Compulsive Gambler interview-Byron
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- Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Jeff, a compulsive gambler in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania.
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At 48 I've lost a house, enough cash to sink a battle,ship, rare valuables,, jewellery and everything worth anything. Don't gamble kiddies. Stay away, please.
Ditto here Bruh. Loss SO much boggles my own mind. Too shame to ever say how much.
You still gambling?
@@Kneemuh yeah
@@stefanosprokopis6974 what do you gamble on? I’m just curious, if you don’t mind sharing of course.
@@Kneemuh I admitted to my daughter I had a prob gambling. She said, "don't worry about it. You'll be broke soon". Most times we don't stop, we're just broke. That's true but we're still just looking stupid plotting that next bet.
I've heard slot bells in my sleep. I've walked in a polar vortex to play lottery. It's bad. 😞
Please do more Gambler interviews. I find them more interesting than the drug addicts at times.
Yeah it is from a different place.
I agree 1000%
Probably more destructive too.
@@jackxiao9702 I was a bookie for awhile I seen all sides of gambling/sport bets it gets deep and deep fast
Gambling addicts are often the forgotten addicts. Once the addiction side of gambling sets in, in can take you on an unstoppable road to Hell
As a dealer for many years, I have seen it all! Gambling is worse than crack. I’ve seen ppl sell there bodies, loose all of there money, jail, domestic violence and so on. I’ve seen millionaires go broke. Horrible addiction
It is super sickening how overlooked it is, and how little REALISTIC help there is, people just think “oh just stop throwing away money haha it’s not hard”, whereas it’s MUCH deeper and more emotional than that
He loved his mother so much. He broke through a vicious abuse cycle. Then compulsion came. This happens with trauma. Much appreciation and respect to an exceptionally strong man!
Thank you for your beautiful comment. ❤️ It broke my heart visualizing a young adolescent afraid to go home because he might find his mom dead. What does that do to a growing brain and psyche.
For everyone that blames an addict for his or her behavior, please remember that trauma can destroy a person’s life, and some are never able to heal from it and become permanently disabled.
And few ever take into consideration the pre-morbid disposition of the addict when they try to maintain a modicum of sobriety, from whatever addiction they’re struggling with.
Look at the studies done on U.S. soldiers who became heroin addicted in Vietnam. Those that had a positive community and something to come back to were able to easily kick their habit. But the soldiers who returned to poor urban environments with little access to positive opportunities stayed addicted.
@@donacatanguma Bless you! Yes, addiction flows and ebbs like the tides of the ocean. With more or less emotion, comes more use of escape key.
I for one can tell you childhood trauma NEVER ceases...like this man at 61 years old. I am very much like him and I always worried about my mother and I still do. No reason to, but I just do. She had bouts of alcoholism and I kept doing wellness checks from 4 states away. I called the local police department in her area and got a call back and I was able to sleep that night, otherwise I would not. One time, I was so paranoid I drove there! From upper Maine down to Rhode Island.
When you have NO ONE, NOTHING AND NOWHERE to resort, remember one thing. Consciousness never dies. This is yet another vessel in eternity. God exists in everything! You can never love him too much. Or our blessed mother.
@@towerofresonance4877 💯, wise woman ✝️
My dad literally lost everything. As he was leaving the driveway for the last time, because he lost the house, he accidentally ran his dog over. Lost the vehicles, jobs. He even sold my car in a yard sale for $300. Signed my name on the title and everything. Took my income tax refund, I was 19 when I was newly married and a new mom.
A couple years later, my grandma helped get them a old car and trailer. As soon as they moved in, my stepmom was diagnosed with brain cancer. That trailer burned down. She died a few months later.
He’s now so pitiful, lives 3300 miles away from his kids and grandkids.
I love my dad. I hate gambling.
I’m so sorry you had to go through all of that. How traumatizing. What you give out in life, good or bad, will eventually come back around. Karma.
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wow Thank you
Maybe you can reach out in a healthy way to show you love him but with strict boundaries not to support his addiction.
did anyone try to get him professional help, it the only help that may work
Going to sleep when you’re up is so nice. Tossing and turning after a loss is brutal.
Yes and then you wake up depressed.
I've been there and done that..
Been there done that....
