Your dad is a liar and doesn’t live his own standards. Men are not a prize. Never save anything for them, whatever you do, do it for your own enrichment and fulfillment. Husbands are not saints and passing tests for a man who will subsequently disappoint you is futile because after all, he’s just a man, not a prize. A man that respects and values you will not tests you, he will accept you or gracefully move on.
@@tranquility9325 whether they’re faithful or not, do the part that God ask you to do and let God deal with them. Marriage is something that’s sacred. God put marriage on this earth so we’re not out here living however we want without a care. Living in fornication is a sin
@tranquility9325 very true. It's almost all of them. I long noticed that there is no reason for any woman to have a man coz, majority of them are public properties. They are public hoes
@@aprilwashington3150 i agree. If men dont start testing woman ,but instead just let it all go naturally, woman will nit have to be trapped in the games men play. Testing is part of their game. Then when it goes the other way where hurt comes in, men will blame the woman for becomming desperate. By using discernment or observation in datung he will be avle to figure out her caracter. Why should they even begin testing it is childisch. If a mandoent want a woman dont be around her PERIOD. WE WOMAN ARE BLAMED TO MUCH FOR EVERUTHING THAT GOES WRONG IN DATUNG AND RELATIONSHIPS. MEN NEED TO GROW UP.
Bandwagon mentality...y'all the same ones made a list about places y'all won't eat.....or won't go to dates to.... Women can't run the country cause y'all too exhausting in general....too emotional
Guys from my experience if he comes off like he is testing you ,just leave. Thats way we have so much broken women and the sad thing is they always do this to a sensitive try woman. They date toxic women and make the sensitive woman working over time to provide that they are the one which is sad because they usually will never be with you.
If he's testing you then that means he doesn't like you. I have noticed that males never test the women who they are truly interested in. If you feel like he's testing you then leave immediately and don't waste your time.
"Testing" someone is so manipulative and indicates they're not partner material. The guys "testing" women to see if they'll have sex on the first date are also part of the problem - because they also participated in the first date sex. You think they just stopped the woman immediately after she agreed and said "You failed my test so this date is over"? No - they follow-through with having sex, too. They'll think it's OK for them to have sex on the first date with a woman and then talk smack about her afterwards and say she's not "wife" material - and he's not husband material, either. They can be judged by the same coin. I hate double standards.
You are right. If he proposes sx on first second date so to sum it up 1. Its just a test - delete him, hes a manipulator 2. Means it, he himself is a cheater so should be deleted.
Men who do that are hypocrites. They failed their own test, and claim to be logical leaders. They hold us to a certain standard that they don't even hold for themselves. It's a real clown show out here!
@@Chommikenya Then you haven't met a "man" before. "Man" is the grownup version of a boy. If a guy is truly into you, he'll do everything and anything to make you his. He will not do anything foolish to lose you. I've witnessed it myself. The guy who truly loves you will prioritise your well-being over others'.
Ladies, remember a man who FINDS a wife, FINDS a good thing. Be yourself if you enjoy finner things in life be authentic and do not hide it, your God given husband is looking forward to provide that.... Shine and avoid toxic/shaming advice from people who haven't spent a minute with you or in your shoes.
This ❤💯 and avoid cheap advice like that of the woman implying a high value man or whatever marriage material guy is not only inviting you for a hookup but also asking you to pick up a meal on your way for him
And then men wonder why so many women are completely done with them. Soon as I get a whiff of a game/test, I shut down and block men. I've no patience or time for that crap.
Real😂 and they don't realise that women also have unique and dynamic interests and desires. Not all women want the man, but want kids.. some just want to rack up the number of sugar daddies they have (quietly) and go about their day. But most want a good man to settle down with or just date for a long time. These tests are just weird. BE HONEST and get exactly what you want
I ghosted a guy for something like this. He got missing the night before we had plans. The day of, he hit me up in the middle of the day to see if i still wanted to go. Then did the same thing when it was my turn to plan our date. Got missing the night before. Then the day of he hit me late in the afternoon to cancel. Few days after, I thought about it and I was done. No conversation or nothing completely walked away. Yall can keep playing if you want too!!!!
*With so many trials and test coming from the outside of relationships or potential relationships; Why play games? I’ve never played with a guy but they have played with me and lost me forever. Some games you play can cost you your soulmate* A woman who knows her value doesn’t tolerate being on a game board.*
I love how these tips are given, like we will always want some man and his approval so we're so excited to learn how to play their games. Maybe back in the 90s but now I'm completely turned off from these immature confused abusive XYs
Another thing I will add ladies is don’t let them make little sly gaslighting remarks when you set boundaries like “excuuuse me” or they say shit like “my bad (but say it in a weird condescending tone) that right there tells me all I need to know not only are a manipulator and don’t respect my boundaries you’re also a gaslighter .
