Honestly Kamikas channel (the makeup sociopath girl) is one of the best and most informative channels I have ever subscribved to and I would say every man owes it to himself to follow it. Firstly, yes she is a diagnosed sociopath and naricisist but her thousands of followers aren't and they listen to everything she says. You will honestly not get a better insight into what goes on in so many womens minds and how they think, yes it's frightening, yes it's horrific but its also very very informative to be able to protect yourself from these people. They truly are predators and modern society breeds and encourages the kind of sociopathy she talks about. You are very likely to run into someone like her in your life and having an inside look into how they think can be life saving. Another takeaway is that she is open about suffering from severe depression and having made 'attempts', its how she was diagnosed in the first place. So don't think people who act like this are somehow 'winning'. This kind of behaviour and thinking, as she often says, achieves short term goals but over time leads to either prison or horrific loneliness later in life. I feel compassion for these people but at an extreme distance and make sure that niether myself or anyone I care about gets anywhere near there toxic and destructive orbit. Anyway guys, watch her channel and educate yourself.
Is what she preaches not in some form or another endorsing scamming? I've never heard of her but the thumbnail for this video suggests that shes advertising the idea of "dating" men just to take their money. I don't know enough about these things to comment on the matter but I'm curious to learn about how this stuff is allowed to be platformed. (Sociopath girl not roma,)
Dating sites are probably where the sociopaths reside basically a freebee for people tht are seeking people for their stats and ability to market themselves, and they erase the need for initial spark and get women to behave superficially which isnt normally womens natural state regardless. You know the ones with tons of filler and like being spoiled on dates and love to add their venmo and get you to pay for everything and also have tons of trauma from all of the terrible dates.
That make-up-faced-human is surely THE type of woman every man out there M U S T avoid from allowing into their lives, BUT....i disagree with your opinion and its okay if i express mine, right? So, i believe that no, men should not even consider hitting her subscribe button, because she's, if not the worst, a very bad girl and you can understand that by her words and what she says..and yes, words and speech are 2 different things in my opinion, i know they mean the same in English.. anyway, men, i believe, must learn how to "read" a person, analyze their speech, words, behaviour and, yes, their face characteristics...in Greece we say that, you can understand who someone is by looking at their face, because a bad person sometimes can be located by their face... And ye, if men learn how to do so, trust me 100%, they will avoid women like her...and the 2 people that can teach a man this skill is 1) their father and 2) themselves...keep your eyes and perception always active... that's my opinion on your comment, hope its respected 😌
I honestly couldn't imagine shutting my husband down because he showed me emotion.. That's absolutely DISGUSTING!!!! I treat my hubby how I wanna be treated, and vise versa. We've been together for 22 years this spring. He's absolutely my best friend in the whole world. I will NEVER understand how anyone thinks it's ok to shut down anyone else's emotions, ever...
Because they are narcissists. If it’s not about them then they are not interested. I have met some narcissts and it’s scary how lacking of humanity and compassion they have for fellow humans they possess. It’s truly disgusting. I don’t know if we do actually have approximately 75% of NPCs in population of the world right now but when you see people like this self professed sociopath and it’s so trendy I can’t help but believe we have a majority of soulless characters that are acting on presets and will not change nor can they.
I happens, men show soft feminine feelings it's a major turn off. You're either stoic and show none or say you'd like to x/y/z your pig of a boss women find that hot.
@@RobKMusic awww thank you but I'm also really sorry to hear that man... Sometimes I think women forget men have feelings too.. my dad told me how my mom made him feel, she never tried to hang out with him she never said pay thanks for doing what you do thanks for being you. But she expected that.. it goes both ways, men like to feel wanted too, they also like to know that they're special to you too, and you give a💩... Men aren't made of Stone.. it's human to want to feel wanted, it's not a woman thing or a man thing it's just a human thing. I'm really sorry you feel like you live with a roommate instead of a partner... Nobody should have to feel like that, I really am sorry you feel that way especially since you've been together for so long... A little communication goes a long way Just try to talk to her man Tell her how you feel. I know it's not always that easy and everyone's different not everyone's easy to talk to and I don't know her but just try to communicate with her and tell her how you feel Do you think that's something that you could do? Do you think she'd listen to you? I don't know what kind of a person she is or anything. But I know it's not okay to feel unwanted especially when you have spouse of almost 30 years... I'm sorry you feel that way I really really am..
Your the definition of a real woman. God bless you and your family. I retired from it all. Not because I cant get a girlfriend. Its getting one like you.
It's so hard to find another woman like my wife. She was an exceptional woman who truly loved me and stuck with me until death. This woman stayed with me even when we lost everything and were homeless. Someone robbed and burned our house down I lost a lot of collectables like gold rare coins in the area of 2 million. I went from rich to homeless in the snap of a finger I told her to go to her father's and that I would come here once I found a place to live. She slept on the street with me she lifted me back up I had given up I was done this would have been the 3rd time I lost everything. The first time I went to jail the 2nd time my fiances attacked me lied to the police an put me in jail and then the fire. I wanted her to go to her father's so I could just waste away. I think she knew this which is why she stayed with me. Money meant noting to her and then she passed away. She took her vows seriously and she didn't abandon me even when I had abandoned myself.
You are part of an older generation. A generation where people had morals and values. Sadly that has passed and the new norm is to be a horrible human being thats self entitled and don’t care about the repercussions of their action. A new world where opinion equals fact. Truly a great time to be alive…
My parents never had a Hollywood romance, but they had something every couple scattered across media does not have: substance. Connection, loyalty, TRUST. My dad’s a huge jokester who likes to play pranks on my mom, but the second he says “trust me”, she knows she can rely on him to protect her and not scare/bother her. She knows his food just the way he likes it, and he knows her favorite places to eat at. They love to listen to 80’s bands together, and I feel SO blessed to be a part of a whole family unit, and have had parents who did everything they could for my siblings and I. My parents never divorced, they said that they brought kids into the world together, they’ll raise them together. If after the kids are over 18 they wanna divorce, they will. Well, I would be delighted to tell you that my youngest sibling is 23, and my parents are still together.
You are always welcome at my table because you make me laugh while helping me finally stop chasing losers when the person who actually cares about me became apparent. once you showed me some ways to see through the manipulating bullshit I could see genuine attraction in the very most wonderful woman in my long life so far
True story y'all I know My worth and uniqueness however skewed is not to be mistreated like I've been in the past and the lights are on my friends, I found the best friend stepping out of my comfort zone and being the way I feel like I should be again finally. Now I'm on a new trajectory of my own choices not what some insecure manipulative vampire demands of me to be this person who cannot ever please the beast even though I did everything asked, expected or demanded to be a man by the gaslit shit fed like a program that will never achieve that height so I been on my own doing me for two years now and now the difference is like climbing out of a sewer system that I chose once but now the life is mine to enjoy thriving and sharing with the by far best woman I've ever met that I had no chance of meeting otherwise so yeah the shit it real and the life you deserve isn't far away guys, just climb out wash that shit smell off and find your own purpose not simping for a lie and endless agony that will leave you hollow alone and spent unless you stop that shit cycle far beneath your true path
Finding out that you were bipolar is difficult, but needed as it helps you understand yourself. I am bipolar myself or as they call it manic-depression and I feel like I’m always tearing at the seams of my mind especially since every relationship I get into is just me being taken advantage of but, for some reason I’m just stupid stuff out of the way. I just want a supportive woman that is all about me and helping me as much as I help them. I always put the most into every relationship as I see it important
I’ve honestly been looking forward to you reacting to Kanika’s videos and bring this stuff to light. She claims that women should be more sociopathic in the dating world which would only lead every man to get taken advantage of and every woman’s ego overflowing. It’s also worth mentioning that Kanika is bisexual and claims that she would NEVER manipulate or take advantage of a woman. She targets men and it’s very frightening seeing what men have to go through in the dating world these days.
That's interesting, but I sort of doubt that she wouldn't manipulate her girlfriend. I think she still would manipulate a girl, but it will be in a different manner. As she would manipulate her to treat men worse and make herself look better. Would want to have validation from her. Have her gf be her flying monkey. I have seen this sort of thing happen firsthand. One of my ex's manipulated our female friends to view me as abusive, while my ex was the one who was being abusive toward me. It validated my ex to keep escalating the abuse towards me and reinforcing her fantasy of being the victim. Isolated me from others because I was being slandered.
I was injured 10 years ago and have been disabled since. I’ve been unable to work because of chronic neurological pain that I will have the rest of my life. Which means I’m on a number of different medication‘s the rest of my life which carry their own stigma’s. I was a very successful, law-enforcement officer for almost 20 years. When I got divorced and gained custody of my son’s life really started to turn around but very quickly, while training at the gym I suffered a spinal cord injury. Leaves me needing use of a walker. When I see women like this, I am reminded of the same women who’s dating app profiles would read that you have to take care of their children before your own. You must take care of them financially before yourself, etc. etc.