I've had the opposite experience and heard others also say: the only time you get good sleep is when you're broke. I would be pumped with adrenaline after a big win and had the hardest time falling asleep
I worked in a bank as a vault teller for a couple years. There was this elderly man that had the very very early stages of dementia. Every week he would come in for his SSI check on the exact date it was deposited, and within 2-3 days he would be at the bank again asking for his SSI check. I never paid it much thought and just figured it was a symptom of his, was always nice but always had to repeatedly tell him he cashed out his entire account earlier in the week. After about a year of this, his daughter came into the bank and said she had just moved to my city to be with her dad, because he was cashing out his entire bank account and using it to gamble, would forget he lost all his money, and come to the bank to get more money. Hearing that devastated me and I think about him often. Best wishes for you Byron
What a horrible loop too be stuck in, scary
Was this in Canada Edmonton?
The most difficult part is when you're winning, to know when to stop. Great interview. I hope you explore this compulsive gambler's theme more often.
Greed and gambling go hand in hand. I played poker professionally for 15 years. Id go with my uncle to the casino. We would play poker and he would usually win or break even. On the walk from the poker room to the exit, he would usually end up losing everything he brought with him in the slots. I didn't realize what it was doing to him for a while. He was a winning poker player and a losing gambler in the pits and slots. I'd see him win $1000 and leave down $1500 on a 3 minute walk to the doors. He won $16000 on a slot in 2001. And from 2001-2005 lost his house, and everything else pissing away everything on slots and table games.
Ookookooo
@@ezdoesit8895 rd
Spoken like a gambler, forget the loosing part and concentrate on the winning strategy
, the problem is some gamblers can’t/won’t stop, that’s the evil addictive side of gambling where it starts to control you rather than it being a case of now is the time to stop because i’m ahead and i’ve achieved my original objective of doubling my budgeted amount.
Mark, I have been watching your channel for 2 1/2 years now (I watch daily) I just wanted to say that you are such an inspiration. I admire you. Never stop doing what you are doing! With love from the state of West Virginia!! -Catie
hmm... cap
or watching repeats every day? doing the math:
2.5 years is 913 days
but the channel does not have that many episodes
tell us more about this watching daily claim
@@feelinghealingfrequences7179 Mark has said he has over 2k episodes
@@feelinghealingfrequences7179 Good god. So, you're going to argue over how many videos are posted? I've watched daily for almost two years, maybe more as I can't remember exactly when I started. Some days Mark has more than one video, sometimes he's remade a video because he wasn't happy with the quality of the first, plus there's his paid channel where there's videos we don't see here, but you're going to pick apart a comment about how many videos are posted????? SMH 🙄
Find something to do!!!
@@baublesanddolls caps should be called out.
@@feelinghealingfrequences7179 😂😂😂😂
I was born and raised in Las Vegas and I can tell you, gambling for some people is a real problem. Ive seen people sell everything they own from cars , to jewelry, and even their houses to get money to gamble. Ive seen families destroyed over it . Just like drugs or alcohol, its an illness that affects everyone they know . Stay out of the casinos! They get very wealthy from people who can't just walk in, win, and leave .
i agree
louis theroux made a show about gambling in vegas , if you having seen it u should watch it , some funny bits in it
I’m a heroin addict, but I think a gambling addiction is much worse in many ways than a drug addiction. When you think about it, the amount of money it would take to keep me high for 2 weeks some of these guys can loose in a couple of seconds, in the flip of a card or a roll of the dice. Idk, a gambling addiction just seems like much more of a vicious beast than drug addiction. But then again maybe it’s cuz I’m too comfortable with drug addiction.
Well said 😔
@@myeyeswentdeaf6213 ppl die from a drug addiction, gambling addiction is not the same at all🥺🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
The honesty and self awareness of this man is disarming and endearing. I felt his story and his pain the whole interview through. I hope those attributes can help him heal from this addiction.
I am a compulsive gambler I’ve lost everything but my life due to this disease. To anyone reading this in any stage of this problem STOP NOW.
I'm trying, this chit makes you feel worthless.
I can relate!
@@bluetry35722it really does, hope you are doing better because this unfortunately will be a forever battle for all of us inflicted with this serious situation.
I enjoy gambling just be responsible about it and dont become a degenerate and compulsive
@catch_uslipin888 like alcohol, some people can use it responsibly, but some people will have one drink, or place one bet and will completely lose control.
