It kinda sucks not knowing the difference between crush and love, because it leads to breaking hearts and terrible actions. At least for me. Thank you for putting out this video, I have been completely clueless about romance until now, but I feel like I get more of a grip of what I’m doing and feeling now.
@taytay_and_delaylay_fandefinitely not love; that is infatuation. infatuation is selfish; you “want” the other person’s time and attention because otherwise you feel upset. love is selfless; it wants the other to be happy regardless if they care about you true love never fades. even after letting someone go for them to seek happiness elsewhere, your love will never fade. infatuation is possessive. you will want someone to pick you over anything else. it is possessive because you are worried that your crush might like someone else
@@supbruh7793 What do you think about mine, I’m honestly not sure if I’m obsessed or truly in love. I’m 13, was 12 when I met her, and nearly every moment with her just.. feels right. I have deep feelings for her, but I accept there a boundaries and I don’t even need to ask. Even if she doesn’t care for me the same, I still treat her like family (it’s complicated, we basically have a family in our school) I hate the fact that “traditional” people are ones she’s into, but I’ve accepted it and I just try to forget We have like.. literally nearly everything in common. Same personality type, same music taste (kind of), hell, even the same favorite smash character..
Me and this girl were talking and it was the cutest thing ever we were just talking and I started into her eyes and she stared into mine and it was just 5 seconds of quiet and admiration :) I went back online though so I can’t see her right now ;(
Eliza Ross I’ve tried finding out if the person that I have feelings for feels the same way about me. I asked her if she had a crush on anyone and she said, “no.” So based off that, I still feel like there is a chance she has feelings for me. I think that there is only one way to truly verify for yourself that someone has feelings for you, and it is telling her that you have feelings for him/her. And sometimes I think that we might be in the same situation, that she has feelings for me and she hasn’t been able to get the courage to tell me. I will tell her that I have feelings for her. So if there is any chance that she sees me the same way I see her, we won’t have to live with the unknowing of our feelings for each other. Wish me luck! :)
Literally me for a month straight until one morning we were texting and they asked why I was upset entirely based on the fact that my texting was slightly off, and I realized then that I did like them. I told them and when they said they liked me back, that feeling, there's just no real description.
1. A crush developes fast, while love grows over time 2. A crush forms from the basics, while love thrives from deep connections 3. A crush might feel insecure while love is stems from trust 4. A crush feels new while love feels familiar 5. A crush is reckless while love is mature
“Are you crushing on someone or are you falling in love?” me: *y e s n ‘ t* update as of aug 03 2022: hi i fell in love with my then crush now long distant bf and I just visited him a few days ago for the first time, it was magical. we’ve been dating for 5 months but have known each other for 2 years and I love him v much. just wanted to give an update that everything went well :>💘 update 2, June 2024: shes trans ! she’s my girlfriend YIPPEE :3!
The whole time, I was thinking about a love that doesn’t involve dating. A love that just happens over a long period without labeling it as a romantic relationship
Well not all the time, sometimes u dont know u even like that person at all until u start to really go deeper into them and realise how u feel . It’s like going diving and exploring the nature and beauty of the ocean then finding treasure at the ocean floor .
There's a boy in my martial arts class who, at first, I had just kind of shrugged off. He didn't look drop-dead gorgeous or was super popular, he was just kid in my class. But when I paired up with him and worked with him for a while, I suddenly realized that I had been thinking about him a lot. He's funny, gentle and always smiling. His face kept popping into my head at the most random times and every time it happened, I'd get a funny tingling feeling in my stomach. Then i slowly realized that I've fallen in love. It's a terrible feeling, when you love someone and you might not know how they'll respond. So I've decided that life's too short and, next time I have an opportunity, I'll tell him how I feel. Wish me luck!
There was this cool girl I knew after I found out she was apparently my schoolmate for one year without me knowing. Our school had a special program which only had 3 sections in it, and she was in another. That time, I had a crush on her but she was already talking to someone else. We talked for about three months as friends, then I decided to confess to get it out of my chest. I told her I liked her but I don't have any intention of ruining what she had then. To my surprise, she told me she would've liked me back if the circumstances were different. I was scared of hurting the guy she was talking to so I stopped talking to her from then other than for greetings or small talk. Two years later, we ended up having another long conversation and I remembered everything I liked about her. That moment on, I knew I was already in love. Sadly, she already had a boyfriend by then. Her boyfriend is a lot like me in many ways, but the key difference is that he's mentally stable since he's had a proper upbringing. I feel horrible when I find myself silently wishing they would breakup, but I've been selfless for so long and it feels so unfair to lose again at life over something that doesn't really feel like my fault.
In the end your the one who found peace within themselves, and thats something not alot of people can do. You truly won this and you get to move on with your life while others dwelve in the past and their mistakes. No matter what you do, keep looking foward my friend.
It's not over bro! Just let them see what kind of man u really were and let them regret in life later for not choosing you 😉. Be strong and move on. This actually happens a lot in life, man.
It's hard, but it's not really bad to think like that, jealousy is natural, as long as you understand why that's bad, one day you'll grow from that pain. And you never know what the future holds for you, might be her, might be someone you never expected. Have a good day
Summary:- 1) A crush develops fast while love grows over time 2) A crush forms from the basics, while love thrives from deep connections 3) A crush might feel insecure while love is stems from trust 4) A crush feels new while love feel familiar 5) A crush is reckless while love is mature
My teacher told us that we gotta get something straight before we start the story and that was how and why Juliet and Romeo were just two reckless teens infatuated and attracted to each other. Note that this is coming from a Conservative country. :)
@@fleuramolly6169 I guess I just have a huge irrational fear of rejection and embarrassment. Theres also the fact that recently I've not been able to talk to him as much and I feel like itd just be more likely for anything to fail. Hes a year above me and we dont have classes together anymore, and I'm certainly not the most fortunate in looks, either, so I just dont feel confident that trying will work. And I've grown up with a family that really makes it worse, making me feel more anxious and like I'm a bad and useless person so I just dont feel mentally strong enough i guess.
You're not bad or useless. Tell him how you feel. What if he's in the same situation as you? If you wait nothing will change (or even worse he'll find someone else because he never knew and you won't forgive yourself for not trying), so even if it's a no at least you'll know the truth. But you have a chance of it being a yes.
Sksks I feel like this will be me, because I’ve had a crush for 6 months and every time I feel like it’s going away, it just comes back like a storm. I don’t think it’s really going away, I just think that I accept it and then I don’t accept it. It’s weird. Anyways 6 months isn’t really that long (I mean at my school it is but like for serious crushes in general it isn’t-) but like I’ve never ever had a crush like this before. I haven’t even had a real crush besides this one. I don’t know, it’s just been such a big part of my life and I feel like every time it goes away it just comes back. Like over breaks it may start to fade, but as soon as school starts again and I talk to him it just comes back. I’ve just got it bad. I’m pretty sure I have borderline social anxiety, and I literally feel positive that he doesn’t like me. I feel like even if I’m spoon fed signs I still wouldn’t take the hint because I just don’t have confidence in myself. Really all I want at the moment is to get to know him better and see for myself what his true personality is. My crush and I are friends, but not close friends. I just want to know more about him, and see where that leads! Don’t get me wrong I totally want to date him and stuff, but I just want to know what kind of person he really is first. It’s funny because I literally have no idea why I like him. He’s nothing special or extraordinary. I mean to me he is obviously but like you get what I mean. I don’t even know if he’s really a good guy; that’s why I want to get to know him. I really hope that I get an opportunity to do that soon. Ahh sorry, this turned into me rambling about my crush when this comment was about someone else. I hate it when I do that. I’m always talking about myself and I don’t even mean to I just like to share my experiences and opinions on things. This is probably long, so if you made it this far, I give you a lollipop.
But that’s still confusing 😭 Do crushes last years- I’ve had what I think is a crush on someone I’m really close to for over 2 years and it won’t go away any time soon-
OMG. IM GOING THRU THE SAME. in terms of hurt. I’ve never felt hurt come along w it before. Like y does it hurt every time I see him? Why does it hurt when I say goodbye to him n hurt over the next few days n I get so confused bout how I feel?
