When you mentioned "if you want to type young INTJ you must look their subconscious type." Lol that is so true i was more like an ESFP when i was a child. So energetic, living in the moment and social etc.
That makes sense, after researching for weeks I was sure I'm an INTJ but my childhood wouldn't make sense so I kept looking and looking. Now after this video I understood why.
I was the same. This video made it very clear to me. As a child I was outgoing but as I became a teenager I grew far more introverted and asocial. I have a terrible body clock and sleep is always out of whack. I thought that I was an ISTP but this makes far more sense.
@@haydarsarac3565 same. I'm in my late teenage years and have done a lot of research on mbti and the cognitive functions including type descriptions and I resonated a lot with INTJ. But my childhood self contradicted every description of INTJ so I was skeptical. Turns out it was my ESFP side back then
8:31. Unbelievable. You're right. My purpose is to learn and study more, become more intelligent, have a good physical shape, eat healthy, read more books, programming, have a good job and a good future, perhaps a family... I mean, perfection.
When you talk about acting on impulse and realizing social consequences, it reminds me when that lesson finally hit me in high school: I did something that I thought was rather amusing for myself, and one of my friends reprimanded me saying "I guess it would have been funny if we were in a sitcom or something." He was the first person to point out to me that my behaviors stemmed from a warped sense of reality and that there would be no credits to roll to if I did something truly foolish.
"If they do not practice they will lose the skill" This is very true This applies to me in a variety of things.. whether it was mathematics when I was in high school (edit: math wasn't too hard to get back into (along with other things)), or losing my peak performance skills in a video game even if I don't play for just a few days, I had to relearn the patterns I learned to used for buying stocks, etc.
Compared to other types, INTJ's often learn faster than anyone, that's maybe why he says we lose skills after a while, but I think if you really like something, and you spend approximately the time an SJ type would, then you won't 'lose' the skill as fast as in the first case, more likely you'll end up retaining more of it than others even if it doesn't seem like it (instincts hahha), I believe it always depend on what's your intention and how much time you have invested on your craft, in order for it to become natural to you, or a forgettable gimmick. Practice makes perfect lol.
As an INTJ I've noticed that sheer quantity of practice, putting in six hour plus days in whatever I'm interested in gives me the most benefits. Also, If you are an INTJ I recommend reading the book called "The one thing" by Gary W. Keller, because we are one thing people that go deep more than generalists. If you are an INTJ you need to accept that you're a specialist and not a generalist (Like an ENTP who I believe are the generalists). IF you are an ENTP I recommend reading the book "Range" by David Epstein.
Can INTJ procrastination be a direct result of performance anxiety? I often get anxiety about studying, worrying that i wont do well enough to impress the professor. Sometimes the anxiety is so bad that it makes me avoid studying, procrastinating and ultimately risking self-sabotage until i finally scramble at the end and learn everything at once. The fear of failure and pressure of the impending deadline seems to get my butt into shape pretty darn quick, but its not ideal
My procrastination stems from two things. 1. Not knowing where to start. 2. Knowing that once I start, I'll likely lose a couple weeks or months working on the project, because I know the rabbit hole is going to run deep and an INTJ does not just dabble in learning something, they jump all the way in.
I'm afraid how I'm going to be sucked into studying everything in one day, yes, that would be awesome, but for many reasons similar to yours I'm always afraid of even starting, maybe that's why we are Finishers, the only way ahead is to accept the pain 😅
@@SpectreTheHorseman I started reviewing Algebra which should be enough for the test, now I am about to finish it and I am willing to start Calculus now.
I make it happen bro. I actually care about everyone here. And also I do not allow anyone else to post comments as me. It’s on my desktop and phone at all times.
As an intj, I got bullied alot as a kid. I hated these kids all the way up till I was an adult. But you know what, I am in my 30s and I have come to realize something profound. People treat others how the project to be treated. If adults treat people like crap when they project that they want to be treated as crap(intentional or not). How can I expect kids to do the same? That part in the video about intj learning to forgive those who pissed off the Si demon really resonated with me.
I'm 41 and still not fully over same. I try to keep Si demon mollified, but chaotic events result in relapses. I am sure I will iron them out eventually. I often wondered considering how titanic my Si Demon is, how much good it could do as Si Angelic. OO
@@dennisjonker4804 for me the path was a combination of Ti critic paired with child Fi, Te parent and finally Se inferior. Such as I have seen adults and have heard others suffer from people treating others like how they project. Even when this projection is weakness. They should know better as adults not to pounce on the weak one but they dont. Children are in the process of learning how to be adults. My moral code believes children should not be held to the same standards as adults. Thus I reached my conclusion. Now how to get rid of the overwhelming anger when you talk to these people who hurt you. That is harder, but it takes almost accepting that you projecting being weak actually gave the other children a bad experience. Not that you are to blame for the bullying. But acknowledging that children are not developed yet and act more like basic animals. Animals weed out the weak. It is almost like you have get each side of your mind to see the situation for what it is. Entp then estp then intj, then finally the isfj cools off once the other 3 sides found the children not guilty. Or in my case I moved the unreasonable line in which I deemed them guilty initially above their transgressions. And that cause my Si to cool off.
My Te parent woke up in my mid thirties. That seems late, but when it came, whoosh it stays. Now I am ultra monolithic with sleep times, cooking/eating times, schedules, structure, and even do it overbearingly.
INTJ here, and I've come across your lectures in the last couple months while making an effort to understand myself and others better. Originally this was driven by a need to be more efficient working with people in business while keeping myself from burnout, but I'm starting to see the value of understanding personalities in my personal life as well. I wanted to say thanks for going into so much depth, there's actually helpful stuff here. Also, this is one of your better INTJ lectures. In some of them, quite a bit of time is spent on paranoia and interpersonal relationship chaos. While some of that rings true, I personally don't give enough thought to most of my interpersonal relationships to ever go there. Thanks again for the lectures, I'm looking forward to listening to more.
Dr.Dario Nardi (an INTJ) has done research using brain scans on the 16 types. The data suggests that Ni doms are actually generalists, not specialists. The Si users, especially Si doms, are the specialists.
You have no idea how much your insights changed my life and are helping me ! Thank you very much ! I actually like your long lectures ! The more information I get, the better it is !
@@imanafdar Tacticians focus on the short-term actions and steps to achieve objectives or goals while strategists focus on the overarching plan to achieve a long-term goal, which utilizes tactics to execute it. So think short term vs long term.
@@imanafdar Tactics exist to achieve the objectives set by the strategist. The collective execution of these objectives results in the long term goal/vision being properly achieved.
Thank you dear cs joseph. Im an intj and one of your big fans, my father was an istj and he abandoned me from my birth and at the otherside my mother is an entp who alwas tried to overdo about me and kind of feeding my Fi child more n more. I have a great sense of hatredness about my nation, i live in iran and i think its because of the broken relationship between me an my father. Ok , I suffered a lot from physical diseases but now nothing is more curing for me like humbleness, and practicing Se inferior, man your my shadow and wisdom, im so thankful that i found you. Youre one of my mentors and im so grateful for finding you.Thank you🙏🙏🙏
@@CSJoseph This reply from you worths me alot, you know i can say that entp's are miraculous and show some ways that no one else could see that way. Im blessed beyond measure to have you
I really liked what you said about the transition from stratagist to tactician. This is very true to my own expirence especially with socail interactions, where I would overthink myself into corner, turning myself into a nervous reck. Now days I've become way better at just blocking all that shit out and just jumping into the pool, though I can't say I got here alone I've had the help of some good people. My heart goes out to anyone out there who's had to deal with that level of crippling anxiety.
FINALLY! This is the first time a source has explained why I'm a night owl. I've always been a night owl but I didn't know it was linked with my cognitive functions as an INTJ. Thanks CSJ!
Me too, 40 years until I quit eating plants and went mostly animal based. Then it was like someone flipped a switch. I've never been to bed before midnight in my life now I'm asleep by 9 and up by 4. Now I'm a morning person. The plant toxins and carbs were making my mind race and threw off my circadian rhythm.
Regarding the Si demon, your observations helped me see something I've been hiding from myself. You said that abandonment triggers the insecurity of Se inferior which then triggers Si demon and the concentrated anger and desire for revenge that we INTJs display. What I realized when you mentioned that though is the outward display is maybe 15% to 20% of what is going on. Underneath the surface my Si demon is fueling unbelievable amounts of self-hatred. And then just storing it outside of my perception once the emotional storm has passed. So essentially I've got this hidden accumulation of self-hatred (that is likely disrupting my health) and now I'm painfully aware of it. But I have no idea how to purge it. Why did you have to make me feel my own feelings? Ugh.
@@jeremyr7147 I've recently been using the method in Dave Hayes book Emotional Healing in 3 Easy Steps. It's remarkably effective and has helped me understand injuries to the soul in a new way.
Absolutely true. I often nearly master a subject or skill quickly. If I stop using it or thinking about it, I lose it. But once I get back into it, it’s easy to pick back up. It’s like I store it in the cloud rather than a hard drive or ram
Dude, my INFJ friend referred you, this is your first video I'm seeing. I'm an INTJ, and i promise you, you just recited my life to me. I was able to transition, but i was transitioning extremely erratically, you have given a great roadmap to fix myself. Thank you, i honestly cried as i understood this, i didn't know my subconscious and unconscious had different types. I can beat my demon now
Woah, the sleep patterns part was so interesting. I'm awful at sleeping in a routine, but when I had a bf who would go to bed super early, I found myself doing the same... however I soon became fed up of this and resented him for it because i am a night owl 🦉 ( 2 of my recent bed times include 3:30am and 5:30am)
This is Gold. This content. I spend full 1.30 hour watching this. How, I was writing my journal about how what you said has happened in my life and how it affected me, than I move on with the video and the same conclusion is shown/explained. And then you showed how I can make the transition, now as I love to grow myself as as person, I was almost doing that stuff, like learning/seeing to love people that door slammed me for my own good, etc. Now I have it all documented in front of me, and I can work on it with so much accuracy. Complete focus, on how to overcome my insecurities. Thank you so much for it. I hope what I wrote makes some sense. I'm feeling overwhelmed right now.
