LOVE FEST! Abigail Heringer & Noah Erb On Misconceptions And Scheduled Walks - Ep 144 - Dear Shandy

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  • It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by lovebirds Abigail Heringer (The Bachelor, Season 25) and Noah Erb (The Bachelorette, Season 16), who you saw meet and date on Bachelor In Paradise, Season 7! They share the behind-the-scenes we didn't see on Paradise, when and how Noah reached back out to Abigail post-filming, how they complement each other today, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, the Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!
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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Welcome To Abigail And Noah!
    1:57 - Did They Watch Each Other's Seasons and First Impressions
    6:31 - How First Impressions Have Changed
    9:41 - How They Complement Each Other
    14:01 - The Biggest Misconceptions About Their Relationship
    18:27 - Had They Not Broken Up On Camera, Would Their Edit Have Played Out Differently?
    22:38 - Early Hurdle
    25:15 - How Long After The Show Did They Get Back Together?
    30:12 - How They Fight
    39:36 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed
    45:21 - The Newlyweds Game
    1:04:50 - Shandy Debrief
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ความคิดเห็น • 145

  • @audreyg1357
    @audreyg1357 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    Now THIS is what love fests are about! I got more genuine compatibility and playfulness between them from this interview than I did from an entire season of BIP. Great chemistry between them and Shandy too! Love love love!

    • @theressahmichelloblaylock7863
      @theressahmichelloblaylock7863 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Wow!!! This was beautiful from both couples. Abigail & Noah are so real. And "Shandy podcast" is one of the very best podcast.

    • @kristinberdis2827
      @kristinberdis2827 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agreed

    • @gorillarod
      @gorillarod 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That was great!❤

  • @JamieABurke
    @JamieABurke ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Noah is one of my favorite contestants that’s ever been on the show, he’s kinda different and doesn’t fit into their typical type of people they cast. And Abigail and him seem really well suited. Yay for them!

  • @coriannevlogs8231
    @coriannevlogs8231 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I LOVE that Noah slid in some of his Christian beliefs. I respect him so much for not being afraid to admit that he has struggled with the decision to live together before marriage. So real and relatable

  • @embeth446
    @embeth446 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    This was fun, and you’re right. Their edit on BIP was so bizarre. They were made to look lazy and complacent and not that excited about each other. Then when he dumped her, and she was devastated, it was so confusing. Thanks for showing us their real personalities.
    Side note: Am I the only one that often thinks cast members are even more gorgeous when I see them on podcasts? It makes no sense but I often think that.

  • @jasminewinters9433
    @jasminewinters9433 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Suggestion for a future love fest episode: Wells Adams and Sarah Hyland ❤️

    • @dearshandy
      @dearshandy  ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I promise, we tried! 😟

  • @NakoaLeather
    @NakoaLeather ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Noah is right - you're the best podcast around.

  • @fairebianca
    @fairebianca ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Yes! Abigail and Noah are one of my favorite couples who survived the BIP experience. I love following their stories. So happy for them.

  • @mathildap.7705
    @mathildap.7705 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Awesome interview. Appreciate these two people and their authenticity. They seem to have a real solid relationship and should continue on that part and keep people out of their relationship. I love their mature approach to handling conflicts. Truly enjoyed this interview.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😘

  • @lovehilaryanne
    @lovehilaryanne ปีที่แล้ว +3

    32:14 EMOTIONAL INTELLEGENCE BOOOOOYYYYYYYYYY He doesn't need the book... he wrote it

  • @ashleyp6240
    @ashleyp6240 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Dear Shandy, this was so much fun!! I'm so glad we got to know more about Noah, I was surprised at how funny and sweet he is!! Abigail is as wonderful as I hoped she would be! They are so cute and lovely! Thanks for having them on and please tell them thank you from all of us!!

