Our Honest Truth - Vlog Episode 1

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  • @hcrowe57451
    @hcrowe57451 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    here is validation. many of us don't care if your top is off or if we see your abs. we see you on social media as who you are and where your heart is. It's what makes us come back to watch your vlogs because you both are so down to earth. you have good hearts your caring and kind to your viewers this fan likes you for who you are not to see your abs or your muscles the vlogs give some of us older guys who have kept in shape a reason to keep on doing it you motivate us to look deep into our own souls and to keep moving on. you both are the most real guys I have ever seen on here there is no bubble wrap or plastic. it's real. whoever is involved in your daily life is so lucky to have you both. this fan is lucky to have your training and your guidance while doing it to teach many of us to be your best person. your ability to shed tears in your viewer's life has not been easy glad to see I'm not the only male who sheds tears. i was American and raised by a 1950s father who taught their sons in America to never allow their emotional situation to make you cry crying was not allowed older I allow it. I love you guys be well .. was always raised that crying was a weakness about males. that theory is wrong.

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you howard for your kind words on both videos, they are much appreciated and so is the time you took to write them. You’re a good soul

  • @mjc5509
    @mjc5509 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I lost a dear friend to COVID-19 in MARCH 2020.. TREASURE the time you have together as friends ..GOOD LUCK

  • @coopermcshane9308
    @coopermcshane9308 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    You two are both great, and prime examples of non-toxic masculinity. Love you both.

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      🙏👍🏻

    • @j-rod3718
      @j-rod3718 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True. I never saw the meaning of toxic masc then I paid attention to these guys and saw that there is masc without toxic baggage.

  • @Generaiford
    @Generaiford ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am an elderly man in BE Colorado. Been a caregiver nearly my entire lif e. I'm proud of you Lad's. God Bless Ya'll.

  • @lunarae8037
    @lunarae8037 2 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    Guys it’s been so hard in this big world right now. There will be times where you trip over your own emotions, problems, and those of the outside that come in. You both care deeply about each other obviously. The world is going through some stuff, be kind to each other we need each other. Keep showing the world you are human and who you are that real is the best version of you! Sending gratitude from US for your open and inspiring videos. We all rise together yes 🙌🏻

  • @bdfan4ever
    @bdfan4ever 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m a recovering drug addict and alcoholic. Been through a crippling depression as well. I’m the happiest I’ve ever been, now. The road was unbearable at times and there was a moment I didn’t think I would make it. Thank you for being candid and just all around great individuals. Keep moving forward. You’ll find your smile again. I did.

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Glad to hear you found your smile and got well again🙏👍🏻

  • @newhorizonsforfifty2833
    @newhorizonsforfifty2833 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Loving this video so hard right now. I think it's the most I've ever seen two straight guys be vulnerable and intimate with each other. If I'd had this growing up, my life would be different right now. Not good or bad, just different.

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you, we just opened up and gave the audience a look into what our lives are really like. We always show the laughs but here we show the raw tears too

  • @talosiv4927
    @talosiv4927 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    There is something really wonderful about two men who are not afraid to show real emotion. Thanks for sharing these personal moments with us. Big hug to you both!

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you Talos, we will be keeping this vlog real and raw👍🏻

  • @jaydeeess8996
    @jaydeeess8996 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    You two are a wonderful example of the new masculine energy. As a man and a psychologist, I thank you from the bottom of my heart for making this video for the world to see!!!!

  • @roysmith7087
    @roysmith7087 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I wish I had a solid friend like this.
    Solid lifetime friend without pretences and conditions.
    You inspire me to be better

  • @mpsimmon
    @mpsimmon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I've been a member for a long time and seen a lot of Stephen and Rab's videos, but this is the single most inspiring videos that they've made. Thank you guys for showing everyone that no matter who you are, real life and circumstances effect us all. You two will never stop inspiring me to be a better version of myself. With the most important part of that statement being "myself" and not what I or other people think that I should be.

  • @annehenderson462
    @annehenderson462 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Real. Authentic. Inspiring. Thank you.

  • @carolynblizzard6192
    @carolynblizzard6192 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I watch your videos every now and then. I have severe arthritis in my knees and limited mobility so my exercise is different from yours. Sometimes a video comes to you just when you need it. My husband has been battling stage 4 prostate cancer for 4 years. It cannot be cured. With that and covid and the general state of the world I've struggled. I saw a new doctor because I need to lose weight in order to care for my husband and to have knee replacement surgery. He suggested therapy to get to the bottom of why I have this extra weight. Even though I've been in therapy before I've avoided that issue specifically. You both talking about being authentic has inspired me and it's time. No more hiding from myself, behind this weight and feeling so sad. Love to you both and thank you for being there when I needed to hear your message.

