How we met and are we gay?

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  • @Telmimore
    @Telmimore 7 ปีที่แล้ว +236

    "We never acted gay nor straight. We are just being ourselves" Powerful message. Much respect.

    • @thuledragon6663
      @thuledragon6663 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      They look like two real men, it's not about being straight or gay
      It's about liking whatever the fuck you like and not letting anyone tell you otherwise

    • @PhilAlumb
      @PhilAlumb 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They are two men having sexual congress with one another. It is fancy word play.

  • @VulcanTrekkie45
    @VulcanTrekkie45 5 ปีที่แล้ว +639

    “Are they gay? Are they straight? Are they bisexual?”
    “They’re Scottish.”

    • @PatrickBarnett1969
      @PatrickBarnett1969 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yaaas

    • @impunitythebagpuss
      @impunitythebagpuss 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      And pretty darned cute!

    • @dariusanderton3760
      @dariusanderton3760 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      so does that mean they fancy sheep ?

    • @JackBlack-cy1wp
      @JackBlack-cy1wp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Only gay Yanks wear kilts, an English invention.
      Real Scots laugh at them.
      Kilts = Skirts = Gay.

    • @davidsmith6661
      @davidsmith6661 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@dariusanderton3760 No, that's the Welsh. You can tell by the worried look on the sheep's faces.

  • @michaelraymond952
    @michaelraymond952 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Regardless of your orientation, I think everyone admires you and wants you “on their team.” (This is especially important to gay people who are constantly looking for representation and wonderful men who break stereotypes.) I appreciate that you are simultaneously on all teams and none at all. It’s not a coach’s job to judge anything other than their team members’ progress toward the goal and you are clearly good coaches. Keep up the good work and continue this beautiful friendship.

  • @SWDetboy
    @SWDetboy 7 ปีที่แล้ว +403

    How can any man or woman not at least have a crush on these guys

    • @tubercelli
      @tubercelli 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Totally agree. Scottish is attractive-period.

    • @alexharrington6459
      @alexharrington6459 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      I'm a man and I think they're hot and I thought I was straight!

    • @billgreen1861
      @billgreen1861 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@alexharrington6459
      Funny thing a woman can say that another woman is beautiful or attractive and nobody wink an eye, let a man say the same to another man and he's "gay". Why the double standard? And I agree with you.-

    • @petemavus2948
      @petemavus2948 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Isn't it bromantic?
      ( singing like Edith Bunker )

    • @johnifly
      @johnifly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I do, ESPECIALLY the guy on the left with the dirty-blonde hair!

  • @georgehudson2878
    @georgehudson2878 7 ปีที่แล้ว +591

    I've never really thought about this seriously - I've assumed that you are probably straight but who cares? You're positive, and funny and instructive and entertaining. Because I'm gay doesn't mean I want you to be - I want you to be really - you - that'll work.

    • @SJPDurham
      @SJPDurham 7 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Keven Brandão The guys are just comfortable in their own skin.
      They just happen to have a following of a mixture of people.
      Keep up the good work guys. You rock. 👍🏻🇬🇧

    • @CoteAndre
      @CoteAndre 7 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      In the video, they didn't say if they were gay or straight.
      Their whole point is, being gay or straight shouldn't matter if you have a valuable message to share.
      They're just being themselves.

    • @RembertSchofield
      @RembertSchofield 7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Is it a valid question? Frankly, I don't care. Yes, I am but not care. I like the fact they are comfortable within themselves. I wish other men could learn from their example. They seem like fun nice guys. Not looking to jump them.

    • @zonykk
      @zonykk 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Andre Cote Exactly!! that is the idea of the video.. your sexual orientation should not be matter

    • @Vvexplorer
      @Vvexplorer 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      My exact same thoughts....

  • @elliottrosenthal685
    @elliottrosenthal685 6 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    You guys didn't need to address your sexual orientation! You both are classy men. Keep doing what you're doing. You made a friend here. Have a great day.

  • @refingels
    @refingels 7 ปีที่แล้ว +772

    - Dad, what does the word 'gay' mean?
    - It means happy.
    - Oh, are you gay?
    - No, son, I have a wife.

    • @BuffaloBasquo
      @BuffaloBasquo 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Aino Refingels Brilliant! Lmao. Excellent marriage joke,even my wife laughed.

    • @sparkleprizm199
      @sparkleprizm199 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Aino Refingels lol

    • @agilsonjunior5157
      @agilsonjunior5157 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Aino Refingels hahahahahahahaha

    • @platinumrubies85
      @platinumrubies85 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Gah damm. Lol

    • @kencollins1186
      @kencollins1186 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Someone told me, "Gay means 'happy,' nothing more, nothing less."
      I said, "Well then, I have some news that will make you very gay. Yes, you'll be very gay to find out that your car is highly rated."
      The someone replied, "I give up. It doesn't mean 'happy' any more."

