ObGyn Doctor Reacts: Didn't Know I Was Pregnant | FLIGHT ATTENDANT
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 พ.ค. 2024
- Board Certified Ob/Gyn physician Danielle Jones, MD - known online as Mama Doctor Jones, reviews an episode of TLC's "I Didn't Know I Was Pregnant" while teaching and commenting on the show.
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When mine and my husband’s first son was born, I was holding him and looked up at my husband with starry eyes and said “DO YOU LOVE HIM!?” And my husband said... “well I don’t know him?” 😂😂 the most honest answer he could’ve possibly given.
Kaydie Adair 😂😂
I just love this comment! 👏🏻😄
Yes, this comment!! 😂😂
So you were never around him while you were pregnant...? Odd
@@satalooz when did she EVER say she wasn't around him??? What an odd comment...... 🤔
My oldest baby didn't cry when born. I was so scared. The doctor said "he's looking around. He's fine". I thought he was lying until they brought him to me while they were stitching me up. Yup he was fine. Just looking.
My mom told me I was asleep during my birth, lol!
@@nekoni4414 awww. You were like "shhhhh I am napping"
This happened to me but the doctor pinched me to make me cry.
How crazy to find you in the comments, Soror! Lol. Monica Statuesque
Baby "this shit is weird. This looks nothing like my room. Wtf?"
I came out silent, my mom thought I was dead. I learned to walk at 10 months and then decided I was self sufficient enough that I didn't learn to talk until I was 3, then spoke in nearly full sentences. Also stayed bald till I was about 3-4. I think I'm an only child because my parents were scared of WTH the next one would do.
I was also a bald baby until like 3-4
And I was born with, according to my mother, a *full head of hair*
Also bald, also a late talker, also a very independent child… my mom told me that if I’d been first I’d have been an only child 🤣
@@jalenaa6895 same hahahs
I never walked for the first time.....I ran. Idk how old I was though.
My son was stillborn, and I had the biggest, starry-eyed love for him that I’ve ever felt for another human being! There’s nothing in this world like the connection that you feel for your child...I will remember him forever.❤️
So sorry for the loss of your baby boy. He sounds like he was a beautiful sweetheart.
So sorry for your loss 🙏🏻
So sorry that you lost him.
I'm sorry for your loss. Always remember: You made him with love and will keep him with love, even if you didn't get to get to know him.
I'm sorry for your loss. May his soul shine in the stars for you 🤍
My brother was asleep when he came out 😆 they woke him up, he cried for like two minutes and then went straight back to sleep. We used to joke that that’s why he’s so lazy now.
Ally Tod haha that’s cute
😂😂😂
More like lazy is his personality lol
Wow we had something similar... my mom was screaming in agony for her first pregnancy with my older brother, she was laughing because I was a c-section and she was so relieved that it wasn't as painful as the first pregnancy, and she was singing to the music with my little brother.
My older brother wound up being a criminal and is still serving in Georgia, I ended up being always engaged with humor and joking with her, and my little brother has taken an interest in music.
Is he a taurus😂😂
I’m really glad you mentioned that last part about how not everyone has that starry eyed love for their babies immediately. So many women feel guilty about it.
Kris Niznik Exactly
Totally agree!
This was me
You can love a baby when it arrives, or even in anticipation of it, but the bond develops from taking care of it. I know this from having both biological and adopted babies.
I appreciate that she brings up this point. Relationships can take time to grow. I LIKED my oldest from the second I found out I was pregnant. I didn't LOVE her until she was 3 months old. And then, when I realized, it was like this waterfall of emotion. I still get teary eyed thinking about it. It was joyous
When my first son was born, my grandma asked me what I thought if him. I point blank told her "He's a baby."
Haha I feel you. Even before I had children, when my niece was born, I told my sister I couldn't wait to see what she'd be like in a year and a half, you know, when they become really adorable. Oops 😂
My friend went to the er for back pains and they told her she was 8 mo pregnant and in labor. She had no idea
Oof
Whoa! Surprise!
Its IMPOSSIBLE!!!!!!!!
@@hanyazad7993 how is it impossible
@@supernovah1184 how can you get pregnant and not knowing it?
The hormonal change, the body change, every thing changes in a human body. How can you not know that first movement of the fetus called " quickening "
How can you not feel heavy?
EVERYTHING changes in a body and still you give birth while not knowing that you are pregnant or you simply check and finds out you are in the last stages of pregnancy.
HOW ON EARTH IS THIS POSSIBLE.
I can imagine her being on the pill didn't work since she was flying through different time zones so much, and didn't take the pill the same time every day!
Good point!
iTalkWho taking it at the same time everyday isn’t actually necessary, doctors just tell you do that bc it’s easier for you to remember to take it daily
Good point. Maybe women who travel should set their phone to a reminder for their time zone.
@@Cherokee51774 Nowadays that wouldn't happen because you can do that, but it was 1996, people didn't have phones. That kid is gonna be 24 this year xD
@@Cherokee51774 people do already do this, a lot of period tracking apps can remind you to as well.
I'm a flight attendant and yes we get to fly for free domestically and internationally we just pay a small fee. My parents and one travel companion of my choice also fly for free :) Benefits depend on the airline though.
Is it unlimited or certain amount of times that you can fly for free?
@@helenbairaya7461 on my airline it's unlimited.
@Taynara Leitao The content creator should've thanked you for answering her question. I'm grateful for it and this isn't even my channel! lol Continue to stay safe up there in those beautiful blue skies. Peace
My grandma worked for pan am back in the day and theyd literally fly across country for the afternoon for free just to eat lunch somewhere, downside is they measured your bust, waist and hip and heel size as well as weigh, along with strict makeup and hair requirements so.... probably not worth it back then
@@tay.marcela4258 What airline is that? I think Etihad only gives one at 0% then at 90% and some give unlimited 50%.
I was on a flight from Dallas to St Paul and a passenger went into premature labor. During the Christmas holiday, turbulence and snow. It was so scary but I've never seen a tougher woman. She labored for the entire flight, refused to have the plane rerouted or turned around. The main thing was how the entire flight banded together for her and supported her by counting her contractions and just being excellent humans. Beautiful experience, 10/10 would do again. ❤️
I’m sure she has an amazing story too! Humanity for the win 🥇 ❤
Wow this touches me so much❤❤ thank you for sharing, made me tear. So precious to hear when people come together to help a stranger.