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks carolyn- when it comes to your exercise just do what you can.
      And yes, weight gain more often than not comes from something internally you are/were dealing with and using food as a comfort

  • @mikescottnh
    @mikescottnh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I first started watching the two of you because you would flash your bums at the end of the video. ( Great hook, great bums. 🙂). I kept watching you because of the comradery, the energy and how much you truly like each other and how deep the commitment is to each other and to your customers. You boys are an inspiration to many, including myself. The balance between the two of you is what makes your friendship special, your synergy is remarkable. I wish we had you over here in the States.

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thanks michael, as we said in the video we are like brothers now

    • @mikescottnh
      @mikescottnh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@TheKiltedCoaches You always were boys, you always were. Brothers are not always blood.

    • @iwnunn7999
      @iwnunn7999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here....

  • @mysoullovessoul558
    @mysoullovessoul558 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Guys, this is Neil from Perth Australia, a long time supporter of all you guys do. I'm sat here in tears for you Rab, cause the main reason you are my man is I connected with you somehow those years ago, but I didn't know why until today. I've been lost myself for a while now, so I'm on a similar journey to understand why I carry a sadness, a trauma, an emptiness inside that nothing ever fills. So I feel you Rab. I'm with you. I see you. Love to you guys. xx

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks Neil. Your words really mean a lot.

    • @mysoullovessoul558
      @mysoullovessoul558 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TheKiltedCoaches Rab, all this reminds me of this video starting at 12:04:
      th-cam.com/video/QqxrKlAzT_M/w-d-xo.html&ab_channel=TheKiltedCoaches
      Because I found you guys at a time I was feeling lost and isolated, having moved to Australia, you really gave me a clan, a community I could be a part of and I wanted to thank you, particularly you Rab, for the reasons I mentioned above, so I sent you a gift. I watch this still from time to time to cheer me up, just cause of the happiness it gave you! HAPPY DAYS!!! Time to find those days again my friend. x

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was in decent shape in that video😃👍🏻
      You are always welcome to come back to our clan my good man, miss your banter

  • @kenmcdougall6106
    @kenmcdougall6106 ปีที่แล้ว

    Calling someone your 'brother' in some cultures is the highest compliment you can give. You guys continue to surprise and inspire me. I couldn't post my life online the way you do, but you are navigating all the issues around that with integrity, and in some strange way, even if I don't have the courage that you have, that gives me more permission to be 'me'.

  • @ClassicalFreak74
    @ClassicalFreak74 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for the honest expression of friendship and things we all struggle with. Life is a rough ride, and finding the person/people who can stick through that with you is invaluable.

  • @diazjr1975
    @diazjr1975 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    You two are my inspiration. I struggle everyday and sometimes cry when alone. I have so much on my plate, that is now a platter. As much as I think I got control, I don't. Something always happens that sends me 2 steps back. I have been watching you two for several years now and this video is simply the best. Thank you for all you do!

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Just keep pushing forwards Ric, its all we can do

    • @ericcastillo1332
      @ericcastillo1332 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Because you are worthy amigo!!🙏

  • @sean.nathan
    @sean.nathan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am so very grateful this video popped up into my view.... your separate account had begun to worry me a wee bit. The last few years have been horrendous for many, if not most. Your presence has often helped return a smile to my face on the days I was not in the mood. I am forever grateful. I too have mostly lived a life seeking validation from others, rarely giving it to myself. Watching you two, gives me hope.

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Our separate account? 🤔 we only have one ☝🏼

  • @gerardchagnon2606
    @gerardchagnon2606 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am a french-canadian so I didn't understand everything you said in this video and it won't be easy neither to express myself. But for sure. I was very moved by what you said, by your sensitivity, by your openess. I appreciate so much the way you see life, you see your own development. You offered a very precious gift with this video. Thank you so much. From now I will never look at what you do the same way. I think I will now look at what you are. And it is great to look at, very inspiring and supportive.

  • @websurfin9575
    @websurfin9575 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Coming through a strong disagreement... & then realizing that your bond together is now forever even stronger than before is solid evidence of the love & brotherhood between those 2 men! Very inspirational for sure!

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very true, what does not kill us will only make us stronger

    • @websurfin9575
      @websurfin9575 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheKiltedCoaches Keep moving forward guys! You are inspiring literally millions of people around the world! Please come to the USA... your fans want to see you!

