How To Trust Yourself (Episode 45)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 ต.ค. 2022
- Sharing the truth and everything I've learned is my way of looking out for each and every one of you. Lying traps you in a false reality/delusion and prevents any real change from happening. Everything I share in my podcast comes from the heart, and is intended to help you become the best version of yourself. My episodes contain all the things I wish I could go back and tell little Leo.
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He really be taking me to church every Sunday and I’m not even religious
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Omg I'm here watching on a Sunday morning!!! 🤣
Factsss😂 me at my office job getting hyped on the motivational talks
This 😂😂😂
Lmaooo same!
I appreciate the time you spend helping people move forward in their lives.
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As a person who has co-dependent and people pleasing tendencies, this is a great perspective! Ty❤
timestamps for me + because i'm bored
1:09 expect from urself what u would demand from others
3:06 dealing with ur own excuses, reality checking urself
12:30 act on ur desires even if u don't know how
14:18 don't dismiss ur emotions, good or bad, reflect on the bad ones
17:02 change the uncomfortable situation, take on the consequences if they are reasonable for the benefit
22:48 ur not an ass for demanding what you deserve / have paid for
27:08 trust ur opinion (!!!), learn what u like. people have reasons for having their beliefs, so do you. don't try to aggressively change ppl's views
30:10 if you trade ur individuality for fitting in no one will really like u
this helps!!! thanks 🫶🏼
Not making a choice IS a choice !! Thank you for all your amazing advice Leo
You always tell me what I don’t want to hear but I need to hear 😂
It’s giving high vibrations and quality content! 👏🏼👏🏼
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The piece about opinions reminded me of my favorite quote (which I put in my lock screen as a reminder): “Stop asking people for directions to places they’ve never been”. Why should I give a FUCK about someone’s opinion who has zero experience in what I’m doing/trying to do. I trust MY logic, MY judgement, MY perceptions, don’t paralyze me with your uninformed take.
I’ve saved 4 session of therapy because of you. Thank you! You’re just amazing, keep going!❣️
I really respect and admire how direct and honest you are, not many people have that level of courage.
This is called protecting your energy. I love this channel. You go boy
this video slapped me awake to self awareness, i've been betraying myself, disrespecting myself.. my needs, my wants. made self-respect and self-honor my top goal,, to strive to never disappoint and betray myself bc i prioritize MYSELF. this is really what self love and self care is. i truly believe being more considerate of myself and the choices i make will permeate every aspect of my life,, when i take care of me eveything else will fall into place.
Finally someone who makes it all make sense, and also entertaining
Thank You for the transformation from 🐱 to 🦁.
tysm for talking about food/diet
Woww I feel you so heavily on the standing up for yourself! I hate being an inconvenience to others but it also sucks to dishonor yourself bc no one else is thinking about your feelings at the end of the day. You really have yo have your own back bc no one else is will. Pisces moon here by the way lol
I can’t help but laughing so damn hard at the going to pee or die part never have I found someone speaking so on point to my experience lol Love your vids a lot please keep making them!❤❤❤
You're seriously incredible..I hope your podcast continues to grow so much this year; I really think it will
This legit just explains why I wasn’t trusting myself. Thank you Leo.
Been hitting gym for half a year but now I’m kinda on a boring cycle. Feeling like repeating the same things over n over again.
And in trusting yourself also forgive yourself like you've forgiven so many. Treat yourself as well as you treat others! Leo is reminding me of how alike we are in our twenties. As someone stuck in a state during rv breakdown and cov hits .. I had just left every family member, my own toxic family that I created. Really was hoping to see Lahaina in Maui, HI. Wow. That place just burned down completely. Then I get to meet my next teacher. .. Leo. 24 and me at 58. Always keep investigating truth.
I needed to hear a lot of what was in this episode! You do an awesome job of articulating your thoughts, and where they originate from. I’d add to the advice you gave the second girl. I agree that it’s helpful, and boosts confidence to pick the traits you have that will make people want to be around you. (And I do this many times myself.) However, from a female perspective, focusing on what characteristics both emotional and physical you have to offer continues to put emphasis on how you should modify herself. (This point is fully explained in Deborah Tannen’s ‘There Is No Unmarked Woman’) To this girl I’d say; you already said you were swearing off relationships to focus on you and your goals/dreams/aspirations/etc. Definitely have a conversation with your guy like Leo said, but if he has a problem or gives pushback with the amount of time you can give him and expects you to change your routine..RUN. If he can’t respect and support your ambitions now, what makes you think he’d ever be encouraging with them down the line when bigger things come up? There’s give and take in every relationship. But be mindful not to let people take something you aren’t willing to give up freely without resentment and hard feelings coming from it later.
