I have been friends with Walter Koenig for almost 33 years now (since 1991) and several years before Andrew sadly left us I had the opportunity to speak with Andrew for several hours on the phone when he and his father were having rough times in their relationship related to Andrew's chronic depression. He was a very intelligent, very kind person who allowed someone who was a stranger to him yet a friend to his father counsel him and listen to him. Some of the things Andrew said to me about his father I was able to pass on to Walter and help him work through his grief. It was a tragedy for all involved.
@@SCOTTONTAPE - Walter is absolutely the nicest person on the planet...and one of the funniest. If you have not read it ("Warped Factors") get a copy and read it. No one could be more open or honest in revealing himself.
@@colkelleyhe absolutely is. He is the only reason I got through the months and years after my father’s death . Sadly, we lost touch several years ago. I sent a note after Andrew died (God, that heartbreaking press conference…), and I think of him often.
@@colkelley I remember seeing that on television...it was 2010 I think it was sort of a news conference...just around the time of the winter Olympics...
Depression literally sucks the life out someone. I’ve suffered for years…..what most people don’t know is that it’s just as physically painful as it is mentally painful. Rest in peace, Andrew.
@bobabooey4537 thats so true I always say to people that depression is so much worse than physical pain because you know whats wrong with you when it's physical but mental health is torture I know I suffer daily with my own mental health
@@bobabooey4537your remark telling me “don’t be ridiculous” is both callous and cruel. While our experiences with depression are different, it’s still depression and it’s horrific.
Such a nice guy. I live in Vancouver and Andrew had been hanging out with a good friend of mine a fair bit while up here. She had tried to be that solid, caring, nurturing, soundboard/fried who was there for him and, who would listen to him and offer him the sanctuary of her home and the warmth of her amazing apartment and a friendship that was genuine and without demands...he was fragile but from what I was able to observe during my times hanging out with them, he was in the right place with the right person and was (imho) feeling safe and grounded in his immediate environment with my friend/in her home. but then....he left her place. He'd said he was just heading out for a few hours. I can still remember her extremely emotional voicemail telling me that Andrew hadn't come back "home." And then, she heard the news that he'd been located in Stanley Park. Gutted. Thank you so much for you respectful and kind remembrances of Andrew. Doug - This has been tough to type...apologies for my ragged writinmg. All of those crazy emotions came rusing back. Poor Jen...she left Vancouver shortly after this all happened. Wonderful woman. Sadness
@@dougsmith7083 I’m sorry you, and especially your friend, had to experience that, but I’m glad you were able to be there for him. I hope you’re both doing better now.
I will never forget that heartbreaking press conference. Andrew’s mom, Judy, is buried nearby. She died about a year and a half ago. Walter just started a new acting project, and he’ll be 88 in September.
I wasn't aware of his death and that his father is still active in the industry. I am aware that there are a few cast members,still with us. William Shatner is over 90 years of age. So sad that he needed to leave this life". 📿🥀🙏
I’m in the generation that watched Growing Pains on its first run, and I loved Boner. Plus as a lifelong Star Trek fan, it was a joy to see that Walter’s son was so talented. I still remember seeing Walter and Judy’s press conference and how raw their pain was. Thank you for the lovely and compassionate video about Andrew. ❤
I've lived with depression for years, and sometimes still struggle with it. The Only thing that saved me before I met my husband was knowing that I was a child of God, and knew that at least He loved me. The lonliness of thinking or believing that no one cared, or gave a crap was the worst part. The statement his parents gave that someone out there does care, goes a long way to someone going through that private Hell. Thanks Scott for another awesome video ❤
So sad. I loved Growing Pains. I never knew he passed. What a sad and lonely way to go. Heartbreaking. Thank you Scott for bringing this to light for me. I pray he has found eternal peace and rest. 🕊️❤️🙏
I never heard about this, so unfortunate. I can't imagine what his parents had to live through "? The loss of a child is immensely emotional,but even WORSE. A child who takes his or hers life,,so tragic. 📿🥀🙏
Scott, you've cultivated such a great little community here. This isn't just a channel for reminiscing Gen-X'ers and looky-loos. It's like we're all gathered in a group, right there with you. We remember, we grieve, and we process. You give us more than just entertainment. You give us substance. I enjoy being here.
Me too. Scott is so sincere in all of his videos. You know he cares and always gives his best to let his subjects shine! We have a very safe community here. Scott takes a lot of pride in keeping the memories of his subjects alive. He gives us a safe platform to grieve! ❤❤❤
I suffered from Depression back then. It's a chemical in balance. Depression can get really dark. I understand him but I think very few can. It's hard to get help because people don't understand and think you are feeling sorry for yourself 😢 Rest in peace my friend. Thank you for the video ❤
Thomas, I hope you are feeling better now as of this writing. I had a bit of depression myself right before I left the USAF in '93. I got over it and am well now.))
I remember Andrew Koenig from Growing Pains, My Two Dad's and so many other's. He was an amazing actor. I know how it is with depression and wanting to do the unthinkable. I know for me, listening to music and watching TH-cam videos help me a lot. I know for other's, it is difficult to find something that helps. What you said Scott about reaching out, you nailed it. If I really need to, I'll talk to my husband. Thank you for this video!
You are so welcome Meg I’m glad you have your husband to lean on . And I honestly do not remember Andrew on my two dads I searched everywhere for clips, I loved that show
Seriously. If you know this and have this introspection, get some help. Reach out. Don't keep it inside. I lost someone close to me and regret every day that they didn't open up and let me know they were so torn up inside and could cross that line. Tell your husband. Ask for help. Don't wait.
What do you do when your significant other doesn't believe you or tries to minimize what you feel and your friends are all dead or gone, where do you go then? I've tried so many remedies but when that cloud covers you, you just want out, no matter what. You just want that agony to stop and the pain is unbearable. Your tired of everything and everyone and just want to sleep.
@@gregggoss2210stop being so self absorbed. Get outside of yourself. Volunteer at a homeless shelter, animal shelter, etc. . Do something BESIDES wallow in your own self pity!
