💯 lmao, I’ve been married for 33yrs and it’s exhausting telling this to single ladies. I live a Princess life. PSA-Women realize this fraudulent feminist movement is a Huge Hoax!!!!!!!l (my opinion) Men are not perfect and neither are We. relationship’s are hard work and Very worth it. Respect communication and compassion from both parties… most importantly Keep your friends and Family out of your personal business if you want a healthy one! I hope everyone finds ❤ I truly believe in it!!!
Maybe you should consider MEN are telling the truth about how MEN feel. 🤷🏾♀️ They like skin... it turns them on. Lingerie in their mind means sex... that turns them on. Certain kinds of women wear different types of lingerie and it's like a guaranteed of sex... which also turns them on. Most men prefer naked before sex from what I've been told. If you're offended by that truth, try cooking for him in it or getting him at the door before he showers so that he can stare and admire you in it before it ends up on the floor. 😂❤
Yeah they do most of the women in porn start out wearing lingerie there playboy magazines are filled with women that are either wearing lingerie and in the next page she's naked lingerie is a pretty common fetish for men you can still have sex in it.
Yeah they do lingerie is a pretty common fetish for men but sometimes ugly men don't like it because it wasn't designed for them. I've seen some women still have sex in it. He's like that guy on the bus trying to give you his input on your appearance, inserting his opinion where it's not needed just to get attention from you. Lingerie can't be seen through clothes anyways so I don't know why there so worried about it.
Girl literally. The amount of games there are, it’s 100x better to be single. Own expectations, own value and worth, I can sleep knowing I’m not being cheated on, list goes on. Women really just want someone who’s accountable, shows up, puts effort. Men just want to see how they can use you and how far they can make you run for them. 🙄
This is the comment I wanted to see. All these games are toxic. Unhealed and immature people play games. The healed and mature people are looking for healthy relationships
A man told me he was having financial issues so couldn't take me on dates. What he didn't say was, he was saving for a diamond engagement ring, for the woman I didn't know he was involved with.
He said enough when he didn’t have money to take you on dates. Why is a man dating when he can’t “ afford “ dates? He should be working instead of dating. If a woman said no to dating because he’s out of line she’d avoid all the other bs, like finding out he really didn’t have money because he’s saving for an engagement ring.
Cofee date no problem. If I am paying for my own date means we stick to friends or we won't go nowhere. That means I'm not trying and I'm not interested after that. Not my problem if he paid dates and whatever excuses. Too many rules make me just want to focus on myself and don't have any complicated mind games.
That part I view them as science experiments and clowns not even remotely serious. Your life gets peaceful once you stop giving a damn. It's truly old and tired.
@littleleah310 I don't quite feel that is 100% the case but that is partly true Men act the way they do by programming they've been taught since they were little not to show their feelings not to feel their feelings and basically not to care so basically they're mimicking whatever they saw from their elders and Society they can't really show proper feelings and emotions if they were never permitted as kids it's easy to build up a child than to repair and broken be wise with your sons
I got halfway into the video and realized i quit listening about 5 minutes ago. I think I've finally reached that point where i really don't care what any person has to say. Men have been lied to, they lie to themselves and everyone else. It's really sad that they live life to play games
The one guy talking about "getting what he wanted" from just talking to someone for a bit then ghosting having no clue just how sad and pathetic all that is, thinking he's got one up on women or something.
I used to work at Victoria’s Secret and men would buy lingerie for their girlfriends/wives to wear. I’m not saying the the first guy is lying about guys not caring about lingerie because my ex didn’t, but it depends on the guy.
It definitely depends on the guy. The first guy just accidentally admitted he doesn’t believe in foreplay. He doesn’t want to draw things out by admiring his woman, he just wants to smash and pass out 😂👎
Literally pls because i was with a guy for almost 5 years and after he passed by su1c1d3 i found out he was with two other people for 3 years! I wish i knew and wasnt a fool for him. Loved him more than anyone could love and i have unconditional love for him even now.. but that resentment and pain is terrible.
I hope they understand that the rejection that has now tripled is their own doings. It’s miserable , pointless , and antagonistic to deal with them . There’s really no benefit to date in 2024 going forward. Everyone needs about 3-5 years to reset .
The lingerie part made me laugh cause I know m3n are not observant enough to notice the heart charm on my garter belt lmaoo it’s not for you gang it’s for me. Just cause u wanna be boring doesn’t mean women have to.
Most men I know vent the same problems over and over again and fall into victim mentality often. I don't know whether they're just trying to make me feel sorry for them but it makes them look like big babies and is a big turn off.
💯 agreed! Unless you fitting to change my last name, you ain't gettin nuffin! Plus to even get to that level with me, you gotta say the "password" me and God set up! Not playing no games these days!
These immature and unaccountable boys that portray themselves as men should not have the unreasonable expectation of having sex with any woman simply because he showed her attention or took her on a date. If both parties didnt discuss the desire to have sex prior then it seems like theyre trying to manipulate and impose their perverse mindset on the woman.
