Self Love Shifts that Changed My Life 💕
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 30 พ.ค. 2024
- These are the self love habits & mindset shifts that have changed my life in the past few years. With these tips, I hope you can build more self esteem and self confidence. I've invited my friend Jasmine Lipska to share her self love tips in this video as well.
Jasmine's video: How to ACTUALLY Love Yourself | • How To ACTUALLY Love Y...
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Thank you for this uplifting video💖 I'd love to watch a video 3 years after. That is now: how it affected you? Were you able to maintain this state of mind?
“When you start taking care of yourself you start feeling better, you start looking better, and you start to attract better. It starts within you.”🙏🏽
So true!
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I thought that I have enough self love that's why I'm confused as to why things did not turn out well as I expected it to be; as this quote says you start to attract better. Does this mean that my self love is still not enough?
Well said!! 💯
@@bellemartin3105the things about you are saying they are not about self love it's about expectations you keep on yourself and on others ....I suggest you to keep away all your expectations and live with a hope that all the things that you want will turn out the way you want so I hope you get it
Expectations make you feel heavier and miserable 💕
1, Listening to your heart and inner voice
2, Disovering and nurturing gifts and strengths, skills, talents
3, Being gentle with yourself
4, Learning to find self worth within
5, Embracing emotions & allowing yourself to feel
6, Finding gratitude in all situations
"Trade your expectations for appreciation. That makes all the difference."
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“Self love is not selfish; you cannot love another until you know how to love yourself” ❤️ THANK YOU Lavendaire!!!
Ya you r right. These r actually my words in my mind, i was searching for last long time. Thank u for this post....
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I agree!❤️
"Be yourself. An original is so much better than a copy." Sending much love to y'all ❤️ 🙏
Yessss much love
Absolutely I agree 👍
Sending love back to you my friend ♥️
Can someone please suggest me a book on how to know ourselves and love and own ourselves?
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To the person reading this:
You are who you are.
You are a gorgeous and beautiful creation.
You are a masterpiece.
You are who you are.
You are strong and courageous.
You can absolutely do it.
You are powerful.
Remind yourself that you are who you are.
Move forward with your determination, and conviction.
You can absolutely do it.
Have a great day ahead,
Remember you are who you are.
❤️❤️❤️
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@@shana3443 ❤️❤️❤️
Thank uu❤
@@souma3861 You are very welcome. I am happy to be here with you
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The person you are going to be with for the rest of your life is YOU. Selflove is everything.❤️
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Amen 🙏💗
Yasss
If you live your life trying to please other people, you end up living THEIR life instead of your own and it's exhausting
Yes I agree
Yess! And im guilty on doing tht
@@ameliabalfour3127 Same here
Fact: u can't breath out of ur nose when ur smiling.
U actually can just made u try it so u would smile.😊
@Liz La Rue thx everybody needs a smile on their face 😊
@Liz La Rue
Oh! Are you ok? Don't worry everything will be fine.☺️💜
@Liz La Rue
Oh! I don't know what you saw , but believe me you can get out of that trauma dear. Just be strong and take care of yourself.(✿^‿^)
AWW THANK YOU
I have schizophrenia and I would like to smoke marijuana. Do you know something about marijuana? What to do? Can you help me?
These last 2 days I've been struggling with overthinking and negative thoughts, I became so hopless.. didn't know what to do with my life or where to go.. I was really lost... no matter how many acheivments I'll have, they don't fulfill me.. my high expectations made me hopless, I felt like no matter what I do, how much I try.. I won't feel fulfilled anyways.. I was just so tired that I didn't want to live any longer... many insecurities.. many fears.. many negative thoughts.. I couldn't take them anymore..
I hated myself, looked down on myself and felt like I'm useless being here in this world...
I've been staying in my room locking the door for 2 days... the only thing I did was crying, sleeping..... idk why it was so hard but I just couldn't control my thoughts anymore, I truly just wanted to die... and till now.. I'm still on my bed lying down here and my door is locked... I just woke up opened youtube and saw this video on the top so I opened and watched till the end...