Straight up, I love how you talk about mental awareness. I'm struggling to tackle mine , and know once I get to talking to someone I'll feel better. I thank you so damn much for helping me WANT to get there. You're an inspiration in many ways. Thanks for being you!
You're so easy to listen to. I find it so refreshing that a young woman cares enough about the difficulties men face to actually listen to us, learn from us, and SPEAK UP FOR US. You are rational and fair towards men and I'm definitely gonna keep listening.
You're a strong person. The battle is a long one until things get balanced for you. Thanks for looking into your condition. I appreciate you sharing. I'm a subscribed, long term watcher of your channel. First time commenter. But this needed a comment. Love ya girl! Life will get better and you'll be amazed at the difference in how you feel. The only mistake could make at this point is ignoring it and thinking you can handle it alone. I can't wait to hear how your doing on future episodes.
Roma, I'm Autistic. I have my struggles. I'm an introvert. And I'm perfectly ok being imperfect it's who I am I embrace it. Yet, the way I think the way I process things and my communication skills will always have a level of awkwardness and weirdness to it. I don't know how to talk to people. It's why I don't even have friends because of that. I tried it all out. I tried meetups I tried to put myself out there and when it comes to something as simple as friendship nothing came from it. When it comes to relationships it's even worst. Because here is the thing. All the women I've ever met they want a friendship they want something that builds. And the women I have met either wanted to stay just friends or they just down right rejected me. Every time I talk about this I catch crap I'm told that it's my own fault. Etc. Well if that's what the consensus is than why should I have any incentive to keep looking for friends or love? I've heard everything under the sun. People not recognizing that I have issues. So I gave it up. I become a lone wolf and I just accepted that. I'm not sad. I'm actually happy. I'm building my company. I'm getting healthier. I'm feeling great! People say love will come my way. For me it's to late because I'm going to be the one turning it down even if it does come to me. Sorry for the long comment. But I'm just tired of it all and it's why I gave up. I don't believe in the mgtow movement and this isn't anything related to that. It's just me tired of taking crap. If people out there make me to be a menace fine. I'll remove myself from society and just live in my own distant space from the world around me. Simple!
Bro just focus on your money and go d/r or colombia and find ureself that lady... Women in Europe and America are on drugs. Our generation is facing the changes the other generations have made lawfully... It's going to get worse as new generations come. ✌🏾 Bro
I feel that finding other people who are strange and different has always worked out for me. I'm pretty sure I'm on the Autistic Spectrum, especially with being intersex. The strange people have been my friends. I don't think that I have had any good friends who are normal. I don't have many friends, but the people who I'm friends with we definitely have a connection that's valued by me and them. A lot of them are also socially awkward in some way and to some extent introverted.
You want a friend? Be a friend. Real simple. Autism is no excuse. Mere fact you use it as a crutch is a prime indicator you don't have it. 🫥 Like the fat person eating cheese blocks and ice cream saying "my genetics make me fat." 😐
Mentology...I want you to know something, man. I don't know how old you are but I'm 45 myself. I've seen a lot come and go, I guess. I'm sure that reaching these conclusions that you're done with it all and there's nothing more for you but self improvement and your own inner landscape is comforting in some ways. You don't have to worry about failed attempts at forming relationships any more. I get it. Been there. I want you to know that you shouldn't be so sure that you'll always be this way. Life is very unpredictable. You never know what's around the next bend no matter how sure you think you are. Surprises happen. I'm not trying to talk you out of your current mindset or attempting to initiate a change in you. I'm just saying don't be so sure that things will always be the way you think they will. Sometimes good things happen just to spite you. Be open to it. Take care.
@@jerm2011 I appreciate that. I’m 38 myself. Had a birthday in December. The reason I made certain decisions was just because I’m tired. I’m exhausted and honestly I just wanted peace that’s it. I wanted to feel good and feel happy with my life and doing something great with it so i put a hard stop to many things that were noise and getting in the way and made a plan and started executing it. Part of what I said is because I’m introverted along with my autism and mental struggles I thrive and achieve so much when I’m a lone wolf. I prefer to remove myself and create my own lane far from anyone else. That’s it. I did self reflecting and when I realized that I’m at my finest being removed it’s when i said to myself why fight it? Know what I mean? But I know exactly what your talking about because great things have happened in my life. The reason I decided to stay alone though is because of who I am. I’m not built for that life. And I need to own that and run with it. I’ll talk to a woman if she talks to me. I’m not going to just ignore people. But I’m also not actively going to make finding love a priority. My life will be my priority. I appreciate your word though. Thank you!
Very proud to see you taking charge on your mentality . You absolutely got this, because you have passion, humor, and common sense. You're cared about by a lot of people. Giving you the support you give us. May God bless you warrior.
I wanted to thank you for everything you are saying and doing! I am a 14 years married man with 4 children. Coming to the realization that my marriage foundation isn't what I thought it was. Keep up the fantastic work!!
Honestly, it's really cool to hear about your experience with mental health. It may make someone realize what this dark feeling inside his heart is. You are an angel, Roma❤
LOVED, LOVED, LOVED the constructive criticism on the profiles!!! I learned quite a lot 'listening' to the suggestions you gave!! Many I could use on my own profile but never even thought to look at my profile that way!! Different perspective that might not otherwise had been realized. Thanks for opening my eyes!! I loved this video!!! Hugs - Greg Leonard 💜💗💜
Oh my gosh you just reminded me! I watched the whatever podcast the other day where the girl said she was a feminist and believed in equality but was vehemently against having to pay half for a date. The podcaster was trying to explain that it goes against feminism/equality but it was not computing for her.
What a good video! I usually watch your shorts, but this is the first full length video I've watched from you (I think). I don't do modern insanity, I mean dating, but you give good advice IMHO. And very congenial, and some things very deep. Your demeanor & speech (when you're not being hilariously funny or bitingly sarcastic/dramatic) is very heartwarming...& UN-cruelly honest, objective, & encouraging. That's a hard combination for many, but you do it naturally. 👍👍👍
That's how I feel from time to time. I thought it was because I'm divorced at 49 but even if everything is perfect I still get into a funk and stay depressed for days. I appreciate you being up front with your mental health. That's not a easy thing to do so again, thank you.
I have severe bi polar 2, and also BPD. Man… those highs are SO HIGH, but that’s usually when I do stupid add shit. When I’m depressed is when I’m too fatigued by my brain to do anything stupid lol. Anyway, I hope that you’re in a state that actually helps people. Since I got out of the EXTREMELY abusive relationship with my ex of 5 years, I have a hard time doing anything, but time heals, and motivation heals. Even if it’s just “man I wanna see the sunrise off those mountains” just to get up and hike. And now I’ve grown, I’m healthier, it’s better. It gets better you guys. I promise. Anyway, thank you Chloe, you’re a beautiful, wonderful, and empathetic person. And you helped me.
Ohmygod Roma thank you so much for making this content, I'm a man I'm 35 and I've been through some stuff. But hearing a woman make these points is a massive relief and I have been stuck for the last hour watching your videos and I appreciate you so much thank you. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I'm one of the those guys that got emotionally destroyed in a divorce. I have completely given up on dating/women/ sex... etc. As you mention, the most important thing for me is really, a connection, emotional & physical sharing. I suffer from PTSD/ Major Depression & Anxiety. Divorce was 2017. I suffered mental and physical damage... both I still deal with today... It effect's my daily life & the ability to maintain a job..... It's a HORRIBLE spiral after a divorce & it's a real muthafucka to climb out of that hole. Thanks SO much for voicing the trauma men go through. It's good to keep it real. To hear it from a young woman adds hope that maybe in time the single male population has hope. I have given up to the extent I got a vasectomy. I don't have any desire to be "trapped" in some ploy by someone I was seeing or dating at the time.
Yes I have. Only I was the abuser. I had sever trauma from growing up in the system making it out manifesting a toxic personality becoming successful and having a God complex. Not to mention the fact I was using drugs for 27 years and not thinking I had a problem nor did I care to do anything about it. So yes. I work on myself daily as well as try and offer what I have learned through multiple outlets. Thank you
You are one of a kind Chloe. I hope and pray that I can find someone as kind and beautiful as you are. Whomever is lucky enough to be your next man is a very lucky guy indeed. It is so rare to find anyone these days that cares about anyone besides themselves, much less us guys out there. Thank you very much. Even though your not talking directly to me, it makes me feel like there might be someone with a heart like your that might give me the time of day and care about me so , again, thank you.
I also suffer from manic depression and I know exactly what you mean for the past few days I’ve been watching your videos as I’ve been in one of my down spirals and I wanted to let you know that your videos really make me feel better about myself thank you
Thank You Roma I’ve been divorced for over 4 years now from a toxic marriage we were toxic to each other my ex told me to kill myself I cheated on her and she provoked me to hit her and. I felt like I didn’t deserve anyone. I got back my confidence over the years I’m going to therapy now and I’m taking anxiety pills.