  • @JoshSource
    @JoshSource 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this is literally the first video of you guys I've ever seen. I've never heard of this channel before and after seeing this, I have to say I'm completely invested now.

  • @willthomas3781
    @willthomas3781 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I lost my older brother to cancer at the end of June. The two of us had personalities so similar to each other. He asked me to make sure people who visited, came to visit and not to say goodbye. People who don't like to see others sad are the ones who know most what it is like to hurt. Without sadness we cannot appreciate joy and without failure we cannot celebrate success. Thank you for sharing the journey that we all take and be thankful for the bond you share.

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      “Without sadness we cannot appreciate joy”
      Love this

  • @GusMcGuire
    @GusMcGuire 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've seen your videos come up in my recommendations for a couple of years and I dip in and out - usually with a feeling of: "oh they're great guys but they've got everything sorted and I'm a bit of a mess." In that way they were inspiring to watch but also harder for me to relate to. But this video stuck with me. Seeing people like yourselves going through the same personal struggles is a lot easier to relate to and - yes - it does seem much more authentic.
    You said that these videos might not get you as many views, but I'm definitely going to watch more in future. Keep being real.

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      We are all human and have our pickles, we are just keeping things real with this vlog series and being authentic- hopefully once we find that spring in our steps again we can inspire others that it is possible

  • @dandelionezh08
    @dandelionezh08 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I admire your love for each other as brothers. I can see it genuinely!🤜🏼🤛🏻😊

  • @markjohnson1650
    @markjohnson1650 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I like both of you and I am happy you are still friends and brothers. You remind me of the kind of friendships I used to have when I was a teenager. I hope what you two have grows stronger and lasts. Take care.

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Thank you mark- i have no doubt we will still be buddies fifty years from now

  • @lencrites7044
    @lencrites7044 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    From the beginning of me catching your vlogs, I felt you both were authentic. The growth is never done. It’s an ongoing process. I know for me, sexuality was a big thing. I’m a gay man; and, can, now, accept liking/loving another man who is not gay. Keep your forward motion. I love you guys. You’re a positive spiritual source for many! 😎

  • @sgtpppr
    @sgtpppr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I've only recently found your vlog, and have been drawn in. It seems as though we're in an era where disfunction is celebrated and confrontation is the first response. You remind us that there's a better way, a more supportive option, a path that lifts us all. Thank you so much.

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Welcome to the channel steven, we release new vlogs every friday 5pm (gmt+1)

  • @cabs.
    @cabs. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What a great TH-cam recommendation. Damn, makes me think about that disagreement I had with a friend. Turns out, people are just different sometimes and we both don't need to shoulder each other's burdens, but just to understand where we're coming from and live with the differences. Watch each other grow individually --- together, if that makes sense. Still haven't talked to her and it's been months, but someday I might. Who knows? Great things can come from difficult situations. Great quote, a rising tide lifts all ships. Live by example.

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      All things can be healed in time Cabass

  • @jamesvoiss7122
    @jamesvoiss7122 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really appreciate your honesty and transparency about the challenges and difficult stuff. So many pack those feelings inside and spend their lives tripping over them. Your vulnerability in sharing your journey is a great witness to your viewers. I personally find great encouragement in what you share. Peace and blessings to you both.

  • @MMA-kw8cg
    @MMA-kw8cg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I was a teenager the first time that I heard the song, "Love lifted Me." The encouragement and love that you both share with each other and all of your viewers is overwhelming. You are a blessing and encouragement to so many people. The last two years have been so hurtful and harmful to so many people all over the world. The words you have shared today have been a healing balm to me. Everyone goes through struggles and disappointments. The Best is Yet to Come. Thank you for all that you do for so many of us. I love you both!

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you, we have been positively overwhelmed by the response from this video- who knew that keeping it real would help so many people out there

  • @quinnvibe3359
    @quinnvibe3359 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    A rising tide lifts all ships. Love this. From America, pulling for you both. You are showing us what healthy masculinity looks like. Good on you. I’m honored to share your journeys. ♥️

  • @nomebear
    @nomebear 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm an old guy, in my eighth decade, and today I'm blessed to still have my buddies from my childhood. Together we've survived wars, pandemics, personal tragedies, and some of our spouses have made their transitions. Our children have moved on with their own lives. As close friends, we have witnessed our parents grow old, taken care of them in their old age, and have held each other as we buried them, along with many of our siblings. It's so much easier to weather through life with my lifelong companions that it would be alone. Here we remain in excellent health in our old age, but one glaring truth reveals itself: The good died young, and we're still here.