I'm INTJ but once when I was "in love" i took the test and result was ESFP. Is it possible that my mind was more "subconscious" at that moment? Because I was really shocked
I took several tests every year for the past 5 years. Every single time they changed. Don't trust the tests, as so rightly Chase keeps saying. My tests only had two patterns that never changed. So I always got the same answer between 4 types, depending on mood, life situation, etc. The type grid is much more efficient.
I feel victimized by the comment about needing titles to feel important haha. I'm currently working on a PhD that I have no intention of ever using for anything.... Dammit I've been outed lmao
I know quite well that, "practice makes perfect." I'm an INTJ, in grade school I was very fortunate and got in the local public school lottery and was selected to attend a public school that focused on the arts, we visual arts, dance, drama, and music, and from the music I ended up selected for a local youth choir and won 1st place national awards with the choir and I've also entered and won excellent ratings in solo singing competitions. Many times over the years people said, "I wish I could draw like you," or, "I wish I could sing like you, you're very talented." I tell them, "I don't believe in talent, I believe in practice to improve your skills." Or I'd tell them, "I don't believe in talent, I believe in the desire to practice to improve your skills." I'd show them some of my old things which absolutely suck, but I hold on to those old crappy pieces I've done to illustrate my point that I don't believe in talent, and that practice does in fact lead to better skill. I have made the mistake of complaining about my half-brother who I didn't meet until after I was in my 20s, he'd often sing along with whatever CD he was playing, but I didn't complain to him about his lack of skill, I'd mentioned my complaint to my girlfriend who then decided to bring it up to my brother one day when we were traveling together. My brother was upset that I'd complain about his lack of skill in singing and him not knowing of my past decided to make the bold statement, "what would you know, you don't know how to sing," and I had to educate him real quick. "I have 7 years of experience with a world-class youth choir who's won several national awards, who was invited to international choir competitions sponsored by the Vienna Boys Choir, I have two certificates of Ratings of Excellence for solo competitions I've entered, so I know off key signing when I hear it." If it weren't for my girlfriend bringing it up to my brother I would've just let him have fun singing along with his CDs, yes, it did bother me, but not enough for me to want to say anything to him and ruin his fun, that is until he assumed that I didn't know what I was talking about.
As an INTJ these videos have been extremely useful! You do such a great job explaining the transitions of the mind and it’s crazy how it all applies so directly. My advice to intjs: as with every great thing you ever do, the one thing you have to do will be alone, on a deep inner quest to translate all of your emotional unawareness and see your wrong doings and shortcomings of the past from other people’s perspectives. Once you can map that out, the world is truly unlocked for you, and you can continue your movements without regard for the “right thing” because you already know the right thing- as long as you have spent the time on that inner quest ironing out your personal checks and balances. Your humbleness will guide you to places where your undeniable work can speak for itself, as long as you feed that life long journey of knowledge and mastery, as said in the video. Personally, I played sports my whole life growing up, so that really helped me develop my motor skills and learn very quickly all of my social and performance anxieties, probably much earlier than most intjs, though I know that I’m still painfully in the midst of implementing more useful thought processes and habits every day. But it’s so funny how I can look silky smooth playing basketball but if you watch me put peanut butter and jelly on a sandwich you’d think I never lived in civilization. It’s that on/off switch you speak of. Brilliantly accurate stuff! My best friend is an isfp, and he is a fantastic hockey player despite his 5’3 frame because of his amazing sensory ability. We plan on managing youth sports complexes for both hockey and basketball, while helping each other coach our respective teams. I have seen that Greg Popovic and Phil Jackson are intjs, so I know that coaching is definitely a good fit for me. But If you ever see and read this comment, please, let me know your thoughts on how intjs and isfps can potentially work together in a business environment, or maybe even make a video on this if you haven’t. Immediately after posting this comment I will scowl your page for something of the like, being regretfully new to your channel. But, anyway, for some context on my friend and I: I feel that him and I are rather mature, having been best friends since 9 years old through all of our BS and still being best friends at 20, having never had an argument or fight. We just fascinate each other with a separate perspective all the time, seamlessly. Anyways, thanks for the videos, him and I are watching them religiously now so we can have a better understanding of people’s types and have a better idea of how to coach certain people. Thanks, C. S., J. F.
Haha you made me laugh with the peanut butter sandwich. Complex things are very easy to INTJ's and easy things are very complex to INTJ's. Talking about IFSP, I know they can be good friend but as a professional relationship I'm not entirely convinved it's the best match.
The plagiarism thing is so true. So many times I will read something or watch a video online then forget I ever saw it, and later on, tell other people about it as if I came up with it (because a lot of the time, I think I did)
Wow, you have INTJ issues!! I must be the only INTJ who doesn't care about anyone's opinion (unless they are my boss) and don't 'hate' (takes too much energy)and don't cheat or play games (takes too much energy), don't mind being abandoned cause I find people to be annoying. I must not be an INTJ.
I am like you @SuperXrunner and I'm INTJ too.... I didn't recognize myself...in those elements stated by CS Joseph : Cheating? Stealing? seriously? nope, I agree with you @SuperXrunner :takes too much energy and where would be the inner pride of doing so?... and definitely not INTP or other types for sure. I actually was also quite 'lost' by another presentation of CS Joseph for ISTJ (other video)= only very few of the description was accurate. Also, it's odd how you CS Joseph had so many INTJ and INFJs "friends/employees" "perceiving unfair treatment" from you and that you finally got rid off because of "poor performance"....tssss
SuperXrunner same dude, I know 0 INTJ’s in real life. I have plenty of ENFP’s, ESFP’s, ISFP’s and ESFJ’s around me however. No INxJ’s, I know 1 INTP and 2 ENTP’s. Don’t know where these people are meeting all these xNTx’s
I have never cheated in school and am actually very prideful of that. If I fuck up it's my fault and it's only a lesson to get better at that. I always cite my sources and ot triggers me when other people steal ideas and plagiarize. But the fact is that when I was little, I used to steal ideas and make them my own but i didn't like to talk about them because i thought people would know if I show it completely to them (I'm talking until like 13 years old). What I've started doing at that time is when i think of something original, if I ever come to find that later something like that exist, I would give the idea up because I started being obsessed with originality... It still happens to me that i get very inspired by something and then make a new thing that is very similar to the inspiration so i go with it for a short time but then give it up eventually... I don't know. But have never cheated in class or have used other's ideas for tasks and projects (am studying design) and am very obsessed with citing the sources as I've mentioned and if someone told me something smart, if i repeat it, i will mention their name. But I think there are moments that it happens to me still, rarely, but yes. Anyways, I notice it soon after and I stop immediately. Tho it's unhealthy in a way because i block myself from taking inspiration and while other people are practicing while looking at the work of people who are good (for example drawing) I am very obsessed with drawing from my head only so I've become good at it but most certainly if i practiced by looking (which is a MUST when drawing is concerned, but i mean pretty everything in life lol) I would've been a lot better now. Am working on it right now. This was a long one, I did not mean it to go in this direction, but maybe my experience would in some way be useful to you... I hope so
It's important to keep in mind that behaviors are tendencies. Just because you don't have specific behaviours does not mean the rest of the information is bogus. Nature vs. Nurture. Plus, these descriptions are "archetypes", and include the average expression, which includes both healthy and unhealthy archetypal expressions. Just because you don't do some of the more unhealthy behaviours does not mean it isn't a --tendency-- amidst the --average-- archetypal expression. So good on you for being a healthier person 👍🏻 The word archetype sounds like stereotype for a reason. Lol.
Dear Chase, I am really grateful for all you have done for me by sharing your knowledge. In the past few months that I have been watching you- you have entertained me, informed me, made me laugh like a toddler but most importantly because of you I am on the path to become a better human being. I am still not 100% sure that I am an INTJ (probably because of Ti critic) but the information you have provided has been of immense help. You are someone I truly admire. You are THE DOPEST.
"Planning to fail is even dumber than regular planning" - Rick sanchez I learnt this the hard way It's all about perspective, when you have contingency plans for about 5 failures down the line You will fail 5 times down the line I did, until my back was against the wall Focus on where you're going, not what you are trying to avoid.
Lol. I've been watching Dr. Berg for a few years, looking for how to make my body operate efficiently. Due to him, I now really care about my metabolism.
I've been having a consistent sleeping schedule since beginning of 2020 for the first time in my life lol. Waking up at 7.30 every morning. Hard for me to sleep at exact same time but try to sleep somewhere between 11.30 and 12. Its amazing though. I think I've been able to maintain it due to being systematic, for example another thing I do consistently is cold showers which Ive been doing for like 6 years. I think systematic side helps us get over inconsistent routine of Si demon. INFJs probably have a harder time
sebastian Mayhew Bertram idk I sort of force myself in the beginning, and after a while I guess my systematic side begins to believe it’s the best thing to do so I keep at it or something. Constraints are good at the beginning, for example for waking up I use bedtime on my phone, which sets alarm every day automatically
I know this is old but I’m so glad I watched this. I’m most definitely an INTJ and I can’t believe I ever doubted it. Cognitive transitions are a thing and because I wasn’t allowed to be myself growing up, I was mostly stuck in my ENTP unconscious and appeared somewhat INTP-ish as a result. Just recently, my personality has become stable and have returned to my ego which is INTJ. 😅
* people are against you but you don't care because you know what you are doing and what you are standing for and that means you are strong and capable man ! * Can't wait for infj, it will be fun because I know they are your pedagogue relationship * The sound of this video was low so you have to check it out why * Last thing , thank you for taking non patreon members into your consideration , I learnt from that season .... I know it maybe be repetitive and extra effort for you to film that season specifically but you still committed to the community to bring some insights for us.. I do appreciate that. thank you for being caring towards the full community 🙏😊
@8:10 That is true for the most part with one exception. In the past, I have tried to plan things out to a "T" to my own detriment b/c doing so has spun me in analysis paralysis. However, because I've come to learn that most plans are flawed and that everything can't be predicted, I usually just go with the optimum plan based on existing info with 1-2 plans for contingencies for a couple of probable scenarios. I've learned to improvise to course correct. So, this makes sense.