Literally the entire world needs to be watching your channel. You are amazing and I don't know how you do not have a line of men trying to knock down your door.
I was diagnosed severe bi polor 2 over 30 years ago. Been on every medication out there. After many years of trial and error Lithium was the only drug that seemed to help without any crazy side effects. Good luck roma 🙂
That's wild because usually lithium is the first drug they try. It can be a pain in the ass getting blood levels drawn evert month though. I only has my doctor switch me to Lamictal because of that. Lamictal helps me but unfortunately nothing stops flare ups. All you can really do for that is to catch yourself getting hypomanic and knock it back with a benzo of your doctor's choice. That's how I handle it but damn! Hypomania is so fun after a depressive episode.
@@joanncaribbeanfan4505 yea but those manic highs can be dangerous too lol... after dealing with this illness for over 30 years ive finally been able to stop all meds and learn to deal with it... that took 30 years to master tho.. u eventually get use to the signals and come up with natural ways to counter act them rather than drugs. Its the best way imo. The meds can help but they are only temporary and never work forever... at least thats how it always was for me.
Glad you found something that works, but doesn't lithium just numb your feelings, and doesn't it completely wreck your sex drive? For some, that's worth it, but I'm just curious.
Just found your channel! It's amazing! I'm a very rational guy and I like to think over the question that I get, and don't just follow. (okay, I tend to think way too much) The question at 19:55 I would not be able to answer. In my opinion it's impossible to make an order. All 3 things are equally important. We miss one, and the relationship will not be complete, will not work. There is an order of these things coming when we meet and get to know someone, but the value of them are equal. Also, it's a misunderstanding about "men only look for sex". When men are looking for a partner, the first thing they follow is how attractive (also sexually) the girl is. What else could we look for before knowing the girl? This is the only "information" we have. But it doesn't mean that we don't want to spend quality time and have emotional connection, or that we would have sex without emotional connection. I can not open up sexually without emotional connection...and im a man.
I meet men like this blonde fake woman- but I do believe that good men do exist. Any woman who think this blonde fake b is good to listen to: You should adopt a dog from a shelter before ending up eaten by 20 cats. But in same time I am afraid about safety of those animals...
Really like this video. I've seen a bit of your video's now and back most of what your talk about. I love the help on the dating profiles and pointing out these men need to demand respect and have confidence!
I got SOOOOO LUCKY that I found a really wonderful woman! She doesn't want to change me, she is kind to me and works hard to show how important I am to her. She gives me her all and makes me want to give her my all. There are amazing women out there but men need to be aware of women that are fake and then who start trying to change you. You need to be aware by watching this awesome channel. Roma, you rock! I LOVE what you are doing. Thank you 🙏🏻
i am lucky to have found someone like that, too. smart, knows what she want's or doesn't, kind to everyone, really sexy, cuddly with a great sex drive. never wanna let go of her.
@@0815tralala I am very happy for you! People like that certainly are out there still. Just gotta be careful who you choose. And it's so important to just not choose to be with somebody just cause of their looks. Looks certainly are important but the "whole package" is most important for a good long lasting relationship.
16:45 reminded me of my first (and thankfully last) long-term relationship. I was expected to wait on her hand and foot, and I did everything I could do to keep her happy. But if I was ever sick or just having a rotten day, I got zero support from her. I feel like I dodged a bullet by never marrying.
@georgemacdonell2341 Thank you. It was a learning experience if nothing else. I don't want to give the impression that I was the perfect partner, of course there were times when I could have been better to her, but I was loyal to a fault and never raised my voice or did anything to hurt her. It's been a little over two years since we amicably separated and I'm much happier being single now.
I watched this for the second time now, and I have seen some of Kamika's videos, which are great advice for men on what not to do. Kamika really seems to drag the concept of "high Value" through the mud. Yes, being high value is about being your best self, by being healthy, confident, and looking great by being clean. High value is certainly not about being pompous and arrogant. Kamika's videos are actually a vivid picture into why men now avoid women in the dating world. Chloe, I love your videos, because they are direct and honest. I find nothing "harsh" about the truth you deliver here Chloe, because you say things the way they need to be said, with out sugar coating the truth. Life is not always nice. Kamika actually reminds me of a radical feminist professor I had in college who said to me once: "Howard, I'm sure you seem like a nice person," And I stopped her in mid sentence saying: "Excuse me, but you do not even know, so please do not assume anything about me." She may have meant well, but I saw so much bad behavior in her classroom to make a judgement call. She would often call out women who disagreed with her as "not being real women." That was a sad time, but that professor actually got kicked out of that college for misconduct.
The level of intelligence and intellect you possess is beyond attractive and way past cool . Light years past anyone else you’re age and most people three times older. You are a true blue gift to humanity and I would love to meet you someday
Preach Roma; men with great jobs, multiple income streams, who invest in themselves, grow their skills; those kings are the prize. No wonder a growing number of men are going overseas for connection & love
I'm so glad I found you. You're more lewd than I am, but you also appeal to to men for that reason and that's great. I'm getting married in a couple months (67 days) and the horrible stories my fiancé has told me could turn your gut. And a lot of that is naivety, which I love about him, but also scares me for his sake. I'm just happy to be able to cook his meals every day and take care of him now. I'm looking forward to watching more of your videos.
I have PTSD and living in a place like NYC is the worst, non stop chaos, noise, violence, horrible people, where you live matters! It can actually make things worse for any mental illness your environment is very important and many people do not realize that.. living in a place where everything is negative can perpetuate the condition.😔
I feel you on the mental health thing. I've spent the past two and a half years since my last girlfriend, who traumatized me both mentally and emotionally, either at work or locked away in my room by myself. I've let my friendships wither, my physical and mental health has been getting worse and worse... I've become indecisive and passive and just... completely numb to any and all forms of social interaction beyond the absolutely necessary. I have no idea how to pull myself up and out of it though.
Put it this way. About a year ago, I went to a nice and fancy resteraunt in Detroit. Im from the country and had a mullet at the time. 4 people complimented my hair. One guy even said he was trying to grow one himself and he hoped it looked similar to mine. That made my entire week even with my family having a meltdown right there. I still think about that cause it made me feel really good that people not only noticed it, but thought it looked good. Thats the kinda stuff that sticks with guys. The smallest things make a world of difference
I listen to her to make myself aware of the tactics sociopaths use to ensnare people, not to get instructions. Edit: to a sociopath no one is considered a human being, she's also bisexual so it's not just men at risk from her tactics.
Thank you so much for your outspoken and honest critiques. Hopefully more men will watch your videos and consider these suggestions for their own pages. I can't tell you how much it means to hear a lady speaking out for men's rights. When a man speaks for his own rights it is always taken negatively. You (and women in general) are able to say the things we aren't supposed to, at least not without stigmatisms and profiling. If men try, well.. you know how poorly it will go. Again, thank you!
I do believe that when you did the poll about men telling other men to man up, it was more along the lines coming from a best friend after a breakup and telling them to just move on stop thinking about it and it was coming from a good place. And when you're talkin about the woman doing it to the man it's definitely not coming from that type of a place it's coming from a place where they don't want to stay with you anymore
Hey Roma, I haven't watched one of your podcasts before, but I have to give you kudos for the 'Roma Romance' dating profile section. You said that you're 'brutally honest', but I honestly thought you came across as genuinely honest/witty/charming. I can tell you as a guy who feels like I've spent half my life (because I have) trawling dating profile sites and apps and not really getting anywhere (although let's be honest it is TOTALLY stacked against average guys, hell, even some of the 'Chads' out there!), I found it quite refreshing that the advice you gave out very much mirrored what I was saying here out aloud while watching it. Keep up the good work and look after yourself 😎
So please, enlighten me to more work by Socrates involving mental health, its direct relationship with the occult, conditioning vs culture, repeating history, & how neo-feminists behave.. Ancient philosophers can hold great knowledge socrates no exception, & im sure much has been left untranslated, can you read ancient Greek Harry? Or should we stick with a modern, english speaking teacher that provides work more relevant to the topic being discussed?
That bit about poor women. My wife was poor when I met her. I'm not exactly flush for cash either. She is the most financially responsible person I have met. I'm not bad at finances but she absolutely destroys me in ability. I helped her out a lot in the early days. Now she is carrying us while I am struggling. It's a teamwork thing.
Dating sites literally force women to be superficial when that's not their natural state (so it doesnt reflect normal women), it also erases tht need for initial spark. Being alone is better than being forced on a website with women tht are being used on a website, and are therefor acting spitefully.
i wish you all the best... being bipolar is a very serous issue, my girlfriend is bipolar and it's a rough road to run ... please never be afraid to ask for help if you feel you need it. a great hug.