  • @OPSTBSTL76
    @OPSTBSTL76 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Loved the story of how the Kilted Coaches came into being and how your friendship began. You handle the gay mania very well too. Your positivity and sincerity come through in all your do. Love you guys even more after this.

  • @michaelshehane2112
    @michaelshehane2112 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Gay or straight, who cares!! You proved you guys are beautiful inside and out!!!love y’all!

  • @duirmuid
    @duirmuid 7 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    Came for the hunky guys in the kilts, stayed for the knowledge. Keep up the good work guys.

  • @Jadewizard
    @Jadewizard 7 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    I ❤ you guys! As a gay man, I really appreciate your message. Thank you for positively asserting your viewpoints. it's refreshing to hear and I definitely can relate to these matters! But far more importantly, as a person, thanks for all your great work. Your videos always make me smile and inspire me to be healthier and get on over to visit Scotland again! sincerely, your fan from Santa Rosa, California-- Lito

  • @fritzrathmann7318
    @fritzrathmann7318 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    After years of passing over your videos on youtube, this is the first time I've actually watched one. What a wonderful, affirming and strong outlook on life. You've really impressed me with your honesty and forthcoming attitudes. Good on you.

    • @fritzrathmann7318
      @fritzrathmann7318 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh, yeah. I've subscribed and am going back to binge your vlogs from the beginning.

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Glad you understood this message Fritz and again, welcome to the channel

  • @AlexKapos
    @AlexKapos 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You fellas made me well up with tears on the train. What beautiful sentiments... and I couldn't agree more. Gorgeous inside and out. Love you fellas - keep the inspirational videos comin!

    • @jackt993
      @jackt993 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alex Kapos for piss sakes really?

  • @qjazz28
    @qjazz28 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    you guys are great as you are...I love watching your videos. keep up the great work!

  • @drewburton8129
    @drewburton8129 5 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Well done guys. Love how you handled this. I am Canadian and often get the comment from Americans “ah, you are in a same sex marriage” I always respond in Canada we just call it marriage. Marriage is marriage, fitness is fitness. What difference does your sexual orientation make?

    • @dissentingjustice7539
      @dissentingjustice7539 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      When people see really goo heterosexual friends hanging out all the time, they often say "are you two a couple" or "you two are such a cute couple." Heterosexual people do not respond to that by saying "what difference does your sexual orientation make"? People who speculate about their sexual orientation are often impressed by their intimacy and bond. They could ask "are you guys married," and many do. Some use a shorthand "are you gay"? It can come from a good place, not a bad one. Also, this is not a national identity question. People in Canada have wondered if I am gay too.

  • @kyeboy
    @kyeboy 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    i fucking LOVE that you didn't answer the question, because while dancing around the answer to the question, you touched on a LOT of subjects that needed to be spoken to.
    The gay community has been PRAYING for people to embrace the kind of openness and non-judgemental stance you two adopt with ease, grace, authenticity and humor. And here you are expressing it with all the Pride you two behemoths could muster, and to that I say, Good On You!!

  • @Millinch1
    @Millinch1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I'm gay and at no point did I think you guys were gay. To me your are just two guys that take the piss and make some seriously funny vids. You guys have made getting back in shape for me fun. Sorry you guys have had to deal with all this sexuality nonsense. They're here, they're straight, get over it. Stay fit and funny mates

  • @garmrd.396
    @garmrd.396 4 ปีที่แล้ว +196

    Here's my take: No, it doesn't matter if they are gay are straight. It shouldn't matter if they are gay are straight. BUT ... if there is a young boy out there who IS questioning his sexuality, and needs a role model to turn to (regardless of the reason - he's Scottish, he wants to be a bodybuilder, he likes kilts), take the initiative and tell him the truth. You might save his life.
    It took me FOREVER to come out. What motivated me to do so was because I was a swimmer, and Greg Louganis came out. He was my hero. And I finally knew I was "okay".
    We're past the point in 2021 where people need to hide. Answer the question. If it loses you a few numbers, "fook 'em". It probably won't.

    • @landerito9577
      @landerito9577 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      You are right, but you know. It's not their responsibility to do that. These men only want to inspire through exercise, that's all and it is ok.

    • @toddemeott5251
      @toddemeott5251 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I trying looking at things from both sides alway😊but u make a great point my friend if there's a young man out there looking for a roll model 😎when your out there with a you tube channel for people to see know matter what it's about people are going to ask questions 😜but I like there positive message and there knowledge about fitness 👍🏻

    • @landerito9577
      @landerito9577 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@toddemeott5251 I agree, there is definitely a great message out there. I am part of the LGBT community and I get inspired by men that are into teaching how to workout, no matter their sexual orientation.