Women will choose a male out of the crowd and she will be an open book to him and she will be kind and giving and understanding to him, while male's if given the opportunity would choose the whole crowd and manipulate and use and keep his heart closed and his life a secret and then move on to the next woman, or male, and the problem with this is that they don't tell women their true intentions so she can make the choice whether she wants to deal with that or not.
Right before 😅I personally grew up with only BROTHERS so I enjoy playing video games hiking fishing watching sports ect and most girls don't,it's not validation it's common interests aka a friend.
@@monejohn9973 not only that alll my cousins and most of the neighborhood kids were boys. Was I supposed to just give up and say "well, I guess I don't get to have friends then" 🤦🏻♀️ Such nonsense.
Now imagine trying to understand these games as a woman with undiagnosed autism. I understood a lot just before I turned 30 and ignored these games. I am attractive, hardworking, resourceful, intelligent and good in bed. If you want my company, you have to act ON MY RULES. And you know what? After a toxic relationship, I found a man who has no problem doing what I want and fully accepts me as I am with the FEAR that he might lose me. I stopped being afraid when I understood that a man is supposed to contribute something to my life, not make it harder for me.
Hmm this competition that men are setting up between wife material and side chick is sad. Len don’t care about you being the wife if he is cheating on you 24/7. men don’t care about the wife or the prostitute.
Right. I was thinking the same thing. But home boy tripping with the lingerie part. Yeah he seems bored with himself so I’m sure that’s why he feels that way.
It sounds to me if grown adults( including myself, Im definitely a work in progress) get to the root and heal all them inner child wounds all the games, guesses, and tricks would not be needed! Free Yourself💫
Absolutely alone because they don't know how to have emotional intimacy and healthy platonic friendships either. Happily single women still have friendships and family and aren't as lonely being alone.
we don't care about you or your "bros" anymore, sir. You'll never be happy with us because you like each other and we can't compete with that. How about accepting THAT truth. Get in touch with your inner bromance and leave us alone.
Only 6:06 and this shit has already given me a headache........all the games, all of the manipulation and all of the madness with these males is unreal..... Im so turned off 🙄
These men are crazy these days! I'm glad I'm an 80's baby with an old school husband. They don't know what they want! Ontop of they think they're the prize these days!! 🧐😳👀🤦🏽♀️😒 No real man does all that, and they're not that complicated with their feelings unless you're not for filling him or doing what he needs you to do! Dude, with the benie, sounds like a lame who never had a date! For him to say you don't have the guys to do anything about it tells a lot! He doesn't look good enough to get away with that Bs he's talking. Nothing but cap, dude like a 4 on a scale from 1 through 10. Clown... Where do you stay, and who is desperate enough to be bothered with him?
I love your clip compilations they all speak points. I like how you put them together for your audience. To the creators of the clips, good tips good work
1) TBF, I relate to the last point of the first man. 2) At least two have expressed outwardly, verbally and written their jealousy. They also expressed their love first. 3) If only those same men would learn from other "past mistakes". i.e.: You know how many men who have in the past been "burned" (STD) or had unexpected and unwanted pregnancies _still_ refuse to wear condoms? 4) Many men feel validated just by the phone number exchange.
I’ve always said “ men are simply complicated and women are complicatedly simple “ meaning pleasing men is simple but understanding them is complicated! Women are harder to please but simple to understand!
Everything they said I knew all of these things by the time I was 18. I grew up around a lot of men in my family so I identify with them a lot. I guess that’s why I was so good at not having to do much of anything and men would naturally fall in love with me. I feel bad sometimes, because I want to help other women understand the psychology of not just men, but of WOMEN. So they can fully understand how this world functions. EVERYONE and I mean EVERYONE plays mind games. When women start understanding that men are more inwardly emotional than we are, they will learn how much of the ball is really in their court. Also too many fatherless homes are creating more female identifying men and it’s the moms that are telling their sons that they are the prize 🏆 🫥😂, but we get mad when it happens to us 🥸🫠.
I feel like men are always upfront, its just women dont pay attention to the red flags. Like i pay attention when people speak, i believe the signs are always there. Choose peace over everything!
3:48 Something is off with him 7:58 Oldest trick in the book. Movies and TV shows covered this topic and older women warned us too. A lot of this behavior is little boy behavior and that explains why little boys are talking.
I'm just not playing games. This is all nuts to me. 1.Fine tune your ability to discern. Being able to catch and call bullshxt Will save you from so much, uhm, bullshxt! 2. Be truly confident in who you are So that settling for less just isn't anything you'll even entertain 3. Be your own best company, so that you never feel so lonely that you become desperate
This is some serious matrix mess. I'm so glad I'm 60 years old and don't care what people think anymore. There was WAAAYYYY too much talking on this video about what is, isn't, might be, could be ... oh what nonsense!
