He challenges you more than Dan but he knows you, listens to you and even chuckles when the thoughts connect. I am so appreciative that you care for him with love. He is clean, fed, dressed and put back on track from night wandering. Truly lucky he is to have you all & you all him. 92 and no glasses!? That's a miracle!!
I agree with you on almost every point except I think he gives Dan an equal amount of static. I gotta say when he grins while the "thoughts connect " I think he is really wanting to say "bull$hit" if he's anything like my Dad was. I say all this with the utmost respect to you and the Salingers. ❤
Grandpa seems to understand however he doesn’t think it applies to him. You can see that he is thinking about your words and trying to figure it out. I am glad that he does not get loud, mean or combative, thank goodness. You always handle the repetitive questions with patience, kindness and respect. You know exactly what to do and doing a wonderful job that most people could not understand the situation of caring for a family member who has short term memory loss. 👏❤️💐🍷
This was a good explanation. It has to be an act of love and patience to continually go over the same concerns again and again. God bless you Danielle!
Grandpa Ed can’t understand that he is unable to drive because he doesn’t realise he is 92 years old.😢 Thank you for your patience Danielle and God bless you all🫶
Listen, Danielle, that is all we can do, every case is different, you and your family know what’s best for your family member… personally I think you and Dan are doing a wonderful job with Grandpa Ed… he is very well cared for…❤
I went through the same with my Dad. He never would except that he couldn't drive anymore. Your right Danielle. You do the best you can. Hope you all enjoy your Saturday.❤❤❤😊
This is an ongoing rough issue. My mom, in the same type of dementia, kept asking for her cookies after she had them in her hand...totally got this. God's blessings to you, Dan, and family. You've opened many eyes regarding this condition...take care!
Oh Danielle Bless you honey you are such a trooper and a wonderful caregiver to Grandpa Ed. My heart goes out to you every time I watch the Fam videos. Bless you your family girl
Not being able to drive is the hardest thing as we age. We go from independent to codependent. Due to multiple health issues, I gave up driving in 2017. I now have my one leg amputated below the knee because of doctor negligence. You handled Grandpa Ed well. He adores you and so do I❣️🙏💕❤️
@@mrsdsalnorcal , thank you. I've been in my bed for a year except for doctor appointments. I'm having another inch to inch and a half removed on April 2nd. I'm a fighter but this was totally avoidable. Happy Saturday to my favorite family💗💜💗
I understand my great uncle had to stop driving in his 90s it was his only way of independence..very sad but I understand and sometimes we have to literally sit back and accept help but it’s not easy ❤❤❤
Tough love in action. Growing old can be hard on an entire family not just the one advancing in years with all the baggage that entails. The real question is why Grandpa wants to drive. "Why do you want to drive, Ed? Where do you want to go?"
It is very tough to accept. He must realize that he is making it safe for himself and others. I came to the same conclusion a few years ago and I am just thankful that I have family that help me. Just the other day I was riding home and I had a brief lapse then I had no idea where we were. I never said anything… if you continue to just have conversations and try to help and empathize you will be fine. I would also suggest that you assure him that you would rather drive him and know he and others on the road are safe. I am a lot younger but I can relate to him…❤
Ur doing well Danielle....I am currently taking care of a gent with same issue. You have a great strategy. Sending love to you n Ed.....also rest of fam.❤
We found it easiest to tell my grandfather that the state took his licence at a certain age! That usually calmed him down about not being able to drive! But every once in a while he would get frustrated and become angry that he couldn't just go where ever and whenever he wanted to! Don't humor him- it only adds to his frustration when he doesn't get the truth! And that's what your best at Danielle- telling it like it is! I love that! God BLESS you Dan and Ed!
The truth is the best. And I would sit at the table so he can hear me,, and I would tell him that he almost got in an accident, and he went through red lights, he forgot where he was going..