    • @davidsalter3933
      @davidsalter3933 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      A perfect comment! A straight man who says it doesn't matter whether a celebrity is gay or is missing the point. The LGBTQ community is a minority and would like role models too!

    • @tubercelli
      @tubercelli 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I love THIS video. Your reply is understandable but they are updating you one step further... that it is a non issue. They give people permission to be what they are and act how ever they are without any label. It’s not hiding - it is equalizing in fact when that question is removed from the conversation. Is he or isn’t he? What is better to observe is that it is a man. To better illustrate the point I was recently in Croatia and there no one differentiate between gay or straight it doesn’t matter whether you’re manly or feminine if you have a penis you’re a man and if you have a penis and you want to love another man it doesn’t mean you’re gay even if you’re Homo erotic it just means you’re a human being they don’t put it on the spectrum the way American culture has conditioner people to think. I found quite quite enlightening and refreshing. Yeah it might be a little bit confusing but if you think someone’s hot tell him no oneno one’s going to be upset.

  • @FuzzyLiger
    @FuzzyLiger 7 ปีที่แล้ว +304

    I'm gay, I don't care if you two are gay, straight or something in between. Hell ya can be lizard men in human skin for all I care.
    The simple fact you are trying to help people is all that matters.
    Are ya sexy, yes. Why, because your fit, healthy and happy! Not because you may or may not be gay.
    So rock on and be you!

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  7 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      +maurice oakes thank you maurice-and we love the lizard conspiracy reference 😉
      Have an awesome weekend

    • @gawddang
      @gawddang 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Maurice....would you go out for pizza with me?

    • @MrCarmen35
      @MrCarmen35 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The Kilted Coaches m

    • @aliqadir4823
      @aliqadir4823 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      maurice oakes mee too

    • @aeonjoey3d
      @aeonjoey3d 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      EX.ACT.LEE. applause

  • @R08Tam
    @R08Tam 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Well said guys. I watch your channel because you are such good fun and clearly have a a great rapport both with your audience and with each other. The fact that you are great eye candy is a bonus. Keep up the good work!

  • @tylervanmeter5628
    @tylervanmeter5628 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I fall in love a little more every time I watch you guys! So positive and inspiring! Your' attitude adds to the attractiveness. Keep it up boys!

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      oh we will :) and thank you. have you seen todays release yet? 'sticks and stones'

  • @dayne1267
    @dayne1267 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I NEVER comment on videos, just not me...but....you're great guys. Love the honesty and integrity. Just by the by, I've gotten some excellent exercise tips from you guys so thanks. Keep up the entertaining and informative videos.

  • @augustusmaximus8784
    @augustusmaximus8784 4 ปีที่แล้ว +215

    so glad you guys are OK that i fantasize about you in the scottish mountains having a good old Brokeback Mountain moment ;-)

    • @CharlieJohnson963
      @CharlieJohnson963 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      🤣🤣😂🤣

    • @djlondon7956
      @djlondon7956 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ewww the midges! Imagine!

    • @mikerieger1034
      @mikerieger1034 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      As a complement I think you both are cute gay or not

    • @giuliatasso4462
      @giuliatasso4462 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's this kind of comment that makes people homophobic!

    • @walterscott2286
      @walterscott2286 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes....while me playing their bags and pipes...

  • @johnghopkinson6552
    @johnghopkinson6552 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I am a gay man, and I have always liked you guys and I think your both are extremely funny and all together Awesome!!

  • @SahanTheMighty
    @SahanTheMighty 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    You guys have a lot of love for each other and that's what's shinning through and making viewers guess, pry, hope, pray and fantasise. At the end of the day, it's the love that is making people wonder. And it's the love that keeps them coming back for more. It's not the sexuality, it's the love, fun and friendship that's the draw card. Sexuality is hollow without love. Love trumps. Clearly, love wins... again. Keep it up ...errr, you know what I mean. #RabForPresident

  • @dutcharnout
    @dutcharnout 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love and appreciate you both so much. Keep living in authenticity and heart, I’m doing my part.. thanks for doing yours.

  • @solo1780
    @solo1780 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love to you from California! Thanks for taking the time to educate folks that haven't given this topic thoughtful consideration.

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Unfortunately the very people who need educating are the ones who don’t listen. Thanks for the cool comment

  • @michaelpiatt405
    @michaelpiatt405 7 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    Thank you for focusing on your positive message and making exercise fun for me, again. I know I'm in the right place.

    • @jackjohnson8636
      @jackjohnson8636 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Michael Piatt com do it to me daddy bear make me milt

  • @chanjcm
    @chanjcm 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    You guys are awesome!! Who the feck cares if you're straight or gay? You're so fun to watch. You're entertaining, motivating, and encouraging! Part of the draw of your videos is how authentic you both are and how great your friendship is! Keep being you!! Much love! 💜💜

  • @davidbarton451
    @davidbarton451 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love the message you stand for! Always be yourselves and please keep staying positive!