Although I disagree with a lot of of what these guys say, a lot of what they say is accurate for us men. A lot of women in our lives just don't listen or spend quality time with us that we really need to spend with them. Women want to feel wanted and men need to feel needed. We need to build bridges and understand each other as separate genders, but leaving all of these hateful comments about men in general does not help anyone. I have been betrayed before as well, and I'm guessing many of you have. And I am sorry to anyone who has been betrayed. I know how it feels and it is horrible. But I promise there are good men out there who might not think like women or see the world like women, but they love their women and want to be the best partner they can be. We don't need to assume that all men are gay or that all men are trash or anything like that. It just doesn't help bridge the divide. To all the women who say that they don't care about men's feelings anymore, how does that help anyone? We need to care about each other's feelings, because vulnerability is the root of all connection. We need to be open to hearing criticism from the opposite gender, even if it's wrong, and even if we have a lot more to say about it than they do. That's part of being humble. We need to humble all of ourselves to save relationships. In case anyone hasn't noticed, relationships are much harder to acquire and maintain than past generations. It's because we are all very socially immature and conceited now. I am no different. I would never claim to be above anyone or on any more high ground, which is why I know that we must reverse the horrible damage we have done to our dating situation. It will only end in astronomical singlehood, which will end in an astronomically lower birth rate and high elderly population in a number of decades. That will lead to an economic crash and a potential bottle making of major ethnic groups and populations, which will threaten the genetic stability of our species. I know this all sounds crazy and made up, but we have seen this exact trend in countries like Japan and South Korea. They are facing population crises that we will soon face unless we change our dating perspectives and attitudes. If anyone disagrees with my comment, it is up to you, but my comment is based off of published research on all of these topics, so you're arguing with published research from experts if you argue with this comment. It's fine if you do that, but my comment is fully substantiated and yours would not be. We all need to humble our ourselves and do better as individuals who see each other as a part of a whole instead of the center of the universe.
Honestly, it's the mental gymnastics. I think women in general are just over all the incessant, ridiculous games men play. All the, I'm testing you, I don't really care about you but I'll pretend long enough to get what I want then call you a 304 after you gave in. A lot of men display predatory behavior then victim shame a woman who took them at face value. You get your feelings hurt now when women throw up their collective hands and say they're done and all men are trash. But you're still misdirecting your anger. Deal with the real internal issues among your kind. Deal with the selfishness, narcissism, sadism, deal with the mommy/daddy issues and call other men to do the same. I believe there are good men still out there but too many with platforms are the ones who relish in combativeness, divisiveness, clown behavior, and disunity. Let's see more good men stand up and call out the foolishness in one another.
@ I see what you're saying, but what I mean is that we men need to feel needed to protect and care for the women we love, or the men who we love. And there should always be of course true desire through want as well. It just comes down to some of the gender differences that exist between men and women and typical needs, but overall, in healthy individuals, they complement each other healthily.
@@shore5307thank u for sharing this….i totally understand what u are saying about needing…I’ve been single for 15 years because I’ve raised two sons and never wanted them to experience the step dad situation and have to watch another person abandon us/them etc…now that my sons are grown…my youngest son is almost 18 and is very close to me…his dad hasn’t even attempted to contact him in 3 years now…so he has this sort of animosity towards men because he sees so much of the pain they cause for children they didn’t want and abandoned just like he was…but he understands the need for companionship….i have recently had the talk with him about the need to have a male figure around to protect because society views women as weaker and more vulnerable….a male friend of mine has been around more lately helping me with a bunch of work and I’ve been using his energy to motivate me to keep going and working towards my goals which were in a stale mate….but I’ve recently had to be assertive with this friend because his fling made him upset and he seemed to take it out on me….i explained why I can not be around that sort of attitude and that if he continues to view me as just a female and can treat me like his punching bag…then he was welcome to stay away….i won’t tolerate poor treatment especially due to another female causing problems….i assumed some of the reasons why and he tried twisting it as though I’m jealous of his fling…nope…but I am not ur punching bag…if he wants me to hate her as well as him then taking his aggression out on me was the way to go….i can not stand this garbage and think how emotionally immature most people are….they either want to minimize the trauma I deal with and antagonize or call me crazy when I’m assertive and set boundaries….so I think a lot of the issues we face is simply emotional immaturity and the choice to be too set in our own ways and serving oneself for the time being and not thinking of long term effects …exploitation is a huge problem single women face because men have checked out on their role in society as the protectors…this is disappointing to see so many men just not care or think well she deserves it…
@@shore5307We need Men who protect and provide but most Men dont wanna do that. If you just want to be needed but will just fulfill those needs when it benefits him most Men don't want to needed to actually be helpful and supporting but to feel powerful and make you beg and suffer to fulfill their need to feel powerful.
Yall PLEASE don’t play the games that especially that last chic was talking about 🫠 Maybe some people are stupid enough to fall for that but most aren’t. AND you don’t want that kind of attention from a guy. That’s insecurity. You don’t want a guy to move towards you out of fear of you being with someone else. He needs to do it naturally because he recognizes your value.
Men know what they need but don’t know what they want until it’s in their face and women know what they want but don’t acknowledge what they need until they realize what they were lacking .
I'm on board with, and agree with everything except the last one...I ain't doing all that. I'm too grown for Jr. High school games. You're not sure about me, cool...✌🏽 It's a whole town of MOFO's that have learned the hard way that I know my worth, and GOD ALONE validates me.
