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you are under 30..... where is your conservative husband and kids???? , you keep saying women expectations are crazy, well you are not a 10 physically more like a 6-6.5 with loads of money, So what is the issue???
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I know I'm not the only one who noticed but I'll be the only one to say it... Ilove the gap in your real teeth Pearl.
We live in a simulation. Hear me out.
Women control when we as humans have sex right.
Men control when a relationship is established.
Women are the ones who mostly end relationships.
Men move onto the next person.
Women go on social media and rant.
Make it make sense
You notice when you see these women regretting their divorces, NOT ONE of them shows any remorse for the pain she has caused her man or her family. Her regret is only about her own misery. She isn't has happy as she thought she'd be.
It's sickening indeed
I think that message needs to be broadcast loudly. Most of these men end up severely heartbroken - that can last for years. And they feel nothing. 1/2 of all marriages end up with a man going through this. Plus, most of them have to endure watching her screw one guy after another. Don't get married men - most of you will intensely regret it. The only good thing about it is the realistic hope that she will end up alone and miserable.
I came here to say the same thing.
They DO NOT CARE about others. They CAN'T.
@@kc6810 This is why I never took women seriously. The fickleness and feelings take over everything in your lives.
This is very true.
An older friend told me she divorced her husband because she thought he was lazy because he didn't want to do much when he wasn't at work. She then started working and realized why he was so tired. She admits she made a mistake but it was too late.
Yeah, that's a problem. When we date women, we take them to places. They think that will last forever. You gotta find a humble woman who is happy making a home with you.
@@ppumpkin3282 would it be rude to say barf? What a double standard- men are attentive during dating phase but discard post marriage then wonder why their marriage falls apart…
@@zhannaliciousnah
@@zhannalicious No worse than women who dress up and are on their best behavior during the dating phase. Only to stop dressing up or making any effor to look good or to be affectionate once they are married.
@@zhannalicious Maybe you should do things together you both like to do. Not just what the woman wants.
A wise woman builds her home, but a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands. Proverbs 14:1
Yup'a? Sifting threw the ashes!
Great quote
The things you see in this life
The sad thing is that most women are emotional which I would argue is the antithesis of wisdom it's not that emotion is bad but it shouldn't be what's in charge of making decisions. Therefore we have a lot of women tearing down their houses with their own hands
@@ThingsThatIDo well said
My ex demanded a divorce. Said kids will be ok. Everyone is doing it. Then kids found out all the guys she was with while we were married. They haven’t spoke to her since and has never met the grandchildren. The choices we make.
*Well she sounds "Filled" but not "For-filled"*
This is my case as well. 25y of marriage and betrayals. Wasted life.
Ya, sounds familiar. My second ex wife stole my daughters car, her bf’s meth lab trailer burnt down, sheriff has called looking for her twice, and she hasn’t seen her grandson either. Good riddance to bad rubbish.
I know another couple, something similar happened to. The kids won't talk to Mom. Too many women think that everyone is obligated to like them. Hahaha. Bunch of narcissists.
"Have you as a 'friend' again?... ☠️💩.....🤮
"I don't want him and I don't want anyone else to want him either!"
Yeah, typical.
Narcissist playbook.....
Accurate
One of my ex-gfs.
Yep , ive experienced this first hand . it;s insanity.
Spot on.@@telecastinater
When my ex cheated, deliberately destroyed our marriage & filed for divorce, I told her how she devastated my life & her response was how she was hurting too and why didn't I feel sympathy for her?
I told her she was like a burglar who cut his hand breaking into a house and was looking for sympathy for his cut up hand. Breathtaking narcissism.
If anyone is looking for sympathy....tell them to look in the dictionary between shit and syphillis.....they will find it there. ;)
@@andrewdoran4572 The new generation haven't seen a single dictionary in their life.
You are better not to think about the good times with your ex. She was always looking over your shoulder, sorry to say...
@@andrewdoran4572 - Between shit and syphillis...at first, I thought "I'm going to use that one!" But I might have to explain what a dictionary is and what "alphabetical order" is. A joke is not a joke when you have to explain it. And that makes it a joke. Of a joke. Or something.
You are right Mark. She is a narcissist. Sorry for the pain.
If wife divorces you, move on and never look back. Definitely don't take her back!
Rule of thumb, stay away from women with nose rings.
nose rings
chest tattoos
visible tattoos in general
fake hair
any piercings or piercing scars besides normal ear piercings
silly colored hair
stupid clothing choices
strong opinions
@@bigmikeobama5314 ...but those ARE the most exciting women and best for bedtime play...problem is men with our feel-good connectivity thing...we fall in love with them (bad!).
Nose rings are where to lock the chain.
oh my god I just posted the same kind of comment lol
Definitely pierced septums.
*After my wife left me I hired First Class Model and Introduced her as my new girl friend. I heard through the 'grape vine' that she went so crazy that she was placed on a 72 hour involuntary hold for 1013 mental illness incarceration. She ended up staying for 14 days LOL!*
Please let this be true.
Hiring that model was a great investment!
Savvy
😂 Awesome! Good on you brother!
