You are freaking amazing! I am the “nice” girl so too often I let things go and allow people to violate my boundaries or compromise on standards. Thanks for reminding me to take my power back!
Social value is often highlighted as important. Are we supposed to be social butterflies when we are not comfortable being one? I am an introvert, I don't really enjoy big social gatherings, I enjoy time on my own pursuing my interests and occasional outings with good friends.
Social is more about your interest, hobbies, passions having a life outside of a man. Be authentic and autonomous love your life. Have OPTIONS besides from him. Hope that helps💕💕💕
I think you can also show your social value by having interests that are popular with many people. Example: if you are extremely interested in the art world.
Before being left, I sensed it and walked away instead. I went to the gym, starting regaining my lost energy, achieved new heights in my career, learned cooking, go to social events, ang voila, I am a better me and that's when this person started regretting why I walked away. Tables have turned but trouble is, I am now used to just being with me.
I’m not giving him no more of my attention I lost 30 pounds feeling and looking even better go out with friends enjoy myself discover new things I want to do, I’m be distance not calling or texting him
I am going through a rough patch in my relationship and these past few days have been all about me crying and waiting for him to leave me, but today I found your videos and it gave me so much strength already! I'll make sure to put those words into practice and hopefully it will now be HIM going crazy about losing me. Thank you and greetings all the way from Poland!!
I know the feeling. My fiancé was flirting with another woman on social media awhile ago but it shattered my confidence in our relationship. I am not constantly wondering if he is doing this again or has continued and taken it further. I don’t know how to over come this self-esteem blow, lack of confidence and insecurities. I hope you’re in a better place now and the tears and worry has stopped. You are valuable and deserving of everything beautiful and amazing. I hope he sees it as well.
I’m not scared of losing him anymore but even though I feel I don’t receive the love and reassurance I need.. i still end up giving him whatever he likes. I’m stuck in between giving my best or giving distance. It’s too hard
Yes. Alex. I am Breaking my habit today. Consistent effort is the only way. He knows I am here, he is thinking about me, As I am turning away, and effervescent all at once! I have a good time, and I am focused on my skills. Thank you so much friend!
Thank you Alex, I am following all your tips. I worked internally too by thinking to myself I am the prize, I am not in the scarcity vibe and time waits for no one. Whats for me will never pass me.
When I first saw your video and at that time you said that we are very valuable at that moment I stopped to chase and pull him back. I'm so happy right now loving myself and I've forgotten him and all the things he did to me. Thank you Alex for all your help, success and GBU
Wow, Alex. I love this setting because I can see the points and it gives me understanding that will stay with me. This particular video tells me I am on course. One day I had enough and told him I could not continue our relationship. It still hurts, but I was sure then and still am that if I didn't do this I wouldn't have a shred of self-respect left since I truly felt I was being used to fill in blank spots in his calendar. No contact is what it is and will forever be unless he decides I'm precious commodity. I was single for a long time before I married my husband who passed away last year. In the single years before I adopted the philosophy that if you waste your time with WRONG people you make yourself unavailable for RIGHT people. Why waste your life trying to make someone be the person you're looking for? Too much work, and, frankly, they don't deserve you. Their (love) life really isn't headed anywhere, but why shouldn't yours?
Hey Alex well because of my value I take the control back and..told him I take time out and the space to work on my own issues. I am planning a lot of nice things. With my inner circle. Must say Alex..it gave me rest. Not explaining to him but let go. No more codependentie. Good luck everybody and thanks Alex.😘
So beautifully explained Sir, self respect n our self positive energy makes us sparkle brighter .. makes us a rare gem which everyone desires ❤️... Thankyou Sir 🙏😊
Wow impressive tips ever ! Easy to understand and apply immediately . And it also make me realise the reason why he is acting differently compare to the beginning phase of our relationship, that I give him a lots of my attention and control to him . Okay make sense now, thank you so muchh Alex !
Another gold video of Alex! NO : is so strong, to get results, to get a stable long sustainable relationship You taught me that! I am forever grateful! Thank you! 💓
Alex, t le meilleur ! 41 days of no contact rule emplemented for the second time.by the way, does no contact rule work second time ? 41 days still hasn't reached out, any reaction i'm confused whereas the first time brought me a super results he almost lost control, reached out, despite the fact that i was the dumper. I think N.C is less effective when it comes for second time.