That is such a lie. The airlines would never leave that flight in tact. It would be rerouted unless rerouting would be as long or longer than going to the destination
Imagine suddenly needing to buy EVERYTHING ALL AT ONCE instead of having months to prepare
My parents had to do this a few times with emergency foster babies. Literally stopped at Walmart for basic supplies on the way home from the hospital. First time they didn’t even have a crib or bassinet and the baby spent her first night home in a clothes basket
Yeah…it’s sort of like that when your child is born more than three months early. We never got parenting classes or even a hospital tour.
TBH, most of the things expectant parents and their friends buy for the baby are not necessary. That oh-so-adorable holiday dress -- most likely not ever going to be worn, or only worn once and the next week it will not fit. Don't spring for expensive stuff that becomes useless! (VERY VERY QUICKLY.)
@@KitsuneMiko383 I think they mean necessary stuff like diapers, a place for the baby to sleep etc.
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I have nothing to add, but commenting to try and counteract the stupid TH-cam algorithm on filtering out educational content.
Love you MDJ!
We really need to harass the heck out youtube, all of the complaints. They should be leading the way towards the future, not dragging us back to the past!
Yes, what was that all about? The most shocking thing was how much the baby grew in the first hour. 😂
This is a thing that I agree with!
That’s a good idea. Thanks for that!
Cherise Trueman saaaame
“Some people need time to get to know the baby” THIS!!!!!! This is the shit I told all my pregnant friends after I had my daughter. That was an amazing sentiment to add!!
AMEN.
Yes!
All of mine were quiet when born. The two first ones were breathing and looked a bit surprised, wrinkling their noses and looking around, so completely fine without screaming. My third one got a bit of a shock since he flew out of me like superman 😂 looked around with huge eyes and just held his breath! He was connected to the umbilical cord and it was still pulsating, so we were all good and simply rubbed him down, talked to him and very gently blew air on his face to prompt him to breathe in. At some point he got the hang of it. 😂
Mine was quiet to looking around the room just as calm.
When she said she didn’t speak English well enough and didn’t know what pregnant was I cried. I felt awful for her. ❤
Quick: enroll Milo in language classes! It’s easier to get a flight attendant job if you speak multiple languages, and he is at peak language learning rn
This comment is hilarious but also entirely accurate! 😂
There's actually been studies showing that it's easier to learn languages as an adult (as in grammar and vocabulary). It's just easier to learn accents/different sounds you're not used to as a child.
@@TheOldiie And that's why young toddlers can easily learn multiple languages in a year or two and it usually takes adults 4-7 years
There’s advantages and disadvantages to second language acquisition in both children and adults. Young children do acquire languages more easily in that ‘critical learning period’, although for a second language they don’t have much motivation to learn (Milo’s not going to understand that he needs to learn Spanish so Mommy can travel for free) and obviously don’t have the attention spans for a formal learning environment. Adults, while out of that critical learning period, are good at sitting in classrooms and learning stuff and also have a reason to learn the language. So basically, you’re never too old (or too young) to learn another language!
Peppa Edits no... Toddlers don't even fully know their first language. It would likely take them more than 4 years to learn both languages fluently. It really is not easier for them to learn a second language. It's easier for adults to actually learn the language. It's easier for toddlers to listen for sounds that are not common in the adult's first language.... But adults can still learn how to do that.
I had my daughter without knowing I was pregnant, and I really appreciate you mentioning the point about some mom's not being immediately enamored/excited. That happened with me as I dealt with the shock and the guilt of not feeling motherly right away when my daughter needed me still bites a little.
it's not how you feel it's how you function.
But how did you go through an entire pregnancy without knowing?
Milk Bone I know I was pregnant since 2 weeks of pregnancy and still I wasn’t much impressed with that little crying worm 😅😂
The love grew days later
I get starry eyed over other people’s babies-I am a sap. Especially getting to hold and meet someone so brand new makes me teary, always. My own was just more poignant because I knew how limited time was with her.
I figured it was due to having my son at 7 months, so very unexpected, but it took a week or two for it to really sink in and to really start bonding with him.
I’m a flight attendant and flights are free for the flight attendant, parents get free benefits too and friends get passes 😄
Can I be your friend? 😂
Imagine you're confused, don't speak the language, were just told you're pregnant, and they tell you to push and you just instinctively do it.
I still get confused when I'm working out and they say tighten your core
Dear TH-cam, please monetize Mama Doctor Jones videos! I have learned so much invaluable information about women's health from her channel and her content is in no way inappropriate.
Theresa Schluchter I’m pretty sure you can’t monetize a video like this. Bc it’s based off of licensed shows. I’m really not sure if this is covered under fair use, and even if it was idk if that’s legal justification for monetization or just not enough to get a copyright strike/case action.
Ivy Rose you’re very very wrong about monetization. Any channel can be monetized. The more followers and views you have, the more ads your videos will have. This video falls under fair use due to the clear commentary accompanying the video review.
I got advertisements, so she was likely monetized.
Julie Crandall ya I got 4 ads!
@@jjcymbolic i got ads too!
I had no idea my piano teacher was pregnant until she said “I’m temporarily closing the school in two months time because I’m having a baby”.
When I had my baby, for months I just felt like I was honored with the opportunity to babysit and care for a baby indefinitely. It took awhile for it to sink in that he was my son.
I loved him from the beginning, but it took a while to really feel he was my child.
That’s basically how I felt with my youngest brother. Even though I’m the oldest and I can remember 2 of my brothers being born (I was a baby when I became a big sister) it took a while to feel like the baby was my actual little brother.
Exactly how I felt. The bond grew but it took months. Even though I was nursing him too-oddly enough it took months. Sometimes it’s not instant magic and that’s ok.
Oh awww
I love that in the re-enactment the couple at home during an emergency is speaking in Quebecois accented English, rather than in French.
I don’t think Gio was a French-speaker, only Manon??
I wasn't one of those moms who cried tears of joy or was "so in love" when my daughter was born (even though I did love her). It was more like, "Ok, you're here. Let's get this show on the road." However, I did immediately feel very protective of her.
Chris Bee me too
Same. I was over the labor then a c section and was ready to get sewn up lol
I have had 3 babies.. i didnt feel that instant love when i had my 1st 2 but my last one i was crying like a blubbering mess.. i felt so bad for feeling that way
Good way to explain it. Me too!
Me too, I didn't cry until I saw my husband holding his son. I knew how much he wanted a baby, and when I saw that. I got very emotional. ☺️ He's the best father now, and have another little boy on the way in Jume
This is my favorite episode. They are so funny and cute. My 2nd daughter (during my csection), as soon as the dr had opened my uterus she popped her head out and tried to look around. The doctors were laughing so hard they had my husband look over the blue curtain to see and take a pic. They nicknamed her curiosity and wrote it on her crib tag with my last name.. She was the talk of the doctors and nurses for days..