I suffer from depression and it's so hard to explain to people. They ask you what your depressed about? I don't know. Just be happy they say. Wish I could.
I had severe depression for 26 years of pure hell. My depression started in 1986 when I was 14 years old to the age of 40 years old in 2012. My depression was getting worse as I was getting older and when I went to the doctors in 2004 when I was 32 years old, they couldn’t find anything wrong with me so I thought that it was a normal thing at first. When I was having chest pains at 40 years old, I thought that I was having a heart attack at first, but when I went to the hospital, they gave me a simple blood test and found out that I had hypothyroidism. So when I went to my regular doctor with the referral, the doctor gave me the prescription Levothyroxine and the minute I took one pill, my depression and my anxiety and my chest pain was forever gone. That’s when I looked it up on the internet and that how I found a list of what hypothyroidism causes. Now I wanna help people cure there depression and seek medical help from there doctors and do what I did. I also found out that it’s something that I got from my late mother, I have all of her hereditary diseases.
It is very hard to explain to other people. They say things like “just go on a walk” they do not understand that sometimes we cannot even do that and saying things like that just makes us feel worse because we aren’t able to push ourselves to do that. Just don’t give up and be willing to try new things to treat your depression ❤🙏🏻❤
At one point while he was living in Vancouver, aside from acting in films & tv there, Andrew worked as an "Acting Workshop Teacher" teaching acting technics, auditioning, etc. I was one of his students. He loved Stanley Park which is likely why he chose that park to end his life.
Aw boner ,So sad .i didnt realize he passed away until i saw your past episode on him 😞 lets get into Scott . shall we ,sad one an shocked . Rip Andrew Koenig😢 an rip Alan Thicke which is a Canadian off Growing Pains.
Throw on the growing pains theme song. Sometimes at work I'll put on 80s theme songs from sitcoms. It makes some of us get that feeling in the stomach. Just a suggestion. I will definitely be praying for you 🙏🙏🙏
When you are in depression you close yourself off from people!! You do not reach out!! If you know someone is suffering from depression check on them, reach out to them!! I know from personal experience!! They don't want to die, they want to escape what is going on in their brain!! Sad!!
It's very true. Everyone thinks I'm ignoring them and so I come up with excuses like, oh I forgot to text back etc. Then they get mad at me for not writing back, which makes me feel guilty and even more like pulling back. It's an exhausting cycle.
Thank you for doing this tribute.I think of him often. He was truly funny, intelligent, kind, fought for human rights, animals, loved to read, so much more. I remember hoping they would find him alive in Vancouver. I truly hope he is at peace.
My eldest cousin passed away from suicide at 26, i was 14, its been 25 years ago now. Not a day goes by I dont think of him and how his life couldve gone. I know alot was wrong in his life at the time but it really is a permanent solution to temporary problems. Seeing first hand how it affected my family, especially my now 90 yr old grandmother I just cant imagine puting people who love you through such torment. I could go on and on but yes there are people who want you here no matter how grim the outlook on your life may seem. It really makes me ill thinking about it too long. Anyone in that situation I send prayers and hope to work through it. I love you little Jerry forever and always. Love, Cheeks.❤
It’s a shame that for whatever reason he wasn’t able to or chose not to reach out to Kirk Cameron. I think Kirk would have gone way out of his way to help this young man. Such a tragedy.
Never missed an episode of Growing Pains growing up as a kid in the 80s. Boner was one of my favorites. Depression is the worst, ive suffered from it. Rest In Peace Andrew. Forever missed ❤
I loved growing pains growing up. Kirk Cameron was always as handamsome as scott. Had no idea Andrew Koenig passed away. its so sad. especailly so young. Recently i had couple of other deaths in my family. on my moms side. So glad your still here scott. love you. Vickie🥰
Make sure you are not low in any essential vitamins.... taking B12 every morning didn't cure me, but it calmed down the symptoms. Everyone is different though. Hopefully you find what works for you ❤
Hi Scotty. How are you? It is 4.12 am in the morning and I am watching you. Still not feeling the best. Not sure if you replied to Jesse as yet. I know you have been busy. Loved watching Growing Pains with the kids. I know Boner very well. Sorry Andrew. May your soul rest in peace. God Bless. Anyway nice catching up with you Scotty. Always thinking about you. Wishing you the best. Hope to catch up with you soon. Take care. Lots of love. From your family Downunder. ❤️🤗✌🏼💕🇦🇺
Every since my mom died i felt like giving my life up at times and i know thats not the solution for me. but there is a better choice. but you just don't know what a person is going through. 💓Vickie
what i do not get is why this industry is not investigated into why these young people are ending up dead at a young age and why are they getting depressed it is disgusting really how these people end up the way they do with no help from the industry
I didnt know he passed. I remember him well as I was a fan of Growing Pains. Depression is no joke. Please take care of your mental health. Get help. No shame in going to therapy.
Did not even know that Boner died. He was a part of my childhood growing up watching all those sitcoms and cartoons back then. Aw man, this sucks. Rest in peace, Boner. The Seavers always has a spot for you at the dinner table. 🙏
I had no idea he had passed. I remember him fondly from Growing Pains and all of the teen magazines out during that era. So sad to hear of his passing, especially that way. It sounded as if he went in a very beautiful place that was special to him. I pray he is at peace, resting eternally with the Lord.
I remember this young man from Growing Pains now . I didn’t realize he had passed . Nor did I know who he was related too . But you sure can notice the eyes of father and son . Very similar . So sad 🥲
I've struggled with deptession since collage (25 years ago). Some days my meds are doing their work and im loving life and other days are bad and the meds arent keeping up. I just have to remember to love for the good days and lean into the people who love me to get me through the bad. Andrew's death was so haunting to me because how he took his life was very much how i was going to take mine before my friends intervened. On a lighter note, I do miss Growing Pains. Definitely one of the top 3 best shows of the 80s.
As a teenager in the 80’s I just couldn’t believe that the censors at ABC television would allow a character on any type of show to be called “Boner”. And then when Kirk Cameron became a wacko Christian conservative and began thinking everything was a sin, and yet he didn’t seem to object saying “Boner”!!!