  • @prttymn
    @prttymn 7 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Gay or Straight, don't care, as long as you keep takin' the piss, and gettin' yer kit off, i'll keep watching

  • @stevet41616
    @stevet41616 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    What a beautiful message, guys!

  • @phillipbernal574
    @phillipbernal574 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    We went from a love that dare not speak its name, to the one that just wont shut the fuck up! I am gay but love the fact that ALL men are learning to JUST BE! I use your posts to encourage me to get back in shape and look great in a kilt. I'm 56 young and love the humor and cussing! Keep up the great work Gents!

  • @27faun
    @27faun 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    They're brotherly. I have two friends who I have brotherly relationships with and both of them are straight men, while I am gay.

  • @Mr05241948
    @Mr05241948 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    A true friend is a gift to be treasured for life.

  • @billycarroll9153
    @billycarroll9153 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    All the people here who have commented “who cares” about their sexuality, is the REAL gift.
    That’s what gives me hope about the future. It’s time we just treat each other as people and not give a damn about who they choose to love.
    Happy New Year All !!!

    • @nichr165
      @nichr165 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I completely agree.
      I mean I'm gay, but that is actually only important when I'm lokking for a date. I'm not hiding it in any way, and everyone around me knows. But unless someone is interested in dating me, it's not really that interesting.

    • @billycarroll9153
      @billycarroll9153 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@nichr165 we are on the same page.
      Being gay is such a small part of who I am as a man. There is so much more to me than what I do in bed.

    • @nichr165
      @nichr165 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@billycarroll9153 exactly. And the notion I sometimes here, that people have a right to know, as they are saying that they have been told that there fans has a right to know, is simply stupid.

  • @josephvalenti7268
    @josephvalenti7268 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You men are wonderful! I am a 64 year old gay man with a disability, and doing your exercises, slower than most has given me more strength and balance, and flexiability! It is wonderful that you look after, and care about people, and to me that makes you guys super human beings!

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      thats awesome to hear Joseph. keep us informed of your progress sir as we love to hear how our subscribers are doing

  • @monty2000usa
    @monty2000usa 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is your most healthy philosophical lesson yet. Totally enjoyed hearing your point of view. Probably because mine is the same.

  • @impunitythebagpuss
    @impunitythebagpuss 5 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    "Are they gay?" Why is that a question and why should they address it? They are two cool, funny, smart guys who bring joy to us all! Thanks guys from a brand new fan!

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Thank you!! 😎

    • @geckoxs1071
      @geckoxs1071 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      People. Are never satisfied. I am pretty sure they made this video because of a lot of comments about them being gay or not.
      And when they react to it People say why this video was needed and it's unnecessary.
      I know u mean well. But this video is for the people that so badly want to know if they are gay. Like it makes a difference

    • @BubbaPat
      @BubbaPat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      When you are gay and you see someone so confident in their life, you feel like you too can be yourself. Yes, no one HAS to answer it but but when someone comes out, it creates another person to look up to.

    • @billycarroll9153
      @billycarroll9153 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@BubbaPat can’t we look up to them regardless of their sexuality? Isn’t their accepting loving nature enough? It is for me.

    • @BubbaPat
      @BubbaPat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@billycarroll9153 Yes we can. And as a gay man... I do. I appreciate the channel and the freedom of their friendship.
      I don't know if you are straight or gay, I am gay, for me personally, I just like having gay heroes to look up to. People don't realize how it feels to go to the movies and see the hero be ALMOST like you.
      I think some people see these two as BREAKING THE STEREOTYPES of what a straight male should act like and for that I am thankful. Their friendship is free. They are comfortable in who they are and that is great!! I wanted to respond because one of them did say they get kinda of insulted when people ask... and they shouldn't.
      If it is some moron who wants to hate them for being gay then that is a horrible thing, but if it is a young man wondering if he could be like them, then I don't want them to feel anger but honor.
      These two are great at their job. The know their stuff and know how to entertain.
      Truthfully I don't care if they're gay or straight. I am thankful that they themselves don't care what people are. They are friends, their sexy and their having fun doing what they love.
      In my mind they are heroes in the fact they've made this video, didn't answer the question and told people it really doesn't matter.
      Hope this helps.

  • @JoseMMelendezM
    @JoseMMelendezM 7 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Boys, thanks for the message, you guys are fabulous!

