Very well said you two❤ also I would add that that some of our fellow Filipinas only think that those women who married foreigners are "stupid" but actually in my own experience and the interactions I've had with the Filipino community here, every woman are so hard working, very skillful, very creative, even when they are full time mothers they still manage to set up businesses, sell and provide services to help their man💪
I am cold-hearted too. You have to be. My filipina wife started getting calls for money soon after we were married. Fortunately, she and I were on the same page and told them that our priority has to be our immediate family, particularly our kids. Eventually, those calls from the Philippines stopped. Btw... I think Gwen should help her filipina friends find a partner in the Czech Republic. It is hard to meet a good person.
Yes, to be cold-hearted is actually important if you are married to a filippina. You have to be. But I think it is not a big problem if you have children with her. But here in Scandianavia we dont have tradition to help second and third cousins relatives at all. The only relatives who can support each other a little bit are parents and children. But it is not much. But if you are lucky and find a good filippina, you can not find a better wife.🥰
OMG, another great couple. They have great chemistry. I also have good chemistry with my wife of 31 years that I met in my twenties. Mostly people are going to pick the best mate and quite often, in the US, that can be an Asian wife and especially a Filipina that is highly compatible. There is a two point advantage in both directions in the area of attraction. I'm not sure why that is but we don't have to call it yellow fever or white fever. It could be a uniqueness advantage or a level of masculinity or femininity that registers higher than what one typically has in their environment. That's why this is a common match up because the magnetism is stronger and at the same time the other requirements are often there. So, for me its simple math. Its a "no brainer". More attraction plus more compatibility means more marriages. Its not something to question or stigmatize and frankly, if people were more honest (and many are) they would admit that they want it for themselves also.
Hello!! We are glad to hear that somewhere in this world is another great couple as us :) Me and Gwen are wishing you sweet marriage and endless amount of happy days together.
In PH millions of Pinay girls compete for a few foreigners. Men have more options, girls care about their foreigner bf and relationship can last. In the West Pinay girl has more options and relationship can easily end. Luckily she doesn't speak Czech and doesn't work yet. I took my Pinay to UK - not Poland and I regret it now. My Filipina is slowly being westernized by friends and social media, is becoming lazy, materialistic, started drinking & smoking, etc.
Unfortunately sir you are wrong. Gwen slowly learns Czech and second thing is that is working like a regular Czech citizen. Thank you for comment and take care always. We recommend you to go through our other videos where you can get to know us better.
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Thank you 🙏🏽 Haven’t heard anyone cover the topic from a Filipina perspective. My ex was Chinese (and my first Asian) and I saw her as a woman first and Asian was just a characteristic like hair color. I do find all women attractive but prefer Asian at this point. It’s just a preference and not some stereotypical “yellow fever” That’s an unfair thing to say. Just a preference
@@lyndenmanning Just saying I like their physical features. Their hair looks like silk, their faces look very feminine, and I love golden brown asian women. Most of all it's their feminine mannerisms though. They have the cute wife vibe.
Hello, I’m your new subscriber! I am currently doing a research of my own about Filipino-Czech couples. I am currently in a talking-stage with a Czech man as well and we are kinda having a “bit confusing” relationship with each other. So I hope you will be able to help me and clarify questions that I have about dating a Czech man. 1. In Czech culture, is it common for Czech men to be cautious or set boundaries early in the relationship, especially a long-distance one? (Because he tends to not show a little bit of reaction to my cheesy messages or compliments about him, I feel like he’s not trying to even go there…like I want him to also be open and clingy to me but I think he’s scared or something). 2. How do Czech men generally feel about long distance relationships? Is it seen as more difficult or worth pursuing for them? 3. Is it common for Czech men to value personal space or emotional boundaries in relationships, even when they also feel a connection? (That’s why he’s scared of fully committing?) 4. He is sensible, funny, and thoughtful to me. He said he liked me too. But whenever I ask him, if he would like to take a risk and commit to having a relationship with me, he tends to tell me that it is irrational and it doesn’t make any sense, since we haven’t met yet in person (which I totally understand, but what I am trying to say is, if our conversations are meaningful to him and if there’s a possibility that we can be together in the future, once we finally meet… something like that.) Does this reflect a typical way of Czech men expressing themselves in relationships? 5. How important is meeting in person for Czech men before they fully commit to a relationship? I hope you will be able to help and enlighten me about Czech men with their culture and as an individual. Thank you and may your relationship with your partner be as stronger as ever, God bless you. ❤ @Filipina Czeching
@@Queen.Valkyrie hello sis! 1.. Yes, they won’t trust you easily because, for them, they've only met you on social media. The relationship isn't as serious for them compared to an in-person connection. Czechs aren’t sweet with words; they’re not into cheesy expressions. However, in texts, they might be like that, but vocally, they aren’t very sweet. They’re also not clingy, though some might be. 2. Honestly, it really depends on the person. Yes, they may have second thoughts, but it’s not as serious for them as it is when meeting in person. They still have walls or barriers between you and them. 3. Yes, they value personal space most of the time. Emotional intelligence isn’t as strong compared to Filipinos, who are more emotionally expressive. But even if he’s scared, knowing you haven’t met in person, if he wants you, he will commit. My husband had a lot of second thoughts and advice from people that could have changed his mind about being with me, but he still took the risk. 4. RED FLAG. Is he just playing with your feelings? I know it’s irrational, but why is he still talking to you if he doesn’t want to be with you? Even if it’s a long-distance relationship and you haven’t met in person, if he’s willing to be with you, why not? He’s not ready for any commitments yet, just wasting your time for fun. If he’s young, like a teenager, it’s normal that most just want to have fun. 5. Yes, meeting you is important, but it doesn’t mean he’s going to commit to you 100%. Some will meet you to get to know you better. 6. For me, sis, your relationship with him is quite complicated. You’re committed, but he isn’t. Please don’t give 100% of your trust or all of your feelings. He seems 50/50-serious and not. Because you know why, if he’s not into ldr and doesn’t want it, why is he giving you mixed signals. He is confusing you. I have a lot more to say. Pwede tayo mag chat sa IG.