I think being a caregiver is always harder when it's a loved one you are caring for. Yet, despite his disease being home with you, all is the best for longevity. Thank you for showing those of us just starting on this journey that is possible. You have been a wonderful example of family love.
So sad and frustrating for the both of you. I'm going to be 77 and so fearful of the day when I have to give up driving. I don't know what I'll do when that happens. 😢
Loved ones never think they have dementia..they get angry about it when you say it..they think their. Fine..been there with both parents... and ehhhhhhh. Not easy❤
Danielle… I watch everyday and I believe you need a lil break .. with being busy .. and Dan being gone you just look like u need a couple days chillen. W/o Ed .. Please know I’m just one who cares about you and the last week or so you look like you’re stressing and I hope that you get a day off soon ….☮️💜🛐
Same thing I proposed similarly b⁴ that dad should be engaging himself with new people new surrounding, new sentences ( u are 91/ licence issue/cheque book/what is next meal time etc by staying in a NICE HOME, CLEAN 'HEALTHY' environment Dan Danielle can visit or vice versa as many times wished. He is bored. With new friends his mind will develop differently. After all Ed gas the money. Why not enjoy it while he is alive. He will be happy, every one else will be happy and healthier too from stress and anxiety
@@LadyCrystal-b6p I know your not replying to me ! I think that grandpa is just fine where he is and Danielle and Dan have already expressed to us what it likes what it doesn’t like and what works for them. I don’t know what you’re talking about.
❤ Bobbi here from Illinois watching and Danielle I can relate bless your heart and so sad to see how aggressive this diseases I have an 89-year-old grandpa pop I call him he’s not as bad as Mister Ed right now I watch a lot of your videos I may not comment on all of them because well as you know we have our hands full😢 I just wanna know does it get worse like this or does it stay I guess there’s different levels of dementia or stages maybe thank you for your videos very helpful thank you
❤You're doing so good with grandpa Danielle❤. I bet you get tired to repeat. You only human. I love you for what you all do for him. Because I know from experience it's not easy. And more so for you because grandpa not a card or a dominoes fan. Doesn't like puzzles. He likes to be outside. But that again isn't always a good choice for his skin. So hang in honey bunch. We all got you❤❤❤❤
God bless you, Danielle. I wish I had met you years ago. Grandpa is so lucky to have you. My dad got 30 brain tumors and then I graduated from college, got a job and TOOK HIS CAR! 😭😭😭Alzheimers sucks. 🌊🌊💙💙👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
I believe you did the right thing saying dementia. I was shocked but pleased you did say it since my Father is exactly like Ed. I get you Danielle on all areas of caretaking & the exhausting experience it is/can be. I really appreciate this discussion you had today with Ed. ❤
Its tough Danielle. I didn't renew our Aussie driving licences when here in Spain because my darling husband was getting sicker & my knees & ADHD was getting worse. My darling husband died January 2022 as you know. I miss driving but use my Mobility scooter to get around. Miss a car for further travel
My mom would ask where my dad was after he passed. She'd look for him and argue with me that he didn't pass and couldn't be gone! "That's just not something that you forget!" she'd tell me. I tried everything and sometimes found that if I said he was out in the garage tinkering or downstairs in the shower, she'd let it go, but other times she wouldn't let it go. She also argued that she could still walk and she'd get up and fall flat. Many times there was just no stopping her as she was so stubborn about it. It was so hard to deal with but is something you just must do. Hang in there Danielle and Dan. You are doing a great job with him! ❤
Bless you for sharing. And taking care of your mom. Family is still best if they Han handle it but it’s not easy for sure. Sooo long term and frustrating. 💜
Ed is so pig headed and stubborn that if his car was in the driveway he would probably drive it anyway. Good thing it was sold. I think he has the God complex like most doctors always right about everything.