  • @lovelala6861
    @lovelala6861 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The TV lied to us! lol

  • @EmmaDitnes
    @EmmaDitnes ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love this interview! But the best part is the way Andy keeps looking at Sharleen during the “what beliefs did you have about relationships that have changed now that you have this one” question. He looks at her like he’s their proud parent and it’s ADORABLE 🥹😆

  • @samkreps1194
    @samkreps1194 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I went into this love fest feeling "meh" about them and left feeling like they're the cutest and most compatible BN couple ever. Great couple and episode!

  • @benjaminfast5496
    @benjaminfast5496 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I absolutely LOVE Abigail and Noah. This was such a great love fest! I actually find Noah extremely relatable. Even though he got a villain's edit on the Bachelorette, I saw through it and really liked him. I deemed it more as the other guys were more alpha/egotistical and didn't like that he was trying to be more fun and playful. Obviously not everything he said/did was great, but I also saw he was a good guy beneath the edit. Then on BIP he was way more chill, but also seemed to think about a lot of deep stuff which I saw. He and Abigail (an absolutely sweetheart) compliment one another so well and I'm so happy they made it work after BIP. I wish we had gotten to see more of their love story as well, but what matters is more so who they are off the show, and they both seem amazing.
    Thanks Shandy for another great Love Fest!

  • @ermo3133
    @ermo3133 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Dear Shandy, you have the bestest podcast ever and I’m so happy I get to listen to it every week ❤️

  • @louisadesousa8588
    @louisadesousa8588 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This was my favourite love fest! Abigail and Noah are so lovely. Listening to you 4 chat is like overhearing you at a dinner together.

  • @jodien5800
    @jodien5800 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    They have been hands down my favorite couple from Paradise.

  • @KirstyNZ
    @KirstyNZ ปีที่แล้ว +16

    What a great couple, so authentic and gorgeous !! One of my favourite love fests to date!

  • @houseofinri.hoi1959
    @houseofinri.hoi1959 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So Happy that Abigail and Noah got back together and are still together, they also so well suited, as with Kenny and Mari💕

  • @lizzies6936
    @lizzies6936 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    “Have to Uber to our yacht.” I love how salty Noah is during this game.

  • @curatedbycait
    @curatedbycait ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Lol Noah's a goof
    Abigail looks at him so lovingly

  • @kellyelliott3797
    @kellyelliott3797 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So glad Shandy is around to provide a more genuine introduction to these lovely people! Shandy > BIP!

  • @chrissyg9576
    @chrissyg9576 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Abby and Noah are like a refreshing sweet tea!!! Genuine!! Loving!!!!!!!! And Respectful!!!! 💯🌹❤️💙🦋

  • @aprilteehan910
    @aprilteehan910 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Loved this Love Fest! Abigail and Noah have a solid dynamic. They are genuine and relatable. Their honesty is really disarming and I can see why Shandy wants to hang out w them again 🙃!

  • @lesleywiley4324
    @lesleywiley4324 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I absolutely agree with Abigail and Noah about the misconception regarding them as a couple. BIP screwed us. I think most viewers like me realized this bc every other couple on the beach continually said that A&N were the IT couple. We know producer edit and manipulation. No worries A&G, following you on IG genuinely shows you are couple goals. Love your fun and loving energy that you both radiate ❤

  • @JuneBee9606
    @JuneBee9606 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    favourite part of the vid is finding out Andy got to go to dinner with Thomas, I'm so happy for you Andy! n of course, Abby n Noah were hella cute.

    • @dearshandy
      @dearshandy  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haha such a cute comment! I posted about it here: instagram.com/p/CWcB1Q_Al9D (Don't miss the video 😂)

    • @JuneBee9606
      @JuneBee9606 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dearshandy omg that joyful jump though 😂😂😂😍😍😍

  • @momotara00
    @momotara00 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Started out tepid at best towards these two/ this interview, and now this is indisputably my favorite Love fest thus far. More Noah/Abby content anytime!

  • @sassynchicago
    @sassynchicago ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I needed that.. great interview showing how they transitioned from reality TV to reality!