OMG hello po! Thank you po, I didn’t expect you’d reply po huhu. I’ve been desperate in knowing answers from other people’s perspectives but I don’t know any ppl who are Czech. For sure po, we can talk more if it’s not too much to ask of you 😭 coz I’m like in a situationship with him hayyysss. 🥹
@@Queen.Valkyrie no worries sis pm mo ko sa ig. Nasa description yung link ng ig ko. I’d be happy to give you some advices. My husband can give you advices too based on his own perspectives as a Czech guy.
Intresting. Well for me it became rather easy, my wife had already worked overseas for 5 years, came home and see that her family had wasted the money she sent on a poorly built house and her dad used it to support a mistress. She send money when she wants to, but they know if they ask she will get irritated and instead send nothing. When we met she was upfront with that she wanted to leave Philippines, if she hadnt met me she would have gone overseas again. She wanted a white guy because we look clean and mixed babies with white men become more pretty, yes in western standards she is racist but that seem to be rather common in asia. She have been living in Sweden for 7 years, have work and bought a lot on Philippines and we are now saving up to build a house.
We are experiencing also a kind of issue connected with scamming from the family. Many times receiving photos with the list of the things which needs to be bought by the Filipino siblings of Gwen. But after checking the prices on the handwritten piece of paper and then comparing it with the real price of the product which we found exactly the same online we were shocked that they were not ashamed to send us the list with the prices higher even 1000%. Unfornutelly for them me with Gwen are not that stupid as someone thinks. WE GOTTA BE CAREFULL ALL THE TIME!
@@FilipinaCzeching I understand that this is a huge problem for many that have a kind filipina that feel obligated to help her family until she have kids of her own. Even I was at their place for a total of 1 month noone ever ask me to buy anything but a few beer. They knew they had to fight with my wife after lol
Generally speaking the most important thing to a woman is her children. I doubt any woman thinks "I'll just marry a loser so my children suffer and I can be beaten" - she's looking for a partner who can help provide a good future for herself and her children. Marrying up economically and having preferences in a partner doesn't make someone a bad person. IMHO a gold digger is a woman who's in it for no one but herself, not even her children. A woman who supports her partner and raises her children to the best of her abilities is just a good woman. I wonder if the negative comments from other Filipinos is just because they're jealous that they didn't find someone who could provide a better life for them. Gwen, I agree with gdennis - vet some Czech men for your Filipina friends. There's no shame in wanting a better life for yourself and your children.
I agree with you, Sir Dale, but sadly, many women are still too naive to determine whether a Filipino man is good or not. They are often charming at the beginning, getting the woman pregnant, but as the years go by, they may start to change. In the worst cases, they begin cheating, beating their wives, and eventually leaving. Many Filipinas are slowly realizing this pattern in our society, which is why many of us are choosing to find someone better. Also, it’s the crab mentality, a trait often seen among Filipinos, and I include myself in this because I am Filipino too. This mentality leads people to undermine others’ success and happiness, such as with Filipinas who marry foreigners. Instead of celebrating these personal choices, some people spread negativity. We, Filipinos, often spend long hours chatting, and these conversations can quickly turn into gossip and criticism of those who have achieved more whether it’s someone with a successful business or a relative who made money abroad and is criticized for not having enough 'utang-na-loob' or for not sending enough money home. This envy and criticism are widespread because, despite our Christian values, Filipino culture can be very materialistic and focused on external achievements, we end up criticizing others instead of working on our own growth and goals.
Thank you for your nice video do not worry what other think as long as you are happy. We all have are preferences for example I like a smaller women. Does that make me bad NO. Some like them bigger are they bad NO. Some like strong minded other like simple minded who is right. Go for what you want and do not worry what other think. Thank you
Sir I would not explain it better. Thank you for your constructive comment we appreciate it. Take care always and stay tuned for more adventures of ours :)
It is always better to listen more than one oppinion generally about everything because thanks to that it causes people make their own oppinions and then own decisions then just blindly folowing other orders.
The criticism has a point though. In my experience most Filipinas marry foreigners for money and to escape poverty 😂. Of course it's mean to post stuff like that, because not all are like that.