Very nice video Alex! I am a French follower and just noticed that you are also active in the US 🇺🇸 ! Bien joué continues comme ça Professeur Cormont !!
Question : It is said that if a man says no ,then he will never return ...is it true to their mentality Then how can we apply ur tactics on their mentality n rudeness??
It’s important you’re independent so he’s not spending as much on you 😂😂, he doesn’t want to adopt a child like we don’t want to take care of a man-child
What about recently divorced man who says his sutuation is complicated. He has still feelings for ex and cant easily forget the past. He is not ready to date. How can I deal with this situation and help him move on with life?
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert he's uncomfortable with me and can't accept my weakness, on the other hand I can accept him. Hmm I guess I'm a fool. But I will keep moving on and get rid of him from my life, mind and heart.
What can I do if he lives with his mother who calls him even at midnight on Friday and Saturday and has an emotional trauma whose roots I don t know ..
Hi Isabella! I would love to help you with this. I hope you can book a coaching session with me so I can know more about your relationship with him in order to give you proper advice. www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert Thank you Alex! I ve been knowing him just a month ago, we don t have a relationship and he got in touch three times just when he wants to meet me
Who else can sit and listen to this man's accent all day?
1. Energy
2. Social value
3. Professional value
4. Take care of yourself
5. Be busy
You are freaking amazing! I am the “nice” girl so too often I let things go and allow people to violate my boundaries or compromise on standards. Thanks for reminding me to take my power back!
Social value is often highlighted as important. Are we supposed to be social butterflies when we are not comfortable being one? I am an introvert, I don't really enjoy big social gatherings, I enjoy time on my own pursuing my interests and occasional outings with good friends.
Exactly. So much to expect and have the basics met from a man! Lol. Can’t..🌻
Social is more about your interest, hobbies, passions having a life outside of a man. Be authentic and autonomous love your life. Have OPTIONS besides from him.
Hope that helps💕💕💕
💞
I think you can also show your social value by having interests that are popular with many people. Example: if you are extremely interested in the art world.
Before being left, I sensed it and walked away instead. I went to the gym, starting regaining my lost energy, achieved new heights in my career, learned cooking, go to social events, ang voila, I am a better me and that's when this person started regretting why I walked away. Tables have turned but trouble is, I am now used to just being with me.
I’m not giving him no more of my attention I lost 30 pounds feeling and looking even better go out with friends enjoy myself discover new things I want to do, I’m be distance not calling or texting him
😊
Good job
I am going through a rough patch in my relationship and these past few days have been all about me crying and waiting for him to leave me, but today I found your videos and it gave me so much strength already! I'll make sure to put those words into practice and hopefully it will now be HIM going crazy about losing me. Thank you and greetings all the way from Poland!!
Good luck! If they want to go let them go. Meanwhile we do all our work within and shine like a Goddess
I hope you are not crying anymore but smiling because you are a confident, beautiful and special!!!!
I know the feeling. My fiancé was flirting with another woman on social media awhile ago but it shattered my confidence in our relationship. I am not constantly wondering if he is doing this again or has continued and taken it further. I don’t know how to over come this self-esteem blow, lack of confidence and insecurities.
I hope you’re in a better place now and the tears and worry has stopped. You are valuable and deserving of everything beautiful and amazing. I hope he sees it as well.
I love this classroom setting, Prof. Alex! 👍😄 Every word is gold. You are the best!
Thank you so much, Julie!
I’m not scared of losing him anymore but even though I feel I don’t receive the love and reassurance I need.. i still end up giving him whatever he likes. I’m stuck in between giving my best or giving distance. It’s too hard
Yes. Alex. I am Breaking my habit today. Consistent effort is the only way. He knows I am here, he is thinking about me, As I am turning away, and effervescent all at once! I have a good time, and I am focused on my skills. Thank you so much friend!
I'm always happy to help, Angela!
I dont have enough words 2 thank you 4 this lesson. Wonderfull, thank u, totally appreciate
Thank you Alex, I am following all your tips. I worked internally too by thinking to myself I am the prize, I am not in the scarcity vibe and time waits for no one. Whats for me will never pass me.
Excellent video. You care and help people.
Thank you so much for watching, Nancy!
