ways to feel more masculine (if you're trans)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 2 มิ.ย. 2024
- another video for my transmasc subscribers (and future subscribers), here's a list of tips and tricks for feeling more masculine, especially when you're pre-t and maybe even pre-coming out as a trans guy/nonbinary person
0:00 Intro
2:16 Clothing
3:34 Hygiene products
4:46 Underwear
5:27 Working out
6:48 Pyjamas
8:00 Video games
8:37 Piercings
9:14 Shaving
9:41 The final tip
10:11 Outro
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As a cis-dude I'm not sure if this'll help but:
If you like the look, Leather biker and bomber jackets can be a good choice since they tend to have extra padding around the shoulders and collar.
Also in terms of hygiene products Lynx (or Axe if you're outside the United Kingdom, Ireland, Australia or New Zealand) has a really nice smelling "Leather & Cookies" deodorant and shower gel.
As a slight side-note: I do think that many hygiene products are unnecessarily gendered... The stuff I use for my hair is mostly marketed towards women but it's good for taming my long hair.
thank you for the help dude! cis help is always nice
That's so nice of u bro thanks for the tips
cis dudes supporting trans dudes will never not have my heart, have a nice day man you're great
i love leather and cookies
Leather is my favorite snack
If only my step dad didn't give me a death threat 💀
Im so sorry for u :( hope it gets better
i’d like an update, has things gotten better?
My biggest tip: go buy a men’s razor and shave your facial hair. It helps me a lot dealing with my disphoria. I thought I would feel worse, because like my “beard” is gone, but no. The feeling of a shaved face (even for days after) is so amazing.
and the more you shave an area, it grows back darker, thicker and more lol
I pass very well in public, here are some things to try!
Try getting a haircut that matches your face, I have a heart shaped face, so I have a mullet. Since I've cut my hair like that I've been passing very very well.
I would recommend exploring what styles make you look masc, that could be a mullet, a buzz cut, or fluffy shags! Whatever makes you feel more like you.
Makeup! Do not over contour...it makes you look weird and bruised, trust me I know from experience, lolz! Light contour really helps with passing.
Loose clothes! Oversized T's can make you look a little kid, but if you wanna, go ahead! Men's clothes are loose fitting, so finding some are pretty easy.
Mind you, these tips might not work for everyone. Everyone is different!
Good luck :)
Your glasses really fit your face! I was wondering which ones to choose for me that will both fit me and will be masculine. Great video!!
about the boxers thing. i’m afab non-binary and hanes makes briefs *fitted* for female parts (no awkward pocket)…but they’re long enough on the thighs that they feel like men’s undies. they’re very comfortable.
Great video, dude! I'm at a fun stage in my transition (Pre-T, out socially since 2019, finally gotten around to identifying as a binary guy) where the vast majority of the time I get well-intentioned misgenderings from strangers, but every so often somebody is utterly confused as to how I'm not a cis dude. One time I told a girl I was trans at a party (because my step-cousin of all people deadnamed me) and she went “Oh my god, you're non-binary?!” because she was convinced I was AMAB.
Personally something that makes me feel really masculine, although it definitely doesn't apply to everyone, is taking an active role in flirting and relationships. Ex: I've got a type when it comes to shy, AMAB mlm/nblms meanwhile I'm a really outgoing extrovert, and that dynamic makes me feel like the ultimate Casanova lol
@@venomadness thank you, dude! Doing my best haha
I'm a girl but I dress masc and like to feel masc, so this kind of helps me too. I also just want to understand the trans experience more, so thank you for making content like this. And thank you for the tips, it seems really basic, but some of this stuff I hadn't even considered. You're epic, keep it up man.
Have you figured out you're under the trans umbrella yet
Im not trans ftm or mtf, im genderfluid but i have been feeling really dysphoric and mad that im not percieved as a guy more often, so yeah, im binge watching trans ftm and nb creators to give me tips, so thanks :)))
I dress in a mix of masc and femme because i find masculine clothing to usually be more comfortable and feminine clothes are really pretty and i love being a pretty boy
Also if you're a singer you can take the male harmonies. Also for duets =)
I'm so happy I found your channel
I relate to...EVERYTHING
bro when i say I’m literally binging your whole channel
the advice is top tier oml literally owe my whole career to you rn
dude ur videos are so nice, i love these tips 😌 thank you
THEO IS THE GOAT 💕
i really want to wear boxers but my mom don't actually support that >>at all
my mum was also not that excited about me wanting boxers. she tried to buy me womens "boxer cut" and stuff like that, but that all sucked, because it kept sliding around and stuff. what actually helped me A LOT was high-waisted womans underwear. unicolor, no pattern. the feeling of pulling underwear on higher than ever before is really great, and, you might actually see your underwear peeking above your pants just a bit. i live alone now, and buy my own boxers, but i still wear the high-waisted feminine underwear sometimes. i wish you luck on your journey, the future is bright and queer :)))
@@mickeystriker9487 this is so sweet!!! thanks for the advice
My mom also doesn't support (or know I'm genderfluid) but she once helped me pick out boxers purely to spite some old ladies who were giving me dirty looks for being in the mens clothes section (she's okay with me wearing guy clothes bc they're so much more comfortable than girl clothes)
Thanks for this video it helped alot
I pass really well actually the thing is that when people hear my voice they go back to calling me a girl like please no go back call me a boy
the video game one is absolute facts
one weird thing I do is I don't use emojis and copy the way of speaking from cis dudes lol
same, i just love speaking more monotone and mimicking the way cis males talk
Love you Theo miss you and Isaac posting on dimension bros always waiting for you to post
I’m a non-binary lesbian but most of the time I like to feel and look more on the masculine side.