Jessica Ritchie “what are you all doing?”
@@carschmn what do you mean?
@@jessicaritchie4792 I think she's making a joke of that's what the baby was thinking when she popped her head out of you looking around
Jessica Ritchie “what are you all doing?” The doctors were making such a commotion that disrupted the baby and that’s why it popped its head out
I thought you named her curisioty for a second thank god I misread.
I just love how empathetic and loving you are when reacting to these expecting mothers. No judgment, no being harsh, just thinking of them as humans who did what they could with what they knew. I'm not sure about kids yet, but if I were to have any, I'd hope to get a doctor as humane and kind as you, who would respect me throughout the process. For more practitioners like you
Oh I totally had that “starry eyed movie love”!!! I had my only child 3 months before I turned 20 and from the minute I knew she was in my tummy, she became my entire world. I always wanted lots of children!! I wanted a crazy, loud house full of kids! My first pregnancy unfortunately ended in miscarriage. I conceived my daughter with my second pregnancy, and then my husband and I tried for 20 years to give my little girl a sibling with no success. I have 5 babies in heaven and I can’t wait to meet them one day. As of right now, I’m 42 years old, and my dreams of having more children are over. I have finally come to terms with how my life played out. The biggest part of me finally being ok and not bursting into tears every time I see a pregnant woman, or having to remove myself from the room every time a diaper commercial comes on the television, was watching my miracle child; my daughter, as she has become a Mother herself! I cried myself to sleep every night for 20 years, but now I sleep soundly and wake with a smile every day. My daughter had a gorgeous baby boy in January of 2020, and she just delivered a second perfect baby boy in August of 2021, just a few weeks ago! I feel like the luckiest woman in the world!!! My grandsons Sage August, and Salem Jude have made all of my baby dreams come true. I didn’t realize that all of the feelings you have as a mother, for your babies, extend to your grandchildren! It’s the same love! It’s incredible and I truly believe that my struggles have made me appreciate the blessings of my baby boys even more than I would have if I didn’t ache so desperately and long for babies for so much of my life. I’m loving watching your videos, and am a brand new subscriber! Be well! Xx -Nora
When she speaks all science-y and medically I can *smell* the hospital
Lmao, I know I'm late, but this is hilarious 😂. I'm chronically ill, I've spent the night in the hospital way too often, so I know *exactly* what smell you're talking about. It's fucking depressing.
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They’re my top faves
I was just about to suggest this! They would have some great things to discuss.
The one with Dr. Jubbal was pretty cool
Do they have any episodes of this show where the mom/parents were just like “nahhh... I don’t want a baby”?
No but I'm sure it does happen 🤔 I'm curious now what the statistics are of people who didn't know they were pregnant until labor or late pregnancy keeping/giving up their child(ren)?
I'm so glad you said that at the end. I denied my pregnancy the entire time and when they finally put him on my chest, I loved him but I wasn't like "oh my God he's finally here." It was more like "oh god why am I going to do now?"
Me: that's a giant a** baby
Me:waits to see if mdj mentions it
Mdj: thats a giant baby
Me:chokes trying not to laugh loudly and wake up my kids
Same! I always laugh at how big babies "just being born" in tv and film are. It's too funny. I always think about that fact that someone allowed other people to goop up their baby and make them look "just born" for money too.🤣 Sometimes they just show them all wrapped up in a blanket but often they try to make it look as real as possible and show the baby all bloody and goopy from birth..I just wonder what they are putting on the baby to make them look like that? Google, here I come!
@Matty Bruno Lucas Zenere Salas My cousin was 12lbs! Trust me, I know there are big newborns but often the newborns used are 2 or 3 months and it's pretty obvious they aren't newborn based on the average weight and size for newborns.
@Matty Bruno Lucas Zenere Salas I dont need to tell myself anything. It's a fact. She even said in the video that baby looked a few months old. No clue why you're so hell bent on arguing about it though. Just let it go kid.
@Matty Bruno Lucas Zenere Salas that's not as big as you've been lead to believe. A lot of people are having bigger babies these days because of better maternal nutrition. And no matter what, a newborn is not as filled out in the face as a 3 month old.
me: wait where her big belly....**then the brith bit** she not pregnant she stomach and she leg look fake....this acting and water look like waterfall ....ok I stop now
I'm a gay man with no reason to watch your channel and your energy just made me subscribe. Keep it up!
It's so entertaining tho. Lol
Bro, gay chick here and I love this shit
Female and married to a man but have less than zero interest in having babies and I eat these videos UP.
If anything, watching this channel just convinces me more and more that I do not want to get pregnant, ever.
You were born weren't you?
Neo Hermitess we gays are hatched from eggs
As a rad tech I’ve always wondered why flight attendants don’t wear dosimeters like we do. They’re exposed more than we are... if they do wear them... they are very well hidden 😂
Nuc med tech student here and I was wondering the same thing! Really glad the radiation exposure concern was brought up in this video!
They log their flight hours and exposure is calculated that way (in Germany at least).
I really appreciate how you want to learn everything you still do not know in your field. THAT'S A GOOD DOCTOR EVERYONE!
When my brother was born, he didn't cry. He literally just looked around and went to sleep. The next time they saw him awake, it was the next day and they were giving him a bath. Woke up when put in water and went back to sleep when being dried off. He was never a handful in the sense that he slept more than anything else and he's an extremely quiet child that was happy with his bottle and a nap. So they had a second child. Who screamed, cried, never slept more than an hour at a time, was impossible to get to rest, always got into things they shouldn't, and over all made them decide two was enough.
This was exactly the same with me and my brother. I was the quiet one tho 😂😂
Literally me and my sister
It’s amazing how personality can show up that early! I swear my youngest was a sensory seeker even in the womb. Never stopped moving and dancing around! He is 7 now, is autistic and constantly in motion.
That was me and my little sister. I was the perfect angel and my mum thought it would be nice to have another one... but the next was not a perfect angel 😂
That's me and my little sister too! But i was the always crying one, they tried to put me down to sleep and I'd immediately wake up to cry and scream until I'd be picked up and carried around again .. my sister slept so much, hardly ever woke up at night to scream, just a perfect little baby.
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Did you ever had a patient that didn't know she was pregnant until birth?
Mama Doctor Jones get them $$
Yeah women's health being brought up in public discussion is way too risssssky 🙄🙄
Glad it got the ok from those who were soooo concerned. I can't wait to watch once I get all the kiddos ready for the day.