@@DeniseSterling-k5u Yikes try to be a little kinder. Unless you’ve been I. This long term repetitive dialogue for yrs on end it gets very hard to see the humor. My grandfather had dementia for last yrs of his life. It’s so draining :( anddd difficult
❤ 🤔 ❤ 🙏 ❤ My elderly friend did not have the licence anymore to drive, just for the same reason. Then one day he has been driving around and told me that:" I'm not driving with the licence card. I'm driving with the car"! 🇫🇮
my dad still has his truck but he's not allowed to drive it but he won't let go of it - then he complains about having to pay the insurance, taxes, etc.
Boy his driving privileges being taken away sure is the one thing that can get him pissed!! Ha. We took my father n law in and it was our toughest thing to tackle!!! My husband worked and I was home w my FILaw and I dreaded the car coming up! He’d get so mad because he had no way of understanding why he wasn’t safe driving. It seemed to put a dent in his pride and I’m sure he felt like we were controlling him. It hurt me for him to feel that way but we’ve gotta protect them. And it sure isn’t always easy, but we do it out of love ❤️
I have noticed when Ed doesn’t believe or agree with something that’s being said to him he’s does that mouth thing with his tongue 😂, and the sarcastic laugh! 😂😂😂😂
You can tell he gets the law, but doesn't grip, since he doesn't remember that he doesn't remember, that it applies to him. Seems like the driving issue is HUGE for all of us as we age with or without dementia. Hard to give up those freedoms in life. 😔 Hope you're having a great weekend. Take Care/Stay Safe ✌
Awe its so hard, it’s mentally draining for the carer I know the patient is the main concern but the carer is the main player in keeping the wheels rolling it’s so important to take your time out, that’s why mental health nurses work week on week off Chin up Danielle you are doing an exceptional job in fact you are the hero in this group due to the fact Ed is not your Dad. Take time out with your girl friends for a weekend in Vegas let Dan see what it’s like when you are not around.🙏🌟🙏
My husband (77) is all about denying every thing he does that is a manifestation of dementia. I have no idea if I can be as strong and capable as Danielle when he gets to the point where Ed is.
My Mom's dementia didn't stop her from driving, but she had an occupational therapist give her a driving test on a simulator and her responses were waaaaaay too slow.
Years ago I saw a Robin Williams movie called 'Awakenings' which dealt with various neurological disorders. In the movie a patient who'd been comatose for years was given an experimental drug & miraculously woke up thinking himself still young until seeing his older self in the mirror. Since Grandpa can't fathom he's 92 wondering what he thinks when he sees himself in the mirror? My dad died last year with dementia couldn't articulate at all & I know I'm totally overthinking Grandpa's situation. God Bless You All.
He challenges you more than Dan but he knows you, listens to you and even chuckles when the thoughts connect. I am so appreciative that you care for him with love. He is clean, fed, dressed and put back on track from night wandering. Truly lucky he is to have you all & you all him. 92 and no glasses!? That's a miracle!!
I agree with you on almost every point except I think he gives Dan an equal amount of static. I gotta say when he grins while the "thoughts connect " I think he is really wanting to say "bull$hit" if he's anything like my Dad was. I say all this with the utmost respect to you and the Salingers. ❤
he sure did. that was his body language. hehe
He's an awesome man!!
Danielle, I can see him processing what you're saying, deciding whether he agrees or not. You handled this perfectly. ❤
He used to being the boss of women
His chuckle is cute when he thinks the driving rule doesn't apply to him.😊
He always does the nervous laugh when he’s told something he doesn’t like.
Grandpa seems to understand however he doesn’t think it applies to him. You can see that he is thinking about your words and trying to figure it out.
I am glad that he does not get loud, mean or combative, thank goodness.
You always handle the repetitive questions with patience, kindness and respect.
You know exactly what to do and doing a wonderful job that most people could not understand the situation of caring for a family member who has short term memory loss. 👏❤️💐🍷
hi Cindy.
Isn't his birthday today?Are they going to have a party.?
This the hardest part telling our families that they can not drive!! Hang in there girl thinking of you!!!
Yes. We are facing.
hang tough
This was a good explanation. It has to be an act of love and patience to continually go over the same concerns again and again. God bless you Danielle!