I've been in love with my best friend for a year and they think it was just a crush and that it's stopped now. We're still at school and very young so he says he's not ready for a relationship but I can't help but have hope. He's perfect and I can't think of any flaws. We're best friends and know basically everything about each other. He just doesn't return my feelings. Although he's sending me mixed signals which give me hope. The hope is worse than the knowing it'll never happen. :(
anonymous anonymous similar to my situation. He’s been my bestie for over a year n although he claims to reciprocate my feelings, I don’t think he does. He’s very distant now n we ain’t as close as we used to be
the main way i cant tell a difference is sorta like step 1. A crush is butterflies but love is a calming feeling, instead of being nervous you feel a calming sense when ur with them
me: crushing on someone also me: wants to make the move to ask her on a date anxiety: u know u won't get that girl me: but she just flirted anxiety: no she didn't me: but anxiety: no
Me: crushing on best friend Anxiety: she’s a girl Depression: your family won’t like this Me: but I like her Me: shit she just did something cute... Anxiety: yeah no run. Me: but I wanna tell her she’s cute and I like her. Anxiety no, and she’s straight.
Ok, but what if you know the reason you think he´s attractive from the outside or something, but you don't know why you miss them so much when they're not around
@@bunniessd5227 I felt the exact same way, literally. I’m still pretty young too and I wasn’t sure about how I felt about him. Eventually I got up the courage to tell him how I felt, and I was rejected because he only saw me as a good friend. I was out of it for a few weeks, doubting my self worth more than usual and hardly talking to any of my friends, but after a while I started to appreciate the fact that I’d told him. Knowing he didn’t like me was, in my opinion, much better than wondering constantly if he did. Just keep that in mind! 🙂
@@ThunderLord04 Rationalize things and get away. It is like giving water to plant. You need to stop reinforcement of the attachment, you can achieve that by getting out their environment and not thinking about them. It is hard, but feasible.
@@hellsowner8513 I mean, if you think about it, we've all made mistases and we have our imperfections. Such as being impatient, being lazy, having the dificulty to open up when necessary, and more things that can only be solved if the person is willing to improve and change their bad habits. You and I've got imperfections. What would be toxic is knowing that the person has cheated on me on many occasions, isn't serious about the relationship, lies too frequently, fights constantly, they victimize themselves, they're selfish and so so much more... these things help you understand that this is not a person who's emotionally available and needs to mature on their own. To love someone and know their imperfections, while knowing they are WILLING to leave it all behind and work for your relationship to improve, that's what it's about. Love calls us to forgive, be honest, communicate and most importantly be patient. If the person does not show any interest in improving then that's goodbye.
@@MonRojasOfficial omg i agree with you so much and not the other comment that says it’s “toxic” because at least someone who understands their bad side and tried to improve it is SOO GOOD , just like you said yea , non of us are perfect and love is loving them with their imperfections imperfections doesn’t mean Toxicity … and you explained what exactly toxicity is
My crush is dating someone and I keep thinking about how she probably feels the same way I do about her to him It’s almost annoying how much at attention I stand before her when she’s talking to me, and I literally overthink everything lmao She asks for notes and I’m like what are those, 10 seconds later my friends are laughing at how dumb I am lmao, and the thing is it hurts, the emotional pain I get starts to feels physical, like I can feel my heart hurting but my love for every part of her drowns it out🥵 I’m fr miserable
One thing I feel largely underplayed in the video is that crushing and loving are not mutually exclusive. In fact, the vast majority of relationships (and yes, including longterm ones) go through a crush phase. So, often it is pretty natural to have a crush on someone (mutually), start dating, get to know each other and see the beautiful crossfade between crushing fading out and pure, unconditional love fading in.
Honestly this entire channel seems to prey on people who don’t realise all of this stuff is situational. There is no plan, or fool-proof advice, to make it easier. Because it’s difficult, and that’s just the way we get it. This channel seems to thrive on relatability, but I can’t help but see a more sinuster undertone, that’s blatantly taking advantage of teens who don’t know well enough to realise that’s not how it works.
I am in a sort of dilemma state can anyone please help me. I am in a relationship with my best friend, she understands me inside out and I did it too without having any need for her to say what she feels but suddenly many questions such as Is this true, and why is everything feeling so common to me and why is that butterfly like feeling not there worrying me because I am fearing that I am losing love, because she also said that she is feeling unloved from my side, we have a verryyyy deeep emotional connect and she has a heart of gold who is ready to give me everything that makes me happy and I do it too, but i am just not being able to express myself and care and feelings for her in the way I did just 3 months ago, right from the moment when these questions started, I am having highly frequent panic attacks in the fear that I would break her heart and I absolutely just can't let that happen I ll face it all by myself but not for her. Can anyone please help me out hear, I am just wondering as to why is her voice not sounding the way it did, and this is happening all of a sudden. Please help anyone.
1. A crush develops fast, while love grows over time 0:32 2. A crush forms from the basics, while love thrives from deep connections 1:05 3. A crush might feel insecure while love stems from trust 1:37 4. A crush feels new while love feel familiar 2:01 5. A crush is reckless while love is mature 2:23
Jasmine Cooper don’t wait to long... if you do you might completely lose your chance... just tell em with confidence even if your not. People are more attractived to confidence so try it and if it doesn’t work then try and work last it or wait for them. I choose to wait.. but it ends up hurting in the long run... but hopefully you take this advice 💜💜💜
One more point: crushes are based on looks, how they talk, attractiveness etc. While love is opposite. You don't love them cause they're beautiful. They seems beautiful cause you love them ;)
my crush is in a healthy relationship for once (she's been unlucky with bad guys doing her wrong) but now she's happy with a decent dude and i don't wanna wreck that so i distance myself also because it's painful to see her with someone else but i'd rather see her happy with a good guy than sad with a bad guy again if u truly love someone u'll put ur feelings aside for their happiness and let em go so that's what i'm doing.
I think love is when you can be in a big group of people and still feel a connection with that person and just enjoy their presence even if other people may be around
@@ArteArt39 ik. everyone has different perspectives of love and when your truly in love ik it's nothing like this but when yur heartbroken it's similar 🤷🏽♀️
To put it simply: if i have a crush on someone it could very easily go away if they do something embarrassing or appearance changes in some way. But when I’m in love with someone like the guy I’ve been in love with for years then I genuinely don’t care how he looks or what’s going on his life or anything- I will love him despite anything
this video was the confirmation I needed,(to stop having doubts about it because I don't even trust my feelings - yeah sometimes have OCD is complicated) now I'm sure what I feel is not just a crush. I'm in love with the love of my life.
1- a crush develops fast while love grows over time 0:30 2- a crush forms from basics while love forms from deep connections 1:03 3- a crush might feel insecure while love stems with trust 1:37 4- a crush feels new while love feels familiar 2:00 5- a crush is reckless while love is mature 2:23
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It’s funny because I always describe things with my girlfriend as “I feel like I’ve been in love with her forever”. That’s so much different than a crush, which I’ve felt too many times to count. She makes me feel safe and happy and confident. Not to mention gives me this feeling of not _butterflies_ but more like a warmth. Like when you drink homemade hot cocoa with whipped cream and marshmallows.
That's amazing that your girlfriend makes you feel that way! I also feel safe with my boyfriend. :) It's so much better than the butterflies, because it isn't fleeting. ♥
It had happened and it is happening to me. Thats why I am here, making it clear. I know that I should not fall for him because our relationship will never be accepted by the society but love doesn't see consequences. 😢😢
Ikr! I know I'm in love with this guy when I realise that he really like this girl and I letting him go. It's about "I want him to be happy, even though it means being happy without me." It hurt so much. But seeing the person that we love sad, actually hurt us more. Just like when Beast letting Belle go to help his father.
Enigma The INFJ exactly! My friend realized he really liked her when he told me “I would usually get jealous and want him to live the worse things in life. But right now, I oddly feel so fucking grateful this guy is alive because she talks to me with those fucking stars in the eyes and goddamn how beautiful she is when he’s around.”
