How to STAY on HIS MIND... And Make Him Value You!

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  • How to STAY in HIS MIND... And Make Him Value You!
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  • @stephaniemarieanne8158
    @stephaniemarieanne8158 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Don't be afraid to walk away if he is not making an effort for you and let him know why you are no longer interested

  • @aliah_ahayd8268
    @aliah_ahayd8268 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Best advice is don’t fear losing him.

  • @colemik2931
    @colemik2931 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Alex is the best male relationship coach for women. He knows how men abused/controlled/manipulated women. Thank you Alex. You never know how you change women's lives.

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much for your support, Cole!

    • @marimary6879
      @marimary6879 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So true. We dont respect ourselves, they take us for granted and become toxic to us.

  • @timelesswords6826
    @timelesswords6826 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Men value what they don't have. Always stay to being a challenge. Stop giving your attention to a men that doesn't value you as a woman

  • @laralarz6746
    @laralarz6746 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Most of men doesn’t respect good honest woman they loves the woman who play with him or leave him or doesn’t care about him . Yes they like challenge but with a bad woman and they will leave good woman for her.

    • @lolaispure4296
      @lolaispure4296 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Dont believe that. They like the chase because it is a primordial instinct. Its not jusf random cruelty. They want to feel like they faught for her.
      What you have to do is to calmly and confidentely wait for him to make all the moves that will prove you he is more than just a pretender and determine his true intentions. Let me tell you, if for exemple, you are dating someone, aim at friendship. Focus all of your Energy in projecting to him a good natured person but dont give up your romantic self too quick. You are allowed to like him ouy of the frame of desire. Just simple and authentic. He will do everything possible to get you to understand he sees you more than a friend. Let him do that work of impressing and wooing you while basically all you do is sitting their and recieving. No kisses, no sex for at least 10 ot 12 good weeks to see where his level of interest really is. If he is frustrated by the lack of quick intimacy, you will know it and you will pin his secret motives. If he keeps serving you, going out of his way for you, still spend time talking, walks, coffee, simple things friends share, even if you both desire eachother, but you guys keep it on a friendly surface and still he is here in every situation without complaining or gettibg bored of you, you know you are unto something. Then you ask him after those weeks, what do you feel is our next move? If he says, lets continue to take things slow, he is just trying to hang out and is not romantic about you. If he says, lets take it to the next level, then a kiss or two can seal the deal. And shortly after, maybe, a late invite into your home, if you know what i mean...;)
      I am just sayung. Dont get sweeped up too soon. Take the time to trial him. Take the time to measure the efforts he puts in. Even when he is not getting his way. Even if he thinks you might never move him up from the friendzone.
      I know it feels like its not authentic and you are playing games. But thibk about it this way. A princess in a tour waits YEARS for a prince to come along. She doesnt go on a quest to deliver the Prince herself. Not because she is week. But because she knows how very precious her love is. Her Love is soooo precious indeed, the men have to fight for it. Any man with no purity in his heart will abandon the fight or find excuses. Any man with deciet in his heart wont stand the trials and the tests. But a man with a loving heart will hold on. He will " fight" as they say. And thats when you will know all along, he truly wanted and cherished you. At that moment, it will be safe to open up your, oooh, so precious heart to him. Because he proved not to be a phoney....
      You have nothing to prove as a woman. You just wait for the right one to prove he is the right one. So no sex to undeserving rascals and liars and manipulators. No benefits for the losers. Only the winner takes it all.🌌🦋🥰

    • @yannahgrekita
      @yannahgrekita ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@lolaispure4296 so well-said! 🎉😊❤

  • @marimary6879
    @marimary6879 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    This video came exactly on time when i decided to not go on an event where he will be. Because he is taking me for granted, having fun with me, dancing with me, but than only give me breadcrumbs. I behaved needy, was too nice, forgiving, understanding to gim... 3 Years of wasting my time. I lost myself in this relationship, go trough so much pain.
    What a mercy was to find you Alex to hear so many of your videos. I am in a way to challenge myself, and natutally i will become a challenge for the right man for me.😊

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm always happy to help with the content I put on TH-cam! Thank you so much for your support!