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow that’s incredible! The bond you all must have mist be so strong. What a heart warming story

    • @nomebear
      @nomebear 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What does that say about us?

  • @davidanthony3781
    @davidanthony3781 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You dudes are bright lights in this world- thank you.

  • @jamilamcwhirter58
    @jamilamcwhirter58 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Oh my gosh, I just said to my husband the other day that I felt that the two of you were going through something. I can’t explain it. Something in the dynamic had changed. Nothing that I think would be obvious. Just something I couldn’t put my finger on. Thank you guys for sharing from your hearts. Know that the members of the Clan do love you. We really do! Blessings on your personal journeys. As you encourage us to put ourselves first, remember to take the time to do the same.

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      We were going through separate things thats bled into our friendship, we quickly sorted the friendship and are now working to stop the bleeds in our lives

    • @billmccusker6006
      @billmccusker6006 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TheKiltedCoaches w

  • @stevenbakos
    @stevenbakos 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Rab had me in tears. Been watching you guys for several years. Life’s been hard for all of us. Therapy is a great thing. Talking about your issues will set you free. Love u guys.

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thanks mate, 100% agree- thank you for your continued support

  • @michaelcolors
    @michaelcolors 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    A major component of a successful relationship is a close and endearing friendship. And, I definitely see this with both of you. Thanks so much for your integrity and exampleship. I myself am readying to move forward with finding a significant other, and of course in Spirit's timing. As I have looked on the inner levels, I have gotten clear that I, too, have had prior incarnations where I've had wonderful, meaningful relationships. These mean a lot, across the spectrum of one's total sum of experiences. Thank Spirit for these times and endeavor to cultivate gratitude in all ways! 💜

  • @lchanceiv
    @lchanceiv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    That was truly touching. Thank you for showing strength and vulnerability. Thank you for being human.

  • @mikec2969
    @mikec2969 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I loved your authenticity here. Made this a great video. You’re blessed to have each other.

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks mike and yes we are very lucky to have one another

  • @darylheppner6095
    @darylheppner6095 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hey guys - really amazed by the positive masculinity that you’re sharing. This gives me a shimmer of hope for humanity.

  • @kristinem6118
    @kristinem6118 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Virtual hugs for you both. You are angels.

  • @cal2538
    @cal2538 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Gentlemen, your energies over the years have always been infectious and so many times just plain heartening to see. Yes, they were goofy (the ballet and new eposides were a riot) but serious too, especially when it came both physical and mental health. What makes me now even prouder to be your fan is seeing this evolution of your emotional growth, this maturity stemming from your acceptance through self-awareness. I'm no coach but I would like to share this little wisdom from my experiennces, and that is do not chase in the pursuit of happiness, but stop and just breathe, And in stillness things will become clear. Best of luck coaches and hugs from me too.

  • @tadore5046
    @tadore5046 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you for sharing your vulnerability; it’s helpful. Disagreements and “fallouts” can be transformative and I’ve always said that in the future, a majority of us will look back at these last several years and see them as profound growth years. I’ve followed you guys for some time and enjoy your content. Life is not all sunshine and rainbows and it’s heartening to see that a couple young lads like yourself can fall deep into emotional trenches just like everyone else. Let’s stay strong together! Looking forward to more of your real content, and Rab, I can sense your pain; I can’t wait to see your authentic smile again.

  • @dougrorapaugh5013
    @dougrorapaugh5013 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Very moving and inspiring. Thank you, guys. I sort of drifted away from watching you as regularly as I did for a while. Today is my first day back and it seems somehow fateful that this is the video I returned to. What has always drawn me to and inspired me about you is the authentic portrayal of your friendship. We've only met through TH-cam but I respond to you as though we're all 3 brothers. Forgive me if that comes across as presumptuous. Thank you for your honesty and integrity and for the love you share so generously and beautifully with the world.

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Welcome back Doug, we will have a weekly vlog like this come out every friday- we will still have a polished video (possibly once per month) but the vlogs will be weekly. Its great to have you back

  • @awesomeman1234567890
    @awesomeman1234567890 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    I thought you guys were going to finally come out. But joking aside thank you for sharing the vulnerable bits, it’s inspiring and it helps me to remember and appreciate my own friendships. Crack on

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Always appreciate every friendship and relationship, thats what makes them grow

    • @ericgutierrez2936
      @ericgutierrez2936 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, the clickbait is palpable. Maybe COVID also brought low view numbers. My advice is instead of implying a sexual relationship - just soap each other up butt naked in the Highlands. Problem solved. Lol.