Yes!😂
I recently lost a really close friend of mine because she decided out of the blue that I wasn’t worth being friends with because I refuse to speak ill of my husband around her like she does. While she would talk about divorce, and marriage counseling, and their problems, I wouldn’t. She saw that as a problem as well as the fact my husband is my one and only. Always would say behind my back I need to break up with him and “experience life”. No thanks. I love my life with my husband and children.
That's awesome! There's no bigger blessing than a loving family
You made the right choice. A bad friend can be worse than an enemy. They can lead you astray.
Misery loves company.
She wanted to drag you down to where she was. Not a good friend at all.
Your a rare woman,all the best to you and your family,God bless.
Right choice
My former wife ended our marriage after 10 years because she thought she could find happiness elsewhere. Broke my heart & damned near killed me. A year later, I married a family friend who had likewise gone through an unwanted divorce; her husband just didn't want to deal with his own kids any more and had a serious porn addiction to boot. Frankly, we both came out of our prior marriages as damaged goods.
We were both 33 when we married, and between the two of us, we had nine (9) kids under the age of 14, so clearly this wasn't about "finding ourselves" or "living large." 😂 But we committed ourselves to love & cherish each other come what may.
Raising teenagers for 18 years is not for the faint of heart. 😂 But we did it while always making each other our top priority.
A few years into our marriage, my wife asked me why I loved her. As I listed the many reasons, she kept asking, "But what if that aspect of me changes? Why would you still love me?" Finally, I said, "I love you because I choose to love you. And I promise I will always choose to love you." And that diminished all her fears.
Love is a daily conscious choice. That is the only way you make it through all the trials, setbacks, and changes that life throws at you.
It's now been almost 38 years since we married; she's 71 & I will be too in a few months. And we're still nuts about each other. She is my best friend, my lover, my eternal sweetheart. I would rather be with her than be anywhere else or with anyone else in the entire world. We just love hanging out together. ❤
But it's required a lifetime of commitment and choice to achieve this.
Thank you for this. My wife of 9 years just left me for a guy who “noticed her”. We had a great marriage, but like so many women they think it’s better elsewhere. 2 weeks after she moved out she is crying the blues. I almost died too from the pain. I ended up in the ER with a cardiac emergency from the heart ache. I was shocked 2 times to restore a normal heart rhythm.
Amen.
@CurtinMinneapolis replied: Mr Webster, I truly wish there was a double-thumbs-up for comments, as I’d select it for your post. I’m delighted that you shared your experience and your wisdom. By your and your wife’s example, you’ve shown that marriage based on committed daily loving that produces a beautiful garden for both people is still possible.
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I love your entire post, but I want to highlight a part of it that I believe myself and which seems to be practically lost to Americans today. I’ll quote what you said the way I understood it with my own clarifying words in parenthesis, so forgive me if I get it wrong. ““I love you (verb sense of the word) **because I choose to love you** (each day). [I vowed that to myself and to you on our wedding day] And I promise I will always choose to love you.” Love is a daily conscious choice. That is the only way you make it through all the trials, setbacks, and changes that life throws at you. … It’s required a lifetime of commitment and choice to achieve this.”
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For basing your marriage on commitment to faithfully love (in the verb sense of the word) and living a lifetime of choosing to love, to be kind and caring and committed to your wife, and then doing those and other loving acts each day regardless of emotional ups and downs, fatigue, sickness, and every other thing that could have swayed you from that path, I salute you.
You have my greatest admiration. You have by choice and tenacity succeeded in what I regard to be the most important mission there is in this life. Well done, sir.
Damn Dude, you trying to make me cry? Finding the right woman is hard. I'm glad you found yours. Keep her, cherish her, and let her and your whole family know - I'm the man. I'll fix whatever is broken or die trying.
I got a flatbed worth of kudos to you both. I’ll bet the several months after she abandoned you were dramatic, traumatic, dark and numb.
Take care & be well
In a related story, woman boards a train to Chicago, stunned and saddened to find herself in Chicago when she gets off train.
good one
To be fair that is mostly the fault of chicago
I am so going to use this, @thetruenolan6655
whats chicago is that a std ?
@@mikepette4422 Worse. Catching Chicago is the precursor to potentially catching every other STD.
My mom admitted to me a couple of months ago that she wouldn't do it if she knew (20 years later). All these years of struggles that led to regrets. What a waste and what a shame!
So heartbreaking, I’m so sorry.
At least your mother admitted it. I watch my mother for the last 25 years one day tell me she doesn't need a man and the next day telling me how lonely she is. Yeah she can get a boyfriend, but at after 50 most women will never get a man to commit long-term. There's nothing they can offer. And my stepfather was a good man. He was 10 years younger than my mother and raise me as his own
I am so sorry you have been through this @@roggie77777 .
Just curious, does she know the effect it had on you?
I am assuming your father is a good man and you have a good relationship with him.
My mother divorced my father about 6months after he sobered up from being a drunk for over 15 yrs. I never saw my father happier. To her dying day my mother hated the fact she divorced him... I think she realized after the fact he was a drunk BECAUSE of her not in spite of her....
They file for divorce.....then cry about it like they dont know they filed for divorce.