In my opinion it is not mean. All people should accept the fact that each of us have different opinions about certain things. We can accept them or not and none of these two is wrong.
sadly they quickly become feminist & westernized in big cities in PH and when taken to live abroad. Pinay love attention and they will get it not just from social media but guys on the streets in the West
Thats right and i would add one thing which is that Filipinas can be still hardworking woman who don’t mind to get their hands dirty and still look like asian barbie dolls. This description is slowly fading in the west nowadays.
Interesting point of view. I think it is the "crab mentality," with people trying to bring you down and keep you at their level. Misery loves company and will drag you down if you let it.
This mentality is going to hold in this world with force but you do not have to provide that much force to avoid being pulled down by those Crabs. You are the one who has control over your life.
There is nothing wrong with wanting to escape poverty. But, the idea that Gwen married without love just to get out of poverty is clearly ridiculous. Gwen would have to be the best actress in the history of acting to make us all believe she is giddy in love with Jacob. The easier explanation is of course that she is not acting and that she is wildly in love. If her friends and family cannot see that in all these videos, then they are simply blind.
I think possibly these negative remarks and attitudes aren't specifically connected to having a white partner. It's just simply that PH has a relatively cruel culture for some reason, where crab mentality and ridiculing others is socially accepted. I've heard a lot of stories from people of how they were ridiculed and bullied for being dark skinned as a kid, for not speaking English well enough, for not having experienced big cities, and the list just goes on. Sadly even includes being blamed for becoming a victim of sexual violence. If a Filipina has a Westerner as partner then the "obvious" mean stereotypes to weaponize are the "gold digger", "yellow fever", etc.
These are all true, and a lot more…Crab mentality is also one of the reasons why it hinders successes in our country because of our mindset. In politics, for example, leaders often focus on attacking each other and filing cases against one another instead of working collaboratively to develop beneficial laws and programs. News often highlights conflicts between officials rather than their achievements. Past and present presidents have rarely received genuine praise or support for their efforts.
I will probably never have a relationship with a Filipina because I would tell her: I don't want to get married and I'm too old to have children. What is your future if I die and my child is 10 to 13 years old. Relationship with women having children wouldn't actually be a problem for me, but that is supposed to be dangerous, there is a risk of prison because the women are often not divorced. A video about these things (don't get married, just live together, no children with the foreigner, women with children who aren't divorced) would be interesting.Greetings from Munich / Germany
I guess it was already too much of negative thoughts sir. Lets go. Get up and make as well as you can to bring happiness of any kind to your life. Better to do something and fail than doing nothing. 😎
Family and community connections are usually much stronger and widespread in the Philippines compared to the west, so ‘face’ is more important. These comments can’t be brushed aside, as they will affect a Filipina more. I do think many comments are barbed to hurt out of jealousy though. I wonder how isolating it is for a Filipina living in the west as well and if these are the comments she hears it must be more hurtful. I imagine being older and wondering about what Pele have said and me worrying about them - old people are not concerned, so young people shouldn’t be either
Me as a husband of a Filipino citizen I can say that the amount of hate comments Gwen receices is huge and sometimes hard to manage for Gwen. But luckily for Gwen her caring Husband (ME) makes her realise which comments should be important for her and which she should just read, laugh on and continue doing great things in life. Take care always.
Stereotypes are unavoidable. As long as a couple are happy with their choices then it should not be anyone's business. People have to live their own lives.
I guess the Filipino Keyboard Warriors are like a lot of single Western women! 😅 They can’t seem to understand that we’re marrying each other because we want to be happy! 😊
Human jealousy is never ending story but whats more important about it is that we shouldn’t let those people influence us to have bad thoughts or stop us doing the things which makes them jealous. I would say this everyone: keep making people jealous because that means you are doing better than them.
99.9% of all Filipinas that marry foreigners have a huge jump in their standard of living, I would be willing to bet that your lifestyle is far superior to your family and friends back home. Anything that has this great a payoff will be looked at as an investment. It is likely true that you escaped poverty just as they claimed. Sometimes the truth hurts, embrace your new happiness.
Of course there can be huge difference in the way of living. Here in the Europe are different standards than in the Third world country as The Philippines but it does not mean that the different life will change your mindset. Once you grew up in the worst conditions you will always remember those. And soon we will see how it will be for me as a European citizen who will have to adapt to the life in the Philippines after moving there soon.
@@FilipinaCzechingmove back to PH with your Filipina as soon as possible. I am from Poland and took my Filipina to UK 3 yrs ago and regret it ... sadly I had no choice (no work in PH)
Hi Gwen, very nice video. But y husband is young . You not spoke about 20 to 30 y old Filipinas marry western guy over 50 or 60 years old. In that case i ihink it is most for money and body/sex is curreny girls pay with. Please update your video with part 2.
I doubt videos like this will change any perceptions can’t change the gold digger look, but us men just do not care, and other men just don’t mind or care… it’s only women who seems to have issues with each other.
That’s very true. I don’t want to overlook the experiences of women who face challenges due to these criticisms. It can be very difficult dealing with the weight of expectations and stereotypes, which sometimes leads to hate and jealousy. Many Filipinas have faced hurtful comments from others just because they are in a relationship with a white man. The criticism and judgment can be very heavy to experience-an example being that I was cut off by my cousins out of jealousy just because I married Jakub.