This video made me remember all those times when I felt worthy, when I felt comfortable being on my own, when I told myself how beautiful I was and how I loved myself....
I can start again..
It's not the end..
I've been watching both of your channels for years and it truly helped me in many ways but I can say this video could stop me from commiting sucide.. reminded me of how to love myself again and keep going...
Thank you
Dear Deya, I'm sorry you feel that way. I beg you to please, take a deep breath, take a shower, go for a walk, call a friend or a family member. Please do look for help. Depression can be very hard to deal with. Don't do it alone, although everything seems so dark and lonely. Please gather your strength and look for help. Much light.
Im struggling with the same thing right now, and i want you that it will be okay. We will get through this together
Deya, God bless you. I am sending the whole of my positive energy you. I hope you're doing well right now. 😍🌼
Omg😭
Something massive that helped me shifted my mindset is to stop comparing myself to others! Reiterating to myself that its my life, so its my timing and my journey, helped so much to love my experiences and journey.
Amazing!! 👏🏻👏🏻
What a great insight!
Yes!! Amen to that 🙌🙌🙌💕
@@TrinityGrowthTH-cam That reallllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllly good
I struggle with listening to my inner voice and gut. I have only recently learned to go with my gut and trust myself. I literally have been living life on autopilot, listening to what my parents, peers, and adults tell me but I have realized i have to make my own decisions. This is super hard since my entire life, I literally never made a decision on my own so it's hard to trust myself. However, I'm really hopeful to finally get to a point where I can listen to my gut.
One thing I do is to write down everything I desire, everything I prefer from a car to a job. It helps me hone who I am, what I want out of life, etc. So when my mom or someone else says something that doesn’t match up with that, I just chuckle to myself. And I’m not a teenager. I’m old.
@@ravenel2 Oooo yes, I have been journaling more and doing more self reflection to figure out what exactly I want. This has been super helpful!!!
Self love kweeeeen ❤️❤️❤️
Queen
@@salikook1393 shut up
@@salikook1393 I have schizophrenia and I would like to smoke marijuana. Do you know something about marijuana? What to do? Can you help me?
Pedro cardozo whattttt💀
@@h4z3l_nut you understood. Can you help me?
“The princess of self-love” now that’s an epic title!!
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Love you Aileen! You are amazing and truly Queen of glow ups 🥰 love all these tips you shared, it’s going to be so valuable for all of us! ❤️
The collab I didn't know I needed in my life 😍😍😍💖💖✨✨ love you both!
Hi Jasmine! I m following your videos for two years. I want to say I m grateful to you.
you both are my inspiration ilsm!
@@itsfaithtime ppppp
I am going through this right now and I’m 39. I wish I made this shift before but was in survival mode that entire time. For anyone else reading this that can relate, it’s never too late!
Creating boundaries,respecting myself and love is my key
Amen sistah ☀️
Self love makes me feel guilty i feel I am being selfish and that thought ruins my happiness
Recently very depressed and stressed with all career choices and social anxiety is eating me out. And seeing this when i need the most is just...
Thank you so much
you got this one step at a time
Me right now. I hope things got better for you love.
A lesson I learned is that you have to put yourself first, because how are you going serve / love on somebody else if you yourself are in a dark place. If you are happy and healthy, you will be a better person for everybody else. You can't give what you don't have. ❤️😊
Confidence, which boils down to self esteem is built on self trust. Trusting yourself and listening to your inner voice is key!
We all deserve the same love we, willingly, give others! ❤️
From a self love content creator to another- great video Aileen! 💕
Yes!! Self love is such an inner battle 💖🙏 it takes continual practice to love and trust and value ourselves ✨
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Whatever you pause on is something you need to hear right now th-cam.com/video/nxt3KaqFvGg/w-d-xo.html ❤❤❤
Sending so much love to anyone watching this and struggling with self-love. It’s a long journey full of lots of moments of growth ❤️ you are doing amazing!
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🙏🙏💖 thank you! You are so sweet :)
love this
I’m going through a break up, i keep begging a guy to stay at me even he told me he doesn’t want me anymore. I figured out what i need is self love, so I woulndt look for the love to another person anymore. Thank you for this!