They have to be the Victim, of course.
@@kenlandon7803
Yeah, that's all they are good at.
Or more like that's all they know to do.
They aren't even good at it. lol
u dnt get it ....they get brainwashed by these celebs and etc ......making it seem its cool and empowering and like they have controll....
Yes, you're right, they *NEVER* say "I was wrong, I'm sorry".
He was my best friend, but I divorced him! WTF! What kind of stupid logic is that?
Modern woman logic.
Also misery loves noserings.
that.... has nothing to do with anything
@@maddie-xh9yywhat are you talking about? Empirical data (multiple long range studies) shows that facial piercing an and tattoos are indicative of mental instability, it’s literally self mutilation, they are defacing themselves. Also, the data shows that a man at some point influenced them to get these piercings or tattoos. These woman are not content, seek drama and attention, they will never be happy, and have the highest risk for divorce initiation. Inform yourself next time please.
@@corpr8dystopia778 its not defacing, its what they want to do with their body. provide me a link and evidence that this is a credible source and i'll look into it. inform yourself on the fact not everyone looks into nose rings and happiness. also, nose rings are part of cultural heritages or beliefs, and its not always for a man. next time, you should think broader.
@@maddie-xh9yy - Well Maddie, have you ever heard of the term "odds favor"? For example, if you don't take care of your car, odds favor that you'll have a breakdown. If you don't take care of your car AND you frequent high crime areas, then odds favor that you'll have a breakdown, and that you might have that breakdown in a high crime area.
So so Dystopia saying it was empirical data was actually good enough for me. Call it confirmation bias on my part, but y'know what? ODDS FAVOR those things being red flags. I'm not willing to take a chance on red flags like that.
If I can't take you home to mom and dad, then ODDS FAVOR that it's not gonna work out to my benefit or happiness. And my mom and dad both passed some years ago. But still, it's a benchmark, and a very good one too. It's also how I would advise my nephews or any young men who might ask for advice (and believe it or not, some do!). Nose rings, chin piercings, tongue piercings, cheek piercings, neck and chest tattoos, tattooed whites of the eyes, a guy can reject any of that stuff with a clear conscience. Because odds favor them being red flags.
@@corpr8dystopia778 There are cultures in parts of Asia where women having a nose ring is part of it. Same goes for Africa. For some of those cultures the nose ring is the wedding ring for those women.
"Who filed" OMG. Pearls kills it in 2 words. Ha.
Yes she did.
Social media is killing marriages and totally confusing women. Guys have not changed , much to the chagrin of feminists, and will not change.Young men are becoming less and less interested in long term relationships and would rather spend their money on themselves rsther than on a partner who is likely to leave.
With so many hook up sites filled with so many women just giving it away, combined with constant threat of accusations, poor treatment from women or being taken for granted why would very many young men be interested in pursuing long term relationships?
I don't want to suggest we (guys) are totally blameless though. This is an interesting channel, but we don't want to scapegoat all women.
"No respect No Relationship" this is why nowadays a lot of men are done with dating or not approach modern women anymore
Entering into a contract where the other party gets paid by breaking the contract is insanity.
👍🔥
thats a huge oversimplification.
@@maddie-xh9yy If it's an "oversimplification", it's only because it's even worse than that. My ex got paid a lot of money for committing adultery & deliberately destroying the marriage, sure. But then there's all the pain of betrayal she caused me that lasts a lifetime; 16 years ago and it still hurts every day.
@@Mark-in1im yeah, but again, thats an overismplification. that is just your experience, just like how this comment is probably his expierience, and doenst represent most divorces.
The difference between an excuse and a reason is excuses are used to try to escape responsibility, but finding the reason for something is taking the first step in fixing it.
Thanks for sharing an excellent piece of wisdom. A great coaching tip.
My sister filed for divorce after 18 years for no real reason, other than, she said they were more like roommates, she got two jobs didn't think she needed him anymore....so when she was sitting at the table with her drink and he said "Drinking again Judy?" it was time she and her alcohol could be in peace and divorced him. She was frustrasted 2 months later when her ex got into a relationship with a woman 12 years younger than her.
I know many spouses who nag because their other has a few social drinks. I don't drink but I wouldn't want that, it all depends on how it affects you. It's not grounds for divorce but I certainly would push back - and I don't drink.
@@ppumpkin3282 The drinking complaint, her husband mentioned-concerned for her... was just the icing on the cake, last justifiable straw for my sister to leave....they raised their kids to college and now, she bagan working making money, visiting bars and wanted her freedom ALONE to pursue other men...AND she did, a new guy at every Christmas party for the first 5 years. My sister, I believe, craved attention, validation, music and lights inside a bar...her husband was a quiet hardworking responsible man with a business.
@@kc6810you literally just proved it bothers you in the childish, disrespectful statement you made. Do you not even look at yourself?!?🤔
@@kc6810 tell us you're angry your ex is with a younger, more beautiful, more agreeable woman, and you're angry and upset about it, without telling us🤣🤣🤣
@@kc6810it does bother you. Otherwise you wouldn’t have mentioned it lol.