@@FilipinaCzeching water off a duck’s back.. ever heard that phrase? Also, you find out how people really are.. and decide it’s a good thing not to associate
And there is no need to feel bad if someone decides to be like this. We have to think about our family before someone else’s family. And thats the rule.
The best thing about jealousy or just about the fact people talk about you is that probably you are doing better then them. Lets keep doing always better guys.
No matter what woman you choose whether she be Filipino or American or Cuban it doesn’t matter they all cost so you can spend your life alone if you want to, but I don’t recommend it. Make each other happy. Make each other happy she’s going to cost you one way or another.
@@spartanpatriot2028Personally I don't feel cut out for a relationship (for mental health reasons), so I am going to have to take my chances with being alone.
Thats what we are doing and focusing on and in the same time agreed on providing little help if necessary but with specific limitations. Always have limits guys or you will be abused. Always
@@nognoglelis6227 comparing me to Cindy Cinco? Really? If you're a fan of her because of her vulgarity, that's your issue, not mine. But not all Filipinas are like her, so maybe try educating yourself before shaming me with your ignorance.
@@FilipinaCzeching😂😂😂😂😂 sure why where you come from from the rich country. Dapat dawaton NATO dai nga gikan ta sa poor country natural my pilipina napud na naka ahon sa kahirapan 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Kay gikan ta sa pobre na country dai.. 😂😂😂😂😂
@@SleeperDarkside Hi Sir, thank you for your comment. I want to clarify that Black men are generally accepted in relationships with Filipinas, just as white men are. My video focused on marriages to white men because these unions are more common in the Philippines and often face more scrutiny and criticism due to colorism and colonial mentality. I hope this helps clarify the focus of my message.
I dont think filipinas are really checking for black dudes. They like white skin, blue eyes, blonde hair, etc. They use skin whitening products & face ridicule for being darker skined. If im correct, they wish for children to be either mixed white or filipino. I dont think they're racist. They're just aligning to their society for what they see as a better future.
@@Anthony-X-King Hello sir, I saw your comment 20 minutes ago in my notifications, but when I clicked on it, it was gone from this comment box. I didn’t delete anything. I’m not sure why; maybe TH-cam moderators removed it.
Hello, Host why marrying a white guy is so super special for a Filipina than a Black guy a Black guy is just as special as a White guy that is so stereotype thinking but anyway it's nice to meet you I am watching from Greensboro North Carolina Your New Friend take care God Bless!!!
@@lifeinnorthcarolina4770 Hello po, thanks for your comment. I want to clarify that my video wasn’t meant to stereotype or be unfair to Black men. Marrying a Black man is just as accepted as marrying a white man. I focused on white men because they face more criticism in the Philippines due to colorism and the higher number of white foreigners marrying Filipinas. This increased criticism is due to these biases, not because Black men are less accepted. I hope this clears things up. Thanks for understanding.
Very well said you two❤ also I would add that that some of our fellow Filipinas only think that those women who married foreigners are "stupid" but actually in my own experience and the interactions I've had with the Filipino community here, every woman are so hard working, very skillful, very creative, even when they are full time mothers they still manage to set up businesses, sell and provide services to help their man💪
I am cold-hearted too. You have to be. My filipina wife started getting calls for money soon after we were married. Fortunately, she and I were on the same page and told them that our priority has to be our immediate family, particularly our kids. Eventually, those calls from the Philippines stopped.
Btw... I think Gwen should help her filipina friends find a partner in the Czech Republic. It is hard to meet a good person.
You right. Being cold-hearted does not immediately mean we are not kind we are but in the same time we value our standards.
I’ve been married for eighteen years to my Pinay, and not once has her family asked us for money. Yes, not once.
Yes, to be cold-hearted is actually important if you are married to a filippina. You have to be. But I think it is not a big problem if you have children with her. But here in Scandianavia we dont have tradition to help second and third cousins relatives at all. The only relatives who can support each other a little bit are parents and children. But it is not much. But if you are lucky and find a good filippina, you can not find a better wife.🥰
OMG, another great couple. They have great chemistry. I also have good chemistry with my wife of 31 years that I met in my twenties.
Mostly people are going to pick the best mate and quite often, in the US, that can be an Asian wife and especially a Filipina that is highly compatible. There is a two point advantage in both directions in the area of attraction. I'm not sure why that is but we don't have to call it yellow fever or white fever. It could be a uniqueness advantage or a level of masculinity or femininity that registers higher than what one typically has in their environment. That's why this is a common match up because the magnetism is stronger and at the same time the other requirements are often there. So, for me its simple math. Its a "no brainer". More attraction plus more compatibility means more marriages. Its not something to question or stigmatize and frankly, if people were more honest (and many are) they would admit that they want it for themselves also.
Hello!! We are glad to hear that somewhere in this world is another great couple as us :) Me and Gwen are wishing you sweet marriage and endless amount of happy days together.
hopefully that chemistry remains in the future...
Pinay in the West can become feminist and bitchy like white women
In PH millions of Pinay girls compete for a few foreigners. Men have more options, girls care about their foreigner bf and relationship can last.
In the West Pinay girl has more options and relationship can easily end.
Luckily she doesn't speak Czech and doesn't work yet.
I took my Pinay to UK - not Poland and I regret it now.