@Mike-rk8px my point exactly! He may actually hold the record for saying "Boner" more than anyone else in broadcast television history. The irony is thick
The 80's had some great theme songs. I had a weird crush on Boner back in the day lol I had not heard of his passing. I suffer from depression, since my preteen years. It's tough. Thanks for the video and please stay safe. ❤
Thanks Scott😎🇺🇲👍With everything going on I feel AK just got out of the matrix early.When these ,ah, satanists come at someone it usually not at the target but family,animals & friends.I feel many just made it look as if they "died".We will see A again 😎🇺🇲👍
I remember when his character left Growing Pains to join the US Army. For some reason, it broke my heart when his character left. I cried. I wasn't particularly involved with the show or his character but for some reason I felt it was just very sad. Then when he died, it kind of made sense to me why I felt so sad about it. It was like his depression was readable in his acting. RIP Andrew.
I remember that episode as well.I cried too. At that time, I was getting ready to graduate high school and was about to join the Army, so that episode really hit home for me, a fellow Gen X'er. I had always hoped that his character would have a long and successful military career, and upon hearing of his death, it just hurt, not knowing that he had been dealing with depression. Rest ever peacefully Andrew.
He was so talented, I knew him from Growing pains but did not realize all he did. Such a tragic end. Sorry to all those suffering from depression, I as well have suffered for years but fortunately found the right antidepressants. Hang in there and never give up on yourself ❤🙏🏻❤
Depression is horrible and some days you don't want to be here but you power through but I don't wish it on anyone. Your mind can really be your worst enemy
Thanks for another touching vid Scott. So sad when people feel there is no other option, than to take their own lives. Feel for Andrew & all his family & friends, who were affected by his sudden passing.
I lost my dog only 6 weeks ago, been to 3 funerals since May, and I lost my job... I'm going through it too. Sending good vibes to you, it's tough out there 💟
He seemed like a very compassionate person and I hate that this horrible disease took hold of him. RIP to Andrew, and now, his beloved mother Judy. May The Peace which passes ALL understanding be with his dear father, and his family, friends and devoted fans. Thank you Scott for your respectful and thoughtful insight on not just Andrew, but ALL of the people and subjects you cover on your fine channel.
Good Afternoon Scott 🙋🏽. I had forgotten about this Guy. Thank You for reminding me and for inviting me to watch your video. Enjoy the rest of your day ‼️👋🏽
Depression and anxiety are an exhausting nightmare. You don't just think it, you feel it too. My heart breaks for this gentleman and his family. I lost my mom to suicide and I've worked very hard to not let that be me. Thank you for this respectful video. I hope he feels peace. 🙏 ❤
I unfortunately suffer from both anxiety and depression and I hate it so much mainly cause I also deal with chronic stress and some other health issues so yeah
Childhood nostalgia Growing Pains from the 80's. I remember him in the show off and on. Its been years since I have seen the show. So sad to hear about what happened with him and his death. RIP. :(
So many of us have difficult lives, poor and alone, but we get up every day and soldier on. People who are rich, famous and loved wo check out, have no sympathy from me. Weak AF.
Scott on tape, I really love this channel you tell the story and really do an amazing job and you are so caring. you do so much of the stuff that i like to watch. Thank you so much.
Another bit of irony here as a Star Trek fan, the actor who played Chekov in the reboot movies, Anton Yelchin, also died tragically in 2016. I believe you covered his site in one of your videos.
Scott seriously you really do a great job and on you’re videos and you’re sincerity Really comes through strong on compassion for people who are struggling with depression ❤ Bravo
WOOOOW I HONESTLY HAD NO IDEA THAT HE HAD PASSED AWAY NOR WHO HIS FATHER IS. THIS IS MY 1ST HEARING ANY OF THIS. I USE TO WATCH THIS SHOW FAITHFULLY ORG EPISODES AS WELL AS THE ORG STAR TREK W/ MY DAD. MY HEART BREAKS FOR THE FAMILY & FRIENDS. I KNOW THAT'S SOMETHING YOU'LL NEVER UNSEE NOR FORGET THAT EXACT TIME OF MOMENT. HE WAS A GREAT ACTOR IN HIS DAY GONE FAR TO SOON. R.I.E.P ANDREW {SCOTT YOU DID AN AMAZING JOB AS ALWAYS THIS WOULD'VE BEEN THE ONLY WAY I WOULD'VE KNOWN WHO HE WAS. EVER STORY YOU COVER IS RESPECTFUL & TASTEFULLY DONE THAT'S WHY I SUBSCRIBE TO ONLY YOURS}
@@SCOTTONTAPE Gotcha. Thanx for clearing that up. Always dig your vids. Haven't commented as much, but always love what and how you present what you share with us. Thanx for everything!
Scott you are such a caring person and it shows in the way you talk about these situations and especially the way you take your hand and clean debris away from some of the graves. I love that. I pray God touches you and blesses you. Thank you
I remember reading when he’d gone missing. It was really sad to discover that he resented the character so many of us enjoyed. I respect it, though. He wanted to be able to be admired for more than a single character. He didn’t see that he was adored because of how good he was at becoming Boner. His depression was clearly not just about that but it’s still sad. I didn’t like the show as much when he left.
Such a sad story. A life cut short. It's crazy what these well known stars go through in their personal lives. We just see them as entertainers with amazing lifestyles but never see the dark side of their story. Very well delivered Scott 😢
You could do a lot of videos of movies filmed in Stanley Park, it's doubled for a lot of US locations from Central Park to Golden Gate Park and the Lion's Gate Bridge has been in a lot of movies and tv shows as well, it's probably best known to horror fans as the North Bay Bridge in Final Destination 5.
