the problem is people like Bruce weber have so many friends and strong influence in the industry - he could end a models career with one phone call ..... and nobody likes people that 'complain' regardless of what they complain about ....some people would rather turn a blind eye ... unfortunately exploitation happens in many types of job
This is 100% true. I have experienced ALL of this! It's absurd to me. I left the modeling industry years ago because I just wouldn't put up with it. I'd much rather continue with my acting career. People say to me all the time I should be a model but then I tell them why I quit and they all say "well maybe it's your attitude." Standing up for myself is seen as an attitude problem? Sexual harassment is such a problem in the fashion world. I've been told I'm too short, too tall, too thin, I have bad teeth, I have bad skin, my legs are too thick, I should work out more, I should work out less, I should be manlier I should be more androgynous, I should have long hair, I should have short hair... Photographers have tried to touch me inappropriately, hit on me, placed their hands on me when there was no need to. And if I dare say anything, I would be dismissed. Thank you for this video! I'm on the same page as you Barrett.
The happiest people Alexander are themselves, as well people whom genuinely respect themselves respect others for whom they are. Good for you Alexander be proud and super happy with yourself as you are, the amazing difference's in people is so special. I think people in their 80's plus with lots of wrinkles from life experience is amazing I like to hear about their lives, their stories and wisdom they have.
I've been told many times that I'm either very good looking or very average. I got tired of being judged on my looks. So, I much prefer being a working actor.
I took a photography class recently and one thing our mentor really told us is to never harass a model, possibly don't even touch the model just give out instructions or show them the pose you want them to make and to always remember to be ethical and professional. Shame on those pervs.
PREACH!!!! This is exactly why I quit modeling some years ago! It was awful and made me feel like crap. I was too tall or too blond or too whatever. And the grabs or gropes were constant! It was like they were all trying to be fluffers on a porn set! Just because I am gay, does not mean I'm easy! Thanks so much for speaking out and trying to protect other young men and women from being taken advantage of!!!
svetlana Olbutova lol no. there was a few years where only ethnic people were wanted. there may be ten models and they will only book one blond. they want edgy and gritty. but bc of the way minorities were treated for years noone is crying for the blond chick.
Its really good you speak on this. I watched a documentary called Girl Model and another documentary I can't recall the name of and they both address this same problem. I think its something prevalent in the entertainment industry in general and people need to be warned and know what their rights are. No money is worth doing something you're not comfortable with.
"I watched a documentary called Girl Model" You should read this. The documentary was a sham. fashionista.com/2012/03/the-complicated-backstory-behind-new-doc-girl-model-why-its-subject-model-nadya-vall-is-furious-at-her-portrayal
You ignorant. If you are only showing your face to advertise shaving cream, do you have to be tall? Or showing our hair for a shampoo? Do you have to show your height?
It's amazing how little this is talked about. I have been modeling on and off since 2007 and experienced the best things and some nasty things. The second time I met with Bruce Weber (models will know who he is) I left crying. I was 19 and was mortified at his approach to get pictures. I knew the power he has on the industry but I chose to walk away from that opportunity of possibly booking the campaign. It was unprofessional and perverted. It happens to everyone who meets him at least who I have talked to. The thing that gets me is when I do events (modeling does not pay enough) he is always at the head table. Oprah did a event with Ralph Lauren a few years ago and he sat across from her. A women who's purpose is to help people does not see the disgusting person in front of her. The public does not see past the magazines and TV 😟 makes me wonder about everything else in the world we don't know about. Thank you for this video Barret
I am being fair. I am only pointing out one bad experience with one specific person. I start off with expressing that I have had some of the best experiences in my life from modeling. It is what you make of it. I did it for many years and now that I am 27 I know what is best for me. I know how to keep my body perfect for me. I know who I will work with and what I will accept. I know what is appropriate and not. Mathew Zinks team is top notch! They are professional, and that matters a lot when you are objectifying your package in a bikini breaf.
RJGula I don't think anything about my look other then knowing when I am healthy or not. I am a heterosexual married man. If I was not professional which everyone in the industry should strive for i would of beat a few homosexual men up for sexual harassment in my early years. I did not choose to do sexy pictures. I was told that's what I had to do. Exposure is what is sold. Exposure is bullshit but at 17 and 18 I did not know better. If I was gay I'm sure I would of enjoyed the business. I am not so comments like yours are disturbing but comments online are different then ones face to face.
Clearly you have a agenda hear. You did not read my initial response. I praise profesionalism which is a major part of the industry. I don't mind portraying sexuality. It's a art, it's fake. When It's about the pictures and the job it's professional. When it's about someone's perverted fantasies which again I only pointed out 1 person. Bruce Weber is a predator. I have no issue with gay men. I have a issue with a gay man not respecting me being straight.
The 90's supermodel Michael Bergin spoke about the time Bruce Weber was coming on to him. The fashion and media darlings shut that down quickly and took Bergin down fast. They basically pretended that nothing happened due to Weber's tremendous talent and connections within the fashion industry. Another ugly side of male modeling.
Sure. but this happens to women in EVERY profession. So not feeling too much empathy for these men who can stand up for themselves at least physically.
I modeled for years in my youth and I had a hard time getting any work, because I too am a short model. Only 5' 9 1/2". Basically, you MUST be at least 6 feet and the first thing most places do before they even check your portfolio is what is his height. Especially at Wilhelmina. Sex on photo-shoots happens at lot too, there is little professionalism, especially on no pay shoots.
Not on real professional shoots, but many times when getting started and doing free shoots to build up a strong portfolio, you get occasional characters who are doing it more for their self interest than to help you in your endeavors.
I admire your courage and bravery for being so open about some of the realities in the modelling world. I had no idea it could be so vicious. We as consumers are completely blinded by the reality of modelling and fashion as all we see are the glossy magazines and VS fashion shows and think "Wow lucky them" but I guess like the saying goes "She/he slept her way to the top" actually has a truth behind it but not in the slutty sense [as were lead to believe]…..they were forced to. The weight some people must carry on their shoulders…….and for what? Of course not everyone is bad but still no excuse.
Barrett you are so right about this. Many people think its all fun, glamorous and exciting but they do not know the dark side of modeling. I tried modeling myself in the late 90s and yes you do hear NO a lot. It does make you think and question yourself why are you getting rejected. I travel also a lot for go sees and it's not even guaranteed if you'll get picked. It is a really hard business and YES many times you work for free just to get that tear sheet from the magazine to give you more experience and exposure. I watched men's fashion shows in the early 90s and I've always wanted to model after seeing Cameron Alborzian, Michael Bergin, Markus Schenkenberg, and Mark Vanderloo on the runway. It just look so cool to wear those cool clothes and travel everywhere and get paid well. It seems interesting from that perspective but the reality of it, its really a jockpot.
I knew it already, but it can't be warned too many times. And I have wonder to start modeling, I'm not sure if i want to start modeling, cause this kind of stuffs can happen, but at the start, this kind of stuff won't happen, right? and i'm just 15, almost 16 so maybe i'm too young.
James T both equally. usually sexual assault towards males aren't spoken about bc they're guys so apparantly society doesn't count that as sexual assault.
I feel the same way, my friend. I had the same things happen to me in the industry in for many years. I was afraid to say anything because I did not want to be blackballed from the industry. I just left and I regret not speaking up now because I loved the real job of being a model. Thanks, Chester D.
probably because 90% of the male population is straight and likes to be touched by women. No offense to gay people but they should suck it up! These people are lucky enough to be attractive and have the nerve to complain. I would never say anything if I was going to lose my career, this is why people go poor! If this guy doesn't like his job then yeah, he should quit so people that appreciate the multi-billion dollar industry of modeling can join!