Hi Nichole. Thank you for sharing and for your openness. I have two videos on my YT channel called, “How to love yourself (when you don’t know how)” and “Can’t let go of the past?” I hope they might be helpful for you.☺️
I release my sadness by watching sad movies and cry a lot. It makes me feel better when I wake up ❤
Ahh sammee 💖🙏 allowing ourselves to feel our feelings is all part of loving and respecting ourselves!
Sameee.. Can you recommend some movies
I really want to listen to my heart and go where it wants me to go but there are people in my life who control it, make me question it which ultimately makes me afraid of what if I’d fail at it and at last those people would criticise me or give unnecessary taunts for following my heart which would otherwise break me as a person too.
Love yourself so much that it overflows and touches all other aspects of your life.
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Your advices are so difficult to do with depression... looking in is already painful, but seeing nothing, , even if people say it's not true, it seems so hard to practice self love. I hope everyone with and without depression will find their path in life. Accepting who we are with our sickness is a challenge that really seem impossible to do.
Emotional trauma can win over you...ONLY IF YOU LET IT! The heart is where your truest and eternal self resides. It is the absolute and complete foundation of your core being. Let it guide you. The heart has always been beside you. 🙏🏽🌿💚❤️
"To fall in love with yourself is the first key to happiness"-Robert Morley. Thank you Lavendaire I haven't felt the best this past week but your videos always spark motivation. 💕
beautiful quote! all about going within & understanding yourself
" Being gentle with myself "
❤❤❤Thank you lavendaire 😇
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Currently I'm coming out of denial that my relationship is indeed toxic. I love this man so much but i have lost myself and am desperate to get back to the woman I was. I need this, because I have just felt so hard on myself. Thank you, beautiful Aileen ❤
One mindset that has really helped me in my self love journey is to remember that self love is an every growing journey and not something to "complete" or "perfect"! 💖🙏✨
its all in the daily work
@@daniellenormand7200 100%!
Sharing our stories and impacting one person is enough to make a change! love this, keep it up!!
your sweet words never fails to warming my heart, thanks aileen💕
Aileen you are amazing ❤️ thank you for showing us how you grew, so that we can grow ourselves
I’ve been battling with low self esteem for so long. I would seek external validation, and it would feel amazing when I received it, but then i would eventually relapse and forget how it felt. I’ve been watching your videos and I’ve learned so much about myself. I need to trust my inner voice🤞🏼 Thank you for the video! ❤️
*8 SELF LOVE SHIFTS* 💖 , as mentioned in this video,
1. Listen to your heart and inner voice
2. Discover and nurture your gifts and strengths
3. Be gentle with yourself
4. Learn to find self-worth within rather than from external validation
5. Embrace your emotions and allow yourself to feel
6. Find gratitude in all situations
7. Know that "What we see in others is a reflection of ourselves"
8. Practice gratitude towards all parts of your body to develop self acceptance
Thanks for the summary, all her points were so spot on!! 💛🙏One thing that really made us happier was to change our negative self talk to a more positive internal language! We just posted a video about it on our TH-cam channel, would love for you to check it out since you seem like such a kind and likeminded person ☺️💛
You are my new favorite TH-camr, these are all REAL ways to get to self love and I’m so thankful!!!!!! Especially the idea feelings fluctuate, we are not our feelings (: thank u!
i have seen my lifestyle shift through gratitude
Oh my gosh, Jasmine's *voice is just so [self] LOVING; it's like a jasmine flower. It's so sweet. I'm so following her :)*
she is so sweet so much value in the video
@@daniellenormand7200 are you subscribed to her? :-)
Omg, I watch all your videos but this one spoke to me like no other. Thank you so much for saying what seems so obvious but we seem blind until someone shows us ❤️
Aileen you're someone who has introduced me to this world of self love and self care. I have so much to thank you for .stumbling upon your channel and podcast was a blessing in disguise ❤
love you ××
The sweetest and genuine smiles exudes when one eventually accepted the worth within him/herself. That smile radiated brightly, Kween!