Hi Scott, good to see you, it’s so sad what depression does to us, I hope he’s happy now and not suffering anymore. It’s his family that are suffering now, I suffer with depression and PTSD, and everyday is a struggle , but you have to keep fighting and be strong, it’s the strength that keeps me going. RIP Andrew Kooning 💐💐💐💐, you died way before your time. NEVER GIVE UP people. Thank you Scott, you tell it with such compassion. ❤️❤️❤️🤟🏼✌️👍⭐️
@SCOTT ON TAPE Oh I had no idea he had passed away😢😢He reminded me of a young Sean Penn (Jeff Spicoli) in Fast Times At Ridgemont High when he was in Growing Pains….Thank you for doing this video on Andrew Koenig 🫶🏻🙏🏻
I remember reading about his passing. Of course I knew of him from "Growing pains" but had no idea he was Walter's son. I just thought he was a talented individual in his own right who made the wrong decision in the end. No judging here...I pray he's eternally happy now. Thanx Scott for reminding everyone of this talented soul and caring to revive his name for those who have never heard of him. Always love your vids, brother. Until next time, take care my friend.
Scott ,i know its way to soon but in the future if only you liked him,would consider talking about him .Martin Mull passed away a couple days ago.i always enjoyed him he was big in the 80s .
Mental illness is always tough for the sufferer and those around them who love them. I have a friend suffering from depression, anxiety and OCD - known her since we were 14, so around 20+ years of friendship, she was always negative and jealous (it seemed), especially when someone did better than her or won something or got promoted. A lot of friends blocked her over the years. She was hospitalised several times but stops taking her meds (because they seem to lock away her emotions and she doesn’t feel like herself) and spirals again. Best way I can describe it is she is always feeling bad about herself, like everything is grey and the world has no hope left in it, and always acting with a sense of dread that everything will fall apart at any moment and emotions control her, no rationalising with her once she gets upset or angry, just have to ride out the storm. She lives on the 16th floor and I am perpetually terrified I will get the call that she jumped. Her family doesn’t know what to do but keep on taking her to the hospital when it gets too bad.
I remember hearing and seeing this on the news about Andrew. Sad news. I remember watching him on Growing Pains. Around the same time Marie Osmonds oldest son also took his own life. I went to Stanley Park numerous times in the 80's and 90's. It's been awhile since I was last there. People just don't understand that depression cannot be snapped out of or turned off like a light switch.
my first tatt is going to be the semi colon with the words you matter around it, for everyone who suffers from depression.... another good video, sad but good
I've dealt with depression off/on since the age of 16 and just like other diseases, it's cunning, baffling, and powerful. Here in the United States there is very little help unless you have insurance. Yes, you can reach out to a crisis line or maybe join a support group, but speaking to a licensed professional takes money or finding an appropriate grant unless youre fortunate enough to have insurance. Depression will tell you that nobody cares and search for reasons to validate those thoughts that come in. I don't know how I do it most days. I can emphasize with Andrew.
I feel your pain. Have endured the same struggles all of my life. Those that dont suffer cant understand what it is like.No real help but you learn to cope most days.😞
I have been friends with Walter Koenig for almost 33 years now (since 1991) and several years before Andrew sadly left us I had the opportunity to speak with Andrew for several hours on the phone when he and his father were having rough times in their relationship related to Andrew's chronic depression. He was a very intelligent, very kind person who allowed someone who was a stranger to him yet a friend to his father counsel him and listen to him. Some of the things Andrew said to me about his father I was able to pass on to Walter and help him work through his grief. It was a tragedy for all involved.
Wow. Thank you so much for sharing that about Andrew and his father
@@SCOTTONTAPE - Walter is absolutely the nicest person on the planet...and one of the funniest. If you have not read it ("Warped Factors") get a copy and read it. No one could be more open or honest in revealing himself.
@@colkelleyhe absolutely is. He is the only reason I got through the months and years after my father’s death . Sadly, we lost touch several years ago. I sent a note after Andrew died (God, that heartbreaking press conference…), and I think of him often.
So sad the grief of saying "I'm giving up'' 😢
@@colkelley I remember seeing that on television...it was 2010 I think it was sort of a news conference...just around the time of the winter Olympics...
What gets me is nobody from growing pains, said anything or made a tribute to him.He was a big part of the show too.
Kirk Cameron did I remember it.
I never knew that he was deceased 😢
This is what makes Scott on Tape my favorite. You are so genuinely kind, caring and thoughtful. Thank you! ❤
Depression literally sucks the life out someone. I’ve suffered for years…..what most people don’t know is that it’s just as physically painful as it is mentally painful. Rest in peace, Andrew.
Me too. It's a constant companion. I have a dog that really helps. I rediscovered drawing and that really helps too.
Thats not true, maybe for you in some way but the mental pain is worse than the physical. Dont be ridiculous.
@bobabooey4537 thats so true I always say to people that depression is so much worse than physical pain because you know whats wrong with you when it's physical but mental health is torture I know I suffer daily with my own mental health
@@bobabooey4537your remark telling me “don’t be ridiculous” is both callous and cruel. While our experiences with depression are different, it’s still depression and it’s horrific.
@@karenenebel200EVERYONE in Western society has "depression".🙄
Such a nice guy. I live in Vancouver and Andrew had been hanging out with a good friend of mine a fair bit while up here. She had tried to be that solid, caring, nurturing, soundboard/fried who was there for him and, who would listen to him and offer him the sanctuary of her home and the warmth of her amazing apartment and a friendship that was genuine and without demands...he was fragile but from what I was able to observe during my times hanging out with them, he was in the right place with the right person and was (imho) feeling safe and grounded in his immediate environment with my friend/in her home.
but then....he left her place. He'd said he was just heading out for a few hours. I can still remember her extremely emotional voicemail telling me that Andrew hadn't come back "home."
And then, she heard the news that he'd been located in Stanley Park.
Gutted.
Thank you so much for you respectful and kind remembrances of Andrew.
Doug
- This has been tough to type...apologies for my ragged writinmg. All of those crazy emotions came rusing back. Poor Jen...she left Vancouver shortly after this all happened. Wonderful woman. Sadness
@@dougsmith7083 I’m sorry you, and especially your friend, had to experience that, but I’m glad you were able to be there for him. I hope you’re both doing better now.
I will never forget that heartbreaking press conference. Andrew’s mom, Judy, is buried nearby. She died about a year and a half ago. Walter just started a new acting project, and he’ll be 88 in September.