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I still don't understand why they had censored this... Thank you for fighting this and posting about it, as it raises the awareness on censorship of public health videos.
Plus this was a very informative video... Keep posting 💪💪💪
Vaginas are terrifying. Didn't you know that? 😂
I used to be a flight attendant and girls who got pregnant were on ground duty (not flying, in the office at the airport) as soon as they find out about pregnancy. And I believe it’s very similar in every airline. Greetings x
In France, we call this situation "déni de grossesse" and the mothers felt nothing during the pregnancy because the mom's brain switches to "smuggling mode" and gets the message to the rest of the body to hide the baby and even to the baby to act like a stowaway! Happened to a good friend of mine and it can happen to any woman even women that have had several pregnancies before… sometimes it's even not for the whole 9 months and when the brain is ready to let the mental information processing, the belly can start to show in minutes only! Freaking wow, like 15minutes ago the woman had a flat belly and then it pops out like an air mattress to show a 6 months pregnancy belly.
That's cool, I had no idea that that was a thing!
That happened to me!! I went from not showing at all - zero showing. Went to dinner, had to unzip my pants and luckily had a longer blouse. It was a weekend. I went back to work on Monday looking like I swallowed a watermelon. It was crazy the difference before/ after just that one dinner. It was month 5. Regular clothes, pregnancy clothes immediately.
Exactly what happened to my friend. Didn’t show until told she was 5-1/2 months old.
@@mamacatselliotwhen you pop u can’t stop
It's scary that that can happen. I wish women could empty our uteruses at will, like peeing, then we would always do so after sex and there would be no unwanted pregnancies suddenly showing up at 5 weeks or later.
My second baby didn't cry when she was born, she was just looking around and checking everyone out
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That was me and my twin sister, though I was the one looking around with wonder while my sister was looking around with visible anger XD
“Hol up where am I”
“Why is it so bright”
“What the heck are these large creatures”
“Help”
My son cried for 2 seconds lol
"...ruin tv shows, while watching them together and commenting on the inaccuracies."
My pharmacy tech mom watching any medical drama: "That's not what that drug is used for."
I feel right at home watching these videos.
Cat Rook tell your mom that many meds have off-label uses
@@athenaemmanouilidis1291 She is well aware of that.
@@catrook8146 I think that athena meant it as a joke. I laughed.
Lmaoooo idk why I find this so entertaining imagining your mum shouting W R O N G at the tv 😂
Cat Rook a family friend who is a nurse liked to watch House and try to outguess the staff.
I was a flight attendant for United Airlines for six years. My absolute favorite time in the business was the year that I flew internationally and did nothing but jet back and forth to the UK. We were able to fly domestically for free, so when my sister lived in Hawaii I was able to go a couple of times to see her at no cost. International flights were not free, but very cheap compared to paying full fare. As with any job, there were things about it that were great as well as things that weren’t. I left the airline after getting married because I just really wanted to have a more regular schedule and be home with my husband. I have never regretted leaving, especially after having kids. It’s a lifestyle that I have no interest in anymore now that I have a family.
I describe the feeling for a new baby not as love, but a mix of awe and a deep sense responsibility and protectiveness toward them. Honestly, it wasn't love at first sight...I didn't know them.
I remember being 7 months pregnant and women asking me if I can feel the baby kick and me saying no ....until one woman finally described what I would be feeling and thinking to myself...well, I've been feeling that for months. Who knew that was the baby moving. Pretty amazing. Nobody tells you these things in the beginning.
I'm curious, how does it actually feel?
With my first pregnancy I didn't notice kicks until I was over half way through. At that point the kicks in the ribs and low down in the pelvis were pretty distinctive. With my second pregnancy I knew what to expect and recognized them at 13 weeks which is about as early as possible.
Bigger baby pregnancy kicks just feel like quick pressure, like exactly as if a tiny foot is kicking you. Sometimes there are even rolling ones where it's like the baby is turning and you can feel pressure from inside moving across a few inches a the baby moves. Those ones are especially weird lol. Small baby kicks almost feel like if you have to poop and you can kinda feel it coming around the corner of your intestines, but the position is different since it's not coming from your intestines.
I’m currently pregnant with my first child and I’m kind of in a unique situation as far as being able to feel the baby. I’ve always heard it’s similar to gas pains, rumbling in your bowels and stomach. I have Crohn’s disease and had my entire colon removed a year ago. When I started to feel my baby, it felt like “normal” gas pains to me. Which is something I haven’t felt in so long, especially the last year. So I totally know when it’s him because I’ll get an rumble or push that’s like “hmm, I’m not suppose to have that.”
Limeila i explain in my comment but it feels kind of like gas pains or pressure. I’m 23 weeks along so I’m told I’ll be feeling my baby more he gets bigger but for now it feels like rumbles in your stomach or pelvis and I also get this blatant punch or kick where I feel quite a bit of discomfort for maybe a minute.
Limeila it feels like you have to fart
My mother wasn't starry eyed when she had her first kid, my brother, she literally said he was just an ugly wrinkly baby but he got cute a few days later
Lindsay Dale I just commented on someone else’s comment this
But I’ve always said fresh new borns aren’t cute and it does take them a few days to get cute 😂
They’re all wrinkly from being in the amniotic fluid, can be puffy from birth etc etc
But after a few days is when you really start to see them get way cuter! 😂
there is no cute newborn baby. they are slimy and gross and look like mutant potatoes.
Hey, this is what my mom says about me! Apparently, my brother was a bigger baby and slightly cuter at birth
My mom said I was cute from the moment I came out lol
@@catlover1039 that's what parents say to their kids to hide the fact that they also dont think their babies were cute until a few days after they were born.
I loved my bump, then my baby was born and I was like “who dis?” I always describe how my love doubled every few minutes after she was born though in a way that is was painfully perfect to me.
I remember my mom telling the story where she gave birth to me and I didn’t cry at all when I came out. She told the nurse to spank me to make me cry/breathe but the nurse kept telling her that I was breathing and just kept looking at my surroundings, and my mom being stubborn as a mule didn’t care what she said and kept telling her to basically hit me 😂
I had to wear compression socks after having my daughter. when my dad came in to hospital to see us he kept putting things in the foot of them knowing I couldn’t reach my feet. When the nurse took them off she was like “excuse me but why do you candy wrappers in here?” I died
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Dads, man. 🤣🤣🤣
Your dad sounds like a hoot and a half! I'll have to remember that one! XD
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Lol
I can only imagine how scary it would be to be told I might have kidney stones, then get to the hospital and be told to push the baby out.