LITERALLY !!!!! I healed my ex Bc he was so depressed before me. I literally know all his dark dark secrets. And when he was better and good he left with another. I felt used, but hey it happens
I’ve always wanted a guy to meet me, for me to say/do something, and for them to say immediately after I leave to a friend “I think I’m in love”. Cliche, I know, but idk I’ve always wanted that 😂. But the difference is I want him to actually be in love. Idk
"Crushes are quick" Me: Crushing on someone I barely know for 2 years Edit: Holy Crap. I legit forgot that I made this comment and I come back to 4.2k likes and 166 replies... im over the guy I made this comment about (not my choice, he switched schools), but I moved onto someone new. Help, its like an endless cycle
I don't even get how people can have a crush on someone they barely know. But also, crushes are scientifically supposed to only last for four months, sooo...
There’s this one store that I swear like every cashier is a kid from my school and like every guy working there I feel like I’m about to die when I go up to the cash register so I end my burying my head into my phone
I remember watching this video back in 2019 when I was 13 and trying to figure out whether it's love or I'm just crushing over this handsome guy in my school. Now I'm almost 17 and he's my boyfriend now. Time flies fast ❤️
another difference between having a crush on someone or being in love with them after they get a haircut crush: you’re not into them anymore in love: you still like them
Lol man this is deep. Im not being sarcastic but i just realized this is so almost true xd, and i say almost cuz theres a factor where appearance is important but still is true xd
I am in love with a guy who is very silent, but when I am with him, I feel so understood and at peace like nothing else matters than the people and how they are. I feel so accepted towards him and I always miss his presence. We even understand each other during silence. That made me realize that I should never give up on someone like him, I never felt like that in front of someone else before and it's truly special.
Well , it's a mix between some emotions, a little crush yeah for sure.....but it's too soon to say if it's love..surely... I have difficulties to talk to him because he works where I work... Not really simple to make a conversation... X.x... So i don't really know what i feel too.. I feel like we are in a same vibe but also i feel like we are not in the same world, so weeeiirrd ! I just want to know what's his f****** name xD !?
Welcom to another episode of "Is this just normal platonic love I feel for my best friend, or have I fallen in love with her?" FinD oUt In THe NeXt ePISOdE, aIRiNG _never_
You can still feel possessive while in love, but you know it's love when you try and not to be so and let them enjoy for their happiness. Sometimes you can argue with your partner or get jealous or insecure but if it's love then you will put in efforts to improve yourself.
In my 13 years life, I've never confessed to someone. I literally can't count my crushes. Because they're crushes. I think the first human I loved is my mum. My first love is my mom.
loving your parents arent the same as loving that 'someone' so technically you havent experience your first love yet. True love can make you love that 'someone' more than anything, even your own family
For me i had a crush on this one person but i know it's just a crush so i didn't care about her that much but when i started getting close with her and getting her more i started to "actually like someone for their personality?" I was baffled because in all my years i didn't believe in people actually falling in love so this is a new experience for me
Lmao I literally never confess nor show the slightest hints I like someone. I’m introverted (also extroverted at times, but only with people I feel comfortable with and know) and I literally go stalker mode when I see my crush. 😂😂 For someone like me, I feel better just stalking my crush rather than actually being with him for some apparent reason. 😂😂
Summary: make sure to get to know the person you like/love more and become good/best friends with them before you date if you want it to last forever (or at least for a long time)
guys, crushing is not really bad, it allows you to explore your emotions that you never learn before. If you can survive & learn from it, it can even make you a better person in the future.
Opposite to how many people in the comment section present it, crushing is not only not really bad, but actively positive and a huge breeding ground to foster actual love on. In most relationships, crushing was naturally part of the "getting to know each other" phase of it.
That's so relatable to what I've been through in my life... and mb, everything that I am is even due to a crush, which grew up on somebody that made me actually develop myself for better in every way. Heads down, I do agree that crushing is a terrific first stride to an effective love, tho not as benign if it starts to consume you and your life, and can surely be trimmed or skipped. I am really thankful that mine ended up and love finally showed up. But either way, I'm still too young enough to presume any further, albeit this has been not less than true to me.
this boy had a crush on me since 8th grade (we're in 12th now) and we were good friends but he confessed me after 3 years fear of getting rejected he broke our contact and we havent talked in like 5 months but then one day we met again during a small get together with friends (we're both introverts lmao) so the we started texting again (lockdown rules lol) and this time we started having deep and long convos sharing about our interests to our insecurities...i started having feelings for him its like hes so understanding, encouraged me for lil things and helped me a lot during my anxiety sessions. like a month later i confessed to him and it relieved me so much seeing him so happy about this XD a lot happened after that and now hes my boyfriend and im so deep in love with him! hes the most loyal, genuine, caring person ever and he'd still love me even if im in my worst looks i really love his deep and passionate talks and he has the best sense of humour...till now i cant believe i got to be a part of the best person ever and i feel really lucky to have him..this is the first time i have ever fallen in love and i feel really great about this
I'm sure you have heard this before, but you will eventually. I've been around the block a few times, so I know. My biggest mistake was closing myself off emotionally. I knew I was in love when my best friend made me want to trust again. Now, this love doesn't necessarily have to be romantic love. If you feel close enough to someone that you consider them like a part of your family, that's platonic love. Tell me, is there anyone you are particularly close with? You don't have to tell me, I just thought this might help you with any searching you've been doing.
My cousin had a crush on this guy who was in the band with me two or so years back. She hadn’t really talked to him until they got put together for a project. She would always talk about how he was so sweet and patient, and by the end of the year she said she was in love. Flash forward to years, and they’re going to colleges nearby and are living together. They are literally the sweetest couple and I was always so blushy and awkward about how cute they were before they got together, but now I’m just really glad I got to see them fall in love ❤
If you believe that you will feel love, then you will. Life is like a reflection sometimes, what you believe in will reflect back to you like the laws of attraction.
Pizza or chicken nuggets? (Vegan pizza is an option!) ❤
Pizzas with chicken nuggets on top :3
both is good!!
Psych2Go chicken nugget 🙆🏻
Chicken nuggets.. but it HAS TO be McDonald’s nuggets 😍
Food🍔🍗🍕🥞
the best feeling ever is, when u had a crush and are finally over him and then u just don’t get why tf u even had a crush on this person
IKR Like I look back in my old school's year books like...🤢🤮 wAs I bLiNd
THAT'S LITERALLY WHAT IS HAPPENING TO ME
OMG I COULD TOTALLY RELATE
Seriously I had a crush for a YEAR,he’s not even attractive what was I thinking?
Exactly 🤣
Crushes generally fade the more you get to actually know the person. Love only deepens the more you get to know them.
So true!!
So true
😭
Very true
Shit, I guess I love him after all…😅
being in love with someone that doesn’t love you back and KNOWING they don’t love you but not being able to let go is a whole different type of hurt
Exacly ...it hurts very badly
LITRALLY OMFGGG
Yup. That's actually not love. It's called limerence. It's a glorified form of infatuation. What's so sad about it is that it can last for years.
me rn lmao
its worst when youve been in love with one of ur best friends for 6 months and she has a boyfriend (whos your boy-bestie) yk 😜🔫
It kinda sucks not knowing the difference between crush and love, because it leads to breaking hearts and terrible actions. At least for me. Thank you for putting out this video, I have been completely clueless about romance until now, but I feel like I get more of a grip of what I’m doing and feeling now.
Yes I get you!! Its so confusing and..messes up a lot of things.
@taytay_and_delaylay_fandefinitely not love; that is infatuation. infatuation is selfish; you “want” the other person’s time and attention because otherwise you feel upset. love is selfless; it wants the other to be happy regardless if they care about you
true love never fades. even after letting someone go for them to seek happiness elsewhere, your love will never fade. infatuation is possessive. you will want someone to pick you over anything else. it is possessive because you are worried that your crush might like someone else
@@supbruh7793 What do you think about mine, I’m honestly not sure if I’m obsessed or truly in love.
I’m 13, was 12 when I met her, and nearly every moment with her just.. feels right.
I have deep feelings for her, but I accept there a boundaries and I don’t even need to ask.