    • @petemavus2948
      @petemavus2948 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Fabulous
      That's so gay
      LOL
      J/K

  • @ozzieingram2619
    @ozzieingram2619 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have only recently discovered your channel and I must admit that it is refreshing and inspiring. Your positive nature shines through constantly and offers your viewers an honest look at a strong, male friendship without concern about sexuality. Even better you are always yourselves. That is the best presentation any one can make. I am a professor with students from around the world. I always support students to speak in their tongue and not be concerned about criticism. I encourage them to take pride in their culture-whatever it may be. We can all learn much from those we meet if we can have an open mind. I am partial to your Scottish speech and behavior because I have Scottish blood. Your three primary areas of focus help us develop healthy habits and attitudes-often mixed with laughter. Thank you for what you are contributing to society and to myself. Merry Christmas!

  • @aragnee1
    @aragnee1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your orientation is your business, you have reminded me to get a kilt and I love your vests.

  • @wesd2671
    @wesd2671 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    When y’all showed up on my suggested vids to watch it was for the “5 Ways to wear a Kilt” - enjoyed you so much I subscribed. You’re both lovely and confident in those kilts and that’s really all I needed to cheer me up. Thanks

  •  7 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I don't think people ask you if you're gay because they would unsubscribe. They just honestly wanna know because they're interested and they wanna know if they have a chance. That's how I see it.

  • @keyplayer123
    @keyplayer123 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent approach. Your presence is needed and appreciated.

  • @Francis1930
    @Francis1930 7 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    Two great guys! Sexuality or sexual orientation shouldn't even come into the question! I love the way you guys interact, and there is nothing better than having a strong stable friendship. Way to go guys, keep up the great work. We love you!

    • @nathangray8354
      @nathangray8354 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Sexuality will ALWAYS come into question though. We are human beings and we are sexual beings, even those of us who claim not to be. It'll always come across your mind and some just wanna know... Nothing wrong with asking really... I think more than anything a lot of us just hope they are gay because they are adorable together... And then you have those that would fantasize that much more about them... Lmao

    • @dominiquetirmarche4755
      @dominiquetirmarche4755 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Blue Frog
      Dominique

    • @tidalpool1
      @tidalpool1 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I dunna mind ya wee linguistically challenged selves, but went on ya site to do a bit o shoppin, and not a solitary kilt! WTF? Are ya mad? 20-40 yards of wool?? think of the profits! Yer nae scots, but possible a sassenach, forgittin ya profits and all.

    • @woodworthable
      @woodworthable 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am an instant fan. Your chemistry is very appealing and I expect I will learn something from your videos. About the question: I am gay and about half of my good friends are as well. I think wondering if you are gay or straight is a natural reaction to two attractive men who are so in tune with each other. I won't judge you for the answer or lack of one, but I'm just wondering....Bravo, Woody the Wallace

    • @SuperLeonardo40
      @SuperLeonardo40 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      u gave the very best answer here,,,,,wow.I was gonna post a comment, but when I saw urs,,,,come one.Best comment of the site.Ure really really right.Actually I think they are hiding what ever they are.Should not be like that.

  • @adamsinclair998
    @adamsinclair998 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am hoping for a world with no labels - you guys are great motivation and funny

  • @blankaccount1354
    @blankaccount1354 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You guys are awesome! I’m glad you are sharing you’re message in the TH-cam Community! Best to you both & your families!!

  • @christopherhavins-mariscal6994
    @christopherhavins-mariscal6994 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I discovered you as I have been recuperating from back surgery. To be perfectly honest, I hope to start using your tips on nutrition and exercise as I get healthier and can do so.
    I feel like a mess and the depression from being down after surgery has been intense. Your videos really make me happy and smile. I love mindset Mondays. They make me laugh and think. I love watching your friendship, from jellybrained to sad missing coach Steven to sing-a-longs.
    I will admit that at first it was lovely to see gorgeous happy very fit men while I laid about. However, the way you are, even "cheeky" at times, is so authentic that you can almost seem like a friend or pen pal.
    As a gay man, I thank you for the support and also for not really giving a shit - I like that best.
    And as far as wondering if you are gay, I think it boils down to this. Men aren't often taught that you can have a deep, meaningful friendship with another man. Therefore, we want to understand the dynamic. On one hand, gay would "seem" to explain it. On the other, most of us would be/are jealous of a friendship like yours as we don't always feel free to have platonic relationships with other men.
    Regardless, for me who doesn't have a straight male friend, I fall into the jealous part. I would love that relationship and it is a wonderful thing to see in you two.
    Anyway, keep it up! Keep inspiring! And like we say, "Do you and do you well!"
    Love you guys!
    Christopher Havins Mariscal
    San Antonio Texas.

    • @augusts1
      @augusts1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Agreed, I think with men there is a serious lack of closeness or emotional intimacy in friendships with other men in general at least here in the US because we aren't taught that it is ok that we are emotional beings who need support from our fellow men. Being emotional has long been considered a weakness. But it has gradually been changing over the years.
      And as gay men we often confuse 'emotional intimacy' with 'sexuality' because our sexuality often substitutes for emotional intimacy & we then can no longer distinguish between the two. There is too much focus on sexuality in our community but then again that is the case generally in our society.