I guess being an INTJ is a great power, but also a great pain. It is interesting to listen to you and you explained the topic well. As an INTJ, i sometimes have problems with understending when somebody is talking without knowledge and it is frustraiting because i want to understand. I want to understand what mbti truly is and maybe why my life is as it is. Mbti comedies are funny, but it is not everything. It is also the first time watching a mbti video on TH-cam about INTJ when i can truly relate.
I type myself as an INTJ, but can see the ENTP shadow and now wonder if I am actually just an ENTP that was stuck in an INTJ shadow of years. Is that possible? I seem to flop between the two, which makes sense. But It's very hard for me to gauge which is the Ego. As a kid I questioned everything and was always fascinated with what is going on behind the scenes. I questioned everything and loved to argue and play devils advocate because I found it as the most true way to reach truth and absolute knowledge. I always got in trouble for asking "why", but never understood why people took offense to it until I got older. In my mind I just wanted to know what the big picture was so that I could make sure I am going about it in the best way, but people took it as being definite. Even at the age of 5 I was already diving into existentialism. Then as I got older I became very focused and driven. People often comment on how calculated I am. Every move I do has a purpose and is all focused on one single possible outcome. Now I find myself forcing myself to not plan, to try to live in the moment and not the future, and I find myself much happier when I can accomplish it. It actually makes me feel more similar to how I did as a kid, more ENTP and more playful with possibilities. It almost seems like I started as an ENTP and became INTJ, and now I am rediscovering the ENTP side.
Interesting lecture as usual. I’ve spent many hours watching your videos as well as others discussing this material (Jungian analytical / depth psychology). In my opinion, you (compared to others on TH-cam) provide some of the most insightful content in this field. I’m astonished that the significance of it all isn’t recognized by at least a little bit more of the general population. I assume without extensive study of the subject matter, such pattern recognition (especially that in such complex creatures as humans) simply doesn’t occur in the average brain. Although I don’t agree with 100% of what you say (nobody should. You & I both know the danger there) I believe that what you’re doing is by all measures important and powerful on a level that I hope future generations respect more than my own does. It’s fascinating how far we as humans reach to understand and be understood. In the instances that our efforts succeed we leave it to our virtues and vices to determine if the result is unprecedented progress or destruction. With this material, I guess time will tell. Thank you for the content. Would love to have a discussion sometime
Thank you for this! It's such a huge eye opener to see my abandonment issues happen every day in my life & how I misunderstand so much (Thanks inferior Se). It fills my heart with hope to track my own progress & see that although I've come a long way, there is still room for improvement! I'm so addicted to self-improvement. Thanks again!
At first I found myself getting very defensive when you said that INTJ's are prone to plagiarism because, throughout high school and college, I have always upheld that if I acted dishonestly by cheating or taking the easy route, the accomplishments would be meaningless and so I refused to do so. Then I remembered how in elementary school I was an awful student who couldn't be bothered to do their own work and was often caught cheating on my homework out of pure laziness. I haven't thought about that for a long time, but this video has made me reflect on the evolution of my character over the years. I must say, I feel like I've been 5 different people over the course of my 19 years.
You know what actually helped me a lot... Not only your lectures, which are amazing btw, helped me a ton, I can't put it in words. I've finished Naruto like a year ago, or less... And it really helped me. In a weird way, I didn't know I would be able to have such a big personality development that was caused by a tv show... It made me see so much of the stuff i haven't been able to see before. I've related to some of the characters a lot (I've never found any characters THAT relatable) and i was able to see their mistakes that had bad consequences and realized i was doing basically the same and that it was the reason why i was very unhappy and dissatisfied with where i am. So I've decided to work on that and change and holy shit, did I! That's where your lectures helped me, too. I've introduced couple of my friends to your channel and it has helped them a lot too. Thank you so much.
24:00 😂😂 Yeah man I've plagiarized so much in school. Successfully too, but pretty much only did it for when I'd rather do something else in my free time, and then get someone else's work and transform it into what looks like my own
The continuous practice is so relatable too me. I play basketball a lot and I trained my self to shooting three point shots. But when I took a week or month off and not practicing, I forgot how to shoot again.
The first time I ever heard of Murphy's Law was when my ex INTJ boss/manager quoted it to me. TRUE THAT! He said: "Anything bad that can happen WILL happen ... Murphy's Law".
Interesting point about INTJ's and plagerism. I don't think i ever plagerised anything, or cheated on any test. I don't see myself doing that either :/
5:59 Thanks a lot the type grid is much muchhh muccchhhhhhh better than those stupid test. Also it made me sure that I'm an INTJ and not an xNTP, and made sense to me why sometimes I feel like I'm an ENTP. I also often use it to know the fake INxJs cuz There is A LOT of them, its damn stupid. I even feel awkward to say that Im an INTJ, cuz 99% of internet users turned somehow to be INJs and, it's damn frustrating. Even more when I tell them that they are not they'd reply nahhhhhh brooooo Im an INTJ I'm so cold if I see my friend dying I'd die laughing...etc. I just wanna prove that I'm an xETP or something else so I wont looked up to be one of them. SO THANKS HUGE THANKS 4 UR TYPE GRID CHASE
I (female INTJ) have the most access to my ENTP unconscious. I switch between the two super easily to a point where people people sometime find it hard to type me. Recently, the superego has been a lot easier to tap into, but the subconscious is SUPER hard for me to get access to. I used to throw myself into party settings since that's really the only way the ESFP side comes out. It's really annoying lol but I'm grateful to have access to the superego.
@@devinbrines For me personally I had to assume the role of ENTP shadow because I couldn't read until I was 14 and the ENTP shadow to gain information. But some ways I maintained it was forcing myself to SUPER unconformable situations. I found myself seeking safety and stability, when I studied Nietzsche (who is an INTJ) I realized his "superman" model was the PERFECT model to bring out that ENTP shadow for me. I hate leading so I lead. I got a job at my Union. I became a union representative and was forced to directly be this leader which actually satisfied my morals and slowly developed this willpower of the livlihoods of others is more important than my 30 minutes of me being uncomfortable. I go out of my way to be uncomfortable and over time the uncomfortable becomes comfortable. I worked as a union representative you know front line defense eventually that became a normal feeling so I upped it lol. I started got hired as a union facilitator and now I travel around Canada teaching logic and rhetoric (I have a philosophy background). I partnered up with an ENTP co-worker to co-teach trainings with me and their super high energy I had to match it in order to teach my sections. Surrounding yourself with the person you wanna be was for me also super helpful. I got too comfortable around introverts. The biggest thing I think I ever did in the last year was show up to a super big house party completely alone. My anxiety was threw the roof but I was able to build up the confidence throughout the night that I can interact with others on my own with confidence. Be uncomfortable. I hate it but love the results when that ENTP shadow comes out to handle it because I care how I look to others and if I wanna look good to others I need that ENTP to come out and be more social. If you look for more schools of thoughts, Buddhism, Stocism, ESPECIALLY Cynicism! Oh my god Diogenes level shit brings out ALL insecurities within seconds. But Stocism builds resilience, Buddhism builds love, mercy, acceptance and cease suffering (NEVER engage in forgiveness EVER, it makes the INTJ ego way worse. Always apply mercy, never forgiveness). Cynicism rids shame and embarrassment. It's the creator of minimalism and really teaches the beautiful art of physcial endurance. When I let a Cynic professor mentor me, embarrassment and insecurities turned into extreme self accountability. But I'm super biased, my life is philosophy aha but I find it super useful.
I just drink wine and then i look like a very nerdy ESFP that makes a few social slip ups like rambling about math and seeking reassurance that I am not being an annoying drunk
@@sebastianmayhewbertram731 Maybe I just don't notice it. With the others I feel shift. Usually monitoring emotions is how I tell. Psychological complexes is what triggers the different parts of the time in an unhealthy way. Well at least with the superego at least. The unconscious just is at this point.
"Becoming a masters of all skills" I agree and people around me couldn't understand why i almost know everything ( Me thinking while people saying those:I worked Hard on those). I know for acertain that im an intj and few co intjs couldnt believe that i am taking theology as my 2ndcourse and this is because in my entire human existence for 31 years i had finally found the true purpose in life and that is to serve God. I am so blessed to met Jesus. Id been watching you for a year now and i have to say you are good on what you are doing or even best. Cheers! Thank you
Explains why in elementary school I was quite rambunctious. I really mellowed out by high school. I recall thinking to myself at the age of 17, what kind of adult I wanted to be. I kept thinking “serious” but my little voice kept whispering be a “funny” adult
As an INTJ, I think we can get confused as an INTP or other types because I believe Ni is Perceiving function. INTJ's comes to a judgement immediately. Ni helps reinforce their initial thought or change it if we are wrong...
The world is neither round nor flat. It is infinite in every realm. It is not flat because there are mountains and hills. Our loved ones who passed on are all around us so it is not round the earth revolves around us. Stand in the place where you are and you see the sky move.