I wish Byron with all my heart that he can deal with his addiction in a way that he does not have to live in abject poverty. Byron describes all the mechanisms that trigger his reward system. He bluntly describes the economic, social and emotional consequences of addiction. He also doesn't leave out the aspect that he seduced his wife into gambling to make him feel less guilty. Unfortunately, gambling recidivism rates are just as depressing as other hardcore drugs. Still, it's incredibly sad when Byron gets to the heart of his problem, that unresolved anger has no productive direction, so it only hurts, and that he's the one who ultimately pays the price.
I feel bad for people that actually work hard for a living and still live in abject poverty not someone who put themselves in that position
@@Hack_The_Planet_
Yes, according to the interview, Byron does little to heal his illness. However, addictions are still socially valued differently than cirrhosis of the liver, lung cancer, type 2 diabetes, which many have contracted through an unhealthy lifestyle and/or poor diet. The costs and in particular the follow-up costs for these diseases of affluence are enormous. Don't you feel sorry for them either? No offense! I wish you a relaxing summer.. ;) :)
The true trouble with gambling is winning. Winning causes addictive gamblers to feel powerful, important, successful. When they don’t win - which is most of the time - they feel scared, out of control and less than. Addicts suffer from poor self worth so they’re constantly chasing a high so they don’t feel sick of themselves.
It's a sick system that now our government provides funding for (A.Cuomo)
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It was heartbreaking to hear Byron say that the main reason he couldn’t succeed in school was due to the stress and fear of anticipating what’s going on at home. This is why I hate when young people are considered “bad kids” or punished without asking questions or offering assistance. Kids need our HELP and can’t control how their parents are negatively affecting their life.
Broke my Heart he couldn't focus because of abuse
Complex trauma as a child...'the' contributing factor to addiction , none of this is his fault but sadly he has to pay the consequences. Much love brother.
Hats of for the honesty. Addiction in all its forms is imprisonment.
so true
My childhood wasn’t as bad but close. On the outside I’m a well functioning, successful business owner, but I can’t shake the gambling. Even moved to a non gambling country to try and stop, back home, back on the slots. Counselling, rehab, family support, hypnotherapy, nothing works. I admire those than can stop, my habit will kill me in the end but the buzz I get, there’s nothing like it. I hate being an addict, I really relate to this fellow. Blessing to you and your new grandchild, you’re a nice guy 🙏
Byron I hope your heart heals from your childhood 🤍🤍
You have a kind energy 🙏🏼🙏🏼
You're a good parent and son
Thank you for sharing Mark
I really find a lot of value in these gambler interviews, Mark. Thanks so much for the work you do.
Byron, I hope you never give up. I hope you acknowledge that the 30 days you spent with gamblers anonymous is something to be proud of and it means you have it in yourself to go farther on the journey. Thank you for sharing and God bless you🤗
Love your comment. I hurt for him when he said GA didn't work for him - I wish he could recognize what he was able to accomplish, sees what a feat that is and decides to try again 💙
He’s lovely I would love for him to get recovery it is possible
Mark, thank you for covering more of Philadelphia than just Kensington. Gambling's a hell of an addiction. It's the only one I know of when you get high on Hope. I've known a lot of gamblers in my time and it's devastating. I knew a guy who was going to jump off the Tacony Bridge because he was in so deep. Needless to say he incurred a lot of debt from the city for blocking traffic and causing the police and fireman to show up to get them down so he was worse off than when he began and still owed money to the bookie. I know guys whose houses were burnt down because they owed large. It's devastating to families and he's right spouses to think that the gamblers cheating with another woman. They are oh, it's just that lady is Lady Luck. Anyway thanks for another great interview. Each interview further strengthens your skill in this craft. Keep up the good work and keep your heart open. Thanks again
Byron has self reflection and a sense of understanding that my father has always lacked. My father is in his 70s and he’s never been able to articulate or express himself adequately. He grew up rough as the eldest son in a large family living in the projects in Philly. He’s been gambling for as long as I can remember. He even ended up running the lottery machines at a couple of neighborhood stores which was not really good for him (or us).
My mom was the breadwinner because while he maintained steady employment, he stopped paying the bills (I’m assuming because of his gambling addiction). I love him but I know when it comes to money, I can’t ever compare.
@@MelTheMuppetslayer this video is about byron not ur dad
@@goomaboi yes this video is about Byron, as was the comment I responded to. It also mentions other areas of struggles being shown of Philadelphia families affected by gambling and I was adding to that so your comment is really not necessary.