Oh you disappear you can’t comeback. You are no longer in the running. 3 guys have done this and still text me confused 😅. And I never went out with them or touched them, they wanted to pop in and out during the talking stage. Now every post I make I get a “when you gonna let me take you out” lol losers.
Exactly I have had men with and without dates do this to me. I just ignore them and move forward I have no time for childish games they got back asking me for dates.… no reply from me. Bunch of crazy Men.
If men do this they need to look deeply at their behaviour.. Disgusting.... What gives them the authority to be testing anyone... Test yourselves...get some help!!!
Just to make it clear men who play games have nothing to offer. That’s unhealed behavior. Bet your bottom dollar he’s selfish, lacks empathy, and can’t love. If he could you wouldn’t have to beg him to care all the time. Don’t beg these fools leave or just don’t deal with them. Essentially you’re getting an adult child. Absolutely ridiculous.
Ladies, two take aways here. 1. If you want to get married stop having sex. If you can’t wait you need to make sure he is in love with you first. 2. Be yourself. The rest will work itself out.
4:35 - Man crying about being a paycheck... I can guarantee you doesn't have much of a paycheck to worry about. ;) Now I may not care about purses, but that SURE doesn't mean I'm not high-maintenance in the ways suited to me, LOL.
That's why women should date multiple men at the same time but don't sleep with all of them, make sure not to invest emotions before they do protect ur ❤ and energy, take birth control use protection.. Until in a relationship.. even after with no ring . Don't believe everything they tell and get to know the ones u like before sleeping with them if u want more than sex .. lists goes on but once they show u theu playing games pull bk..lol funny thing is u may not even notice games cuz you will b too busy with all to focus on one. How they win is usually they date multiple at the same time and try to get them attached..
Who has time for being tested. That just shows his level of toxicity. A smart woman who has value will see this and LEAVE! Ol girl talking about FAILING,,, Girl Please!! KNOW YOU WORTH!
That one lady that said these men are testing you ladies and you ladies are failing,NO YOUR NOT because no man should be playing games and testing you anyway, you’re not failing,she failed even saying that.🤦🏽♀️ he don’t even know you to be testing you which makes him toxic. Leave him alone. 🚩
The person administering the test is the problem. Even if you "pass", you don't want him. Healthy mature people use discernment. They use their eyes i.e. look at the outcome of your life and how you carry yourself and know all they need to know based on their good or bad intentions.
These men are telling you the truth like it or not. I dont think they make a checklist of tests but rather subconsciously do some of these tests when you're naturally out. Not every man is like this. I appreciate hearing the differences in our brains. All of the subconscious tests are basically seeing if you have high value for yourself and at a certain age when they want to settle down and start a family, they're looking for a certain kind of woman for wife and mother of their children just like we look for the same....a high value man. It goes both ways.
With peace and love I’m failing all these test. I have reach the age where I simply do not care, not chasing you, not arguing, and not spending a DIME of you
Actually this is sad. No men play a lot of games and get Mad When We Don't do the same. Why do we have to go through all these tests? I understand to see where a person's at. But this extra stuff is not on call. You just want the box, just pay for it and go home by your business and women. We have to stop giving our bodies away so easy. Make him wait, don't tell him but you're like a lady.Eventually his true qualities will come out when he realized you're not going to sleep with him
Agreed because they just sit there like we're objects waiting to be conquered there all disrespectful to women they just won't admit it because they're ego won't allow it. It's not wise to keep enabling them because a lot of them still need to work on themselves first don't worry so much about what women are doing because sometimes we're just laying there we want to be able to live in a place and relax just like them without being attacked for it.
I don't entertain games, I'm a introvert, a boy playing games would be left with his game. I'll ignore him into being non-existent. Being peaceful keeps my attention, I do literally RUN from anything less. I'm Out! Blocked and I don't double back. My ex hated this about me, I can only be me. 🤷💯
12:13 about the nasty words… and when the guy is a gentleman before getting married and starts to show the real him years later? I feel played and an idiot for having believed on him as a nice person… Beware of narcissists… I wish I could had identify him before marriage and kids He waited patiently until I was hooked to show he hates me And I am sure he hides something from me, probably likes underage girls or it is gay.
The sexual innuendo one usually happens early on and sets the tone. I honestly can't tell if they test me to see how attracted I am to them or that they're lusting.