I took some test some time ago and it came up INTJ. Did some research and whatever i found about INTJs almost described me to a T. Same goes with almost everything you're saying. However, 'the caring about titles and flashy things to show peeps who i am or what i have achieved', that is not me. I care about my reputation as long as what is muttered about me is not a lie. If it is the truth they convey, then i dont really care what other's think about me. THIS IS ME, deal with it... or fuck off Also about stealing other people's ideas and what not... it is the opposite in fact. And here is a short story to show, i hope, how opposite it is for me: I once found my self thinking about critics and criticism and came to the conclusion that a critic will either prove your point with their faulty argument or show you where you are wrong in yours with a sound logic. Either way they are helpful... many years later i read that Benjamin Franklin had said that exact thing, though more eloquently. Now, every time i find my self telling someone not to view criticism in a negative way but rather look at it as 'helpful', i do make sure to mention that the saying is a quote from B. Franklin. I have too much respect for private property, be it physical or intellectual, to STEAL. I despise cheating cuz the 'challenge' loses it's lure... it basically stops being a challenge i guess. I do forsake you if you betray me - and by that i mean even if for the smallest and most trivial of betrayals - but not based on assumptions, even though i will be quick to assume you have. So, my question would be: is there any leeway in what you are saying, or am i not really an INTJ, even though most of what i've read about them points to me being one? I'd appreciate and answer, if you could.
When an INTJ is performing badly, it's usually because they don't want to be doing what they're doing. Unfortunately, we live in a society that makes it extremely difficult, if not impossible, for young people to manage their own lives and choose what they spend their time doing. That's not the INTJs fault. Maybe there shouldn't be an expectation for INTJs to perform well in situations that they were forced into against their will (that they may be playing along with because they're in a position where playing along and biding their time is more beneficial for them in the long-term).
You are right that we do walk around with Murphy's Law in our head. And I do believe that one's attention on something is more likely to make it occur. This is why I employ the deliberate use of Law of Attraction.
You talk so much, and its FULL of information, but also TONS of filler that doesn't need to be said... but its the only good source of info that i trust.
I love people who use NTPs because they always push me if my logic is faulty and i do try to notice when I'm wrong but I can't always do that alone, and I've met a couple of people recently who do it SO WELL and i just love it. They can help me get grounded so easily and I don't know, it's just amazing. They literally cover all of my blind spots and I'm just like wow. And holy shit they have so much patience with me and i thought i was beyond incomprehensible at times. Turns out I'm not.
Hello Chase! I am sorry but you are wrong about Gallileo. He wasn't killed for saying the Earth was spherical, he was killed because he thought the Earth orbited around the Sun, while everyone else at the time thought the Sun orbited the Earth. There is evidence that Ancient Greeks as far back as 5000 BC knew the Earth was spherical but calculations weren't made until 3000 BC.
I ever read someone said he was an INTJ, now he's an ISFJ. I believe he's just an INTJ in superego mode, or he's actually an ISFJ and before he was in INTJ superego mode
I don't really know if you're into fantasy novels haha but there's this really good series, Six of Crows by Leigh Bardugo, which has this superbly written INTJ character, Kaz Brekker. I thought Kaz was a perfect illustration of Se fear of abandonment followed by Si demon vengeance/ISFJ superego justice, INTJ paranoia, and INTJs being excellent tacticians/escape artists (and also an example of fi child not giving a shit about ethics lol). Pretty much the entire time I was watching this video I was constantly reminded of Kaz, which blew my mind. If you're interested, and you have time, I would highly recommend Six of Crows. Besides Kaz, all of the other characters were also written super well and super accurately too (in my opinion), and I'd want to see what you think.... (And also it's just like an absolutely brilliant heist story that I think anyone would because it like completely blew my mind)
I feel paralyzed; I don't really know what causes others to bounded me, I am doing all that is in my power ...but none of it seems enough to let anyone stay.
Yknow the only reason why I watch these videos besides the entertainment value is that you can learn alot from someone elses struggles. As an entp I can be pretty revenge heavy sometimes too until I realize I was being the asshole and that was just immaturity and a defence mechanism to shield myself from the truth of that I was failing
The Ne Nemesis...I don't know if I'm an INTJ but I always worry about choosing a career that will become unimportant because people don't need it anymore or just too many people are choosing this career. That's why I wanted to find out how economy and the market works but I really don't know which sources to trust and where to start. ...Guess I'm not a starter😂
Wow. This was amazingly accurate. It actually explains a lot of the areas that made me question whether I’m an INTJ. The abandonment issue really hit home. I’ve always assumed I’m quiet bpd (with the occasional lash outward) but never saw anything that would corroborate that for intj. Coupled with avoidant attachment and Its a recipe for self fulfilling prophecy. I’ve also noticed a lot of intj will downplay the performance anxiety. The “idgaf anyway” attitude. I am always acutely aware of the fact that it’s impossible to maintain perfection. So it’s hard for me to jump into anything that could be seen as anything less. I’m also big on aesthetic. Minimalist but still have an eye for beauty.
I'm an INTJ and I don't flash anything. LOL I don't care much about money which is why I make almost the exact average the American income. I don't need a lot of things to be happy. I drive a 20-year old Kia Rio and wear the same 2 pairs of pants to work (I work in Information Technology) every day with a basic shirt and the same pair of shoes. I have 2 science degrees and a Systems and Programming Associates but I don't talk about those. I will probably drive a nicer vehicle when I buy my next one simply because I can afford it more now and I will want to be comfortable (I'm cold-natured so love the seat warmers and gotta have the electric window controls on driver side so I can optimize the airflow by putting various windows down to different levels). Being flashy and braggy is so obnoxious and annoying. I don't think I've ever been that way. Happiness does not come from worrying about what other people think.
This season is awesome, I can't wait for the INTP episode. But about Buddha, I've read that at the age of 29, he has seen the suffering of other people and started his great renunciation and began his ascetic life. I think that was Fe and Si, was I mistaken or he mastered his superego at that very young age
Interesting how in Spanish 'te quiero' (querer- to want) means the equivalent of 'I love you.' In our one or two week attention span world, I think attention, paying attention (Si) or outlasting is a bit overstated. You can outlast, but no one notices.
If I perceived someone threaten our future then I really strategize and making plans to secure the future. Anyway, I feel bad about my self-fulfilling prophecy
Interesting... INTJ here. I had an ex that towards the end of our relationship that while he was away visiting family for 5 days... I moved out with out his knowledge. He started to scare me at the end, yelling at my son and I and I didn’t know what he was capable of doing. I realized he had anger and possibly rage issues. I never once yelled at him or called him names EVER. I didn’t know how he would react to leaving him. So, I took my kids and moved out while he was on vacation. Then I calmly broke up and told him why and I’m sorry and good bye. He aired out his dirty laundry on FB and embellished his side of the story and of course sided with him. I was called every name out there for protecting my kids and myself. Never once did I engage in the drama of his posts. He dragged my name and reputation in the mud... but I didn’t care, I walked away and never looked back. He was not worth my time and energy.
When you mentioned "if you want to type young INTJ you must look their subconscious type." Lol that is so true i was more like an ESFP when i was a child. So energetic, living in the moment and social etc.
That’s my drunk mode
That makes sense, after researching for weeks I was sure I'm an INTJ but my childhood wouldn't make sense so I kept looking and looking. Now after this video I understood why.
I was the same. This video made it very clear to me. As a child I was outgoing but as I became a teenager I grew far more introverted and asocial. I have a terrible body clock and sleep is always out of whack. I thought that I was an ISTP but this makes far more sense.
@@Dannys.channel haha 100% me too. People are shocked when they see me drunk
@@haydarsarac3565 same. I'm in my late teenage years and have done a lot of research on mbti and the cognitive functions including type descriptions and I resonated a lot with INTJ. But my childhood self contradicted every description of INTJ so I was skeptical. Turns out it was my ESFP side back then
8:31. Unbelievable. You're right. My purpose is to learn and study more, become more intelligent, have a good physical shape, eat healthy, read more books, programming, have a good job and a good future, perhaps a family... I mean, perfection.
ahahaha
This is literally me too. Wtf lol
Lets get it
Same, dunno if I'm an INTJ tho😅😂
@@juliblum5215 have u tried using the type grid
The Murphy's Law thing is so true. I was holding on too tight for so long and then everything collapsed including my mental health.
When you talk about acting on impulse and realizing social consequences, it reminds me when that lesson finally hit me in high school: I did something that I thought was rather amusing for myself, and one of my friends reprimanded me saying "I guess it would have been funny if we were in a sitcom or something." He was the first person to point out to me that my behaviors stemmed from a warped sense of reality and that there would be no credits to roll to if I did something truly foolish.
"If they do not practice they will lose the skill"
This is very true
This applies to me in a variety of things.. whether it was mathematics when I was in high school (edit: math wasn't too hard to get back into (along with other things)), or losing my peak performance skills in a video game even if I don't play for just a few days, I had to relearn the patterns I learned to used for buying stocks, etc.
Compared to other types, INTJ's often learn faster than anyone, that's maybe why he says we lose skills after a while, but I think if you really like something, and you spend approximately the time an SJ type would, then you won't 'lose' the skill as fast as in the first case, more likely you'll end up retaining more of it than others even if it doesn't seem like it (instincts hahha), I believe it always depend on what's your intention and how much time you have invested on your craft, in order for it to become natural to you, or a forgettable gimmick. Practice makes perfect lol.
@@waltertaboada9319 agreed 👍🏼
As an INTJ I've noticed that sheer quantity of practice, putting in six hour plus days in whatever I'm interested in gives me the most benefits. Also, If you are an INTJ I recommend reading the book called "The one thing" by Gary W. Keller, because we are one thing people that go deep more than generalists. If you are an INTJ you need to accept that you're a specialist and not a generalist (Like an ENTP who I believe are the generalists). IF you are an ENTP I recommend reading the book "Range" by David Epstein.
Hell yeah another INTJ lecture
Can INTJ procrastination be a direct result of performance anxiety?