I wasn't aware of his death and that his father is still active in the industry. I am aware that there are a few cast members,still with us. William Shatner is over 90 years of age. So sad that he needed to leave this life". 📿🥀🙏
I’m in the generation that watched Growing Pains on its first run, and I loved Boner. Plus as a lifelong Star Trek fan, it was a joy to see that Walter’s son was so talented. I still remember seeing Walter and Judy’s press conference and how raw their pain was. Thank you for the lovely and compassionate video about Andrew. ❤
I had no idea he passed away. I loved Growing Pains. 😢
I've lived with depression for years, and sometimes still struggle with it. The Only thing that saved me before I met my husband was knowing that I was a child of God, and knew that at least He loved me. The lonliness of thinking or believing that no one cared, or gave a crap was the worst part. The statement his parents gave that someone out there does care, goes a long way to someone going through that private Hell. Thanks Scott for another awesome video ❤
God bless and keep you! I pray this comment finds you well! ❤
So sad. I loved Growing Pains. I never knew he passed. What a sad and lonely way to go. Heartbreaking. Thank you Scott for bringing this to light for me. I pray he has found eternal peace and rest. 🕊️❤️🙏
Indeed . Growing pains brought good memories.
I never heard about this, so unfortunate. I can't imagine what his parents had to live through "? The loss of a child is immensely emotional,but even WORSE. A child who takes his or hers life,,so tragic. 📿🥀🙏
Scott, you've cultivated such a great little community here. This isn't just a channel for reminiscing Gen-X'ers and looky-loos. It's like we're all gathered in a group, right there with you. We remember, we grieve, and we process. You give us more than just entertainment. You give us substance. I enjoy being here.
You've expressed that beautifully, TVHouseHistorian, and I agree wholeheartedly.
Me too. Scott is so sincere in all of his videos. You know he cares and always gives his best to let his subjects shine! We have a very safe community here. Scott takes a lot of pride in keeping the memories of his subjects alive. He gives us a safe platform to grieve! ❤❤❤
He seemed like a sweet guy. May he finally rest in Peace. ❤ Depression sucks
I suffered from Depression back then. It's a chemical in balance. Depression can get really dark. I understand him but I think very few can. It's hard to get help because people don't understand and think you are feeling sorry for yourself 😢 Rest in peace my friend. Thank you for the video ❤
Thomas, I hope you are feeling better now as of this writing. I had a bit of depression myself right before I left the USAF in '93. I got over it and am well now.))
Glad you’re doing better. But what causes depression like this? Is it some kind of life event?
Chemical inbalance is still a theory not a fact.
It's not ALWAYS a chemical imbalance. Often, it's situational.
I remember Andrew Koenig from Growing Pains, My Two Dad's and so many other's. He was an amazing actor. I know how it is with depression and wanting to do the unthinkable. I know for me, listening to music and watching TH-cam videos help me a lot. I know for other's, it is difficult to find something that helps. What you said Scott about reaching out, you nailed it. If I really need to, I'll talk to my husband. Thank you for this video!
You are so welcome Meg I’m glad you have your husband to lean on . And I honestly do not remember Andrew on my two dads I searched everywhere for clips, I loved that show
Seriously. If you know this and have this introspection, get some help. Reach out. Don't keep it inside. I lost someone close to me and regret every day that they didn't open up and let me know they were so torn up inside and could cross that line. Tell your husband. Ask for help. Don't wait.
What do you do when your significant other doesn't believe you or tries to minimize what you feel and your friends are all dead or gone, where do you go then? I've tried so many remedies but when that cloud covers you, you just want out, no matter what. You just want that agony to stop and the pain is unbearable. Your tired of everything and everyone and just want to sleep.
@@gregggoss2210stop being so self absorbed. Get outside of yourself. Volunteer at a homeless shelter, animal shelter, etc. . Do something BESIDES wallow in your own self pity!
@@gregggoss2210there's currently a famine going on in Somalia. Kids who don't even have a piece of bread. To eat. THATS depressing.
I suffer from depression and it's so hard to explain to people. They ask you what your depressed about? I don't know. Just be happy they say. Wish I could.
If you suffer from depression then you need to go to a doctor and have your thyroid checked. Hypothyroidism causes depression.
You are not alone
I had severe depression for 26 years of pure hell. My depression started in 1986 when I was 14 years old to the age of 40 years old in 2012. My depression was getting worse as I was getting older and when I went to the doctors in 2004 when I was 32 years old, they couldn’t find anything wrong with me so I thought that it was a normal thing at first. When I was having chest pains at 40 years old, I thought that I was having a heart attack at first, but when I went to the hospital, they gave me a simple blood test and found out that I had hypothyroidism. So when I went to my regular doctor with the referral, the doctor gave me the prescription Levothyroxine and the minute I took one pill, my depression and my anxiety and my chest pain was forever gone. That’s when I looked it up on the internet and that how I found a list of what hypothyroidism causes. Now I wanna help people cure there depression and seek medical help from there doctors and do what I did. I also found out that it’s something that I got from my late mother, I have all of her hereditary diseases.
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It is very hard to explain to other people. They say things like “just go on a walk” they do not understand that sometimes we cannot even do that and saying things like that just makes us feel worse because we aren’t able to push ourselves to do that. Just don’t give up and be willing to try new things to treat your depression ❤🙏🏻❤
At one point while he was living in Vancouver, aside from acting in films & tv there, Andrew worked as an "Acting Workshop Teacher" teaching acting technics, auditioning, etc. I was one of his students. He loved Stanley Park which is likely why he chose that park to end his life.
Did not know he passed. So sad. RIP ANDREW!!!! Thank you Scott for bringing this to us and being so compassionate!! 😊 ❤❤❤
Depression is a beast we fight everyday hoping to win, sadly lesd people care these days than you think, especially family
Sadly that's the truth but please know your not alone
Depression is not a beast. Its largely a self fulfilling prophecy. You THINK you have it, you WANT to have it, so you feel like you have it.