Even if she doesn’t care for me the same, I still treat her like family (it’s complicated, we basically have a family in our school)
I hate the fact that “traditional” people are ones she’s into, but I’ve accepted it and I just try to forget
We have like.. literally nearly everything in common. Same personality type, same music taste (kind of), hell, even the same favorite smash character..
I think when you crush on someone, you are afraid to look them in their eyes, and when you love someone, you can't look away from their eyes.
what if im just shy?
That's quiet beautiful
No I’m just socially awkward regardless lmao
Me and this girl were talking and it was the cutest thing ever we were just talking and I started into her eyes and she stared into mine and it was just 5 seconds of quiet and admiration :) I went back online though so I can’t see her right now ;(
@@moon-lx4bx I am a shy chap too but I make eye contact a lot with a person I like the most.
It’s so painful when you don’t know how they feel about you
Aria Hale exactly, and we (me and him) don’t even talk, yet we have 4/8 classes together 😂
@@susan4225 sameee
Is there a way that you can find out with out revealing that you have feelings for them?
@@tracebergman4819 If there is, I'm going to try and do that.
Eliza Ross I’ve tried finding out if the person that I have feelings for feels the same way about me. I asked her if she had a crush on anyone and she said, “no.” So based off that, I still feel like there is a chance she has feelings for me. I think that there is only one way to truly verify for yourself that someone has feelings for you, and it is telling her that you have feelings for him/her. And sometimes I think that we might be in the same situation, that she has feelings for me and she hasn’t been able to get the courage to tell me. I will tell her that I have feelings for her. So if there is any chance that she sees me the same way I see her, we won’t have to live with the unknowing of our feelings for each other. Wish me luck! :)
“I only like him a little bit”
*I need to stop lying to myself*
Haha I can relate
Have you confessed yet?
Psych2Go
I’m too scared 😖😖😖
💜
I wish I could confess my love to Namjoon. :3
5 difference
• Crush develops fast love takes time to grow
• Basic, deep connection
• insecure, trust
• feels new, feels familiarity
• Reckless, Maturity
me: i think i might actually have a crush on h-
anxiety: no you don’t
Hahaha
Literally me for a month straight until one morning we were texting and they asked why I was upset entirely based on the fact that my texting was slightly off, and I realized then that I did like them. I told them and when they said they liked me back, that feeling, there's just no real description.
Haha I felt that
S a I k I k
kaylee lol
1. A crush developes fast, while love grows over time
2. A crush forms from the basics, while love thrives from deep connections
3. A crush might feel insecure while love is stems from trust
4. A crush feels new while love feels familiar
5. A crush is reckless while love is mature
Thank youuu
Thx 😘😘😍
Oh so what i have is a crush ok 🌚✌️
Okay, I'm SO in love with my crush.
Thanks btw
Oh I like this
“Are you crushing on someone or are you falling in love?”
me: *y e s n ‘ t*
update as of aug 03 2022: hi i fell in love with my then crush now long distant bf and I just visited him a few days ago for the first time, it was magical. we’ve been dating for 5 months but have known each other for 2 years and I love him v much. just wanted to give an update that everything went well :>💘
update 2, June 2024: shes trans ! she’s my girlfriend YIPPEE :3!
😂😂😂 same
Both at the same time
Okay
ME TOO TBH I CANT-
This is so true
The whole time, I was thinking about a love that doesn’t involve dating. A love that just happens over a long period without labeling it as a romantic relationship
that's what I fear is happening to me rn lol
same...
That's happening to me lol.
The one sided one...
Same
having a crush makes school so much more interesting
yo yo I’m pretty sure you’re gonna regret posting this comment after a while
We Love Sausages no actually not, it’s true what he/she said
yo yo YAH
We Love Sausages how
yo yo Because at some point it’s gonna start to turn into pain, at least for me
before you love someone, it starts from having crush on someone. You cannot love someone immediately.
Maby except if it's a very close friend I think
True, but love becomes obvious after that long of crushing
yeahh
Well I have loved a person when I was 13.It was very unexpected and I didn't even expect that person.It just comes naturally and the best feeling ever
Well not all the time, sometimes u dont know u even like that person at all until u start to really go deeper into them and realise how u feel . It’s like going diving and exploring the nature and beauty of the ocean then finding treasure at the ocean floor .
The feeling of falling while you know he's not the right person is a whole kind of pain
It sure is!
This makes us question our feelings to whether it was love or just a crush.
Ouch. That one really hurt 🥲
Dean...
@Elizabeth Adventurer WELL FRICK YOUR PARENTS YOU LOVE WHOEVER THE HECK YOU WANT
There's a boy in my martial arts class who, at first, I had just kind of shrugged off. He didn't look drop-dead gorgeous or was super popular, he was just kid in my class.
But when I paired up with him and worked with him for a while, I suddenly realized that I had been thinking about him a lot. He's funny, gentle and always smiling. His face kept popping into my head at the most random times and every time it happened, I'd get a funny tingling feeling in my stomach. Then i slowly realized that I've fallen in love.
It's a terrible feeling, when you love someone and you might not know how they'll respond. So I've decided that life's too short and, next time I have an opportunity, I'll tell him how I feel. Wish me luck!
You got this!!! ☺
Good luck ✨
Have you told him??
praying for you love!! give us an update asap
I need updates on this situation asap
you know you're in love when they get a haircut and u still like them
kpop potato 😂
So relatable
Relatable, but I stopped "loving" the guy after the haircut 😁
Bts_ Fangurl yesss
😂😂😂
"As we grow older and develop more relationship experience"
*laughs in "I've always been single"*
Same
samee
Lmao same
Same
Even science can’t answer that
“It’s like being with your best friend”
me, in love with my best friend: 😐
Me too
(guy best friend that is)
Same here. It's suffocating that he doesn't know about that.
I guess it’s more bearable for me bc she doesn’t date
Stop
laurelflaur. EXACTLY!
There was this cool girl I knew after I found out she was apparently my schoolmate for one year without me knowing. Our school had a special program which only had 3 sections in it, and she was in another. That time, I had a crush on her but she was already talking to someone else. We talked for about three months as friends, then I decided to confess to get it out of my chest. I told her I liked her but I don't have any intention of ruining what she had then. To my surprise, she told me she would've liked me back if the circumstances were different. I was scared of hurting the guy she was talking to so I stopped talking to her from then other than for greetings or small talk. Two years later, we ended up having another long conversation and I remembered everything I liked about her. That moment on, I knew I was already in love. Sadly, she already had a boyfriend by then. Her boyfriend is a lot like me in many ways, but the key difference is that he's mentally stable since he's had a proper upbringing. I feel horrible when I find myself silently wishing they would breakup, but I've been selfless for so long and it feels so unfair to lose again at life over something that doesn't really feel like my fault.
don't worry bro, you did a great thing by letting her go an you'll definitely find the one that's perfect for you when the time comes!!
In the end your the one who found peace within themselves, and thats something not alot of people can do. You truly won this and you get to move on with your life while others dwelve in the past and their mistakes. No matter what you do, keep looking foward my friend.
good on u for saying how u felt man
wish u the best
It's not over bro! Just let them see what kind of man u really were and let them regret in life later for not choosing you 😉. Be strong and move on. This actually happens a lot in life, man.
It's hard, but it's not really bad to think like that, jealousy is natural, as long as you understand why that's bad, one day you'll grow from that pain. And you never know what the future holds for you, might be her, might be someone you never expected. Have a good day
Summary:-
1) A crush develops fast while love grows over time
2) A crush forms from the basics, while love thrives from deep connections
3) A crush might feel insecure while love is stems from trust
4) A crush feels new while love feel familiar
5) A crush is reckless while love is mature
thanks so much ; was trying to find a comment that did this😀
@@gohjiaronggmss188 Wlc bro
so im in love
@@appleie8675 Then Best of Luck...!✨
@Aghast Tysm Bro...✨
A crush is liking their outside and what they do for you. Love is liking their soul and wanting to do things for them.
what if i mainly like their intrests/how they treat me/their personality and wanting to do things with them and for them
What is a soul? How do you like someone’s soul?