A lot of gambling addicts engage with women outside the relationship. High risk behavior usually attached to winning. Las Vegas literally runs off of the two addictions plus food addiction. They cheat all the time and often engage in the most risky behavior. Women are there waiting to get their money or men ready to set them up with women. If the man is not home he is not sleeping with her but out gambling and engaged in high risk behavior.
Ive never heard someone say gamblers are "high on hope" and yes you are right. The hope of winning the big one
This one hit home…. His childhood reminds me of mines growing up with a parent who gambles is the worst they will do anything to get money and no matter what the mother and kids always are forced to be involved because a gambling addict will steal your toys, jewellery anything to get money in the end they loose it all and leave the kids scarred for life 💯
Gambling is the worst addiction. I've lost well over a million dollars gambling in the last 5 years at the casino. Life savings gone, it just happen just like that.
I have addiction to the slots. It's very hard to walk away when you are loosing, and your mind plays tricks on you that tell you maybe you will hit the big one. But it doesn't happen most of the time.
Playing poker? Hold em? Must have been playing monster stakes.
@@relentlessundrdawg same I am addicted to slots. Even when I’m winning I don’t know how to walk away while I’m ahead. I have to spend every last bit of my winnings to try to get more and more. At the end it just doesn’t make sense. I literally say when I go to the casino that I’m going to make my deposit. It’s so stupid
@@relentlessundrdawg yup, I play video poker. I have tons of videos on my channel with $20k, 30k, $40k jackpots but in the end the casino always win.
@@KVC90 been there my friend. I play video poker. One time I was down $20k then with my last couple hundred I hit a $48k jackpot. Instead of leaving I ended up putting it all back 8 hours later. Happen quite a few times.....guess I never learned my lesson
Such a sad story. Addiction has many forms and they're all just as equally hard to beat, and they all ruin families. Humans are complex creatures and we're all fucked up in our own way. He seems like a gentle, sweet man. I sure hope he gets help and finds happiness. I wish him all the best. Hugs from Canada. 💖
Such a soft spoken, kind man. Wishing him lots of peace and patience to build a more sustainable, healthier lifestyle for himself.
He pimped out a girfriend so he could gamble with the earned money. Have You heard that part? Not saying he is evil but he is far from a kind man.
Gambling can be worse than doing drugs. I can relate with him. It takes you away from your problems but it also takes away everything you’ve worked hard for. May this sweet, strong, smart loving man find peace and strength and overcome his urges to gamble.
I've watched a number of these interviews and they are both compelling and painful to watch. I can only watch just so many or just so often before it really starts to get to me. I guess I wish I could help everyone but, having grown up with addicted parents, I know I can't really help anyone. You have a compassionate soul, Mark.
i used to work for a major wagering company in Australia. People would gamble house mortgages on 1 horse race and lose, I couldn’t support this dis service anymore, I’ve since moved on and found a new path in life ✌️
What’s your new path in life? I’m a casino dealer but I want to do something else
@@wavusmaximus3792 Are the wheels rigged ? And which country you work at ?
Coming from someone who enjoys gambling, these videos are really important to watch, to keep that ego in check. Gambling is fun, but wow it can ruin people. Having self awareness is key, just like alcohol and drugs. Great interview.
As an addict in recovery who has always been prone to a lot of self reflection, I think self awareness isn't necessarily the insular propalayctic we might hope that it is. It seems to me that I have been well aware of catalysts and consequences during my active addiction but that did nothing to stop me. One factor that plays a part in addiction is trauma. Another is neuroscience, specifically predisposing factors, and of course genetics. Some people can pick up heroin and put it right back down.
I say this not to be argumentative but because 1, your comments was excellent food for thought and I'd like to return the favor if possible, and 2, this thinking can help someone with addictive behavior slide a little deeper into poor decision making. How many times on SWU have you read the comments which say ' (so and so) is remarkably intelligent and self aware',but that never really helps their case, does it?
Interested to read your or anyone else's response on this. I see great potential for dialogue in this topic.
@@treasuretim3 I'm sure you're just trying to be insightful and helpful 🙄 but this person didn't ask for your advice or even state that they need help.
Addicts don't 'just stop', OK? You think that all the deaths, broken homes, poverty and institutionalization could be prevented if people would just realize that they should 'just stop'? So wise of you.
@@morgenmachen2400 doesn’t matter if he asked. No one asked for your opinion and here you are
@@lucasvarela9632 it's in part about adding value to the conversation - will that kind of response generate a constructive dialogue? And that aside, the comment reflects a startling amount of ignorance.
