Informal Q&A - Baby names, gender disappointment, friends, depression, advice for newlyweds + more!

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  • @1fielda
    @1fielda 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    You’re such a sincere woman. It’s truly admiring. I’m grateful you share your life with us. Thank you 💛

    • @jess_hover
      @jess_hover  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much! I am grateful you watch these videos!

  • @lotte90
    @lotte90 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    My mother was pregnant with my sister at the exact same time her best friend was pregnant with her girl and they both loved the same name. They both ended up using it and it wasn’t weird at all they said. 😊

    • @jess_hover
      @jess_hover  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That’s so cute! What a fun story i love it :)

  • @beeonkuhh8597
    @beeonkuhh8597 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    *Me sitting here calmly eating a sandwich 39 weeks pregnant with my first baby.*
    "just....new expecting moms, you're just so beautiful and you're gonna do great and I really believe in you."
    *Me sitting here with tears in my eyes eating a sandwich 39 weeks pregnant with my first baby.*

    • @jess_hover
      @jess_hover  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That is sooo sweet! Congratulations! Im so excited for you!

    • @vicky-leemcseveney1452
      @vicky-leemcseveney1452 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm not even 16 weeks yet and I'm sitting with tears in my eyes. ❤️ This was another wonderful video, thank you Jess😘

  • @garbogreta8713
    @garbogreta8713 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hey Jessica, I have watching your videos since I became a mother, I can't tell you how much you have helped me with my fears, anxiety, emotions, you have given me validation and uplifted my spirit when I needed it the most. I can't thank you enough. I am from a different country, different culture, but when I first saw your video I just felt you were the one friend I had been looking for ever since I became mumma. I have gone through so much that at one point I belived that I wasn't good enough for my baby, watching you videos made me realise that I was doing just fine, and my baby will lover her mumma for just no other reason than I am the mumma. Thank you thank you thank you. Huge hug, and lots of blessing 🙏

    • @jess_hover
      @jess_hover  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      This makes me so happy! Thank you for sharing with me and letting my channel be a part of your life! So much love to you!!💛

  • @deliav.b.8363
    @deliav.b.8363 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    you feel so authentic and genuine. thank you so much for your content, coming from a soon-to-be first time mommy ❤️

  • @tarasimpkins7381
    @tarasimpkins7381 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for the affirmations every video. I am 8 months pregnant and it makes me feel good. I am super nervous about lots of things but your videos really help me feel better.

  • @Naturally.Maggie
    @Naturally.Maggie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My mama and aunt had babies a couple of years apart and both loved the same name. They both used it and now I have a cousin with my same name. Growing up we were Big Maggie and Little Maggie. It was never weird ☺️💕

  • @AD-xo6re
    @AD-xo6re 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I didn’t think it would be possible to have admiration for you , since your videos have been such a bright spot in these early months of parenthood during COVID. But, your comments on gender disappointment resonated with me SO much. Thank you, as always, for sharing your insight and light 💕

  • @alliarose1550
    @alliarose1550 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    these videos always make me so happy as jess you are such a positive person and right now i really need a positive person around, my friend lucky is usually my cheerful friend but she has been very withdrawn since we found out we are pregnant, i know its cause she has been trying but due to a diagnosis it is going to be very hard for her to be pregnant, when me and another friend found out we were pregnant(2weeks apart) it was very hard to tell her because we are a tight knit group, she started crying and told us she had a miscarriage on the day she found out she was pregnant, since then it has been hard to be excited about baby stuff as i don't want to make her sad and i don't know what to do so thank you for being you and being so positive it makes me feel better!

  • @leylaa9658
    @leylaa9658 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You have such a lovely demeanour. I love your wit, warmth and natural charisma. Thank you for sharing so openly and honestly. I am also currently pregnant (with my first) due the second week of November! I have zero pregnant friends, so I am very grateful to have found your channel. I am really curious about your spirituality and how it informs your parenting. Have you done a video on this? If not, would you?

  • @marydalgarn1062
    @marydalgarn1062 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Yay!!! 100k!!! ✨😃💫🙌 You so deserve it!!