  • @mytrishy1
    @mytrishy1 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Noah’s maturity blows me away! What a wonderful partner. It’s really too bad they didn’t show the side of him on the bachelorette

  • @leahglaser1685
    @leahglaser1685 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love how Andy always goes existential 🤣 same, Andy, same

  • @lesleywiley4324
    @lesleywiley4324 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So excited for this. I was mad at myself bc I have had no time to watch the recap from Tuesday until today, but that quickly changed bc now I get back to back videos. This is great bc Shandy always has me wanting more by the end of their videos

  • @missnewvillage
    @missnewvillage ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was such a great love fest! I’m so excited you got one of the paradise couples on the podcast. Noah and Abigail seem like such a great couple. I’m glad they were able to work out everything that happened on paradise.

  • @andreaashfordd
    @andreaashfordd ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love watching Noah and Abigail's relationship dynamic. This was a fun episode!

  • @juliaespinoza3374
    @juliaespinoza3374 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love is in the air! Two beautiful couples inside and out. What a wonderful podcast to listen to. Thank you! ❤️

  • @dorothyglover1512
    @dorothyglover1512 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yay!!! Love these two. Can’t wait for the next season of Paradise!

  • @c_louie670
    @c_louie670 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was such a lovely interview, Abigail and Noah are so adorable. Thank you so much for sharing this.

  • @harrylederman1679
    @harrylederman1679 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    What a fantastic couple and you're so right you feel energised after watching them!!...... and watching you 2 as well BTW... the green dress was spectacular Sharleen

  • @tanyadeejones996
    @tanyadeejones996 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Really enjoyed these two and their love fest! Thanks Andy and Sharlene.

  • @CC12203
    @CC12203 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The best was Andy having a new way to rate Love Fests (by his level of BO!) Fun video. 😁

  • @ginabeena5583
    @ginabeena5583 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love there dynamic together! There such an adorable couple... 🥰. Wonderful Love fest conversation . ❤️

  • @lkamp88
    @lkamp88 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Loved every minute of this!

  • @sarahwilkes8849
    @sarahwilkes8849 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    YAY sooooo excited to listen to this!!

  • @deniserichard5613
    @deniserichard5613 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I loved this! They are adorable! So glad for them! Shandy, you did a good job of getting the dirt on these two. It was so fun to watch! Love & hugs!❣

  • @sylviamaehr5266
    @sylviamaehr5266 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is such an amazing get!!! One of my favorite couples from BN!

  • @phoenixgirl70
    @phoenixgirl70 ปีที่แล้ว

    So much fun! Thanks you two for making these interviews fun. Love from a fellow 🇨🇦😄

  • @leilap2495
    @leilap2495 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I would have wanted to see more of the real Noah and Abigail on BIP ❤ I am so happy for them. Thanks for another great Love Fest ❤

  • @judya3455
    @judya3455 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Awwwww. That was lovely! I like them even more than I did before!

  • @sanbow200
    @sanbow200 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ramen: Asian, pasta and broth. Pho: Asian, pasta and broth. Yes they are from different countries but the general idea is the same. Too funny!
    Glad to see Abigail and Noah together after the show ended. I love the way they work together and are so respectful of each other despite their differences. I feel their love. Thanks for another fun Love Fest!

  • @dionebest9960
    @dionebest9960 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yeah so excited for this!

  • @trisha4797
    @trisha4797 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So happy for this couple, that it worked out for them. Great interview!

    • @howtowithassitan9752
      @howtowithassitan9752 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh yeah Last year BIP seems to have had a lot of success stories 5 couples in all still together

  • @erinserrano1897
    @erinserrano1897 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brooooo I can’t wait!!! This is an awesome couple to have on

  • @irmarfrank1005
    @irmarfrank1005 ปีที่แล้ว

    I thoroughly enjoyed them on BIP and was rooting for them; i was devastated how they ended. So cheers to best wishes for forever. Another awesome interview.

  • @kateliness2
    @kateliness2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yay! Loved this episode!