u sound like a real soulless creeper fyi so if someone is considered 'beautiful' by others... by birth, not by choice even... then they have NO RIGHTS??!!!!?? u r promoting unlawful discrimination, n criminal violations against human rights... (against people, n/or all living beings who happened to be born into beauty.) so, according to your creepy, nonsensical insanity, if someone happens to b beautiful in appearance, they must forfeit all their rights; as creepy criminals have at them; have their way with them?!!? 'pretty people' must just stfu. not ever speak out, not ever stand up... for themselves, for one another, for justice, equality; for rights... against unlawful, criminal, violating, injurious injustice. 'pretty ppl' must accept n tolerate being raped, being molested, being harassed, stalked, tortured, tormented, taken advantage of, exploited, bullied, being wrongfully discriminated against for being pretty (in an UGLY as hell world...) being abused n traumatized, being mal-treated, their rights being violated... as tho a beautiful being does not belong to ones' self... as tho a beautiful being has no self; no boundaries; no rights???!!! as tho a beautiful being is not self possessed; as tho a beautiful being belongs to criminal predators; n does not belong to themself???!!! according to disgusting creeps like u... due to their 'enviable fortune' of being born into beauty... (beauty is not called a 'double edged sword' for no reason u dense, jealous, ugly as a demon, prick.) people of beauty; beings of beauty, must b mandated; dicktated; sentenced to just allow themselves to be chronically fucked over; fucked with; trampled; bulldozed; raped, molested, exploited, bullied, abused, tormented, tortured, wrongfully discriminated against, bribed, manipulated, threatened, taken advantage of, stalked, harassed, traumatized... unlawfully violated, n/or even all too often enslaved, n/or murdered; sacrificed... n cuz, u n those similar to u say, 'beautiful people r soooooooo lucky n blessed to b pretty; therefore they must just stfu, stay mum; b mute; stay quiet; eat shit n die; b miserable n unhappy, pretending they r happy with what??!! with their souls being crushed unlawfully by criminal predators??!! that they should just pretend they r happy n enjoying themselves... n just take all the ruinous; injurious criminal insanity being done to them... n know that they r so lucky, cuz they r pretty, n they have no right to even complain of crimes perpetrated against them, cuz they r pretty???!!! pretty people must just let the cannibals, vampires, parasites; malignant narcissist perpetrators, psychopathic, sociopath criminal predators... have at them; have their way with them; run them amok; injure n ruin them...???!!! n yet, still, according to u, pretty people, must always look pretty; must always maintain that pretty smile on their face... must submit into stockholm syndrome... must pretend to enjoy their oppressors... etc etc... says who??!! says UGLY as hell, loathsome, perverted, psycho-sociopathic, likely perpetrating, no doubt enabling... criminal... stanky, fly infested shit fer brains, nonsensical, insane, dumber than anyone ever thought possible... malignant narcissist, sicko creeps, such as yerself. u n those like u, r what r so horribly wrong of this world. u r an infected infection that is too much such an awful big part of the spiritually-psychologically ill-world problem. u r part of the problem; part of the dis-ease; of this sick world... FUCK OFF!!! this is about lawful vs. unlawful behavior. we a people have RIGHTS. ('pretty or not; pretty or ugly...' matters not...) u idiot, moron, coocoo, sicko, narcissist creep. we a people must NOT be injurious-ly, unlawfully, criminally mal-treated, mis-used, abused, traumatized, trespassed, harassed, threatened, wrongfully black-listed, bullied, stalked, gang-stalked, bribed, manipulated, exploited, molested, raped, stolen from, taken advantage of, enslaved, sacrificed, murdered, wrongfully discriminated against, violated, unjustly perpetrated against, preyed upon by predators, etc etc... such unwarranted, unjust, unlawful, criminal, injurious, rights violating, abusive, traumatizing mal-behavior is UNACCEPTABLE; INTOLERABLE. we a people MUST band together in support of one another; taking a stand for our rights; for justice, and against injustice, unlawful discrimination, n criminal violations perpetrated against our people; n our rights. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- re: this video. yes, thanx, praise n bless for speaking yer truth, n sharing with others; with a people in this world, n for doing so with yer healthy, healing intentions. wellness wishes.
When people are saying if he is model material or not in the comments and yet none of them are crowned "ruler of modeling". In my opinion he is very good looking on the outside and OBVIOUSLY on the inside from the videos I've seen from him! Keep up the great material Barrett I love these topics and your views!
I can totally relate to this.. It's really hard to take criticism from agents and casting directors, especially if they don't even give you the time of day. It's a tough career that isn't going to be mine forever, which scares me because I have no idea what I want to do career wise besides modeling. Nothing guarantees that you'll make it so it's risky not having a backup plan. Another of my concerns about the modeling industry is faulty agencies that abuse their clients. I recently signed with another one about a week ago but I'm still skeptical of how reliable it is. Anyways, thanks for making this video, it's great to have someone else explain this.
Become a force for change. Get your head into the business end, open your own agency, or work on setting up an advisory board, or focus on the legal side and go to law school. If you love modeling, make the industry better and more ethical. Be that positive force for change. No one is ever too old or too young to make a difference.
I'm a fashion designer, focus on menswear in L.A.. I'm not a big name, but once I do it's going to hit hard. I've seen and work with lots of male models/actors. What you said about working for free, I call it TFP (Trade for Photos). I always make it clear to the model that this is a collaborate project. Once they are on the set. I show them the highest respect for even modeling for me for free. I make sure they are comfortable that my team, work and act as professionals. I feed them, pay their parking, depending on some circumstances pay their gas in a location shoot. The models I've worked with usually do call me back, because they love my designs, and the respect I give them. It's people in the fashion industry whether they are lower and higher end that use their power to harass and take advantage of models whether they are women and men that gives this industry a bad rap. I'm pretty much a rebel and I don't go by the fashion industries standards. Thank you Barrett for discussing the bad side of modeling. For those who are wanting to model, please always approach it as a business and as professional as possible. That way who ever you model for will see that.
I strongly approve, appreciate and thank you for this video! As a designer and model promoter I've been opposing the sexual harassment and inhumane behaviours in the industry in my country since my early days which has led to me being unwanted, disowned and ridiculed by most of the people in the industry! I've been attacked through blame games, boycotts and finally life threads! So now I'm closeted out of my country and try to keep it low!
The only "Glamour" is the end product which is the image or the video....i'm glad you're teaching US...and i'm sorry for the terrible experiences that you got....lurid experience....but you're stronger now and i'm glad you're doing this video to ensure there is always accountability for every individuals actions.... :)
This has a real ring of truth to it. I found myself nodding several times as you spoke. Thank you for being so honest and forthright about your experience in modeling. You seem to have some real integrity, and I really appreciate that.
Great video. It is so true. Modelling is really harsh, 99% of the models are experiencing the worse of the industry .Most of the public only know of the 1% top models where they got paid thousands, flying to Paris to do a Gucci shoot or whatever. Even in the higher level, models are often got paid by trade not really by money. And not to mention most models starts really young and they are surrounded by these adults who should be responsible for their action so it is super easy for them to manipulate models to do all these things. I think you should join Model Alliance they are great voice of models. Kindest regard
Thank you so much Barrett. Ive had so much respect for you before but after this video....OH SHIT!!! Shit got real!!! I have tremendous respect for you in calling out the epidemic of sexual harassment in the modeling world that's an open secret. Either women or men, young or old, hot or not, no one deserves to be sexually harassed. Keep it the great work. And you are truly a beautiful human being inside and out. These videos prove it!
sebaspaz0103 don't be stupid man. Everyone is going to have a different experience. Try it. I used this as a warning, and now I'm going to be careful about all of this stuff. But it shouldn't stop u.
Remember that, when activities similar to those which you describe involve persons under the age of 18, they may not just be inappropriate, they may be felonies. They should be brought to the attention of the authorities.
I just started watching your videos and let me tell you I have enjoyed every one of them. Stuff like this happens all the time every where at different levels. Thank you for educating the public especially those young guys or girls that might feel that modeling, acting, dancing, singing will make them happy. Some may tell you horrifying stories on how they put up, because they were young, poor, ignorant, innocent and that was the only hope to continue chasing their dreams. Integrity and self respect will take you out of any uncomfortable situation. We know when something is not right, we need to say no and to follow our instincts. The future has always better things prepared for us, we will get to them more prepared and most of all, happy.
I'm guessing that modeling is an industry that attracts many less grounded guys whose self esteem derives from constant reassurance that they are attractive. How many plan for a different career, once the calls quit coming? At what age are male models 'has-beens?' I'm fascinated by those that go on to careers as photographers, film makers, actors, painters, designers, etc. How do you see your future?
That was very brave to speak out about this issue.. even though a lot of people don't speak about this issue, it hasn't been the first time I've heard it.. it seems like the modeling industry as well as the movie industry and Hollywood have this similar trend in taking advantage of people just trying to get a break and reach their dreams.. it's sad but will never be corrected unless people start talking about it and rules or laws are put into place.. congrats on trying to make a positive step towards improving the dark side of the industry xo
I use to model nearly 50 years ago. Yes, the industry surely takes advantage of younger and innocent people. Several times I was approached by famous entertainers, sports players, congressional folks and the list goes on. I thank you for the openness that perhaps others will understand and be prepared. The entertainment industry works well when it does yet most often does not. Blessings.
Thanks for speaking out about this, I thought I was the only one. So many people join the modeling industry because they seek validation, not knowing that the industry will have them fully confront their inner demons. Towns like LA have an exploitation system waiting to take advantage of young hopefuls. Luckily, I got out of it and found my self worth in the process before I was destroyed by it. Thanks for putting into words what I've always felt.
