you for keeping her and for her life that glorifies you and points people back to you. Her story is a story of victory!
I was NOT expecting that ending!
This is AMAZING!!
Thank you so much for sharing your amazing testimony sister!! Ugh!
Thank you Jesus!!!!
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾💖💛💖💖🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
What a strong, beautiful soul. So sorry she went through so much. My trauma can be debilitating at times, but people like you give me hope. Keep living sista ❤❤
My utmost respect to you, Earlina Shine! You went through things nobody should have to endure and you’re still here, sharing your story and now knowing what a healthy relationship is like. Many blessings to you ❤❤
Such a bittersweet story!!! God please give her the rest of her days in luxury and happiness. A true testament of nice people finishing last…
I'm so sorry, my God. I'm so glad Sug found you again and showed you what it means to be loved.
You are a strong and amazing woman!
Molesters are within the family, this is why I will never let my children to have a sleep over anywhere.
It’s crazy the life paths we take due to poor parenting. Sometimes for the best, sometimes it defeats us. But you must always keep on going!
Her story is so inspirational! She's a warrior and a hero. I want to thank her for breaking the cycle and keeping her own children safe.
BIG SHAME ON THAT GRANDMOTHER FOR NOT HELPING HER
This woman is incredible , she gives me strength
I cried and cried. I am glad you and your true love found each other again. ❤ God bless you and your family.
I am in tears…You are my inspiration, motivation, and thanks for sharing your story with us all.
Thank God for that wonderful woman who adopted you! I was so very sad until I heard that part of your story, and then the part where you and your champion reunited! What a story you have. Wow. So much pain but then so much healing!!
Thank God for ending of your life story.
This is my favorite testimony thus far! Im so happy she had a good man to help heal her. God is truly amazing
No matter what you are going through... It's always someone that has it worse than you... Lord have mercy our life is relatable I'm thankful for you sharing this story and it really uplifted me in my sobriety and in my depression 😢❤
My heart is just breaking into splinters at the unfairness and tradgedy these precious girls have endured! I’m so so sorry that these terrible things happened. God bless you and your wonderful husband. You are my hero, thank you for your courage dearest angel, xx
This story is so touching this woman has gone thru soooooo much! How sick can a family and people be! The fact she found the love of her life years later GOD is so good! This woman is beyond strong May GOD continue to bless her and her family ! 🙏🏾
I am shedding tears for your pain. You are brilliant. I’m so glad God reconnected you with your love.
What a Angel Sent From Heaven ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Hallelujah!! A Divine representation of how God's love will find you not when you want him to but when you need him to. I am not religious but I'm definitely spiritual and your story of triumph has given me the strength that I need to go on in these trying times. Your positivity and perseverance is something to be admired and you will give strength to so many. I'm so glad that you got your prince charming even for a short of time in the end. I love to hear how you were able to use your gifts to express your life, yourself and your struggles and I love you Miss Nicey. Keep the faith for me and you both God bless you
I'm 20 seconds in and already in disbelief. Today, July 6, 2023, marks 4 years of sobriety for me. I went to jail in 2019 and found out I was pregnant that night. Until that point, I was a heroin, fentanyl, crack and coke addicted escort who never wanted kids and wanted to party myself to death. Literally. Finding out I was pregnant was scary and I wasn't sure what I was going to do. I knew I didn't want to play Russian roulette with my sobriety and a baby. That wouldn't be fair. As the days went by and I'm still in prison, I'm talking to the other women and am having my first sober thoughts in 10+ years. I'm talking to my mom daily and she doesn't want me to have the baby if it means I'm leaving her to raise it. She's handicapped and wouldn't be able to. But for some reason I started thinking maybe I could be a mom. Again, I never wanted any kids but this feeling was taking over. I decided to keep my child and I am in love with him! I would do anything and everything to protect him! I can't and won't let him down. My point is.. I do not understand how and why so many parents but especially moms could ever hurt their child physically, mentally or emotionally. My son saved my life and I just love him more than I could ever explain. I hate hearing about children that aren't or didn't receive the love they deserve(d)
Good on you! And yes we're suppose to protect our kids. And also other kids and the weak in general. Why are there so many monsters walking this earth...
I've always lived a sheltered life. Been very fortunate with good parents, career and husband. You've been on the other side, as a mum, do you think we need to be very careful with people who appear good but is a monster? I'm in the well educated; wealthy area.... is this also happening here?
First of all, I want to say I’m sorry that you went through all this. Your testimony has touched me and probably will encourage me not to give up today.
This story touched me more than any story I've seen here. God bless you, your story has touched me greatly. Wow
She is breaking generational curses by talking about it. Most people can't heal because they can't speak about it. I am sending you a hug from afar.
Such a horrific story. Your uncles, grandmother were such evil people. So many people let you down including your mother. Blessings to you Earlina. May God and the angels protect you now. I’m so glad your life is good now you deserve it. 🥰🙏
I tried to keep the tears at bay !!!
I am so glad you made it through !!!
It's hard. 😢 Lol
@MegaDede25 I didn't. I burst into tears and I'm still crying.
The photos at the end were so beautiful. I'm heartbroken.
The system failed this beautiful lady through and through.
I am in disbelief and so disgusted 😣😣😣 and only half way through.