Isn't it funny that It mainly affects those in the West??go to a third world country, it doesn't exist.
Aw boner ,So sad .i didnt realize he passed away until i saw your past episode on him 😞 lets get into Scott . shall we ,sad one an shocked . Rip Andrew Koenig😢 an rip Alan Thicke which is a Canadian off Growing Pains.
RIP Andrew, so very sad. 🙏🏻 My only son and best friend, 30, tragically took his life 16 weeks ago this week. 💔😢😞
I am so so sorry for your loss . Stay strong
So sorry for your loss🙏
I am so very sorry for your loss.
Hey Scott
Thanks for the upload
I also suffer from depression
It is definitely a debilitating illness
Stay safe and well
Cheers Brendan
Stay safe Brendan and know that you are loved ❤️
Throw on the growing pains theme song. Sometimes at work I'll put on 80s theme songs from sitcoms. It makes some of us get that feeling in the stomach.
Just a suggestion. I will definitely be praying for you 🙏🙏🙏
Such a tragic end for such a young life. Depression is so real and I suffer with it.
My Son too! And the sad thing is nobody can help you! it's all in your mind! Stay Strong!
I've suffered from depression to. I hate it.
@@karensilva4771 What I say is! every mind is it's own world!
When you are in depression you close yourself off from people!! You do not reach out!! If you know someone is suffering from depression check on them, reach out to them!! I know from personal experience!! They don't want to die, they want to escape what is going on in their brain!! Sad!!
But how do you feel like you’re not nagging them if you’re the one who’s always calling?
It's very true. Everyone thinks I'm ignoring them and so I come up with excuses like, oh I forgot to text back etc. Then they get mad at me for not writing back, which makes me feel guilty and even more like pulling back. It's an exhausting cycle.
Thank you for doing this tribute.I think of him often. He was truly funny, intelligent, kind, fought for human rights, animals, loved to read, so much more. I remember hoping they would find him alive in Vancouver. I truly hope he is at peace.
I suffer from depression. Each day I wake up crying. This video was so touching. 🕊️
My eldest cousin passed away from suicide at 26, i was 14, its been 25 years ago now. Not a day goes by I dont think of him and how his life couldve gone. I know alot was wrong in his life at the time but it really is a permanent solution to temporary problems. Seeing first hand how it affected my family, especially my now 90 yr old grandmother I just cant imagine puting people who love you through such torment. I could go on and on but yes there are people who want you here no matter how grim the outlook on your life may seem. It really makes me ill thinking about it too long. Anyone in that situation I send prayers and hope to work through it. I love you little Jerry forever and always. Love, Cheeks.❤
It’s a shame that for whatever reason he wasn’t able to or chose not to reach out to Kirk Cameron. I think Kirk would have gone way out of his way to help this young man. Such a tragedy.
Never missed an episode of Growing Pains growing up as a kid in the 80s. Boner was one of my favorites. Depression is the worst, ive suffered from it. Rest In Peace Andrew. Forever missed ❤
Another great talent that left us way too soon.
You are missed,Andrew Koenig.
Awesome video as always,Scott!
I loved growing pains growing up. Kirk Cameron was always as handamsome as scott. Had no idea Andrew Koenig passed away. its so sad. especailly so young. Recently i had couple of other deaths in my family. on my moms side. So glad your still here scott. love you. Vickie🥰
I have struggled for years with depression the one thing that keeps me going is i have to be here for my son who has autism
Make sure you are not low in any essential vitamins.... taking B12 every morning didn't cure me, but it calmed down the symptoms. Everyone is different though. Hopefully you find what works for you ❤
Awww... I loved that show!!! Really really sad 😢 RIP Boner
Hi Scotty. How are you? It is 4.12 am in the morning and I am watching you. Still not feeling the best. Not sure if you replied to Jesse as yet. I know you have been busy. Loved watching Growing Pains with the kids. I know Boner very well. Sorry Andrew. May your soul rest in peace. God Bless. Anyway nice catching up with you Scotty. Always thinking about you. Wishing you the best. Hope to catch up with you soon. Take care. Lots of love. From your family Downunder. ❤️🤗✌🏼💕🇦🇺
I am so sorry you are still not feeling well Karen. Please rest and get well soon. I will look for Jesse’s messages for sure. Stay strong ❤️❤️
Every since my mom died i felt like giving my life up at times and i know thats not the solution for me. but there is a better choice. but you just don't know what a person is going through. 💓Vickie
Your parents are looking down and proud of you Vickie
@@SCOTTONTAPE Thank you scott it means so much coming from you💗🙂
Life goes by too fast. You’ll see your mom soon enough. But I’m sure she wants you to stick it out until it’s your time. She watches over you.
@@hamcheese9859 Thank you💖
what i do not get is why this industry is not investigated into why these young people are ending up dead at a young age and why are they getting depressed it is disgusting really how these people end up the way they do with no help from the industry
I didnt know he passed. I remember him well as I was a fan of Growing Pains. Depression is no joke. Please take care of your mental health. Get help. No shame in going to therapy.
Did not even know that Boner died. He was a part of my childhood growing up watching all those sitcoms and cartoons back then. Aw man, this sucks. Rest in peace, Boner. The Seavers always has a spot for you at the dinner table. 🙏
I had no idea he had passed. I remember him fondly from Growing Pains and all of the teen magazines out during that era. So sad to hear of his passing, especially that way. It sounded as if he went in a very beautiful place that was special to him. I pray he is at peace, resting eternally with the Lord.
I remember this young man from Growing Pains now . I didn’t realize he had passed . Nor did I know who he was related too . But you sure can notice the eyes of father and son . Very similar . So sad 🥲
I've struggled with deptession since collage (25 years ago). Some days my meds are doing their work and im loving life and other days are bad and the meds arent keeping up. I just have to remember to love for the good days and lean into the people who love me to get me through the bad.
Andrew's death was so haunting to me because how he took his life was very much how i was going to take mine before my friends intervened.
On a lighter note, I do miss Growing Pains. Definitely one of the top 3 best shows of the 80s.
Hey Scott, thanks for the upload. Have a great day and stay safe out there!!