💯 lmao, I’ve been married for 33yrs and it’s exhausting telling this to single ladies. I live a Princess life.
PSA-Women realize this fraudulent feminist movement is a Huge Hoax!!!!!!!l (my opinion)
Men are not perfect and neither are We. relationship’s are hard work and Very worth it. Respect communication and compassion from both parties… most importantly Keep your friends and Family out of your personal business if you want a healthy one! I hope everyone finds ❤ I truly believe in it!!!
Thank you 🥂💐
im not thanking u tired of us always having to submit to men.
Yall don’t like lingerie but your likes on IG and FB says otherwise….yall are annoying honestly🙄
Maybe you should consider MEN are telling the truth about how MEN feel. 🤷🏾♀️
They like skin... it turns them on.
Lingerie in their mind means sex... that turns them on.
Certain kinds of women wear different types of lingerie and it's like a guaranteed of sex... which also turns them on.
Most men prefer naked before sex from what I've been told.
If you're offended by that truth, try cooking for him in it or getting him at the door before he showers so that he can stare and admire you in it before it ends up on the floor. 😂❤
That part. Just like they "dont" like bbls and "not natural" bodies xD
@@Courtannicafr
Yeah they do most of the women in porn start out wearing lingerie there playboy magazines are filled with women that are either wearing lingerie and in the next page she's naked lingerie is a pretty common fetish for men you can still have sex in it.
Yeah they do lingerie is a pretty common fetish for men but sometimes ugly men don't like it because it wasn't designed for them. I've seen some women still have sex in it. He's like that guy on the bus trying to give you his input on your appearance, inserting his opinion where it's not needed just to get attention from you. Lingerie can't be seen through clothes anyways so I don't know why there so worried about it.
This just sounds like a lot of mind games that mature people just don’t participate in
Exactly
🛎️ 🛎️ 🛎️!!!! Because ain’t nobody got time for this 💩. Y’all won, y’all can have it✌🏾
YAWN 🥱
When they referenced high school, I knew that’s where their mind is stuck
Secure pple move along and date other secure people.
This is waaaaayyyyy too many games and layers. If I can’t be authentic I’m happy single.
Girl literally. The amount of games there are, it’s 100x better to be single. Own expectations, own value and worth, I can sleep knowing I’m not being cheated on, list goes on. Women really just want someone who’s accountable, shows up, puts effort. Men just want to see how they can use you and how far they can make you run for them. 🙄
This is the comment I wanted to see. All these games are toxic. Unhealed and immature people play games. The healed and mature people are looking for healthy relationships
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I’m convinced that some of these men really just want men or need to heal…
They need ALLLL the therapy.
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Both
Yep
Boffum 😅
I don't think men understand how much they're pushing so many women away. At this point, I think they may have given me the forever ick 😅
I’m with you
@@raquelhaddi69 same!
Don’t let topic vitality online skew you from going after what’s right for you in real life. Trust me. Take a break from social media.
*topic virality
“Hello , how are you .. I would like to get to know you “…. “ NO THANKS “….. I too get the ICKS!
A man told me he was having financial issues so couldn't take me on dates. What he didn't say was, he was saving for a diamond engagement ring, for the woman I didn't know he was involved with.
It’s levels to these pieces of shit
He said enough when he didn’t have money to take you on dates. Why is a man dating when he can’t “ afford “ dates? He should be working instead of dating. If a woman said no to dating because he’s out of line she’d avoid all the other bs, like finding out he really didn’t have money because he’s saving for an engagement ring.
Cofee date no problem. If I am paying for my own date means we stick to friends or we won't go nowhere. That means I'm not trying and I'm not interested after that. Not my problem if he paid dates and whatever excuses. Too many rules make me just want to focus on myself and don't have any complicated mind games.
Wow
He was never your boyfriend. Y'all weren't in a relationship so...the other girl was his girlfriend. Simple.
So men are admitting they're children? Noted! Cats forever.
Yeahhh grown women don’t fuck little boys 😂i agree! Dogs, hamsters, cats forever !
AMEN 🙌🏾
I will be a catless cat lady. I'm gonna have pictures of cats and no cat hair.
FOREVER.
MEOWWWW to that!! 💯😁
They are exhausting.
I no longer have feelings to hurt 😊
This!!! I honestly don't care at this point
That part I view them as science experiments and clowns not even remotely serious. Your life gets peaceful once you stop giving a damn. It's truly old and tired.
fr! men don’t understand women been hurt since childhood!!😅
Numb💯
@littleleah310 I don't quite feel that is 100% the case but that is partly true
Men act the way they do by programming they've been taught since they were little not to show their feelings
not to feel their feelings
and basically not to care
so basically they're mimicking whatever they saw from their elders and Society
they can't really show proper feelings and emotions if they were never permitted as kids
it's easy to build up a child than to repair and broken
be wise with your sons
I got halfway into the video and realized i quit listening about 5 minutes ago. I think I've finally reached that point where i really don't care what any person has to say. Men have been lied to, they lie to themselves and everyone else. It's really sad that they live life to play games
The one guy talking about "getting what he wanted" from just talking to someone for a bit then ghosting having no clue just how sad and pathetic all that is, thinking he's got one up on women or something.