Coming from the other side of the fence, I honestly was finding it hard to dredge up emotion over the topic of this video... then I watched it. I have spent most of my life (pre-adult, and adult/gay) being made fun of and attacked because I have some extra poundage, and am not the nicest looking bulb in the pack. To this day, I don't go to bars... I have actually been insulted there by better looking guys (I tried an experiment 2 years ago, and was ostracized within 15 minutes by two guys next to me). Having said all the... who knew I would have something in common with someone experiencing the opposite condition. Good for you Barrett... the honesty is needed. Pox on the guy who said you are not attractive... I would be lucky to have an honest man no matter WHAT he looks like.
When I was young, I was asked to get a book and model especially since I was very tall. I didn’t take it seriously and I’m soo glad I didn’t! Thank you Barrett for eliminating the shoulda, woulda, coulda thoughts! I hope that the #metoo movement takes over the modeling industry and ends the career of the sleezy people in the world! All the best to you and your colleagues! Raymond
Good job man you rock for doing this! You are doing the right things! You are a real man by speaking out because it takes courage to do what you are doing!!! You are amazing
Many years ago I was what my friends called the MACYS Sunday Newspaper Supplement Model. Such models are certainly not in the big time, but we were treated professionally and we were always paid. I even appeared in a few MACYS holiday TV commercials (acting as if I was having the best time of my life in whatever clothes they were pushing). Not glamorous, but it paid some bills while I went to college. I had the look of that time period, knew it, but didn't want the total hassle of a hard hitting model career. I never would have had the temperment for what you have gone through. Thanks for sharing the reality of the hard hitting modeling world.
Thank you Barrett, this really helped me understand this industry better as I am pursuing it. You're very inspirational and honest. This was a great video to open my eyes to see another perspective about modeling...
I just watched this video and I felt it was awesome, I loved the fact that you didn't hold back anything. Allowing people to be informed as to what they would have to encounter. Speaking out isn't as easy as it always looks, it means being put in a bad light at time. Regardless, it's not that I found some of the content to be shocking, to the effect that the bullying and exploitation and rampant sexual harassment in some agencies is common place , but to talk about it ends your career. It's good to hear from your experience that there is life after modeling, not all of it is bad and that no one should settle on bad business practices. Thank you for this video it opened eyes alot.
I modeled in the 80's, Paris, new York Tokyo, started in Seattle..I had so much nasty crap from some real bastards. I then went into fashion designing starting with Dior, YSL, Lanvin and believe me those small games were long gone in my past...although there were tons of drug addicts....
ramcurequeeny of course, but I didn’t know her, I now know her BFF… I worked with Jerry Hall and Iman, that was exciting as they were my faves, along with Violeta Sanchez , Patty Cleveland, Ines de la Fressange, of the Supermodels my fave is Naomi, I never saw anyone glide like she does on the catwalk, not even ice skaters can all glide like her….
I had no idea, I mean I sort of expected that there would be some sort of hardship like this but the way how media is portrayed and how the models' social media seem like they're having reasonable happy lives (just by look of it of course), I realized that what you really see on those models' live styles on social media aren't everything. Thank you so much for sharing this and I can't believe the whole sexual harassment would be just beyond humiliation. Just wish that you are happy about yourself, who you are is so much more important than what others say. NO MATTER WHAT! :)
Contrary to those who might say you've bitten the hand that feeds you, you could make a fortune with that handsome smile in toothpaste commercials. Really. Good luck.
You are amazing for doing this and thank you for being you. The truth is I really struggle with being pretty. I get tons of attention for it and not all of it is good. Everyone wants sex or a piece of me and it's exhausting. From creeps or people who just fall in love with me and just want to talk to me because I look pretty. When I was younger I'd shave my head and wear a hoodie just to stop people from staring at me when I walked down the street. I don't think people understand the price of being pretty. I guess I'm lucky to look the way I do but I attract a hell of a lot of bad energy too and people who just hate me because I'm attractive and think I'm a sex object. Men aren't allowed to talk about this so I'm glad you are putting this out there. I always loved Farrah Facett. I felt she was someone pretty who the world just took advantage of and got exploited and abused for it. I think it's so difficult as people want me to be something for them and then the pressure to live up to that is huge. I'm pretty therefore I have to be perfect and I'm not allowed to be anything other then what you want me to be. Anyhow thanks for doing this it's important stuff as so much of it is bullshit. I worked in porn and modelling made money at it but like you said it's not enough to live on. It's a great part time job that you can have fun with but seriously that's it. Enjoy the good people you meet along the way because there are good people but definitely protect yourself and your heart as there are lots of creeps out there too.
Oh boo, you are so brave and so strong to do this, and I liked you more than ever for standing up for this. And I do hope you will make more videos like this and spread to the world this nasty shit going on and it's really really unhumane. You were right about how I think about the extravaganza of being in the modelling world is, but now, YOUR WORDS CAN EMPOWER, MAN? This totally changed my views, and thank you so much for doing this. Love love
The big kicker, the sexual harassment, I knew he was gonna say that but wasn't looking forward to it. I hear all the time, from models on youtube and in social media about sexual harassment, and it's so sad to hear. Modeling is not something that people should be doing unless they really know who they are. I am glad you are speaking out about this, because nobody deserves to be treated that way, and I am glad you had a good head on your shoulders to say "no!".
Hey Moss,,Only Dumb and lazy girls are join to the modeling companies or religious places ...By the way Iran is beautiful for backpackers in this year because we have a lot of rainfall in this season .
Victor Valentour Well.. why are they models ? If they are that intelligent .. then why aren't they working in jobs that are more difficult ? Because most of them just want easy money and fame.. Yeah the fashion industry isn't easy , not at the slightest but it is easier than other jobs ..
Not in my opinion. It's interesting and versatile and never boring, that's why. Photos or catwalk may seem glamorous, but behind the scenes is a completely different story.
ugh sexual harassment... disgusting souls who do this. ugh... I think it is possible everywhere, but if they are in the position to end you career, then they will use this. I have read that in the movie industry in hollywood it is the same. the guy who did the x-men movies for example was the same: telling 16 or 18 year old boys: I give you a career if you fuck with me. of course your video would make a bigger impact, if you would name who it was, because now it will probably dont change a lot.
I hear the pain in your voice and the frustration. I hope you find a career that does not hurt you, but gives you what you need to be happy. Good luck and God bless you.
I am so glad you spoke out about photographers that take advantage of unsuspecting newbies in the modeling world. Thank God the Me too movement has exposed these photographers, stylist, and principles committing sexual harrassment, rape and abuse, an other sexual crimes. Crime is crime, and these criminals should be convicted for the molestations they are commiting. They all deserve hard jail time. By the way Barrett you not too short, I singlehandedly discovered a guy name Matt who was barely 5'10, and he became one of the top 20 male models in the world working to photogs like Stephen Meisel and appeared in ads for Louis Vuitton, David Yurman jewelry and even appearing on the cover of the women Italian Vogue magazine.
i'm designer , also fashion photographer and i agree with everything you said. But not only models , other attractive people in the same field or new guys/girls who wants to build name in industry have to let it happen to them too. and of course most of the time there's no paid.
Thirty years ago I help and encouraged a very handsome friend get into modeling. He worked with some of the top people, spent years in Europe. Now is in his mid-60's and living in Los Angeles. He still gets commercials and hand-modeling gigs. What you say in your video are in line with much of what I have observed. He has had a fascinating life, but limited in some self-development ways. He never married or had kids. He lived high off the hog for awhile, then has had many years of struggle. He has a girlfriend who helps support him, but I don't think it's the happiest. After about 40 years, since I met him (before he was a model) we are still friends. At times I envied his glamorous life, but in those years I have finished college, worked as a high school teacher for 30 years, and have a secure retirement in my own house. I would not trade. I appreciate what you say in your video, and I know that my friend would agree with 90% of it, or more. All best wishes. Get out there and have a life.
I should appreciate your concerns to make this video too as a person who has been in this industry and is not unknowing to what you mention. It is misfortunate but sadly true many ugly things are going on around this industry and its mesmerizing mask made many only staring at those shiny spots. Some think to be seen and known is the only key to their future success and sometimes to gain that they can easily be mislead or crashed by improper perposes and profit-making ideas of unscrupulous people. Thank you man and keep up the best!
Good for you for having the courage to say this. I agree with you 100%. I think your colleagues should support you and you should come together to start denouncing these pervs.
This is so true, not only in the modelling world but also in the corporate world, rank and file, etc. Sexual harassment is so common. Student to teacher. boss to employee. Some got so caught and tied up in the system that it became a cycle. So glad you were able to stand for yourself and put an end to things that you really don't want to get into.