  • @Meetjesusatthewell
    @Meetjesusatthewell ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I made a commitment to myself to put me first and be confident to be ready to walk away. I have learned to become a better version of myself and that I already have set the stage on how I want to be treated first priority. OMG! I’m fighting them off! what you are saying is true we have to dare to be different and take your stand for what I want.

  • @nazliansari314
    @nazliansari314 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Your accent like a salt in food. We enjoy it❤

  • @crenglishmixhits2933
    @crenglishmixhits2933 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    haha with the guy who thought he had control, i took my power back...now i tell him what i think ofhim and speak my mind ..i always have from day one spoke my mind and meet him when he comes to my place in my PJS lol..i dont dress up for him i wear what i am comfortable with and he tells me his never stopped thinking of me..these days I am just sooo off him and his licking his wounds atm//coz he took me for granted..

  • @vhayashi7369
    @vhayashi7369 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I've already stopped thinking about men first because it never works!

  • @stephblenheim4283
    @stephblenheim4283 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Very very true. And sad. I've been in a good relationship for a year now but feel him getting complacent and taking me for granted because I'm too accommodating available and too nice. Going to just lean back and act indifferent now when we're apart and make him initiate more and make him fear. I've done too much and my fear is just making me stressed. Need to be valued and have more than this. Need to be a challenge again and it's tiring because you think you get to the point where you can relax and be an extremely good woman but the truth is you need to just realise your value and stop doing too much. I'm too loving and this is getting me no where.

  • @TheAttractionTriggers
    @TheAttractionTriggers ปีที่แล้ว +6

    *Every relationship is unique, and it's important to find what works best for both partners. Communication, trust, and mutual respect are key ingredients in any healthy relationship. By prioritizing your own self-worth and maintaining a balanced approach, you can create a lasting and meaningful connection with your partner.*

  • @lolaispure4296
    @lolaispure4296 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well thank you for the very good advice. It will be well used.

  • @veralinechisom3121
    @veralinechisom3121 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks...just when I'm going through this I came across your video

  • @valerianotarnicola791
    @valerianotarnicola791 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are the best love coach ever ♥️ salutations depuis la France 🙏🙏

  • @lucyt9856
    @lucyt9856 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ALEX YOU ARE THE BEST !

  • @FeliciaEkanem-pm1uz
    @FeliciaEkanem-pm1uz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I was too nice too nice in the past relationships neither did I asked anything from the Man.. neither do I disturbed him in any way..I believe they took me for granted neither do they care about me or bought anything for me for once.. now my eyes and mind are open am so so angry and heartbroken.
    Thank God I came across this channel.

  • @mettebrogaard4299
    @mettebrogaard4299 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I stay strong and think on my needs first - and he loves it ❤️💋

  • @leonatsiara
    @leonatsiara 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Omg, I was always told the opposite. More you do for a man, the more he will love you. I never could understand why this never worked out. When I had enough in relationship and stopped care, everything shifted and the man started chasing me. If I leave, I never go back. I never could find the balance. Now I understand. Thank you Alex! 😊💙💯

  • @kimgordon3695
    @kimgordon3695 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Healthy love is enduring. It is nurtured to a covenant status

  • @Myoung-rr7nl
    @Myoung-rr7nl ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thx! I love your French accent!

  • @tasha3556
    @tasha3556 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alex I really appreciate you are the best

  • @shemushemu9534
    @shemushemu9534 ปีที่แล้ว

    The best advice and dating coach on youtube . MERCI ALEX

  • @nalubegamariam8980
    @nalubegamariam8980 ปีที่แล้ว

    maximum respect mr Alex

  • @egbewattarrahnaomi332
    @egbewattarrahnaomi332 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks a lot Alex for the insight.