I've seen this in my own family. 40's woman who decided she didn't want to be married anymore, wanted a divorce, wanted a divorce, wanted a divorce, wanted nothing more than to be out of the marriage. Well, she filed for and got a divorce. A year later, she wanted her family and husband back. Husband wasn't having it and now she's even more miserable than she was before. Think it through people, the only thing divorce ends is a marriage, not the problems.
Logic is not installed in the minds of some people.
The problem isn't social media alone, but Hollywood also. They give this impression that being a single mother is proof to the world that you're tough. And "reclaiming my life from those horrible men" is empowering. They build up a fantasy world and then insist that it's the real world. But then when the real world hits them, they blame men for causing them trauma. Because taking accountability is also something that Hollywood says women should never do.
Married for 11 years, my wife ran off with another guy, I was 35, with a house and making big bucks with a Fortune 500 company. I wasn’t looking for anything, but friends spread the word that I was on the market. I had a blind date with a hot 28 year old, that was so supportive and passionate. Three years later, married with two kids, still hot after 32 years….oh and after I starting dating her, the ex wife tried to make a swing past to see if there was a chance…..no chance, she was replaced by a hottie.
Enjoy the "hotness" while it lasts! 😂
Reminds me of my ex...
As soon as I found someone else she approached me and said I though we could try again and make it work.
No! We're done - I'm no suffering anymore. Your never gonna change
All the best to you and family.
@@jasono2139 Well if you consider how long he was with his first wife ( 11 years ) and how long hes been with his second ( 32 years ) , hes 60+ and still see's his wife as hot,, that's Love man.
Yeah, same like me except mine was after 20 years of marriage and I'm not with any hottie or something. I'm just moving on with my life trying to make up the 20 years that I lost. The good part of this is I won the Kids Custody and I didn't have to pay her a single cent cause I proved in court that she was sending her Nude Photos to guys and it was her who instigated the divorce...
They dont miss the actual man. They miss the comfort that the man brings them, making them feel wanted and protected.
Listen to them, none of them say they miss the actual guy, its always the feeling, the quiet etc. They deserve the loneliness.
Married for 19 years, with my ex-wife for 23 we dated in high school before getting married. The court system sided with her and she got the Lion's Share of what I worked my life for and I was punished for letting her be a stay-at-home mom. I'm not getting married again, I'm not stupid
Hey, she's strong and independent and don't need no man, right?
I met this dude and he was talking about how his wife divorced him and that's all he was talking about. So I told him that he is free now. You don't have to deal with trying to please someone who is impossible to please. You can do what ever you want.
My wife left me for another man. She now lives in an apartment with her cats and dogs because other men refused to marry her. Oh yea! The other man she left me for? He refused to divorce his present wife and marry her. In the meantime I bought a house, retired from a good job with benefits, sold that house for a MILLION dollars and invested in Tesla with my savings. She only will collect her Social Security checks to live on in her old age. I sleep like a baby knowing my future and my surviving family will never have the burdens I endured.
A success story. Way to go!
Nose ring! Run!
It's not about being happy it's about learning to be content. Happiness is short-lived and where as contentment is long-lasting and what you need for a good life.
I think you're onto something very true. It might just be neurologically impossible to feel happiness all the time.
@@leonniceday6807 it is impossible without carefully regulated drugs or a literal hardwire connected to the brains pleasure center.
@@thebaron7538 even that is probably futile, as neurons adapt to whatever high but constant level of chemicals and then it becomes just the new normal.
@@leonniceday6807 that's why I said it would have to be very regulated drugs can doctors have done experiments with hardwired Joy buttons on animals...it usually leads to them over stimulating themselves onto death.
@@leonniceday6807 - You guys are both onto a truth that seems to have been hidden by the incompetent prognosticators of this era (aka, the screaming and shouting of mainstream media and the know-it-alls on progressive social media). Find contentedness in what you have, and you will build a happy life. No, you won't always be "happy" in any given moment. But in the long term, you will at least have good chance to have a happy life. I'm a big fan of "odds favor"...to the point that it's basically a philosophy of mine now.
My ex asked for a divorce, we filed and around 7 months later a month before we went to court I got an email that said she was cheating. She had been for over a year or so before we even flied. I kept it to myself knowing I wasn't going back and I'm willing to bet she regrets her decision but will never admit it. I worked, took care of all home repairs, cleaned, did laundry, ran kids to practice and she still complained. I probably should have asked for a divorce years ago because it was toxic but I didn't want to be away from my kids. She thought the grass was greener and now she's been with around 5 guys in two years. I've been with one woman since 5 months after our divorce and I'm as happy as I have been in a very long time.
That closing statement…💯! Being a “traditional man”, more often than not, = Loss. Loss of job. Loss of assets…
As a man who has been divorced, it is not a punishment for men. A lot of single men after divorce enjoy the single life, the solitude, and time to just think, not about a lot lol.
It is at first, at least it was for me. Now however it is not.
The problem brother is the toll it takes on the children. Are there times I envy my single friend? yeah sorta, by now id be retired with lots of money who knows, but i wouldnt want to trade lives with him for anything.