    • @Shipslitz
      @Shipslitz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      LOL!! 😂 me too. I was fast forwarding. making sure I didn't miss it

    • @AnggaSteve
      @AnggaSteve 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      So, they're not a couple? Just bromance?

    • @jasonquick635
      @jasonquick635 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Seriously. I don’t want to say they’re queer baiting. But, this title literally had me like FINALLY!!!!!!

  • @tonyajacobs2510
    @tonyajacobs2510 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    You two are awesome! Thank you for being your genuine, authentic selves with all of us. We love you guys!

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you tonya for all your continued support

  • @digabledoug
    @digabledoug 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think this happens a lot with TH-camrs and content creators. It's very easy to lose yourself when creating something that you think people want. You start changing the way you are, what you say, how you act, how you feel to please other people. In this case, for the views, the comments, the likes, etc. It's the same thing that happens with actors sometimes and they have to step away from it to get perspective and find themselves again. Who they really are and not what character they're playing or what character people want them to be. I think it is great that you guys discovered this about yourselves, recognize it and are trying to learn and grow. It is obvious you guys love each other and are like brothers. Use that strength to find both who you are as individual men and as friends.

  • @jamesdearth2145
    @jamesdearth2145 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I always say, "Honesty is ecstasy".
    Thanks guys for being open and vulnerable.... As men we need that space too.
    I definitely experienced the feels on this one.
    Your hearts are shining through.... Thanks for sharing them

  • @ReasonQuest
    @ReasonQuest 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The honesty you two convey is so flippin' COMPELLING. Thank you. Thanks for sharing your honesty... your truth. You two are the epitome of honest friends. And the fact that you openly share your honesty and EMOTIONS is so inspirational! Thank you! And I get the impression that you are not a romantic couple, but just genuine friends. Either way, I love you both! Just wow. (Makes me want to live in Scotland!)

  • @TheKiltedAdventurer
    @TheKiltedAdventurer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Guys I love the behind the scenes nature of this one. Your channel has an extremely high entertainment and production value (something I learn from), however the authentic coaches are amazing! We are all on a journey...Good luck finding the smiles again! Beautiful episode ❤️

  • @Joe-nv2cn
    @Joe-nv2cn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    You guys are awesome! I got choked up watching this video. You are both inspirational to all who watch you.
    I can feel the love between the two of you. It’s a beautiful gift of life to have someone that close. Thank you for sharing your feelings and being so real. ❤️

  • @faustp23
    @faustp23 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have been exactly where you both are. it's always another factor that is the root of the problem and you both seem to have had the luck to understand that. It's beautiful to witness genuine love , hang on to it with every fiber of your being. What you both have cultivated over time is rare and hard to find. I have been with the channel from the beginning and your relationship with each other is enviable. Remember that a relationship is two individuals coming together by choice. You are both in a beautiful moment in a man's life where you re-evaluate and reasses everything you've been tought or learned through others and now the questions begin....WHY? Do I really believe that? do I really like that? and so on. It's life changing in a good way and you grow into your true self. Sending you both lots of ❤ and 🤗's

  • @bostith2236
    @bostith2236 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Yes we are all on a personal journey and I'm a lot older than the both of you. It is worth every step. Big cyber hugs to you both. You are inspirations.

  • @jfxl1977
    @jfxl1977 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's very refreshing to see men who can express what's going on internally, with personal awareness, and emotion. Thank you for sharing what's going on. There are so many people showing a "reality" that isn't real.

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      100% reality isnt always real.. or certainly what people portray.
      Thank you for your words

  • @richards5843
    @richards5843 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sometimes you have to separate to realize what you really have..

  • @ravenregards
    @ravenregards 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just now have come across your videos. I think it's because of a youtube algorithm that suggested your video because I've been searching for shorts online. Ha, who would have guessed. Anyway I'm glad. Your sincerity and casual demeanor is what this world needs even craves for. I need to catch up on your videos, maybe do some binge watching. Thanks so much. God bless you as we all journey together.

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Welcome to the channel Raven😃👍🏻

    • @ravenregards
      @ravenregards 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TheKiltedCoaches Thank you. I might add that 40% of my ancestry dna is from Scotland!

  • @douglasmclean2802
    @douglasmclean2802 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you for digging down deep and sharing with us. Many of us have felt like this over the past few years - feeling lost, unsure of ourselves, questioning what we're doing with our lives. Nice to see and hear from those that many people look up to as role models feel the same way.