Blah, blah, nobody cares what these males have to say.
We should listen to learn not to fall in their traps.
😂buuuuuuurn!😅
Exactly
Best comment ever!
I used to work at Victoria’s Secret and men would buy lingerie for their girlfriends/wives to wear. I’m not saying the the first guy is lying about guys not caring about lingerie because my ex didn’t, but it depends on the guy.
Depends on the guy😊
I have seen all races in VS getting it. It's personal preference I guess
Also the women they thirst after on instagram wear the same lingerie
It definitely depends on the guy. The first guy just accidentally admitted he doesn’t believe in foreplay. He doesn’t want to draw things out by admiring his woman, he just wants to smash and pass out 😂👎
That guy is gay tho.be careful
If You Don’t Actually Want To Be With Your Women Or Women You Speak To, Leave Her Alone Don’t Waste Her Time!
THANK YOU! don't lead women on.
They want to be built up 1st by you before u realise.
Period.💜
Exactly!
Literally pls because i was with a guy for almost 5 years and after he passed by su1c1d3 i found out he was with two other people for 3 years! I wish i knew and wasnt a fool for him. Loved him more than anyone could love and i have unconditional love for him even now.. but that resentment and pain is terrible.
And they say women are complicated. They are such basic b’s 😂😂😂
Seriously though these men are basically admitting that they are not " relationship material".
How many women are there now that are technically straight but are no longer attracted to men?
🖐🏻😆 definitely me
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Right, I'm single and celebate because I'm not attracted to women but I'm repulsed by men.
fr 🤮
I’m 100% straight but DONE with these men and their games!
I’m tired of the mental gymnastics. The men can have eachother. I’m done.
A stay ❤
💯 agree!
@@Annemarie_case143 You know!♥️🥰
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@@jujubee2903 😂😂😂 at this point in life because no one has time for the games.
Women don’t care what you think anymore so stop acting like you’re being chased
Word ❤
😂😂
Bingo🎉
😂😂😂why you say it like that?😊
💯💯💯 so aggy! They need a menstruation
I hope they understand that the rejection that has now tripled is their own doings. It’s miserable , pointless , and antagonistic to deal with them . There’s really no benefit to date in 2024 going forward. Everyone needs about 3-5 years to reset .
Already there, I am done with love. Done. Done. Done. Period. Not 3-5 years. Its DONE. OVER.
The lingerie part made me laugh cause I know m3n are not observant enough to notice the heart charm on my garter belt lmaoo it’s not for you gang it’s for me. Just cause u wanna be boring doesn’t mean women have to.
Life is easier single😅
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Sure is. All of these stupid rules and games these days. Smh.
These guys aren't bumble guys or hinge guys these guys are actually wanting to be on Grindr.😂😂😂
I’ve met a lot Grindr guys on bumble and hinge 😢 I’m tired
📣‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️EXACTLY! A lot of these guys are someone’s “ bottom” and are actually in competition with women! This is an attempt to “ humble women” !
These guys are losers.
Most men I know vent the same problems over and over again and fall into victim mentality often.
I don't know whether they're just trying to make me feel sorry for them but it makes them look like big babies and is a big turn off.
Celibacy is the way forward
💯 agreed! Unless you fitting to change my last name, you ain't gettin nuffin! Plus to even get to that level with me, you gotta say the "password" me and God set up! Not playing no games these days!
All praises! That's right!🙌🏾💜
I'm numb to the whole "relationship" scene... I'm over here minding my single business!
Watching this makes me happy I chose the single life 😂 happily single for 6 years ❤
First guy needs DEEEEEP THERAPY BRO WHO HURT YOU
Seriously though
I dont even think he batting for the female team. You can hear the twang in his voice.
@@TannyYem I realised that too
Exactly!!! He's socially awkward, depressed, and monotone 😂 dude be fr @@TannyYem
That, "she used me", part is too accurate!!!
Rather then ACTUALLY, acknowledging THEY had a covert endgame goal that WAS NOT mutually agreed upon!!!
These immature and unaccountable boys that portray themselves as men should not have the unreasonable expectation of having sex with any woman simply because he showed her attention or took her on a date. If both parties didnt discuss the desire to have sex prior then it seems like theyre trying to manipulate and impose their perverse mindset on the woman.
All of these kinds of guys- I will pass because I will only except a mature man.
Gosh, these men don't even realise how much they are revealing about themselves!
Women will choose a male out of the crowd and she will be an open book to him and she will be kind and giving and understanding to him, while male's if given the opportunity would choose the whole crowd and manipulate and use and keep his heart closed and his life a secret and then move on to the next woman, or male, and the problem with this is that they don't tell women their true intentions so she can make the choice whether she wants to deal with that or not.
100%!!
Perfect summary
@@winning3329 and then tell us to choose better 😂😂😂
Bingo this is why I dint like people be clear and to take my choice away over your selfish desire is EVIL
I learned that the hard way.