When a man has been divorced, he may still not have sex, but at least he eliminates the b.s. The choice is lack of sex with a modern woman's constant crap, or just lack of sex. Most men will go for the latter.
It seems like the divorced wemen whining about how their ex is happy without them or dating and objectively better looking woman is unbearable to them and proves that divorce to them is a weapon and punishment attempt against their ex husband. They cannot get out of the controlling mindset after they're split up because they're still seeking information about their ex husband to keep tabs on him and determine if their decisions had the intended affect. It not about their happiness it's about punishing the ex husband.
The allergy to accountability is a timeless trait that will never go away and social media helps them continue larping with all their like-minded social groups playing along like a decentralised cult.
@@kc6810 - Well sometimes it just doesn't matter "why". What matters more is what "is". Because once you understand the current state of affairs, then you can begin to make plans to counteract it. It's like war. If somebody bombs me, then I know I'm at war. I don't need to know "why". I don't even need to wait for some organization to declare that I'm at war. I just know that I already am.
Too many people spend way too much time trying to understand the "why" while they are in the sh!t. When you're in the sh!t, that's when you need to take immediate action. Figure out the "why" when you're no longer at war. Or, more to the point of the conversation, no longer at risk of losing half your stuff plus your kids too.
Guys, to play it on the safe side , NEVER marry a women who comes from a divorced family! Especially if she was raised by her mother.
Yeah I saw that red flag ignored it, and that didn't work out so good.....
You'd be surprised what mothers teach their daughters about men
Word.
Nailed it.
Agreed. My son married a woman with 2 mothers and 3 fathers, all divorced, like 5 divorces in her immediate family history.
Guess what. She initiated a divorce after 2 children. She had gone out and slept with a guy at a Continuing Education Meeting. The guy had 4-5 affairs on his wife. They have now married, but only after she slept with ANOTHER man at another CME meeting.
I’m praying for the day he starts cheating on my son’s ex. I hope it hurts her as deeply as she hurt my son.
I'm sick and tired hearing about healing!!! They will never be happy!!! The selfishness is outstanding.
women can be happy without a man, but whatever.
In my most serious relationship, I got cheated on towards the end and wasn't rosy all along as well. She was a narcissist and knew how to manipulate me with good times and drive me crazy with her insane behaviour. And when I broke up with her, she wrote a long email saying how she lost her best friend. Told her to F off
😂. Hope you moved on with your life.
Defective. Discard and stay away.
Regret for the wrong reasons because they want to use men financially
100%
Happened to me after 40 years I’ve been divorced. Just going on two years now and she fucking blew up the family because she’s selfish and self-centered. They are untrustworthy never again I’m 61 I’ll never do it again.
My mom told me when my dad died that she should have "stuck it out". They had divorced 40'ish years before that. I didn't have anything nice to say about that so I didn't say anything. On the inside I was SMMFH.
My divorced mom, sure missed out on my dad's $3,600./month Government pension when he died. She wanted me to pull some kind of magic for her...but Dad married another women afterward, even if his second wife died before him...mom wasn't entitled to any of a 1978 dissolved marriage.
but marriage shouldnt have to be just 'sticking it out'.
@@maddie-xh9yy Sometimes it is for a time. Your personal happiness is not paramount in a marriage. If you think it is, you'll wind up divorced. Every time.
Great self-control on your mom. So tempting to give her both barrels of home truths...
@@Pro60modman yeah, but both sides shouldnt just be sticking it out. its not about just my personal happiness, is about your partners too.
The Me.. Me.. Me Too movement.. 🙄
Ha, GOOD one!!!
Very accurate.
Welcome back Pearl!
my wife and I got married in 94 she was 21 I was 23, the 1st 5 years was hard. we almost got divorced a few times, but we like each other and kept pushing though. We matured and being unhappy for a few days once in a while isnt worth throwing away our bond. Now at 30 years we know each other and ourselves, and we are good. I dont try to change her she lets me be me and we support each others hobbies and goals.
Congratulations on your committed marriage. Sounds similar to my own long ongoing married life.
As a guy, it is amusing hearing the women in this video realize (because the vast majority of women are social beings) that when the husband and/or kids are not there, "the silence is deafening!" Again, as a guy, when is nobody is around and it is still and quiet...this is AWESOME! It seems like most of the women that wanted to be 'strong and independent' found out that living what is essentially a man's life is not really what they thought it was or what they really wanted (see, men do not have it easier in life)
It’s a good point you bring up…because while i enjoy the time with my kids, i enjoy the time when they go to school also when im alone in a way my wife just does not.
Women are more social creatures than men. They create nests of homes for others to be in. Men create useful space to come back to.
There is no nest if there are no others to share it with. I think that's why they are shocked and saddened living in their newly acquired exfamily home: its missing its purpose. Men enjoy their single person home because it fulfills its purpose: a place of quietness and peace, they way they want it, generally simpler and much less demanding than the "best" they turned over to their ex wife (ir the new one she created).
Ummm… ok. But this social being has a social outlet. So I enjoy the peace and quiet of an evening alone as much as any man. And even more, I enjoy the fact I no longer have to watch sports games, fetch drinks, clean kitchen and bathroom messes made by someone else who thought this work was beneath him. Why wouldn’t I like this life as much as you do? It’s AWESOME.