My Filipina is slowly being westernized by friends and social media, is becoming lazy, materialistic, started drinking & smoking, etc.
Unfortunately sir you are wrong. Gwen slowly learns Czech and second thing is that is working like a regular Czech citizen. Thank you for comment and take care always. We recommend you to go through our other videos where you can get to know us better.
Your two love birds are coming to you again a bit later than usual, but better late than never. Enjoy our video about the struggles that Filipina women have to endure during interracial relationships. Subscribe and visit our channel for more!
Thank you 🙏🏽
Haven’t heard anyone cover the topic from a Filipina perspective.
My ex was Chinese (and my first Asian) and I saw her as a woman first and Asian was just a characteristic like hair color.
I do find all women attractive but prefer Asian at this point. It’s just a preference and not some stereotypical “yellow fever” That’s an unfair thing to say. Just a preference
We would like to bring more topics about this from Gwens point of view with a hope that Filipino people will realise....Maybe....Sometimes
She explained everything just right and it's all true! sometimes people can be cruel
Exactly. Sometimes even the word CRUEL is not enough to describe human behaviour.
Filipinas are beautiful !!!!
@@lyndenmanning Just saying I like their physical features. Their hair looks like silk, their faces look very feminine, and I love golden brown asian women. Most of all it's their feminine mannerisms though. They have the cute wife vibe.
I think you two are a good team. Teams can only win together.
Awww you are soo sweet. Thank you and we hope you will keep seeing us this way always. Stay safe always :)
Hello, I’m your new subscriber! I am currently doing a research of my own about Filipino-Czech couples. I am currently in a talking-stage with a Czech man as well and we are kinda having a “bit confusing” relationship with each other. So I hope you will be able to help me and clarify questions that I have about dating a Czech man.
1. In Czech culture, is it common for Czech men to be cautious or set boundaries early in the relationship, especially a long-distance one? (Because he tends to not show a little bit of reaction to my cheesy messages or compliments about him, I feel like he’s not trying to even go there…like I want him to also be open and clingy to me but I think he’s scared or something).
2. How do Czech men generally feel about long distance relationships? Is it seen as more difficult or worth pursuing for them?
3. Is it common for Czech men to value personal space or emotional boundaries in relationships, even when they also feel a connection? (That’s why he’s scared of fully committing?)
4. He is sensible, funny, and thoughtful to me. He said he liked me too. But whenever I ask him, if he would like to take a risk and commit to having a relationship with me, he tends to tell me that it is irrational and it doesn’t make any sense, since we haven’t met yet in person (which I totally understand, but what I am trying to say is, if our conversations are meaningful to him and if there’s a possibility that we can be together in the future, once we finally meet… something like that.)
Does this reflect a typical way of Czech men expressing themselves in relationships?
5. How important is meeting in person for Czech men before they fully commit to a relationship?
I hope you will be able to help and enlighten me about Czech men with their culture and as an individual. Thank you and may your relationship with your partner be as stronger as ever, God bless you. ❤
@Filipina Czeching
@@Queen.Valkyrie hello sis!
1.. Yes, they won’t trust you easily because, for them, they've only met you on social media. The relationship isn't as serious for them compared to an in-person connection. Czechs aren’t sweet with words; they’re not into cheesy expressions. However, in texts, they might be like that, but vocally, they aren’t very sweet. They’re also not clingy, though some might be.
2. Honestly, it really depends on the person. Yes, they may have second thoughts, but it’s not as serious for them as it is when meeting in person. They still have walls or barriers between you and them.
3. Yes, they value personal space most of the time. Emotional intelligence isn’t as strong compared to Filipinos, who are more emotionally expressive. But even if he’s scared, knowing you haven’t met in person, if he wants you, he will commit. My husband had a lot of second thoughts and advice from people that could have changed his mind about being with me, but he still took the risk.
4. RED FLAG. Is he just playing with your feelings? I know it’s irrational, but why is he still talking to you if he doesn’t want to be with you? Even if it’s a long-distance relationship and you haven’t met in person, if he’s willing to be with you, why not? He’s not ready for any commitments yet, just wasting your time for fun. If he’s young, like a teenager, it’s normal that most just want to have fun.
5. Yes, meeting you is important, but it doesn’t mean he’s going to commit to you 100%. Some will meet you to get to know you better.
6. For me, sis, your relationship with him is quite complicated. You’re committed, but he isn’t. Please don’t give 100% of your trust or all of your feelings. He seems 50/50-serious and not.
Because you know why, if he’s not into ldr and doesn’t want it, why is he giving you mixed signals. He is confusing you.
I have a lot more to say. Pwede tayo mag chat sa IG.
OMG hello po! Thank you po, I didn’t expect you’d reply po huhu. I’ve been desperate in knowing answers from other people’s perspectives but I don’t know any ppl who are Czech. For sure po, we can talk more if it’s not too much to ask of you 😭 coz I’m like in a situationship with him hayyysss. 🥹
@@Queen.Valkyrie no worries sis pm mo ko sa ig. Nasa description yung link ng ig ko. I’d be happy to give you some advices. My husband can give you advices too based on his own perspectives as a Czech guy.
Intresting.