You are spot on Danielle just telling him like it is.
You are a champion.
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Grandpa Ed can’t understand that he is unable to drive because he doesn’t realise he is 92 years old.😢
Thank you for your patience Danielle and God bless you all🫶
"I have dementia about driving?"... that was cute!
Yha
I absolutely love how polite he always is even though he is clearly getting frustrated as can be. This man is a good hearted soul.
You're all so very blessed to have each other!
Yes we are
God Bless you i would of lost my mind by now
I know this is hard. Cars and men go hand in hand. It’s a part of their being. Their ego. You’re in good hands, Ed. ☺️❤️
Bless your heart Grandpa Ed.
Bless you Danielle. You are doing the BEST you can. Take care
Listen, Danielle, that is all we can do, every case is different, you and your family know what’s best for your family member… personally I think you and Dan are doing a wonderful job with Grandpa Ed… he is very well cared for…❤
appreciate it.
Doing great Danielle, thank you for your steadfast love and patience with Dr Ed.
God bless you and your family.🙏
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Nice Danielle you are awesome always take care of grandpa ed lots of love from India
hi R. how's it going?
@@mrsdsalnorcal good 👍 Danielle
I went through the same with my Dad. He never would except that he couldn't drive anymore. Your right Danielle. You do the best you can. Hope you all enjoy your Saturday.❤❤❤😊
ty 🩷
@@mrsdsalnorcal ❤️❤️❤️❣️☺️
This is an ongoing rough issue. My mom, in the same type of dementia, kept asking for her cookies after she had them in her hand...totally got this. God's blessings to you, Dan, and family. You've opened many eyes regarding this condition...take care!
xoxox. hang tough.
You do a great job!❤
Oh Danielle Bless you honey you are such a trooper and a wonderful caregiver to Grandpa Ed. My heart goes out to you every time I watch the Fam videos. Bless you your family girl
That giggle and shoulder shrug. ❤. God love him
Not being able to drive is the hardest thing as we age. We go from independent to codependent. Due to multiple health issues, I gave up driving in 2017. I now have my one leg amputated below the knee because of doctor negligence. You handled Grandpa Ed well. He adores you and so do I❣️🙏💕❤️
im so sorry. :(
@@mrsdsalnorcal , thank you. I've been in my bed for a year except for doctor appointments. I'm having another inch to inch and a half removed on April 2nd. I'm a fighter but this was totally avoidable. Happy Saturday to my favorite family💗💜💗
I understand my great uncle had to stop driving in his 90s it was his only way of independence..very sad but I understand and sometimes we have to literally sit back and accept help but it’s not easy ❤❤❤
Danielle, it must take a lot out of you, i have so much respect for you, you are a wonderful daughter-in-law! Precious!
Thank you so much!
You are a good woman!
A great dtr in law for sure
You handled that well. It must be exhausting for you Danielle….
You are direct and clear and I like that. Great job Danielle!!!❤❤
I almost did a spit take when he chuckled. Thank you for sharing and explaining.
Glad you enjoyed it
Tough love in action. Growing old can be hard on an entire family not just the one advancing in years with all the baggage that entails. The real question is why Grandpa wants to drive. "Why do you want to drive, Ed? Where do you want to go?"
Sometimes its worse on the caretaker
It is very tough to accept. He must realize that he is making it safe for himself and others. I came to the same conclusion a few years ago and I am just thankful that I have family that help me. Just the other day I was riding home and I had a brief lapse then I had no idea where we were. I never said anything… if you continue to just have conversations and try to help and empathize you will be fine. I would also suggest that you assure him that you would rather drive him and know he and others on the road are safe. I am a lot younger but I can relate to him…❤
You are doing great Danielle...Admire your patience and love for Ed.
Lots of love from Scotland xx
Thank you so much!
You are doing an excellent job of caring for Ed. I admire you so much.