When I first saw your video and at that time you said that we are very valuable at that moment I stopped to chase and pull him back. I'm so happy right now loving myself and I've forgotten him and all the things he did to me. Thank you Alex for all your help, success and GBU
You're doing a great job Selly! I'm proud of you.
I like you professor Cormont even if you destroyed my misbelief about love.. 😂 “l amor est simple come bonjour …,”an old French song by Prevert
You are such a good teacher - thank you! 🌏
Please,do not be serious,just continue this way.😁
Wow, Alex. I love this setting because I can see the points and it gives me understanding that will stay with me. This particular video tells me I am on course. One day I had enough and told him I could not continue our relationship. It still hurts, but I was sure then and still am that if I didn't do this I wouldn't have a shred of self-respect left since I truly felt I was being used to fill in blank spots in his calendar. No contact is what it is and will forever be unless he decides I'm precious commodity. I was single for a long time before I married my husband who passed away last year. In the single years before I adopted the philosophy that if you waste your time with WRONG people you make yourself unavailable for RIGHT people. Why waste your life trying to make someone be the person you're looking for? Too much work, and, frankly, they don't deserve you. Their (love) life really isn't headed anywhere, but why shouldn't yours?
#AudioVusualExpertise
Hey Alex well because of my value I take the control back and..told him I take time out and the space to work on my own issues. I am planning a lot of nice things. With my inner circle. Must say Alex..it gave me rest. Not explaining to him but let go. No more codependentie. Good luck everybody and thanks Alex.😘
So beautifully explained Sir, self respect n our self positive energy makes us sparkle brighter .. makes us a rare gem which everyone desires ❤️... Thankyou Sir 🙏😊
I think my brother needs to listen to this
Thank you for this😢
I have learnt on this TH-cam channel today but am glad whatever Alex is teaching here is happening in my relationship
U’re truly a genius
Thank you for watching !
Yes u are a Professor sir.. ❤take love from Bangladesh
Thank you so much for your support!
Alex, you empower me, thank you for giving me strength in knowing what to do.
Love love love!!!💕this new way you presented made me so focus, thank you Professor Alex!
Thank you so much for your guidance. This video literally helped me to clear so many doubts. 😊
I'm always happy to help!
Yes! This format looks good on you Professor Cormont! Great job! Amazing! You nailed it! Deeply grateful again Coach Alex! Yey! Cheering you on!
Thank you so much, Margaret!
Always enjoy watching your video , Alex. Thanks 😊🤍🌸🎀
You're always welcome, Maricel!
Standing bybthe board really suits u keep up the good work thus way❤
Thank you so much for watching and for your support!
Alex! Well done. The classroom approach is much better
Thank you so much for watching!
Am pleased and it's cool am actually doing them... Papua New Guinea Pacific
Thank u for this great advice Alex. love from the Caribbean 🙏
Thank you so much for watching my videos!
This was dead on right from the start
Professor Alex! Thank you your videos, I've learned so much and am teaching my daughter your tips.
Wow impressive tips ever ! Easy to understand and apply immediately . And it also make me realise the reason why he is acting differently compare to the beginning phase of our relationship, that I give him a lots of my attention and control to him . Okay make sense now, thank you so muchh Alex !
I have done this all
Smaching the like button 100000000 times Alex ☺️
Thank you so much!
Thank you prof Alex. Good stuff. God bless you and protect your family.
Thank you so much for your support! I highly appreciate this!
U are a angel Alex, pls take love from my heart. I am from Bangladesh 🇧🇩
I enjoyed your classroom video PROFESSOR Cormont!😃👍🏼
Thank you so much for watching!
I like the way you teaching us on the board😍😍
Thanks Alex 🙏🏻 u just made it so simple n clear.
You're always welcome!
Another gold video of Alex!
NO : is so strong, to get results, to get a stable long sustainable relationship
You taught me that!
I am forever grateful!
Thank you! 💓
Alex, t le meilleur !
41 days of no contact rule emplemented for the second time.by the way, does no contact rule work second time ?
41 days still hasn't reached out, any reaction i'm confused whereas the first time brought me a super results he almost lost control, reached out, despite the fact that i was the dumper. I think N.C is less effective when it comes for second time.
Prof. This the best relationship advice for me... quite greatful!
How should we punish a guy for acting bad? Should we tell him outright that it wasn’t cool or be more creative?