I am the one that will call them on their bluff/tests, completely disconnect, and keep it stepping. Who has time for games. Real men, who know what they want will not engage in such child’s play. The authentic man values his time, space, the company he keeps, and his energy. Clearly, those who are testing and playing all of those games are either toxic, narcissistic, or simply broken and not worth a High Value Woman’s time. So let him test himself right into a life of loneliness or a hopeless, needy, woman, who he’ll grow bored and tired of anyway. Women we must focus on healing our own unresolved childhood wounds and our own happiness. Protect your inner peace, space, time, energy, resources, and love yourself more than any man can. Pour into those who are willing to invest and pour into you.
06:12 avoid cheap advice like of this woman implying a high value man or whatever marriage material guy is not only inviting you for a hookup but also asking you to pick up a meal on your way for him and your refusal to bring him the meal unqualifies you as a wife. The unqualified who qualifies, so nonsensical
A real man, whether two adults do adult things on the first day of the meeting or not. If he's a grown man, he will handle it like two adults decided to do the adult things. He will not disrespect or think of you in any way. If he wants you, he wants you if she wants you. She wants you. Period. This is why I was single. I do not have time to waste on little kids. You’re your parent's responsibility. I was happily single and am now in a serious relationship with a grown man, not a boy in a grown man's body. Games are for kids…adult games are for the adult period.
@@ChommikenyaI understand what you’re saying but one cannot focus themselves out of desiring love and marriage just like you can’t self love yourself out of desiring love and marriage. It’s only so much focusing on yourself one can do and even still when you get with someone triggers are going to come up 🤷🏾♀️
This makes sooooo much sense. The guys are giving game! Of course, not every man is the same. It should be expected that men test us like we test them. Thank you for this compilation❤. I don't have tiktok😂
@@Alixir1228 Definition of test: take measures to check the quality, performance, or reliability of (something), especially before putting it into widespread use or practice. How do you know if it is the man you want without checking his values, morals, and character? You can't marry anyone. How do you choose friends? Would you befriend anyone? You have an opinion. Do what you like as long as it works for you. I don't have kids. I'm looking for a husband. Me and you are in 2 different stages of life with different goals. So why would we be doing the same exact things if we dont want the same outcome? I'm in my 20's, single, no kids. Edit: we test things we buy from the store. That's why we look at reviews when buying things. That's why we have people getting paid to test products. You test drive a car to make sure it's reliable. Idk. I test everything. I guess some people don't.
Like I said, when someone wants you, they want you, period. It has been a year now with that person. I crossed the line with him on our first disagreement, but it has been a beautiful, healthy, respectful relationship. He values and respects me, and I do the same with him.
To see how you respond… whole time we wondering why y’all even respond like that. lol Stop playing them dumb ssa games or lose the realest thing you ever had… y’all act like we would really care. When you’re genuine, you never take a loss. I promise you
Who made men the standard to gauge and direct relationships? Each individual coming to a partnership should value themselves and move accordingly-no need for “tests” Take a person as they are or move on, we all have choices. 🤷♀️
I’m a grown woman and have no desire to be chased because I’m not running…Just come correct without the games and you have my attention…When the game is played whether I win or lose, he’s deleted/blocked
I’m not playing these weird mind gymnastic games with nobody, go play with someone else, you bring up sex YOURE BLOCKED, you get distant YOURE BLOCKED, you go ghost BLOCKED, any test I’m done with no explanation what so ever.
Anna's 2 cents; these tips, are useful! I wish I had this information, when I was younger & could have used it. My question though, is why is it always women, who are told how to act around men? Why aren't men ever told , how not to be so boorish? Why were they never taught manners, morals & taught women are human too? Because no matter , what we do or say, they will do what they want & take what they want.
I do not pretend to be anything or anyone or test him. I want organic, healthy relationships. If he wants to stay with me, he will, and the same goes for me. I let things be natural, period. When someone wants to be with you, they will be with you. And RESPECT and Values come naturally. Ladies and gentlemen, when you meet someone interested in you, and you are interested in them, it will come naturally. Do not focus on dos, and don’t focus on enjoying each other’s quality time.
😂😂Galz are here investing for retirement, there is really no time for these games, fellas. You need need to walk into the 21st century because these games are literally outdated.😅
No man is worthy of testing me - YOU are the one in question, not me. I don't need you. I might like you, but it does not mean I need you and if you like to play games I'll get you a Monopoly and let you have that (for the rest of your life).
No only he didn’t get anything from me but he also lost me. I left him and told him I don’t wan to care anymore. I am out of his league anyway so as much as I love him and I can do better.
