Alex is the best male relationship coach for women. He knows how men abused/controlled/manipulated women. Thank you Alex. You never know how you change women's lives.
I was too nice too nice in the past relationships neither did I asked anything from the Man.. neither do I disturbed him in any way..I believe they took me for granted neither do they care about me or bought anything for me for once.. now my eyes and mind are open am so so angry and heartbroken. Thank God I came across this channel.
This video came exactly on time when i decided to not go on an event where he will be. Because he is taking me for granted, having fun with me, dancing with me, but than only give me breadcrumbs. I behaved needy, was too nice, forgiving, understanding to gim... 3 Years of wasting my time. I lost myself in this relationship, go trough so much pain. What a mercy was to find you Alex to hear so many of your videos. I am in a way to challenge myself, and natutally i will become a challenge for the right man for me.😊
haha with the guy who thought he had control, i took my power back...now i tell him what i think ofhim and speak my mind ..i always have from day one spoke my mind and meet him when he comes to my place in my PJS lol..i dont dress up for him i wear what i am comfortable with and he tells me his never stopped thinking of me..these days I am just sooo off him and his licking his wounds atm//coz he took me for granted..
Omg, I was always told the opposite. More you do for a man, the more he will love you. I never could understand why this never worked out. When I had enough in relationship and stopped care, everything shifted and the man started chasing me. If I leave, I never go back. I never could find the balance. Now I understand. Thank you Alex! 😊💙💯
I made a commitment to myself to put me first and be confident to be ready to walk away. I have learned to become a better version of myself and that I already have set the stage on how I want to be treated first priority. OMG! I’m fighting them off! what you are saying is true we have to dare to be different and take your stand for what I want.
Very very true. And sad. I've been in a good relationship for a year now but feel him getting complacent and taking me for granted because I'm too accommodating available and too nice. Going to just lean back and act indifferent now when we're apart and make him initiate more and make him fear. I've done too much and my fear is just making me stressed. Need to be valued and have more than this. Need to be a challenge again and it's tiring because you think you get to the point where you can relax and be an extremely good woman but the truth is you need to just realise your value and stop doing too much. I'm too loving and this is getting me no where.
Most of men doesn’t respect good honest woman they loves the woman who play with him or leave him or doesn’t care about him . Yes they like challenge but with a bad woman and they will leave good woman for her.
Dont believe that. They like the chase because it is a primordial instinct. Its not jusf random cruelty. They want to feel like they faught for her. What you have to do is to calmly and confidentely wait for him to make all the moves that will prove you he is more than just a pretender and determine his true intentions. Let me tell you, if for exemple, you are dating someone, aim at friendship. Focus all of your Energy in projecting to him a good natured person but dont give up your romantic self too quick. You are allowed to like him ouy of the frame of desire. Just simple and authentic. He will do everything possible to get you to understand he sees you more than a friend. Let him do that work of impressing and wooing you while basically all you do is sitting their and recieving. No kisses, no sex for at least 10 ot 12 good weeks to see where his level of interest really is. If he is frustrated by the lack of quick intimacy, you will know it and you will pin his secret motives. If he keeps serving you, going out of his way for you, still spend time talking, walks, coffee, simple things friends share, even if you both desire eachother, but you guys keep it on a friendly surface and still he is here in every situation without complaining or gettibg bored of you, you know you are unto something. Then you ask him after those weeks, what do you feel is our next move? If he says, lets continue to take things slow, he is just trying to hang out and is not romantic about you. If he says, lets take it to the next level, then a kiss or two can seal the deal. And shortly after, maybe, a late invite into your home, if you know what i mean...;) I am just sayung. Dont get sweeped up too soon. Take the time to trial him. Take the time to measure the efforts he puts in. Even when he is not getting his way. Even if he thinks you might never move him up from the friendzone. I know it feels like its not authentic and you are playing games. But thibk about it this way. A princess in a tour waits YEARS for a prince to come along. She doesnt go on a quest to deliver the Prince herself. Not because she is week. But because she knows how very precious her love is. Her Love is soooo precious indeed, the men have to fight for it. Any man with no purity in his heart will abandon the fight or find excuses. Any man with deciet in his heart wont stand the trials and the tests. But a man with a loving heart will hold on. He will " fight" as they say. And thats when you will know all along, he truly wanted and cherished you. At that moment, it will be safe to open up your, oooh, so precious heart to him. Because he proved not to be a phoney.... You have nothing to prove as a woman. You just wait for the right one to prove he is the right one. So no sex to undeserving rascals and liars and manipulators. No benefits for the losers. Only the winner takes it all.🌌🦋🥰
*Every relationship is unique, and it's important to find what works best for both partners. Communication, trust, and mutual respect are key ingredients in any healthy relationship. By prioritizing your own self-worth and maintaining a balanced approach, you can create a lasting and meaningful connection with your partner.*
Last night we were at his family’s bbq and I made him a plate and served it to him 🤦🏻♀️ I messed up. I won’t do ANYTHING for him anymore. Thank you Coach Alex 🙏
That's not good either. My parents were married almost 50 years (before my dad died), and my mom cooked him delicious meals and he did things for her too. Love means wanting to do good things for each other. Men back in the day WANTED women like that...they were valuable. The problem is our culture/society has gone downhill so much that women are spoiling men rotten by giving them sex outside marriage, or at least way too soon and that is keeping them as selfish little boys. If your guy didn't appreciate you doing something nice, the problem was him, and you just need to find the right guy to be good too. I do agree with Alex that a woman shouldn't give too much and let the man do that mostly in the beginning, but to take the opposite extreme isn't the answer either. But I do understand what you're saying.