  • @urbanspiralsent.6432
    @urbanspiralsent.6432 ปีที่แล้ว

    Defintely one of the best podcasts. I find the best podcasts are not centred around off-screen /social media drama

  • @1962Melody
    @1962Melody ปีที่แล้ว

    So happy to see this! Congratulations 🎉

  • @deblamborn9735
    @deblamborn9735 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very cute! I'm so glad they took the chance and got back together in the real world!!

  • @evastilldreams6066
    @evastilldreams6066 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    They way they look at each other 🥰

  • @urbanspiralsent.6432
    @urbanspiralsent.6432 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    perfect ad placement. i thought andy was about to tell a story related to noah's experience

    • @dearshandy
      @dearshandy  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hahaha I actually always hem and haw over where to insert ads so your comment made me laugh-thank you! 😅

  • @Rachel-rs7jn
    @Rachel-rs7jn ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I loved them. ❤I was super impressed with Noah's discussion of how he handles conflict. I know so many men in their 40s and 50s who don't have his maturity and insight. I always thought he had a depth and maturity not really showcased on the Bachelorette, and this interview demonstrated that in spades. I hope they take their time and let their relationship continue to grow at their own pace so that they last for the long haul.
    EDIT: now I'm seeing what a hard time he's having understanding how the game works! 😆

  • @BarraJakuta
    @BarraJakuta ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great episode. Noah and Abigal are so awesome. There are so many great couples that came off the latest Bachelor in Paradise. Maybe you could get Mari and Kenny on the show?

  • @anotherguybitesthecrust
    @anotherguybitesthecrust ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was so fun, such as sweet and fun couple x

  • @jareya
    @jareya ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Such a lovely episode… they are so cute together

  • @hassanas4816
    @hassanas4816 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I loved this episode. I love them. I laughed so much.

  • @irakohler5591
    @irakohler5591 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved this ❤️

  • @minervitanow
    @minervitanow ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved them!

  • @kimg.8408
    @kimg.8408 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great Love Fest! Noah & Abigail seem to have a love and respect for each other that is almost palpable, and that is so refreshing and lovely. Viewers were definitely robbed of the experience of seeing the beginning of this love story on Paradise...I would rather have seen more of them than the ridiculous "drama" that was shown. Nonetheless, I am thrilled that things have worked out for them so well post-show. I have no doubt they will make it for the long haul.

  • @sandrabrooks3373
    @sandrabrooks3373 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was definitely delightful

  • @anyas1629
    @anyas1629 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love them together! I agree, bad edit on Paradise. I don’t think as a viewer I was invested. They are adorable and I hope they go the distance! Thanks Shandy!

  • @gj1695
    @gj1695 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awwwww LOVE them! 🥰

  • @monicamckinnon8949
    @monicamckinnon8949 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love watching you guys -- you are such a dream couple. And Noah and Abigail are my all time favorite Bachelor Nation couple.

  • @melissap3539
    @melissap3539 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Delightful couple! Had a sense when watching BIP that they had much more dimension and depth.

  • @susanm8214
    @susanm8214 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love Noah's clean shaven look. Looks really nice. And his hair looks great like that. 👍👍

  • @dani-dk8go
    @dani-dk8go ปีที่แล้ว

    This was a lovely interview with a lot of laugh out loud moments. I already liked Abi and Noah as a couple, but it was great hearing more about their relationship and I definitely appreciate their dynamic even more now. I've heard about this pod from folks on r/thebachelor and I can see why it's always recc'd. Great hosting here!

  • @sara.rush.
    @sara.rush. ปีที่แล้ว

    Love these two ❤️❤️❤️

  • @paiger533
    @paiger533 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    i always liked noah, especially how he responded to bennetts BS on the bachelorette. i thought it was always clear that he was a good guy under this little pot stirrer attitude. also, the way abby looks at him is a testament to that.

  • @mhalper2000
    @mhalper2000 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such great people

  • @brando091121
    @brando091121 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great episode so many laughs😂

  • @just4mygrl413
    @just4mygrl413 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great podcast! Noah and Abigail are one of my favorite couples, besides you and your husband!! 😘👍 Great interview!