@@earthlunatics9145 You like their personality, their habits, the way they act, the thoughtful things they do to you
@@earthlunatics9145 for me a soul is the way someone views life: how they act and think about the things they love and experience
You could also develop a crush on someone while knowing them for a while, based off also on who they are internally
"You can't blame gravity for falling in love"
Albert Einstein
😢Einstein pure genius 😢
yeah he is right 😬
I hate gravity then
Bro Albert is the first "fake deep" quoting man in history
wOw :>
Love is when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams. -Dr. Suess. I love this quote😍😍
Whenever I see him smile I start smiling like a idiot it’s almost impossible to stop smiling
That happens to me too 🥺 what shall one do?
@@heheh1550 keep smiling
That’s actually the sweetest comment section I’ve ever read
Saa Kii 😃
@@heheh1550 try to act natural instead of making it too obvious, chat with your bff or something, she/he will help you
Tell this to Romeo and Juliet... They had two conversations and then got married... Somehow my English teacher calls it love and not lust
Shakespeare wrote Romeo & Juliet to make fun of first sight love
My name is Juliette and my crush name is Romeo
My teacher told us that we gotta get something straight before we start the story and that was how and why Juliet and Romeo were just two reckless teens infatuated and attracted to each other. Note that this is coming from a Conservative country. :)
@@jugimartinez830 no lol
*OOP-* AND I DOOP....
< has had a crush on someone for 5 years
Hasn't done anything
Anxiety is pain
End my misery
Jesus what are you so afraid of? How come you have this much anxiety?
@@fleuramolly6169 I guess I just have a huge irrational fear of rejection and embarrassment.
Theres also the fact that recently I've not been able to talk to him as much and I feel like itd just be more likely for anything to fail. Hes a year above me and we dont have classes together anymore, and I'm certainly not the most fortunate in looks, either, so I just dont feel confident that trying will work.
And I've grown up with a family that really makes it worse, making me feel more anxious and like I'm a bad and useless person so I just dont feel mentally strong enough i guess.
You're not bad or useless. Tell him how you feel. What if he's in the same situation as you? If you wait nothing will change (or even worse he'll find someone else because he never knew and you won't forgive yourself for not trying), so even if it's a no at least you'll know the truth. But you have a chance of it being a yes.
DO IT HUNTY ! YOU GOT THIS WATCH ASK KIMBERLY SHE WILL HELP GURLLLL! Take it here from your 6th grade fairy god mother
Sksks I feel like this will be me, because I’ve had a crush for 6 months and every time I feel like it’s going away, it just comes back like a storm. I don’t think it’s really going away, I just think that I accept it and then I don’t accept it. It’s weird. Anyways 6 months isn’t really that long (I mean at my school it is but like for serious crushes in general it isn’t-) but like I’ve never ever had a crush like this before. I haven’t even had a real crush besides this one. I don’t know, it’s just been such a big part of my life and I feel like every time it goes away it just comes back. Like over breaks it may start to fade, but as soon as school starts again and I talk to him it just comes back. I’ve just got it bad. I’m pretty sure I have borderline social anxiety, and I literally feel positive that he doesn’t like me. I feel like even if I’m spoon fed signs I still wouldn’t take the hint because I just don’t have confidence in myself. Really all I want at the moment is to get to know him better and see for myself what his true personality is. My crush and I are friends, but not close friends. I just want to know more about him, and see where that leads! Don’t get me wrong I totally want to date him and stuff, but I just want to know what kind of person he really is first. It’s funny because I literally have no idea why I like him. He’s nothing special or extraordinary. I mean to me he is obviously but like you get what I mean. I don’t even know if he’s really a good guy; that’s why I want to get to know him. I really hope that I get an opportunity to do that soon. Ahh sorry, this turned into me rambling about my crush when this comment was about someone else. I hate it when I do that. I’m always talking about myself and I don’t even mean to I just like to share my experiences and opinions on things. This is probably long, so if you made it this far, I give you a lollipop.
🧠One more fact-
💗Crush is when you love someone for many reasons.💗
💖 Love is when you love someone for no reason.💖
Your comment made my day 💞
But that’s still confusing 😭
Do crushes last years-
I’ve had what I think is a crush on someone I’m really close to for over 2 years and it won’t go away any time soon-
That made my day too! Thank you.
Super comment
REAL
It all starts with a silly crush and ends up in love.
Or heartbreak
Avrey The gacha wolf true dat
@@oldaccount1664 qwq
@@chara3968 ahh so true xxx
Ends up in disappointment
Yup I’m crushing but slowly falling in love
IT hurts ALOT but that hurting feels good at the same time
Goldy Ladhani sameee
OMG. IM GOING THRU THE SAME. in terms of hurt. I’ve never felt hurt come along w it before. Like y does it hurt every time I see him? Why does it hurt when I say goodbye to him n hurt over the next few days n I get so confused bout how I feel?
Its alright me and my crush stopped talking..
I've been in love with my best friend for a year and they think it was just a crush and that it's stopped now. We're still at school and very young so he says he's not ready for a relationship but I can't help but have hope. He's perfect and I can't think of any flaws. We're best friends and know basically everything about each other. He just doesn't return my feelings. Although he's sending me mixed signals which give me hope. The hope is worse than the knowing it'll never happen. :(
anonymous anonymous similar to my situation. He’s been my bestie for over a year n although he claims to reciprocate my feelings, I don’t think he does. He’s very distant now n we ain’t as close as we used to be
You know what I love....
THE NOSTALGIC UP MUSIC IN THE BEGINNING
*HELL YEA BRO!*
Haha, aww, so glad you loved it! ♥
Food
What's the name of it btw?
Carlos Hoffgen Married life from the disney movie "Up"
the main way i cant tell a difference is sorta like step 1. A crush is butterflies but love is a calming feeling, instead of being nervous you feel a calming sense when ur with them
i don’t even know why i clicked on this video... i’m lonely lmao
Same, I was bored and alone
@@justaydontstray2002 I can relate to this on a spiritual level
Its 1:30am i should be asleep but here i am LOL
LMAO SAME
It's okay...I feel you
Hahahaha
"Im not scared to fall in love, im scared to be the only one who falls✌"
But as army's may be we are the only one who fall😢
@@tamimgoodboy its sad
.
very related to us right?😭
Armys are everywhere 😁 ......Purple u Army 😍💜
Same
me: crushing on someone
also me: wants to make the move to ask her on a date
anxiety: u know u won't get that girl
me: but she just flirted
anxiety: no she didn't
me: but
anxiety: no
Me: crushing on best friend
Anxiety: she’s a girl
Depression: your family won’t like this
Me: but I like her
Me: shit she just did something cute...
Anxiety: yeah no run.
Me: but I wanna tell her she’s cute and I like her.
Anxiety no, and she’s straight.
@Mister Nobody
Exactly 🥺
@@sylvie_on IM NOT THE ONLY ONEE
Dimaris Torres hey, youll never be the only one. for anything. :)
RELATE.
My situation is …
BOTH.
my feelings are a mix of what you described.
When you know exactly why you like someone, it's a crush. But when you don't know why you like someone, it's love
Ok, but what if you know the reason you think he´s attractive from the outside or something, but you don't know why you miss them so much when they're not around
Oh, that’s tough.
Idk y I love her but I know y I love her.. she is beautiful she is funny she has a great smile and... everything. Other than that I have no idea why
well
I just met this dude in February
I've got a huge crush on him and he has one on me as well
I'm not sure why I have a crush on him, though
Ouch. Real talk.
The fact that I relate to the “crush” side of some of these and the “love” side of others is just *friggin fantastic*
Maybe you are falling in love 😏
Right! This was not helpful at all
@@bunniessd5227 I felt the exact same way, literally. I’m still pretty young too and I wasn’t sure about how I felt about him. Eventually I got up the courage to tell him how I felt, and I was rejected because he only saw me as a good friend.
I was out of it for a few weeks, doubting my self worth more than usual and hardly talking to any of my friends, but after a while I started to appreciate the fact that I’d told him.
Knowing he didn’t like me was, in my opinion, much better than wondering constantly if he did. Just keep that in mind! 🙂
@@bunniessd5227 I know how you feel on that one.