@@morgenmachen2400 idk if a doctor tells you “u need to lose weight or your going to die” I don’t think it’s an ignorant statement.
Byron, I wish you all the best going forward. I am a recovered drug addict we are not defined by our past. The story can have a good final chapter. Make a deal with yourself to let yourself be happy in exchange for doing your best.
I’m a gambling addict at 25 years old worst thing I ever started was to gamble
How's it going now?
I know. I hate this chit. Please try to pray and find a way to heal.
This man is highly intelligent. I disagree on one thing; He says that his dad didn't know any better because he got married young. Well, when I was 18 it never crossed my mind to hit a woman, married or not. I also don't know anyone who would have thought of that either. That's not age, that's his dad being a trash can.
Agreed, I always thought that was a poor excuse. Most people back then did marry young n divorce rates were very low
Unfortunately if you're born into trauma you end up repeating it, so even if it's an excuse it's a legit explanation as well. We have to see the environment, the society, and the family we grow up In when we look at trauma from the outside. We were all children once. Then life happens.
I could listen Byron speak for days. Peace and Love for you both ✌️💚☮️
Damn every gambler feelin this
Oh honey. I'm sorry to hear about your struggles. Thank you for sharing your story ❤️ hope you get to feel the good things in life, sooner than later.
If you have an addictive personality, don't ever gamble. Stay away from any sort of gambling. It's a lose lose. You might win, but you'll always give back more. Casinos and lottery werent built off winners.
Unfortunately most people don't know they have a addictive personality,I do from my personal history but it takes time to realise it,I'm lucky to be alive now,please don't judge people
My friend is a pit boss at a casino. She has told me so many sad stories. She never gambles! Byron has so much insight. I hope he can get help.
she’s smart. its kinda like “dont get high on ur own supply” in a way
Is love to hear some of your friends stories. That’s gotta be an interesting job. Just listening to people talk you probably would be shocked. Thanks for sharing 👍
I’m a dealer at a casino. Pretty boring stuff. Some people are there weekly. They have been coming there for years so I assume they are well funded. I think some of the obsessive stuff that is destructive when it comes to gambling might be benefit in certain other aspects in life but I might be talking BS.
I love this man! I feel so bad for how he was treated. It really effects people what they go through as children....
I lost $20 at the dog track 30 years ago and never gambled again.
I am however a not practicing addict for 6 years that still thinks about opiates every single day!
I do not JUDGE any one else’s addiction. They are all equally horrendous and can ruin many lives.
In group therapy I heard so many NA and AA people telling each other “oh YOU could just stop”!
OMFG the stupidity….
Yes, it seems to be in our motherboard.
I just had a completely unproductive conversation about those very words here in the comments section. I'd almost expect something like that here, but in the rooms? I've been going to meetings since 2012 and I have yet to hear that in person. I'm sorry youve run into that. It's such an ignorant (not in the colloquial sense, but technically) comment..
@@morgenmachen2400 they embarrassed my husband out of Alanon Meetings because I am an addict not an alcoholic. They said “it wouldn’t help him understand”…..
@@cindywhedbee1713 that's disgraceful. I'm so sorry he had that experience. Alanon has helped me (as the daughter of an alcoholic) immensely, and many others Ive met through the years. Id imagine that experience really put off your husband and made you angry. Did you happen to speak to anyone about that? Or have a better experience at another meeting?
@@morgenmachen2400 he’s very introverted and just would not go back. He has been to the therapist with and with out me and been extremely supportive.
I feel for the people I know don’t have that.
For me now I am so afraid of falling backwards and not ever getting out that I speak my feelings out loud in the moment.
Thank you for being so kind.
Keep having more addicted gamblers on, Mark. These are fascinating stories
Such honesty. The look on his face when he said he still gambles. This is just so hard to resist for some people. They lose everything and yet they keep gambling. Brilliant interview
I hope this man can improve his life. But at 61-years old living mentally with what he saw and endured as a kid I'm sure it would be hard. God bless him.
I was JUST discussing/warning against gambling addictions with my young nephew, (he is 11) He already likes "betting" and I told him to just stop now... addictions are REAL and gambling addictions are horribly harmful... it's only "fun" at first.
Show this to him, if he is old enough to do it he is old enough to see the warning.