I fail the test everytime i do right by a guy he lost respect because i was too good i lost respect for him because he isnt worth keeping in my life and cant respect someone good
So Immature! Full Grown Adult Men already know exactly what type of woman they want. They communicate that from the beginning. Games are for the immature.
16:15 guy talking about interest test. He’s talking about a guy waiting to see if the woman shows her interest in him by texting, calling and making plans. That’s dead cuz us women shouldn’t have to do this, I’ve tried this before after he had reached out but I was left on delivered for days or read, and he’s gone days without talking to me. So I let him be cuz I anit doin that. You get the same energy you give 🤷🏼♀️
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Oh this video ain’t for me, I only date grown men, not childish little boys lookin to be chased
Test your way out of a decent woman so you don't waste her time!
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This 😂 👏 ❤
Yes 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 men are so childish sometimes 😂
Best comment 😂
Exactly ❤❤❤
Playing games is childish....Communicate properly.....
Right?!
Thank you for watching ❤️
But Woman do the Same 🤔🤔🤔
@@judiie.3800 some..
Period.
Most of them are narcissists. They have arrested development so they are toddlers in adult bodies.
My dad raised me to not move in or sleep with a Man until marriage and he’s right.
Even in marriage many of them won't be faithful.
Your dad is a liar and doesn’t live his own standards. Men are not a prize. Never save anything for them, whatever you do, do it for your own enrichment and fulfillment. Husbands are not saints and passing tests for a man who will subsequently disappoint you is futile because after all, he’s just a man, not a prize. A man that respects and values you will not tests you, he will accept you or gracefully move on.
@@tranquility9325 whether they’re faithful or not, do the part that God ask you to do and let God deal with them. Marriage is something that’s sacred. God put marriage on this earth so we’re not out here living however we want without a care. Living in fornication is a sin
My father did the same too and I ended up not sleeping g with any. I am 30 years old and I only love women😂😂😂❤❤❤
@tranquility9325 very true. It's almost all of them. I long noticed that there is no reason for any woman to have a man coz, majority of them are public properties. They are public hoes
If you test me you failed my test to not test me.
@@kdani4777 😂very meta
THAT PART
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Exactly 💯
This is it right here💯😂 they never get that.. but have the nerve to be begging after years go by.
Grown men don't act like this. This just means they need to grow up.
Grown men test you too
It's how the world operates literally
Am sure You have tested people unknowingly.
Sometimes that's how the world works
@@Chommikenya
Not. It's immaturity no matter who's doing it. Discernment is what healthy people use.
@@aprilwashington3150 i agree. If men dont start testing woman ,but instead just let it all go naturally, woman will nit have to be trapped in the games men play. Testing is part of their game. Then when it goes the other way where hurt comes in, men will blame the woman for becomming desperate. By using discernment or observation in datung he will be avle to figure out her caracter. Why should they even begin testing it is childisch. If a mandoent want a woman dont be around her PERIOD. WE WOMAN ARE BLAMED TO MUCH FOR EVERUTHING THAT GOES WRONG IN DATUNG AND RELATIONSHIPS. MEN NEED TO GROW UP.
@@aprilwashington3150texted like truly evolved, mature adult
@@pearlseashell👍.
Grown women have bills, jobs, school, hobbies...like, who has time for all of this bs? 😂 you're getting blocked immediately if I sense any foolishness
That's the energy!!!!!! 💪💪💝
Thank you for watching
I know that’s right getting blocked and dismissed real quick go play those games with a little girl I’m a grown woman and no time for that mess!
I would not block him i would play right back in his face
Exactly. I promise you the first time they play in my face. It’s over before it even get started
THAT FUCKIN PART 💯💯💯
This is why im happy single,this is too exhausting.
Too exhausting
Exactly smh this is sooo stupid
Exactly 💯 single life is enjoyable 😉
@@anitababz5465 It truly is.
Bandwagon mentality...y'all the same ones made a list about places y'all won't eat.....or won't go to dates to....
Women can't run the country cause y'all too exhausting in general....too emotional
Stop dating them. Test passed✨✨✨
😂😂You Won
With flying colours.
Guys from my experience if he comes off like he is testing you ,just leave. Thats way we have so much broken women and the sad thing is they always do this to a sensitive try woman. They date toxic women and make the sensitive woman working over time to provide that they are the one which is sad because they usually will never be with you.
Exactly ✌️
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If he's testing you then that means he doesn't like you.
I have noticed that males never test the women who they are truly interested in.
If you feel like he's testing you then leave immediately and don't waste your time.