I often get anxiety about studying, worrying that i wont do well enough to impress the professor. Sometimes the anxiety is so bad that it makes me avoid studying, procrastinating and ultimately risking self-sabotage until i finally scramble at the end and learn everything at once. The fear of failure and pressure of the impending deadline seems to get my butt into shape pretty darn quick, but its not ideal
My procrastination stems from two things. 1. Not knowing where to start. 2. Knowing that once I start, I'll likely lose a couple weeks or months working on the project, because I know the rabbit hole is going to run deep and an INTJ does not just dabble in learning something, they jump all the way in.
I'm afraid how I'm going to be sucked into studying everything in one day, yes, that would be awesome, but for many reasons similar to yours I'm always afraid of even starting, maybe that's why we are Finishers, the only way ahead is to accept the pain 😅
it is a piece of it yes
@@SpectreTheHorseman I started reviewing Algebra which should be enough for the test, now I am about to finish it and I am willing to start Calculus now.
@Integration Station Could you link me to your video please? It sounds very interesting but I found no videos on your channel.
CSJ, how the heck do you have the time to heart and respond to so many comments. Literally, no other TH-camr has been able to do that
I make it happen bro. I actually care about everyone here. And also I do not allow anyone else to post comments as me. It’s on my desktop and phone at all times.
@@CSJoseph Don't you think that's a little unefficient?
Richard Omelda ummm......inefficient? Carry on....
I don't think it's about being efficient I think it's about being sincerer
I think we INTJs like to respond and articulate in exchange of ideas. I’ve kind of always been like that since I was young too.
As an intj, I got bullied alot as a kid. I hated these kids all the way up till I was an adult. But you know what, I am in my 30s and I have come to realize something profound. People treat others how the project to be treated. If adults treat people like crap when they project that they want to be treated as crap(intentional or not). How can I expect kids to do the same? That part in the video about intj learning to forgive those who pissed off the Si demon really resonated with me.
I'm 41 and still not fully over same. I try to keep Si demon mollified, but chaotic events result in relapses. I am sure I will iron them out eventually. I often wondered considering how titanic my Si Demon is, how much good it could do as Si Angelic. OO
@@dennisjonker4804 for me the path was a combination of Ti critic paired with child Fi, Te parent and finally Se inferior. Such as I have seen adults and have heard others suffer from people treating others like how they project. Even when this projection is weakness. They should know better as adults not to pounce on the weak one but they dont. Children are in the process of learning how to be adults. My moral code believes children should not be held to the same standards as adults. Thus I reached my conclusion. Now how to get rid of the overwhelming anger when you talk to these people who hurt you. That is harder, but it takes almost accepting that you projecting being weak actually gave the other children a bad experience. Not that you are to blame for the bullying. But acknowledging that children are not developed yet and act more like basic animals. Animals weed out the weak. It is almost like you have get each side of your mind to see the situation for what it is. Entp then estp then intj, then finally the isfj cools off once the other 3 sides found the children not guilty. Or in my case I moved the unreasonable line in which I deemed them guilty initially above their transgressions. And that cause my Si to cool off.
My Te parent woke up in my mid thirties. That seems late, but when it came, whoosh it stays. Now I am ultra monolithic with sleep times, cooking/eating times, schedules, structure, and even do it overbearingly.
But I will wake up it in my 19 anyhowwwwwww
0 sleep schedule. Lol pretty accurate. I used to do experiment myself to be awake for 3 days straight without sleeping. And it was terrible.
That's what i literally did when i was like 18 years old why do we all do this though lmao
This is the best birthday gift ever. Thank you!
- INTJ (birthday girl)
Happy Birthday Ms. Ina
INTJ here, and I've come across your lectures in the last couple months while making an effort to understand myself and others better. Originally this was driven by a need to be more efficient working with people in business while keeping myself from burnout, but I'm starting to see the value of understanding personalities in my personal life as well. I wanted to say thanks for going into so much depth, there's actually helpful stuff here. Also, this is one of your better INTJ lectures. In some of them, quite a bit of time is spent on paranoia and interpersonal relationship chaos. While some of that rings true, I personally don't give enough thought to most of my interpersonal relationships to ever go there.
Thanks again for the lectures, I'm looking forward to listening to more.
Dr.Dario Nardi (an INTJ) has done research using brain scans on the 16 types.
The data suggests that Ni doms are actually generalists, not specialists. The Si users, especially Si doms, are the specialists.
You have no idea how much your insights changed my life and are helping me ! Thank you very much !
I actually like your long lectures ! The more information I get, the better it is !
You're so welcome!
PLEASE WRITE A BOOK WHERE YOU SYNTHESISE ALL OF THIS INTO ONE PLACE! xD
That'll be bookS
Become a tactician instead of a strategist when dealing with your worries, that's gold dust right there.
can you tell me whats the difference between tactician and strategiest?
@@imanafdar Tacticians focus on the short-term actions and steps to achieve objectives or goals while strategists focus on the overarching plan to achieve a long-term goal, which utilizes tactics to execute it. So think short term vs long term.
@@WonkelDee How about the scale? strategy is bigger than tactic and tactic is part of strategy?
@@imanafdar Tacticians adapt more and plan for the present moment or very near future whereas the strategy is long-term and more grandeur.
@@imanafdar Tactics exist to achieve the objectives set by the strategist. The collective execution of these objectives results in the long term goal/vision being properly achieved.
One of your best lectures! And I’ve watched most of them. You’re getting better and better👏🏼👏🏼🚀
Thank you dear cs joseph. Im an intj and one of your big fans, my father was an istj and he abandoned me from my birth and at the otherside my mother is an entp who alwas tried to overdo about me and kind of feeding my Fi child more n more. I have a great sense of hatredness about my nation, i live in iran and i think its because of the broken relationship between me an my father. Ok , I suffered a lot from physical diseases but now nothing is more curing for me like humbleness, and practicing Se inferior, man your my shadow and wisdom, im so thankful that i found you. Youre one of my mentors and im so grateful for finding you.Thank you🙏🙏🙏
You are most welcome sir. Go with God since a time is coming and is near where there will be great pain among your people.
@@CSJoseph This reply from you worths me alot, you know i can say that entp's are miraculous and show some ways that no one else could see that way. Im blessed beyond measure to have you
I really liked what you said about the transition from stratagist to tactician. This is very true to my own expirence especially with socail interactions, where I would overthink myself into corner, turning myself into a nervous reck. Now days I've become way better at just blocking all that shit out and just jumping into the pool, though I can't say I got here alone I've had the help of some good people. My heart goes out to anyone out there who's had to deal with that level of crippling anxiety.
this is the best video you made.. i was struggling with ne nemesis a few hours ago and the timing couldn't have been more perfect
13:36 Where wisdom reigns, there is no conflict between thinking and feeling.
FINALLY! This is the first time a source has explained why I'm a night owl. I've always been a night owl but I didn't know it was linked with my cognitive functions as an INTJ. Thanks CSJ!
Me too, 40 years until I quit eating plants and went mostly animal based. Then it was like someone flipped a switch. I've never been to bed before midnight in my life now I'm asleep by 9 and up by 4. Now I'm a morning person. The plant toxins and carbs were making my mind race and threw off my circadian rhythm.
Regarding the Si demon, your observations helped me see something I've been hiding from myself. You said that abandonment triggers the insecurity of Se inferior which then triggers Si demon and the concentrated anger and desire for revenge that we INTJs display. What I realized when you mentioned that though is the outward display is maybe 15% to 20% of what is going on. Underneath the surface my Si demon is fueling unbelievable amounts of self-hatred. And then just storing it outside of my perception once the emotional storm has passed. So essentially I've got this hidden accumulation of self-hatred (that is likely disrupting my health) and now I'm painfully aware of it. But I have no idea how to purge it. Why did you have to make me feel my own feelings? Ugh.
I've had really bad things happen to me and I've been trapped in a similar loop for years. I'm trying to understand how to break free.
@@jeremyr7147 I've recently been using the method in Dave Hayes book Emotional Healing in 3 Easy Steps. It's remarkably effective and has helped me understand injuries to the soul in a new way.
Absolutely true. I often nearly master a subject or skill quickly. If I stop using it or thinking about it, I lose it. But once I get back into it, it’s easy to pick back up. It’s like I store it in the cloud rather than a hard drive or ram
So you don't really lose it since it's so easy to get back in the groove in the first place
Kinda liked the long lectures tho. Te parent wants to be informed.
Agreed!
I always get a little sad when they end
Smaller lectures are available at my other channel
Joseph chat is the name of your other channel ?
Is liking this kind of lectures Te. I'm still confused about Ti and Te.
Dude, my INFJ friend referred you, this is your first video I'm seeing. I'm an INTJ, and i promise you, you just recited my life to me. I was able to transition, but i was transitioning extremely erratically, you have given a great roadmap to fix myself. Thank you, i honestly cried as i understood this, i didn't know my subconscious and unconscious had different types. I can beat my demon now
Woah, the sleep patterns part was so interesting. I'm awful at sleeping in a routine, but when I had a bf who would go to bed super early, I found myself doing the same... however I soon became fed up of this and resented him for it because i am a night owl 🦉 ( 2 of my recent bed times include 3:30am and 5:30am)
This is Gold. This content. I spend full 1.30 hour watching this. How, I was writing my journal about how what you said has happened in my life and how it affected me, than I move on with the video and the same conclusion is shown/explained. And then you showed how I can make the transition, now as I love to grow myself as as person, I was almost doing that stuff, like learning/seeing to love people that door slammed me for my own good, etc. Now I have it all documented in front of me, and I can work on it with so much accuracy. Complete focus, on how to overcome my insecurities. Thank you so much for it. I hope what I wrote makes some sense. I'm feeling overwhelmed right now.
if this is gold then the Season 19 episode for INTJs was platinum lol
@@CSJoseph Where do I find season 19?
I'm INTJ but once when I was "in love" i took the test and result was ESFP. Is it possible that my mind was more "subconscious" at that moment? Because I was really shocked
I took several tests every year for the past 5 years. Every single time they changed. Don't trust the tests, as so rightly Chase keeps saying.