0:30 does he like women tho??? He's giving bitter and sabotage. He wants the men for himself 😂😂😂😂
I believe you are right😂😂😂the signs are definitely there
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Right before 😅I personally grew up with only BROTHERS so I enjoy playing video games hiking fishing watching sports ect and most girls don't,it's not validation it's common interests aka a friend.
I know, right? I said the same thing.
@@monejohn9973 not only that alll my cousins and most of the neighborhood kids were boys. Was I supposed to just give up and say "well, I guess I don't get to have friends then" 🤦🏻♀️ Such nonsense.
Now imagine trying to understand these games as a woman with undiagnosed autism. I understood a lot just before I turned 30 and ignored these games. I am attractive, hardworking, resourceful, intelligent and good in bed. If you want my company, you have to act ON MY RULES. And you know what? After a toxic relationship, I found a man who has no problem doing what I want and fully accepts me as I am with the FEAR that he might lose me. I stopped being afraid when I understood that a man is supposed to contribute something to my life, not make it harder for me.
Girl u winning! 🎉
Men!! Lol Smh so many rules and regulations!! At this point just leave us alone!! 💯
Hmm this competition that men are setting up between wife material and side chick is sad. Len don’t care about you being the wife if he is cheating on you 24/7. men don’t care about the wife or the prostitute.
Bingo! Men like that are only interested in getting their needs met no matter the cost
Men only care about #1....Themselves!
They Will care enough to pick the right women just to turn her life into hell, burry her alive and ruin her soul.
Who wants to make a man jealous knowing they are unhinged smh you setting yourself up that’s why I’m single I don’t half to worry about foolishness
Exactly
They talking about themselves personally
So helpful, made me realize I don’t really give a damn about the things men don’t say lol
Choose the bear, cats, and homeownership ladies
They are not saying anything that I didn’t already know
Exactly 😂
Right. I was thinking the same thing. But home boy tripping with the lingerie part. Yeah he seems bored with himself so I’m sure that’s why he feels that way.
It sounds to me if grown adults( including myself, Im definitely a work in progress) get to the root and heal all them inner child wounds all the games, guesses, and tricks would not be needed! Free Yourself💫
Exactly 💯 🎯 This is the healthy spiritual perspective that everyone needs to hear.. instead of being bitter and tearing each other down.
This guy with a white cap...im gonna call a government and buy him a one way ticket to the moon....enjoy your ride cupcake!!!!!
Right? Anytime I see him in videos. Im like, oh here we go. Cant stand him
his werid
I'll be in the control room when that rocket takes off, Sis 😂😂😂😂
Right, who's checking for him??
A lot of theses dudes goin end up old and alone with that bull ish.
Absolutely alone because they don't know how to have emotional intimacy and healthy platonic friendships either. Happily single women still have friendships and family and aren't as lonely being alone.
😂😂😂😂😂😂 men don't know what they really want but they want you to give them whatever they feel they do🤷♀️
I thought men enjoyed finding solutions to problems?! It made them feel heroic, like they’re useful and helpful to the lady in their life
It's interesting to me that both men and women go public to share things they NEVER wanted each other to know. The irony...
At this point good . Be w a man .
that’s what they really want. trust me there’s good real masculine men out there but these lil ones right here just need to go live their truth 💅 🏳️🌈
I was literally about to make this sameee comment!!!!!!
I appreciate hearing what the men have to say on this topic. Thank you.
we don't care about you or your "bros" anymore, sir. You'll never be happy with us because you like each other and we can't compete with that. How about accepting THAT truth. Get in touch with your inner bromance and leave us alone.
💯 facts!
Where is my hug at Big Head?!
Just took me out.😁😆😹😅😂🤣💀
Im too old for mind games thats why im single and have zero interest in dating
@@kokowalker Same!! It's ridiculous
Only 6:06 and this shit has already given me a headache........all the games, all of the manipulation and all of the madness with these males is unreal..... Im so turned off 🙄
😂😂😂
It’s funny how there isn’t a single MAN in this video 😂😂😂 these are young men who were probably the “where my hug at” guy 🤣
Im LITERALLY EXTRA grateful to be single after seeing this manipulative video 😂
This is actually evil and so sick that I’m becoming less and less interested in anybody. At this point leave me th alone
😂 ikr
These men are crazy these days! I'm glad I'm an 80's baby with an old school husband. They don't know what they want! Ontop of they think they're the prize these days!! 🧐😳👀🤦🏽♀️😒 No real man does all that, and they're not that complicated with their feelings unless you're not for filling him or doing what he needs you to do! Dude, with the benie, sounds like a lame who never had a date! For him to say you don't have the guys to do anything about it tells a lot! He doesn't look good enough to get away with that Bs he's talking. Nothing but cap, dude like a 4 on a scale from 1 through 10. Clown... Where do you stay, and who is desperate enough to be bothered with him?
