Hi Tracy Thank You So Very Much For Sharing This I Have Been Trauma Bonded For Over 9 Yrs. I Was Recently Hovered For Three Days After Serving The Narcissists Needs He Began Acting Funny With Me As Soon As I Called Him Out He Discarded Me Tracy You Are Absolutely Right .This Person Has Destroyed My Life Know He Is Back Treating Me Like I Don’t Exist.Narcissistic Abuse Is Brutal..I’m Struggling To Detach!!
No one realizes at the time, that discard is the catalyst for learning about yourself and the affliction. Why i needed punished...omg...hurl in mouth.. That is exactly what every night turned into. Your lured to condo hell, then learn your assignment for the evening. Have you ever been told they need to go to work and find out that was a double booking of supply. Holy shit that was evil stuff. After the discard the guaranteed hoover. Like a scripted play... But back to gaining the Surthriver wisdom. What people need to know will happen, regardless if how they feel post discard, is just to hear " one day soon, in the tranquility of no contact, you will realize you were a lucky one to get out what ever way it occurs" . Some dont and are permanently laying flat or cremated into ashes. So let the joy return grasped back in just the nick of time.
@Tracy Malone Did you have a narcissistic stepfather and step siblings? Was your biological father a narcissist? Also what it's like when two narcissists are in a relationship?
Hi Tracy Thank You So Very Much For Sharing This I Have Been Trauma Bonded For Over 9 Yrs.
I Was Recently Hovered For Three Days After Serving The Narcissists Needs He Began Acting Funny With Me As Soon As I Called Him Out He Discarded Me Tracy You Are Absolutely Right .This Person Has Destroyed My Life Know He Is Back Treating Me Like I Don’t Exist.Narcissistic Abuse Is Brutal..I’m Struggling To Detach!!
He had the next victim in tears within 6 months. They don't change.
No one realizes at the time, that discard is the catalyst for learning about yourself and the affliction. Why i needed punished...omg...hurl in mouth.. That is exactly what every night turned into. Your lured to condo hell, then learn your assignment for the evening. Have you ever been told they need to go to work and find out that was a double booking of supply. Holy shit that was evil stuff. After the discard the guaranteed hoover. Like a scripted play... But back to gaining the Surthriver wisdom. What people need to know will happen, regardless if how they feel post discard, is just to hear " one day soon, in the tranquility of no contact, you will realize you were a lucky one to get out what ever way it occurs" . Some dont and are permanently laying flat or cremated into ashes. So let the joy return grasped back in just the nick of time.
@Tracy Malone Did you have a narcissistic stepfather and step siblings? Was your biological father a narcissist? Also what it's like when two narcissists are in a relationship?