One INFP Trait to RULE THEM ALL
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 13 ต.ค. 2024
- In this video I discuss my very favorite aspect of INFPs (the one which seems to be the most prevalent among INFPs) as well as the “runner up” personality trait. INFPs have some amazing characteristics but one of them wins the gold medal here.
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This video confirm what I've suspected for a while: INFPs absolutely NEED our introspection time. I used to think it was a sign I was lazy and unfocused. But I realized when I'm happiest, and even more productive, is when I allow myself those moments to just briefly sit and tune in to my own thoughts. It's like hitting a button to reset and we're okay afterward.
Yep we NEED it
Also I learn a lot from my daydreams. I think about all kinds of scenarios and how they can turn out different ways, how I would feel and act, how I should, how other people would and why etc. etc. etc... My outer world can seem small and plain but my inner world is so big I don't even know how to describe.
Love the way you described that, thanks for watching and your comment Flower chase the sunshine
We definitely have that childish pov that let us preserve our third eye, I feel others usually struggle to dream, while we may struggle to keep feet on the ground but we're predisposed to control our dreams with the heart, which is beautiful
Yeah it’s like INFPs are on the other side of the coin in terms of that
We feel things too deeply and it can be too much to handle sometimes
Yes truth
So much agree with this statement 🤗
It's thanks to daydreaming that I could write stories and even have recurring characters.
YES
Only my INFJ daughter doesn't like it when I ask questions to clarify when actively listening. So I have learned to make myself wait until she is done and try to listen while making mental notes of any questions, and save them for the end, if I haven't lost the question I had by then. 😊. I Try. My INFJ Bio daughter is a very sensitive soul. Totally agree about the INFP day dreaming being a great place to go for healing and rejuvenation. 😊 Thank you for the video 🤗
Thanks for watch Crystal. I noticed that both ISFJ and INFJs don’t like to be bombarded with questions when telling something.
As an INFP with both autistic and ADHD traits, listening to others with my whole brain can either be super easy or really difficult for me...but I still want to cultivate this skill more strongly. Thanks for the inspiration!
You’re very welcome ☺️
oh my god finally someone with the same difficulties, I face the same problem even tho I am not clinically diagnosed with ADHD but I can so relate to this. I am aware of my concentration disorder difficulties which eventually harm my active listening skills.
Yep, I've spent years and years daydreaming myself through boring jobs and things I didn't want to do. I mean it's pretty much a 24/7 thing. But when I was 17 I have this memory of an ESTJ uncle of mine making me and my ESTJ brother spend days and days concreting and building a shed on a farm. I only coped by silently daydreaming my way through the misery XD
Yeah it seems like we do that especially during mundane repetitive jobs and tasks
Love this! You're super cool for describing your daydreams and how they can switch on at will...yesss, that's exactly it! It's been such a natural and ongoing part of my life, I thought everyone had an extreme daydream world until I learned about MBTI. Just a couple hours ago, my husband walked in talking about something. Then he looked at me and said 'Hold up. Your mind is gone to your other universe...Nope, I'll talk to you later!' Lol, guess he knows my daydream look🤣So, what is it about our function stack that makes us the masters at daydreaming? The FiNe combo?
Desiree I think it is that combo yes couple with feeling like an escape artist from life due to past challenges.. maybe others have some ideas why we do this too?
@@psychcasserole Yes, as you mentioned, daydreaming definitely provides a pleasant, creative escape from a world that's not very INFP-friendly
Perhaps daydreaming is our therapy for being subjected to this dark world? In my opinion, my own connectivity to people can border on psychic and I can carry the residue of their happenings and depress into a depressive state, finding that some time after I learn they were dealing with some issue. Crazy isn't it! Great video as always 😊
Glad you liked it and thanks for your input. It’s like our private healing space within us that protects us because we are so sensitive to this world.
@@psychcasserole absolutely, yes private healing space
Bingo...my imagination is unreal...I've often said to my wife (ENFJ) if you could only see in my world it would blow you away.
I think having a rich inner world is a super power.
It is Sandra 💪
Who is to say we have to participate in life and that there is a proper way to function as a human... functioning as a proper human is a societal perspective that makes the world dark... perhaps a shift in thinking what is proper and what is not is needed... I function enough to make sure my family survives in society, in most cases I have no want or need to function more than that unless I have something to say... like now...
True that. Everyone has their own perspective on how to function best for themselves in this world. Thanks for your comment Kayla.
INFJ wife thinks it's all about how I fit in the world and everything else relates to me in my head. Very self centered. I don't think she really understands that I know we've both given up everything to be with each other, but I feel like what we've gained is greater than our individual experiences. When she comes to me with something that's on her mind I'm totally absorbed in it and completely with her. Often in a way that I've dissolved from my present experience and am in the experience she's trying to work out. I feel like this combined both experiences you just spoke about here
John thanks for sharing your experience and for watching as well 😊
Daydreams as a tool? I like it! Thanks Brendon.