Never thought Id say this but that 3rd leg aint even worth it Bruh, LOL
Why take the whole pig if you only want a little sausage? 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
@@TheRebelGypsy Woooo now that's FUNNY!! 😆😆😆😆
I love your clip compilations they all speak points. I like how you put them together for your audience. To the creators of the clips, good tips good work
I used to watch these because I actually cared about what they thought now I watch them to laugh at them 😂
1) TBF, I relate to the last point of the first man.
2) At least two have expressed outwardly, verbally and written their jealousy. They also expressed their love first.
3) If only those same men would learn from other "past mistakes". i.e.: You know how many men who have in the past been "burned" (STD) or had unexpected and unwanted pregnancies _still_ refuse to wear condoms?
4) Many men feel validated just by the phone number exchange.
SMH, I'm good SINGLE
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I'm with you ms.
You just have to learn your partner. You CANNOT take one someone's word for everyone..period
Why do they STILL think we care??!!!😅😁😂🙆♀️🤣🤣🤣 These loser's self-esteem is wayyyyy too high.🥴
🗣 WE DON'T CARE❗️
5:03 Those men are totally superficial and have no depth or authenticity.
Sheraseven is MY HERO!!!!! Every woman should follow her and they would have happier lives!
I for one don't want to just have sex for money it's crazy to steal men like she did and do witchcraft like she does and all that for a man
Never fall into the trap of trying to prove yourself to anyone, let alone a man.
I’ve always said “ men are simply complicated and women are complicatedly simple “ meaning pleasing men is simple but understanding them is complicated! Women are harder to please but simple to understand!
Somehow true!
The last girl on 😂 I don’t have time to play games like that.
Everything they said I knew all of these things by the time I was 18. I grew up around a lot of men in my family so I identify with them a lot. I guess that’s why I was so good at not having to do much of anything and men would naturally fall in love with me.
I feel bad sometimes, because I want to help other women understand the psychology of not just men, but of WOMEN. So they can fully understand how this world functions. EVERYONE and I mean EVERYONE plays mind games. When women start understanding that men are more inwardly emotional than we are, they will learn how much of the ball is really in their court.
Also too many fatherless homes are creating more female identifying men and it’s the moms that are telling their sons that they are the prize 🏆 🫥😂, but we get mad when it happens to us 🥸🫠.
This is the tough pill: Your never going to get peace when your dishing out lies within a relationship.
WE DON T CARE
I feel like men are always upfront, its just women dont pay attention to the red flags. Like i pay attention when people speak, i believe the signs are always there.
Choose peace over everything!
They are CHILDREN forever.
My biggest issue with men is they chase you for years and when you finally give them a chance…. Disappointing. Should’ve just let you on read .
❤❤All of the comments, I agree with all of u!, stay bless, hi,from Chicago South Side !
Thank you for watching 💐
😴 💤 🛌 🛏
Nothing nothingness
3:48 Something is off with him
7:58 Oldest trick in the book. Movies and TV shows covered this topic and older women warned us too.
A lot of this behavior is little boy behavior and that explains why little boys are talking.
I'm just not playing games. This is all nuts to me.
1.Fine tune your ability to discern. Being able to catch and call bullshxt Will save you from so much, uhm, bullshxt!
2. Be truly confident in who you are So that settling for less just isn't anything you'll even entertain
3. Be your own best company, so that you never feel so lonely that you become desperate
Thank you 😊
This is some serious matrix mess. I'm so glad I'm 60 years old and don't care what people think anymore. There was WAAAYYYY too much talking on this video about what is, isn't, might be, could be ... oh what nonsense!
Although I disagree with a lot of of what these guys say, a lot of what they say is accurate for us men. A lot of women in our lives just don't listen or spend quality time with us that we really need to spend with them. Women want to feel wanted and men need to feel needed. We need to build bridges and understand each other as separate genders, but leaving all of these hateful comments about men in general does not help anyone. I have been betrayed before as well, and I'm guessing many of you have. And I am sorry to anyone who has been betrayed. I know how it feels and it is horrible. But I promise there are good men out there who might not think like women or see the world like women, but they love their women and want to be the best partner they can be. We don't need to assume that all men are gay or that all men are trash or anything like that. It just doesn't help bridge the divide. To all the women who say that they don't care about men's feelings anymore, how does that help anyone? We need to care about each other's feelings, because vulnerability is the root of all connection. We need to be open to hearing criticism from the opposite gender, even if it's wrong, and even if we have a lot more to say about it than they do. That's part of being humble. We need to humble all of ourselves to save relationships. In case anyone hasn't noticed, relationships are much harder to acquire and maintain than past generations. It's because we are all very socially immature and conceited now. I am no different. I would never claim to be above anyone or on any more high ground, which is why I know that we must reverse the horrible damage we have done to our dating situation. It will only end in astronomical singlehood, which will end in an astronomically lower birth rate and high elderly population in a number of decades. That will lead to an economic crash and a potential bottle making of major ethnic groups and populations, which will threaten the genetic stability of our species. I know this all sounds crazy and made up, but we have seen this exact trend in countries like Japan and South Korea. They are facing population crises that we will soon face unless we change our dating perspectives and attitudes. If anyone disagrees with my comment, it is up to you, but my comment is based off of published research on all of these topics, so you're arguing with published research from experts if you argue with this comment. It's fine if you do that, but my comment is fully substantiated and yours would not be. We all need to humble our ourselves and do better as individuals who see each other as a part of a whole instead of the center of the universe.