  • @marics96
    @marics96 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Excited for this!! Can you guys have Joe and Serena next please?!! ❤️

    • @howtowithassitan9752
      @howtowithassitan9752 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yesss. Last year BIP seems to have had a lot of success stories 5 couples in all still together

  • @zumbawitharachelchel5078
    @zumbawitharachelchel5078 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ONE OF MY FAVORITE COUPLES 😍😍😍

  • @lesleywiley4324
    @lesleywiley4324 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Seriously love them even more which I didn’t think was possible. Adorable couple

  • @craymond324
    @craymond324 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this couple!

  • @naomifrances7420
    @naomifrances7420 ปีที่แล้ว

    ONE OF MY FAVORITE COUPLE ♥️♥️🌹🌹

  • @Lisalee20151
    @Lisalee20151 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    OMG I NEARLY PEED WHEN I SAW THIS - I am so excited to watch and so jealous because I would totally date Noah but I would also date Abigail and I can’t they are so cute

  • @k.r.hayman4633
    @k.r.hayman4633 ปีที่แล้ว

    He's so handsome, SHE'S A VERY LUCKY GIRL!

  • @AbigaillOwusu
    @AbigaillOwusu ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I never really liked Abigail during Matt’s season but I loved Noah during Tayshias season. Let’s just say I love these two together, they compliment each other so much. Noah you definitely look better without the moustache lol

  • @TheMademsily
    @TheMademsily ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They are my favorite couple 💕 is that ok to say on a Shandy video? 😂

  • @chrissyg9576
    @chrissyg9576 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    If I had a million dollars, I would fly to NYC and take Sharleen and Andy out to dinner. I would play the Newlywed Game with them. 💯🌹❤️💙🦋manifesting it right now!!!

  • @CommonsensewithHollyHawks
    @CommonsensewithHollyHawks ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m also from Oklahoma and we definitely get pressure to get married by EVERYONE in the family if you decide to move in together. And told that if we live together and don’t commit to marry we’re going in knowing we’re sinning and the statistics are against us and more than likely the relationship won’t work out. If you love each other enough to play house, you get married in Oklahoma.

  • @lucbordage7291
    @lucbordage7291 ปีที่แล้ว

    Abigail is awesome!

  • @shelbyfoster9597
    @shelbyfoster9597 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God I loved this episode!

    • @dearshandy
      @dearshandy  ปีที่แล้ว

      Happy to read this, Shelby, thank you!

  • @sorachicken
    @sorachicken ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved getting to know these two more!! They're adorable!
    Also, like Andy & Noah, my husband is a sardine fiend. If I'm ever out of the house in the morning, he makes what we call "Joe's Heinous Hash" for breakfast (sardines, eggs, onions and mushrooms). I'm not a fan. lol

  • @AngeLEyes8100
    @AngeLEyes8100 ปีที่แล้ว

    I ❤ these 2. Such a cute couple.

  • @JovialBuchanan
    @JovialBuchanan ปีที่แล้ว

    I hope they get engaged soon❤

  • @morganaveryco
    @morganaveryco ปีที่แล้ว

    Noah is bizarrely the male version of me. Abigail is super similar to my husband. So fun to see their dynamic!

  • @lilianamattos9806
    @lilianamattos9806 ปีที่แล้ว

    💖💖

  • @gogirl709
    @gogirl709 ปีที่แล้ว

    Noah making Oklahoma look good!

  • @kristinkrauss5610
    @kristinkrauss5610 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sharleen, your enneagram 4 is showing over the misrepresentation on the show of their relationship🥰 We value being understood and seen! I feel this to my bones.

  • @akpenguin1859
    @akpenguin1859 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sharlane you turn into a warewolf too 😂 I tell my boyfriend I’m not allowed to talk past 9 😂

  • @alexandrabain7726
    @alexandrabain7726 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just have to say love sardines. I also eat canned smoked oysters. Love them!