... same, 6 years ago. I can do anything I want or nothing at all, zero complaints. I'm soo happy I giggle from time to time. I catch myself giggling ten times a day most days.
I love how you put evil people on blast. Your the female Andrew Tate. We all love the truth you bring out. As someone who had bad depression I recommend medication, Journaling, and the last part is if you're feeling depressed go do something you would rather do it helps take your mind out of the downward spiritual ❤
Looking radiant in this one. I suffer from symptoms like that I also get periods of being extremely energies and other occasions when I get extremely lethargic and down.
When men and women date it's all psychological... The men are logical, the women are psycho 🤣, Honestly I just found your channel, have watched a few videos and I think they're good, not that I need my rights to be defended. I don't date, I was a single father until my son turned 19 and moved out, I've got a shitty appartment, have no car and I'm a solid 3 (3.5 after a hair cut) and apart from that I generally ignore other people whether they talk to me or not... I'm a happy, single, ugly old fart lol
They are actually the one's that are emotionally immature and trainwrecks, to the degree where often when they get that in check they're on par intellectually. Thing is many are socially manipulative geniuses.
Roma, I am also living with Type2 Bipolar, which is under control with medication. Had therapy in the past, but no longer have it. You're doing the right thing, its too big to fight without somekind of edge. Hang in there, best of luck.
28:31- lmao I am dying right now! Not literally (but I was almost about to type that. But then remembered I’m not a teen girl!) I was laughing so hard and it started out of nowhere that I started coughing until it hurt a little (that’s something else though)! When you were asking what do people call those glasses the first thing out of my mouth was “um, d-hey. D-bag” just joking to myself. And when you said it I was done!!!
I suffer bipolar disorder too and have done for many years. I’ve learnt that although having this condition really sucks I try to make the best of my euphoric moments to achieve things that I may struggle with when my mood is low. Having a daily routine helps and you learn your own coping strategies to the point I don’t need medication now and it’s only called for if I’m going through a really bad time. So I really hope that you can reach that point too Love your work passion and hope you keep up all that you do Bless be 🙏🏽
Roma, good for you about your diagnosed challenge. I am walking a similar path with similar internal feelings. i like to cite capacity as a strength of mine, but am finding that my tolerance generally is much lower. I chalk that up to wisdom. Keep doing what you are doing...
I don't know if somebody even read what I commented on a previous of your videos saying I was concerned about your mood because I saw certain sadness in your face... Now I know what was it all about, and I am SO GLAD that you have targeted it and doing something about it.... I'm really proud of you!
I really feel like I speak for a lot of men when I say I'm glad to see you took the time to actually look at things from a man's view and realize it's hard to be a man and most women don't understand or care that it's not easy for us like most women think it's easy to be a man
Thank you for everything you're doing for us I appreciate you and I really like the way you are just like me, calling stuff out, as you know, it ain't rocket science
Hello Roma. I truly appreciate you defending us good man. Story of my life. I’m too nice for my own good. I just recently date a Narcissist woman. It was short but she left a scar on me. Never experienced this.
Hey, I feel for you because I was there. And that book about core values from Steven Snozny really worked out for me, and it's very easy to read and follow. I've been trying to get a hold of you to buy and do a book review. It may not be for everone, but I've been teaching people things in this book, since 1995. My dad and mother in law was preaching to me, and I was teaching street kids unknowingly the same thing. It works if you want it to work. That's why I am med free. ❤ I wish you the best luck and wish you a strong recovery. 😉 😘
Going morning Chloe I hope that you are doing well today 💗 I enjoy your videos every day and the content therein. Finally I have found a true friend in you who truly cares about men's lives and relationships. You are a very talented and beautiful woman I love the way you keep it real and how knowledgeable you are about both sides of the dating world. Take care and I hope you have a great day today 💗 thank you for putting your efforts
So happy you're finding ways to make you a happier stronger you. I do believe someone as amazing as you deserves to be happy most the time and strong enough to overcome when you're not 🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀
You are the reason , I don't wanna give up what I'm throwing up as a last chance at my heart to only Roma , hear me Roma Army Ladies. Man up , let me speak . Preach. I would love to write beats for you and your channel (Roma family) forever ♾️🍀♾️.
Welcome to the exclusive club . You will learn to deal with it a few pointers to help you. Sleep is extremely important a late night can make you have bad day after and it can escalate from there. most important is take it slowly and adapt. it will impact your life in the most uninspected ways that will surprise you . Really good help exist out there ,For me I have been medicine free for years now but make no mistake it was no easy way to get there. Its really brave of you to be open of your disease because the stigma is really rooted in society. For me and others the best way to tackle the disease and society is to be open about it. You are awesome ❤❤❤❤❤
you are such a badass i love the vibe you have and give off. also your content is amazing and has helped me a frick ton in my current lifestyle. youve given me a better perspective on a lot of different things that i had a bit skewed and now i have refined those issue all thanks to your advise and understanding. again thank you for being a pillar for me to be able to lean on when i seek guidance.
Ty for giving good guys hope that there are still good women out there. You are such a breath of fresh air, i think im in love lol. You are a true gem ❣️😊
Chloe, you are not wrong about the dating game these days. I've been divorced for about 9 yrs now and I have been with 5 women during that time. Everything will be fine as long as I'm spending money on them but the moment I try to start talking about being more than a good time or a free ride and express that I want something long term. Someone that I can trust is going to be there on Monday as well as Friday, they all of a sudden just want to be friends. Witch means they still want all the benefits of having a boyfriend without giving anything in return. What witch is the biggest line of b. s. I've seen or heard in a long time. So your not wrong about this subject at all.
That woman is exactly why i stopped trying date be as good of partner i can be... So now i am the type content on being single. If happens cool but not holding my breathe as all good woman are taken which makes sense....keep up great work ty for actually seeing truth and speaking out....
I am a city girl too BUT I LOVE the picture of Isaac with the deer. I’m not looking at the deer, I’m looking at how attentive his dog is to him. That dog ADORES him. If a dog can love him like that, he’s a GOOD GUY! People, a dog knows.
lol I'm also bipolar II struggling to find a provider cause I think I need to go back on mood stabilizers I'm just too hypomanic to sleep so I'm binge watching your videos all night XD
My spouse has this as well. I understand your suffering but I also believe it can bring some positive personal traits along with the struggles. All I ask is to give patience/understanding to your loved ones as it is not easy on them as well. That being said, I’ll take my spouse with Bipolar than not have her at all. I love her with all my heart.
Honestly Kamikas channel (the makeup sociopath girl) is one of the best and most informative channels I have ever subscribved to and I would say every man owes it to himself to follow it. Firstly, yes she is a diagnosed sociopath and naricisist but her thousands of followers aren't and they listen to everything she says. You will honestly not get a better insight into what goes on in so many womens minds and how they think, yes it's frightening, yes it's horrific but its also very very informative to be able to protect yourself from these people. They truly are predators and modern society breeds and encourages the kind of sociopathy she talks about. You are very likely to run into someone like her in your life and having an inside look into how they think can be life saving. Another takeaway is that she is open about suffering from severe depression and having made 'attempts', its how she was diagnosed in the first place. So don't think people who act like this are somehow 'winning'. This kind of behaviour and thinking, as she often says, achieves short term goals but over time leads to either prison or horrific loneliness later in life. I feel compassion for these people but at an extreme distance and make sure that niether myself or anyone I care about gets anywhere near there toxic and destructive orbit. Anyway guys, watch her channel and educate yourself.
Ya learn not to date 90% of women!
Keep your friends close and keep your enemies closer
Is what she preaches not in some form or another endorsing scamming?
I've never heard of her but the thumbnail for this video suggests that shes advertising the idea of "dating" men just to take their money.
I don't know enough about these things to comment on the matter but I'm curious to learn about how this stuff is allowed to be platformed.
(Sociopath girl not roma,)
Dating sites are probably where the sociopaths reside basically a freebee for people tht are seeking people for their stats and ability to market themselves, and they erase the need for initial spark and get women to behave superficially which isnt normally womens natural state regardless. You know the ones with tons of filler and like being spoiled on dates and love to add their venmo and get you to pay for everything and also have tons of trauma from all of the terrible dates.
That make-up-faced-human is surely THE type of woman every man out there M U S T avoid from allowing into their lives, BUT....i disagree with your opinion and its okay if i express mine, right? So, i believe that no, men should not even consider hitting her subscribe button, because she's, if not the worst, a very bad girl and you can understand that by her words and what she says..and yes, words and speech are 2 different things in my opinion, i know they mean the same in English.. anyway, men, i believe, must learn how to "read" a person, analyze their speech, words, behaviour and, yes, their face characteristics...in Greece we say that, you can understand who someone is by looking at their face, because a bad person sometimes can be located by their face... And ye, if men learn how to do so, trust me 100%, they will avoid women like her...and the 2 people that can teach a man this skill is 1) their father and 2) themselves...keep your eyes and perception always active... that's my opinion on your comment, hope its respected 😌
I honestly couldn't imagine shutting my husband down because he showed me emotion.. That's absolutely DISGUSTING!!!! I treat my hubby how I wanna be treated, and vise versa. We've been together for 22 years this spring. He's absolutely my best friend in the whole world. I will NEVER understand how anyone thinks it's ok to shut down anyone else's emotions, ever...