@@RealSigmaQueenyou sound like you’ll be making one of these videos soon 😂
@@RealSigmaQueen My comment was about the women in the video. If your nickname is accurate, being a sigma personality covers why you enjoy quiet and solitude (I too have this personality type). I applaud you for putting yourself first and not subjugating yourself by doing things you do not enjoy (watching sports - I don't either as I would rather be doing something than watching something) and being someone else's servant/maid/cleaner. What these videos don't talk about is that relationships and NOT about compromise but are all about collaboration. You also state you have a social outlet so I would think that would provide a enough opportunity where it keeps the majority of noise and chaos (that many women seem to surround themselves with) away from the relationship.
Enjoy your videos Pearl! I’m 73, still in love with her after 49 years and so glad sticking “metal things” into nose, lips, chin, etc isn’t her thing
a woman has never apologized to me for anything. Granted, there have not been many situations in which I expected one; but I still never received one...
they're adult children..never admitting to any error...it's always YOUR fault.
keep telling yourself that. probably not true but whatever.
@@LarsonFamilyFarm-LLCso true; feminism teaches them that. I've seen to many times where women were in the wrong, or had disrespected someone, and never an apology, ever. Which btw, good foreign women are the total opposite.
Divorce = trading one set of problems for another set of problems 😂❤
When high school girls say, "I broke up with him, he didnt break up with me," you must immediately understand their relationships are all self centered.
In a moment of maximum passion after 23 years of marriage: "We can't be married because I never want to worry about what anyone else wants except myself ever again." The epiphany of the moment was obvious to both of us. I instantly responded: "You just explained every problem we've ever had together." I knew it. She knew it. She turned bright red with embarrassment when she knew I knew it. I will never forget that moment. I will never forget the exact words she used. I will never forget the brutal honesty of the moment, a real bright spot in our marriage.
She knew it. I knew it. There was no denying it. Her terribly embarrassed and animated reaction to exactly what I said, "that explains every problem we've ever had," revealed the obvious. She knew it. I knew it.
@@kc6810 That's how ignorant selfish people think..
@@kc6810 caregivers like taking care of others, although they need to learn to take care of themselves as well. A caregiver would never say "i don't want to worry about anyone else" but they might say I do need a break now and again.
@@kc6810there's no break from all the stress and hard work of being a father and husband. Don't worry, someday you'll grow up and you'll stop trolling that same ignorant line...😆😆😆
@@kc6810 - My father was my mother's caregiver after he retired from work. He never complained. He did the laundry and the cooking, and all of the driving since she no longer could. As she lost her sight and her ability to walk, he was there for her. Anything she needed, he did. He never asked for a break. He ALSO never would have said "women can be very draining on a man."
When she was younger, she took care of the house and us kids. She also NEVER said "men (or children) can be very draining on a woman" either. Saying such a thing would have never occurred to either of them.
One time, when I was having a conversation with mom, she said, "oh you kids were no problem". Oh I know we were little hellions at times! But mom would not let that be the thing that controlled her happiness.
And one other time, when I was having a conversation with dad, I asked how he was doing, and he said "oh it's no problem." He had to help lift her in the bathroom, around the house, and into the car for doctors appointments, and he had bad scoliosis and sciatica, so this was basically his superpower; pushing past his physical infirmities to be there for the love of his life.
Neither one was ever focused on their responsibilities as "draining". Best attitude; both of them. I think we can all afford to focus a little bit less on ourselves. Maybe if some of us stop telling ourselves "so and so is draining", we will find the will and the strength we need to do the right thing and keep going.
The grass is rarely greener on the other side. But the group in question always think they are special and that they'll be the exception to the rule.
My wife left me for a new guy who noticed her. 15 years and 2 kids. 2 weeks in she is already crying.
Guess she fell for Chad
Cap
Chad did you a favor
@@johnvencill1511 yeah probably 🤷♂️
@@johnvencill1511 Not really, his children will be f cked up, and it's Chad's fault too!
you actually can’t heal outside of the relationship. the marriage is what brings up the childhood traumas and fighting through it is actually what heals you. running only reinforces the personality issues.
that is definitely not always true.
I always laugh when these women leave their marriages and then get upset their ex-husband moves on and is happier without them. If you didn't think they were worth staying with, you are not worth crying over.
When my ex left, she actually told me she would probably be jealous when I found someone else. I told her she had no right to be jealous because she was the one choosing to leave and by doing so, I would never take her back.
Nose ring is a red flag that will keep any real men from considering her as a spouse.
Not in Asia and Africa.
You should be comfortable alone before pursuing a significant other. Other people aren't here to fix your insecurities or inability to be happy alone.
Why don't moms school their daughters anymore? My best friend's mom would tell all the daughters within earshot "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?" And when she ran out of daughters, she'd start in on the sons! God, I miss that in a woman.
these days you wouldnt want that, women give terrible advice
Shaming needs to make a comeback. No one seems to be ashamed of their bad behaviors any longer?
@@bigmikeobama5314 thats.... completely not true.