Well for me it became rather easy, my wife had already worked overseas for 5 years, came home and see that her family had wasted the money she sent on a poorly built house and her dad used it to support a mistress. She send money when she wants to, but they know if they ask she will get irritated and instead send nothing.
When we met she was upfront with that she wanted to leave Philippines, if she hadnt met me she would have gone overseas again. She wanted a white guy because we look clean and mixed babies with white men become more pretty, yes in western standards she is racist but that seem to be rather common in asia.
She have been living in Sweden for 7 years, have work and bought a lot on Philippines and we are now saving up to build a house.
We are experiencing also a kind of issue connected with scamming from the family. Many times receiving photos with the list of the things which needs to be bought by the Filipino siblings of Gwen. But after checking the prices on the handwritten piece of paper and then comparing it with the real price of the product which we found exactly the same online we were shocked that they were not ashamed to send us the list with the prices higher even 1000%. Unfornutelly for them me with Gwen are not that stupid as someone thinks. WE GOTTA BE CAREFULL ALL THE TIME!
@@FilipinaCzeching I understand that this is a huge problem for many that have a kind filipina that feel obligated to help her family until she have kids of her own. Even I was at their place for a total of 1 month noone ever ask me to buy anything but a few beer. They knew they had to fight with my wife after lol
Generally speaking the most important thing to a woman is her children. I doubt any woman thinks "I'll just marry a loser so my children suffer and I can be beaten" - she's looking for a partner who can help provide a good future for herself and her children. Marrying up economically and having preferences in a partner doesn't make someone a bad person. IMHO a gold digger is a woman who's in it for no one but herself, not even her children. A woman who supports her partner and raises her children to the best of her abilities is just a good woman. I wonder if the negative comments from other Filipinos is just because they're jealous that they didn't find someone who could provide a better life for them. Gwen, I agree with gdennis - vet some Czech men for your Filipina friends. There's no shame in wanting a better life for yourself and your children.
I agree with you, Sir Dale, but sadly, many women are still too naive to determine whether a Filipino man is good or not. They are often charming at the beginning, getting the woman pregnant, but as the years go by, they may start to change. In the worst cases, they begin cheating, beating their wives, and eventually leaving. Many Filipinas are slowly realizing this pattern in our society, which is why many of us are choosing to find someone better.
Also, it’s the crab mentality, a trait often seen among Filipinos, and I include myself in this because I am Filipino too. This mentality leads people to undermine others’ success and happiness, such as with Filipinas who marry foreigners. Instead of celebrating these personal choices, some people spread negativity. We, Filipinos, often spend long hours chatting, and these conversations can quickly turn into gossip and criticism of those who have achieved more whether it’s someone with a successful business or a relative who made money abroad and is criticized for not having enough 'utang-na-loob' or for not sending enough money home. This envy and criticism are widespread because, despite our Christian values, Filipino culture can be very materialistic and focused on external achievements, we end up criticizing others instead of working on our own growth and goals.
Hell, yeah, we have to be coldhearted. A lot of the times were protectors.
If you wont be at least a little others will be to you and you will be abused.
Thank you for your nice video do not worry what other think as long as you are happy. We all have are preferences for example I like a smaller women. Does that make me bad NO. Some like them bigger are they bad NO. Some like strong minded other like simple minded who is right. Go for what you want and do not worry what other think. Thank you
Sir I would not explain it better. Thank you for your constructive comment we appreciate it. Take care always and stay tuned for more adventures of ours :)
Great for both of you, and I enjoyed the authenticity of conversations from the warm and cold hearts 😊
It is always better to listen more than one oppinion generally about everything because thanks to that it causes people make their own oppinions and then own decisions then just blindly folowing other orders.
You are so nice, both of you! Sending you a lots of greetings from 🇨🇦❤❤
Hello to Canada. Thank you for heart warming comment. Take care always there and enjoy our videos.
The criticism has a point though. In my experience most Filipinas marry foreigners for money and to escape poverty 😂. Of course it's mean to post stuff like that, because not all are like that.
In my opinion it is not mean. All people should accept the fact that each of us have different opinions about certain things. We can accept them or not and none of these two is wrong.
Yes, Filipinas are attractive physically.....but its the feminine attitude as compared to our western counterparts that makes them more attractive
sadly they quickly become feminist & westernized in big cities in PH and when taken to live abroad.
Pinay love attention and they will get it not just from social media but guys on the streets in the West
Thats right and i would add one thing which is that Filipinas can be still hardworking woman who don’t mind to get their hands dirty and still look like asian barbie dolls. This description is slowly fading in the west nowadays.
Interesting point of view. I think it is the "crab mentality," with people trying to bring you down and keep you at their level. Misery loves company and will drag you down if you let it.
This mentality is going to hold in this world with force but you do not have to provide that much force to avoid being pulled down by those Crabs. You are the one who has control over your life.
Very well said.
Very well commented 🫡
I liked this video very much, thanks for the insight infos and the humorous comments from Jacob
All the best from a cold hearted brother 👍👍👍👍👋👋🇨🇭
Hello Brother. I am glad that we made you enjoy with our video. Take care always and stay tuned for more :)
There is nothing wrong with wanting to escape poverty. But, the idea that Gwen married without love just to get out of poverty is clearly ridiculous. Gwen would have to be the best actress in the history of acting to make us all believe she is giddy in love with Jacob. The easier explanation is of course that she is not acting and that she is wildly in love. If her friends and family cannot see that in all these videos, then they are simply blind.