I am compulsive gambler,I believe its in your genes,once it starts it hard to stop it,it can start at any age,from as early 10 or 11 up till any age,I know someone who started at 37,you can get help but you need to want it,I used to hate people saying you can't get help till you hit rock bottom but it's the truth
shout out to mark, shout out to my ppl in the comment section, shout out to byron. good vibes all around to everyone ✌️
Have an awesome day Trippy🌹
You can tell he loves his family and two wives so much. I feel for this man, addiction took everything and he's been grieving that for a long time. I hope he finds healing and somebody who can love him through it all, I really hope he finds his forever person.
I'm listening to this guy and I'm seeing my past present and future. I can't shake the habit of gambling. It's so addicting and fun.
Seriously, gambling’s the best- win or lose.
It is so fun. It's such a rush when you're winning but maaaaaaan the losses are a MOTHA FUCKA
Great, honest interview. Also very sad. Truly wish him the best.
Always comes in clutch with the early uploads 💪🏽
Everyday same time. That’s only one of the reasons I love this channel.
Lost 5k this week
Lost over 70k this year
I’ve won well over 100k but never knew when to stop
I have free rooms and free food
They give me cruises and concert tickets
Makes you feel like a winner. But the sad truth is I’m losing 😢
wow
I loved how candid he was about his gambling addiction.
He is my Mothers spirit animal
(73 and still spending her weekly check at the casino)
My father is also 73 and is still playing the lottery daily and hitting the casino at least once a month
I haven’t even been 21 years old for a full 6 months and I’m 20 grand to the casinos it’s a rush and adrenaline I cannot explain it makes my heart pump out of my chest pray for me to overcome this addiction
Stop now bro, it doesn’t get any better. I’m 28 years old and have lost all my money trying to get back those big wins I had. It drains you’re soul and leaves you empty. This is not a game, you are playing with you’re life and the consequences can be dire. I pray for all of us.
The house always wins man.
I stepped up to a slot machine when my parents were checking into a Vegas hotel in 1979 at age 7, pulled a quarter from my pocket, put it in the slot, and won $50. My mom came over horrified, but I was hooked. By 24, I had to leave two cities from gambling debts with people coming after me. I'm 50 now and looking back at decades of wreckage from this. I don't know what the future holds for you, but here's one thing I know, you're not gonna win. So why bother? You're young. Get off this and figure out something else you like. For 20K you coulda gotten guitar lessons and by 25 you're getting laid from it. Compare that thrill to hitting a bonus on a freakin slot. But who am I to talk? I'm just saying if I knew what I know now...
@@hbrotha1866 same here :D buy crpto and hold. Thats the best what u can do. But dont do leverage trading. Just hodl. Discipline is the key
Mate i strongly advise you to do whatever it takes to stop. For most people thats GA. It will get worse the longer you gamble. Not maybe but definitely. You will lose everything. Find that clarity in your mind and step away from it
Thank you for sharing Byron. I'm the wife of a compulsive gambler and your journey has opened my eyes. Sending strength
There is NO form of gambling that is set up be profitable for the participants.
I don't know about that....I used to work as a nanny for more than one professional gambler in Vegas. They lived in nice homes and did well? I'm not advocating it....just sayin'
I've watched 2 other interviews on this channel about gambling. This is probably the most powerful one for sending a message about how dangerous gambling can be.
If you have problems with anything, prayer helps. Have other people pray for you. There is something to it, people may say it's made up or invisible spaghetti monster etc. but it does something overtime
This man has great spirit. God bless
I'm definitely hoping that Byron will be able to shake off the beast. Such an introspective man; definitely intelligent. Wishing him the very best. And thankful to God that he has his beautiful daughter. Hoping for a follow-up interview, Mark. This is a very intriguing interview.
Dude could 100% be related to Mike Tyson. Awesome story and awesome lesson to learn. Thank you 🙏
Ur right. He looks like him a lot.
I knew a girl who hit a progressive slot for $890,000 grand in Mesquite and in 1 year all of it was gone. The irs found out and came took it all back because she didn't tell them....
Such a nice, likable guy who’s entangled in the vicious cycle of gambling 😢
I feel like his life and spirit could really benefit from serious, long- term therapy. He’s a great person with a generous personality. Gambling has him stuck like a broken record in trauma. He’s experiencing the same patterns of hope, anxiety, adrenaline and fear from childhood. Gambling is just the vehicle for patterns of experience and expression he was imprinted with as a young person.
This dude took real awesome care of his mother. God bless Byron!