My tests only had two patterns that never changed. So I always got the same answer between 4 types, depending on mood, life situation, etc. The type grid is much more efficient.
Interesting question. When I was head over heels in love the last time I went on a spending spree and travel spree like never seen before.
I feel victimized by the comment about needing titles to feel important haha. I'm currently working on a PhD that I have no intention of ever using for anything.... Dammit I've been outed lmao
Haha you're not alone (5th year) 😅
Funny, that was the part i disagreed with the most. Maybe because of my tritype (853) where I have a preference for learning by doing.
I know quite well that, "practice makes perfect." I'm an INTJ, in grade school I was very fortunate and got in the local public school lottery and was selected to attend a public school that focused on the arts, we visual arts, dance, drama, and music, and from the music I ended up selected for a local youth choir and won 1st place national awards with the choir and I've also entered and won excellent ratings in solo singing competitions.
Many times over the years people said, "I wish I could draw like you," or, "I wish I could sing like you, you're very talented." I tell them, "I don't believe in talent, I believe in practice to improve your skills." Or I'd tell them, "I don't believe in talent, I believe in the desire to practice to improve your skills." I'd show them some of my old things which absolutely suck, but I hold on to those old crappy pieces I've done to illustrate my point that I don't believe in talent, and that practice does in fact lead to better skill.
I have made the mistake of complaining about my half-brother who I didn't meet until after I was in my 20s, he'd often sing along with whatever CD he was playing, but I didn't complain to him about his lack of skill, I'd mentioned my complaint to my girlfriend who then decided to bring it up to my brother one day when we were traveling together. My brother was upset that I'd complain about his lack of skill in singing and him not knowing of my past decided to make the bold statement, "what would you know, you don't know how to sing," and I had to educate him real quick. "I have 7 years of experience with a world-class youth choir who's won several national awards, who was invited to international choir competitions sponsored by the Vienna Boys Choir, I have two certificates of Ratings of Excellence for solo competitions I've entered, so I know off key signing when I hear it."
If it weren't for my girlfriend bringing it up to my brother I would've just let him have fun singing along with his CDs, yes, it did bother me, but not enough for me to want to say anything to him and ruin his fun, that is until he assumed that I didn't know what I was talking about.
As an INTJ these videos have been extremely useful! You do such a great job explaining the transitions of the mind and it’s crazy how it all applies so directly.
My advice to intjs: as with every great thing you ever do, the one thing you have to do will be alone, on a deep inner quest to translate all of your emotional unawareness and see your wrong doings and shortcomings of the past from other people’s perspectives. Once you can map that out, the world is truly unlocked for you, and you can continue your movements without regard for the “right thing” because you already know the right thing- as long as you have spent the time on that inner quest ironing out your personal checks and balances. Your humbleness will guide you to places where your undeniable work can speak for itself, as long as you feed that life long journey of knowledge and mastery, as said in the video.
Personally, I played sports my whole life growing up, so that really helped me develop my motor skills and learn very quickly all of my social and performance anxieties, probably much earlier than most intjs, though I know that I’m still painfully in the midst of implementing more useful thought processes and habits every day. But it’s so funny how I can look silky smooth playing basketball but if you watch me put peanut butter and jelly on a sandwich you’d think I never lived in civilization. It’s that on/off switch you speak of. Brilliantly accurate stuff!
My best friend is an isfp, and he is a fantastic hockey player despite his 5’3 frame because of his amazing sensory ability. We plan on managing youth sports complexes for both hockey and basketball, while helping each other coach our respective teams. I have seen that Greg Popovic and Phil Jackson are intjs, so I know that coaching is definitely a good fit for me. But If you ever see and read this comment, please, let me know your thoughts on how intjs and isfps can potentially work together in a business environment, or maybe even make a video on this if you haven’t. Immediately after posting this comment I will scowl your page for something of the like, being regretfully new to your channel. But, anyway, for some context on my friend and I: I feel that him and I are rather mature, having been best friends since 9 years old through all of our BS and still being best friends at 20, having never had an argument or fight. We just fascinate each other with a separate perspective all the time, seamlessly. Anyways, thanks for the videos, him and I are watching them religiously now so we can have a better understanding of people’s types and have a better idea of how to coach certain people. Thanks, C. S.,
J. F.
Haha you made me laugh with the peanut butter sandwich. Complex things are very easy to INTJ's and easy things are very complex to INTJ's. Talking about IFSP, I know they can be good friend but as a professional relationship I'm not entirely convinved it's the best match.
The plagiarism thing is so true. So many times I will read something or watch a video online then forget I ever saw it, and later on, tell other people about it as if I came up with it (because a lot of the time, I think I did)
When you gather information from so many sources you can forget to acknowledge them or do it on purpose to increase muh status.
You can forget the name of the source (and share "hey I saw/read/heard this information some time ago") but never that an idea is not yours.....
@@GygyMy Thats an untrue assumption
@@GygyMy When you have Te parent and Si demon it makes sense
Is this particulary an Ni thing? = INxJ
I love how you don't chop your videos. Its just strait through.
Wow, you have INTJ issues!! I must be the only INTJ who doesn't care about anyone's opinion (unless they are my boss) and don't 'hate' (takes too much energy)and don't cheat or play games (takes too much energy), don't mind being abandoned cause I find people to be annoying. I must not be an INTJ.
look at INTP then?
I am like you @SuperXrunner and I'm INTJ too.... I didn't recognize myself...in those elements stated by CS Joseph : Cheating? Stealing? seriously? nope, I agree with you @SuperXrunner :takes too much energy and where would be the inner pride of doing so?... and definitely not INTP or other types for sure.
I actually was also quite 'lost' by another presentation of CS Joseph for ISTJ (other video)= only very few of the description was accurate.
Also, it's odd how you CS Joseph had so many INTJ and INFJs "friends/employees" "perceiving unfair treatment" from you and that you finally got rid off because of "poor performance"....tssss
SuperXrunner same dude, I know 0 INTJ’s in real life. I have plenty of ENFP’s, ESFP’s, ISFP’s and ESFJ’s around me however. No INxJ’s, I know 1 INTP and 2 ENTP’s. Don’t know where these people are meeting all these xNTx’s
I have never cheated in school and am actually very prideful of that. If I fuck up it's my fault and it's only a lesson to get better at that. I always cite my sources and ot triggers me when other people steal ideas and plagiarize.
But the fact is that when I was little, I used to steal ideas and make them my own but i didn't like to talk about them because i thought people would know if I show it completely to them (I'm talking until like 13 years old). What I've started doing at that time is when i think of something original, if I ever come to find that later something like that exist, I would give the idea up because I started being obsessed with originality... It still happens to me that i get very inspired by something and then make a new thing that is very similar to the inspiration so i go with it for a short time but then give it up eventually... I don't know. But have never cheated in class or have used other's ideas for tasks and projects (am studying design) and am very obsessed with citing the sources as I've mentioned and if someone told me something smart, if i repeat it, i will mention their name.
But I think there are moments that it happens to me still, rarely, but yes. Anyways, I notice it soon after and I stop immediately.
Tho it's unhealthy in a way because i block myself from taking inspiration and while other people are practicing while looking at the work of people who are good (for example drawing) I am very obsessed with drawing from my head only so I've become good at it but most certainly if i practiced by looking (which is a MUST when drawing is concerned, but i mean pretty everything in life lol) I would've been a lot better now. Am working on it right now.
This was a long one, I did not mean it to go in this direction, but maybe my experience would in some way be useful to you... I hope so
It's important to keep in mind that behaviors are tendencies. Just because you don't have specific behaviours does not mean the rest of the information is bogus. Nature vs. Nurture. Plus, these descriptions are "archetypes", and include the average expression, which includes both healthy and unhealthy archetypal expressions. Just because you don't do some of the more unhealthy behaviours does not mean it isn't a --tendency-- amidst the --average-- archetypal expression. So good on you for being a healthier person 👍🏻
The word archetype sounds like stereotype for a reason. Lol.
Dear Chase,
I am really grateful for all you have done for me by sharing your knowledge.
In the past few months that I have been watching you- you have entertained me, informed me, made me laugh like a toddler but most importantly because of you I am on the path to become a better human being.
I am still not 100% sure that I am an INTJ (probably because of Ti critic) but the information you have provided has been of immense help.
You are someone I truly admire. You are THE DOPEST.
Much appreciated
"Planning to fail is even dumber than regular planning" - Rick sanchez
I learnt this the hard way
It's all about perspective, when you have contingency plans for about 5 failures down the line
You will fail 5 times down the line
I did, until my back was against the wall
Focus on where you're going, not what you are trying to avoid.
Love the simple hoodie and directness
Lol. I've been watching Dr. Berg for a few years, looking for how to make my body operate efficiently. Due to him, I now really care about my metabolism.
I've been having a consistent sleeping schedule since beginning of 2020 for the first time in my life lol. Waking up at 7.30 every morning. Hard for me to sleep at exact same time but try to sleep somewhere between 11.30 and 12. Its amazing though. I think I've been able to maintain it due to being systematic, for example another thing I do consistently is cold showers which Ive been doing for like 6 years. I think systematic side helps us get over inconsistent routine of Si demon. INFJs probably have a harder time
infj here and you're probably right lol
How can you even follow a routine it's so hard! any advices?
sebastian Mayhew Bertram idk I sort of force myself in the beginning, and after a while I guess my systematic side begins to believe it’s the best thing to do so I keep at it or something. Constraints are good at the beginning, for example for waking up I use bedtime on my phone, which sets alarm every day automatically
I know this is old but I’m so glad I watched this. I’m most definitely an INTJ and I can’t believe I ever doubted it. Cognitive transitions are a thing and because I wasn’t allowed to be myself growing up, I was mostly stuck in my ENTP unconscious and appeared somewhat INTP-ish as a result. Just recently, my personality has become stable and have returned to my ego which is INTJ. 😅
* people are against you but you don't care because you know what you are doing and what you are standing for and that means you are strong and capable man !