What I find ironic is how after 3 years of being told I should model by friends, randomers, teachers and even being scouted before I finally gained the courage to send my portfolio images to agencies. After I did that I came straight on TH-cam and this video was the first thing I was recommended to watch haha.
Cool person you are, B. I remember my first booking in the 80's for a Cadbury commercial, and up to that point, my agents did not know I was gay. I had made friends with the makeup guy during the shoot and we were laughing, and my agents heard that I had tried to pick him up or something (I was not attracted to him, just nice finding someone to joke with on set that day) as it turned out the scene in 1988 was still very homophobic... especially with the casting directors! I was told to NOT be seen on the gay strip or in a disco - RIGHT!!!!! - as if a 24 yr old would NOT go out and try to have fun and maybe even fall in love! They were a 5 star agency that basically were a bunch of uptight bigots that would not get away with that today! In the end, you are a human who should not have to put up with ignorance nor be controlled by those who would stifle who you are just so they could sell you! Then the lead actor of the gig drunkenly puts himself all over me on the dance floor the next evening.... but that's another story! ( and not one he's proud of - alcohol affects many physical responses... hint, hint) Barrett - here's a quote that applies to you - please take it as a compliment: Rhett (to Scarlet): You should be kissed and often, and by someone who knows how. I wish you well.
Barrett, you are obviously a bright and insightful young man so I know you have thought about this. What were your reasons for getting into the modeling profession if not for the sexual pay-offs? In other words, why did you aspire to be a model? I am a youth advocate and support everything you have said here about why the negatives of the profession must end. I commend you for your forthrightness and integrity..............Ray
The fashion world is vile. I saw a documentary on TH-cam about male models in New York. It made me angry. All the huge profits that the fashion industry makes, yet they don't pay a decent wage to the models.
I KNEW there was going to be a sexual harassment thing. I wish I could say I wouldn't be that way but oh how tempting it would be to oil hot guys, etc. Actors and models are mistakenly thought to be prostitutes by many whether consciously or subconsciously because it's selling one's self. I used to be so upset at being fat and gay and then when I got into the Chub and Chaser community I got to see what the "Pretty people" go through. Never did I think I'd be in that situation as a fat gay dude. But I got a small taste of it and while it was so wonderful at first, I quickly started feeling uncomfortable as one guy after another just wanted to play with my belly and would barely look me in the face or treat me like a human being.
This shit has gone on for years and the industry got away with it so much more before we had social media and this gives almost everyone a platform to expose the sickos in the industry. Good for you Barrett, I am happy that you had the guts to post this. You will be successful no matter what. Hard work and good moral values will take you far. Just believe in yourself. This applies to anyone in this industry.
this was really enlightening, thank you for the upload! it's definitely fascinating how those who operate photoshoots tend to objectify/dehumanize models. it's absolutely ridiculous that they can be so abrasive and critical of people's physical appearances, which is especially hypocritical since they can't live up to their own standards. it's a vicious and cruel world.
The media industry, including print, runway, film, television etc. has always been about a certain "look", first and foremost. Your "look" is what gets you noticed and ultimately hired. Then, if you have talent, all the more better... you can succeed in the industry. Kudos Barrett for shedding your candid view on it all. Best of luck to you in all that you choose to do!
Bravo! The industry needs a whistle blower, like you Barrett, to wake up the industry. You are the voice for may models to bring on the change. The more that people talk about their own experiences the more effect it will have as a movement.
This is the reason why you are one of most powerful models that i follow on Internet ;), you are true and to denounce all this you are very brave,do you know in Spain recently they approved a law against thin models (many kids bring anorexia ) and italian tv show in past interview many models they don't eat nothing to make photos and pass out? Thanks for your videos ;) , long life and prosper ;) Saluti dall'Italia ;)
I think your incredibly brave because you stood up for yourself and made your point. You could of let us all assume you live a charmed life of perfection but this gives context and builds your character. I'd rather work with someone with character than someone who isnt willing to speak out. I think this is bold and beautiful.
The entire fucking fashion industry is just so fucked up and full of hypocrites. I am still in the fashion industry very not willingly for some reason and there is no one moment I don't want to get out of this. Getting no pay, manipulation, excess work and bad tempers etc., you see all these shits happening everyday. One company that I used to work for free years ago, asked models to come in for casting, the director spoke exactly same compliments for all the models and told them you would be very probably chosen and then complained to us how ugly they were after they left. I got no paid to work even I was doing the job that the public relation manger did who left for holiday. It was not remotely entry level work and I also had to bear his fucking awful temper like a slave. Moreover, the income of low level fashion guys, like assistants in magazines, fashion companies is very disproportionate to their contritions but you cannot complain as they crave for that glamorous life, on the way to achieving it, they lose more than what they eventually get.
Respect, very well said. I would like to hear more. My Ex BF was nearly involved in the lower end market of modelling but due to his addictions he had to stop. Maybe that was a good thing. Keep spreading the truth and listen to your gut instinct always.
Very brave Barrett but let's be honest you took it pretty easy on the industry. The fact that you have to work for free in editorial shoots or free at all means your not a professional model you are a slave. A slave to a industry that preys on the young and naive and their mis-guided dreams. People are sold the glossy veneer of "being a model" but as you point out there is a dark underbelly that only insiders know about. When a plumber goes to a job at the end he gets paid. If you go to a job as a model and you don't get paid then your simply being USED.
I can relate to everything you have said. It is especially difficult in a time were everyone seems to want to be seen and heard. There are a lot of people who are willing to pay hundreds of thousands out of their own pockets to be noticed and to have their face connected with something. Anyone can have a music video now. The industry has been so corrupted and I don't see it ever being the way it used to be. Really so sad that you were treated like that. You are very brave to speak out.
Kudos to you for standing up to the industry. Even if you get no notariaty from this video, you are a better person for having spoke the truth! You are an inspiration to those who believe they want to get in this industry and don't know that these things go on. Good job!
This is awesome. More people need to speak out against injustices that need to be dealt with because it shouldn't have to happen to move your career forward. It reminds me of the one intern at a fortune 500 company that died after working 17hr days for three days straight, then Goldman Sachs saying that the interns can only work a maximum of 12hours a day. It boggles my mind because these are usually unpaid internships. Yes, the payoff in the end may be really amazing, but is it worth your health, your dignity, and your young life? If you are all for it then that's your business, but for me I need that balance between work and a social life.
You should form a Model's Union, and establish standards and practices for the industry. Any good lawyer could help you set it up.
Randy Reade yes u are right sir..
Randy Reade my thoughts exactly
Will never happen
the problem is people like Bruce weber have so many friends and strong influence in the industry - he could end a models career with one phone call ..... and nobody likes people that 'complain' regardless of what they complain about ....some people would rather turn a blind eye ... unfortunately exploitation happens in many types of job
thats a really good idea
This is 100% true. I have experienced ALL of this! It's absurd to me. I left the modeling industry years ago because I just wouldn't put up with it. I'd much rather continue with my acting career. People say to me all the time I should be a model but then I tell them why I quit and they all say "well maybe it's your attitude." Standing up for myself is seen as an attitude problem? Sexual harassment is such a problem in the fashion world. I've been told I'm too short, too tall, too thin, I have bad teeth, I have bad skin, my legs are too thick, I should work out more, I should work out less, I should be manlier I should be more androgynous, I should have long hair, I should have short hair... Photographers have tried to touch me inappropriately, hit on me, placed their hands on me when there was no need to. And if I dare say anything, I would be dismissed. Thank you for this video! I'm on the same page as you Barrett.
The happiest people Alexander are themselves, as well people whom genuinely respect themselves respect others for whom they are. Good for you Alexander be proud and super happy with yourself as you are, the amazing difference's in people is so special. I think people in their 80's plus with lots of wrinkles from life experience is amazing I like to hear about their lives, their stories and wisdom they have.
I've been told many times that I'm either very good looking or very average. I got tired of being judged on my looks. So, I much prefer being a working actor.
i smell delusion
All that is real ..been there done that but now I'm glad I'm just a regular guy that happens to looks good in selfies :-)
van020586 you were a regular guy then too.
I took a photography class recently and one thing our mentor really told us is to never harass a model, possibly don't even touch the model just give out instructions or show them the pose you want them to make and to always remember to be ethical and professional. Shame on those pervs.
PREACH!!!! This is exactly why I quit modeling some years ago! It was awful and made me feel like crap. I was too tall or too blond or too whatever. And the grabs or gropes were constant! It was like they were all trying to be fluffers on a porn set! Just because I am gay, does not mean I'm easy! Thanks so much for speaking out and trying to protect other young men and women from being taken advantage of!!!
Michael Denny Good for you, Michael, for standing up for the person you are. Kudos!