I’ve learned after losing that if I win $220 off $20 I cash out, deposit in my account and pay a bill asap all of it except the $22 and just start again. Nothing is worse than winning and losing it knowing you got bills to pay.
Very interesting! Thanks guys! Mark/Byron! 💜🤟
I wish nothing but the best for u Byron, stay strong buddy. I hope u find happiness my friend. 🙏🇺🇲🗽🇺🇲🙏
Plz do more gambling interviews. Just like any drug addiction, gambling consumes you. Hope Byron gets his life back I felt this
All symptoms of addiction,hear him hesitate about gambling now, he'll spen his $$$ after show in Philly,at casino. He has no quit left ( hope I'm wrong ) but sounds defeated.
This gentleman has the ability to relay profoundly, deep, psychological and emotional states, simply and eloquently. Thank you so much for allowing us to gaze into that abyss.
Gambling is a tough addiction, I've been gambling for years chasing winnings constantly selling items etc too fund my habits . I've recently joined gambling anonymous meetings I'm in my fifth week just now I'm feeling better already.
He explained addiction very well , I hope one day he finds peace.
Incredible eyes
Yes! I see all the trauma in them too.
I just took the decision to stop playing poker regularly and I am so happy. I felt the slope getting slippery, I always tracked my loses and it hit me hard when I watched these episodes. Thank you for helping me
Same here. Still quit or play on a recreational level?
@@koenvandenbemd3068 I’d rather stay away all together and I don’t miss it
Great interviews Mark hope you make a documentary or a short film cause ppl ask me where can we see all these ppl in a doc.film....
I've seen a couple of these about compulsive gamblers. It's very real and painful to watch. If you ever want an articulate first hand account of a 2nd generation, compulsive gambler. Hit me up. My unstable ride has incredible highs and lows, millions lost, crooked cops, job affiliates, bookies in seedy places to penthouse suites in Vegas, a murder or 3 in my orbit all from the kid who grew up in the worst trailer park in town. I've been a dishwasher to a COO, held multiple VP titles, and more. 6 figure income for a long time and so broke so many times that I've had to lie to eat. And on and on... if you have this illness, my prayers for you all.
Illness or demons/generational curses?
It's certainly a roller coaster lifestyle, days can produce more twists, turns, and emotions than most people experience in a year
and then everyone cheered and clapped as you walked away. ok dude
So smart. So much insight into hisself. It’s the addiction. 🙏🏽
What an awesome and interesting guy. Loved this interview.
This is a very real and honest testimony of a compulsive gamblers life! Thank you for doing interviews like this because this addiction is real and destroys lives!
Thank you for your honesty Byron. You have a warm heart. I believe gambling is rooted in evil. I don't wish anyone good luck rather to be blessed.
gambling. waste of time, money, hope.
Worst
This the one I was waiting for gambling is a sick ass game 🥺😢 you will lose period ‼️
Excellent interview.
This guy breaks my heart.
Thank you for your life and god bless you and your family.
This really hits home
Poor thing. He had the most beautiful eyes.
I've never met anyone that was "ready" to get married or have children before the age of 25. Always interesting, thanks!
My wife and I were 23 when we married. At the time,she had a son (no father) I married her and became his father. I also had a son of my own (no mother) she became his mother. We have 3 children of our own. Our oldest 2 have moved out and on their own, doing pretty good..
Her and I thought we were ready, but now..looking back, we weren't, but we made it through the hard times and learned how to get ready and stay ready.
We're still married, raising our 3. (13,16,18) is their ages. (21&23) is our oldest 2's ages. Its a wild ride,my friend. I'm learning things everyday still, and I'm 40 now.😁
It is very very rare to find. I agree, interesting stuff
Really??? I guess you've never lived in Utah or the Midwest. I grew up in Iowa where every woman married either their high school or college sweetheart. 20 years later....everyone is still happily married. My older sister started her family at 19. She home schooled all 3 of her children....they all got their 4 year degree....and now 2 of the three are already married.
Those were also different times that he grew up in. I believe he says he's 61, so about my parents age. My parents were married with two kids by the time my dad was 24 and mom 22. Not at all abnormal for the times.
@@Mint-kj9kw yea in the city most people have no desire for commitment
Unrelated, but Byron has a very pleasant voice, I'd definitely listen to his stories if he decided to write them down, read and stream them... I wonder how possible that even is for men like Byron . So many stories, we're here because of Byron 's story, think about it. Can Byron 's telling of his stories be a way to support himself? Whatcha think YT people?