  • @ncubesays
    @ncubesays 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Crazy thing is that I stopped watching you guys about a year ago because I found your happy go lucky energy a bit intimidating. Thank you for sharing this vulnerability and for being real. Notifications are back on 🔔

  • @MrItIsMyOpinion
    @MrItIsMyOpinion 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Male friendships, when they are true and honest can last for eternity. Disagreements are Ok. You two are separate thinking beings, each with your own views of the world. But you too are experts and capable of reaching a common ground. A super uber hurricane cannot and is not able to break you guys apart. You guys are in a life long journey. God meant for you guys to be together as brothers, until your physical bodies cease to exist but your souls are bonded.
    Rob broke my heart. I’m a contagious cryer. I saw Rob cry and My tears came out immediately. You guys are real men. A real man is able to show his vulnerable side. You guys are just an inspiration to the world.

  • @snowbrush2311
    @snowbrush2311 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for being raw and real. No one is perfect and everyone has personal struggles, whether they show them or not. It's only human. I have watched you from the beginning and I have see your growth and success. What you do takes a lot of energy out of you, physically, mentally and emotionally. Be kind to yourselves and above all, take care.

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No-one is perfect indeed, wise words😃👍🏻

  • @jorodriguezj
    @jorodriguezj 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I really like your videos, I've recently found this chanel you both guys are awesome. Greetings from Colombia
    🇨🇴🇨🇴🇨🇴

  • @robertsterett4260
    @robertsterett4260 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It is very clear to me that both of you are doing something great in this life. Your both packed full of positive energy and love. We all get drained down from time to time. I am surprised you both can breath, your Hearts as so big, there could not be much room for the lungs! I love you and I keep you in my prayers. Bless you and your families to receive all you need.
    Rob

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you rob for your kind words- they mean a lot to us

  • @Tofog22000
    @Tofog22000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Sending you both positive thoughts and energy! Being open and vulnerable like this only makes you more relatable. 👊

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks Rob, always a pleasure to hear from you

  • @dariotime
    @dariotime 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hi guys! Thank you for making this heartfelt video and sharing your true story. I got choked-up watching it because Rab articulated exactly what I've been going through lately. I used to be the funny guy, the jokester, the guy who could find humor and fun in any situation. Now I can barely smile and I rarely feel true joy. When I do smile it seems forced and a bit fake. It all started during the lockdowns and I've been struggling to find my old self again. Increased exercise is helping. Thankfully, I have a few good people in my life and of course my dog! Nothing cheers me up like playing with my dog. Thanks again. You guys helped me today. I look forward to more of your Vlogs.

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I hope
      You can find your smile too Dario

  • @johnpriley
    @johnpriley 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "Understanding your mind, understanding your heart" Thank you both for sharing your journey, your authenticity and love with us.

  • @tracyt-bird3509
    @tracyt-bird3509 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Oh, now I want to give you both a hug. This vlog is perfect and compliments the advice you gave me at the beginning of the week. The looking for validation thing resonates so much with me, and I know I have always been wired that way. I've got to try and find ways to stop doing that now. Thanks both for being real and good luck with your own journeys.

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks t-bird, we really appreciate it

  • @robertlwagnerjr
    @robertlwagnerjr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    WOW. This was the best video I've seen you post so far. I'm turning 60 soon, and I get it. I used to be happy too. Smiled all the time. I was the one everybody wanted to be around because I was the light in that just walked into the room. But this year has really dimmed that light. For me, I sometimes need someone to shine their light so I can see more clearly. I'm not to ashamed to admit there are times when I just really need a hug. I had tears running down my face almost from the beginning of this video. I've never had a friendship that is a meaningful as the one you two share. I ask Santa for a big brother when I was only 4 years old. I'm still searching for a brother. Just know that watching you both these past few years, sometimes it is the closest thing to a real hug I receive and that keeps me going. Take care. Hugs for you both.

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you robert, is there anyone around you to give you that much needed hug?

    • @robertlwagnerjr
      @robertlwagnerjr 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheKiltedCoaches Just keep making videos, those are like hugs for me. Thanks.

  • @Ladiopfa
    @Ladiopfa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Damn, you guys are wonderful!
    I wish I had friends like you. Thanks for the great videos!