How can you be too blonde!? Dont they love the blonde hair blue eyed look?
svetlana Olbutova lol no. there was a few years where only ethnic people were wanted. there may be ten models and they will only book one blond. they want edgy and gritty. but bc of the way minorities were treated for years noone is crying for the blond chick.
Michael Denny
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Its really good you speak on this. I watched a documentary called Girl Model and another documentary I can't recall the name of and they both address this same problem. I think its something prevalent in the entertainment industry in general and people need to be warned and know what their rights are. No money is worth doing something you're not comfortable with.
+RoxStew5 its unfortunately all too common
Rox
Agreed !
"I watched a documentary called Girl Model"
You should read this. The documentary was a sham.
fashionista.com/2012/03/the-complicated-backstory-behind-new-doc-girl-model-why-its-subject-model-nadya-vall-is-furious-at-her-portrayal
You ignorant. If you are only showing your face to advertise shaving cream, do you have to be tall? Or showing our hair for a shampoo? Do you have to show your height?
It's amazing how little this is talked about. I have been modeling on and off since 2007 and experienced the best things and some nasty things. The second time I met with Bruce Weber (models will know who he is) I left crying. I was 19 and was mortified at his approach to get pictures. I knew the power he has on the industry but I chose to walk away from that opportunity of possibly booking the campaign. It was unprofessional and perverted. It happens to everyone who meets him at least who I have talked to. The thing that gets me is when I do events (modeling does not pay enough) he is always at the head table. Oprah did a event with Ralph Lauren a few years ago and he sat across from her. A women who's purpose is to help people does not see the disgusting person in front of her. The public does not see past the magazines and TV 😟 makes me wonder about everything else in the world we don't know about. Thank you for this video Barret
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I am being fair. I am only pointing out one bad experience with one specific person. I start off with expressing that I have had some of the best experiences in my life from modeling. It is what you make of it. I did it for many years and now that I am 27 I know what is best for me. I know how to keep my body perfect for me. I know who I will work with and what I will accept. I know what is appropriate and not. Mathew Zinks team is top notch! They are professional, and that matters a lot when you are objectifying your package in a bikini breaf.
Chemistry8254 you are someone I never want to meet.
RJGula I don't think anything about my look other then knowing when I am healthy or not. I am a heterosexual married man. If I was not professional which everyone in the industry should strive for i would of beat a few homosexual men up for sexual harassment in my early years. I did not choose to do sexy pictures. I was told that's what I had to do. Exposure is what is sold. Exposure is bullshit but at 17 and 18 I did not know better. If I was gay I'm sure I would of enjoyed the business. I am not so comments like yours are disturbing but comments online are different then ones face to face.
Clearly you have a agenda hear. You did not read my initial response. I praise profesionalism which is a major part of the industry. I don't mind portraying sexuality. It's a art, it's fake. When It's about the pictures and the job it's professional. When it's about someone's perverted fantasies which again I only pointed out 1 person. Bruce Weber is a predator. I have no issue with gay men. I have a issue with a gay man not respecting me being straight.
The 90's supermodel Michael Bergin spoke about the time Bruce Weber was coming on to him. The fashion and media darlings shut that down quickly and took Bergin down fast. They basically pretended that nothing happened due to Weber's tremendous talent and connections within the fashion industry. Another ugly side of male modeling.
+Max Wilson Wasn't Bergin also talking about a relationship he had with a member of a politically powerful family?
JFK Jr.'s wife
Sure. but this happens to women in EVERY profession. So not feeling too much empathy for these men who can stand up for themselves at least physically.
vistaprime double standard?
A lot of the "men" as you describe them are well under 18 years old. They don't know any better, or how to get out of these situations.
Brave of you to make this video!! I'm impressed. Well done.
I modeled for years in my youth and I had a hard time getting any work, because I too am a short model. Only 5' 9 1/2". Basically, you MUST be at least 6 feet and the first thing most places do before they even check your portfolio is what is his height. Especially at Wilhelmina. Sex on photo-shoots happens at lot too, there is little professionalism, especially on no pay shoots.
Vegas Sims Sex on photoshoots?? Wtf!
Not on real professional shoots, but many times when getting started and doing free shoots to build up a strong portfolio, you get occasional characters who are doing it more for their self interest than to help you in your endeavors.
I admire your courage and bravery for being so open about some of the realities in the modelling world. I had no idea it could be so vicious. We as consumers are completely blinded by the reality of modelling and fashion as all we see are the glossy magazines and VS fashion shows and think "Wow lucky them" but I guess like the saying goes "She/he slept her way to the top" actually has a truth behind it but not in the slutty sense [as were lead to believe]…..they were forced to. The weight some people must carry on their shoulders…….and for what? Of course not everyone is bad but still no excuse.
@barrettpall this video will save lives. I hope you feel lifted - trust that doors will open because you dared to be courageous! #askbarrett
Barrett you are so right about this. Many people think its all fun, glamorous and exciting but they do not know the dark side of modeling. I tried modeling myself in the late 90s and yes you do hear NO a lot. It does make you think and question yourself why are you getting rejected. I travel also a lot for go sees and it's not even guaranteed if you'll get picked. It is a really hard business and YES many times you work for free just to get that tear sheet from the magazine to give you more experience and exposure. I watched men's fashion shows in the early 90s and I've always wanted to model after seeing Cameron Alborzian, Michael Bergin, Markus Schenkenberg, and Mark Vanderloo on the runway. It just look so cool to wear those cool clothes and travel everywhere and get paid well. It seems interesting from that perspective but the reality of it, its really a jockpot.
I knew it already, but it can't be warned too many times. And I have wonder to start modeling, I'm not sure if i want to start modeling, cause this kind of stuffs can happen, but at the start, this kind of stuff won't happen, right? and i'm just 15, almost 16 so maybe i'm too young.
samu karppienn 14 is usually minimum. Estonian model Carmen Kass also started as 14.
Good for you to post this. As a fashion photographer in LA for the past 12 years, I have to agree that everything he says is true.
Sad,,, I am so sorry for you Barrett. Good of you to come out and advocate yourself in this way ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
too much inappropriate touching in modeling. I am never going back
James T both equally. usually sexual assault towards males aren't spoken about bc they're guys so apparantly society doesn't count that as sexual assault.
I feel the same way, my friend. I had the same things happen to me in the industry in for many years. I was afraid to say anything because I did not want to be blackballed from the industry. I just left and I regret not speaking up now because I loved the real job of being a model.
Thanks, Chester D.
Jacob Kuba Was it really that bad?
probably because 90% of the male population is straight and likes to be touched by women. No offense to gay people but they should suck it up! These people are lucky enough to be attractive and have the nerve to complain. I would never say anything if I was going to lose my career, this is why people go poor! If this guy doesn't like his job then yeah, he should quit so people that appreciate the multi-billion dollar industry of modeling can join!
u sound like a real soulless creeper fyi
so if someone is considered 'beautiful' by others... by birth, not by choice even... then they have NO RIGHTS??!!!!??
u r promoting unlawful discrimination, n criminal violations against human rights... (against people, n/or all living beings who happened to be born into beauty.)
so, according to your creepy, nonsensical insanity, if someone happens to b beautiful in appearance, they must forfeit all their rights; as creepy criminals have at them; have their way with them?!!? 'pretty people' must just stfu. not ever speak out, not ever stand up... for themselves, for one another, for justice, equality; for rights... against unlawful, criminal, violating, injurious injustice. 'pretty ppl' must accept n tolerate being raped, being molested, being harassed, stalked, tortured, tormented, taken advantage of, exploited, bullied, being wrongfully discriminated against for being pretty (in an UGLY as hell world...) being abused n traumatized, being mal-treated, their rights being violated... as tho a beautiful being does not belong to ones' self... as tho a beautiful being has no self; no boundaries; no rights???!!! as tho a beautiful being is not self possessed; as tho a beautiful being belongs to criminal predators; n does not belong to themself???!!! according to disgusting creeps like u... due to their 'enviable fortune' of being born into beauty... (beauty is not called a 'double edged sword' for no reason u dense, jealous, ugly as a demon, prick.) people of beauty; beings of beauty, must b mandated; dicktated; sentenced to just allow themselves to be chronically fucked over; fucked with; trampled; bulldozed; raped, molested, exploited, bullied, abused, tormented, tortured, wrongfully discriminated against, bribed, manipulated, threatened, taken advantage of, stalked, harassed, traumatized... unlawfully violated, n/or even all too often enslaved, n/or murdered; sacrificed... n cuz, u n those similar to u say, 'beautiful people r soooooooo lucky n blessed to b pretty; therefore they must just stfu, stay mum; b mute; stay quiet; eat shit n die; b miserable n unhappy, pretending they r happy with what??!! with their souls being crushed unlawfully by criminal predators??!! that they should just pretend they r happy n enjoying themselves... n just take all the ruinous; injurious criminal insanity being done to them... n know that they r so lucky, cuz they r pretty, n they have no right to even complain of crimes perpetrated against them, cuz they r pretty???!!! pretty people must just let the cannibals, vampires, parasites; malignant narcissist perpetrators, psychopathic, sociopath criminal predators... have at them; have their way with them; run them amok; injure n ruin them...???!!! n yet, still, according to u, pretty people, must always look pretty; must always maintain that pretty smile on their face... must submit into stockholm syndrome... must pretend to enjoy their oppressors... etc etc... says who??!! says UGLY as hell, loathsome, perverted, psycho-sociopathic, likely perpetrating, no doubt enabling... criminal... stanky, fly infested shit fer brains, nonsensical, insane, dumber than anyone ever thought possible... malignant narcissist, sicko creeps, such as yerself. u n those like u, r what r so horribly wrong of this world. u r an infected infection that is too much such an awful big part of the spiritually-psychologically ill-world problem. u r part of the problem; part of the dis-ease; of this sick world...