Love all the animals too they bring so much joy to our life 's.
Happy Birthday to world’s greatest Grandpa. You’re the best present any on video could ever have. 🎊🎈🎉🎂🎁 Love you soooooo much.
You and Dan do the best you can❤. And Grandpa tries his best to understand. God Bless you all!
Poor Danielle, my heart goes out to you. God bless your sweet heart.
ty
You’re doing great Danielle! Much love to you all 💕
I love your honesty❤ y'all have a wonderful day❤😊❤
Good conversation BUT challenging ,well-done Danielle ❤
So sorry. Thanks for explaining. I notice when you guys tell him his age he seems to understand the danger of driving at 92.
sometimes. :)
Ur doing well Danielle....I am currently taking care of a gent with same issue. You have a great strategy.
Sending love to you n Ed.....also rest of fam.❤
God bless him, and you all. Sending love ❤️
We found it easiest to tell my grandfather that the state took his licence at a certain age! That usually calmed him down about not being able to drive! But every once in a while he would get frustrated and become angry that he couldn't just go where ever and whenever he wanted to! Don't humor him- it only adds to his frustration when he doesn't get the truth! And that's what your best at Danielle- telling it like it is! I love that! God BLESS you Dan and Ed!
What works one day may not work another day. Very tough job dealing with dementia.
Exactly. You can't second guess dementia. There is no rhyme or reason to it. What may not be an issue can become one ten minutes later.
@sydneyevans2637 Agree. Folks who criticize have not walked in their shoes.
Danielle you are the best dealing with Ed. Don't know how you do it but if you were my daughter I would be so proud of you.
appreciate it.
The truth is the best. And I would sit at the table so he can hear me,, and I would tell him that he almost got in an accident, and he went through red lights, he forgot where he was going..
Bless you Danielle! My hubby has dementia so I know what your going through! 💕🙏
You all are doing an amazing job with your dad/ father-n-law and God will continue to bless you all much love from Alaska thanks for sharing
ty
You absolutely are doing the absolute best!!!!He is very blessed to have you and Dan !!
Thanks!
I think being a caregiver is always harder when it's a loved one you are caring for. Yet, despite his disease being home with you, all is the best for longevity. Thank you for showing those of us just starting on this journey that is possible. You have been a wonderful example of family love.
Xoxo
So sad and frustrating for the both of you. I'm going to be 77 and so fearful of the day when I have to give up driving. I don't know what I'll do when that happens. 😢
I get it
Loved ones never think they have dementia..they get angry about it when you say it..they think their. Fine..been there with both parents... and ehhhhhhh.
Not easy❤
The truth is always the best policy, Ed has a good personality which always comes through.
WHAT A loving family 👍
That lil chuckle is so heart warming.. ❤❤
Poor Dr Ed.So glad he has a beautiful caring family that loves him.❤
Danielle… I watch everyday and I believe you need a lil break .. with being busy .. and Dan being gone you just look like u need a couple days chillen. W/o Ed ..
Please know I’m just one who cares about you and the last week or so you look like you’re stressing and I hope that you get a day off soon ….☮️💜🛐
Same thing I proposed similarly b⁴ that dad should be engaging himself with new people new surrounding, new sentences ( u are 91/ licence issue/cheque book/what is next meal time etc by staying in a NICE HOME, CLEAN 'HEALTHY' environment
Dan Danielle can visit or vice versa as many times wished.
He is bored. With new friends his mind will develop differently.
After all Ed gas the money. Why not enjoy it while he is alive. He will be happy, every one else will be happy and healthier too from stress and anxiety
@@LadyCrystal-b6p I know your not replying to me ! I think that grandpa is just fine where he is and Danielle and Dan have already expressed to us what it likes what it doesn’t like and what works for them. I don’t know what you’re talking about.