Because they are narcissists. If it’s not about them then they are not interested. I have met some narcissts and it’s scary how lacking of humanity and compassion they have for fellow humans they possess. It’s truly disgusting. I don’t know if we do actually have approximately 75% of NPCs in population of the world right now but when you see people like this self professed sociopath and it’s so trendy I can’t help but believe we have a majority of soulless characters that are acting on presets and will not change nor can they.
I happens, men show soft feminine feelings it's a major turn off. You're either stoic and show none or say you'd like to x/y/z your pig of a boss women find that hot.
I envy your husband. I'll be MARRIED 29yrs this year and I can't tell the last time my "roommate" gave me the time of day.
@@RobKMusic awww thank you but I'm also really sorry to hear that man... Sometimes I think women forget men have feelings too.. my dad told me how my mom made him feel, she never tried to hang out with him she never said pay thanks for doing what you do thanks for being you. But she expected that.. it goes both ways, men like to feel wanted too, they also like to know that they're special to you too, and you give a💩... Men aren't made of Stone.. it's human to want to feel wanted, it's not a woman thing or a man thing it's just a human thing. I'm really sorry you feel like you live with a roommate instead of a partner... Nobody should have to feel like that, I really am sorry you feel that way especially since you've been together for so long... A little communication goes a long way Just try to talk to her man Tell her how you feel. I know it's not always that easy and everyone's different not everyone's easy to talk to and I don't know her but just try to communicate with her and tell her how you feel Do you think that's something that you could do? Do you think she'd listen to you? I don't know what kind of a person she is or anything. But I know it's not okay to feel unwanted especially when you have spouse of almost 30 years... I'm sorry you feel that way I really really am..
Your the definition of a real woman. God bless you and your family. I retired from it all. Not because I cant get a girlfriend. Its getting one like you.
It's so hard to find another woman like my wife. She was an exceptional woman who truly loved me and stuck with me until death. This woman stayed with me even when we lost everything and were homeless. Someone robbed and burned our house down I lost a lot of collectables like gold rare coins in the area of 2 million. I went from rich to homeless in the snap of a finger I told her to go to her father's and that I would come here once I found a place to live. She slept on the street with me she lifted me back up I had given up I was done this would have been the 3rd time I lost everything. The first time I went to jail the 2nd time my fiances attacked me lied to the police an put me in jail and then the fire. I wanted her to go to her father's so I could just waste away. I think she knew this which is why she stayed with me. Money meant noting to her and then she passed away. She took her vows seriously and she didn't abandon me even when I had abandoned myself.
You are part of an older generation. A generation where people had morals and values. Sadly that has passed and the new norm is to be a horrible human being thats self entitled and don’t care about the repercussions of their action. A new world where opinion equals fact. Truly a great time to be alive…
My parents never had a Hollywood romance, but they had something every couple scattered across media does not have: substance. Connection, loyalty, TRUST. My dad’s a huge jokester who likes to play pranks on my mom, but the second he says “trust me”, she knows she can rely on him to protect her and not scare/bother her. She knows his food just the way he likes it, and he knows her favorite places to eat at. They love to listen to 80’s bands together, and I feel SO blessed to be a part of a whole family unit, and have had parents who did everything they could for my siblings and I. My parents never divorced, they said that they brought kids into the world together, they’ll raise them together. If after the kids are over 18 they wanna divorce, they will. Well, I would be delighted to tell you that my youngest sibling is 23, and my parents are still together.
Your wife sounds like a strong, faithful women we need more ladies like her i hope the best for you
Sounds like you had a wonderful wonderful wife and I am so sorry that you have to face this world without her physically being by your side.
sir you have me CRYING your wife is a truly beautiful woman god bless you and she is watching you from above
You are always welcome at my table because you make me laugh while helping me finally stop chasing losers when the person who actually cares about me became apparent. once you showed me some ways to see through the manipulating bullshit I could see genuine attraction in the very most wonderful woman in my long life so far
That's encouraging to see bro!
True story y'all
I know My worth and uniqueness however skewed is not to be mistreated like I've been in the past and the lights are on my friends, I found the best friend stepping out of my comfort zone and being the way I feel like I should be again finally. Now I'm on a new trajectory of my own choices not what some insecure manipulative vampire demands of me to be this person who cannot ever please the beast even though I did everything asked, expected or demanded to be a man by the gaslit shit fed like a program that will never achieve that height so I been on my own doing me for two years now and now the difference is like climbing out of a sewer system that I chose once but now the life is mine to enjoy thriving and sharing with the by far best woman I've ever met that I had no chance of meeting otherwise so yeah the shit it real and the life you deserve isn't far away guys, just climb out wash that shit smell off and find your own purpose not simping for a lie and endless agony that will leave you hollow alone and spent unless you stop that shit cycle far beneath your true path
well I feel like a big loser and big joke and big fat failure to so yeah the way iam and become of me and my life to and with all my life labels on me
Finding out that you were bipolar is difficult, but needed as it helps you understand yourself. I am bipolar myself or as they call it manic-depression and I feel like I’m always tearing at the seams of my mind especially since every relationship I get into is just me being taken advantage of but, for some reason I’m just stupid stuff out of the way. I just want a supportive woman that is all about me and helping me as much as I help them. I always put the most into every relationship as I see it important
I’ve honestly been looking forward to you reacting to Kanika’s videos and bring this stuff to light. She claims that women should be more sociopathic in the dating world which would only lead every man to get taken advantage of and every woman’s ego overflowing. It’s also worth mentioning that Kanika is bisexual and claims that she would NEVER manipulate or take advantage of a woman. She targets men and it’s very frightening seeing what men have to go through in the dating world these days.
That's interesting, but I sort of doubt that she wouldn't manipulate her girlfriend. I think she still would manipulate a girl, but it will be in a different manner.
As she would manipulate her to treat men worse and make herself look better. Would want to have validation from her. Have her gf be her flying monkey.
I have seen this sort of thing happen firsthand. One of my ex's manipulated our female friends to view me as abusive, while my ex was the one who was being abusive toward me. It validated my ex to keep escalating the abuse towards me and reinforcing her fantasy of being the victim. Isolated me from others because I was being slandered.
I am honestly terrified for my sons. 😔
A sociopath is an antisocial person. I agree woman need to talk less.
It's a shame I am killing my family tree
The irony of her claim when she's a diagnosed sociopath 😂😂😂😂.
I was injured 10 years ago and have been disabled since. I’ve been unable to work because of chronic neurological pain that I will have the rest of my life. Which means I’m on a number of different medication‘s the rest of my life which carry their own stigma’s. I was a very successful, law-enforcement officer for almost 20 years. When I got divorced and gained custody of my son’s life really started to turn around but very quickly, while training at the gym I suffered a spinal cord injury. Leaves me needing use of a walker. When I see women like this, I am reminded of the same women who’s dating app profiles would read that you have to take care of their children before your own. You must take care of them financially before yourself, etc. etc.
Straight up, I love how you talk about mental awareness. I'm struggling to tackle mine , and know once I get to talking to someone I'll feel better. I thank you so damn much for helping me WANT to get there. You're an inspiration in many ways. Thanks for being you!
You're so easy to listen to. I find it so refreshing that a young woman cares enough about the difficulties men face to actually listen to us, learn from us, and SPEAK UP FOR US. You are rational and fair towards men and I'm definitely gonna keep listening.
You are a stronger person! Don't let things and people tear you down! We love you girl!
You're a strong person. The battle is a long one until things get balanced for you. Thanks for looking into your condition. I appreciate you sharing. I'm a subscribed, long term watcher of your channel. First time commenter. But this needed a comment. Love ya girl! Life will get better and you'll be amazed at the difference in how you feel. The only mistake could make at this point is ignoring it and thinking you can handle it alone. I can't wait to hear how your doing on future episodes.