Theo you litterally give such good advice I'm starting to binge watch and I subscribed !
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I always played a dude in video games except for Fo4 bc it's too dangerous for me if my family sees me, playing as a man, romance MacCready (another man) lmao but anyway thanks for this vid
I’m trans nonbinary masc
@♂mørgãñ↲ i think they mean they are a masculine presenting non-binary person. Also nonbinary isn't technically having no gender.
@@mo_onchild4You're right! I think agender is having no gender. Idk.
I’m probably going to suggest my mom get “men’s” razors because they’re cheaper. Hope it works.
Im finally getting my ear peirced lol most people do when their 13 😆
I'm many years too late and I don't pass as a dude, but at least I can do the thing where I only wear one on my left ear...
My people must know....
i've always loved piercings and wanted so many of them, but they also make me feel very feminine. i never thought to wear only one earring until i started having trouble with my right. i bougt a septum and i've been wearing it in my left ear for six years now. when my baby cousin asked why i wore an earring "like a boy", i was very happy :))) hope it goes/went well for you, but if not, that is fine too, there is always time to try new things
random note: i have, indeed, seen mens toothpaste.
I want to get the pope drunk to see what happens
Ok?
not me noticing how fucking dry my hands are and going to grab my bath and body works hand cream that someone gave me during the use men's hygene products lmao
ik this video is like 2 years old but here is a tip i really enjoy: tank tops. tank tops are great. i wear them exclusively while at home and to sleep since they can make your chest or binder very obvious (trans tape helps with that) but still very gender for me
Guys! Just ask your parents or parent to buy female boxers they probably wont even ask since its a thing, plus they are far more comfortable as theyre stretchy etc.
just a reminder that everyone here is very valid :D
why are people saying this video is white lol?
Fr lmao
im black trans male. Theres not much you could do in the closet cause first of all you cant cut your hair lmfao. plus black parents wouldnt allow you to wear clothings of the opposite gender
@@Valentino016 I totally understand that but i dont think that is only a problem for black trans men. Honestly i go through a similar problem with my family and im white lmao.
OMG NEW SUBSCRIBE ALERT (not to be that person)
I LOVE THIS CONTENT SM
HERE ARE MY TIPS AS A TRANS GUY
ALSO PERSONALLY I'D SAY GO ON WALKS BC UR LEGS LOOK RLLY GOOD/MASC
PLAY A SPORT
WALK UP TO RANDOM PPL N SAY "I'M TRANS" AND THEN WALK AWAY
TAKE A SMOKY EYEBROW PENCIL N GIVE YOURSELF A MUSTACHE/BEARD N U STILL GET THAT CLEAN SHAVEN FEELING
YW (:
One thing i rlly like doing is acting confused whenver i get misgendered or watever
If only my husband wasnt forcing me to stay in the closet for his own gain and reputation, like I'd bring him shame by being happy.
I Hope YOURE okay-
Men’s raiser’s are better than women’s
honestly i think if you got rid of that piercings and had a different , more basic/simple clothing style you would pass
Womp womp
trans tip(aka tt) GUM!!!!!!! chewing gum will give you a defined jawline.the sister of a trans man told me that tip and i tried ant it worked!!!! have fun my dudes:)
Is it just me or does he look like Chris from mr beast before they transitioned 😂
Rude
Are u white or are u white
Ur done
Dont you ever feel like you're too young to be making life altering changes such as taking hormones or having surgery on vital body parts.....?
nope! :)
putting aside how this focuses on a really White perception of transness, it's still a bad video
thanks ellie
Leave then
Haters hate when u on top
How?
as a poc, this feels pretty broad idk
these are things that make him feel more masculine,, and id rather have some white guy give me tips on how *he* feels more masc, than some white guy giving bad advice to poc
Have you tried listening to Van Halen?
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I'm looking for tips and information, but about 70% of the information comes out in English 🫠, but how far I understood your video is useful.👍