Your a real ass
❤ Bobbi here from Illinois watching and Danielle I can relate bless your heart and so sad to see how aggressive this diseases I have an 89-year-old grandpa pop I call him he’s not as bad as Mister Ed right now I watch a lot of your videos I may not comment on all of them because well as you know we have our hands full😢 I just wanna know does it get worse like this or does it stay I guess there’s different levels of dementia or stages maybe thank you for your videos very helpful thank you
ty for watching and getting it. 🩷
Have you read about the ketogenic diet for dementia, or any other natural cures? So many great testimonies out there on reversing this disease.
❤You're doing so good with grandpa Danielle❤. I bet you get tired to repeat. You only human. I love you for what you all do for him. Because I know from experience it's not easy. And more so for you because grandpa not a card or a dominoes fan. Doesn't like puzzles. He likes to be outside. But that again isn't always a good choice for his skin. So hang in honey bunch. We all got you❤❤❤❤
Indeed.. U do the best you can to explain.. poor Ed S., he wants to be 70 again.😢
God bless you, Danielle. I wish I had met you years ago. Grandpa is so lucky to have you. My dad got 30 brain tumors and then I graduated from college, got a job and TOOK HIS CAR! 😭😭😭Alzheimers sucks. 🌊🌊💙💙👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
❤❤❤Grandpa❤❤❤ he like wtf who said I can't drive. Thier nutts! God love him....
I believe you did the right thing saying dementia. I was shocked but pleased you did say it since my Father is exactly like Ed. I get you Danielle on all areas of caretaking & the exhausting experience it is/can be. I really appreciate this discussion you had today with Ed. ❤
She has told him he has dementia before,Dan never says it
when Ed smiles carelessly and says ok he makes the World and everything in it look silly under his empire
Its tough Danielle. I didn't renew our Aussie driving licences when here in Spain because my darling husband was getting sicker & my knees & ADHD was getting worse. My darling husband died January 2022 as you know. I miss driving but use my Mobility scooter to get around. Miss a car for further travel
My mom would ask where my dad was after he passed. She'd look for him and argue with me that he didn't pass and couldn't be gone! "That's just not something that you forget!" she'd tell me. I tried everything and sometimes found that if I said he was out in the garage tinkering or downstairs in the shower, she'd let it go, but other times she wouldn't let it go. She also argued that she could still walk and she'd get up and fall flat. Many times there was just no stopping her as she was so stubborn about it. It was so hard to deal with but is something you just must do. Hang in there Danielle and Dan. You are doing a great job with him! ❤
Bless you for sharing. And taking care of your mom. Family is still best if they Han handle it but it’s not easy for sure. Sooo long term and frustrating. 💜
Lol sweet dad you are all right
Always praying for you and your family
I appreciate that
❤❤❤thanks Danielle for sharing.😊
You are so welcome!
Without Grandpa's money Danielle wouldn't even take his name.
Danielle, you are the most patient caregiver and understanding grandpa you are 91 years old and you cannot drive there. You have it.😂💙
@@Violetvance1965don’t come at me with bull shit 💩
...... If I don't remember, then it didn't happen..... "Doing your best"
right haha
Great job Danielle
I always find it funny that he thinks that he could drive somewhere when he needs help finding his bedroom……such innocence!
I agree. lol
Ed is so pig headed and stubborn that if his car was in the driveway he would probably drive it anyway. Good thing it was sold. I think he has the God complex like most doctors always right about everything.
@@lyndabelknap8367
Yikes try to be a little nicer!
Lololol. Isn’t that so sad but funny. When you’re in it tho the sense of humor can run thin :(. But he is comical for sure
@@DeniseSterling-k5u
Yikes try to be a little kinder. Unless you’ve been I. This long term repetitive dialogue for yrs on end it gets very hard to see the humor. My grandfather had dementia for last yrs of his life. It’s so draining :( anddd difficult
Thank you for giving him the facts. I believe that is a basic human right
hang in there Danielle good explaining too he seemed to accept it a bit more x
I agree that telling him he has dementia is something that helps your explanation make sense to him.