  • @rifataratoma7546
    @rifataratoma7546 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank u so much Boss🤲🤲🤲❤❤❤

  • @osinyoruth2769
    @osinyoruth2769 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good lesson

  • @nazliansari314
    @nazliansari314 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tnx for your being❤

  • @EdaNavarra
    @EdaNavarra ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you Alex have a happy weekend! greetings from Filipina in Cyprus

  • @sheeba8334
    @sheeba8334 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you..Alex.. love your videos

  • @elizabethodame9751
    @elizabethodame9751 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks alot Alex this is such a relief

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for watching! I truly appreciate your support!

  • @amyredoble4041
    @amyredoble4041 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks much coach Alex 💚

  • @ek8928
    @ek8928 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks for your advices ❤

  • @jenniferkoranteng8691
    @jenniferkoranteng8691 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for the advice

  • @lenlar6
    @lenlar6 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank You

  • @eunexoproducts9145
    @eunexoproducts9145 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nowerdays i love myself soo much that the only thing i think sbout is how to take care of myself PERIOD

  • @lubnamunir9448
    @lubnamunir9448 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ilot of leart your words thx

  • @kgaridolly4296
    @kgaridolly4296 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love you brother,i used your teaching to challenge my self, believe me im always surprised of my new development of myself everyday❤️

  • @user-mb4kr8pi4r
    @user-mb4kr8pi4r 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks so much sir.... from today hv stopped thinking of him.....concs to my self,i love my self so much ❤️

  • @andreeasandreea14
    @andreeasandreea14 ปีที่แล้ว

    That s true. Once you have and get something you no longer want it

  • @zahraalbaloochi2841
    @zahraalbaloochi2841 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes ladies going speed for man and work like crazy for them

  • @priscillasultana6420
    @priscillasultana6420 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thankyou alex 💙

  • @drgoodwell1082
    @drgoodwell1082 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How are you Alex , Smiling 😊

  • @oskihaddad6406
    @oskihaddad6406 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love u alex

  • @sharafunnissapv4825
    @sharafunnissapv4825 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks a lot dear.. You are amazing Alex...

  • @naseemhaider4417
    @naseemhaider4417 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My boy friend is a narcissist person some time very crazy some time disappeared for long time I'm confused want to move on but I love him a lot

  • @lucywangecimutahi3138
    @lucywangecimutahi3138 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thankyou for the advices,I am praying for a soul mate

  • @XxMiranda7786
    @XxMiranda7786 ปีที่แล้ว

    New subscriber!!

  • @supermanfan1315
    @supermanfan1315 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Last night we were at his family’s bbq and I made him a plate and served it to him 🤦🏻‍♀️ I messed up. I won’t do ANYTHING for him anymore. Thank you Coach Alex 🙏

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're always welcome!

    • @tlc6756
      @tlc6756 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That's not good either. My parents were married almost 50 years (before my dad died), and my mom cooked him delicious meals and he did things for her too. Love means wanting to do good things for each other. Men back in the day WANTED women like that...they were valuable. The problem is our culture/society has gone downhill so much that women are spoiling men rotten by giving them sex outside marriage, or at least way too soon and that is keeping them as selfish little boys. If your guy didn't appreciate you doing something nice, the problem was him, and you just need to find the right guy to be good too. I do agree with Alex that a woman shouldn't give too much and let the man do that mostly in the beginning, but to take the opposite extreme isn't the answer either. But I do understand what you're saying.

  • @starlili6014
    @starlili6014 ปีที่แล้ว

    I will stop this now ..thankyou alex ..😊

  • @priyankamullick8724
    @priyankamullick8724 ปีที่แล้ว

    very nice and apt video

  • @MariettaQuenishel
    @MariettaQuenishel 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Alex this Marietta from Togo . Alex thanks for the help

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for watching and for your support! I appreciate you!

  • @mbabazijanny6110
    @mbabazijanny6110 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ma first tym to meet u here big up 👊

  • @jiejie9043
    @jiejie9043 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    He is into me yesterday and today cold as ice dami so tired of this!