Hi there, Thank you so much for watching! I have made a video on how to attract the right guy, you can find it with this link: th-cam.com/video/MggpllKSVcA/w-d-xo.html
How do you deal with a guy who never takes accountability for hurting you but instead resorts to dismissing your feelings, doesnt really listen or seem to register what you trying to talk about and rather deflects by insisting he needs to be heard and understood too (but not on the issue you tried to sort out with him to start with)?????
How to get him out of my heart and thoughts knowing he is no good for me? Please give me advice? I don't believe in being with another when I still have someone in my heart.
Hi there, I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. I have a video on my channel that can help you with this. I hope you can find the time to check it out: th-cam.com/video/Nx91XlJWn6A/w-d-xo.htmlsi=G49WiOTYL-A43RyX
Hi there! I know Coach Alex would love to help you with this but he would need to know a little more about what you're going through in order to help you through this. I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with him using this link! www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/ -FRE Team
Leave him. One thing Coach Alex is not saying is that men usually know very early on who they will value or who they will not. He already made his decision. Make your decision too. Not saying it's easy to leave him but keep in mind it's the only right decision because he already made his.
How to change the way, he looks at me after a break up ? He thinks I left for fun and I'm back because I have no one but the truth is I love him, and I want to make this work. its so hard
My ex told me that he cheated on me because the other woman listened to him vs I change the subject on him when we talk. Is that a realistic reason to cheat? I see he compared me so I walked away and blocked him.
Alex my relationship is complicated have tried everything it's not working. he says he loves me but act differently ...I love him alot but am not getting enough he doesn't respect me or value me
Hi there! If you're looking for one on one advice, I would highly suggest you book a coaching call with me using this link! www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/ -FRE Team
Alex que penses-tu du fait que les hommes décident très très vite de quelle femme a de la valeur à ses yeux ou pas? Et qu'une fois qu'il a commencé à "take things for granted", c'est irréversible peu importe les efforts qu'on fera pour le faire se sentir vivant ou être un challenge ? J'ai l'impression que le premier conseil aurait dû être, s'il vous prend pour acquis, quittez le.
Alex 🥰 men are....... I don't even have the right word. . .he called me a stalker after claimed that we are friends and sent security guards after me at a Shopping Centre to tell me to leave him alone , he has treated me really badly today 🥲
I am so grateful 🥰 for your reply 🥰 , I am so hurt I am feeling that he is childish that he doesn't have the balls to speak to me like an adult and treat me like a human being 🥰
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert Thank You 🥰 Alex 🥰 it's been two days and today I am laughing at him , from far away , he put so much effort into preventing me seeing him and he ended up driving past me on his motorbike when I was walking home , that he nor I would have planned it , and yesterday I read a fantastic line : karma is a 🐝itch and she hates it when her pack is *d with! Isn't that the truth because he was directing his anger at me for what other persons did to him and he didn't have the guts to speak to me like a human being instead of being cruel and adding to my already difficult life. Karma is real.
Don't be afraid to walk away if he is not making an effort for you and let him know why you are no longer interested
Best advice is don’t fear losing him.
Alex is the best male relationship coach for women. He knows how men abused/controlled/manipulated women. Thank you Alex. You never know how you change women's lives.
Thank you so much for your support, Cole!