Some men wait years to test a woman after she's emotionally invested and knows it's harder for her to leave because she is attached
@@winning3329wow this is a great perspective I haven’t thought about . Thanks for sharing
How am I supposed to crave or want you after all this mental gymnastics?
Did you call it mental gymnastics? 😂😂
Hey thank you for watching ❤️
@@Chommikenya 🤣
It’s stressful. And when women are stressed we don’t want to have sex
A lot of this is not valued men this is boys and narcissists. I'm not playing these games anymore
FACTS
"Testing" someone is so manipulative and indicates they're not partner material. The guys "testing" women to see if they'll have sex on the first date are also part of the problem - because they also participated in the first date sex. You think they just stopped the woman immediately after she agreed and said "You failed my test so this date is over"? No - they follow-through with having sex, too. They'll think it's OK for them to have sex on the first date with a woman and then talk smack about her afterwards and say she's not "wife" material - and he's not husband material, either. They can be judged by the same coin. I hate double standards.
Thank you!!! I’m tired of these narcissistic double standards 🙄
Couldn't have said it any better myself... 🙏🙏🎯🎯🎯🎯
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You are right. If he proposes sx on first second date so to sum it up
1. Its just a test - delete him, hes a manipulator
2. Means it, he himself is a cheater so should be deleted.
Men who do that are hypocrites. They failed their own test, and claim to be logical leaders. They hold us to a certain standard that they don't even hold for themselves. It's a real clown show out here!
Men wouldn’t play these games if they actually like you
They would and they will!!!
@@Chommikenyathey always do even after marriage. Straight facts.. most men act like grown boys with women..whether they like u or not
exactly
All you got to do is one good slap "POW,"👋🤷🤸 it works like a charm.❤
@@Chommikenya Then you haven't met a "man" before. "Man" is the grownup version of a boy. If a guy is truly into you, he'll do everything and anything to make you his. He will not do anything foolish to lose you. I've witnessed it myself. The guy who truly loves you will prioritise your well-being over others'.
Ladies, remember a man who FINDS a wife, FINDS a good thing. Be yourself if you enjoy finner things in life be authentic and do not hide it, your God given husband is looking forward to provide that.... Shine and avoid toxic/shaming advice from people who haven't spent a minute with you or in your shoes.
This ❤💯 and avoid cheap advice like that of the woman implying a high value man or whatever marriage material guy is not only inviting you for a hookup but also asking you to pick up a meal on your way for him
Amen came to say something very similar.
@@dearbrave4183I agree. I was like “girl please😂”
Love your comment.
And then men wonder why so many women are completely done with them. Soon as I get a whiff of a game/test, I shut down and block men. I've no patience or time for that crap.
Girl same!!!! I’m not with the bullshit at my big age
Men talk about testing when they’re the easiest thing a woman can get😂
Real😂 and they don't realise that women also have unique and dynamic interests and desires.
Not all women want the man, but want kids.. some just want to rack up the number of sugar daddies they have (quietly) and go about their day.
But most want a good man to settle down with or just date for a long time.
These tests are just weird. BE HONEST and get exactly what you want
I ghosted a guy for something like this. He got missing the night before we had plans. The day of, he hit me up in the middle of the day to see if i still wanted to go. Then did the same thing when it was my turn to plan our date. Got missing the night before. Then the day of he hit me late in the afternoon to cancel. Few days after, I thought about it and I was done. No conversation or nothing completely walked away. Yall can keep playing if you want too!!!!
A guy went mia on me like this, we had a date planned. I blocked him, I can’t be starting off on such feet.
@@rosaclick1995Did you actually plan what you were supposed to do?
Baby he would’ve been blocked with no explanation the first time he played in my face
*With so many trials and test coming from the outside of relationships or potential relationships; Why play games? I’ve never played with a guy but they have played with me and lost me forever. Some games you play can cost you your soulmate* A woman who knows her value doesn’t tolerate being on a game board.*
Who likes being on a game board general?!
Like just miss me with that!
Thank you for watching ❤️
Then they end up with the one that wants their money, then cry about it.
You gonna end up playing yourself trying to test me 😂
😂!!
This is exhausting 😂😂 I’ll just stay single
😂 what matters is that you're happy!
Putting yourself first before anything else 💝
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That part 😂
I love how these tips are given, like we will always want some man and his approval so we're so excited to learn how to play their games. Maybe back in the 90s but now I'm completely turned off from these immature confused abusive XYs
Another thing I will add ladies is don’t let them make little sly gaslighting remarks when you set boundaries like “excuuuse me” or they say shit like “my bad (but say it in a weird condescending tone) that right there tells me all I need to know not only are a manipulator and don’t respect my boundaries you’re also a gaslighter .