Roma, I'm Autistic. I have my struggles. I'm an introvert. And I'm perfectly ok being imperfect it's who I am I embrace it. Yet, the way I think the way I process things and my communication skills will always have a level of awkwardness and weirdness to it. I don't know how to talk to people. It's why I don't even have friends because of that. I tried it all out. I tried meetups I tried to put myself out there and when it comes to something as simple as friendship nothing came from it. When it comes to relationships it's even worst. Because here is the thing. All the women I've ever met they want a friendship they want something that builds. And the women I have met either wanted to stay just friends or they just down right rejected me. Every time I talk about this I catch crap I'm told that it's my own fault. Etc. Well if that's what the consensus is than why should I have any incentive to keep looking for friends or love? I've heard everything under the sun. People not recognizing that I have issues. So I gave it up. I become a lone wolf and I just accepted that. I'm not sad. I'm actually happy. I'm building my company. I'm getting healthier. I'm feeling great! People say love will come my way. For me it's to late because I'm going to be the one turning it down even if it does come to me. Sorry for the long comment. But I'm just tired of it all and it's why I gave up. I don't believe in the mgtow movement and this isn't anything related to that. It's just me tired of taking crap. If people out there make me to be a menace fine. I'll remove myself from society and just live in my own distant space from the world around me. Simple!
Bro just focus on your money and go d/r or colombia and find ureself that lady... Women in Europe and America are on drugs. Our generation is facing the changes the other generations have made lawfully... It's going to get worse as new generations come. ✌🏾 Bro
I feel that finding other people who are strange and different has always worked out for me. I'm pretty sure I'm on the Autistic Spectrum, especially with being intersex. The strange people have been my friends. I don't think that I have had any good friends who are normal.
I don't have many friends, but the people who I'm friends with we definitely have a connection that's valued by me and them. A lot of them are also socially awkward in some way and to some extent introverted.
You want a friend? Be a friend. Real simple. Autism is no excuse. Mere fact you use it as a crutch is a prime indicator you don't have it. 🫥 Like the fat person eating cheese blocks and ice cream saying "my genetics make me fat." 😐
Mentology...I want you to know something, man. I don't know how old you are but I'm 45 myself. I've seen a lot come and go, I guess. I'm sure that reaching these conclusions that you're done with it all and there's nothing more for you but self improvement and your own inner landscape is comforting in some ways. You don't have to worry about failed attempts at forming relationships any more. I get it. Been there. I want you to know that you shouldn't be so sure that you'll always be this way. Life is very unpredictable. You never know what's around the next bend no matter how sure you think you are. Surprises happen. I'm not trying to talk you out of your current mindset or attempting to initiate a change in you. I'm just saying don't be so sure that things will always be the way you think they will. Sometimes good things happen just to spite you. Be open to it. Take care.
@@jerm2011 I appreciate that. I’m 38 myself. Had a birthday in December. The reason I made certain decisions was just because I’m tired. I’m exhausted and honestly I just wanted peace that’s it. I wanted to feel good and feel happy with my life and doing something great with it so i put a hard stop to many things that were noise and getting in the way and made a plan and started executing it. Part of what I said is because I’m introverted along with my autism and mental struggles I thrive and achieve so much when I’m a lone wolf. I prefer to remove myself and create my own lane far from anyone else. That’s it. I did self reflecting and when I realized that I’m at my finest being removed it’s when i said to myself why fight it? Know what I mean? But I know exactly what your talking about because great things have happened in my life. The reason I decided to stay alone though is because of who I am. I’m not built for that life. And I need to own that and run with it. I’ll talk to a woman if she talks to me. I’m not going to just ignore people. But I’m also not actively going to make finding love a priority. My life will be my priority. I appreciate your word though. Thank you!
Very proud to see you taking charge on your mentality . You absolutely got this, because you have passion, humor, and common sense. You're cared about by a lot of people. Giving you the support you give us. May God bless you warrior.
I wanted to thank you for everything you are saying and doing! I am a 14 years married man with 4 children. Coming to the realization that my marriage foundation isn't what I thought it was. Keep up the fantastic work!!
Wonderful!
Honestly, it's really cool to hear about your experience with mental health. It may make someone realize what this dark feeling inside his heart is. You are an angel, Roma❤
Glad you got the diagnosis you needed to help you move forward, good on you.
LOVED, LOVED, LOVED the constructive criticism on the profiles!!! I learned quite a lot 'listening' to the suggestions you gave!! Many I could use on my own profile but never even thought to look at my profile that way!! Different perspective that might not otherwise had been realized. Thanks for opening my eyes!! I loved this video!!! Hugs - Greg Leonard 💜💗💜
Oh my gosh you just reminded me! I watched the whatever podcast the other day where the girl said she was a feminist and believed in equality but was vehemently against having to pay half for a date. The podcaster was trying to explain that it goes against feminism/equality but it was not computing for her.
We are gonna need one of these for this year around spring time....😅
What a good video! I usually watch your shorts, but this is the first full length video I've watched from you (I think).
I don't do modern insanity, I mean dating, but you give good advice IMHO. And very congenial, and some things very deep. Your demeanor & speech (when you're not being hilariously funny or bitingly sarcastic/dramatic) is very heartwarming...& UN-cruelly honest, objective, & encouraging. That's a hard combination for many, but you do it naturally. 👍👍👍
Awesome! Thank you!
That's how I feel from time to time. I thought it was because I'm divorced at 49 but even if everything is perfect I still get into a funk and stay depressed for days. I appreciate you being up front with your mental health. That's not a easy thing to do so again, thank you.
I have severe bi polar 2, and also BPD. Man… those highs are SO HIGH, but that’s usually when I do stupid add shit. When I’m depressed is when I’m too fatigued by my brain to do anything stupid lol. Anyway, I hope that you’re in a state that actually helps people. Since I got out of the EXTREMELY abusive relationship with my ex of 5 years, I have a hard time doing anything, but time heals, and motivation heals. Even if it’s just “man I wanna see the sunrise off those mountains” just to get up and hike. And now I’ve grown, I’m healthier, it’s better. It gets better you guys. I promise. Anyway, thank you Chloe, you’re a beautiful, wonderful, and empathetic person. And you helped me.
I have BPD too. Shit's rough.
Ohmygod Roma thank you so much for making this content, I'm a man I'm 35 and I've been through some stuff. But hearing a woman make these points is a massive relief and I have been stuck for the last hour watching your videos and I appreciate you so much thank you. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I'm one of the those guys that got emotionally destroyed in a divorce. I have completely given up on dating/women/ sex... etc. As you mention, the most important thing for me is really, a connection, emotional & physical sharing. I suffer from PTSD/ Major Depression & Anxiety. Divorce was 2017. I suffered mental and physical damage... both I still deal with today... It effect's my daily life & the ability to maintain a job..... It's a HORRIBLE spiral after a divorce & it's a real muthafucka to climb out of that hole. Thanks SO much for voicing the trauma men go through. It's good to keep it real. To hear it from a young woman adds hope that maybe in time the single male population has hope. I have given up to the extent I got a vasectomy. I don't have any desire to be "trapped" in some ploy by someone I was seeing or dating at the time.
we should talk
@@HowTo-D.I.Y that would be nice. Have you gone through something similar?
Yes I have. Only I was the abuser. I had sever trauma from growing up in the system making it out manifesting a toxic personality becoming successful and having a God complex. Not to mention the fact I was using drugs for 27 years and not thinking I had a problem nor did I care to do anything about it.
So yes. I work on myself daily as well as try and offer what I have learned through multiple outlets.
Thank you
I'm sorry
@@HowTo-D.I.Y you two are both really strong, keep it up cause you got this 🙏🏽
You are one of a kind Chloe. I hope and pray that I can find someone as kind and beautiful as you are. Whomever is lucky enough to be your next man is a very lucky guy indeed. It is so rare to find anyone these days that cares about anyone besides themselves, much less us guys out there. Thank you very much. Even though your not talking directly to me, it makes me feel like there might be someone with a heart like your that might give me the time of day and care about me so , again, thank you.
Thanks for the new podcast and once again those glasses are ....fire 🤣🤣🤣 ill see myself out 🤣
I also suffer from manic depression and I know exactly what you mean for the past few days I’ve been watching your videos as I’ve been in one of my down spirals and I wanted to let you know that your videos really make me feel better about myself thank you
Thank You Roma I’ve been divorced for over 4 years now from a toxic marriage we were toxic to each other my ex told me to kill myself I cheated on her and she provoked me to hit her and. I felt like I didn’t deserve anyone. I got back my confidence over the years I’m going to therapy now and I’m taking anxiety pills.
Literally the entire world needs to be watching your channel. You are amazing and I don't know how you do not have a line of men trying to knock down your door.
I was diagnosed severe bi polor 2 over 30 years ago. Been on every medication out there. After many years of trial and error Lithium was the only drug that seemed to help without any crazy side effects. Good luck roma 🙂
lithium is toxic be careful
That's wild because usually lithium is the first drug they try. It can be a pain in the ass getting blood levels drawn evert month though. I only has my doctor switch me to Lamictal because of that. Lamictal helps me but unfortunately nothing stops flare ups. All you can really do for that is to catch yourself getting hypomanic and knock it back with a benzo of your doctor's choice. That's how I handle it but damn! Hypomania is so fun after a depressive episode.