So true. We dont respect ourselves, they take us for granted and become toxic to us.
I was too nice too nice in the past relationships neither did I asked anything from the Man.. neither do I disturbed him in any way..I believe they took me for granted neither do they care about me or bought anything for me for once.. now my eyes and mind are open am so so angry and heartbroken.
Thank God I came across this channel.
This video came exactly on time when i decided to not go on an event where he will be. Because he is taking me for granted, having fun with me, dancing with me, but than only give me breadcrumbs. I behaved needy, was too nice, forgiving, understanding to gim... 3 Years of wasting my time. I lost myself in this relationship, go trough so much pain.
What a mercy was to find you Alex to hear so many of your videos. I am in a way to challenge myself, and natutally i will become a challenge for the right man for me.😊
I'm always happy to help with the content I put on TH-cam! Thank you so much for your support!
❤
Men value what they don't have. Always stay to being a challenge. Stop giving your attention to a men that doesn't value you as a woman
haha with the guy who thought he had control, i took my power back...now i tell him what i think ofhim and speak my mind ..i always have from day one spoke my mind and meet him when he comes to my place in my PJS lol..i dont dress up for him i wear what i am comfortable with and he tells me his never stopped thinking of me..these days I am just sooo off him and his licking his wounds atm//coz he took me for granted..
Omg, I was always told the opposite. More you do for a man, the more he will love you. I never could understand why this never worked out. When I had enough in relationship and stopped care, everything shifted and the man started chasing me. If I leave, I never go back. I never could find the balance. Now I understand. Thank you Alex! 😊💙💯
Thank you so much for watching!
I made a commitment to myself to put me first and be confident to be ready to walk away. I have learned to become a better version of myself and that I already have set the stage on how I want to be treated first priority. OMG! I’m fighting them off! what you are saying is true we have to dare to be different and take your stand for what I want.
Your accent like a salt in food. We enjoy it❤
Very very true. And sad. I've been in a good relationship for a year now but feel him getting complacent and taking me for granted because I'm too accommodating available and too nice. Going to just lean back and act indifferent now when we're apart and make him initiate more and make him fear. I've done too much and my fear is just making me stressed. Need to be valued and have more than this. Need to be a challenge again and it's tiring because you think you get to the point where you can relax and be an extremely good woman but the truth is you need to just realise your value and stop doing too much. I'm too loving and this is getting me no where.
Most of men doesn’t respect good honest woman they loves the woman who play with him or leave him or doesn’t care about him . Yes they like challenge but with a bad woman and they will leave good woman for her.
Dont believe that. They like the chase because it is a primordial instinct. Its not jusf random cruelty. They want to feel like they faught for her.
What you have to do is to calmly and confidentely wait for him to make all the moves that will prove you he is more than just a pretender and determine his true intentions. Let me tell you, if for exemple, you are dating someone, aim at friendship. Focus all of your Energy in projecting to him a good natured person but dont give up your romantic self too quick. You are allowed to like him ouy of the frame of desire. Just simple and authentic. He will do everything possible to get you to understand he sees you more than a friend. Let him do that work of impressing and wooing you while basically all you do is sitting their and recieving. No kisses, no sex for at least 10 ot 12 good weeks to see where his level of interest really is. If he is frustrated by the lack of quick intimacy, you will know it and you will pin his secret motives. If he keeps serving you, going out of his way for you, still spend time talking, walks, coffee, simple things friends share, even if you both desire eachother, but you guys keep it on a friendly surface and still he is here in every situation without complaining or gettibg bored of you, you know you are unto something. Then you ask him after those weeks, what do you feel is our next move? If he says, lets continue to take things slow, he is just trying to hang out and is not romantic about you. If he says, lets take it to the next level, then a kiss or two can seal the deal. And shortly after, maybe, a late invite into your home, if you know what i mean...;)
I am just sayung. Dont get sweeped up too soon. Take the time to trial him. Take the time to measure the efforts he puts in. Even when he is not getting his way. Even if he thinks you might never move him up from the friendzone.
I know it feels like its not authentic and you are playing games. But thibk about it this way. A princess in a tour waits YEARS for a prince to come along. She doesnt go on a quest to deliver the Prince herself. Not because she is week. But because she knows how very precious her love is. Her Love is soooo precious indeed, the men have to fight for it. Any man with no purity in his heart will abandon the fight or find excuses. Any man with deciet in his heart wont stand the trials and the tests. But a man with a loving heart will hold on. He will " fight" as they say. And thats when you will know all along, he truly wanted and cherished you. At that moment, it will be safe to open up your, oooh, so precious heart to him. Because he proved not to be a phoney....