Your are totally correct Gwen is a horrible actress haha but on the other hand she is the best wife and woman in my life :)
You tell them its because we make the most beautiful kids. And its true. You should see our kids. They are gorgeous.
Is it really true? Haha I have to hide the comment from Gwen or else she will want me immediately to give her beautiful babies😁
@@FilipinaCzeching You should. If you have a chance to make pretty Filipinas of your own, why would you not want to?
balance
she can find her it if you are steady'
call it what you will = balance , pina's excel at this
New subscriber because you both were genuine
Hello and Welcome. Gwen and Jacob here and hoping you will find this channel always enjoyable. Stay safe always.
I think possibly these negative remarks and attitudes aren't specifically connected to having a white partner. It's just simply that PH has a relatively cruel culture for some reason, where crab mentality and ridiculing others is socially accepted. I've heard a lot of stories from people of how they were ridiculed and bullied for being dark skinned as a kid, for not speaking English well enough, for not having experienced big cities, and the list just goes on. Sadly even includes being blamed for becoming a victim of sexual violence. If a Filipina has a Westerner as partner then the "obvious" mean stereotypes to weaponize are the "gold digger", "yellow fever", etc.
These are all true, and a lot more…Crab mentality is also one of the reasons why it hinders successes in our country because of our mindset. In politics, for example, leaders often focus on attacking each other and filing cases against one another instead of working collaboratively to develop beneficial laws and programs. News often highlights conflicts between officials rather than their achievements. Past and present presidents have rarely received genuine praise or support for their efforts.
You had me at “key board warriors” lmao
nice video…finally some1 speaks up for us❤️❤️❤️
Hopefully more people would spread this topic so it will make peolple realise.
I will probably never have a relationship with a Filipina because I would tell her: I don't want to get married and I'm too old to have children. What is your future if I die and my child is 10 to 13 years old.
Relationship with women having children wouldn't actually be a problem for me, but that is supposed to be dangerous, there is a risk of prison because the women are often not divorced. A video about these things (don't get married, just live together, no children with the foreigner, women with children who aren't divorced) would be interesting.Greetings from Munich / Germany
don't ruin the rest of your life by overthinking...
I guess it was already too much of negative thoughts sir. Lets go. Get up and make as well as you can to bring happiness of any kind to your life. Better to do something and fail than doing nothing. 😎
Family and community connections are usually much stronger and widespread in the Philippines compared to the west, so ‘face’ is more important. These comments can’t be brushed aside, as they will affect a Filipina more. I do think many comments are barbed to hurt out of jealousy though.
I wonder how isolating it is for a Filipina living in the west as well and if these are the comments she hears it must be more hurtful.
I imagine being older and wondering about what Pele have said and me worrying about them - old people are not concerned, so young people shouldn’t be either
Me as a husband of a Filipino citizen I can say that the amount of hate comments Gwen receices is huge and sometimes hard to manage for Gwen. But luckily for Gwen her caring Husband (ME) makes her realise which comments should be important for her and which she should just read, laugh on and continue doing great things in life. Take care always.
Stereotypes are unavoidable. As long as a couple are happy with their choices then it should not be anyone's business. People have to live their own lives.
Thats right mindset. Unfortunately we will always be other people’s business but luckily…. We don’t have to care about them
❤very real
Congratulations you 2 ❤❤
Thank your sir :)
I guess the Filipino Keyboard Warriors are like a lot of single Western women! 😅
They can’t seem to understand that we’re marrying each other because we want to be happy! 😊
Human jealousy is never ending story but whats more important about it is that we shouldn’t let those people influence us to have bad thoughts or stop us doing the things which makes them jealous. I would say this everyone: keep making people jealous because that means you are doing better than them.
Držím palečky ,hodně štěstí do Ostravy nebo na Filipíny z Havířova...
Zdravim. Moc dekujeme a posilame pozdravy z ostravy. Zduř😁
99.9% of all Filipinas that marry foreigners have a huge jump in their standard of living, I would be willing to bet that your lifestyle is far superior to your family and friends back home. Anything that has this great a payoff will be looked at as an investment. It is likely true that you escaped poverty just as they claimed. Sometimes the truth hurts, embrace your new happiness.
Of course there can be huge difference in the way of living. Here in the Europe are different standards than in the Third world country as The Philippines but it does not mean that the different life will change your mindset. Once you grew up in the worst conditions you will always remember those. And soon we will see how it will be for me as a European citizen who will have to adapt to the life in the Philippines after moving there soon.
with time she might appreciate that less & less... especially when she starts working and gets EU residence card
@@FilipinaCzechingmove back to PH with your Filipina as soon as possible.
I am from Poland and took my Filipina to UK 3 yrs ago and regret it ...
sadly I had no choice (no work in PH)
@@wtf6694Polish women are way hotter and better in character
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long walks, long food
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sweety cuties ❤❤❤
You definitely look like a high class lady
I wouldn't care ehat the reason was, 42 years old only 3 years of relationship's. To not feel like a ghost id give about anything for companionship.