@@joanncaribbeanfan4505 yea but those manic highs can be dangerous too lol... after dealing with this illness for over 30 years ive finally been able to stop all meds and learn to deal with it... that took 30 years to master tho.. u eventually get use to the signals and come up with natural ways to counter act them rather than drugs. Its the best way imo. The meds can help but they are only temporary and never work forever... at least thats how it always was for me.
Have you tried shrooms or cannabis? Life savers for me. Hope your doing well friend ✌️🤙
Glad you found something that works, but doesn't lithium just numb your feelings, and doesn't it completely wreck your sex drive? For some, that's worth it, but I'm just curious.
Your WISDOM is ALWAYS INSPIRING to me; I absolutely LOVE YOUR CONTENT!! 😊❤
Just found your channel! It's amazing!
I'm a very rational guy and I like to think over the question that I get, and don't just follow. (okay, I tend to think way too much) The question at 19:55 I would not be able to answer. In my opinion it's impossible to make an order. All 3 things are equally important. We miss one, and the relationship will not be complete, will not work. There is an order of these things coming when we meet and get to know someone, but the value of them are equal.
Also, it's a misunderstanding about "men only look for sex". When men are looking for a partner, the first thing they follow is how attractive (also sexually) the girl is. What else could we look for before knowing the girl? This is the only "information" we have. But it doesn't mean that we don't want to spend quality time and have emotional connection, or that we would have sex without emotional connection. I can not open up sexually without emotional connection...and im a man.
I meet men like this blonde fake woman- but I do believe that good men do exist. Any woman who think this blonde fake b is good to listen to: You should adopt a dog from a shelter before ending up eaten by 20 cats. But in same time I am afraid about safety of those animals...
Really like this video. I've seen a bit of your video's now and back most of what your talk about. I love the help on the dating profiles and pointing out these men need to demand respect and have confidence!
I came in at the positive comments about how to make hair flawless. Thank you for being so sweet.
You are so welcome!
@@RomaArmyMensRights there’s a fake account of yours on my comment💯
I got SOOOOO LUCKY that I found a really wonderful woman! She doesn't want to change me, she is kind to me and works hard to show how important I am to her. She gives me her all and makes me want to give her my all. There are amazing women out there but men need to be aware of women that are fake and then who start trying to change you. You need to be aware by watching this awesome channel. Roma, you rock! I LOVE what you are doing. Thank you 🙏🏻
i am lucky to have found someone like that, too. smart, knows what she want's or doesn't, kind to everyone, really sexy, cuddly with a great sex drive. never wanna let go of her.
@@0815tralala I am very happy for you! People like that certainly are out there still. Just gotta be careful who you choose. And it's so important to just not choose to be with somebody just cause of their looks. Looks certainly are important but the "whole package" is most important for a good long lasting relationship.
16:45 reminded me of my first (and thankfully last) long-term relationship. I was expected to wait on her hand and foot, and I did everything I could do to keep her happy. But if I was ever sick or just having a rotten day, I got zero support from her. I feel like I dodged a bullet by never marrying.
Trust me, you did.
@georgemacdonell2341 Thank you. It was a learning experience if nothing else. I don't want to give the impression that I was the perfect partner, of course there were times when I could have been better to her, but I was loyal to a fault and never raised my voice or did anything to hurt her. It's been a little over two years since we amicably separated and I'm much happier being single now.
I watched this for the second time now, and I have seen some of Kamika's videos, which are great advice for men on what not to do. Kamika really seems to drag the concept of "high Value" through the mud. Yes, being high value is about being your best self, by being healthy, confident, and looking great by being clean. High value is certainly not about being pompous and arrogant. Kamika's videos are actually a vivid picture into why men now avoid women in the dating world. Chloe, I love your videos, because they are direct and honest. I find nothing "harsh" about the truth you deliver here Chloe, because you say things the way they need to be said, with out sugar coating the truth. Life is not always nice. Kamika actually reminds me of a radical feminist professor I had in college who said to me once: "Howard, I'm sure you seem like a nice person," And I stopped her in mid sentence saying: "Excuse me, but you do not even know, so please do not assume anything about me." She may have meant well, but I saw so much bad behavior in her classroom to make a judgement call. She would often call out women who disagreed with her as "not being real women." That was a sad time, but that professor actually got kicked out of that college for misconduct.
The level of intelligence and intellect you possess is beyond attractive and way past cool . Light years past anyone else you’re age and most people three times older. You are a true blue gift to humanity and I would love to meet you someday
Preach Roma; men with great jobs, multiple income streams, who invest in themselves, grow their skills; those kings are the prize. No wonder a growing number of men are going overseas for connection & love
No pictures of fish 🐠 caught or dead animals hunted. You really are narrowing down your eligible pool of women
I'm so glad I found you. You're more lewd than I am, but you also appeal to to men for that reason and that's great. I'm getting married in a couple months (67 days) and the horrible stories my fiancé has told me could turn your gut. And a lot of that is naivety, which I love about him, but also scares me for his sake. I'm just happy to be able to cook his meals every day and take care of him now. I'm looking forward to watching more of your videos.
I have PTSD and living in a place like NYC is the worst, non stop chaos, noise, violence, horrible people, where you live matters! It can actually make things worse for any mental illness your environment is very important and many people do not realize that.. living in a place where everything is negative can perpetuate the condition.😔
I also suffer from PTSD and all i want to say is hang in there and if your getting good counseling keep ot up im rooting for you👍
@@jaredhubble992 good luck to you too, 🍀I'm still looking for a therapist unfortunately ...
I feel you on the mental health thing. I've spent the past two and a half years since my last girlfriend, who traumatized me both mentally and emotionally, either at work or locked away in my room by myself. I've let my friendships wither, my physical and mental health has been getting worse and worse... I've become indecisive and passive and just... completely numb to any and all forms of social interaction beyond the absolutely necessary. I have no idea how to pull myself up and out of it though.
Thank you for the guidance in that area.
As a man, I don’t want to seem weak.
Yes, I’m in trouble..
Thanks slick!!
You got this!
Put it this way. About a year ago, I went to a nice and fancy resteraunt in Detroit. Im from the country and had a mullet at the time. 4 people complimented my hair. One guy even said he was trying to grow one himself and he hoped it looked similar to mine. That made my entire week even with my family having a meltdown right there. I still think about that cause it made me feel really good that people not only noticed it, but thought it looked good. Thats the kinda stuff that sticks with guys. The smallest things make a world of difference
I listen to her to make myself aware of the tactics sociopaths use to ensnare people, not to get instructions. Edit: to a sociopath no one is considered a human being, she's also bisexual so it's not just men at risk from her tactics.
Thank you so much for your outspoken and honest critiques. Hopefully more men will watch your videos and consider these suggestions for their own pages.
I can't tell you how much it means to hear a lady speaking out for men's rights. When a man speaks for his own rights it is always taken negatively. You (and women in general) are able to say the things we aren't supposed to, at least not without stigmatisms and profiling. If men try, well.. you know how poorly it will go.
Again, thank you!
I do believe that when you did the poll about men telling other men to man up, it was more along the lines coming from a best friend after a breakup and telling them to just move on stop thinking about it and it was coming from a good place. And when you're talkin about the woman doing it to the man it's definitely not coming from that type of a place it's coming from a place where they don't want to stay with you anymore
Hey Roma, I haven't watched one of your podcasts before, but I have to give you kudos for the 'Roma Romance' dating profile section. You said that you're 'brutally honest', but I honestly thought you came across as genuinely honest/witty/charming. I can tell you as a guy who feels like I've spent half my life (because I have) trawling dating profile sites and apps and not really getting anywhere (although let's be honest it is TOTALLY stacked against average guys, hell, even some of the 'Chads' out there!), I found it quite refreshing that the advice you gave out very much mirrored what I was saying here out aloud while watching it.
Keep up the good work and look after yourself 😎
"Insanity is the reaction of a healthy mind in an unsane society." ~ Michael Tsarion.
derp - socrates
"People who use motivational or inspirational quotes usually don't have much going on upstairs". ~ Someone Probably at some time.
So please, enlighten me to more work by Socrates involving mental health, its direct relationship with the occult, conditioning vs culture, repeating history, & how neo-feminists behave.. Ancient philosophers can hold great knowledge socrates no exception, & im sure much has been left untranslated, can you read ancient Greek Harry? Or should we stick with a modern, english speaking teacher that provides work more relevant to the topic being discussed?
That bit about poor women. My wife was poor when I met her. I'm not exactly flush for cash either. She is the most financially responsible person I have met. I'm not bad at finances but she absolutely destroys me in ability. I helped her out a lot in the early days. Now she is carrying us while I am struggling. It's a teamwork thing.
Dating sites literally force women to be superficial when that's not their natural state (so it doesnt reflect normal women), it also erases tht need for initial spark. Being alone is better than being forced on a website with women tht are being used on a website, and are therefor acting spitefully.
i wish you all the best... being bipolar is a very serous issue, my girlfriend is bipolar and it's a rough road to run ...
please never be afraid to ask for help if you feel you need it.
a great hug.