It must be hard for him. Driving is freedom. You did great job Danielle telling him about dementia.
❤ 🤔 ❤ 🙏 ❤ My elderly friend did not have the licence anymore to drive, just for the same reason. Then one day he has been driving around and told me that:" I'm not driving with the licence card. I'm driving with the car"! 🇫🇮
Don’t worry Grandpa if you want ride anywhere Danielle give you ride she is best Daughter in-law bless you Danielle❤❤❤❤❤❤
Dan says memory loss, Danielle tells it like it is!! Hang in there sis, it’s not easy ❤
What Ed is going through is heartbreaking.
my dad still has his truck but he's not allowed to drive it but he won't let go of it - then he complains about having to pay the insurance, taxes, etc.
“ I don’t know where they got that idea from “ lol poor thing
Well navigated Danielle👍❤
Boy his driving privileges being taken away sure is the one thing that can get him pissed!! Ha. We took my father n law in and it was our toughest thing to tackle!!! My husband worked and I was home w my FILaw and I dreaded the car coming up! He’d get so mad because he had no way of understanding why he wasn’t safe driving. It seemed to put a dent in his pride and I’m sure he felt like we were controlling him. It hurt me for him to feel that way but we’ve gotta protect them. And it sure isn’t always easy, but we do it out of love ❤️
Ed is thinking everyone is crazy for thinking he can't drive, he's driven for many more years than anyone else in the house!
God Bless you Danielle...💖💐💖 & GrandPa Ed...🫶🙏✨🙏🫶
You did great Danielle! ❤
I have noticed when Ed doesn’t believe or agree with something that’s being said to him he’s does that mouth thing with his tongue 😂, and the sarcastic laugh! 😂😂😂😂
It would be great to have a copy of Ed’s Abstract of Driving Record on hand to show him at times like this. 😊
You can tell he gets the law, but doesn't grip, since he doesn't remember that he doesn't remember, that it applies to him.
Seems like the driving issue is HUGE for all of us as we age with or without dementia.
Hard to give up those freedoms in life. 😔
Hope you're having a great weekend.
Take Care/Stay Safe ✌
Oh Danielle ( Same name as my youngest daughter)! I Gave up my licence with Adult Adhd & damaged knees. It's tough Ed but we have to deal with it aye
hang tough.
He can’t hear either, so he shouldn’t be driving for that reason as well.
true
Awe its so hard, it’s mentally draining for the carer I know the patient is the main concern but the carer is the main player in keeping the wheels rolling it’s so important to take your time out, that’s why mental health nurses work week on week off
Chin up Danielle you are doing an exceptional job in fact you are the hero in this group due to the fact Ed is not your Dad. Take time out with your girl friends for a weekend in Vegas let Dan see what it’s like when you are not around.🙏🌟🙏
Please tell Ed he has memory loss Danielle, it must be devastating to be told he's got dememtia ❤ x
I love the way you talk to him
You are always direct. Great job.
That’s gotta be tiring.. good for you!
My husband (77) is all about denying every thing he does that is a manifestation of dementia. I have no idea if I can be as strong and capable as Danielle when he gets to the point where Ed is.
You’re doing great Danielle and he trust you ❤to you all.
I know some people give you a hard time because you're so direct with Grandpa. I think it is the kindest thing you can do!
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My Mom's dementia didn't stop her from driving, but she had an occupational therapist give her a driving test on a simulator and her responses were waaaaaay too slow.
And she kept driving??
Years ago I saw a Robin Williams movie called 'Awakenings' which dealt with various neurological disorders. In the movie a patient who'd been comatose for years was given an experimental drug & miraculously woke up thinking himself still young until seeing his older self in the mirror. Since Grandpa can't fathom he's 92 wondering what he thinks when he sees himself in the mirror? My dad died last year with dementia couldn't articulate at all & I know I'm totally overthinking Grandpa's situation. God Bless You All.
he sure as heck doesnt see 91. haha. he thinks hes in his 70's. :)