  • @WadeSnow-k6p
    @WadeSnow-k6p 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    THANK YOU FOR SHOWING TRUE FRIENDSHIP AND TRUE CARES AND CONCERNS ABOUT LIFE AND EACH OTHER. DEARLY BELOVED YOU BOTH ARE THE KIND OF FRIENDS THAT YOU KEEP FOR EVER AND EVER . TRUE LOVE.🎉❤❤

  • @lencrites7044
    @lencrites7044 ปีที่แล้ว

    This past few months have been really interesting as far as TH-cam vlogs go. About a dozen or more vlogs I’ve watched regularly have terminated or just disappeared. I have to ask why. It seems to me it is about personal growth (spirituality) and the change/awareness that seems to manifest itself. This is very positive. I watch Suspicious Observers often. It speaks about earth changes and how the sun affects all of life. The sun is going through an active cycle with CMEs that could destroy life as we know it. It happens every 12,000 years. Minor ones happen about 6,000 years. Our atmosphere is weakening. Oxygen is lessening. It is claimed we are in the midst of the 6th extinction. I support you and your vlog and look forward to see you on the other side. You both are incredible men!

  • @allansheehan2033
    @allansheehan2033 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is why I have so much respect for the two of you and why you both inspire me to push thru each day till I can't push anymore !! Fantastic !!

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Allan, we hope you are keeping well

    • @allansheehan2033
      @allansheehan2033 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheKiltedCoaches hope your day is a great one, thank you for your thoughts !!

  • @roysmith7087
    @roysmith7087 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've been like that exactly.
    Seeking validation.
    Feeling I only have worth when I'm helping others.
    Like If I'm not making people laugh,or doing something, I'm not doing something worth while.

  • @frankfrantisek
    @frankfrantisek 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the first video I'm watching and all I see is beauty. Inside out. Authenticity and sensitivity are the superpower of the future!🙏

  • @richiej5884
    @richiej5884 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sending you both virtual hugs....loved your Vlog. Inspiring , uplifting and being true to yourself. I feel like I've been on one long crooked path all my life that does not seem to end. And now knowing, I'm not alone. Thank you....Smiles...☺👍☺

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You are never alone ritchie even when it feels that way

    • @richiej5884
      @richiej5884 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@TheKiltedCoaches Thanks so much and it really means a lot. 👍

  • @scdobserver835
    @scdobserver835 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The bro love is real.❤️👍🏻💪🏼

  • @Lnstrq
    @Lnstrq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You guys are inspiring and it is beautiful to see you be true to yourselves and one another. I enjoy your videos and appreciate the realness you bring to them. Hard times and good times. We are all better when we can work through to the other side. Thank you both.

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      100%, and we will get there. Bext vlog comes out later today👍🏻

  • @lynnmai3282
    @lynnmai3282 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Oh man guys, this is awesome. I’ve recently had the same thoughts about myself and how I validate my worth. Thanks for sharing!!

  • @butchie54
    @butchie54 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It has been a real struggle for the past years and it's not finished yet. We have to find the healing within ourselves before we can heal others. You boys will find your truth. Hugs.😊😊

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Find the healing from within- like that mike

  • @andycassell6978
    @andycassell6978 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had bookmarked this video when it was first posted to come back to it and watch it. I just finished it and the timing of it for me was really special. I recently embarked on my own mental and physical health improvement journey to bring out my most authentic self. May your journeys bring the JOY and SMILES that you discussed in the vlog. I am already feeling much better on mine by focusing on as much POSITIVE energy in all things. It’s transformative and I’m grateful for that! Thanks for sharing this video.

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are most welcome andy and thank you for coming back to it, i know i save videos to watch later all the time and then forget to return to them🙄

  • @TheEm0866
    @TheEm0866 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you both for such an emotional vid. My own personal journey over the last couple of years has been tough after losing my Dad in 2020 and then 10 months later losing my Mum. Even now I carry that feeling of loss which at times is overwhelming. But I take each day at a time and try to focus on the good and happy times with them both. You guys are amazing and keep doing what you're doing as it does helps others. Wonderful that you both have such an amazing friendship...something that I call "brothers from another mother" . It's very rare but its OK to have disagreements, big or small. Your strong bond will always see you through it. Sending you both BIG HUGS FROM WALES! 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Im very sorry for your losses, both parents must have been tough, more power to you for struggling on and taking each day as it comes

  • @MauricioGuevaradiaz
    @MauricioGuevaradiaz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    what a beautiful video seeing a couple of human beings growing up, big strong hug from Bogota

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Many thanks Mauricio.. we definitely matured a little in this video

  • @tonyg9486
    @tonyg9486 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you friends. You have awoken me to seek who I am and what makes me tick as I have been sleep walking through life well before 2020. So I guess it’s your voices I have been waiting for because no one close to me has gotten my attention. I’m very much looking forward to the upcoming episodes. You guys are the best and I wish you both a fruitful journey of discovery.