@@bunniessd5227 try 7 years....
i just realized that he had a crush on me but i fell in love with him.
maga bee
I have fallen for people that don't even know me. Like really fallen in love
Ya know, K-Pop idols :')
trip him, so he can fall too
Yak aga yak yak
same girl
I've never had a crush, but currently I've fallen in love with my best friend for 9 years 💀💀
I’m not friends anymore with my best friend but I also have a crush on her☠️
absolutely in the same boat, so i get it. dont know why or how it happened but it did💀
Any tip how do I not fall for my best friend 💀
Nah I hate my bff so can't relate lmao 💀
@@ThunderLord04 Rationalize things and get away. It is like giving water to plant. You need to stop reinforcement of the attachment, you can achieve that by getting out their environment and not thinking about them. It is hard, but feasible.
Love is when you don't lose feelings even after knowing the bad in them
That's toxicity at time too lmao
@@hellsowner8513 I mean, if you think about it, we've all made mistases and we have our imperfections. Such as being impatient, being lazy, having the dificulty to open up when necessary, and more things that can only be solved if the person is willing to improve and change their bad habits. You and I've got imperfections.
What would be toxic is knowing that the person has cheated on me on many occasions, isn't serious about the relationship, lies too frequently, fights constantly, they victimize themselves, they're selfish and so so much more... these things help you understand that this is not a person who's emotionally available and needs to mature on their own.
To love someone and know their imperfections, while knowing they are WILLING to leave it all behind and work for your relationship to improve, that's what it's about. Love calls us to forgive, be honest, communicate and most importantly be patient. If the person does not show any interest in improving then that's goodbye.
@@MonRojasOfficial omg i agree with you so much and not the other comment that says it’s “toxic” because at least someone who understands their bad side and tried to improve it is SOO GOOD , just like you said yea , non of us are perfect and love is loving them with their imperfections
imperfections doesn’t mean Toxicity … and you explained what exactly toxicity is
@@MonRojasOfficial very well said, highly appreciated 👏
@@MonRojasOfficialAs a guy i can say its soo truee🙂
Having a crush on someone honestly feels so good
until you see them with someone else
It really does!
Even if it hurts so freaking baaaaaaad..
#relatable
My crush is dating someone and I keep thinking about how she probably feels the same way I do about her to him
It’s almost annoying how much at attention I stand before her when she’s talking to me, and I literally overthink everything lmao
She asks for notes and I’m like what are those, 10 seconds later my friends are laughing at how dumb I am lmao, and the thing is it hurts, the emotional pain I get starts to feels physical, like I can feel my heart hurting but my love for every part of her drowns it out🥵 I’m fr miserable
Word perfect bro
@@sharankadakiya6390 thanks sis
One thing I feel largely underplayed in the video is that crushing and loving are not mutually exclusive. In fact, the vast majority of relationships (and yes, including longterm ones) go through a crush phase. So, often it is pretty natural to have a crush on someone (mutually), start dating, get to know each other and see the beautiful crossfade between crushing fading out and pure, unconditional love fading in.
I feel the same
Honestly this entire channel seems to prey on people who don’t realise all of this stuff is situational. There is no plan, or fool-proof advice, to make it easier. Because it’s difficult, and that’s just the way we get it.
This channel seems to thrive on relatability, but I can’t help but see a more sinuster undertone, that’s blatantly taking advantage of teens who don’t know well enough to realise that’s not how it works.
true
thank you 💘
I am in a sort of dilemma state can anyone please help me. I am in a relationship with my best friend, she understands me inside out and I did it too without having any need for her to say what she feels but suddenly many questions such as Is this true, and why is everything feeling so common to me and why is that butterfly like feeling not there worrying me because I am fearing that I am losing love, because she also said that she is feeling unloved from my side, we have a verryyyy deeep emotional connect and she has a heart of gold who is ready to give me everything that makes me happy and I do it too, but i am just not being able to express myself and care and feelings for her in the way I did just 3 months ago, right from the moment when these questions started, I am having highly frequent panic attacks in the fear that I would break her heart and I absolutely just can't let that happen I ll face it all by myself but not for her.
Can anyone please help me out hear, I am just wondering as to why is her voice not sounding the way it did, and this is happening all of a sudden. Please help anyone.
If it’s a crush, it can definitely turn into love if given time. Just be patient, and it could go very well.
I can confirm that.
And what if it's temporary attraction?
@@noneofthesehima.7997 I don’t need to fill in the blank on that one, pal.
@@noneofthesehima.7997 Even after 3 years?
@@Camcoum-s9s nah! After 1 yr or some months
1. A crush develops fast, while love grows over time 0:32
2. A crush forms from the basics, while love thrives from deep connections 1:05
3. A crush might feel insecure while love stems from trust 1:37
4. A crush feels new while love feel familiar 2:01
5. A crush is reckless while love is mature 2:23
Oof
Tq
The 4th one is how I know....I’m falling for this dude. Still not gonna tell him.
Jasmine Cooper don’t wait to long... if you do you might completely lose your chance... just tell em with confidence even if your not. People are more attractived to confidence so try it and if it doesn’t work then try and work last it or wait for them. I choose to wait.. but it ends up hurting in the long run... but hopefully you take this advice 💜💜💜
I had a Deja Vú moment when I saw this comment.
One more point: crushes are based on looks, how they talk, attractiveness etc. While love is opposite. You don't love them cause they're beautiful. They seems beautiful cause you love them ;)
i feel like it's just a crush but they seem more attractive and lovely to me after developing that feeling???????????!???
@@soobee3048 then take time to realise what it is!
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The weirdest thing for me is how my boyfriend keeps getting more and more attractive xD
omg this is so sweet 😭😭
“It’s like being with your best friend.”
What if it IS your best friend 😂
Leah Anderson exactly!
Lol 😂 yes.
@OTH_15 & MGH_12 same, I hate it so much
same here)))
I feel you :')
my crush is in a healthy relationship for once (she's been unlucky with bad guys doing her wrong) but now she's happy with a decent dude and i don't wanna wreck that so i distance myself also because it's painful to see her with someone else but i'd rather see her happy with a good guy than sad with a bad guy again if u truly love someone u'll put ur feelings aside for their happiness and let em go so that's what i'm doing.
Damn.. That was heavy.
And you're a decent guy. I'm sure you'll find someone nice.
that wasn't your crush, that was your love, and I guarantee you that you will have someone like that in your life too mate. Enough said
#thiagiboys hht❤️
I think love is when you can be in a big group of people and still feel a connection with that person and just enjoy their presence even if other people may be around
You described this on the best way that could be
Literally crying! This is how it felt 😔
That is the best description ever
I agree with you.That’s how I feel when they’re around
fuck..
Love is like a drug, you keep coming back even though it hurts :/
Burnt toast deeeeeep
@@lina6968 ikrrr I'm fr in my feels rn cuz my crush just dated another girl and it hurtsssss but I still love him 😔✊🏼
Burnt toast i feel u 😭
Bro that's not how it's supposed to work
@@ArteArt39 ik. everyone has different perspectives of love and when your truly in love ik it's nothing like this but when yur heartbroken it's similar 🤷🏽♀️
To put it simply: if i have a crush on someone it could very easily go away if they do something embarrassing or appearance changes in some way. But when I’m in love with someone like the guy I’ve been in love with for years then I genuinely don’t care how he looks or what’s going on his life or anything- I will love him despite anything
so sweet
This is so true
so truee
I had a crush and afterwards he proposed me ...idk why i rejected that 😅
@@anitjijo9941 Frankly saying,you those little affection you gave him was just for attention .It wasn't at all love or anything
this video was the confirmation I needed,(to stop having doubts about it because I don't even trust my feelings - yeah sometimes have OCD is complicated) now I'm sure what I feel is not just a crush. I'm in love with the love of my life.
The way you mentioned_ love of my life_ it was so beautiful! 😊
the best way to know if you're in love is if you still like him after he gets a haircut
😂😂😂😂😂😂 so true
This is embarrassingly accurate.