1. Observe
2. Retract
3. Advise
4. Assure
Their response is #KEY 👆
Don't reward him with you time or attention when he's done bad. He'll figure it out. He needs to reach out to you to apoligize
Love the professor and the clarity, excellent energy from you Alex, this is helping ❤️🙏🌺
Very nice video Alex! I am a French follower and just noticed that you are also active in the US 🇺🇸 ! Bien joué continues comme ça Professeur Cormont !!
Thank you so much for the support, Nacera!
I think you wrote Emergy, u r so cute ! Thank you for the video
Absolutely right tips thank you so much Alex they must not take us for granted hearing you from Greece 💙🌷love the Professor Cormont 😂
Merci beaucoup your teachings are the best.
Thanks Prof.Cormont
Great , Thank you!
Excellent style ,thanks for sharing Alex
Fantastique comme d'habitude, Alex. Merci beaucoup!
I'm watching ur video from Pakistan..nd it's so powerful..I need ur more videos.. u r such an amazing coach... God bless u....
Thank you so much for the support, Muna!
Ave just joined your channel mr. Alex but for sure ave learn thank you for your guidance
Thank you so much for your support!
A true professor ☕
Merci beaucoup, Thanks for detailing all of that, I like the board Professor Alex🌟
You're always welcome, Jacqueline!
Well done Alex 👏❤️i LOVE your lesson 😉
You are amazing Alex I appreciate your advice
Thank you so much for watching, Liina!
Thanks Alex. From Bangladesh
Thank you so much Alex!
You're always welcome, Joboyce!
Alex u are number one coach in the univerce
Thank you so much, Minka!
Hi coach good afternoon.. Thank you for teaching to be independent
Thank you so much for watching!
Beautiful. You are the man.
Alex!!! I love your professor attitude and adorable French accent! I could listen to you all day (and I do!!)
Merci Infiniment!! 🙏💓
Question :
It is said that if a man says no ,then he will never return ...is it true to their mentality
Then how can we apply ur tactics on their mentality n rudeness??
Excellent Advice! Thank you Alex :)
Thank you so much for watching, Sylvia!
I like this style it’s different. Have been watching you for years
Thank you so much for the support!
Thanks Alex! This is so helpful x
I'm always happy to help!
Thanks...Alex..you are amazing and tallented.
Thank you so much for watching!
Amazing advice thank you
Thank you so much Ebony!
Excellent video!
Looking good the French men🤛🏽
Love this❤
Thank you so much for watching!
I like the video,the handwriting . Professor Cormon you should be doing the video while standing,you look good 😊.
I love this educative video! Yes make some more Im a fan 🥰🥰🥰
Veryyyy nice vedio
I perfere this video of you Alex.....it is more professional and always great advice
It’s important you’re independent so he’s not spending as much on you 😂😂, he doesn’t want to adopt a child like we don’t want to take care of a man-child
Like the presentation
I have done this all
More videos like this 👍
Very correct 💯📌
What about recently divorced man who says his sutuation is complicated. He has still feelings for ex and cant easily forget the past. He is not ready to date. How can I deal with this situation and help him move on with life?
i love this video ❤️❤️
Thanks Alex. I'm from Malaysia. Today, my anniversary of 1 month broke up.
I know how difficult this can be to deal with but keep pushing through! I'm here for you!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert he's uncomfortable with me and can't accept my weakness, on the other hand I can accept him. Hmm I guess I'm a fool. But I will keep moving on and get rid of him from my life, mind and heart.
Wow!!! What a powerful teaching. Thanks Alex, I am so glad I subscribed to your channel🤗
Thank you for subscribing!
What can I do if he lives with his mother who calls him even at midnight on Friday and Saturday and has an emotional trauma whose roots I don t know ..
Hi Isabella!
I would love to help you with this. I hope you can book a coaching session with me so I can know more about your relationship with him in order to give you proper advice.
www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert Thank you Alex! I ve been knowing him just a month ago, we don t have a relationship and he got in touch three times just when he wants to meet me
we like the video so much thank you Alex
Thank you so much for watching!
Great video 💞
Thank you so much Kendra!
Thanks for everything, god bless u 🙏
Thank you so much for the support!
Thank you♥️
How does he knows I am doing all this if he is no contact 😢
Hello! I think classroom helps.
Please make a video of what to do if a man is financially irresponsible
Professor carmo.i luv it.
Awesome 👍🏼