Anyone who has a preference to be *needed* over being wanted needs to seek therapy and stay away from relationships.
Honestly, it's the mental gymnastics. I think women in general are just over all the incessant, ridiculous games men play. All the, I'm testing you, I don't really care about you but I'll pretend long enough to get what I want then call you a 304 after you gave in. A lot of men display predatory behavior then victim shame a woman who took them at face value. You get your feelings hurt now when women throw up their collective hands and say they're done and all men are trash. But you're still misdirecting your anger. Deal with the real internal issues among your kind. Deal with the selfishness, narcissism, sadism, deal with the mommy/daddy issues and call other men to do the same.
I believe there are good men still out there but too many with platforms are the ones who relish in combativeness, divisiveness, clown behavior, and disunity. Let's see more good men stand up and call out the foolishness in one another.
@ I see what you're saying, but what I mean is that we men need to feel needed to protect and care for the women we love, or the men who we love. And there should always be of course true desire through want as well. It just comes down to some of the gender differences that exist between men and women and typical needs, but overall, in healthy individuals, they complement each other healthily.
@@shore5307thank u for sharing this….i totally understand what u are saying about needing…I’ve been single for 15 years because I’ve raised two sons and never wanted them to experience the step dad situation and have to watch another person abandon us/them etc…now that my sons are grown…my youngest son is almost 18 and is very close to me…his dad hasn’t even attempted to contact him in 3 years now…so he has this sort of animosity towards men because he sees so much of the pain they cause for children they didn’t want and abandoned just like he was…but he understands the need for companionship….i have recently had the talk with him about the need to have a male figure around to protect because society views women as weaker and more vulnerable….a male friend of mine has been around more lately helping me with a bunch of work and I’ve been using his energy to motivate me to keep going and working towards my goals which were in a stale mate….but I’ve recently had to be assertive with this friend because his fling made him upset and he seemed to take it out on me….i explained why I can not be around that sort of attitude and that if he continues to view me as just a female and can treat me like his punching bag…then he was welcome to stay away….i won’t tolerate poor treatment especially due to another female causing problems….i assumed some of the reasons why and he tried twisting it as though I’m jealous of his fling…nope…but I am not ur punching bag…if he wants me to hate her as well as him then taking his aggression out on me was the way to go….i can not stand this garbage and think how emotionally immature most people are….they either want to minimize the trauma I deal with and antagonize or call me crazy when I’m assertive and set boundaries….so I think a lot of the issues we face is simply emotional immaturity and the choice to be too set in our own ways and serving oneself for the time being and not thinking of long term effects …exploitation is a huge problem single women face because men have checked out on their role in society as the protectors…this is disappointing to see so many men just not care or think well she deserves it…
@@shore5307We need Men who protect and provide but most Men dont wanna do that. If you just want to be needed but will just fulfill those needs when it benefits him most Men don't want to needed to actually be helpful and supporting but to feel powerful and make you beg and suffer to fulfill their need to feel powerful.
Yall PLEASE don’t play the games that especially that last chic was talking about 🫠
Maybe some people are stupid enough to fall for that but most aren’t.
AND you don’t want that kind of attention from a guy. That’s insecurity. You don’t want a guy to move towards you out of fear of you being with someone else. He needs to do it naturally because he recognizes your value.
Only got through 49 secs bunch of little boys who need to just grow up may the Lord be with you.❤
I'm not into playing games, too old for it. Get it together. 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
If women made a video like this men would be angry as hell 😂
Men know what they need but don’t know what they want until it’s in their face and women know what they want but don’t acknowledge what they need until they realize what they were lacking .
@@jellieloveee oooouuuuuh this one!!!
Thank you 🥂
As soon as a guy violates my boundaries I write him off but ok 😂
The comments pass the vibe check ♀️❤
I'm on board with, and agree with everything except the last one...I ain't doing all that. I'm too grown for Jr. High school games. You're not sure about me, cool...✌🏽
It's a whole town of MOFO's that have learned the hard way that I know my worth, and GOD ALONE validates me.
Well I wouldn't have to tell you to call and text me if you DID IT IN THE FIRST PLACE.. Making them anxious.. madness!
This is like i don't know what, for a person with no dating experience 😂
Looooool 😅😅😅😅😅😅
That last girls advice will only get you someone who don't want you genuinely but only want you bc of fomo. Worst advice ever if you ask me.
I'm so glad I'm not in this anymore. Jesus!
I think at this point women should just leave men alone. Its just not working.
Each man for himself.
Whatever yall do, DO NOT do anything that the last lady was talking about. She is setting yall up for serious failure. It doesn't even make sense.
And they say women are hard work!
He doesn’t speak for any guy I know. He’s projecting.
At this point off to the woods with Diddy for you! Seeing as you guys clearly prefer the man to the bear.
The guy who ghosts after getting a hey knows he is not able to keep you happy.