    • @4cuttime
      @4cuttime 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Christopher Havins-Mariscal , I agree with your perspective. Hope your recovery is going well , keep your head up !

    • @sharonjohnson1969
      @sharonjohnson1969 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Christopher Havins-Mariscal hh

  • @scarybear13
    @scarybear13 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Excellent video!! I've been a fan of you two for sometime but never heard how you guys started working together. And as a gay man your sexuality doesn't matter to me. You guys are the best! Hell, you even motivated me to stop lounging around and start getting some exercise thank you so much! ❤️

  • @alexanderschestag3247
    @alexanderschestag3247 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I haven't known your channel yet. But your response to the "gay" question is fabulous! The world will be a better place the day all people are willing to think "who cares?". And you did a lot for making the world a better place with this answer!

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Welcome to the channel alexander 😎👍🏻

  • @spadrine
    @spadrine 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You guys are awesome! Thank you for being so honest and sincere about a topic that most str8 guys would trip over. People are indeed just people.

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      and once everyone grasps that, we can put all the stigma behind us and start having some more banter lol

  • @joeriniker8213
    @joeriniker8213 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I just discovered your channel, so I am a little late to the party. Great story on how you met and became friends. I am so happy you didn't answer the 'sexuality' question, because your great energy and message is enough. You two are amazing! Thank you

  • @waysidetavern
    @waysidetavern 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very well put over, boys. We've only recently started watching your videos. They're informative, good fun and your patter's magic!

  • @rrad8106
    @rrad8106 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I try and follow the motto of "Don't feed the trolls".
    Love you guys; your advice on life, health, friendship and fitness is spot on. You inspire.

  • @saddlebear
    @saddlebear 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Really enjoyed this video. Didn’t know who you guys were before I saw this vid. I have a different profession but struggled with this same topic. You guys handled it so well and off the cuff to boot! Thank you.

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      cheers chris sir :) and welcome to the channel

  • @jamesrhoades2673
    @jamesrhoades2673 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Have watch a few of you videos, enjoy them very much. Such great support and information. Thank you and please keep it up. Love you both for being you. Nothing else matters.

  • @markbotello6575
    @markbotello6575 7 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Actually, I've been thinking about the "gay or not?" questions you guys get, and I have something to add. Consider this: the two of you have a profile and you certainly have influence. There might be a gay little boy or girl who really look up to you two, and just the talk of your open ness about your sexuality might give him or her (they or them) strength. Just a thought. You are many things to many people. What if you also inspired someone to stand up and say "I'm gay and proud."? Thanks again guys.

  • @tbone121266
    @tbone121266 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    this video alone made a new fan...thanks guys for being you

  • @acerob1830
    @acerob1830 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You Guys Are Great! Thanks for the exercising tips and nutrition advice!

  • @humanbeing8338
    @humanbeing8338 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "Be what you want be and not what others want you to be" ... That's my life motto! Period! What not to loved you guys!

  • @doro8856
    @doro8856 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Here, here. This is NOT a dating site and you're NOT obligated to tell anyone anything. You're two fine fellows and I enjoy your entertaining and informative videos. End of story. Here's to the pair of you. ; )

  • @sheilarigney5930
    @sheilarigney5930 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You guys are Awesome! I just found you. You have a lot of uplifting positive energy. Looking forward to learning and laughing. Thanks for being yourselves!

  • @apalans2010
    @apalans2010 7 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Well said guys- doesn't matter what you are, as long as you're a good person.

  • @historylvr8000
    @historylvr8000 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm a brand new subscriber and when you guys came on my suggested YT view what caught my attention was the "Kilts and Coaches" name. I thought it was so different and unique and I clicked on Christmas video and immediately thought, "these guys are Awesome & Entertaining!" I think it's refreshing when two very masculine and handsome men can be so comfortable/confident in their own skin and not apologize for it!
    You guys have great camaraderie and banter between you and sexual orientation is completely irrelevant. Unfortunately, we live in a world where "titles" seem to define people and it shouldn't! You guys are completely entertaining and genuine! Enjoying watching the older vids. Keep up the great work!

  • @DAJFAUX
    @DAJFAUX 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have been watching your videos for a bit and just ran across this one. I listened to the entire thing. As a 60 year old man who has been teased at gyms for being gay, your attitude brought a tear to my eye-a good tear. It is about working the body, not sex or sexuality any more than it is about current level of fitness. I appreciate your outlooks on life and fitness. I feel welcome. THANK YOU FOR THAT.
    David

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are most welcome david and thank you for your kind comment

  • @michelleisonfire3636
    @michelleisonfire3636 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love your commentary! My guess is people would ask next if you are single. You're correct tho' that this is your professional channel/work and no one should be concerned what your orientation is. Love the accent. Keep Kilting!