* Can't wait for infj, it will be fun because I know they are your pedagogue relationship
* The sound of this video was low so you have to check it out why
* Last thing , thank you for taking non patreon members into your consideration , I learnt from that season .... I know it maybe be repetitive and extra effort for you to film that season specifically but you still committed to the community to bring some insights for us.. I do appreciate that. thank you for being caring towards the full community 🙏😊
@8:10 That is true for the most part with one exception. In the past, I have tried to plan things out to a "T" to my own detriment b/c doing so has spun me in analysis paralysis. However, because I've come to learn that most plans are flawed and that everything can't be predicted, I usually just go with the optimum plan based on existing info with 1-2 plans for contingencies for a couple of probable scenarios. I've learned to improvise to course correct. So, this makes sense.
I guess being an INTJ is a great power, but also a great pain. It is interesting to listen to you and you explained the topic well. As an INTJ, i sometimes have problems with understending when somebody is talking without knowledge and it is frustraiting because i want to understand. I want to understand what mbti truly is and maybe why my life is as it is. Mbti comedies are funny, but it is not everything. It is also the first time watching a mbti video on TH-cam about INTJ when i can truly relate.
Joseph allways being so nice to the INTJ type and making himself look better in the process lol.
I type myself as an INTJ, but can see the ENTP shadow and now wonder if I am actually just an ENTP that was stuck in an INTJ shadow of years. Is that possible? I seem to flop between the two, which makes sense. But It's very hard for me to gauge which is the Ego. As a kid I questioned everything and was always fascinated with what is going on behind the scenes. I questioned everything and loved to argue and play devils advocate because I found it as the most true way to reach truth and absolute knowledge. I always got in trouble for asking "why", but never understood why people took offense to it until I got older. In my mind I just wanted to know what the big picture was so that I could make sure I am going about it in the best way, but people took it as being definite. Even at the age of 5 I was already diving into existentialism. Then as I got older I became very focused and driven. People often comment on how calculated I am. Every move I do has a purpose and is all focused on one single possible outcome. Now I find myself forcing myself to not plan, to try to live in the moment and not the future, and I find myself much happier when I can accomplish it. It actually makes me feel more similar to how I did as a kid, more ENTP and more playful with possibilities. It almost seems like I started as an ENTP and became INTJ, and now I am rediscovering the ENTP side.
Interesting lecture as usual. I’ve spent many hours watching your videos as well as others discussing this material (Jungian analytical / depth psychology). In my opinion, you (compared to others on TH-cam) provide some of the most insightful content in this field. I’m astonished that the significance of it all isn’t recognized by at least a little bit more of the general population. I assume without extensive study of the subject matter, such pattern recognition (especially that in such complex creatures as humans) simply doesn’t occur in the average brain. Although I don’t agree with 100% of what you say (nobody should. You & I both know the danger there) I believe that what you’re doing is by all measures important and powerful on a level that I hope future generations respect more than my own does. It’s fascinating how far we as humans reach to understand and be understood. In the instances that our efforts succeed we leave it to our virtues and vices to determine if the result is unprecedented progress or destruction. With this material, I guess time will tell. Thank you for the content. Would love to have a discussion sometime
Thank you for this! It's such a huge eye opener to see my abandonment issues happen every day in my life & how I misunderstand so much (Thanks inferior Se). It fills my heart with hope to track my own progress & see that although I've come a long way, there is still room for improvement! I'm so addicted to self-improvement. Thanks again!
At first I found myself getting very defensive when you said that INTJ's are prone to plagiarism because, throughout high school and college, I have always upheld that if I acted dishonestly by cheating or taking the easy route, the accomplishments would be meaningless and so I refused to do so. Then I remembered how in elementary school I was an awful student who couldn't be bothered to do their own work and was often caught cheating on my homework out of pure laziness. I haven't thought about that for a long time, but this video has made me reflect on the evolution of my character over the years. I must say, I feel like I've been 5 different people over the course of my 19 years.
growth is good!
You know what actually helped me a lot... Not only your lectures, which are amazing btw, helped me a ton, I can't put it in words.
I've finished Naruto like a year ago, or less... And it really helped me. In a weird way, I didn't know I would be able to have such a big personality development that was caused by a tv show... It made me see so much of the stuff i haven't been able to see before. I've related to some of the characters a lot (I've never found any characters THAT relatable) and i was able to see their mistakes that had bad consequences and realized i was doing basically the same and that it was the reason why i was very unhappy and dissatisfied with where i am. So I've decided to work on that and change and holy shit, did I! That's where your lectures helped me, too. I've introduced couple of my friends to your channel and it has helped them a lot too. Thank you so much.
fuck my life it's 3 am and i need to sleep but now i wanna watch the video ugh
lol i just got to the point where he says intjs stay up all night thanks for willpower. this guy knows everything.
Back here! Cant find any channel more educational on MBTI than CSJ
18:25 Thank you for recommending Dr. Berg's channel in this video. Your advice adds value to our lives when we truly are learning.
24:00 😂😂 Yeah man I've plagiarized so much in school.
Successfully too, but pretty much only did it for when I'd rather do something else in my free time, and then get someone else's work and transform it into what looks like my own
Perfect upload timing! Was just getting on youtube lol
The continuous practice is so relatable too me. I play basketball a lot and I trained my self to shooting three point shots. But when I took a week or month off and not practicing, I forgot how to shoot again.
The first time I ever heard of Murphy's Law was when my ex INTJ boss/manager quoted it to me. TRUE THAT! He said: "Anything bad that can happen WILL happen ... Murphy's Law".
Interesting point about INTJ's and plagerism. I don't think i ever plagerised anything, or cheated on any test. I don't see myself doing that either :/
then you are not an INTJ or a very moral one.
5:59 Thanks a lot the type grid is much muchhh muccchhhhhhh better than those stupid test. Also it made me sure that I'm an INTJ and not an xNTP, and made sense to me why sometimes I feel like I'm an ENTP. I also often use it to know the fake INxJs cuz There is A LOT of them, its damn stupid. I even feel awkward to say that Im an INTJ, cuz 99% of internet users turned somehow to be INJs and, it's damn frustrating. Even more when I tell them that they are not they'd reply nahhhhhh brooooo Im an INTJ I'm so cold if I see my friend dying I'd die laughing...etc. I just wanna prove that I'm an xETP or something else so I wont looked up to be one of them. SO THANKS HUGE THANKS 4 UR TYPE GRID CHASE
Sure thing. My mentors are owed thanks as well.
Yes, Kuristina, you're an INTJ, and the assistant of the greatest ENTP to have ever lived in the history of anime, Hououin Kyouma!
@@D3tyHuff Kurisu was the one who actually built the machine, also the greatest ENTP ever is Hisoka.
Free EL PSY KONGROO!
Charles Nope, it was Okabe at least in the main story line which the Anime follows. And HOUOUIN KYOUMA IS THE GREATEST ENTP
No wonder im addicted to csj... He's my golden pair 😍
DM me on Discord to further your addiction…
You didn’t roast us hard enough 🤣
I (female INTJ) have the most access to my ENTP unconscious. I switch between the two super easily to a point where people people sometime find it hard to type me. Recently, the superego has been a lot easier to tap into, but the subconscious is SUPER hard for me to get access to. I used to throw myself into party settings since that's really the only way the ESFP side comes out. It's really annoying lol but I'm grateful to have access to the superego.
Do you have any tips for getting into ENTP unconscious more? I could use some improvement there. Thanks!
@@devinbrines For me personally I had to assume the role of ENTP shadow because I couldn't read until I was 14 and the ENTP shadow to gain information. But some ways I maintained it was forcing myself to SUPER unconformable situations. I found myself seeking safety and stability, when I studied Nietzsche (who is an INTJ) I realized his "superman" model was the PERFECT model to bring out that ENTP shadow for me. I hate leading so I lead. I got a job at my Union. I became a union representative and was forced to directly be this leader which actually satisfied my morals and slowly developed this willpower of the livlihoods of others is more important than my 30 minutes of me being uncomfortable. I go out of my way to be uncomfortable and over time the uncomfortable becomes comfortable. I worked as a union representative you know front line defense eventually that became a normal feeling so I upped it lol. I started got hired as a union facilitator and now I travel around Canada teaching logic and rhetoric (I have a philosophy background). I partnered up with an ENTP co-worker to co-teach trainings with me and their super high energy I had to match it in order to teach my sections. Surrounding yourself with the person you wanna be was for me also super helpful. I got too comfortable around introverts. The biggest thing I think I ever did in the last year was show up to a super big house party completely alone. My anxiety was threw the roof but I was able to build up the confidence throughout the night that I can interact with others on my own with confidence. Be uncomfortable. I hate it but love the results when that ENTP shadow comes out to handle it because I care how I look to others and if I wanna look good to others I need that ENTP to come out and be more social.
If you look for more schools of thoughts, Buddhism, Stocism, ESPECIALLY Cynicism! Oh my god Diogenes level shit brings out ALL insecurities within seconds. But Stocism builds resilience, Buddhism builds love, mercy, acceptance and cease suffering (NEVER engage in forgiveness EVER, it makes the INTJ ego way worse. Always apply mercy, never forgiveness). Cynicism rids shame and embarrassment. It's the creator of minimalism and really teaches the beautiful art of physcial endurance. When I let a Cynic professor mentor me, embarrassment and insecurities turned into extreme self accountability.
But I'm super biased, my life is philosophy aha but I find it super useful.
I just drink wine and then i look like a very nerdy ESFP that makes a few social slip ups like rambling about math and seeking reassurance that I am not being an annoying drunk
You don't need to throw yourself in parties to unleash the ESFP, that comes naturally in every conversation with friends
@@sebastianmayhewbertram731 Maybe I just don't notice it. With the others I feel shift. Usually monitoring emotions is how I tell. Psychological complexes is what triggers the different parts of the time in an unhealthy way. Well at least with the superego at least. The unconscious just is at this point.
