The Real Reason It's So Hard to STAND UP to Narcissists
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 20 ต.ค. 2024
- 🌟 Why is it so hard to stand up to narcissists? Discover the truth behind narcissistic abuse and trauma in this powerful conversation with high-conflict negotiation expert Rebecca Zung and trauma healing specialist Dr. Frank Anderson @FrankAndersonMD
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🔑 The impact of trauma on your ability to stand up to narcissists
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💪 Empowering yourself with Rebecca's proven SLAY Method (Strategy, Leverage, Anticipate, You)
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🔍 Understanding narcissistic traits and why they often stem from trauma
🛑 Breaking free from the victim mentality and embracing personal responsibility
💡 Actionable strategies to stand up to narcissists in both personal and professional relationships
🌍 How societal movements like #MeToo have brought narcissistic behaviors to the forefront
👨👩👧 Dr. Frank’s personal story of overcoming narcissistic abuse within his family
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The reason I have found that makes it so difficult to stand up against narcissists is because of their level of commitment to maintaining their power and public image. when it comes to remaining in control of their victim they are absolute extremists. They just don't like manipulating and abusing it's a requirement . Life is just not worth living without the power to manipulate, abuse and to think they appear perfect to the outside world. This makes them a formidable enemy. Failure is not an option. They will take risks and go to lengths most of us don't understand. They are fanatics. Most victims have no understanding of what these monsters are willing to do. This is why so many of us remain prisoners for decades. Every attempt to stand up for our selves is met with a overwhelming retaliation. These people absolutely follow through with their threats. After awhile many victims begin to view the narcissist as all powerful and unbeatable. There is a way out. Don't fight face to face. You can't win this kind of fight. Instead secretly plan your escape. leave without warning. Get far away. let your lawyer fight them. Yes they will try to take whatever they can from you but they can't stop you from living a better life. Don't live in fear. Just leave.
Yes indeed. Narcissists are also very selective of their targets, and their motivations include protecting a deeply inherent sense of shame, which includes hiding it behind a false public image. In the end, all bullies are cowards deep down, and they do give up sometimes. It's difficult to stand up to a narcissist especially if we were raised to give in or avoid conflict. So you're correct, persistent fighting the right way will eventually cause a narcissistic situation to collapse. Other times, just getting out if possible is the way. Thank you for inspiring me to think about this.
@@danielkaiser8971… interesting that you mention avoiding conflict but so many narcissists are all about conflict. Are you describing a covert narcissist or a way to get a narcissist to narcissist to back down?
So afraid to leave…mostly because of the kids and the threats he has made to do all in his power keep them from me and I also can’t imagine leaving my kids with him for visits. so happy you got away. Do you have kids?
It’s hard because reaction you make, leads to another trap.
Thank you Rebecca ! Thank you Frank Anderson ❤🩹👍👍
as a big fan of RZ, i hope that this dialogue between her and FA will continue in this format; their combined legal and clinical perspectives are so deep and broad on this subject as to be highly engaging and at the same time empowering. RZ and FA, i hope you will continue this dialogue in this format.
They have motor mouth. They are committed to spewing whatever twisted form of reality they can. They think the more they can run the conversation and get out there the more in the right they are. It’s exhausting getting your point of view out there while they are running block. Most people just avoid them and the narc wins. When normal people just don’t want to deal with them.
Absolutely correct. Dominance over others and over situations is a very common method used by narcissists to stay in control and manipulatively exhaust others into submission.
@@Slimtc1 sooo very true!!!
I am currently getting a divorce from a narcissistic control freak . She is not happy Intel my children and my self are feeling just as miserable. I am fighting for my kids .
Yes, beiing able to be independent or become independent so you can have the power to make the choice ..
So what happens if you a victim that didn’t have narcissism in your childhood yet have been traumatized by the men in their adult life who were many various forms of narcissists that had problematic childhoods of trauma themselves
Each individual is responsible for their own choices and behaviors. We must heal ourselves in adulthood and become better people, and we are responsible for stopping the cycle of abuse that passes down from one generation to the next. We are responsible only for ourselves and our own life in this respect, and so are all other adults for their own life.
Thank you so much to the both of you for this, Absolutely tremendous, Peace, love and respect to you and everyone, Thank you universe, All glory praise and smiles to the most high :-)
It's NOT. It's also not my job to stand up either.
🕊️ Notice: For the Homeless/ Financially Burdened.
The trauma in your narcs childhood is not your problem. If you start to see them as injured innocents you get deeper into their trap. They made their choices, you make yours. This guy is not on track.
Especially if it's an adult child an you are a stroke survivor with Aphasia