Yea this accurate XD
Yeeessss
yea I know right , my crush cut hi hair but I still like him do idk
When you're watching this even though you're single AF
Aww, your time will come. :) ♥
Omg me too😂😂😂 single forever lol
HAHHAHA
😂😂😂 lol for real
I’m single but crushing on this boy named Elijah
0:33 omg i thought that lunch lady was the crush..🤣
teabxns • LOL😂😂
JessiAndJesus :D same
LOL 😂
teabxns • me too!
LMAO same
I will forever be grateful that I got to experience both love and crush in life. Even though my only love went unrequited it was worth it!
1- a crush develops fast while love grows over time 0:30
2- a crush forms from basics while love forms from deep connections 1:03
3- a crush might feel insecure while love stems with trust 1:37
4- a crush feels new while love feels familiar 2:00
5- a crush is reckless while love is mature 2:23
-Bit Block- i was trying to help but okay..
This is good. Thanks! :) No worries about it. As long as you guys get the value quick that way, it's all good. You can always compensate back by sharing this video with others. Thanks for the support!
@@josiebrm7727 Thanks😘
josie brm Thank you. I can go back to key points and see them again without having to scroll for a while to see them. This is actually super helpful
Thank you.
It’s funny because I always describe things with my girlfriend as “I feel like I’ve been in love with her forever”. That’s so much different than a crush, which I’ve felt too many times to count. She makes me feel safe and happy and confident. Not to mention gives me this feeling of not _butterflies_ but more like a warmth. Like when you drink homemade hot cocoa with whipped cream and marshmallows.
That's amazing that your girlfriend makes you feel that way! I also feel safe with my boyfriend. :) It's so much better than the butterflies, because it isn't fleeting. ♥
Psych2Go holy ! Is your boyfriend TED-ED?!
Well, eating large amounts of chocolate simulates the feeling of love, from what I've heard.
Hot cocoa, whipped cream and marshmallows sounds like a gut ache to me
That's so cute!
Sometimes a crush can turn into love though.
It had happened and it is happening to me. Thats why I am here, making it clear. I know that I should not fall for him because our relationship will never be accepted by the society but love doesn't see consequences. 😢😢
@@niyati1218 why should it matter if your relationship doesn’t fit into society? Screw society. So what you want, not what others want.
@@niyati1218 Screw society! I’m gay and will never be afraid to show it!
Thank you everyone. Never met someone supportive as you all (except Him). But really a big thank you. 😊😊
@@agb8206 Yeah sure dear.
i think i’m IN LOVE.. i have known this dude for like 9 years and it took me until 2020 to start crushing, then i think now it’s love..
Update??
“It’s like being with your best friend”
My crush bing my best friend: Sweats nervously.
Facts. We're on the same boat. ;-;
I want her to be my best friend but I’m working on that
IM
MY CRUSH IS MY BEST FRIEND, _AND_ MY EX
AND MY CRUSH
HE LIKES ME BACK
OUR RELATIONSHIP IS A MESS
@@L0tus9455 Yep
@@bananapopproductions1292 ouch
you just know you’re in love when: “it hurts but I can’t even feel it ‘cause seeing your happiness means I did the right thing when I chose to leave.”
Ikr! I know I'm in love with this guy when I realise that he really like this girl and I letting him go. It's about "I want him to be happy, even though it means being happy without me." It hurt so much. But seeing the person that we love sad, actually hurt us more. Just like when Beast letting Belle go to help his father.
Enigma The INFJ exactly! My friend realized he really liked her when he told me “I would usually get jealous and want him to live the worse things in life. But right now, I oddly feel so fucking grateful this guy is alive because she talks to me with those fucking stars in the eyes and goddamn how beautiful she is when he’s around.”
same unfortunately
U just described my dad
LITERALLY !!!!! I healed my ex Bc he was so depressed before me. I literally know all his dark dark secrets. And when he was better and good he left with another. I felt used, but hey it happens
Freind: I think I'm falling in love
Me: aCtUAlLY yOUR cRuSHinG
WHy iS tHaT mE, tOO-
Chocolate Chip Kookie 7 for some reason I hate it when people are like I’m in love and usually aren’t
you're
@@orangine2543 samee
I’ve always wanted a guy to meet me, for me to say/do something, and for them to say immediately after I leave to a friend “I think I’m in love”. Cliche, I know, but idk I’ve always wanted that 😂. But the difference is I want him to actually be in love. Idk
There’s also the 3 month rule, if you feel attraction towards someone for over 3 months, it’s likely love.
Help I’ve liked them for like a year ;-;
...
Whyyyyyyy...?
Idk, it isn’t always a bad thing
There's thing called infatuation. And it can last for a year.
@@jeant6502 fair enough lol
"Crushes are quick"
Me: Crushing on someone I barely know for 2 years
Edit: Holy Crap. I legit forgot that I made this comment and I come back to 4.2k likes and 166 replies... im over the guy I made this comment about (not my choice, he switched schools), but I moved onto someone new. Help, its like an endless cycle
Same
Same I have a crush on a guy I barely talk too and can’t stop thinking about him
Yes same
I don't even get how people can have a crush on someone they barely know. But also, crushes are scientifically supposed to only last for four months, sooo...
Paramita Raha well my crush lasted way longer than 5 months and science doesn’t prove everything
when you’re in love with your best friend and he won’t date you because he doesn’t want to lose you
*frickin mINT*
OMG exactly 😭
I've been there
This
The person doesnt want to date you. Simple as that
twenty-øne chemical discøs e
me: looks at my crushes eyes
my crush: looks back in my eyes
both: fast looking to our best friends :))
Ooh he likes you too ^-^
Really?😂😂😂😂does it mean like that ?
@@juliesvlog19 yess it does I guess
@@hecker3268 It doesn't rlly work like that tough
same here haha
I used to change crushes like every week but then suddenly one girl stole my heart. Her laugh was so heartwarming
Honestly, I can’t tell if I’m falling in love or have a crush, because so many of these signs overlap 😅
@Yvette Peters
Omg same
Yvette Peters same
Same
BIG MOOD
A crush can develop into love
Seems like i was never in love...
Edit: Best Comment i made so far
Me too
I was once. It wasn’t reciprocated because the other was interested in boys.
Lol
That shit hurted
Good.
"Crushes are quick"
I crush over every other guy that looks at me at a freaking grocery store:|
damn😂
Is be like that sometimes
OMG 😂😂😂 this so funny!!!
oof im so sorry :
There’s this one store that I swear like every cashier is a kid from my school and like every guy working there I feel like I’m about to die when I go up to the cash register so I end my burying my head into my phone
I remember watching this video back in 2019 when I was 13 and trying to figure out whether it's love or I'm just crushing over this handsome guy in my school. Now I'm almost 17 and he's my boyfriend now. Time flies fast ❤️
The intro music is from Up and that’s all I can think about
Yep! You got it :)
Jade Shard that song makes me emotional
Justin Y., you’re a fake. 🤮
Existential Splurge never said I wasn’t
Me too, the moment it started playing.
Having crush increases ur attendance in school , colleges and parties. Isn't it😉😉😉
fr im excited to go to 9th grade after a whole school year of virtual classes
100%. First year so far that I’ve had in high school in which I have 100% attendance. It’s the last year too.
Hahahahahaha true
Having a crush on a fictional character decreases it
@@cannibalman8175 that's weird
another difference between having a crush on someone or being in love with them
after they get a haircut
crush: you’re not into them anymore
in love: you still like them
Well in that case, I'm screwed:)
Lol man this is deep. Im not being sarcastic but i just realized this is so almost true xd, and i say almost cuz theres a factor where appearance is important but still is true xd
What if they look more awesome with the haircut ?
Sergine Anaïs then that probably means love. haha
Yep
I know very well that having a crush is different from falling in love, since whenever a girl is nice to me i instantly get a crush on her
Normal people: "I love it when my boy/girlfriend tells me that s/he loves me."
Me: "I love it when my microwave tells me that my food is ready."
@loopy rain I didn't steal it. I'm just promoting it forward. Honestly, I mean no rude behavior of any way.
"iM nOt LiKe oThEr GiRlS!"
Sorry I had to do it lol
@@madameee4274 1 out of 4 comments I see are this way lol
wow so quirky
I see a crush as wanting to fall in love with someone.