  • @FredBolton
    @FredBolton 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm with you . Sexual orientation has nothing to do with the coaches. I love you and will watch you for yourselves.

  • @richarddaugherty8583
    @richarddaugherty8583 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video guys! I just found your channel this weekend as I'm researching for my first kilt. Totally agree with your point and I think y'all are a breath of fresh air. Everyone should be so lucky as to have such a strong friendship! I loved your video showing the 5 ways to wear a kilt, and I have to say, one day I want that formal Highlander outfit you were wearing. That's just classy! BTW, I adopted the word y'all because it's a friendly word from the Southern USA. Instead of saying you people you can say y'all and it's just sounds friendly. Cheers!

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Welcome to the channel richard and thank you for your kind comment 😎👍🏻

  • @kevinmoore7141
    @kevinmoore7141 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Why is it when two handsome men have a genuine, close, loving and brotherly bond, people ask that question? Would they ask the same question of two hot women who were close friends, No they wouldn’t!
    You’re just yourselves guys, I very much doubt either of you are gay but who cares if you were, just appreciate the great friendship you have.
    My best buddy died 4 years ago and losing a close friend of 25 years is as bad as losing a lover , he was like my brother and my soulmate.

    • @vh2337
      @vh2337 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, they have. My sis and I were having a late night out and decided to get a bite to eat before going home, it was about 2am and as we walked arm in arm through a diner parking lot two weirdos (men of course) shouted some nasty comments about us being gay and were pretty angry sounding. So yeah, they're out there.

  • @claudiocastro9796
    @claudiocastro9796 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Sthev, I'm sorry for you. I could feel your pain when you speak about "the question", I'm happy for you being you, and I really think people is taking about the sexuality too much, I really hear you. I like you as you are. As a gay guy, I use to joke saying I would die if my kid were straight, but the truth is I want people around me to be happy. LOL but ABSOLUTLY lol is gay lol (that's a joke), and Rab already joked about it on your torso cake. The ending you guys nailed hard, I really appreciated it.

    • @Randile
      @Randile 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please remain being the entertaining, educating, funny men you are. Continue doing you. That will leave many women and men hoping to get a flash of what is under the kilts. You are successful because the two of you are true to yourselves and yourself is who you have to answer to and live with. Love you and be genuine, everyone else will will love you for those reasons.

  • @alexkeir1233
    @alexkeir1233 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You guys have found your niche! I congratulate your success and wish for you only the best!

  • @bebopbeth7
    @bebopbeth7 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It is really easy to judge with your eyes & ears (when not in person). It goes both ways. LOVE your videos & laughter!!

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Glad you are enjoying our work 😎👍🏼

  • @ricksiefert3211
    @ricksiefert3211 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You guys are the best. Thanks for being real people

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Rick, glad you enjoyed our message

  • @frangiles9958
    @frangiles9958 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love you guys. You absolutely rock with your outlook and positivity!!

  • @testerpce
    @testerpce 7 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Honestly, you guys delivered the message in the perfect way possible. And yes in the end being judged for your sexual orientation sucks big time and it shouldn't really matter. Thank you guys for being tremendously understanding. If everyone understood half of what you guys say this world would indeed be a much much better place.
    I love you guys. :*

    • @timbritt9418
      @timbritt9418 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I love you guys for being yourself.It doesn't matter if you are gay or straight & it's certainly nobody's business but yours.As you said your channel is about fitness & health and being playful and full of life! Do like that you are supportive of lgbt & everyone for that matter.It shows your good heart and loving nature.You will always have haters no matter what you do, so continue being you & please don't change anything.Im from usa and you guys are so refreshing to watch!!!!!!!!!

    • @richardmarkiewicz1815
      @richardmarkiewicz1815 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sayambhu Sen i

    • @TRAXX7785
      @TRAXX7785 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No one is judging them over their sexuality, it's a simple yes or no question, that's it. The fact people are being bent so out of shape because they had the nerve to ask about their sexuality is what;s odd here.

    • @rabbitpi
      @rabbitpi 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm guessing that you're not gay, it's obvious you're not used to being asked about your sexuality all of the fucking time, because I'm telling you from 1st hand experience you have no idea what you're talking about.

    • @TRAXX7785
      @TRAXX7785 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I AM gay you dink.

  • @easternpnt
    @easternpnt 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    You guys appear to have an amazing friendship and are willing to show it to the world. What you two do behind closed doors or off camera is yours to keep. I'm actually envious of your friendship as it seems to be very tight.

  • @derekstryjski6809
    @derekstryjski6809 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent sales pitch. Good on you guys. Keep them guessing. It's more interesting. Good luck and best wishes

  • @treyhammer8837
    @treyhammer8837 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are Great Guys. Please Please do not pay attention to negative comments. They are not worth your time or energy. Keep doing what you enjoy. God Bless you guys.

