A Bit of a Flop? My Friends by Hisham Matar [Spoiler Free Review]

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  • Spoiler free review of My Friends by Hisham Matar - A Booker Prize 2024 Longlisted book.
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  • @EricKarlAnderson
    @EricKarlAnderson หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    A shame you didn't feel an emotional connection to the central character and that you didn't enjoy it more, but interesting to hear your honest reaction to the book. It is interesting to consider what the novel might have been like if it'd been narrated from a different character's point of view though I found it really interesting to consider how he was caught in a limbo state of life and continued to live in exile from his native country even after it was safer for him to return. Before reading the novel did you know about this historical incident in 1984 involving gunfire on a peaceful protest in central London? It was a surprising to me to learn that it was real since I hadn't heard of the event before and it was quite sobering for me to then visit the memorial to the police woman who was killed in this square. I love it when novels tip me off to recent historical events I wasn't previously aware of. You may not be interested in exploring anything else by this author but I'd really recommend reading Matar's memoir The Return which concerns his personal loss, sense of exile and his father's disappearance under the Gaddafi regime.

    • @GemofBooks
      @GemofBooks  หลายเดือนก่อน

      I didn’t know that it was a real historical event before, very scary! I can imagine that visiting the memorial having read this would have been very emotional.
      I’m sad that this one didn’t work for me, but I am still keen to try Matars memoir.
      Thanks for your thoughts Eric 🧡

  • @justheathers
    @justheathers หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I felt similarly to you. The author says as part of the winding up of the story that it's "undramatic" which is how I felt about it. It could be called "People I knew". It was much easier to read than This Strange Eventful History, and I prefer My Friends over that one, but it was solidly average for me.

    • @GemofBooks
      @GemofBooks  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Solidly average is the perfect way to describe it. I don’t think I’m even going to attempt Strange Evenful History, from all the reviews I’ve heard I’m pretty sure I won’t like it 😬

    • @justheathers
      @justheathers หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@GemofBooks yes I think your time is much better spent elsewhere! 📖😅

  • @madworld1962
    @madworld1962 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I just finished reading it tonight. I completely agree. I'm about to start reading Matar's memoir, The Return. I think it'll be more up my alley :)

    • @GemofBooks
      @GemofBooks  หลายเดือนก่อน

      You’ll have to let me know if you enjoy the memoir more 👍🏻

    • @madworld1962
      @madworld1962 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@GemofBooks So I finished Matar's memoir. It suffers from the same problem as My Friends, believe it or not. I can see Khaled's voice in Matar and both are kinda emotionally unapproachable? With the memoir I was left feeling Matar's anger, but not really his pain, though he describes it. He's a good writer, but I don't a connection.

    • @GemofBooks
      @GemofBooks  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @madworld1962 ahhh, thanks for letting me know. I think I’ll give it a miss 😬

  • @zachreads
    @zachreads 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "The Natural way of things" by Charlotte Wood ended up being a bit of a flop for me (3.25☆).
    I'm not sure what exactly the message was supposed to be and the premise and how the story unfolded didn't really make sense to me.
    It was well written and engaging enough but nebulous and unbelievable.
    I understand why the person in the live chat gave it 2☆ but I liked it more than that.

    • @GemofBooks
      @GemofBooks  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ahhh that’s a shame. Hey ho - onto the next eh?!

  • @CharlieBrookReads
    @CharlieBrookReads 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Always good to hear your thoughts and reviews so thank you for sharing it with us. I think I will try a sample of both the audio and the physical just to see. ❤

    • @GemofBooks
      @GemofBooks  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’m intrigued to see if this will be the ‘Trespasses’ of the Booker 😂

  • @BookishTexan
    @BookishTexan 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I almost bought this on last week. Still not sure, but I appreciate hearing your thoughts.

    • @GemofBooks
      @GemofBooks  หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think this is definitely a Brian book!

  • @spreadbookjoy
    @spreadbookjoy หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    A shame! I’m going to predict right now that you won’t find a better book than James on the list. Even though I’ve yet to read it myself 😂

    • @GemofBooks
      @GemofBooks  หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m predicting the same mate - I don’t know why I put myself through this ever year 🫣

  • @HelenSchneider-tl3yh
    @HelenSchneider-tl3yh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is my favorite book of the year so far. Perhaps one needs to live under dictatorship to connect with he character :)

    • @GemofBooks
      @GemofBooks  หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m glad you loved it. I definitely think I’m in the minority with my opinion.

  • @Showmeyourshelfie
    @Showmeyourshelfie หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm reading this next. I'm sorry it wasnt a winner for you. Im half way through The Safekeep and I like the writing a lot and am enjoying disliking the main character. Looking forward to your thoughts on that one.

    • @GemofBooks
      @GemofBooks  หลายเดือนก่อน

      The Safekeep will be next up for me!
      I hope you like My Friends more than I did 😬

  • @readingoffmyshelf2088
    @readingoffmyshelf2088 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for your review. Love to hear your thoughts on a book .

    • @GemofBooks
      @GemofBooks  หลายเดือนก่อน

      You’re welcome matey 🧡

  • @BookwormAdventureGirl
    @BookwormAdventureGirl 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ohhhh .... this is one I wanted to read from the list. Still might read it but it is not near the top. 😊💙

    • @GemofBooks
      @GemofBooks  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      If you haven’t read James yet I’d defo start with that over this 😄

    • @BookwormAdventureGirl
      @BookwormAdventureGirl หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@GemofBooks James is a must read for me.

  • @anges_book_chatter
    @anges_book_chatter 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It’s sliding to the end of my Booker tbr. 📚

    • @GemofBooks
      @GemofBooks  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah - I’m not sure you’ll love it Ange 🫣

  • @Rainierbooks
    @Rainierbooks หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have ordered it from the library, but will have to wait some weeks more. Curious, if I can detect any emotions in the book.

    • @GemofBooks
      @GemofBooks  หลายเดือนก่อน

      There definitely are emotions, just to subtle for me. I prefer to be smacked in the face with emotional anguish, and this doesn’t do that 😂

  • @TheLeniverse
    @TheLeniverse 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Oh no! I am so looking forward to reading this book! I hope this is one of the ones that we will disagree on. 😬

    • @GemofBooks
      @GemofBooks  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I hope so too - if Goodreads ratings are anything to go by, I am not in the majority with this one

  • @jacquelinemcmenamin8204
    @jacquelinemcmenamin8204 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m currently listening to Wild Houses and two other Irish books
    The Coast Road and
    The Alternatives

    • @GemofBooks
      @GemofBooks  หลายเดือนก่อน

      I finished Wild Houses - how are you getting on with it?

  • @katrinamuritala3207
    @katrinamuritala3207 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m reading this next on no xx

    • @GemofBooks
      @GemofBooks  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hopefully you’ll disagree with me 😬😂