    • @LARichyAmber
      @LARichyAmber ปีที่แล้ว

      Its so annoying i know this behavior so sad for him to loose you willingly cold hot this makes us want him more

  • @michellestarks4215
    @michellestarks4215 ปีที่แล้ว

    I will concentrate on my safe. I dont care about my past . I decide for my life.

  • @mb-dh9ic
    @mb-dh9ic ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’ve been single for so long! Can you make a video how to attract the right guy!?

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hi there,
      Thank you so much for watching! I have made a video on how to attract the right guy, you can find it with this link: th-cam.com/video/MggpllKSVcA/w-d-xo.html

  • @MaryEnjema
    @MaryEnjema 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Good lesson Coach A
    Please how do we make a boyfriend trust us back again after breaking his trust?

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Hi there! I know Coach Alex would love to help you with this but he would need to know a little more about what you're going through in order to help you through this. I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with him using this link!
      www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
      -FRE Team

  • @marcelacasas2187
    @marcelacasas2187 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How to get him out of my heart and thoughts knowing he is no good for me? Please give me advice? I don't believe in being with another when I still have someone in my heart.

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi there,
      I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. I have a video on my channel that can help you with this. I hope you can find the time to check it out: th-cam.com/video/Nx91XlJWn6A/w-d-xo.htmlsi=G49WiOTYL-A43RyX

  • @user-ip8gu6el8m
    @user-ip8gu6el8m 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Put yourself first before anyone,so if he does value you,just walk away

  • @sameeramumtaz7616
    @sameeramumtaz7616 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your smile is very cuteeee

  • @ngoikabange3423
    @ngoikabange3423 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alex my relationship is complicated have tried everything it's not working. he says he loves me but act differently ...I love him alot but am not getting enough he doesn't respect me or value me

  • @sintelibanda8396
    @sintelibanda8396 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The link Alex

  • @ghaidaaalkhamees8055
    @ghaidaaalkhamees8055 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How to change the way, he looks at me after a break up ? He thinks I left for fun and I'm back because I have no one but the truth is I love him, and I want to make this work. its so hard

  • @clau_vlog
    @clau_vlog ปีที่แล้ว

    Alex, my boyfriend to stopped calling/ texting me because he accused me of lying it’s been a week What do you recommend me to do?

  • @ashleykrutzig6370
    @ashleykrutzig6370 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @EWK-51813
    @EWK-51813 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am different and
    I am a challenge
    Let see how Alex Cormont finds me.... 😉 As I am far away from Alex i.e Pakistan...😎

  • @marcelacasas2187
    @marcelacasas2187 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My ex told me that he cheated on me because the other woman listened to him vs I change the subject on him when we talk. Is that a realistic reason to cheat? I see he compared me so I walked away and blocked him.

  • @ekeminiesenyie1401
    @ekeminiesenyie1401 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Alex, I'm so grateful I found your channel.

  • @lsassy6401
    @lsassy6401 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    How do you deal with a guy who never takes accountability for hurting you but instead resorts to dismissing your feelings, doesnt really listen or seem to register what you trying to talk about and rather deflects by insisting he needs to be heard and understood too (but not on the issue you tried to sort out with him to start with)?????

    • @alhassanfirrdous7292
      @alhassanfirrdous7292 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Just disappear

    • @mightyfineanderson
      @mightyfineanderson ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He's gaslighting and manipulating you. Classic narc

    • @IANA2030
      @IANA2030 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Walk away

    • @IANA2030
      @IANA2030 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Rrrrruuuuuuun for your life

    • @tlc6756
      @tlc6756 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@IANA2030 🤣

  • @nasigz6430
    @nasigz6430 ปีที่แล้ว

    how be a challenge for him again

  • @celinely8945
    @celinely8945 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You’re amazing Alex. I admire you

  • @liliantalbot3805
    @liliantalbot3805 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Please coach what’s the dynamic behind been friends with an ex after no contact

    • @marimary6879
      @marimary6879 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, i also want to hear this.🙂

  • @wendykalombo4920
    @wendykalombo4920 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hello Alex mine is completed have tried everything but nothing is working he always tell me that is busy he can't even call me am suffering

    • @vp5134
      @vp5134 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Leave him. One thing Coach Alex is not saying is that men usually know very early on who they will value or who they will not. He already made his decision. Make your decision too. Not saying it's easy to leave him but keep in mind it's the only right decision because he already made his.

