Why Did These Girls Say This About Asian Men?
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Date who you want to date. Just don't throw Asian guys under the bus with some b.s., stereotypes, or due to internalized racism.
don't think this is about internal racism. this is about racism affecting even half Asian girls.
That's what internal racism is @@tedgerahedron
Bang who you want smash, who the f*ck cares, go watch some Triple G. If you're an asian bro, make your money and be that suga' daddy, then those biznatches have no say.
@@tedgerahedron it's totally racism! it is what it is!
It's internalised racism
Man they're just missing out. After living in Hawaii and the Bay Area, that's mostly all I dated. Im a black woman and I can honestly say that asian men have treated me better than any race of men. Absolute gentlemen from my experience.
We gotchu!
but that's not the point, the point is the attraction level..
@@GenZRadio234and who the heck even asked you lmao 🤣 who you will date get over self bro your a weirdo honestly to comment on a womens weight or look that you don’t even know that’s crazy like any one wants you 😂😂😂😂
Asian men and black women are at the bottom of the dating ladder.
I’ve heard this, too. My high school sweetheart was black. My college graduation girlfriend was German. My ex-wife was white American. The love of my life is Latina. And I was born in Korea, but ethnically Chinese. Thanks for the love 🫶🏻
Never chase women that don't want you. Self-selection. Avoid the haters in your personal and professional life. Don't tolerate being around it.
go abroad men. America is good for the earning but move to remote and date abroad, it will be the best decision of your life.
Those are sound words to live by!
Pick from the women who choose you. Well said.
Even better, make yourself more attractive and be more readily available for the girls to chase you
Not only in America, there are many Asian girls in Asia who despise Asian men. I married a Slavic European lady and had a female Asian friend commented, "I don't understand why an European woman would choose an Asian man". Some others said, "Given a choice between Asian and a white dude, I think most girls would choose the white dude". This phenomenon is not only limited to America unfortunately.
It's self hate.
@@newmexicoballer3867no no no .we have small thing , the boys have small thing too
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@@blacksea6608 You talkin’ about your 🧠?
Men in the West just have such low self esteem and it comes from medieval European values which pedestalized women. Traditional asian, african, middle eastern and ancient European (Greek, Romans...etc) had little value for women except their mothers. Till the West returns to traditional values, they will keep producing this mangled twisted generation that doesnt even know what a woman is and why for example Russians and Muslims cant even see Westernized men as actually real men.
I have a Facebook friend who is Asian. She posted a picture of her at a party that had 5 Asian women each standing next to 5 white men. And in the comments there was an Asian guy posted " Oh, something not right here" I kept quiet but i knew what he was hinting at.
Reverse colonialism…lul. No I completely understand where girls come from..
I bet they got ranthrough by the train and will be single mom's one day
I don’t mind an Asian girl not dating an Asian guy but to throw us under the bus is a different story. Those are fighting words.
The preference/racism of course comes from being brainwashed by tv, social media, movies, shows, etc.
They will learn the lesson the hard way during hard time. Non-Asian guys are more likely to leave them high and dry when they are down. Asian men are more caring and financially stable.
Asian women will learn the lesson the hard way during hard time. Non-Asian guys are more likely to leave them high and dry when they are down. Asian men are more caring and financially stable.
were the same brother bw don't like bm everyone has gone white
Women just be saying stuff, they don't think before they say.
I can handle if an asian girl don't want to date asian or whatever else. You are allowed to have any kind of preference when dating. But what I can't accept is that fact that most of the asian girls who do this, they actually see asian guys as inferior and look down on them. And they act like they are doing something great because they are dating non asian...
Absolutely, it's called dating up. Being able to date white means they are being accepted. You never see this with women of other race and culture. Somewhere down the line we've messed up our Asian kids.
Exactly! If you are not physically attracted to an Asian person by looks alone then fine so be it… but if you’re not dating Asian (or any other race for that matter) bc you think they are somehow lower status bc of their race, then you’re a blatant racist and it’s wrong!