I gave up on dating years ago and I've never been happier 💯🔥😊
... same, 6 years ago. I can do anything I want or nothing at all, zero complaints. I'm soo happy I giggle from time to time. I catch myself giggling ten times a day most days.
Also, you have more money! Dating a woman's cool until you realize how much you have to feed them😅
@@tristanmichie4741 I haven't dated a woman in soo long, I don't even know what they eat these days.
@@MrJBA79 same dude
@@MrJBA79 You cant do anything though with a girlfriend you can get pussy 24/7
I must say I absolutely love your advice for men and women its healthy and to the point . Thank you
I love how you put evil people on blast. Your the female Andrew Tate. We all love the truth you bring out. As someone who had bad depression I recommend medication, Journaling, and the last part is if you're feeling depressed go do something you would rather do it helps take your mind out of the downward spiritual ❤
Looking radiant in this one.
I suffer from symptoms like that I also get periods of being extremely energies and other occasions when I get extremely lethargic and down.
When men and women date it's all psychological... The men are logical, the women are psycho 🤣,
Honestly I just found your channel, have watched a few videos and I think they're good, not that I need my rights to be defended.
I don't date, I was a single father until my son turned 19 and moved out, I've got a shitty appartment, have no car and I'm a solid 3 (3.5 after a hair cut) and apart from that I generally ignore other people whether they talk to me or not... I'm a happy, single, ugly old fart lol
They are actually the one's that are emotionally immature and trainwrecks, to the degree where often when they get that in check they're on par intellectually.
Thing is many are socially manipulative geniuses.
Roma, I am also living with Type2 Bipolar, which is under control with medication. Had therapy in the past, but no longer have it. You're doing the right thing, its too big to fight without somekind of edge. Hang in there, best of luck.
Only a few women can make tattoos look sexy and you are certainly one of them.
Thank you, Roma for your insight!
You bring light to dark places.
And, I think you are very intelligent and beautiful.
28:31- lmao I am dying right now! Not literally (but I was almost about to type that. But then remembered I’m not a teen girl!) I was laughing so hard and it started out of nowhere that I started coughing until it hurt a little (that’s something else though)! When you were asking what do people call those glasses the first thing out of my mouth was “um, d-hey. D-bag” just joking to myself. And when you said it I was done!!!
I suffer bipolar disorder too and have done for many years. I’ve learnt that although having this condition really sucks I try to make the best of my euphoric moments to achieve things that I may struggle with when my mood is low.
Having a daily routine helps and you learn your own coping strategies to the point I don’t need medication now and it’s only called for if I’m going through a really bad time.
So I really hope that you can reach that point too
Love your work passion and hope you keep up all that you do
Bless be 🙏🏽
Roma, good for you about your diagnosed challenge. I am walking a similar path with similar internal feelings. i like to cite capacity as a strength of mine, but am finding that my tolerance generally is much lower. I chalk that up to wisdom. Keep doing what you are doing...
I don't know if somebody even read what I commented on a previous of your videos saying I was concerned about your mood because I saw certain sadness in your face... Now I know what was it all about, and I am SO GLAD that you have targeted it and doing something about it.... I'm really proud of you!
😂@dead deer pic... When you said "if I were like..." Then you paused... I finished your sentence with "hungry?"
I'm Bipolar 2 with PTSD. God bless you.
I really feel like I speak for a lot of men when I say I'm glad to see you took the time to actually look at things from a man's view and realize it's hard to be a man and most women don't understand or care that it's not easy for us like most women think it's easy to be a man
This is my first time viewing your channel, I absolutely love your content.
Thank you for everything you do ❤
I understand what your going threw my mom had it and my sister deals with it and I deal with depression to hugs to you and thank you for your content
Thank you for everything you're doing for us I appreciate you and I really like the way you are just like me, calling stuff out, as you know, it ain't rocket science
Hello Roma. I truly appreciate you defending us good man. Story of my life. I’m too nice for my own good. I just recently date a Narcissist woman. It was short but she left a scar on me. Never experienced this.
Hey, I feel for you because I was there. And that book about core values from Steven Snozny really worked out for me, and it's very easy to read and follow. I've been trying to get a hold of you to buy and do a book review. It may not be for everone, but I've been teaching people things in this book, since 1995. My dad and mother in law was preaching to me, and I was teaching street kids unknowingly the same thing. It works if you want it to work. That's why I am med free. ❤ I wish you the best luck and wish you a strong recovery. 😉 😘
VERY HONESTLY AND STRONGLY INTELLIGENT VERY MUCH APPRECIATED AND LOVED❣️‼️
Going morning Chloe I hope that you are doing well today 💗 I enjoy your videos every day and the content therein. Finally I have found a true friend in you who truly cares about men's lives and relationships. You are a very talented and beautiful woman I love the way you keep it real and how knowledgeable you are about both sides of the dating world. Take care and I hope you have a great day today 💗 thank you for putting your efforts
Damn. I wish I could meet someone as genuine as you, young lady. Appreciated the insights. Cheers
my grandmother used to say bird's of a feather flock together so good energy folks!
So happy you're finding ways to make you a happier stronger you. I do believe someone as amazing as you deserves to be happy most the time and strong enough to overcome when you're not 🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀
I don't think your a sociopath you just call life on its s**t. I love this channel. Keep going.
So brave so true.. I'm also bi poler depression.. it's boils down to knowing self worth... Thanks for being real!!!!!!
Just when I start thinking that Love is real you bring me back to reality.
Keep doing what you’re doing, love you.
You are the reason , I don't wanna give up what I'm throwing up as a last chance at my heart to only Roma , hear me Roma Army Ladies. Man up , let me speak . Preach. I would love to write beats for you and your channel (Roma family) forever ♾️🍀♾️.
Welcome to the exclusive club . You will learn to deal with it a few pointers to help you. Sleep is extremely important a late night can make you have bad day after and it can escalate from there.
most important is take it slowly and adapt. it will impact your life in the most uninspected ways that will surprise you . Really good help exist out there ,For me I have been medicine free for years now but make no mistake it was no easy way to get there.
Its really brave of you to be open of your disease because the stigma is really rooted in society.
For me and others the best way to tackle the disease and society is to be open about it.
You are awesome ❤❤❤❤❤
you are such a badass i love the vibe you have and give off. also your content is amazing and has helped me a frick ton in my current lifestyle. youve given me a better perspective on a lot of different things that i had a bit skewed and now i have refined those issue all thanks to your advise and understanding. again thank you for being a pillar for me to be able to lean on when i seek guidance.
You are a bad ass. I showed my daughter your channel and she wants to be like you. She's 10 keep up the great work
New to your channel. I'm really glad you make these videos. Feminism has gotten out of hand. Commenting for the algoritm.
I am also Bipolar II manic depressive! Thank you for what you do for mens rights!
Love your honesty, I’d really like to hear from you
From the start I love this video. You do you girl.
Ty for giving good guys hope that there are still good women out there. You are such a breath of fresh air, i think im in love lol. You are a true gem ❣️😊
step 1..dont... If my gf left me now I'd just die single. Dating now is an absolute cancer
Chloe, you are not wrong about the dating game these days. I've been divorced for about 9 yrs now and I have been with 5 women during that time. Everything will be fine as long as I'm spending money on them but the moment I try to start talking about being more than a good time or a free ride and express that I want something long term. Someone that I can trust is going to be there on Monday as well as Friday, they all of a sudden just want to be friends. Witch means they still want all the benefits of having a boyfriend without giving anything in return. What witch is the biggest line of b. s. I've seen or heard in a long time. So your not wrong about this subject at all.
That woman is exactly why i stopped trying date be as good of partner i can be... So now i am the type content on being single. If happens cool but not holding my breathe as all good woman are taken which makes sense....keep up great work ty for actually seeing truth and speaking out....
This is the most truth I've heard all day.
Could not have put it better myself. Again, this gives me hope for humanity, which i certainly did not have before finding this.
I am a city girl too BUT I LOVE the picture of Isaac with the deer. I’m not looking at the deer, I’m looking at how attentive his dog is to him. That dog ADORES him. If a dog can love him like that, he’s a GOOD GUY! People, a dog knows.
Roger the alien.😂🤣 I couldn't help but see it when I heard you say that sht. Lol
Wow! Isaac's second dating profile picture took me straight to Texas Chainsaw country! I think a smiling 1/4 profile would serve him well.
lol I'm also bipolar II struggling to find a provider cause I think I need to go back on mood stabilizers I'm just too hypomanic to sleep so I'm binge watching your videos all night XD
My spouse has this as well. I understand your suffering but I also believe it can bring some positive personal traits along with the struggles. All I ask is to give patience/understanding to your loved ones as it is not easy on them as well. That being said, I’ll take my spouse with Bipolar than not have her at all. I love her with all my heart.