Oh you disappear you can’t comeback. You are no longer in the running. 3 guys have done this and still text me confused 😅. And I never went out with them or touched them, they wanted to pop in and out during the talking stage. Now every post I make I get a “when you gonna let me take you out” lol losers.
😂I love that!!
Thank you for watching ❤️
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Exactly I have had men with and without dates do this to me. I just ignore them and move forward I have no time for childish games they got back asking me for dates.… no reply from me. Bunch of crazy Men.
@@elisavh7 haha 😂 the admission fee is funny. A therapist would charge them, won’t they? It's obvious these childish men need therapy.
I get the same! Men I never even let MEET me hitting me up YEARS later. It's pathetic!
All that test just for them to turn out to be the real a$sholes lol
Right?
Or gay
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When a woman says no to a man's sex offer, why do they get angry and aggressive?
Because that was their first intention with you
If men do this they need to look deeply at their behaviour..
Disgusting....
What gives them the authority to be testing anyone...
Test yourselves...get some help!!!
This tho! 😂💯fr
The 1st lady is a pick me mammie
I dont care about any of those games. Some of these dudes need to test themselves.
You won 😂!!
Thank you for watching ❤️
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Just to make it clear men who play games have nothing to offer. That’s unhealed behavior. Bet your bottom dollar he’s selfish, lacks empathy, and can’t love. If he could you wouldn’t have to beg him to care all the time. Don’t beg these fools leave or just don’t deal with them. Essentially you’re getting an adult child. Absolutely ridiculous.
Ladies, two take aways here. 1. If you want to get married stop having sex. If you can’t wait you need to make sure he is in love with you first. 2. Be yourself. The rest will work itself out.
men are entitled and self centered it’s how they are raised and good treatment doesn’t depend on him being in love with you.
4:35 - Man crying about being a paycheck... I can guarantee you doesn't have much of a paycheck to worry about. ;)
Now I may not care about purses, but that SURE doesn't mean I'm not high-maintenance in the ways suited to me, LOL.
That's why women should date multiple men at the same time but don't sleep with all of them, make sure not to invest emotions before they do protect ur ❤ and energy, take birth control use protection.. Until in a relationship.. even after with no ring . Don't believe everything they tell and get to know the ones u like before sleeping with them if u want more than sex .. lists goes on but once they show u theu playing games pull bk..lol funny thing is u may not even notice games cuz you will b too busy with all to focus on one. How they win is usually they date multiple at the same time and try to get them attached..
Exactly
Who has time for being tested. That just shows his level of toxicity. A smart woman who has value will see this and LEAVE! Ol girl talking about FAILING,,, Girl Please!! KNOW YOU WORTH!
KNOW YOUR WORTH!!!
That one lady that said these men are testing you ladies and you ladies are failing,NO YOUR NOT because no man should be playing games and testing you anyway, you’re not failing,she failed even saying that.🤦🏽♀️ he don’t even know you to be testing you which makes him toxic. Leave him alone. 🚩
Yees leave him alone!!
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This is some junior high school BS games. It seems like these men haven’t evolved past 13 years old.
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The person administering the test is the problem. Even if you "pass", you don't want him. Healthy mature people use discernment. They use their eyes i.e. look at the outcome of your life and how you carry yourself and know all they need to know based on their good or bad intentions.
Women should determine if a man is mentally healthy and loyal before getting too close to him.
These men are telling you the truth like it or not. I dont think they make a checklist of tests but rather subconsciously do some of these tests when you're naturally out. Not every man is like this. I appreciate hearing the differences in our brains. All of the subconscious tests are basically seeing if you have high value for yourself and at a certain age when they want to settle down and start a family, they're looking for a certain kind of woman for wife and mother of their children just like we look for the same....a high value man. It goes both ways.
They do all these test and still choose wrong 😂
😂😂 Right?!
I fail every test because anyone testing you in any way is up to something not good. Then block and ignore his stupid 🤬.
With peace and love I’m failing all these test. I have reach the age where I simply do not care, not chasing you, not arguing, and not spending a DIME of you
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I totally agree and watch the ones that try to over step your boundaries too.
Trying to test me will get you left! I’m too old for that shit.
Period!!!!