PhantomMonkey2008 I would literally die
That's like passing an eight-pound kidney stone.
Thank you! I didn't have the 'movie' experience with either of my children and was so ashamed of that. My first baby was a stillbirth at 20wks so I had put my feelings on a shelf and labeled it ppd, now I know it's actually common. Love watching your channel x
Note : I have two beautiful kids and my feelings are so so strong. Now I have the movie experience of I would sacrifice myself for them x 🥰🥰
I just love how you emphasise that. I was so exhausted after giving birth to our oldest, I had no idea what I was feeling. His father's smile was lighting up the room, and I just looked at him holding the baby in wonder.
When my first son was born and they put him in my arms, I really felt like..."What am I supposed to do with this?" It took me 2 or 3 weeks to finally bond with him. With my second son, I couldn't take my eyes off of him from the very first moment. Everything was opposite. First pregnancy I was excited, felt great, couldn't wait to meet him and then.....what is this. Second pregnancy was utterly miserable uncomfortable and unhappy, zero excitement, and then...instant love. Bizarre how these things go.
My Mum belly laughed without knowing why during the first several hours of contraction. Then I guess it got to the point that they found out labor/delivery was no joke, especially when the gas and air didn't help and Mum didn't really like the process of an epidural!
@@phoenixmoon5580 epidurals are bloody scary, I don't blame her. Nobody wants a needle in their spinal cavity 😬 I had one briefly for my first labour. In my second I decided I would rather just go through labour without than have that bloody great needle anywhere near my back.
@@vanderbam2741 It would be interesting to hear the comparison for you. Let me clear this up first, the new lives that you nurtured and carried coming into the world are amazing! We are not comparing the littl'uns! The act of bringing them from 'growing area' to the world is what I want to hear about if you wish to say. Did you prefer the experience of labor with the epidural or without? And why?
@@phoenixmoon5580 oh definitely without the epidural. I think they are genius medicine honestly, and its so important women have the choice if they want them. For me, I don't like to feel like I'm out of control, don't like gigantic needles or being numb. So even though the labihr without it was painful, I felt it was a much more enjoyable experience. It went quite quickly and without fuss too.
@@vanderbam2741 I was wondering whether the being numb kinda made you feel you were somewhat distant, like being behind a glass panel, during your own labor. Or maybe if it was a movie the epidural labor would be in black and white due to the numbness. The pain is obviously one of the downsides to labor, but being able to feel what happens during childbirth like how the muscles naturally do what they do, how each step your baby takes out the birth canal might feel, how it feels afterwards, etc. It might make you feel more 'there', and if it was a movie it would be in technicolour. It is actually quite enviable on one hand for me. (Single and childless by choice. This is due to bad DNA from both awesome parents that a biological child is likely to inherit regardless of how amazing the hypothetical (currently non existant) partner's genetics are. Another major issue is that I am too ill to even manage to care for myself. Also my Mum had me 'late' in her words, and I'm older than she was when she had me). I feel sad that I won't experience what pregnancy, labor, birth, attempts at breast feeding etc would feel like. However, I feel it is the most responsible choice to make for welfare of any child. (Not to say others in my situation could not have children/care for children and be amazing parents. Just personally for me!).... You''ve got to be so careful on the internet these days! Eugh!
I've had a baby with no drugs and passed a kidney stone. Kidney stone was worse.
My mom said the same lol. She got an epidural but it wore off, and the kidney stone was still worse for her.
I had a stone a few years ago, and the stabbing back pain was unbearable. I literally thought I was dying.
I havent had a baby, but when I passed my first kidney stone, I thought my appendix had burst and I was dying, only explanation my pain addled brain could come up with. Glad to hear giving birth isnt quite as painful lol
I’m 15 and I’ve have at least 5 kidney stones that I know of and I don’t think they are the worst thing in the world but it makes me think I would be a champ at giving birth
Some women say birth is worse than kidney stones. It depends on the birth/kidney stones you have
123 245 and some women say kidney stones are worse than birth?
When my 1st son was born I was in labor forever and hadn't slept for 36 hours and had a rough delivery. I just wanted to sleep. I think the staff was concerned. As soon as I woke from a nap I had the starry eyed love.
I felt that crazy ridiculously in-love with my son feeling when I first had him as soon as I saw him and held him but I think a lot of it has to do with the feel-good hormones you have going through your body right after birth! 😂 and I still feel that way every time he laughs and smiles or does anything that makes me super proud ❤️
I remember thinking “when is your mom coming to get you?” when my first was an infant. He was very colicky and I was very tired and had no clue what I was doing. So, yeah, that starry eyed wonderful love feeling doesn’t always happen right away.
For the record, I realized in the same moment I AM the mom, no one is coming to get him, and we had better figure this out! Haha!
Mindy Cotton my sister had the exact same experience- including ‘when is your mom coming?!’
I'm a nanny and now I'm wondering if that's how I'll react, too! - I'm so used to going to passing the kiddo at the end of the day, lol!
TH-cam was going to flag this video? TLC posts these videos on TH-cam all the time. That's ridiculous! I love your videos!
Yeah I didn't even see anything remotely worth flagging. 🤦♀️
Yup. Time for not-You Tube to review fair practices here. Total gender bias.
The only thing I can possibly think would flag it is the moaning sounds...but obviously with the context there’s no good reason for it to be flagged. Dumb TH-cam 💁🏼♀️
Yup, took me 3 days to get it reviewed and removed.
@@MamaDoctorJones So ridiculous! Thank you for doing ALL that you do!
Yes as a first time mom at 21 I didn’t know what to expect but once my son was born a breathed a HUGE sigh of relief for my body, and next was hearing my son cry and then holding him. The nurturing love was there right away and then total love within 24 hours (which I was understandably sleeping for most of). 9 lb 10 oz baby boy. 💙 Best feeling ever. 💝
I love how emotionally touched you get in every video!!! Usually OBs are so used to pregnancy and birth it's just a job to them
Mama Doctor Jones,
I’m planning on becoming a pilot. So when I’m a pilot for an airline I’ll definitely give you discounted flights
We just gotta wait like 8 years
Don’t forget
I'm sorry but it bothers me that you wrote weight and not wait again I'm sorry it just bothers me for some reason
Tamara Hayward Thanks. I didn’t notice. I fixed it
Cecilia D cute reply!
I didnt feel starry eyes either with my baby. Thought she didnt look that cute either. Felt bad about that lol. But now she grew on me lol
Hahaha, that's cute.