Ok you have a new subscriber - Interesting conversation
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Hi Gwen, very nice video. But y husband is young . You not spoke about 20 to 30 y old Filipinas marry western guy over 50 or 60 years old.
In that case i ihink it is most for money and body/sex is curreny girls pay with.
Please update your video with part 2.
Pinay no longer want to date foreigners if age gap is more than 15 yrs
I doubt videos like this will change any perceptions can’t change the gold digger look, but us men just do not care, and other men just don’t mind or care… it’s only women who seems to have issues with each other.
That’s very true. I don’t want to overlook the experiences of women who face challenges due to these criticisms. It can be very difficult dealing with the weight of expectations and stereotypes, which sometimes leads to hate and jealousy. Many Filipinas have faced hurtful comments from others just because they are in a relationship with a white man. The criticism and judgment can be very heavy to experience-an example being that I was cut off by my cousins out of jealousy just because I married Jakub.
@@FilipinaCzeching water off a duck’s back.. ever heard that phrase? Also, you find out how people really are.. and decide it’s a good thing not to associate
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You forgot to say how high the AIDS rate is in the Philippines
80k Philippines 800k Thailand.
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I’m not taking care of anybody’s family. I’m not paying a dowry
And there is no need to feel bad if someone decides to be like this. We have to think about our family before someone else’s family. And thats the rule.
@@FilipinaCzechingThat's good. Hopefully the local Filipino 'men' can sort that out for you.
@@EB-jf5oi Hey. What do you mean by this? I don’t understand.
Don't do it better find city girl because if find province girl money never ends
Its not 50/50 relationship their the family coles first the husband will never be accepted
It’s just jealousy. That is why they talk shit just jealous it wasn’t them.
The best thing about jealousy or just about the fact people talk about you is that probably you are doing better then them. Lets keep doing always better guys.
Dont be foolish guys keep your money
No matter what woman you choose whether she be Filipino or American or Cuban it doesn’t matter they all cost so you can spend your life alone if you want to, but I don’t recommend it. Make each other happy. Make each other happy she’s going to cost you one way or another.
@@spartanpatriot2028Personally I don't feel cut out for a relationship (for mental health reasons), so I am going to have to take my chances with being alone.
Thats what we are doing and focusing on and in the same time agreed on providing little help if necessary but with specific limitations. Always have limits guys or you will be abused. Always
Yellow fever!!!!
Hilom oyyyy maajo pay imo angkunon pud nga minjo ka ug white guy pud Aron makaahon ka sa imong kinabuhi... Be true to your self
@@FilipinaCzeching ayaw na Lang ta dai maajo pa c Cinco Kay true to her self
Maajo pa c Cindy Cinco real da I Ikaw tan awa imo kaugalingon be true oyyyy
@@nognoglelis6227 comparing me to Cindy Cinco? Really? If you're a fan of her because of her vulgarity, that's your issue, not mine. But not all Filipinas are like her, so maybe try educating yourself before shaming me with your ignorance.
@@FilipinaCzeching😂😂😂😂😂 sure why where you come from from the rich country. Dapat dawaton NATO dai nga gikan ta sa poor country natural my pilipina napud na naka ahon sa kahirapan 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Kay gikan ta sa pobre na country dai.. 😂😂😂😂😂
@@nognoglelis6227 Skwater mn.kag ugali…klaru jd nasuko ka lng kai dle ka makabengwet afam kai bate ka ug nawung…
Is your husband Russian?
Нет.
But that makes no since wouldn't it be harder off a challenge for black men to be excepted then white?
@@SleeperDarkside Hi Sir, thank you for your comment. I want to clarify that Black men are generally accepted in relationships with Filipinas, just as white men are. My video focused on marriages to white men because these unions are more common in the Philippines and often face more scrutiny and criticism due to colorism and colonial mentality. I hope this helps clarify the focus of my message.
I dont think filipinas are really checking for black dudes. They like white skin, blue eyes, blonde hair, etc. They use skin whitening products & face ridicule for being darker skined. If im correct, they wish for children to be either mixed white or filipino. I dont think they're racist. They're just aligning to their society for what they see as a better future.
Why delete my comment?
@@Anthony-X-King Hello sir, I saw your comment 20 minutes ago in my notifications, but when I clicked on it, it was gone from this comment box. I didn’t delete anything. I’m not sure why; maybe TH-cam moderators removed it.
@@Anthony-X-King Oh, I can see the comment when I view your profile but not in this comment box section.
foreigners? 😂
Hello, Host why marrying a white guy is so super special for a Filipina than a Black guy a Black guy is just as special as a White guy that is so stereotype thinking but anyway it's nice to meet you I am watching from Greensboro North Carolina Your New Friend take care God Bless!!!
@@lifeinnorthcarolina4770 Hello po, thanks for your comment. I want to clarify that my video wasn’t meant to stereotype or be unfair to Black men. Marrying a Black man is just as accepted as marrying a white man. I focused on white men because they face more criticism in the Philippines due to colorism and the higher number of white foreigners marrying Filipinas. This increased criticism is due to these biases, not because Black men are less accepted. I hope this clears things up. Thanks for understanding.