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sleep walking through life is an incredible term and very true to what many of us do. Thank you tony for your comment

  • @umeshjoshi5059
    @umeshjoshi5059 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Stay strong and happy guys. We love you both.

  • @jamesburress2284
    @jamesburress2284 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love you guys and your absolute honesty!And so appreciate your lifelong friendship and love for each other!!

  • @nuglyduck
    @nuglyduck 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A very emotional insight into the real life experiences of two awesome guys. You both give so much of yourselves to others, all of the time. All the happy, jokey, entertaining videos are great for putting a smile on our faces; but the reason I joined is because I always felt you were both willing to put your real selves in front of the camera when it mattered. Sending kind thoughts to both of you xx

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Sharon, we will be keeping it real in these vlogs moving forwards

  • @WBaker-yo4vq
    @WBaker-yo4vq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like that you show that you love each other. In this world today it seems rare. I have a friend like that and I hold it very near and dear to my hart, because I know it is rare. Keep up the good work, heads up and know we love you both. We are all on this blue marble together, be kind to one another.❤️

  • @octhom1
    @octhom1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for this as I think it hits us all and what we have gone thru in the last couple of years. We need to all take care of ourselves and also help others! Keep going and doing what you are doing, and we will all be here for you as much as you are for us! Virtual Hugs to you both!

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks thom for your wise and kind words

  • @alistaircooke7000
    @alistaircooke7000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can't believe I've been watching you guys for 5 years now. All good, Tempus Fuget

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      And we appreciate all your support Alistair

  • @mudbrook2001
    @mudbrook2001 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you. I've always had the feeling that you two were performing for the camera at times.
    I had always wondered, or hoped, that your relationship was something deeper. At the beginning of this VLOG, when you alluded to self discovery, I had really hoped that you were coming out! But, I suppose that you did in a way. I look forward to many future VLOGs, watching Stephen and Rab, who happen to wear kilts.

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      We are like brothers, and this was an emotional one as we had been under a lot of strain. We are mostly real, especially when we do our live stuff, but this one spoke more to the heart

  • @victreebel170
    @victreebel170 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just thought to myself "what ever happened to those kilted guys?" and looked you up. Delighted to go on this introspective journey with you both. Times have been rough, we should all be more in tune with our emotions.

  • @kevinmatt1052
    @kevinmatt1052 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful baring of souls - we should all be so lucky to have that brother (or sister) to share that vulnerable side. You’re inspirations in so many ways because you get it! Much love and respect to you both.

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks kevin, we are blessed to have one another

  • @2615ParkAvenueAssociates
    @2615ParkAvenueAssociates 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a wonderful vlog, guys. It's been your best yet! Being so honest and true with us is wonderful and thank you for your authentic selves. You're both so inspiring to so many as coaches and good human beings. You're terrific. Merci.

  • @duncanamc
    @duncanamc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great role models on how we should treat each other and also find out who we really are. I think this next chapter in your lives will be th best.

  • @lamarblake
    @lamarblake 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    wow. What an honest revealing video this was. Not only were you guys being true but true with each other. This is uplifting especially for men who were raised not to show their feelings. You two show that it's possible for two men, who are not gay, to be open, honest and loving with each other. Respect.

  • @Vvexplorer
    @Vvexplorer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    im crying ...love this love thr message love you both

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Daniel, we are releasing these every friday. You can follow along the series

  • @fannycraddock99
    @fannycraddock99 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy is a bumpy road upon which we all travel. You guys do a wonderful job of helping to smooth out the bumps but you also need to take care of yourselves. Brothers in arms indeed. Thanks for being so inspiring.

  • @clarencehershberger2058
    @clarencehershberger2058 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your authentic selves, all the best brothers! I felt a real closeness to both of you.

  • @mariusbaltazarrozenberg-ho9367
    @mariusbaltazarrozenberg-ho9367 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love you both - you're always so encouraging & inspiring. Mountains of Gratitude, Oceans of Love, Respect as high & vast as The Eternal Sky.

  • @Funkymanx
    @Funkymanx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Guys you are lucky you have each other, the people love you guys they notice your presence you are not alone, just pray and be patient , everything in this world have a solution

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pray and be patient, i like that🙏👍🏻

  • @BDBELL101
    @BDBELL101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Both of you guys truly are the best! I love you with all my heart, thank you for sharing your lives with us all. Brice, from pdx, usa. 💗🙏💗