😂😂😂😂😂
I love this- I feel bad for laughing tho😂😂❤️
I said all 4 of mine looked like little boiled frogs!
I'm a nanny and my mom-boss said the same thing. It's not uncommon, no one should feel bad! Hell, even if we are the only one to feel something, it's still not a choice. What we choose to do and say and believe is what defines us, not the neurochemical machinations of our wacky animal brains.
Imagine just having a baby one day not knowing you were pregnant, i would be freaking out cause I dont have any baby supplies at home.
I'm on a video marathon because you're teaching a lot! 💜 Thank you!
Thanks for discussing Alcohol in pregnancy. I am an Australian of Aboriginal decent and in our Indigenous communities we have a real problem with FASD (Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder), its really important to talk about it. Appreciate that.👍
Brilliant But Blue I am also Australian, and yes you are right it is a problem. But it is a problem in every community, and not discussed much at all. I think everyone in the world should have better knowledge of this and drug related problems babies are born with.
@@sophinxbeakie7054 taking attention from a community in which is happens more commonly is not cool. You're basically walking into a cancer ward and saying "well I have diabetes, you're not special, I'm sick too!!'
@@sophinxbeakie7054 its unnecessary and unrelated to the comment.
@@sophinxbeakie7054: Well said, and this was my point MDJ is in the US so l was not isolating my comment to Australia l was merely saying lve had experience with the problem of Alcohol use in pregnancy in my community and l appreciated MDJ talking about it and l appreciated that. Glad you understood what l was saying, regrettably the other comment did not. Have a great rest of your week and Cheers.
@@sophinxbeakie7054: P.S there are a number of really good videos on TH-cam talking about babies born to drug addicted Mums and the withdrawl process of the Bubs. Wouldn't mind MDJ doing a "reaction" style vid to one of those and get that conversation going as l agree with you its a huge problem world over. 👍
The first reaction in my head as they placed my newborn girl on my chest was "oh f***, this is a lot of responsibility".
Obviously I love her, but it's a really weird moment of having this brand new person in your life that you really know nothing about relying on you for literally everything.
My oldest is 14 years old and I still feel that way regularly.
Same!!!! Got pregnant at 16 due to my nexplanon failing. Hadn’t changed a diaper or even babysat prior to having my daughter. I love her obviously but it’s a hardcore adjustment to say the least
@@phishyboic959 I was pretty much the same. I was the youngest in my family by 13 years, never baby sat before or changed a diaper, and never want even liked kids.
My pregnancy was a happy little accident and when they did lay her on my chest that first time I didn't realize quite what I was getting myself into.
Haha I definitely feel that way too! My first thought was how perfect he was, but then also “oh crap, this is changing my entire life.” My son is 3 weeks old and I love him so much but an unplanned pregnancy at 20 definitely changed things for me
I started crying when I brought mine home. I just looked at her in the car seat and freaked out cuz I didnt know what to do! I was 30 years old. I did all the reading. I babysat for years. You're never really prepared.
i was an emergency c-section baby and my mom told me that when i was born i did not cry at all. i was wide-eyed looking around, as if i was surprised that i had actually made it out of there lol
You were probably instinctually thinking 'I think I took the wrong exit!' or 'I don't think I should have come out from there... I've tried that for the past few months and it didn't work'!
Can confirm. Having a medical emergency in your second language is scary. I live in Japan and had an appendectomy a couple years ago.
When you're a flight attendant or work for an airline in any other capacity you usually have flying benefits. Each airline is different but usually the worker and their family can purchase plane tickets significantly cheaper. Also they have the option of purchasing standby tickets which are usually cheapest of all.
I've heard one giving one free ticket for entire 1st degree family once a year, then at very discounted rate after retirement
idk what airlines you are talking about bc all the ones around me do free tickets for the flight attendants, their spouse, and their parents. the only thing you have to pay is taxes on the tickets when friends come with you. if there are really flight attendants out there paying for tickets, they need to gtfo that job, because american, delta, and united don't.
@@sunnydell3016 But as you mentioned they aren't technically 'free', just the cut of the ticket the airline pays for is free. That's pretty much the same with every airline. I personally fly through a family member that works for a European airline (member of Star alliance). Next to the aforementioned standby tickets we can also purchase confirmed seats for much cheaper (for example over the holidays I flew round trip FRA-ORD for 223€). It's actually a great thing. So yeah F.A.s should quit their jobs and work for European airlines as I believe the benefits overall are much better.
@@Noah-kl8wn my husband works for an airline and we get 100% free tickets and full benefits. we are flying out in a couple of weeks. it's technically on standby but there are no fees whatsoever (UNLESS ! we want to travel overseas)
Ok guys I see a bit of confusion in the comments that I would like to clear up. We fly standby for free, only bap the taxes. These do not guarantee us a seat though. We also get a discount on full fare tickets which give us a normal seat like everyone else. Most companies allow the employee to keep their flying benefits for life if they have been with the company for 25 years. With united, you can only have flying benefits for your children until they are 26. Employee parents usually keep their flying benefits during their lives.
I felt the same way with my daughter. There wasn't a connection at first. I loved her and cared for her but it was kinda like "Hi. My name's mommy. Nice to meet you." Handshake included. And now we're best buds. 😄❤
That's odd
Aww that's cute.
Allexis Bailey So precious. 💖🥰
I just found this channel and have fallen down the rabbit hole and am binging. I love her!! ❤️
So, I think you do an amazing job. I may have been laying here watching your channel for almost 3hrs.... so educational.
I love how in the reconstruction she apparently gave birth to a 4 year old.
Martine Robson you can’t legally put a newborn on TV. They have to use dolls or older children. Idk how they get around it for like Huggies commercials and stuff but I remember it was talked about in some documentary I watched.
@@ivyrose5153 They definitely can, and do. I used to work for a Theatrical Agency, and one of my job's was to call Maternity Wards and Birthing Centres to find newborns for TV shows. We usually tried to find twins, but they weren't always available for obvious reasons.
A baby has to be at least eighteen days old before they can be filmed, and have very limited time they can be filmed, but they can film babies.
@@Firefly_______15 We used to use babies that were 2-3 days old on Holby City and EastEnders. There is no lower age limit.
@@themartinebunny are the rules and regulations on baby actors different in the US than in the UK?
Why does Wharton’s Jelly sound like a brand of gummy bears
I thought it sounded like a brand of something else 😆
Just found your videos and I love them!! Thanks so much for doing this!
My sister kept going back inside my mom, like a vacuum, my brother sneezed when he came out and my legs were wrapped around my head.