FUCK OFF!!!
this is about lawful vs. unlawful behavior.
we a people have RIGHTS. ('pretty or not; pretty or ugly...' matters not...) u idiot, moron, coocoo, sicko, narcissist creep.
we a people must NOT be injurious-ly, unlawfully, criminally mal-treated, mis-used, abused, traumatized, trespassed, harassed, threatened, wrongfully black-listed, bullied, stalked, gang-stalked, bribed, manipulated, exploited, molested, raped, stolen from, taken advantage of, enslaved, sacrificed, murdered, wrongfully discriminated against, violated, unjustly perpetrated against, preyed upon by predators, etc etc... such unwarranted, unjust, unlawful, criminal, injurious, rights violating, abusive, traumatizing mal-behavior is UNACCEPTABLE; INTOLERABLE. we a people MUST band together in support of one another; taking a stand for our rights; for justice, and against injustice, unlawful discrimination, n criminal violations perpetrated against our people; n our rights.
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re: this video. yes, thanx, praise n bless for speaking yer truth, n sharing with others; with a people in this world, n for doing so with yer healthy, healing intentions. wellness wishes.
When people are saying if he is model material or not in the comments and yet none of them are crowned "ruler of modeling". In my opinion he is very good looking on the outside and OBVIOUSLY on the inside from the videos I've seen from him! Keep up the great material Barrett I love these topics and your views!
I can totally relate to this.. It's really hard to take criticism from agents and casting directors, especially if they don't even give you the time of day. It's a tough career that isn't going to be mine forever, which scares me because I have no idea what I want to do career wise besides modeling. Nothing guarantees that you'll make it so it's risky not having a backup plan. Another of my concerns about the modeling industry is faulty agencies that abuse their clients. I recently signed with another one about a week ago but I'm still skeptical of how reliable it is. Anyways, thanks for making this video, it's great to have someone else explain this.
Become a force for change. Get your head into the business end, open your own agency, or work on setting up an advisory board, or focus on the legal side and go to law school. If you love modeling, make the industry better and more ethical. Be that positive force for change. No one is ever too old or too young to make a difference.
Love it. Too many people are striving to get into modeling and don't understand the true cost.
I'm a fashion designer, focus on menswear in L.A.. I'm not a big name, but once I do it's going to hit hard.
I've seen and work with lots of male models/actors. What you said about working for free, I call it TFP (Trade for Photos).
I always make it clear to the model that this is a collaborate project. Once they are on the set. I show them the highest respect
for even modeling for me for free. I make sure they are comfortable that my team, work and act as professionals. I feed them,
pay their parking, depending on some circumstances pay their gas in a location shoot. The models I've worked with usually do
call me back, because they love my designs, and the respect I give them. It's people in the fashion industry whether they
are lower and higher end that use their power to harass and take advantage of models whether they are women and men
that gives this industry a bad rap. I'm pretty much a rebel and I don't go by the fashion industries standards. Thank you
Barrett for discussing the bad side of modeling. For those who are wanting to model, please always approach it
as a business and as professional as possible. That way who ever you model for will see that.
Thank you for posting this! Very important to uncover these dirty secrets. Young people need to be protected from this nonsense.
I strongly approve, appreciate and thank you for this video! As a designer and model promoter I've been opposing the sexual harassment and inhumane behaviours in the industry in my country since my early days which has led to me being unwanted, disowned and ridiculed by most of the people in the industry! I've been attacked through blame games, boycotts and finally life threads! So now I'm closeted out of my country and try to keep it low!
I'm so proud of you Barrett! Telling it like it is!
The only "Glamour" is the end product which is the image or the video....i'm glad you're teaching US...and i'm sorry for the terrible experiences that you got....lurid experience....but you're stronger now and i'm glad you're doing this video to ensure there is always accountability for every individuals actions.... :)
Randee Villaester i don't know why, but your profile picture are so good looking. Gosh i may have a crush on you Randee! 😆😄
Only a few have the courage to tell the real truth about modeling. Congrats !
Karen Mulder ex-model has a tough story in her modeling career!!
Good for you for speaking up and out! Being taken advantage of is deplorable no matter the context.
This has a real ring of truth to it. I found myself nodding several times as you spoke. Thank you for being so honest and forthright about your experience in modeling. You seem to have some real integrity, and I really appreciate that.
Great video. It is so true. Modelling is really harsh, 99% of the models are experiencing the worse of the industry .Most of the public only know of the 1% top models where they got paid thousands, flying to Paris to do a Gucci shoot or whatever. Even in the higher level, models are often got paid by trade not really by money. And not to mention most models starts really young and they are surrounded by these adults who should be responsible for their action so it is super easy for them to manipulate models to do all these things. I think you should join Model Alliance they are great voice of models.
Kindest regard
Thank you so much Barrett. Ive had so much respect for you before but after this video....OH SHIT!!! Shit got real!!! I have tremendous respect for you in calling out the epidemic of sexual harassment in the modeling world that's an open secret. Either women or men, young or old, hot or not, no one deserves to be sexually harassed. Keep it the great work. And you are truly a beautiful human being inside and out. These videos prove it!
This was an amazing video Barret, it took balls to do this and you're just sowing all of us what are you made of. This is why we all love you!!
Shit.... And I was thinking about modelling.... Fuck that shit.
sebaspaz0103 don't be stupid man. Everyone is going to have a different experience. Try it. I used this as a warning, and now I'm going to be careful about all of this stuff. But it shouldn't stop u.
Remember that, when activities similar to those which you describe involve persons under the age of 18, they may not just be inappropriate, they may be felonies.
They should be brought to the attention of the authorities.
I just started watching your videos and let me tell you I have enjoyed every one of them. Stuff like this happens all the time every where at different levels. Thank you for educating the public especially those young guys or girls that might feel that modeling, acting, dancing, singing will make them happy. Some may tell you horrifying stories on how they put up, because they were young, poor, ignorant, innocent and that was the only hope to continue chasing their dreams. Integrity and self respect will take you out of any uncomfortable situation. We know when something is not right, we need to say no and to follow our instincts. The future has always better things prepared for us, we will get to them more prepared and most of all, happy.
I'm guessing that modeling is an industry that attracts many less grounded guys whose self esteem derives from constant reassurance that they are attractive. How many plan for a different career, once the calls quit coming? At what age are male models 'has-beens?' I'm fascinated by those that go on to careers as photographers, film makers, actors, painters, designers, etc. How do you see your future?
That was very brave to speak out about this issue.. even though a lot of people don't speak about this issue, it hasn't been the first time I've heard it.. it seems like the modeling industry as well as the movie industry and Hollywood have this similar trend in taking advantage of people just trying to get a break and reach their dreams.. it's sad but will never be corrected unless people start talking about it and rules or laws are put into place.. congrats on trying to make a positive step towards improving the dark side of the industry xo
Thank you for having the courage and speaking the good, the bad and the downright ugly truth about the modelling industry :-) Keep it up Barrett!
I use to model nearly 50 years ago. Yes, the industry surely takes advantage of younger and innocent people. Several times I was approached by famous entertainers, sports players, congressional folks and the list goes on. I thank you for the openness that perhaps others will understand and be prepared. The entertainment industry works well when it does yet most often does not. Blessings.
You need to continue modeling dude. Most people don't have faces like that. It just glows.
Thanks for speaking out about this, I thought I was the only one. So many people join the modeling industry because they seek validation, not knowing that the industry will have them fully confront their inner demons. Towns like LA have an exploitation system waiting to take advantage of young hopefuls. Luckily, I got out of it and found my self worth in the process before I was destroyed by it. Thanks for putting into words what I've always felt.