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Actually this is sad. No men play a lot of games and get Mad When We Don't do the same. Why do we have to go through all these tests? I understand to see where a person's at. But this extra stuff is not on call. You just want the box, just pay for it and go home by your business and women. We have to stop giving our bodies away so easy. Make him wait, don't tell him but you're like a lady.Eventually his true qualities will come out when he realized you're not going to sleep with him
Agreed because they just sit there like we're objects waiting to be conquered there all disrespectful to women they just won't admit it because they're ego won't allow it. It's not wise to keep enabling them because a lot of them still need to work on themselves first don't worry so much about what women are doing because sometimes we're just laying there we want to be able to live in a place and relax just like them without being attacked for it.
the last creep who tried to get me to his house after the first date, got left walking away angry
We don't play games. Dude is mistaken. Women have better things to do.
We busy working on ourselves 🫶
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That is bc they think that we are like them. It is projection
Head games is why so many ain't got nobody
Do that shit and I block next
Next please.......
That's the attitude
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I don't entertain games, I'm a introvert, a boy playing games would be left with his game. I'll ignore him into being non-existent. Being peaceful keeps my attention, I do literally RUN from anything less. I'm Out! Blocked and I don't double back. My ex hated this about me, I can only be me. 🤷💯
You standing on business!!!
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If a man suddenly stops talking to me, I just assume he wasn’t that interested and then I move on.
12:13 about the nasty words… and when the guy is a gentleman before getting married and starts to show the real him years later? I feel played and an idiot for having believed on him as a nice person…
Beware of narcissists… I wish I could had identify him before marriage and kids
He waited patiently until I was hooked to show he hates me
And I am sure he hides something from me, probably likes underage girls or it is gay.
The sexual innuendo one usually happens early on and sets the tone. I honestly can't tell if they test me to see how attracted I am to them or that they're lusting.
I am the one that will call them on their bluff/tests, completely disconnect, and keep it stepping. Who has time for games. Real men, who know what they want will not engage in such child’s play. The authentic man values his time, space, the company he keeps, and his energy. Clearly, those who are testing and playing all of those games are either toxic, narcissistic, or simply broken and not worth a High Value Woman’s time. So let him test himself right into a life of loneliness or a hopeless, needy, woman, who he’ll grow bored and tired of anyway. Women we must focus on healing our own unresolved childhood wounds and our own happiness. Protect your inner peace, space, time, energy, resources, and love yourself more than any man can. Pour into those who are willing to invest and pour into you.
I so wish this was a required course in high school. Men and women wired different. Not good or bad. Just different.
06:12 avoid cheap advice like of this woman implying a high value man or whatever marriage material guy is not only inviting you for a hookup but also asking you to pick up a meal on your way for him and your refusal to bring him the meal unqualifies you as a wife. The unqualified who qualifies, so nonsensical
This woman must be a pick me
Pickmesha 100%
Don't test me because I don't play games.
He said its his last time exposing the game 🤣 no sir. U gon keep going or we holding u at gunpoint
😂😂 right?
😂😂😂 no you didn’t
Let’s all fall their test because those who test you are pathetic
These men are exhausting. Narcissistic ones want power and control.
A real man, whether two adults do adult things on the first day of the meeting or not. If he's a grown man, he will handle it like two adults decided to do the adult things. He will not disrespect or think of you in any way. If he wants you, he wants you if she wants you. She wants you. Period. This is why I was single. I do not have time to waste on little kids. You’re your parent's responsibility. I was happily single and am now in a serious relationship with a grown man, not a boy in a grown man's body. Games are for kids…adult games are for the adult period.
I was immature when I dated this tester now I’m mature try that now 😂😂😂
😂Glad you enjoyed it
I feel already jaded by the idea of trying to find my husband...
YOU focus on you babygirl!!
Remember your husband should find you...
Remember your husband should have the means to give you a better life. Be picky, be smart
@@ChommikenyaI understand what you’re saying but one cannot focus themselves out of desiring love and marriage just like you can’t self love yourself out of desiring love and marriage. It’s only so much focusing on yourself one can do and even still when you get with someone triggers are going to come up 🤷🏾♀️
6:02 It's giving Tyler Perry lol 😂
heavy on the projection
This makes sooooo much sense. The guys are giving game! Of course, not every man is the same. It should be expected that men test us like we test them. Thank you for this compilation❤. I don't have tiktok😂
Agree!!!
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I don't test men. I homeschool my sons, those are the only males I test. I have better things to do.
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Definition of test: take measures to check the quality, performance, or reliability of (something), especially before putting it into widespread use or practice.
How do you know if it is the man you want without checking his values, morals, and character? You can't marry anyone. How do you choose friends? Would you befriend anyone? You have an opinion. Do what you like as long as it works for you. I don't have kids. I'm looking for a husband. Me and you are in 2 different stages of life with different goals. So why would we be doing the same exact things if we dont want the same outcome? I'm in my 20's, single, no kids.