My first son didn't cry when he came out. He just laid on me, sucked his thumb and fell asleep
Aaww that's so cute. I hope my baby is like that :)
My daughter didn’t cry either when she came out. She didn’t cry until the next day and we had to flick her foot 😆
Usually they make the baby cry to ensure their healthy. That’s where the “spanking a newborn” came from. You were trying to induce crying. Now we just pinch them so they cry.
Wharton’s Jelly sounds like an old timey lube brand
😂😂😂👏👏👏it really does!
How is this not the top comment??
Absolutely love your honesty regarding your own experience with your babies ❤ you seem like such an amazing soul, keep doing what youre doing this series is great!
I discovered your page like yesterday and now I’m going through all these videos where you react to this program. It’s really what I think about whenever I watch the show like how do you not know & how would a professional think about this 😂
Video idea: how to deliver a baby in case of emergency with no health professional around😁
I agree
Amelia Barton yh maybe but if she is allowed to i hope she will make one cause that would be so cool lol
Call 000 at the time, they will talk you through it!
mostly its just leave her alone, and have help on hand in case of too much post partum bleeding. birth does not often require any real intervention, and is rarely an emergency.
It could cause panic if things don't go according to "plan" and in an emergency not all equipment would obviously be available
When you brought up the need to develop a relationship with your baby it reminded me of something my dad says sometimes. “I don’t just love you... I LIKE you.” You can love someone or something without necessarily liking them
Agreed.
Me with my mom. Love her to death. Dont like her very much.
That’s me and my brother. I can’t stand being around him for more than a couple of hours, but I love him
nah i only love people if i like em. point, blank, period. if i don't like you, you cannot be loved by me
I really loved how you talked about having to get to know the baby. I felt this and didn't think it was normal. Thanks for that. I love your videos.
I have watched several of your videos, and you are absolutely amazing! I see why your channel has grown so quickly! You are beautiful, intelligent, but more importantly, you are so kind and caring. Your empathy for others is absolutely breathtaking and shines through the camera
You are a healer in more ways than one. Thank you for sharing a wonderful part of you with us. You are an instant favorite, and I truly wish there were more people and Drs like you.
Lots of love and hugs coming your way. Keep rocking your channel sweet Mama! XOXO
"Your still welcome to watch even though your not subscribed" that was so refreshing to hear
Ransom Walmart Shopper: I didn't know I was pregnant!
Me when I get a freckle that itches: OH GOD IT'S CANCER I'M DEAD!!!
Then there’s me: oh... my toe fell off... welp i’ll survive
I'm obsessed with ur channel. Lol so glad I landed on one of your videos. Now I can't stop watching.
It really is hard not understanding what is being said in a medical emergency. During my twin pregnancy I started to hemorrhage during my 2nd semester while abroad. The doctors were all discussing the images but I had no idea if they were still alive or not or what was going on. Can't even imagine how it must have been for this poor woman to receive such life-changing news, while in so much pain and not even understand.
I had PPD, with primal love for my son when he was a baby. I cared that he was feed, played with, ect. I enjoyed it when he learned a new thing. But I didn't like him as a person until 2-3. I never really liked babies before having one. And I still didn't with my own. Babies feel like a screaming tomagotchi where the stakes are too high if I fail.
Now that he's 5 and wanting to learn about art and science, We connect way better. I get to mother in subjects that I enjoy, and he gets a present engaged parent with a love of why questions. We've found our stride...I do feel like it took longer then I saw with the mothers around me. I always felt like a distant/cold mother in his early years because of that.
Nez Corvid I feel sad for you, because the intense wonderful ness of those feelings are so great. But fact that you were aware and provided good care is very insightful.
This is more common than people like to admit, and even when they do, they tend to sugar coat the feelings for the sake of appearances or being judged. My OBGYN explained her situation as this: "When we [Her and her Husband] decided to have kids he was all about the baby stuff. The toys, the toes, and all of the 'firsts'. I was always more interested in them as a person, or when they became one at least. I couldn't wait to get to know them and have conversations with them. Like I'd day dream of what classes would interest them. Would they want to go to college or pick up a trade? Would they wanna be a movie star? Or just the beer and fishing type? The world of possibilities was just so fascinating. And it was a gift I would get to open everyday in like 10/12ish years."
She's had three girls, all are in their 20s and while she has no interest in returning to the baby years, she said she seemed to avoid the empty nest feelings because she was never so encapsulated in the raising aspect. She loves getting updates on their hobbies and life and she's just so excited to have seen them grow into adults and spend time with them.
I'm definitely stealing the phrase "Screaming Tamagotchi with higher stakes if I fail."
Passed a kidney sound a couple of months after labour. Very similar pain, not constant and comes in waves, bad enough that you're crawling around on the floor trying not to pass out.
Recovery was faster after a stone, a few mls in size, little bit of bleeding, some soreness, antibiotics for a concurrent infection.
Recovery from labour took longer and was more uncomfortable. The pain was more bearable, less feeling like passing out, less sharp feeling contractions.
But very similar type of experience. Contractions that build up sort of pain.
I had a coworker pass out from pain from kidney stones once and when she came to she was like "no biggie, happens all the time". Like... giiiirl.. what the heck. They're obviously no joke.
@@meljstephan you do start to get used to it if you're a recurrent sufferer. I don't bother with hospital unless I need serious pain management. I get a midline put in so I can get IV antibiotics at home. I have kidney problems so I'm used to intense pain in that area. I want to be comfy at home.
I pass out a lot with moderate/ severe abdominal pain too and you do have to be matter of fact about it, otherwise folks start panicking and calling ambulances. I have an over active vasovagal reaction, so long as I get down and let it pass, I'm good. I only need intervention if I fall or injure myself on the way down.
Things that could be helpful if you see that again are putting something down so they are comfortable, ensuring they lay in recovery position, a cool wet flannel or towel for the back of their neck, a glass of water or juice for afterwards, having a chair available so the can get up into it slowly before standing (So they don't go down again getting up too quickly), and encouraging folks to give space and get on if it happens in public because it's embarrassing having a big audience.