If many of these divorced women are unhappy, bitter, twisted, crying and depressed I feel sorry for their poor cats!
Bad influence on innocent cats.
Yeah. A nose ring with 5 studs in the ear highlighted by whining says "I really think about the consequences of my actions".
Red flags all over
Forget Bitcoin, my money for the future is betting on the "Cat Industrial Complex" 😸
There's one small divergence that I'm having a difficult time processing and reconciling. Maybe you can help me with this.
Cats can only survive by eating meat; most of us know this...and those who don't are either ill-informed or just cruel. Whether by way of live prey, or by way of meat proteins included in cat food, cats can't survive without meat.
And yet, the growing insistence that humans become meatless themselves. We can survive without meat, sure. But evidence is growing that we humans cannot thrive without some animal based proteins in our diets over the long term. So this boils down to the question: Do vegans have cats? I already know that they do. So do they feed them animal proteins? I also know that they do. So how do they reconcile the killing and feeding of an animal to their...animal?
This feels like an endless loop. Or maybe a Droste painting? Maybe I should follow my "odds favor" philosophy and invest in BOTH things...Bitcoin AND Cat Industrial Complex (aka: "Big Cat")? 😏
@@justaskin8523 Or start Cat Coin 😸🪙and stay away from vegan cats because when the cat licks you it's not because they like you, but like what you taste like.🍽
That lawyer at the end was hilarious. "She was hot" 😆
Followed by "I'll f that guy for $200M." Remember who he is and who he's talking about. Technically, he did.
Love this , woman never admit , they messed up
go date men then
“Did you mentor him?”😂😂😂 she couldn’t have it’s MENtor 😂😂😂
She was the tormentor not the mentor.
As a man who's experienced this, I personally have had a hard time and stayed single for year's. Not even sure if I will ever go back there.
Social media is completely destroying the family structure that is the base of a successful society.
Stay single
I could never do it again. I gave my heart and soul only once, I wouldn't do that to myself again, and I got SO lucky that she didn't want the kids enough to make a big legal deal of it. We had been together for over 15 years and it took me probably a bit over half as many years to be just about totally OK as a result. I was lonely and depressed for a long time and just put on as great a show for the kids as I could. But I'd never put myself in a position of vulnerability like that again.
6:55 So it’s the wife’s fault for divorcing a man that cheated with her best friend? 😕 That makes 0 sense.
Thank you, oml
She divorced him BEFORE he got with her best friend.
My advice to men is to do what my husband did.... find a woman who believes divorce is against her faith but who is also very serious about her faith. I say faith because it is the only thing I've seen that makes a woman keep her word indefinitely. My husband and I have the same faith and the same belief about divorce being against our faith. It was the foundation of our agreement to marry. No matter how bad it gets or what either of us do, we can't divorce . We can only separate for a time and reconciliation has to be pursued at all times.... If you have no faith or aren't serious about your faith sorry divorce will always be a risk and so far over a 50% chance... yikes
This is well said.
My cheating ex wife absolutely lost it and had to go to therapy to deal with the guilt of ending our 20 year marriage for her ex boyfriend.He ended up dumping her also .As for me,, I moved on,immigrated to Costa Rica,married a beautiful local brown girl,had two beautiful kids,built a beach front house,and I'm still here loving life 23 years later.Pura Vida desde Costa Rica 😎
"Going through the motions" is REAL LIFE.
You're either a happy person or you're not.
Total truth.
In the last few years, I've come to realize any nose piercing is a hard pass.
Septum - double hard pass.
Lip piercing - don't even know what to say.
well now we know why youre single. If you judge a woman for something as simple as a peircing, she wont want you bud.
Emotional shrapnel.
Then don't look for a bride from either Africa or Asia. Since there are cultures where it is part and parcel of the cultures there for women to wear them.
@@SuzetteKath Do you have anything else in the arsenal. We all get the cultural thing, we just don't live in that culture if we did we would accept it.
I have filed for divorce twice; Husband #1 12 years - Physical Abuse , Husband #2 6 years - Three Years Affair he refused to terminate. Currently married 16 years and it’s real love with w/#3 ❤🎉😅! Don’t divorce unless it’s impossible and cannot be avoided, you will regret it.
A great show! You look healthy again. You looked so worn out and un- well before you took some time off. Your work as proven value, you don't have to work yourself so hard. A rare and special gem!
Thank you, Pearl, for disseminating the truth!!
Women who talk into cameras and post their personal dramas are sad.
men who complain about women in youtube comment sections are sad.
I'll never understand how someone smart enough to build a $500 million dollar business isn't smart enough to have a prenuptial agreement.
It's called foolishness.
No prenuptial agreement is bulletproof.
I agree. Why would you sign a financial contract with someone who is rewarded for breaking it?
@@jgrif7891it only work if you already have the money when you get married, not the money that you make during the marriage. I would recommend an offshore account and hide some money every month.
@@Muskiehunter4841 Because she's hot! 🤣
When being “Strong and Independent” goes wrong. I bet they took advice from some chronically single City Girls. Misery loves company.