Edit: we test things we buy from the store. That's why we look at reviews when buying things. That's why we have people getting paid to test products. You test drive a car to make sure it's reliable. Idk. I test everything. I guess some people don't.
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You don't test.
You look at the results of their current life. That's how.
Like I said, when someone wants you, they want you, period. It has been a year now with that person. I crossed the line with him on our first disagreement, but it has been a beautiful, healthy, respectful relationship. He values and respects me, and I do the same with him.
😂😂men love toxic and ratchet or whoes that’s a lie
To see how you respond… whole time we wondering why y’all even respond like that. lol
Stop playing them dumb ssa games or lose the realest thing you ever had… y’all act like we would really care. When you’re genuine, you never take a loss. I promise you
BUT . . MEN DONT LIKE GAMES!! 🙄🙄🙄🙄
😂😂😂
You're sweet
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Who made men the standard to gauge and direct relationships? Each individual coming to a partnership should value themselves and move accordingly-no need for “tests”
Take a person as they are or move on, we all have choices. 🤷♀️
I’m a grown woman and have no desire to be chased because I’m not running…Just come correct without the games and you have my attention…When the game is played whether I win or lose, he’s deleted/blocked
Period
I’m not playing these weird mind gymnastic games with nobody, go play with someone else, you bring up sex YOURE BLOCKED, you get distant YOURE BLOCKED, you go ghost BLOCKED, any test I’m done with no explanation what so ever.
Anna's 2 cents; these tips, are useful! I wish I had this information, when I was younger & could have used it. My question though, is why is it always women, who are told how to act around men? Why aren't men ever told , how not to be so boorish? Why were they never taught manners, morals & taught women are human too? Because no matter , what we do or say, they will do what they want & take what they want.
Woof!!!
That's Deep
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I picked up on it a long time ago😅
I do not pretend to be anything or anyone or test him. I want organic, healthy relationships. If he wants to stay with me, he will, and the same goes for me. I let things be natural, period. When someone wants to be with you, they will be with you. And RESPECT and Values come naturally. Ladies and gentlemen, when you meet someone interested in you, and you are interested in them, it will come naturally. Do not focus on dos, and don’t focus on enjoying each other’s quality time.
This made me laugh.. bye goofies 😂
Is this why they always beg for my attention when I loose feelings and become mean to them?
Lol I love when they test me with a disappearance act because baby I am gooonneee too. Never do more than a man.
😂😂Galz are here investing for retirement, there is really no time for these games, fellas. You need need to walk into the 21st century because these games are literally outdated.😅
Its simple, really. Keep your legs closed until marriage!
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There are too many married couples who slept together the first date. If he likes the woman he likes her no matter what
Wow.... this is fucking depressing. Dying alone sounds like a dream come true after hearing this psychopathy.
Sorry!!!
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No man is worthy of testing me - YOU are the one in question, not me. I don't need you. I might like you, but it does not mean I need you and if you like to play games I'll get you a Monopoly and let you have that (for the rest of your life).
That s the truth Ladies!!!!! Good luck with a dating!!!!!
Playing games will get you cut tf off, you get one chance with me
No only he didn’t get anything from me but he also lost me. I left him and told him I don’t wan to care anymore. I am out of his league anyway so as much as I love him and I can do better.
You can Do Better!!!
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Yup single i with stay 😂
I recommend all women to follow tony gaskins
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I fail the test everytime i do right by a guy he lost respect because i was too good i lost respect for him because he isnt worth keeping in my life and cant respect someone good
So is the sexual innuendo test passed by being sexual or by not being sexual??
Apparently by not being sexual. Once they get it, they stop trying to actually win you.
So Immature! Full Grown Adult Men already know exactly what type of woman they want. They communicate that from the beginning. Games are for the immature.
Absolutely agree 💯
They need to test themselves 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂 Exactly 💯!!
Life is a game, people are too serious sometimes it's not that serious.
16:15 guy talking about interest test. He’s talking about a guy waiting to see if the woman shows her interest in him by texting, calling and making plans. That’s dead cuz us women shouldn’t have to do this, I’ve tried this before after he had reached out but I was left on delivered for days or read, and he’s gone days without talking to me. So I let him be cuz I anit doin that. You get the same energy you give 🤷🏼♀️
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I don't chase. I attract. I'm a Taurus. I don't need a man. I would like a man..
Now that's the energy ❤️
Everyone that tried it, got cut forever lol… till this day, wondering about me.
Never again. Grow up
Way of the world. Learn how God wants men to court women and everything will be easier…
Thanks! Great tips!
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Plot twist: 90% of the time women know exactly what games are happening we just pretend like we don’t
Some!