You have nothing to prove as a woman. You just wait for the right one to prove he is the right one. So no sex to undeserving rascals and liars and manipulators. No benefits for the losers. Only the winner takes it all.🌌🦋🥰
@@lolaispure4296 so well-said! 🎉😊❤
*Every relationship is unique, and it's important to find what works best for both partners. Communication, trust, and mutual respect are key ingredients in any healthy relationship. By prioritizing your own self-worth and maintaining a balanced approach, you can create a lasting and meaningful connection with your partner.*
Nowerdays i love myself soo much that the only thing i think sbout is how to take care of myself PERIOD
I stay strong and think on my needs first - and he loves it ❤️💋
Yes ladies going speed for man and work like crazy for them
Thanks so much sir.... from today hv stopped thinking of him.....concs to my self,i love my self so much ❤️
Thank you so much for watching! I appreciate your support!
Last night we were at his family’s bbq and I made him a plate and served it to him 🤦🏻♀️ I messed up. I won’t do ANYTHING for him anymore. Thank you Coach Alex 🙏
You're always welcome!
That's not good either. My parents were married almost 50 years (before my dad died), and my mom cooked him delicious meals and he did things for her too. Love means wanting to do good things for each other. Men back in the day WANTED women like that...they were valuable. The problem is our culture/society has gone downhill so much that women are spoiling men rotten by giving them sex outside marriage, or at least way too soon and that is keeping them as selfish little boys. If your guy didn't appreciate you doing something nice, the problem was him, and you just need to find the right guy to be good too. I do agree with Alex that a woman shouldn't give too much and let the man do that mostly in the beginning, but to take the opposite extreme isn't the answer either. But I do understand what you're saying.
Healthy love is enduring. It is nurtured to a covenant status
I love you brother,i used your teaching to challenge my self, believe me im always surprised of my new development of myself everyday❤️
Thank you so much for watching! I appreciate your suport!
Thank You
Thank you so much for watching!
That s true. Once you have and get something you no longer want it
You are the best love coach ever ♥️ salutations depuis la France 🙏🙏
Thx! I love your French accent!
Tnx for your being❤
I've already stopped thinking about men first because it never works!
That's the thing! Same here
😂😂true
They are stupid
Very true😂😂😂
Thankyou for the advices,I am praying for a soul mate
You will find your soulmate!
You will find your soulmate.🙏🏿
My boy friend is a narcissist person some time very crazy some time disappeared for long time I'm confused want to move on but I love him a lot
ALEX YOU ARE THE BEST !
How are you Alex , Smiling 😊
Thanks...just when I'm going through this I came across your video
Thanks alot Alex this is such a relief
Thank you so much for watching! I truly appreciate your support!
I will stop this now ..thankyou alex ..😊
You're always welcome!
I’ve been single for so long! Can you make a video how to attract the right guy!?
Hi there,
Thank you so much for watching! I have made a video on how to attract the right guy, you can find it with this link: th-cam.com/video/MggpllKSVcA/w-d-xo.html
He is into me yesterday and today cold as ice dami so tired of this!
Its so annoying i know this behavior so sad for him to loose you willingly cold hot this makes us want him more
Good lesson
Alex I really appreciate you are the best
Hi Alex this Marietta from Togo . Alex thanks for the help
Thank you so much for watching and for your support! I appreciate you!
Thank you..Alex.. love your videos
Thank you so much for watching!
Thanks for your advices ❤
You're always welcome!
maximum respect mr Alex
Thanks for the advice
Thank you so much for watching, Jennifer!
Best chanel
Thank you so much for your support!
The best advice and dating coach on youtube . MERCI ALEX
Thank you so much for your support!
Ilot of leart your words thx
Put yourself first before anyone,so if he does value you,just walk away
Thanks much coach Alex 💚
You're always welcome, Amy!
Thankyou alex 💙
You're always welcome, Priscilla!
Thank u so much Boss🤲🤲🤲❤❤❤
Love you Alex have a happy weekend! greetings from Filipina in Cyprus
Thanks a lot Alex for the insight.
Thank you so much for watching!
Well thank you for the very good advice. It will be well used.
I will concentrate on my safe. I dont care about my past . I decide for my life.