Coming from the other side of the fence, I honestly was finding it hard to dredge up emotion over the topic of this video... then I watched it. I have spent most of my life (pre-adult, and adult/gay) being made fun of and attacked because I have some extra poundage, and am not the nicest looking bulb in the pack. To this day, I don't go to bars... I have actually been insulted there by better looking guys (I tried an experiment 2 years ago, and was ostracized within 15 minutes by two guys next to me).
Having said all the... who knew I would have something in common with someone experiencing the opposite condition.
Good for you Barrett... the honesty is needed. Pox on the guy who said you are not attractive... I would be lucky to have an honest man no matter WHAT he looks like.
When I was young, I was asked to get a book and model especially since I was very tall. I didn’t take it seriously and I’m soo glad I didn’t! Thank you Barrett for eliminating the shoulda, woulda, coulda thoughts! I hope that the #metoo movement takes over the modeling industry and ends the career of the sleezy people in the world! All the best to you and your colleagues!
Raymond
Good job man you rock for doing this! You are doing the right things! You are a real man by speaking out because it takes courage to do what you are doing!!! You are amazing
As someone who works in the industry as well I totally agree with all of this. BARRETT, you are epic. Thank you for your transparency
i love your honesty. appreciate it a lot
Many years ago I was what my friends called the MACYS Sunday Newspaper Supplement Model. Such models are certainly not in the big time, but we were treated professionally and we were always paid. I even appeared in a few MACYS holiday TV commercials (acting as if I was having the best time of my life in whatever clothes they were pushing). Not glamorous, but it paid some bills while I went to college. I had the look of that time period, knew it, but didn't want the total hassle of a hard hitting model career. I never would have had the temperment for what you have gone through. Thanks for sharing the reality of the hard hitting modeling world.
Thank you Barrett, this really helped me understand this industry better as I am pursuing it. You're very inspirational and honest. This was a great video to open my eyes to see another perspective about modeling...
I just watched this video and I felt it was awesome, I loved the fact that you didn't hold back anything. Allowing people to be informed as to what they would have to encounter. Speaking out isn't as easy as it always looks, it means being put in a bad light at time. Regardless, it's not that I found some of the content to be shocking, to the effect that the bullying and exploitation and rampant sexual harassment in some agencies is common place , but to talk about it ends your career. It's good to hear from your experience that there is life after modeling, not all of it is bad and that no one should settle on bad business practices. Thank you for this video it opened eyes alot.
I modeled in the 80's, Paris, new York Tokyo, started in Seattle..I had so much nasty crap from some real bastards. I then went into fashion designing starting with Dior, YSL, Lanvin and believe me those small games were long gone in my past...although there were tons of drug addicts....
Kevin Jewell show us ur work
Kevin Jewell Sounds horrible
ramcurequeeny of course, but I didn’t know her, I now know her BFF… I worked with Jerry Hall and Iman, that was exciting as they were my faves, along with Violeta Sanchez , Patty Cleveland, Ines de la Fressange, of the Supermodels my fave is Naomi, I never saw anyone glide like she does on the catwalk, not even ice skaters can all glide like her….
I had no idea, I mean I sort of expected that there would be some sort of hardship like this but the way how media is portrayed and how the models' social media seem like they're having reasonable happy lives (just by look of it of course), I realized that what you really see on those models' live styles on social media aren't everything. Thank you so much for sharing this and I can't believe the whole sexual harassment would be just beyond humiliation. Just wish that you are happy about yourself, who you are is so much more important than what others say. NO MATTER WHAT! :)
Contrary to those who might say you've bitten the hand that feeds you, you could make a fortune with that handsome smile in toothpaste commercials. Really. Good luck.
Scott Spiro I literally can't breathe 😂😂😂
You are amazing for doing this and thank you for being you. The truth is I really struggle with being pretty. I get tons of attention for it and not all of it is good. Everyone wants sex or a piece of me and it's exhausting. From creeps or people who just fall in love with me and just want to talk to me because I look pretty. When I was younger I'd shave my head and wear a hoodie just to stop people from staring at me when I walked down the street. I don't think people understand the price of being pretty. I guess I'm lucky to look the way I do but I attract a hell of a lot of bad energy too and people who just hate me because I'm attractive and think I'm a sex object. Men aren't allowed to talk about this so I'm glad you are putting this out there. I always loved Farrah Facett. I felt she was someone pretty who the world just took advantage of and got exploited and abused for it. I think it's so difficult as people want me to be something for them and then the pressure to live up to that is huge. I'm pretty therefore I have to be perfect and I'm not allowed to be anything other then what you want me to be. Anyhow thanks for doing this it's important stuff as so much of it is bullshit. I worked in porn and modelling made money at it but like you said it's not enough to live on. It's a great part time job that you can have fun with but seriously that's it. Enjoy the good people you meet along the way because there are good people but definitely protect yourself and your heart as there are lots of creeps out there too.
"its soo fucked up" :D ...welcome to the showbussines
Oh boo, you are so brave and so strong to do this, and I liked you more than ever for standing up for this. And I do hope you will make more videos like this and spread to the world this nasty shit going on and it's really really unhumane. You were right about how I think about the extravaganza of being in the modelling world is, but now, YOUR WORDS CAN EMPOWER, MAN? This totally changed my views, and thank you so much for doing this. Love love
This really needs to be said!
The big kicker, the sexual harassment, I knew he was gonna say that but wasn't looking forward to it. I hear all the time, from models on youtube and in social media about sexual harassment, and it's so sad to hear. Modeling is not something that people should be doing unless they really know who they are. I am glad you are speaking out about this, because nobody deserves to be treated that way, and I am glad you had a good head on your shoulders to say "no!".
Nice insight... You come off as a down to earth person, which is why I like watching your vlogs
Bravo, Mr. Pall, It's nice to hear it "laid on the line!" May God bless you!
but why many people want to be a model??? is it cuz they thought it was glamourous???
mosswerbowy yes
Hey Moss,,Only Dumb and lazy girls are join to the modeling companies or religious places ...By the way Iran is beautiful for backpackers in this year because we have a lot of rainfall in this season .
Victor Valentour
Well.. why are they models ?
If they are that intelligent .. then why aren't they working in jobs that are more difficult ?
Because most of them just want easy money and fame.. Yeah the fashion industry isn't easy , not at the slightest but it is easier than other jobs ..
Not in my opinion. It's interesting and versatile and never boring, that's why. Photos or catwalk may seem glamorous, but behind the scenes is a completely different story.
@@rebeccaignacio6061 Not only intelligency, but to be in modelling profession you have to be in good shape and looks and not everyone has it !!
Bravo, Barrett! I'm sorry that the world has its seamy sides, but I appreciate you helping get this vital conversation going!
ugh sexual harassment... disgusting souls who do this. ugh...
I think it is possible everywhere, but if they are in the position to end you career, then they will use this. I have read that in the movie industry in hollywood it is the same. the guy who did the x-men movies for example was the same: telling 16 or 18 year old boys: I give you a career if you fuck with me.
of course your video would make a bigger impact, if you would name who it was, because now it will probably dont change a lot.
That was Bryan Singer.
I hear the pain in your voice and the frustration. I hope you find a career that does not hurt you, but gives you what you need to be happy. Good luck and God bless you.
Me, as a fan, I'm proud of you for saying out loud all these things!!! :)
I am so glad you spoke out about photographers that take advantage of unsuspecting newbies in the modeling world. Thank God the Me too movement has exposed these photographers, stylist, and principles committing sexual harrassment, rape and abuse, an other sexual crimes. Crime is crime, and these criminals should be convicted for the molestations they are commiting. They all deserve hard jail time. By the way Barrett you not too short, I singlehandedly discovered a guy name Matt who was barely 5'10, and he became one of the top 20 male models in the world working to photogs like Stephen Meisel and appeared in ads for Louis Vuitton, David Yurman jewelry and even appearing on the cover of the women Italian Vogue magazine.
i'm designer , also fashion photographer and i agree with everything you said. But not only models , other attractive people in the same field or new guys/girls who wants to build name in industry have to let it happen to them too. and of course most of the time there's no paid.
Thirty years ago I help and encouraged a very handsome friend get into modeling. He worked with some of the top people, spent years in Europe. Now is in his mid-60's and living in Los Angeles. He still gets commercials and hand-modeling gigs. What you say in your video are in line with much of what I have observed. He has had a fascinating life, but limited in some self-development ways. He never married or had kids. He lived high off the hog for awhile, then has had many years of struggle. He has a girlfriend who helps support him, but I don't think it's the happiest. After about 40 years, since I met him (before he was a model) we are still friends. At times I envied his glamorous life, but in those years I have finished college, worked as a high school teacher for 30 years, and have a secure retirement in my own house. I would not trade. I appreciate what you say in your video, and I know that my friend would agree with 90% of it, or more. All best wishes. Get out there and have a life.