Yess!! Love both you and jasmine 🙏💕💕✨
Gratitude has completely changed my life! 🥰 "Tell myself, I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU"!! ✨
My two favourite TH-camrs collabing! A dream come true. You guys will never know the immense impact that you have on people's lives ;when you grow, we grow and I am so so very thankful for the work that you do💕💕
Absolutely can relate to all of these shifts! Self love is definitely not selfish! Spot on girl! You cannot pour from an empty cup to help others if you have not poured into yourself! 🙌🏻💞
love love love this. finding love for yourself will always be a journey with ups and downs, but all of these mindset shifts are so important and worth practicing!
I honestly love your videos so much! Can you make self love, self esteem, confidence etc affirmations series to meditate to? 🥺💕
You are honestly so motivating and inspiring ❤️
Great job ladies! Self love is the ultimate gift to yourself. There is only one YOU! Everyone is beautiful in a million ways inside and out. Remember that! Its important to remember this especially in the middle of a global pandemic. Aileen, I have done so much soul searching since Covid struck the world and I know how we how are feeling stuck. You have been an inspiration to all of us and I pray that this all turns around in 2021. I just purchased your planner, artist of life workbook and your notebooks. I'm so excited to receive them and put them to good use. Much love to all 💟
Wow! What a gem!! Going to put it into practice. Great self love actions. Excited to find myself and be more loving to myself. I’m ready to rid myself of the need to get approval from others and think of me. So grateful I found your channel. 🥰🥰
To any one reading this: I want you to know you are loved and you deserve to enjoy the good life has to offer ✨❤️
" Trade your expectations for appreciation " yes!!❤❤
Jasmine & Lavendaire collaboration is the most beautiful thing in the world ❤️❤️❤️ I love both of them 🥰 also, I really appreciate and cherish a more frequent and regular upload from Aileen~ thank you
Your channel has taught me actual reasons to love myself 😘❤️
Love you Aileen💜❤️
U have always been a light in my life and made me realise that I am a light too! Hearty thanks Lavi!❤️
I really happy to see collaboration of Jasmine , Girl in the World and you for a long time.
Jasmine is give me life saving idea. I m really grateful to her.
Your videos have such a calming effect which is what most of us need right now..😌😌❤❤
Love u Aileen!!...
Your soothing voice triggers good vibes in my head because I listen to your mediation clip every morning. The biggest thing that helped me have more sanity is deleting all social media except uplifting YT content like yours.
Love to all 💕
Your advice about not being hard on ourselves made me cry... your words are so gentle, and they made me happy... Praying for you
What I am grateful for this morning : this video, because it makes me realize that again, I am not my emotion, thoughts are clouds. Just watching, recognize them and let them go. Thank you for your amazing work all the time. Hope you have a wonderful day today💕💕💕
I'm 24 and you are so right! I only started listening to my own inner voice and stopped letting society, family and other people dictate my life. It's tough because there will be a lot of criticisms. I'm only trying to understand who I am, what my gifts are and my quirks that I love about me. It's time ,I guess ,to start focusing on myself and reach for my dreams! I might lose a lot of people along the way but that's what it takes for self growth, healing and choosing your own path.
the quotes "change your expectations to appreciation" and "What I see in others, I also see my self" are my favourite takes in the video!
Thank you! I wish I had you as my older sister, life would've been much better.
Hi there. Thank you so much for sharing about your individual journey! I have a new YT channel with mindset coaching content for 20-somethings who want to learn how to LOVE THEIR LIVES no matter when kind of challenges they might be experiencing. I hope it might be helpful for you!
How much u give yourself is how much u learn to give others❤️
Lately my two fav creators, Aileen and Jasmine are collaborating so often on both TH-cam and Podcasts! Love it so much 😍 Thank you
You are a Angle too and you are a LIFE teacher and light to wisdom to many of the people around the world like me You really make a difference in my life you are one of the best people I have ever come across You teach me to look at the world in a different light I really love you and I love it when you post videos like this which truly help us
Nothing better than a mind that is filled with self love ❤️ it’s when you truly find happiness & joy
I used to listen ur every video very Carefully, and these really changed my life. And most important change i found in self is self- dependent through self- love. Self- love is better than fall in love for others. Thanks for these videos. Keep going on in your life. And have bright future ahead. People who will see ur videos will have bright future ahead.