How do you deal with a guy who never takes accountability for hurting you but instead resorts to dismissing your feelings, doesnt really listen or seem to register what you trying to talk about and rather deflects by insisting he needs to be heard and understood too (but not on the issue you tried to sort out with him to start with)?????
Just disappear
He's gaslighting and manipulating you. Classic narc
Walk away
Rrrrruuuuuuun for your life
@@IANA2030 🤣
How to get him out of my heart and thoughts knowing he is no good for me? Please give me advice? I don't believe in being with another when I still have someone in my heart.
Hi there,
I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. I have a video on my channel that can help you with this. I hope you can find the time to check it out: th-cam.com/video/Nx91XlJWn6A/w-d-xo.htmlsi=G49WiOTYL-A43RyX
Ma first tym to meet u here big up 👊
Good lesson Coach A
Please how do we make a boyfriend trust us back again after breaking his trust?
Hi there! I know Coach Alex would love to help you with this but he would need to know a little more about what you're going through in order to help you through this. I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with him using this link!
www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
-FRE Team
New subscriber!!
Alex, I'm so grateful I found your channel.
Thank you so much for watching!
Love u alex
Your smile is very cuteeee
You’re amazing Alex. I admire you
Thank you so much for your support!
I’m gay but your videos are so helpful
Thanks a lot dear.. You are amazing Alex...
I am different and
I am a challenge
Let see how Alex Cormont finds me.... 😉 As I am far away from Alex i.e Pakistan...😎
Hello Alex mine is completed have tried everything but nothing is working he always tell me that is busy he can't even call me am suffering
Leave him. One thing Coach Alex is not saying is that men usually know very early on who they will value or who they will not. He already made his decision. Make your decision too. Not saying it's easy to leave him but keep in mind it's the only right decision because he already made his.
I don't know if I ever stay in his mind, but I can't get him out of my mind even a single minute a day 😅
Me too. Am going through it too.
very nice and apt video
The link Alex
Please coach what’s the dynamic behind been friends with an ex after no contact
Yes, i also want to hear this.🙂
How to change the way, he looks at me after a break up ? He thinks I left for fun and I'm back because I have no one but the truth is I love him, and I want to make this work. its so hard
My ex told me that he cheated on me because the other woman listened to him vs I change the subject on him when we talk. Is that a realistic reason to cheat? I see he compared me so I walked away and blocked him.
Alex my relationship is complicated have tried everything it's not working. he says he loves me but act differently ...I love him alot but am not getting enough he doesn't respect me or value me
I need more help I want to rich you for advise
Hi there!
If you're looking for one on one advice, I would highly suggest you book a coaching call with me using this link! www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
-FRE Team
Alex, my boyfriend to stopped calling/ texting me because he accused me of lying it’s been a week What do you recommend me to do?
how be a challenge for him again
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Your message is good but always the same. Just different titles
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Divas know their stuff-?
I don't understand this
I wil stop thinking about him first
Thank you for watching! I hope this video was able to help you!
I would never change my hair colour or get false nails for a man
I have stopped
Thank you so much for watching!
Alex que penses-tu du fait que les hommes décident très très vite de quelle femme a de la valeur à ses yeux ou pas? Et qu'une fois qu'il a commencé à "take things for granted", c'est irréversible peu importe les efforts qu'on fera pour le faire se sentir vivant ou être un challenge ? J'ai l'impression que le premier conseil aurait dû être, s'il vous prend pour acquis, quittez le.
I also changed muy hair coloue once for a man pathetic
I stopped thinking of him
Hey can you plz tell us, How to date an Overthinker 🥲🥺It’s so hard
Alex 🥰 men are....... I don't even have the right word. . .he called me a stalker after claimed that we are friends and sent security guards after me at a Shopping Centre to tell me to leave him alone , he has treated me really badly today 🥲
I'm so sorry to hear about this!
I am so grateful 🥰 for your reply 🥰 , I am so hurt I am feeling that he is childish that he doesn't have the balls to speak to me like an adult and treat me like a human being 🥰
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert Thank You 🥰 Alex 🥰 it's been two days and today I am laughing at him , from far away , he put so much effort into preventing me seeing him and he ended up driving past me on his motorbike when I was walking home , that he nor I would have planned it , and yesterday I read a fantastic line : karma is a 🐝itch and she hates it when her pack is *d with! Isn't that the truth because he was directing his anger at me for what other persons did to him and he didn't have the guts to speak to me like a human being instead of being cruel and adding to my already difficult life. Karma is real.