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You are preaching! *snaps fingers*
Yesss. I can't wait to watch each night. Using you as a therapist, and self help coach. And as a cheerleader to all the stuff I think already, but as a woman, being too bold or mentally strong is seen as not feminine.
Thanks Bestie!! ❤️ needed this 😘
I just ate up everything you said, thank you!
Appreciate your content. This is the tough love I need ❤️
Omg!! I'm like a little of everything and I totally feel like your talking to me!! ❤️
this was so good!! the first podcast i’ve watched by u, loved it
Loving all your videos!! ❤️
I've been watching one of your videos every day this week, and seeing your growth is incredible! Thank you for sharing your wisdom and experiences on this platform to help those willing to listen ❤
You truly are doing something else! THANK YOU wise beyond words
Thank you for living in your purpose and sharing your light!
people just aren’t ready for your advice. they’re not ready for change, cause you be spittin forreal! thank you for all of these. ❤
Your videos have shifted my perspective on so many things. Your amazing hun!
I love that this whole episode is about perspective. You preach about looking at things from a different angle and I’m doing so provides insight. I love it!
Yup I' totally can relate! Love your advice ❤️ hey from NZ 🥰
LOVE THIS. thank you so much❤
you are soooooo wise. thank you for this
I needed this video! Thank you!❤😊
if i could subscribe twice i would. I'm so grateful you chose to share your thoughts with the world. I'm so glad i found your channel at this point in my life when i am ready to listen, learn and act.
I had to learn the hard way I am me and have my own opinions when others would get mad when they couldn’t control me to meet their expectations. They are the ones who want me to meet their needs and wants yet call me self centered and selfish when I refuse to be controlled!!
I just discovered you and your videos today, Leo! And honestly, so far, what I'm hearing- is what I needed to hear !!! Oh and I'm a Pisces too ❤️
Thank you !
i didnt know you had a podcast until i watched your live today!!! i needed alll these episodes😭🙌🏽 keep them coming please!! you just pushed me through my cardio listening to “how to trust yourself” ❤️❤️❤️
your voice is so calming 🫠🫠🫠
This is so helpful Leo! Thanks
I looove love love your approach Leo. You got that tough, honest, blunt love that resonates with me the most to get me fired up again. You remind me of how I used to talk to myself when I’d make videos to pep myself up, and that fiery energy gets my ass MOOOOOVIN. Thankful for your content 💖
as someone with BPD (of which an unstable sense of self is a key characteristic), this was so interesting & valuable (and also a little daunting) to watch.
Leo thank you for your amazing videos❤️ They are truly influential. Whenever I find myself losing my path towards my goals I just listen to one of your videos and it clears up so much of my anxiety. I really appreciate you and what you do. Your videos are my outlet and guidance to understanding myself more.
Hearing you say all this really changes my perspective. Thank you Leo. Ive been in such a dark place for most of my life and over the past few years I've been working towards a better life and a better me. I appreciate these videos.
I found your channel not too long ago. Man... You are a mastermind and add a ton of value to your community. Thank you for your knowledge. These topics you speak about are real and genuine to help people better themselves. Not the cookie cutter bullshit.
Thank you my dude!
Just found u and ur my new favorite podcaster keep doing the things u do ❤️🙏🏽
That advice at the end with recognizing your value is life changing!
Loved this! ❤
I just found you & im never gonna stop watching! A motivational speaker i can get behind!
I agree with ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING you say including your values so we should be besties lol I love your channel and your vibe❤️🥰
My morning podcast starting now, i need Leo in my ear telling me how to save me!!!!❤️❤️I love this dude smmm
you have so much charisma it's crazy, subscribed
You're doing an amazing job. I love your delivery and feel where its coming from. Some of us had to crawl our way out of hell to get where we want to go as there was no support but omg the gems u gain from it gives u such power and power based on truth and not everyone can take that. They didn't learn how to ride their demons.
I just found your channel!! So excited to binge-watch😤😛
Leo thank you so much for what you do. I got wind of your podcast yesternight and I have been listening to your episodes since. I have been struggling with quitting alcohol and weed and for the first time ever I feel like I can do it just by listening to your raw and genuinely honest talks. Tough love is what's always worked for me and you may just be the one thing that my brain understands. I'm sure I'll hold myself more accountable, and be aware of my decision making. Blessings and good health your way Leo, and once again, thank you so much.