  • @ena9188
    @ena9188 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Heh we already picked the baby names,and it doesn't matter what will it be as long as its happy and healthy.The doctor said its a boy,but I don't mind 😊 im happy I got pregnant at all,after 6 years trying. My due date is in Feb 5th. Im 5months pregnant so far 😊 thAnks for sharing your exp.

    • @michaelgabs9885
      @michaelgabs9885 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      When things were at their very worst:
      2 Suns, Cross in the sky, 2 comets will collide = don`t be afraid - repent, accept Lord`s Hand of Mercy.
      Scientists will say it was a global illusion.
      Beaware - Jesus will never walk in flesh again.
      After WW3 - rise of the “ man of peace“ from the east = Antichrist - the most powerful, popular, charismatic and influential leader of all time.
      Don`t trust „pope“ Francis
      - will seem to rise from the dead
      - will unite all Christian Churches and all Religions as one.
      One World Religion = the seat of the Antichrist.
      Benedict XVI is the last true pope - will be accused of a crime of which he is totally innocent.
      The Book of Truth
      mdmlastprophet.com/the-first-sign-will-be-that-the-earth-will-spin-faster-the-second-sign-concerns-the-sun-which-will-loom-larger-brighter-and-begin-to-spin/

  • @illiah9784
    @illiah9784 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I adore you and your personality
    You're little growing family is just too precious 😭
    Makes me tear up
    🌿
    I pray me and my husband are able to have some little people soon
    🌿
    I just get so emotional thinking of family life and little babies
    🌿
    You're one blessed mama Mrs. Jess
    I pray you remember that when things get tough 🌷🌾

  • @ivanai3795
    @ivanai3795 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hello brave woman, I just found your channel. I was searching for depression and anxiety with pregnancy. I had really bad depression and anxiety with my baby #2, and now I'm scared to have baby #3, but I want it so bad! So, I'm curious, is this your baby #3? How do you struggle? Are you on meds? Please talk about that. Keep watching your videos to find out more. Thanks a lot 🙏😘

  • @d.g.3104
    @d.g.3104 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Will clicking on each and every ad on your videos instead of skipping it help you out more? LOVE your content and I have learned so much from your videos.

  • @user-qd1by3kp6g
    @user-qd1by3kp6g 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Maybe I’m seeing things, but I feel like I can see the baby move in this vid!

    • @jess_hover
      @jess_hover  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Haha it’s totally possible! The baby moves SO much these days. I actually told my family recently that I’m nervous I won’t have the energy to keep up with her once she arrives because she moves so much already! 😂

    • @TheCamiclo
      @TheCamiclo 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too!

    • @user-qd1by3kp6g
      @user-qd1by3kp6g 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jessica Hover that’s definitely possible! My little one was super chill in the womb and is the most laid back baby ever. Good luck mama 🍀

  • @nunumartinez-f5c
    @nunumartinez-f5c 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for your advice! I haven’t had my son yet but my mother in law is acting like I’m going to just hand my son over to her when he’s born for 40 days while I recover and I’m so not about that life. Plus he is my first baby so I already feel like she’s trying to take that from me.

  • @chanelhadley6325
    @chanelhadley6325 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Must be nice to have friends during these times. I lost all of my friends once they found out I was pregnant

  • @HouseJug
    @HouseJug 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    OMG finally 100k subs!!! So proud of you ❤️❤️❤️

  • @macapizzi
    @macapizzi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That dress you’re wearing!!😍😍
    Love your videos!

  • @majesticmom631
    @majesticmom631 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You hit 100K ..🥳. Congratulations 🎊🎉🎈

  • @cb71798
    @cb71798 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    If I watch ALL your videos when I'm pregnant do you think the baby will be soothed by your voice? 😂 I am so happy to have found you! I am 24 weeks 😁

  • @gracens1380
    @gracens1380 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes! Really good marriage advice. Wish I had started practicing that sooner. Now is better than later, though😊💜
    Also just realised I made request to the Facebook group through my husband's account, oops! Will make another soon.
    I hear you about standing in your underwear, wondering how in the world this is your life right now!

  • @autumnlee117
    @autumnlee117 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Congrats on 100k!! 🎉

    • @jess_hover
      @jess_hover  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much!!

  • @kaitlinrosario9787
    @kaitlinrosario9787 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your dress! Where is it from?