@@KatyPlusOne I'm the same with period pain and it's exactly like you said, you have to be super reassuring and factual to keep people from panicking, calling an ambulance, feeling obligated to stay with you etc
@@KatyPlusOne Yeah, she made us all swear we'd never call an ambulance for her. I felt so bad for her
@@Attilablabla I had a fainting spell in Birmingham New Street train station. I had my five year old with me, so I held on until I got to the customer service, then went down in the waiting area. I had to reassure the staff more than my daughter, who understood I'd get up again soon lol
Thanks for sharing about connecting with your baby after they are born and it taking time. It took me some time after mine were born. I just remember after my first was born we both were laying in our own beds in the hospital looking at each other... Knowing we were very important to each other but just meeting for the first time. Thanks and love your videos ❤️
Your my new favorite channel right now since I’m pregnant with my second baby and it’s nice to have you being out here on you tube! Hugs 🤗
FYI for the flight attendent thing (I work in the aviation industry): first off, they get paid between $20 000 - $30 000 a year, so just keep that in mind. Secondly, how it works through most major airlines is that both the person who works for the airline and their parents get unlimited pass flights, and others in their direct family get like 4 pass flights through the year (have to be accompanied by the person who works for the airline), then there are some pass flights that they can select someone to receive but they have to be travelling with them. My old airline also used to allow me to give out discounts (10% off flights to friends and 20% off to family), at like 10 discounts per year.
The pass flights aren't free...you have to pay taxes on the flight (so usually the entire flight is like 70% off). You do not have a confirmed seat. If the flight is full of "paying customers," even the last seat is purchased an hour before the flight and you've already checked in, you don't get to fly (the general recommendation is to never check luggage). Others with passes may also take those seats from you if they have more seniority in the airline. Also you have to dress according to the airline's dress code (usually business casual).
It depends on the country and airline though.
@@marinak4452 Somewhat yes, but everything I talked about was the standard agreement that exists through the Star Alliance, which covers 26 major airlines around the world.
That's so interesting to hear... One of my parents works for a European airline - we live in Europe. We all get to fly standby unlimited all year round but us kids only till the age 24. Then there are other options like you can buy a confirmed seat for a bit more than the standby flight but not as much as full fare. Then there's also another account with a certain number of miles that gets reloaded every year were you pay next to nothing for a confirmed seat. (For example I flew FRA-ORD round trip with confirmed seat for 223€) Then there are also vacation flights which are free. They don't have the passes over here... Edit: She works for an airline in the Star alliance, a pretty prominent one I might add 😉
A friend of mine works for a Star Alliance airline as well (not a flight attendant, nor a pilot, just a regular office job at an airline) and she has to pay only 10% of the regular price (= every flight is 90% off). However it is true that these are non-confirmed seats so she flies first or business class in general (usually not overbooked)... And can book tickets for friends and family as well! She also earns a decent amount of money - way more than a flight attendant.
Sounds like you have to be pretty fluid with plans to take advantage!
After having been pregnant myself I cannot fathom how a woman doesn’t know she’s pregnant, it baffles me every time I see this show 🤷🏼♀️
Right? While I'd still want to know if I'm pregnant, I'd love to have a pregnancy so easy that I could've not known.
It actually happened to my aunt twice! After my oldest cousin was born, she stopped having her period, so that wasn’t an indicator, and she wrote the weight gain and sickness off as just, you know, she’s not eating great or it’s a stomach bug, or anything else. After my second cousin was born, she didn’t want that to happen again, so she got her tubes tied. Since it was immediately after birth, everything healed and went back to normal (it’s still a crazy small chance, but whenever it reverses it’s bc they were tied right after birth) and the same thing happened where she completely didn’t know until like, 2nd trimester at least. It was a wild ride for her and our family
Lol I didn’t know I was pregnant till I was 19 weeks I had period I grabbed a test not even thinking I was, I would always check periodically to be safe and I’ll tell you what when I took the test I thought I was only like a couple of weeks but no I was way longer the 2 weeks
Same omg!! Like I found out at 6 weeks but I don’t know how some women can be 6 months and not know. The human body is crazy. Sometimes you don’t gain that much weight and there’s no visible bump, sometimes you have very few symptoms of being pregnant... idk how but I’ve heard so many stories like that!
I have a close friend who claims she didn't know, but I think she was in denial and just didn't know how to tell her parents...but I think she knew.
Your incredible sell got me to subscribe. This is the 4th video I've seen of yours and i love them so far. So much honesty and sarcasm lol
I absolutely love the content. No to mention the fact that MamaDoctorJones does the extra effort and research. Thanks for laughs and the learning.
When my kids were born I didn't have that starry-eyed love thing either. The thing that blew my mind was how something that size came out of my body. Like was literally the first thing I thought every time I looked at my baby, for like a week I was like "dang, I can't believe you came out of me, let's get that diaper changed".
I had a mix, like total love on a deep gut level, I guess like a bond? But also just felt totally surreal that she even existed and I didn't feel like "Mom" was part of my identity until she was like 18 months.
Same with me to an extent. I was on nexplanon but due to my bipolar medication (primarily used as a medication for seizures) it failed and I got pregnant at 16. I loved her at first sight but wasn’t really emotionally connected till at least 20 weeks pregnant and not totally until she was born. Never had any prior experience with children/babies so it was pretty damn weird. Somehow got a bad uterus infection when she was 1 1/2 weeks old and was hospitalized for a week so adjusting to that and practically re-learning everything was difficult.Every birth story is different and that’s totally okay! 🥰 Way to go momma
@@phishyboic959 oy. I got an infection too, but at 25 weeks. I almost lost her, and had to be put in intravenous antibiotics in the hospital overnight then was sent home with oral ones and strict bedrest for a month-- the infection was attacking her placenta. It was all cleared up by the time she was full term and they put me on an IV antibiotic during labor just in case to avoid what happened with you.
Pamela M. M. Berkeley I’m glad everything turned out well!! I had a vaginal delivery with no complications which only took 9 hours(although I had borderline preeclampsia) so it was pretty unexpected. In hindsight I was pretty damn lucky.
I want to comment on the "instant connection" with a new born.... I also didn't have that "starry eyed" romantic movie connection with my daughter the moment I saw her. I loved her, more than anything, but like Dr Jones, it took me some time to get to know her. Once we were outta the hospital & we were home where I didn't have all of those distractions & ppl around, she became my sun & stars. So I wanted to also let women know that it's ok if it's not instantaneous. 💜💙💜💙💜
That's what happen to me. Seeing her right after birth I was happy but I didn't cry due to being overjoyed. It took untill I was home for a couple days for it to really HIT me.
I honestly love these videos:) definitely an inspiration to become an oby/gyn:) I love learning new things!!♥️
I freaking love your honesty! It took me awhile to fall completely in love with my son - and for the longest time I thought something was wrong with me! He is almost 9 years old and we are expecting another baby boy in December and I'm so glad I saw these videos / your Channel before this one comes!