I'm happy, My wife kicked me out 10 years ago, Filed for divorce, Her girlfriend's found out the house was not paid for and dumped her, I've had it rough but I'm happy
I can say I had a successful marriage because it lasted until one of us died (after 44 years). On the other hand, I and my son and my two sons-in-law married divorced women as our first marriages. So I told them that we are very lucky men because, if our marriages to divorced women ended in divorce, we weren't the ones showing a pattern of failure. No divorces amongst the four us so far.
That's like buying a used car so if (or when) it breaks down you can blame the car for being used. 🤦
@@jasono2139 - I only buy used cars, mostly because I never ever want another car note again as long as I live. But then I put a lot into them to reduce the odds of them breaking down...in a bad neighborhood. But there's a difference. Changing the belts, hoses, batteries, and tires can reduce most of the risk of having used cars, but you can't do that with humans and expect the same outcome. Most women will be annoyed if you try to change their hoses or brake pads without their permission first!
I am so glad I called it quits on love two years ago. As an introvert I am better off being alone.
Why are they whining online? The narcissism if off the charts.
whyre you whining online? hypocrite.
@@maddie-xh9yy He's not whining, hes OBSERVING your kind display their never ending narcissism.
@@fletchf.fletch8242 what does 'your kind display' mean?? nothing about that sentence made sense.
These women are heartless. They make their children despair for the rest of their lives. They mess up their kids because they are bored. They wreck their husband's life and for what? Some cheap thrill? I have no sympathy for them.
Accountability is like Kryptonite
"Rationalization hampster" used to be a common RP term.
You can see the hamster wheel spinning in their eyes
Got divorced 1month ago after being married for 7years and finding out my ex-wife cheated on me. I got discarded just after Christmas while I was away and my ex-wife found nothing better to do than posting a video of her and her new boyfriend on Instagram. Pure cruelty and never expected that the person I trusted the most could do something like this. Of course I am not perfect but I treated her like a queen. She didn’t really want to save our marriage at all and of course didn’t give an apology. Good luck to her when she will realise that the grass is not greener on the other side.
If your so strong and free why you need tik toc for validation
why do you need a youtube comment section for validation.
Wife gets loved bombed by a narcissist co worker and leaves me and our daughters within days. He uses her for 1 month and dumps her. She then says it was all my fault. Sorry i guess i was working too much overtime to cover the bills and i must have not shown her enough attention. Ironic how my overtime helped pay for the motel rooms.
Miss Pearl, I appreciate your channel and your realistic perspective. May I add a thing to your first comment......you aptly said that the first girl made a "mistake" when she divorced her husband. If I stepped on your toe, that would be a mistake, if I forgot something at work that would be a mistake. To go see an attorney and fill out paperwork and dissolve her marriage.......is an act of the will......it is a decision!,.....not a mistake. To leave her husband and perhaps children is not a mistake. Please......may we call it what it really is. Thank you.
My Thai wife is all about family 1st and treats me like a king and that’s what makes her happy.
Nose ring, Oink! Oink!
You nailed it. Proverbs 11:22 As a jewel of gold in a swine's snout, so is a fair woman which is without discretion.
Months after divorce, 2nd wife (yes I know) phoned me because she had a pipe burst in her (my - thanks divorce court) house. She expected me to go round and sort it. After the drama hysterics and a few tears I said wives have husbands to do that, female divorcees call and pay for a plumber. She could not get her head round it.
I find it interesting that over the decades women of divorce went from "he was an asshole" through "he's ok but it didn't work out" to " I didn't expect life to be so hard without a husband". Or in other words needing to hide your poor choice to divorce when divorce was still somewhat frowned upon, to the period of time when divorce has become 50/50 and not frowned upon to the period where divorce is not only accepted but promoted.
The basic thing is, once we know you bailed on someone else, we will treat you differently. We know what you are like, so measures will be taken.
A wise proverb... "A wise woman builds her home but a foolish one tears hers apart with her own hands".
Nurse is not a career, it is a job.
How much do you think nurses make now?
I beg to differ. They are not mutually exclusive and nursing is absolutely a career. With continuing education there is quite the ladder to climb to other positions past becoming an RN. Maybe there’s a point to what you’re saying, or maybe it’s just trying to illicit a reaction?
They cheat like a mofo also
My ex left me after i found out she cheated. It's been 10 years I have 4 new kids with my new girl a new house a new business and She's now a 55 year old single burger waitress at Red Robin the kids we had have moved on with thier lives and now shes broke and all alone, Karma is a bitch
Same thing day after day, year after year, decade after decade. I stopped trying to find a partner altogether. It seems that men and women don't want to share their lives anymore. Everybody's independent. And that's okay, we don't all have to pair off forever anyway. Many of us have accepted it. But then don't you dare complain, ladies. This is what you wanted.
The grass is always greener on the other side, but it still is just grass. Essentially it's the same, but just looks better. Work on your grass, buy fertilizers, water and keep it groomed. Often the green is fake or you realize how much work it takes to have the green lawn. If you spend a little more time and effort on your own relationship then they can improve.
They usually go through many men after looking for the same or better lol.
Women are their own worst enemies..My ex left for greener pastures. 6 years later, she's still alone and is crying to TicToc about I'm happier and have moved on years ago.