I see beauty inside and out in you. Keep speaking up from the heart. Don't stop. Flood the truth online.
Unfortunately short models generally won't succeed, you are very attractive but the bitterness spoils it
I know and have dated many models... I have heard some crazy stories... Great vid
I should appreciate your concerns to make this video too as a person who has been in this industry and is not unknowing to what you mention. It is misfortunate but sadly true many ugly things are going on around this industry and its mesmerizing mask made many only staring at those shiny spots. Some think to be seen and known is the only key to their future success and sometimes to gain that they can easily be mislead or crashed by improper perposes and profit-making ideas of unscrupulous people. Thank you man and keep up the best!
Youve courage friend! nice said beacause youngs with dreams dont have to be manipulated by perverts!
Good for you for having the courage to say this. I agree with you 100%. I think your colleagues should support you and you should come together to start denouncing these pervs.
This is so true, not only in the modelling world but also in the corporate world, rank and file, etc. Sexual harassment is so common. Student to teacher. boss to employee. Some got so caught and tied up in the system that it became a cycle. So glad you were able to stand for yourself and put an end to things that you really don't want to get into.
What I find ironic is how after 3 years of being told I should model by friends, randomers, teachers and even being scouted before I finally gained the courage to send my portfolio images to agencies. After I did that I came straight on TH-cam and this video was the first thing I was recommended to watch haha.
Cool person you are, B. I remember my first booking in the 80's for a Cadbury commercial, and up to that point, my agents did not know I was gay. I had made friends with the makeup guy during the shoot and we were laughing, and my agents heard that I had tried to pick him up or something (I was not attracted to him, just nice finding someone to joke with on set that day) as it turned out the scene in 1988 was still very homophobic... especially with the casting directors! I was told to NOT be seen on the gay strip or in a disco - RIGHT!!!!! - as if a 24 yr old would NOT go out and try to have fun and maybe even fall in love! They were a 5 star agency that basically were a bunch of uptight bigots that would not get away with that today! In the end, you are a human who should not have to put up with ignorance nor be controlled by those who would stifle who you are just so they could sell you! Then the lead actor of the gig drunkenly puts himself all over me on the dance floor the next evening.... but that's another story! ( and not one he's proud of - alcohol affects many physical responses... hint, hint)
Barrett - here's a quote that applies to you - please take it as a compliment:
Rhett (to Scarlet): You should be kissed and often, and by someone who knows how.
I wish you well.
Barrett, you are obviously a bright and insightful young man so I know you have thought about this. What were your reasons for getting into the modeling profession if not for the sexual pay-offs? In other words, why did you aspire to be a model? I am a youth advocate and support everything you have said here about why the negatives of the profession must end. I commend you for your forthrightness and integrity..............Ray
The fashion world is vile. I saw a documentary on TH-cam about male models in New York. It made me angry. All the huge profits that the fashion industry makes, yet they don't pay a decent wage to the models.
You're so brave for sharing that, good luck mate. :)
Massive respect in your choices. Well done for getting out with your pride intact
I KNEW there was going to be a sexual harassment thing. I wish I could say I wouldn't be that way but oh how tempting it would be to oil hot guys, etc. Actors and models are mistakenly thought to be prostitutes by many whether consciously or subconsciously because it's selling one's self. I used to be so upset at being fat and gay and then when I got into the Chub and Chaser community I got to see what the "Pretty people" go through. Never did I think I'd be in that situation as a fat gay dude. But I got a small taste of it and while it was so wonderful at first, I quickly started feeling uncomfortable as one guy after another just wanted to play with my belly and would barely look me in the face or treat me like a human being.
This shit has gone on for years and the industry got away with it so much more before we had social media and this gives almost everyone a platform to expose the sickos in the industry.
Good for you Barrett, I am happy that you had the guts to post this. You will be successful no matter what. Hard work and good moral values will take you far. Just believe in yourself. This applies to anyone in this industry.
Thanks for sharing your experience,good luck in your life.
this was really enlightening, thank you for the upload! it's definitely fascinating how those who operate photoshoots tend to objectify/dehumanize models. it's absolutely ridiculous that they can be so abrasive and critical of people's physical appearances, which is especially hypocritical since they can't live up to their own standards. it's a vicious and cruel world.
It happened to me with a fashion editor who was later on sued by another guy.
The media industry, including print, runway, film, television etc. has always been about a certain "look", first and foremost. Your "look" is what gets you noticed and ultimately hired. Then, if you have talent, all the more better... you can succeed in the industry. Kudos Barrett for shedding your candid view on it all. Best of luck to you in all that you choose to do!
im just starting as a model and so far im liking it, thanks for the video
+hector eduardo Zamorano garcia Good Luck!
+Barrett Pall thank you
Eduardo Zamorano Can we have a conversation,i need a help
Ziyad El Hafidi sure bro
Barrett Pall everything you said was true bro, thank God I saw this video
Good for you, Mr. Pall! You're brave to tell the TRUTH about modeling! I wish you the best in your future endeavors!
I think you're perfect, and screw the others if they get mad at you
Bravo! The industry needs a whistle blower, like you Barrett, to wake up the industry. You are the voice for may models to bring on the change. The more that people talk about their own experiences the more effect it will have as a movement.
This is the reason why you are one of most powerful models that i follow on Internet ;), you are true and to denounce all this you are very brave,do you know in Spain recently they approved a law against thin models (many kids bring anorexia ) and italian tv show in past interview many models they don't eat nothing to make photos and pass out? Thanks for your videos ;) , long life and prosper ;) Saluti dall'Italia ;)
he's bartender looks. not much for fashion..
I think your incredibly brave because you stood up for yourself and made your point. You could of let us all assume you live a charmed life of perfection but this gives context and builds your character. I'd rather work with someone with character than someone who isnt willing to speak out. I think this is bold and beautiful.
The entire fucking fashion industry is just so fucked up and full of hypocrites. I am still in the fashion industry very not willingly for some reason and there is no one moment I don't want to get out of this. Getting no pay, manipulation, excess work and bad tempers etc., you see all these shits happening everyday. One company that I used to work for free years ago, asked models to come in for casting, the director spoke exactly same compliments for all the models and told them you would be very probably chosen and then complained to us how ugly they were after they left. I got no paid to work even I was doing the job that the public relation manger did who left for holiday. It was not remotely entry level work and I also had to bear his fucking awful temper like a slave. Moreover, the income of low level fashion guys, like assistants in magazines, fashion companies is very disproportionate to their contritions but you cannot complain as they crave for that glamorous life, on the way to achieving it, they lose more than what they eventually get.
Thank you for speaking out on this. I was a former photog and worked briefly in the fashion world. What you say is TRUE!!!
I'm proud of you!!
Respect, very well said. I would like to hear more. My Ex BF was nearly involved in the lower end market of modelling but due to his addictions he had to stop. Maybe that was a good thing. Keep spreading the truth and listen to your gut instinct always.
Very brave Barrett but let's be honest you took it pretty easy on the industry. The fact that you have to work for free in editorial shoots or free at all means your not a professional model you are a slave. A slave to a industry that preys on the young and naive and their mis-guided dreams. People are sold the glossy veneer of "being a model" but as you point out there is a dark underbelly that only insiders know about. When a plumber goes to a job at the end he gets paid. If you go to a job as a model and you don't get paid then your simply being USED.
Wow your videos are not recent but you started showing up in my feeds. So here I am watching.
love you for who you are! so strong! :)
I can relate to everything you have said. It is especially difficult in a time were everyone seems to want to be seen and heard. There are a lot of people who are willing to pay hundreds of thousands out of their own pockets to be noticed and to have their face connected with something. Anyone can have a music video now. The industry has been so corrupted and I don't see it ever being the way it used to be. Really so sad that you were treated like that. You are very brave to speak out.
You are awesome, both in looks and attitude toward life.
Kudos to you for standing up to the industry. Even if you get no notariaty from this video, you are a better person for having spoke the truth! You are an inspiration to those who believe they want to get in this industry and don't know that these things go on. Good job!
This is awesome. More people need to speak out against injustices that need to be dealt with because it shouldn't have to happen to move your career forward. It reminds me of the one intern at a fortune 500 company that died after working 17hr days for three days straight, then Goldman Sachs saying that the interns can only work a maximum of 12hours a day. It boggles my mind because these are usually unpaid internships. Yes, the payoff in the end may be really amazing, but is it worth your health, your dignity, and your young life? If you are all for it then that's your business, but for me I need that balance between work and a social life.