Ive heard about an INFP that went daydreaming so hard that he never came back. Hes now in a room sitting staring the wall permanently. Tragic.
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I wondered while watching, do INFPs have reoccurring dreams. I experience these and can change the outcome, but they seems to start/ dream in the same place. Daydreaming is very coping but I catch myself feeling like I’m losing control in day dreams but not in regular dreams. Thank you for sharing such deep thoughts displayed. Peace.
Interesting I wonder the same 🤔
I don't know if this is related, but if I'm going somewhere and I don't remember the best way to get there, I can litterly visualize a map and plot my route. I can also visualize other things in order to solve problems. I can even see through walls(not really, but if i know what the room on the other side of the wall looks like, i can visualize the room on the other side of the wall.) I consider it to be a superpower of sorts. The only thing that sucks about daydreaming is that I do get some very unpleasant daydreams from time to time. If I randomly think of somthing like somones flesh falling off of their body, I can litterly visualize it and then I can't unsee it. One time I thought about a nuke going off when I was in the kitchen and I imagined hearing a loud bang as the cieling came crashing down very quickly and everything went black. I imagined the feeling of the cieling impacting my body. None of that stuff actually happened and it wasnt like a hallucination or anything but it was so vivid that I can recall it like an actual memory. It's definitely an ability I believe needs to be used with caution for the sake of ones mental health.
Interesting, possibly sounds like imagination with another component 🤔 or something
Hi Brendan,only me an INFP, Joanna from the UK. I absolutely hated maths so I disappeared into my own magic inner world and I remember my maths teacher actually calling me ‘ Dolly Daydream’ 😂😂😂
Hey Joanna 👋 wow you even had a daydream nickname 😮
Gosh, I really wanna experience an INFP daydream 🥺😭
I thought my ENFJ daydreams were pretty lit, but I don't fully escape into them bc I'm aware that I'm trying to daydream lol.
Some people tell me, directly or indirectly that I need to "develop" a personality. If I had no personality, I would fit in just perfectly. Perhaps it is a question of transcending it through embracing it.
Thanks for sharing Vikram 😊
Aptly said.
Thanks Andrew 😊🤘
I resonate so much with what you say. However, I am an INTJ-T, but my thinking/feeling is consistently 51/49%. Therefore, I am a wobbler. I only started watching your videos because I had my heartbroken by an INFP and I keep trying to see what I did wrong or what I could have done differently (typical T). I also love to create my own virtual reality and often do it while I am doing stuff just to keep myself sane. The thing that is so frustrating about INFPs is how easy they are to manipulate. Does that change as they get older?
Also, daydreaming is manifesting so it's not pointless or a time waster. Its a personal, portable, vision board which is necessary for anyone to have a goal. In order to have a goal, one must first have the vision.
I would say that MBTI type and ability to be manipulated won’t necessarily be related
@@psychcasseroleActually, INFP will be manipulative if they feel threatened or when they're coping. So l thing it's quite related but yeah it changes as we grow.
Ive been in a long standing mental block trying to determine if I'm an ISFP or INFP. I'm struggling to come to terms with what makes more sense to me and pinning down what type i actually think fits me best.
Watching these videos helps a little, but all of the different descriptions both sound like me and not at the same time, which is a little frustrating.
Hmmm it would be interesting to find out your type, based on what you just said
@Psych Casserole I feel sometimes it's hard for me to self reflect and sort of actualize what I'm thinking or feeling. I tend to boil it down to "I'm just me" Having lots of possibilities is exciting, but it also sort of makes me question if what I chose was right, or if I've made a mistake or wasn't being true to myself.
A really good example is when I play video games with branching paths. When a choice is presented to me, sometimes I'll have to completely put the game down and agonize over every possible outcome to make sure I'm adhering to my personal values, or doing what feels right, even if the choice has very little actual impact in the game. I want to make a decision and I guess a "correct" decision, but it may be more than that. I want to make the right decision FOR ME, not necessarily the most objectively correct decision in terms of game play advantage or reward.
I don't know if that in any way made sense, and it probably doesn't actually narrow anything down, but it was nice to rant for a little bit 😆
@@brandoncreek5709that sounds very infp. We overthink every possible outcome but still choose what's right for us because our desire is too strong. Yeah very FiNe😂
So if the world is dark and full of darkness where is the light found? Who is the light? The third eye thing can be and really is a big deception honestly... We are not gods unto ourselves. We are created beings, made for a purpose by our Creator. The world is such a mess because of utter rebellion against the Creator who originally made all things quite good, and only He can restore that, when He will🌿
It really can be deceptive you’re right. There is light and darkness found everywhere in this world.