  • @trixiebelle5072
    @trixiebelle5072 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Their good friendship makes them totally relaxed with each other but I suspect they aren't gay but aren't homophobic either. Just two nice, friendly approachable guys.

  • @allgotterer
    @allgotterer 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    After watching you guys off and on for years, this is the video that got me to subscribe. I love your friendship, your joy at being your Scottish selves, and your unassuming straightforwardness with your audience.

  • @QueenAkA
    @QueenAkA 7 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    *you guys are just adorable❤*

    • @the1tigglet
      @the1tigglet 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thats been why ive been watching

  • @leelastarsky
    @leelastarsky 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "We're people! And that's all that matters!" EXACTLY! Thankyou!! 😍🥰🤩

  • @richardebersole3876
    @richardebersole3876 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the first video I have seen of you two.. And I completely enjoyed it...look forward to viewing more of your video's...keep io the great work...

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Welcome to the channel Richard 😎👍🏻

  • @tonyoB
    @tonyoB 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Sorry you felt you had to respond to that sort of questioning. Tbh I follow the channel for the info and your charisma; you post happy vids that get a good laugh here and there. It's a bit annoying that people can't just appreciate the videos for what they are.
    That being said, I DO find it easier to trust the fitness advice coming from a couple a' handsome fellows. Lol.

  • @mikewaterfoot2928
    @mikewaterfoot2928 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Fabulous. I'm English and wear a kilt. I'm certainly not pretending to be Scottish. I attend a church where I am the only non African. I caused quite a stir when I first went in one of my kilts. Now they are used to me. I am gay and they have got used to that too. Mind you they probably think "eccentric old white man"

  • @siouxguy67
    @siouxguy67 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don't know why I watched this video but I loved it. You guys are great!

  • @cristina_em
    @cristina_em 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    New subscriber here because of this video! Love your message and positivity! Looking forward to your videos. 💜

  • @allieeverest
    @allieeverest 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Already in love with your channel. I think it's absolutely awesome that you don't say your sexual orientation. I think as straight men, it takes a lot of courage to stand up against the pressures of "being a man" and not instantly be like "yeah, we're totally straight. No way we're gay. bleh. gross!" I like that you don't say your orientation b.c. it really doesn't matter. I love that you have taken all this attention from the gay community as the compliment it is instead of a threat to your masculinity. Keep rocking!!!!

  • @homelesshotdog2247
    @homelesshotdog2247 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well done. Exceptionally well spoken and instructive. Thanks

  • @andreforcier97
    @andreforcier97 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    The whole “gay” question in my opinion comes from me seeing you as a very cute couple! If you are or not is irrelevant... but for gay guys out there seeing two very well rounded men who are smart, attractive, intelligent, funny, and all round very interesting with kiddies of your own, helps dispelled “stereotypes”. Others are just arses!! All the best!!

  • @carlvlaeminck2171
    @carlvlaeminck2171 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Handsome Scottish men, it would be crazy not to like them.

  • @randybaxter3314
    @randybaxter3314 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks guys for all you do. Your sense of humor while delivering informative messages meant to help us with health, diet, physical fitness are much appreciated. Thanks and keep up the good work.

  • @alexander2685
    @alexander2685 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Who cares their charm and warmness of and their homeland makes me feel so comforted.😍I love you guys.

  • @johnwilliams8818
    @johnwilliams8818 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    OK so I am Gay and my "gaydar" doesn't ding on either of you fellas. I just think you're funny and honestly very nice looking! People that feel the need to stick labels on others? have far deeper issues in their lives to deal with...

  • @ajs11201
    @ajs11201 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Two great men making a great video. You guys are wonderful!

  • @paulmrn11
    @paulmrn11 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Well all I can say is I think you guys are funny as hell! I think you have great chemistry together and that’s what matters.People seem to always want to put a label on everything and everyone.Keep doing what you love and what makes you happy guys!

  • @ricromrec
    @ricromrec 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    congratulations!!! thanks for addressing this matter. people tend to over-sexualize everything. you're awesome!!!

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      thanks Ric, we hope you have an awesome day :)

  • @karenmears2779
    @karenmears2779 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You guys are fantastic, just discovered you! Great package of helpful, fun and uplifting!

    • @TheKiltedCoaches
      @TheKiltedCoaches  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Happy days karen & welcome to the channel. Are you still following us now?

  • @benculmyer7065
    @benculmyer7065 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I appreciate your positive message. Being gay, I also appreciate your masculine, muscular good looks and health tips. I live a quiet life in the USA. We'll probably never meet face to face. This being said, I'm thankful that you share your knowledge and great physiques with everyone. Best wishes to you and your families.