Does anyone have an official count of how many times Kirk Cameron said the word Boner on national television?
As a teenager in the 80’s I just couldn’t believe that the censors at ABC television would allow a character on any type of show to be called “Boner”. And then when Kirk Cameron became a wacko Christian conservative and began thinking everything was a sin, and yet he didn’t seem to object saying “Boner”!!!
@Mike-rk8px my point exactly! He may actually hold the record for saying "Boner" more than anyone else in broadcast television history. The irony is thick
@@Mike-rk8pxMike is not a wacko. He has his beliefs and is doing well in life. No video being made about him ending his life.
Thank you sharing his story. I grew up on Growing Pains and remember him well. R.I.P 🙏🏼
RIP Andrew at peace now. Scott no idea this happened to him. Mental health is no joke. Reach out for help.
Depression is the worse sickness of them all! So Sad!
The 80's had some great theme songs. I had a weird crush on Boner back in the day lol
I had not heard of his passing. I suffer from depression, since my preteen years. It's tough. Thanks for the video and please stay safe. ❤
Thanks Scott😎🇺🇲👍With everything going on I feel AK just got out of the matrix early.When these ,ah, satanists come at someone it usually not at the target but family,animals & friends.I feel many just made it look as if they "died".We will see A again 😎🇺🇲👍
Trippy but auto disturbance 12:30 .
Rip Andrew . My deepest condolences to his loving parents wow .
Thanks Scott
I noticed that too, felt like his spirit was there with Scott. RIP. So sad.
I remember when his character left Growing Pains to join the US Army. For some reason, it broke my heart when his character left. I cried. I wasn't particularly involved with the show or his character but for some reason I felt it was just very sad. Then when he died, it kind of made sense to me why I felt so sad about it. It was like his depression was readable in his acting. RIP Andrew.
Was just telling the old lady how sad that moment was. One of the top 3 saddest moments in tv history for a gen x-er
I remember that episode as well.I cried too. At that time, I was getting ready to graduate high school and was about to join the Army, so that episode really hit home for me, a fellow Gen X'er. I had always hoped that his character would have a long and successful military career, and upon hearing of his death, it just hurt, not knowing that he had been dealing with depression. Rest ever peacefully Andrew.
The film "InAlienable" (2008) is the only film in which both father and son starred together.
He was so talented, I knew him from Growing pains but did not realize all he did. Such a tragic end. Sorry to all those suffering from depression, I as well have suffered for years but fortunately found the right antidepressants. Hang in there and never give up on yourself ❤🙏🏻❤
Depression is horrible and some days you don't want to be here but you power through but I don't wish it on anyone. Your mind can really be your worst enemy
Thanks for another touching vid Scott. So sad when people feel there is no other option, than to take their own lives. Feel for Andrew & all his family & friends, who were affected by his sudden passing.
Rip Andrew Koenig
Omg I had NO idea he was Walter Koenig's son - RIP
He was such a great part of Growing pains. Thanks for the video. Your covered it so well. Thank you
Facts I've been dealing with a lot. Since the passing of my mom,dog. In close proximity to eachother. Grief is horrible did reach out and got help.
I lost my dog only 6 weeks ago, been to 3 funerals since May, and I lost my job... I'm going through it too. Sending good vibes to you, it's tough out there 💟
@bec1036 Wow I'm so very sorry for all your losses. 🫂 💕 Thank you! Stay strong!
Oh wow I didn’t know he passed away
He seemed like a very compassionate person and I hate that this horrible disease took hold of him. RIP to Andrew, and now, his beloved mother Judy. May The Peace which passes ALL understanding be with his dear father, and his family, friends and devoted fans. Thank you Scott for your respectful and thoughtful insight on not just Andrew, but ALL of the people and subjects you cover on your fine channel.
Good Afternoon Scott 🙋🏽. I had forgotten about this Guy. Thank You for reminding me and for inviting me to watch your video. Enjoy the rest of your day ‼️👋🏽
Depression and anxiety are an exhausting nightmare. You don't just think it, you feel it too. My heart breaks for this gentleman and his family. I lost my mom to suicide and I've worked very hard to not let that be me. Thank you for this respectful video. I hope he feels peace. 🙏 ❤
I unfortunately suffer from both anxiety and depression and I hate it so much mainly cause I also deal with chronic stress and some other health issues so yeah
Childhood nostalgia Growing Pains from the 80's. I remember him in the show off and on. Its been years since I have seen the show. So sad to hear about what happened with him and his death. RIP. :(
So many of us have difficult lives, poor and alone, but we get up every day and soldier on. People who are rich, famous and loved wo check out, have no sympathy from me. Weak AF.
Thank you Scott. Every human is valuable and loved. ❤
Scott on tape, I really love this channel you tell the story and really do an amazing job and you are so caring. you do so much of the stuff that i like to watch. Thank you so much.
Another bit of irony here as a Star Trek fan, the actor who played Chekov in the reboot movies, Anton Yelchin, also died tragically in 2016. I believe you covered his site in one of your videos.
Yup, he is not too far from Andrew
Scott seriously you really do a great job and on you’re videos and you’re sincerity
Really comes through strong on compassion for people who are struggling with depression ❤ Bravo
I watched growing pains it was great show
Only in the 80s could you have a kids show with a character named Boner in it and nobody would bat an eye.
Scott you did a wonderful job remembering Michael and you did it so respectfully.