BTW: Jeff or Byron?
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I don't understand why gamblers who are looking to support themselves with gambling play slots. The odds of winning at slots range from one-in-5,000 to one-in-about-34-million, depending on the machine . These are the worst odds in the casino. Might as well just toss the money into the trash.
Because gambling overrides logic. You understand the mathematics involved, you can interpret astronomical equations without the need if a calculator. The numbers aren't the problem, it's the sensation.
Research the dopaminergic balance; minds become chemically altered in pursuit of sensation
Very true.
@@summan41man Slots are engineered with the lights and sounds to keep the player fixated and playing. The terrible odds and engineered manipulation are just reasons to stay away. Appeals to introvert types that don't like having to interact with a dealer.
@@purewonka near-miss stimuli should be assumed to have conditionally reinforcing effects. This theory has certainly been factored into the programming of slot machines/FOBTs.
As I say; players of these machines are aware of the impossibility of financially profitable strategies, yet still plat regardless. The sensation of anticipation is what causes the addiction, these machines generate that sensation in abundance. It's quite easy to see how they appeal despite the mathematical odds involved
He said my childhood was horrible. Straight up no excuses for his abusive Father. I remember getting beat with an extension cord immediately after I got out of a tub. It was one of the worst experiences ever. I was five or six. I remember asking my great grandma why would she whip us with a black cord when you told me you hated when you saw people whip people when you was a child? She could do nothing but cry. I think she was shocked I could even put that together at that age.
So sorry
I get told all the time I have a gambling addiction. I admit I'm a habitual gambler with the lottery but these videos keep me off the tables and out of the books that's for damn sure
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Legalizing online gambling will ruin so many lives…
Will ruin? It's already legalised, has been for years
It’s already happening all over the world . USA and UK has a lot of online too
Especially during the early covid pandemic BOOM
The big difference with gambling and something like drug addiction is the result isn’t instant. You take a drug-high is achieved.
Gambling is much more complex, you win, you chase that high. You (inevitably) lose you need that money back and there is only 1 way to do this, with another big win.
It’s such a slippery slope that I also find myself on. I’m not in deep like my house or hundreds of thousands but I nearly lost my family when I came clean.
Every time that little voice says “just one win is all that’s needed”
I changed my life by moving to another country and that has stopped me.
It’s a sickening disease
I was thrilled to hear he has a daughter that loves him
You can tell he's super smart. That's the only way he was able to gamble that long. By understanding the system. But it's an addiction first and a game second. Doesn't matter how much you win. No matter the result, the point is you'll keep coming back.
So glad he took care of his mother/ wives/ children. What a good man!!
All thru addiction? That's amazingly awesome!!!
.. impressive. 🤣
Gambling addiction is real, I won 6k during pre season basketball last year. Thought I could make a living off it and then lost it all plus another 6k chasing in less than 10 minutes
I wish more videos were done about gamblers. I was in line and someone bought $1000 in California lottery tickets (most were quick picks), that's a sad story
The gas station near me has a woman that picks sooo many numbers, takes her what feels like 15 minutes, just spouting off numbers, while I wait in line, just to buy a slim jim and a red bull.
Damn I fucking hate when people do that shit... there will be a line of 10 people behind them and they just sit there buying lottery tickets not giving a single fuck about anyone else's life.
It might've been a rollover or is it called a pushdown? Anyway the odds could be taken advantage of if you bought enough tickets. According to some film
@@gregatron4528 yall both made bad choices that day.
@@nickryan4619 😂
Wow!! Look at God…I was just thinking about not going so much to the casino. I’m too young to play the way I play. Great interview.
It's crazy his story is very similar to my uncles. His dad use to beat his mom up all the time until one day she left him. He went to her job (she was a nurse) and killed her then himself. After that my grandma adopted him and his brother. He was in the military by 18 and came back with a gambling problem. He was diagnosed with stomach cancer in 2017 and he passed away a few months later. He was so strong through it all. I miss him everyday. Praying for you 🙏🏾
That’s a very touching story❤️ & death Is never the end cuz he get’s to live on forever in heaven 🙏🏽 before there were humans there were dinosaurs there for It’s prove god was the one creating human after there was no life on earth 🌍 ☄️ and your uncle Is Safe with the lord❤️
@@PrankStress that's the only thing that gives me a little peace. ❤️