  • @sintelibanda8396
    @sintelibanda8396 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I need more help I want to rich you for advise

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi there!
      If you're looking for one on one advice, I would highly suggest you book a coaching call with me using this link! www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
      -FRE Team

  • @viciousv9671
    @viciousv9671 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m gay but your videos are so helpful

  • @58_shilpa.e30
    @58_shilpa.e30 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I don't know if I ever stay in his mind, but I can't get him out of my mind even a single minute a day 😅

    • @jimbablessing4556
      @jimbablessing4556 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Me too. Am going through it too.

  • @Bianca-sw5id
    @Bianca-sw5id ปีที่แล้ว

    Sending L♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️E 🥰🙂

  • @gabriellacindyxoxo
    @gabriellacindyxoxo ปีที่แล้ว

    🔮

  • @jasminejustin8654
    @jasminejustin8654 ปีที่แล้ว

    👍👍👍

  • @vanithabalaji6284
    @vanithabalaji6284 ปีที่แล้ว

    💕💖💗👌👌👌👌👌 from india

  • @janemuhurango8283
    @janemuhurango8283 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't understand this

  • @vp5134
    @vp5134 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alex que penses-tu du fait que les hommes décident très très vite de quelle femme a de la valeur à ses yeux ou pas? Et qu'une fois qu'il a commencé à "take things for granted", c'est irréversible peu importe les efforts qu'on fera pour le faire se sentir vivant ou être un challenge ? J'ai l'impression que le premier conseil aurait dû être, s'il vous prend pour acquis, quittez le.

  • @Bianca-sw5id
    @Bianca-sw5id ปีที่แล้ว

    🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @hismercytvinternational2259
    @hismercytvinternational2259 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your message is good but always the same. Just different titles

  • @Bianca-sw5id
    @Bianca-sw5id ปีที่แล้ว

    Divas know their stuff-?

  • @Bianca-sw5id
    @Bianca-sw5id ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I would never change my hair colour or get false nails for a man

  • @kgaridolly4296
    @kgaridolly4296 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have stopped

  • @monicabandkar2348
    @monicabandkar2348 ปีที่แล้ว

    I stopped thinking of him

  • @mariadelamercedcharro1047
    @mariadelamercedcharro1047 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I also changed muy hair coloue once for a man pathetic

  • @vuyiswamagagula7948
    @vuyiswamagagula7948 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey can you plz tell us, How to date an Overthinker 🥲🥺It’s so hard

  • @Bianca-sw5id
    @Bianca-sw5id ปีที่แล้ว

    Alex 🥰 men are....... I don't even have the right word. . .he called me a stalker after claimed that we are friends and sent security guards after me at a Shopping Centre to tell me to leave him alone , he has treated me really badly today 🥲

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so sorry to hear about this!

    • @Bianca-sw5id
      @Bianca-sw5id ปีที่แล้ว

      I am so grateful 🥰 for your reply 🥰 , I am so hurt I am feeling that he is childish that he doesn't have the balls to speak to me like an adult and treat me like a human being 🥰

    • @Bianca-sw5id
      @Bianca-sw5id ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@FrenchRelationshipExpert Thank You 🥰 Alex 🥰 it's been two days and today I am laughing at him , from far away , he put so much effort into preventing me seeing him and he ended up driving past me on his motorbike when I was walking home , that he nor I would have planned it , and yesterday I read a fantastic line : karma is a 🐝itch and she hates it when her pack is *d with! Isn't that the truth because he was directing his anger at me for what other persons did to him and he didn't have the guts to speak to me like a human being instead of being cruel and adding to my already difficult life. Karma is real.