I just started listening to you today and you have already inspired me to make some changes in my life. I've gotten more shit done today while listening to you than I have in the past week! 🙂🙂🙂💕
Everything you said in this video is so spot on. I've been on this self-improvement, trusting myself journey for more than a year now. And everything you said is exactly what I've been doing. And all of it feels so fucking good, my confidence is sky rocketing. There are still goals that I'm yet to achieve but I trust myself enough to know that I'll be able to have it all.
Thank you
How am I only finding you now??? I've listened to your podcast for only 2 days and I must say. YOU ARE MY FAVORITE. Keep it up b!!
Leo, I clicked on this video cause I love your view on life, and I’ve been feeling SO much self doubt lately, with everything I am and do. Listening to you made me feel so much better, I’ve realized that I already apply a lot of what you say and I have been this way for years, maybe I am not as directionless as I thought lol. Thank you for helping us and not making us bad for standing up for who we are and how we want to be treated from the fear of being “the bad guy” and judged, it’s good to see someone being so unapologetically themselves 💛you’re an inspo for real
I’ve listened to like 3 of your videos so far and I’ve been waiting on you to say your sign ! Fellow Pisces here ❣️ love your channel❤
Love your podcast 🫶🏽 thank you love
i’ve always watched you on tik tok and just started your yt videos today because i knew you spoke facts on tiktok. i just wanted to say that i feel like these videos are already changing my life. never stop doing what you’re doing
I love listening to you, you're my new therapist 😅❤
I love your videos and your confidence . Block out the haters and keep going . I can say that I used some of your advice today and it made a difference about how I felt about myself . Thanks LEO💜😆
I just started following your videos and I freaking LOVE you! haha
you know you are doing something right when so many people hate you! I just came across you two days ago and honestly this was a wake up call for me. Thank you.
love your honest, direct and to the point presentations. you are very knowledgeable. Thank you so much for all you do.
Love your podcasts
😍😍😍😍😍 thank you for this video and for being real!!! Greetings from Colombiaa!
My new favorite channel
this really resonated with me, helps a lot , you are good :)
ilyyy leo thank you 🙏🏻
I really love this video, i had to buy 4 toilet brushes to show my sister so she could pick one out for me because I don't trust myself to pick the right one!! I'm working on trusting myself more sending you love from Ireland
Having to save yourself creates a whole new level of strength and wisdom. Both of which you radiate Leo 🖤
Damn I appreciate this video, I’ve been having a terrible time and you answered my questions.
The truths you speak always hit me like a mf truck, Leo! Thank you for sharing your awareness and your aggravation. I've been listening to your podcast since June and am truly amazed at all that I have learned, realized and how much I've grown. Endless thanks for you and all that you teach. Thank you thank you thank you.
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Thank you leo❤
Love this episode so much
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Brother Leoooo !! Idc it’s like your fam now thank you for speaking facts. I appreciate you.
Thank you❤️
need this so much
In Leo we trust 🤞🏼
I'm so glad you exist. ❤
Love this thank you sm
thank you soooo much
Another awesome episode, Leo! I really need to hear this, as usual.
Love this idea for an episode!!
I have been forwarding your podcast to all of my closest friends because of the relevant topics and you just untangling life,
I wanted to write in WWLD
I am a real estate agent FEELING STUCK with a VERY similar situation and I just couldn’t believe what I was hearing, the exact answer to the question I had not even got to ask yet,
Thank you Leo
Green flags was fire and funny! And you can be triggering but in the best ways like things that I didn’t even realize triggered me u reveal and I gain a new self understanding, love u ❤
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Damn. I come to you to learn about life. And your always on point. ❤
I'm a Pisces too so it's totally relatable and it's very exhausting sometimes
I have literally never thought about it like this… wow
Hey Leo!!! Now I have a podcast to listen to while going to college, but I wanted to let you know that your podcasts are a great source of help, especially for me. I really didn't give a crap about my emotions because I felt like I created chaos by saying what I thought and felt. I've gone through stress eating so many times that I don't even bother to lose weight, not even knowing that I have fallen in to depression. Everything I feel I hide it behind a smile and an "I'm ok," but I'm trying to break out that cycle, just for the reason that I want to love myself without having to think what others would think of my actions. Love your energy, and can't wait to see more future advices that would help me develop in my adulthood far.❤❤❤💯❤🔥
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thank you so much you have no idea how much you helped me
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Growth is watching your most recent video talking about how someone hit you with their car and you just WALKED AWAY!!! Old Leo def would’ve beat someone 😂 So proud of you Leo