I loved growing Pains! Had a HUGE crush on Kirk Cameron. I remember Andrew from both growing pains and my two dads. Such a sad story - RIP Andrew
"AK-47. Gone but not forgotten." -Jimmy P
WOOOOW I HONESTLY HAD NO IDEA THAT HE HAD PASSED AWAY NOR WHO HIS FATHER IS. THIS IS MY 1ST HEARING ANY OF THIS. I USE TO WATCH THIS SHOW FAITHFULLY ORG EPISODES AS WELL AS THE ORG STAR TREK W/ MY DAD. MY HEART BREAKS FOR THE FAMILY & FRIENDS. I KNOW THAT'S SOMETHING YOU'LL NEVER UNSEE NOR FORGET THAT EXACT TIME OF MOMENT. HE WAS A GREAT ACTOR IN HIS DAY GONE FAR TO SOON. R.I.E.P ANDREW {SCOTT YOU DID AN AMAZING JOB AS ALWAYS THIS WOULD'VE BEEN THE ONLY WAY I WOULD'VE KNOWN WHO HE WAS. EVER STORY YOU COVER IS RESPECTFUL & TASTEFULLY DONE THAT'S WHY I SUBSCRIBE TO ONLY YOURS}
Thank you so much Mrs. Franklin😊
😮 I didn’t know he passed!! Oh wow!
How the heck did they get away with calling someone Boner on TV 😂
He was so talented so sad to hear that he lost his life to suicide! It is to bad he did not seek help for his depression! R.I.P. to Andrew.!
Hi Scott it's other great video thank you keep up good work ❤
His dad is Walter Koenig. Chekhov on Star Trek.
I might have missed something. 3:53 - how does 21 Jumpstreet play into it? Maybe I'm a bit dim tonight, but I just gotta ask.
He loved Vancouver ever since he filmed 21 jump street there
@@SCOTTONTAPE Gotcha. Thanx for clearing that up. Always dig your vids. Haven't commented as much, but always love what and how you present what you share with us. Thanx for everything!
I had almost forgotten this. I remember it now. Thanks for shining a light on this. It could help someone else. 😢
Scott you are such a caring person and it shows in the way you talk about these situations and especially the way you take your hand and clean debris away from some of the graves. I love that. I pray God touches you and blesses you. Thank you
I remember reading when he’d gone missing. It was really sad to discover that he resented the character so many of us enjoyed. I respect it, though. He wanted to be able to be admired for more than a single character. He didn’t see that he was adored because of how good he was at becoming Boner. His depression was clearly not just about that but it’s still sad. I didn’t like the show as much when he left.
It was such a great show back in the day and Andrew played his part in making it great... RIP
Of All The Days To Pass Away Valentine's Day 2010 ... Heart Breaking ❤
HEY SCOTT.......as always from here in tacoma washington...
That’s so sad! RIP Boner!😢
Another very respectful and super interesting video. Much appreciated Scott. RIP Andrew.
Such a sad story. A life cut short. It's crazy what these well known stars go through in their personal lives. We just see them as entertainers with amazing lifestyles but never see the dark side of their story. Very well delivered Scott 😢
You could do a lot of videos of movies filmed in Stanley Park, it's doubled for a lot of US locations from Central Park to Golden Gate Park and the Lion's Gate Bridge has been in a lot of movies and tv shows as well, it's probably best known to horror fans as the North Bay Bridge in Final Destination 5.
Hi Scott, good to see you, it’s so sad what depression does to us, I hope he’s happy now and not suffering anymore. It’s his family that are suffering now, I suffer with depression and PTSD, and everyday is a struggle , but you have to keep fighting and be strong, it’s the strength that keeps me going. RIP Andrew Kooning 💐💐💐💐, you died way before your time. NEVER GIVE UP people. Thank you Scott, you tell it with such compassion. ❤️❤️❤️🤟🏼✌️👍⭐️
@SCOTT ON TAPE Oh I had no idea he had passed away😢😢He reminded me of a young Sean Penn (Jeff Spicoli) in Fast Times At Ridgemont High when he was in Growing Pains….Thank you for doing this video on Andrew Koenig 🫶🏻🙏🏻
I remember reading about his passing. Of course I knew of him from "Growing pains" but had no idea he was Walter's son. I just thought he was a talented individual in his own right who made the wrong decision in the end. No judging here...I pray he's eternally happy now. Thanx Scott for reminding everyone of this talented soul and caring to revive his name for those who have never heard of him. Always love your vids, brother. Until next time, take care my friend.
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RIP Andrew. Wish you knew how much you were loved and didn’t have to suffer alone.
Scott ,i know its way to soon but in the future if only you liked him,would consider talking about him .Martin Mull passed away a couple days ago.i always enjoyed him he was big in the 80s .
Ok, let me lighten up the mood here. Do I dare say it?
Another one in Hollywood looking for a Boner, bahaha.
RIP, keep them laughing.
Lolol
Mental illness is always tough for the sufferer and those around them who love them. I have a friend suffering from depression, anxiety and OCD - known her since we were 14, so around 20+ years of friendship, she was always negative and jealous (it seemed), especially when someone did better than her or won something or got promoted. A lot of friends blocked her over the years. She was hospitalised several times but stops taking her meds (because they seem to lock away her emotions and she doesn’t feel like herself) and spirals again. Best way I can describe it is she is always feeling bad about herself, like everything is grey and the world has no hope left in it, and always acting with a sense of dread that everything will fall apart at any moment and emotions control her, no rationalising with her once she gets upset or angry, just have to ride out the storm. She lives on the 16th floor and I am perpetually terrified I will get the call that she jumped. Her family doesn’t know what to do but keep on taking her to the hospital when it gets too bad.
Great episode!!
I remember hearing and seeing this on the news about Andrew. Sad news. I remember watching him on Growing Pains. Around the same time Marie Osmonds oldest son also took his own life. I went to Stanley Park numerous times in the 80's and 90's. It's been awhile since I was last there. People just don't understand that depression cannot be snapped out of or turned off like a light switch.
my first tatt is going to be the semi colon with the words you matter around it, for everyone who suffers from depression.... another good video, sad but good
I've dealt with depression off/on since the age of 16 and just like other diseases, it's cunning, baffling, and powerful. Here in the United States there is very little help unless you have insurance. Yes, you can reach out to a crisis line or maybe join a support group, but speaking to a licensed professional takes money or finding an appropriate grant unless youre fortunate enough to have insurance. Depression will tell you that nobody cares and search for reasons to validate those thoughts that come in. I don't know how I do it most days. I can emphasize with Andrew.
I feel your pain. Have endured the same struggles all of my life. Those that dont suffer cant understand what it is like.No real help but you learn to cope most days.😞