  • @oppsendless3814
    @oppsendless3814 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are sooooo glowing. Beautiful. Sidenote: The Owlet is not safe and not recommended by the AAP. Also, please don't use the dock-a-tot for sleep. :( It's so dangerous.

    • @missloretta
      @missloretta 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What's not safe about the Owlet?

  • @wolfgaec06
    @wolfgaec06 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    New babies arrive jet-lagged 🤣

  • @LovelyMrFox
    @LovelyMrFox 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Like always, such great advice 👌 Thank you again.

  • @rachelfolsom2352
    @rachelfolsom2352 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love watching your videos and I hope you have a blessed day. 💖

  • @whitney3258
    @whitney3258 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Currently 37 weeks pregnant & my husband and I found out the gender first & choose to do a "reveal" to our family.
    We already have 2 boys 12 yr old I birthed & 15 yr old bonus son so I really wanted a girl. Obviously we would have been fine with regardless but I was afraid of gender disappointment. Mostly of feeling that disappointment in front of everyone so we didn't.

  • @angelaschwandtner6453
    @angelaschwandtner6453 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lilly, Rosalie, Rose, Evalie are Names in English I like!

  • @finn-gb1px
    @finn-gb1px 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    100k! yay!

  • @Flufferz626
    @Flufferz626 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    My parents worried about this and used gender neutral names for my sister and me. My husband also has a gender neutral name lol.
    I don't know how my husband and I will handle this with our kids. Same tradition I guess?

  • @pg9060
    @pg9060 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    What is the website for the sleep schedules you mention?

  • @hicoco418
    @hicoco418 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I liked this video a lot.

  • @hobimysunshine7
    @hobimysunshine7 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    16:12 😂 the fact that you laugh at this story makes it funnier

  • @ruymencia
    @ruymencia 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm a man who was brought up by a tribe of women and your words regarding the gender disappointment were really good. I really don't mind if I have a boy or a woman (due for May 2021) but of course I have my doubts about being a good dad after having been with so many women all my life. I don't like football or typical men things (though I am a black belt in Kung Fu), and it's not that I don't want a boy, it's just that I am sure I could raise a really strong and independent woman, but I am unsure if I could do the same with a man. Don't take me wrong, I am not saying "men have to be XXXX", but of course, I want to raise a self-confident man if that's the case. I don't think it has to be so different than with a girl and that I will learn on the go, so probably it's not so important, but it's something I've been concerned about. Thanks for your reassuring words. I hope I do good whatever I have and that my kids are healthy and happy in life.

  • @fizzybeu788
    @fizzybeu788 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Annie!

  • @lotte90
    @lotte90 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yesss💜

  • @ioanarosca6985
    @ioanarosca6985 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why do you have SOOOOO many ads in this video? they pop up every 5 minute or so... beside that, I really like Q&A videos so this one has a like from me.

  • @Lucy-rn2kk
    @Lucy-rn2kk 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    The least relevant part of the video, but, your dress is so pretty! Where is it from? I am trying not to get pregnancy clothes since it's my second pregnancy and I already have what I need (also got pregnant while breastfeeding), but sometimes you just want a little treat! 😅

  • @sofialima7128
    @sofialima7128 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    hi

  • @stevenhowick6989
    @stevenhowick6989 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    When is your due date

    • @Abcdefghijajajaja
      @Abcdefghijajajaja 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just watch the video she said that weirdo

    • @stevenhowick6989
      @stevenhowick6989 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Abcdefghijajajaja when is the due date

  • @stevenhowick6989
    @stevenhowick6989 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Are. You going to post a birth vlog

  • @mengxiaoLIU
    @mengxiaoLIU 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Are your housemaids expensive?

    • @joannearmour2308
      @joannearmour2308 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Housemates* 😂

    • @annarocha3254
      @annarocha3254 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      They aren't maids. They're basically her friends who live in their house and help pay rent. :)

    • @mengxiaoLIU
      @mengxiaoLIU 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@annarocha3254 Oh. I see. Thanks for the explanation.

    • @mengxiaoLIU
      @mengxiaoLIU 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@joannearmour2308 Hahaha, now I know.

    • @Abcdefghijajajaja
      @Abcdefghijajajaja 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂😂😂