*Edit*
What a rollercoaster watch. This beautiful lady is an absolute heroine!💛
Best story y’all ever produced! She’s is an inspiration! Praise God for this woman!
You are an unbelievably strong, inspiring, and lovely woman, Earlina!! It truly does sound like God was there for you when you were in the hospital that last time and your miracle of a mother popped in right on time to swoop in and give you a loving family. I am so happy to hear about you and Sug reuniting all those years later, also, so you could love one another in a more peaceful time. Thank you for sharing your life with us. I hope God continues to heal you 💜
What a story… never give up on yourself is what I heard through all of this. God bless you. ❤❤❤❤
Powerful! God is so merciful and gracious. Hallelujah!
Thank you for sharing your challenging life story. I am actually horrified to hear what happens in the American foster system (20 out of 22 homes!?) and I am so so sorry to hear that you couldn't trust in your family to keep you safe and loved as a child. Every child deserves safety.
What a wonderful, beautiful woman. Such a tragic story and a beautiful story. Could listen to her for hours ❤
I was so hoping that you and that man would find each other so happy and proud of you Queen❤❤❤
May god continue to bless you, your children, and grandchildren
I didn't shed a tear UNTIL she said "Let me tell you how good God is..." 😭 Nisey your testimony is so inspirational. May blessings continue to flow for you!!!
Powerful testimony! Thank you for telling your story. You are a chain-breaker and true warrior! ❤
I have cried my eyes out listening to your story but you have the happiest of beginnings when God sent your husband❤❤❤
This gives me the chills. You’ve been through so much. I’m glad you and Sug were able to be reunited. God bless you ❤ thank you for sharing your powerful testimony.
Nisey, despite your horrendous troubles you've evolved into a beautiful person. I so admire your courage, passion and strength. I'm sure your story will help and guide the many others facing struggles in their lives. Thank you.
I have been through the same things. My goodness me and this sister has so much in common. It would be a honor to meet her❤
Awww bless yr heart. The most high sent that man back to you. Your protector besides yr brother. May the most high be with you.🩵💙💙🙏🙏🙏
What started out as a horrible life ended up as a beautiful and happy ending. God sent her man back to her and her new mom came to her in the hospital and everything was good from that point on. This queen almost brought me to tears telling her tragic story. Many prayers and blessings to you sis. Won’t God do it? ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
All I can say is "wow". What an incredible journey you have had. I am so glad you were reunited with Sug but I am so sorry all of this happened to you. Everything happens for a reason and you are put here on this earth to tell your story and help others who are going through similar to give hope to them and they too will hopefully become a survivor just like you! God bless you!
Rest in Peace Sug. Im so glad you found each other again. Thank you for sharing yoir life. You're wonderful.
You’re one of those angels on Earth. A beautiful woman, a beautiful story, a beautiful soul. Thank you so much for sharing your story.
Having the strength to tell your story is truly unmatched. I am so sorry you had to endure this at the hands of someone who should of been protecting you 😞 your story is truly a testimony. Best wishes to you in all that you do 🙏🏾
Sweet angel of a brother
This just gave me chills my goodness
My GOD ! I'm in tears right now! GLORY BE TO GOD 🙌🏾 Thank you, JESUS, for bringing her through it all. You had so much instore for her in life. All I can say is wooooow! As tears drop from my eyes! She is a true living Testimony! ❤
Me tooooo😪😭
My God. My God. You summed me up in this moment.
Wiping away tears for this beautiful woman . An incredible story teller . God bless you xx
This is an amazing woman!!!!!!! I'm in tears. I have 7 kids and been through a lot of what she has. This gives me hope because I'm on my own with my kids because I don't want them mistreated anymore. Maybe one day I'll be with someone that isn't abusive but in the meantime it's God, me and my babies. Thankyou soooo much for reminding me that God protects everyone🕊️💜💙💜💙💜💙💜💙🕊️
Prayers going up for you. Things will work out 🙏❤️🙏
What a lovely woman and story. I am in tears. God kept her.
Really powerful story. I’m so sorry about the loss of Sug. He sounded like a wonderful guy and I’m so happy you guys were able to reconnect in the end.
Your strength and resilience is truly admirable. 🖤
I’m so impressed with your strength, beauty, resilience. Not being wanted by your own Mother cuts deep. I struggle with that myself.😔. At every turn you were smacked down. May you only have blessings from here on out.
This was so painful to watch...may God comfort you ma'm and everyone who has had to endure such trauma
I'm sorry, keep going girl you are strong, you surpassed all of this! You can surpass more! The best wishes, you deserved better, it wasn't yur fault, and never give up!❤
I am so freaking sorry for what happened to you. You are the bravest person I saw in a long time. You are worthy to God, you may not be worthy to your mother and to whole world, but you are Gods creation and you are worthy 😢. Your name shouldn't be Nisey, but Hope, you survived even that after all you already went trough and was able to forgive all of them. God blessed you with that hopefull soft but strong soul of yours.
*Sad 😢and beautiful story. Sorry for all that you went through. Just know YOU'RE a strong Woman indeed!* ❤✊💪
I literally cried when Sug found her PERIOD 🥰🥰🥰🥰❤️
Im 43.. i lived the same exact life. Except no children.. i am in tears right now
Amongst all of the horror and terror she went through, the love story made me smile❤️ Thank you so much for sharing your story !