The fact that I follow you only from today makes me surprised, you are such a lovely person. I believe that you will change my life completely, even though I started watching you today my life already changed. Thank you for making me myself, and be productive and organized even for this one day.
sending you and whoever reads this lots of love today! 💕
I’ve legit learnt more in these 14 mins than I maybe have all year about self love. Thank you!!! 💫
Your videos always put me in such a great mood for the day
Aileen giving us back-to-back quality content ❤ these videos are awesome year end gifts to us 🌟
Her voice is so calming
this video feels like a virtual hug
I can't stop watching videos like this, they never get boring
Absolutely right ! Its also a mindset since I was small always feel am not good enough, and was always too hard on myself, always want to get approval from people around me. Now all has been changed, because my mindset has been changed.
The act being grateful to our body parts is really amazing..
i agree so easy to forget to thank our bodies for the hard work they do each day
Self love is probably the most important thing in life, but so underestimated.
Learning and focusing on self love was one of the biggest game changer in my life.
you always come with videos I need the most! thanks for that, I love you so much💛🧡
Thank you for this video. It voices all of my struggles and how I can change for the better 💕
I love all of your gentle, inspiring videos especially those topics about self-love 🌸✨❤️
Hey! It's 16.11 and I have finally turned 18 today!! I was so unsure of how to start this very new adult life journey. I thought about it and I said, "yep! Everything starts with loving yourself." So, this is the video I needed. I'm so excited and I want to know myself more and more. I want to love myself and others, help them and contribute something good and pure to this society. Thank you so much. It's gonna be a great day!!
I'm so glad I finally found this channel. Thank you so much, you've been helping me a lot with your videos.
Thank you for keeping others' mind and heart glow.
Ms. Aileen is the kind of woman the world needs more and more. The tips she shares with us have actual truth in them.
Let's be inspired by her and create our dream life. Keep this in your mind, You Must Take Action!
I love your channel, just became a subscriber and cannot emphasize enough how much I needed these tips! You are wonderful!
It is beautiful to see gentle, motivated young women.
I think we should understand we are all on the same boat and we should be kind to each other: male and female. We all make the difference with the smallest action to ourselves and to other people. Major strenghts are kindness, love, understanding and compassion we give to ourselves and others. 💪
I love the first point. Before this, I tend to put other people first, hearing other people opinion and then I'll follow the flow. But after seing this video, I'll try to follow my inner voice and stand firm with it. 💪🏻
I've just started watching and relate so much to your first point. It really is important to listen to your own voice, but it's not always easy 😫 please make a video on how you made that leap, if you can ❤
I am always confused about how to handle emotions, and you explained it so clearly in no 5. Thank you💕
Your videos help me so much. Thank you for sharing your experiences with us. I appreciate you so much. 💓
Thank you for being transparent and sharing these tips with us all. #self #love #shift 🌸🙏
I wish all people know Ms. Aileen. She's a great and amazing mentor.❤️🕊️
I told myself that I was good at self love, and that it wasn't that hard to grasp. But now I see I was telling myself that when really I was constantly pushing myself over the edge and self destructing... It's time for me to actually love myself.
When I watch your video I always feel good because your topic is very helpful, Thank you Aline😍
you're glowing aileen 💖 ily!!
I really feel so blessed when I starting to watch your videos really connect myself with u
Thank you so much 🥺💕 Your videos have truly helped me so much. You are amazing!
I am still obsessed with your voice.
What's your new plans for 2021?
Can you do Christmas related videos.
Ilysm😍😍😘
I started seeing your video in this quarantine.....I feel so relaxed and motivated ❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️
Learning to find self worth from within rather than from external validation 🥰 you are worthy as you are🪄 WOW just WOW. thankyou so so so much Aileen 🤗 Love & Light to you ❤️
its inspires me so much to see you being so full of love, thank you!
really am thankful for this video 💖 you are loved!