Elijah Bolton that’s interesting
That's why it's called crush because if you don't fall in mutual love *you will be crushed*
Good perspective!
I like that idea.
Me too, lots people just choose a crush (and call it love)
I’m falling in love...
With your videos
Lol
Thank you
EcKs DeE
are you SURE it's love?
Jasmine Wadsworth you stole my line lmao
I am in love with a guy who is very silent, but when I am with him, I feel so understood and at peace like nothing else matters than the people and how they are. I feel so accepted towards him and I always miss his presence. We even understand each other during silence. That made me realize that I should never give up on someone like him, I never felt like that in front of someone else before and it's truly special.
girl I DON'T KNOW WHAT I'M FEELING
Well , it's a mix between some emotions, a little crush yeah for sure.....but it's too soon to say if it's love..surely... I have difficulties to talk to him because he works where I work... Not really simple to make a conversation... X.x...
So i don't really know what i feel too.. I feel like we are in a same vibe but also i feel like we are not in the same world, so weeeiirrd ! I just want to know what's his f****** name xD !?
this is so me
Welcom to another episode of "Is this just normal platonic love I feel for my best friend, or have I fallen in love with her?" FinD oUt In THe NeXt ePISOdE, aIRiNG _never_
Uhmm...yes
bitch same
hahaha
yes I’m gonna cry
Why I’m here rn
Being in love, knowing they dont share the feelings, and not being able to let go is a WHOLE 'nother level of hurt
That's extremely relatable.
@@izukumidoriya2061 hello izuku lol
yeah
Exactly.
Pain
You can still feel possessive while in love, but you know it's love when you try and not to be so and let them enjoy for their happiness. Sometimes you can argue with your partner or get jealous or insecure but if it's love then you will put in efforts to improve yourself.
In my 13 years life, I've never confessed to someone. I literally can't count my crushes. Because they're crushes. I think the first human I loved is my mum. My first love is my mom.
loving your parents arent the same as loving that 'someone' so technically you havent experience your first love yet. True love can make you love that 'someone' more than anything, even your own family
Its okay, you are still very young. These things differ from every person and its best to take your time.
Lol it is the same unconditional love, just different person. Lol
in my 24 years of life, I've never confessed to someone. Don't worry, you still got time
For me i had a crush on this one person but i know it's just a crush so i didn't care about her that much but when i started getting close with her and getting her more i started to "actually like someone for their personality?" I was baffled because in all my years i didn't believe in people actually falling in love so this is a new experience for me
Me: *confesses to crush and gets rejected*
TH-cam: you know what’ll make you feel better
I confessed to my crush and got rejected. Then with a different crush...he started dating my best friend...I feel your pain
me: falls in love
youtube: maybe you dont really love them, 10 signs they are cheating on you
Feel your pain just recently.
Lmao I literally never confess nor show the slightest hints I like someone. I’m introverted (also extroverted at times, but only with people I feel comfortable with and know) and I literally go stalker mode when I see my crush. 😂😂 For someone like me, I feel better just stalking my crush rather than actually being with him for some apparent reason. 😂😂
That’s why I never tell them 😂 And I know for sure we’re never going to end up together
1:00
She fell in love with the popcorn. Just look at her stare!
😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂 Dude!!
The most passionate stare I’ve ever witnessed
@@Galifamackus Yes lol
🤣🤣🤣
Summary: make sure to get to know the person you like/love more and become good/best friends with them before you date if you want it to last forever (or at least for a long time)
However a crush can transform into love - we have to remember that❤️
Edit: oh my goodness I’ve never got this many likes! This has made my day😍❤️
True
That happened to me
@@carol.mp488 how long did it take to turn to love
@@egyptnz27 It depends on how you know them, and how you feel.
Alisha Fairbairn thru dat
How to fall in love:
1. Dig a hole
2. Name it love.
3. Fall in it.
There you go. ;)
Genius.
U... U are a genius...
“This is the greatest plan!!!”
Best medicine
This is amazing
i have a crush on water
Same dude, who doesn't?
She's pretty gorgeous indeed instagram.com/immwater/?hl=el
Oh no no. I meant like bottled water
@@mmoequill You haven't watched jakenbake x water streams yet that's why dude
So you feel insecure about other humans drinking your water
Met my girlfriend at 23, now I am almost 25 and wer;e getting married in couple of months. This video described the way I am feeling.
guys, crushing is not really bad, it allows you to explore your emotions that you never learn before. If you can survive & learn from it, it can even make you a better person in the future.
Opposite to how many people in the comment section present it, crushing is not only not really bad, but actively positive and a huge breeding ground to foster actual love on.
In most relationships, crushing was naturally part of the "getting to know each other" phase of it.
That's so relatable to what I've been through in my life... and mb, everything that I am is even due to a crush, which grew up on somebody that made me actually develop myself for better in every way. Heads down, I do agree that crushing is a terrific first stride to an effective love, tho not as benign if it starts to consume you and your life, and can surely be trimmed or skipped. I am really thankful that mine ended up and love finally showed up. But either way, I'm still too young enough to presume any further, albeit this has been not less than true to me.
Felt both, and...
MAN I miss being in love. It was the best. Now I'm a moody, salty TH-cam commenter.
Same
Yass you be you girl/boi
I’m that but IRL
Another one for the people in that back!!
Saaaaame bro
this boy had a crush on me since 8th grade (we're in 12th now) and we were good friends but he confessed me after 3 years fear of getting rejected he broke our contact and we havent talked in like 5 months but then one day we met again during a small get together with friends (we're both introverts lmao) so the we started texting again (lockdown rules lol) and this time we started having deep and long convos sharing about our interests to our insecurities...i started having feelings for him its like hes so understanding, encouraged me for lil things and helped me a lot during my anxiety sessions. like a month later i confessed to him and it relieved me so much seeing him so happy about this XD a lot happened after that and now hes my boyfriend and im so deep in love with him! hes the most loyal, genuine, caring person ever and he'd still love me even if im in my worst looks i really love his deep and passionate talks and he has the best sense of humour...till now i cant believe i got to be a part of the best person ever and i feel really lucky to have him..this is the first time i have ever fallen in love and i feel really great about this
thats so sweet !!!
@@meowcores thank you !
awwww I wish uh guys will stay together forever
sending lots of love bestiee
@@nightingalelau3423 ty it means a lot!!
You're so lucky
Even though I’m in love with her, it still feels very new, she made me a completely different person and I love her ♥️
I wish I new how actual Love feels like.
Your profile matches your comment
Same
Yep
Just dont get attached. For your own sake
I'm sure you have heard this before, but you will eventually. I've been around the block a few times, so I know. My biggest mistake was closing myself off emotionally. I knew I was in love when my best friend made me want to trust again. Now, this love doesn't necessarily have to be romantic love. If you feel close enough to someone that you consider them like a part of your family, that's platonic love. Tell me, is there anyone you are particularly close with? You don't have to tell me, I just thought this might help you with any searching you've been doing.
My cousin had a crush on this guy who was in the band with me two or so years back. She hadn’t really talked to him until they got put together for a project. She would always talk about how he was so sweet and patient, and by the end of the year she said she was in love. Flash forward to years, and they’re going to colleges nearby and are living together. They are literally the sweetest couple and I was always so blushy and awkward about how cute they were before they got together, but now I’m just really glad I got to see them fall in love ❤
This is a super cute story, but i misread it at first and thought it said "My cousin had a crush on me" LOL
@@silvianelson3365 🤣
This story is adorable, but I love how you say "the band" like this is a band everyone knows lol (I hope this doesn't sound mean)
@@afoolishfopdoodle3284 Oops I meant the school band. I didn't realize that
@@midzy4life255 Oh no, you didn't have to apologize, I just find it funny
I have only crush. I hope one day I will feel love too.
If you believe that you will feel love, then you will. Life is like a reflection sometimes, what you believe in will reflect back to you like the laws of attraction.
@@CoolHumanBeing that's wise lmao
Be careful what you wish for
I have 3
I hate myself for having so many crushes since I am classmates with one and I'm friends with the other ;;
Patel Vidhu me too