"Becoming a masters of all skills" I agree and people around me couldn't understand why i almost know everything ( Me thinking while people saying those:I worked Hard on those). I know for acertain that im an intj and few co intjs couldnt believe that i am taking theology as my 2ndcourse and this is because in my entire human existence for 31 years i had finally found the true purpose in life and that is to serve God. I am so blessed to met Jesus. Id been watching you for a year now and i have to say you are good on what you are doing or even best. Cheers! Thank you
Read about Islam.. REAL Islam.
Explains why in elementary school I was quite rambunctious. I really mellowed out by high school. I recall thinking to myself at the age of 17, what kind of adult I wanted to be. I kept thinking “serious” but my little voice kept whispering be a “funny” adult
As an INTJ, I think we can get confused as an INTP or other types because I believe Ni is Perceiving function. INTJ's comes to a judgement immediately. Ni helps reinforce their initial thought or change it if we are wrong...
The world is neither round nor flat. It is infinite in every realm. It is not flat because there are mountains and hills. Our loved ones who passed on are all around us so it is not round the earth revolves around us. Stand in the place where you are and you see the sky move.
I took some test some time ago and it came up INTJ. Did some research and whatever i found about INTJs almost described me to a T. Same goes with almost everything you're saying. However, 'the caring about titles and flashy things to show peeps who i am or what i have achieved', that is not me. I care about my reputation as long as what is muttered about me is not a lie. If it is the truth they convey, then i dont really care what other's think about me. THIS IS ME, deal with it... or fuck off
Also about stealing other people's ideas and what not... it is the opposite in fact. And here is a short story to show, i hope, how opposite it is for me:
I once found my self thinking about critics and criticism and came to the conclusion that a critic will either prove your point with their faulty argument or show you where you are wrong in yours with a sound logic. Either way they are helpful... many years later i read that Benjamin Franklin had said that exact thing, though more eloquently. Now, every time i find my self telling someone not to view criticism in a negative way but rather look at it as 'helpful', i do make sure to mention that the saying is a quote from B. Franklin.
I have too much respect for private property, be it physical or intellectual, to STEAL.
I despise cheating cuz the 'challenge' loses it's lure... it basically stops being a challenge i guess.
I do forsake you if you betray me - and by that i mean even if for the smallest and most trivial of betrayals - but not based on assumptions, even though i will be quick to assume you have.
So, my question would be: is there any leeway in what you are saying, or am i not really an INTJ, even though most of what i've read about them points to me being one?
I'd appreciate and answer, if you could.
When an INTJ is performing badly, it's usually because they don't want to be doing what they're doing. Unfortunately, we live in a society that makes it extremely difficult, if not impossible, for young people to manage their own lives and choose what they spend their time doing. That's not the INTJs fault. Maybe there shouldn't be an expectation for INTJs to perform well in situations that they were forced into against their will (that they may be playing along with because they're in a position where playing along and biding their time is more beneficial for them in the long-term).
You are right that we do walk around with Murphy's Law in our head. And I do believe that one's attention on something is more likely to make it occur. This is why I employ the deliberate use of Law of Attraction.
You talk so much, and its FULL of information, but also TONS of filler that doesn't need to be said... but its the only good source of info that i trust.
I love people who use NTPs because they always push me if my logic is faulty and i do try to notice when I'm wrong but I can't always do that alone, and I've met a couple of people recently who do it SO WELL and i just love it. They can help me get grounded so easily and I don't know, it's just amazing. They literally cover all of my blind spots and I'm just like wow.
And holy shit they have so much patience with me and i thought i was beyond incomprehensible at times. Turns out I'm not.
7:48 ENTJ PLANS and does one attemp
11:09 virtue (very trusting)
crusader type
11:24 ENTP or crusader types best intimate relationships with intj
Hello Chase! I am sorry but you are wrong about Gallileo. He wasn't killed for saying the Earth was spherical, he was killed because he thought the Earth orbited around the Sun, while everyone else at the time thought the Sun orbited the Earth. There is evidence that Ancient Greeks as far back as 5000 BC knew the Earth was spherical but calculations weren't made until 3000 BC.
ah yeah that's right. Thanks for the correction.
“Muh treasure” -Robert Kiyosaki
If an INTJ stuck in their shadow meets an ENTP stuck in their shadow, will this still be the optimum match?
I ever read someone said he was an INTJ, now he's an ISFJ.
I believe he's just an INTJ in superego mode, or he's actually an ISFJ and before he was in INTJ superego mode
I don't really know if you're into fantasy novels haha but there's this really good series, Six of Crows by Leigh Bardugo, which has this superbly written INTJ character, Kaz Brekker. I thought Kaz was a perfect illustration of Se fear of abandonment followed by Si demon vengeance/ISFJ superego justice, INTJ paranoia, and INTJs being excellent tacticians/escape artists (and also an example of fi child not giving a shit about ethics lol). Pretty much the entire time I was watching this video I was constantly reminded of Kaz, which blew my mind.
If you're interested, and you have time, I would highly recommend Six of Crows. Besides Kaz, all of the other characters were also written super well and super accurately too (in my opinion), and I'd want to see what you think.... (And also it's just like an absolutely brilliant heist story that I think anyone would because it like completely blew my mind)
23:28
I sing this every time I get too caught up in 🎶muh feelings🎶 muh titles🎶
This whole presentation was hilarious 😊
That’s why I explored soooo many religions as a teenager... I even got into a cult for a little while lmao
Still in a cult here :D
@@jellyfishi_ agreed bro
Satan GIGACHAD
I feel paralyzed; I don't really know what causes others to bounded me, I am doing all that is in my power ...but none of it seems enough to let anyone stay.
I'm confused. Are you unsure of why people decide to leave. Or are you unsure of why you push people away?
You helped me grow, as always. Thanks, Chase.
Sure thing
Congrats to your wife. She almost has you looking like an Se with that hoodie. Great lecture once again. Thanks.
Thanks bro
Yknow the only reason why I watch these videos besides the entertainment value is that you can learn alot from someone elses struggles. As an entp I can be pretty revenge heavy sometimes too until I realize I was being the asshole and that was just immaturity and a defence mechanism to shield myself from the truth of that I was failing
Oh ho ho, all those people who thought I was crazy for doing a degree in Buddhism, looks like my Master's in Buddhism is paying off.
The Ne Nemesis...I don't know if I'm an INTJ but I always worry about choosing a career that will become unimportant because people don't need it anymore or just too many people are choosing this career.
That's why I wanted to find out how economy and the market works but I really don't know which sources to trust and where to start.
...Guess I'm not a starter😂
Wow. This was amazingly accurate. It actually explains a lot of the areas that made me question whether I’m an INTJ. The abandonment issue really hit home. I’ve always assumed I’m quiet bpd (with the occasional lash outward) but never saw anything that would corroborate that for intj. Coupled with avoidant attachment and Its a recipe for self fulfilling prophecy. I’ve also noticed a lot of intj will downplay the performance anxiety. The “idgaf anyway” attitude. I am always acutely aware of the fact that it’s impossible to maintain perfection. So it’s hard for me to jump into anything that could be seen as anything less. I’m also big on aesthetic. Minimalist but still have an eye for beauty.
Wow what an amazing video. Thank you so much. Self development is quite a constant thing. 🙏🏽
Thank you Cs joseph, I was going through a tough time but your videos helped me
I'm an INTJ and I don't flash anything. LOL I don't care much about money which is why I make almost the exact average the American income. I don't need a lot of things to be happy. I drive a 20-year old Kia Rio and wear the same 2 pairs of pants to work (I work in Information Technology) every day with a basic shirt and the same pair of shoes. I have 2 science degrees and a Systems and Programming Associates but I don't talk about those. I will probably drive a nicer vehicle when I buy my next one simply because I can afford it more now and I will want to be comfortable (I'm cold-natured so love the seat warmers and gotta have the electric window controls on driver side so I can optimize the airflow by putting various windows down to different levels). Being flashy and braggy is so obnoxious and annoying. I don't think I've ever been that way. Happiness does not come from worrying about what other people think.
Thank you for your work, this one was really insightful.
This season is awesome, I can't wait for the INTP episode. But about Buddha, I've read that at the age of 29, he has seen the suffering of other people and started his great renunciation and began his ascetic life. I think that was Fe and Si, was I mistaken or he mastered his superego at that very young age
or his Fi child had divine sympathy like it is supposed to
Dude! You're the best source on mbti. Keep up the good work. How long did it took you to gather all that knowledge?
Interesting how in Spanish 'te quiero' (querer- to want) means the equivalent of 'I love you.' In our one or two week attention span world, I think attention, paying attention (Si) or outlasting is a bit overstated. You can outlast, but no one notices.
If I perceived someone threaten our future then I really strategize and making plans to secure the future. Anyway, I feel bad about my self-fulfilling prophecy
Super cool insight, super cool CS Joseph 🤘
13:22 right. This is my purpose, to become the best.
I'm backkkkkkkkkkk... jeez i keep having to brush up on this
Interesting... INTJ here. I had an ex that towards the end of our relationship that while he was away visiting family for 5 days... I moved out with out his knowledge. He started to scare me at the end, yelling at my son and I and I didn’t know what he was capable of doing. I realized he had anger and possibly rage issues. I never once yelled at him or called him names EVER. I didn’t know how he would react to leaving him. So, I took my kids and moved out while he was on vacation. Then I calmly broke up and told him why and I’m sorry and good bye.
He aired out his dirty laundry on FB and embellished his side of the story and of course sided with him. I was called every name out there for protecting my kids and myself. Never once did I engage in the drama of his posts. He dragged my name and reputation in the mud... but I didn’t care, I walked away and never looked back. He was not worth my time and energy.