Bingo!!
This is nonsense man, don't let them put that shit in your head. You SHOULD care cuz these people hurt you the most cuz they have an Asian face and people think what they say has more validity when they are admitting time and time again they don't fuck around with Asian guys so how do they fucking know? Everybody mate guards their own people, but Asian people get shamed for doing it. We are the only people expected to be completely open to dating outside our race and even prefer it, meanwhile other people are expected to date their own with maybe a sprinkle of interracial relationships as long as they pass the sniff test.
I met one Asian American guy, and he kind of looked down on me because I’m not ABC or whatever you guys call Asian American women. I’ve never felt the same way dating my husband who is white. Another one is Filipino American who also acted like he’s superior, just because he’s American. The point is we can’t make everyone likes us, so just do whatever make you happy.
Stop giving your attention to these self-hating Asian women. Focus on people who respect and appreciate you. It doesn't matter what these women think when, realistically, there are tons of women of every race, ethnicity, and culture who appreciate us. Protect your energy and keep elevating.
I don't because those girls doesn't represent all the Asian females. Most of the Asian females I know are conservative.
just keep your head down like a good model minority
@@YouMoya Conservative Asian girls who sleep with White guys only.
brother its almost all races of women who do this. They dont hate their race its just white is the top in america and women can get whatever they want so they choose the "top"
stopped dating americans a long time ago and never been happier
They’re not self hating just because they don’t wanna date you tho
As an Asian male who grew up in a small rural town, asian self hatred is very real. It took me a long time to embrace where I come from, but I’m glad I’m finally doing it.
Finding your tribe is very important. Moving to a bigger city has most definitely upped my dating game for real!
If you are tall and good looking asian man with confidence surely a cute blonde white woman will give Asian a chance. If he is rich and can provide security of course that matters. Women choose, men must make something of themselves. Hypergamy
@@laturista1000 I've had no problem with that, I've only been with white girls
@@ennisdelmar807 because you are an Alpha male.
@@laturista1000 Mainly because I'm from sweden, there is a lot of blondes here. But I don't think my race has anything to do with it. But yeah I'm confident, speak my mind and don't bend. Somehow making them look up to me, chasing my validation
I need to be on your podcast to talk about this subject. As an older Asian man whose went through this, whose now has two teenage daughters, and a 15 nephews, I had preached to all of them about being insecure and recognizing insecure ppl.
I'll never understand this. My husband is Asian (we're AMWF) and I adore him. Yes he's shy and introverted but he's also strong (lifts), kind, intelligent, conscientious and reliable. I never knew a man could be both masculine and cute before meeting my husband. I don't know what else to say, hearing these comments is just upsetting.
chang, stop larping as white female
At this point white women>>>>>asian women
@@troigcyusa That has been the case for me too. Asian women that I encounter are generally so toxic.
Women like you should speak out more to those Asian women who shared the same view as Neo-Nazi white supremacists.
Simple, American asian women view asian guys as low status in the dating market and white guys are at the top. Asian men are seen as dorky, not sexual etc.. we are desired the least in the USA by far, its not even close. Mainland asian or FOB women are still into asian guys.
I am a black man and i feel like you should date who you want to date. However, you don't have to bash a group, to justify your preference. In the black community, we have issues of some black men bashing black women to justify their dating preference. Every, non white group has self hate issues within it.
give us the black queens fuck it lmao yall take these self hating asians.
Why though ? I thought its the other way around ? Black women bashing black men ?
Why u make it seem like white ppl don't have there's to with white girls bashing white guys to get with black guys
The victim mentality kind of getting old
@@dsmoove3482 Just telling it, like it is.
Most of my asian friends are dating hispanic women and as far as racial dynamics goes. We're doing better than these girls give us credit for
Are you southeast Asian? I am Vietnamese and never had issues though I personally don't like east Asians as I don't like their culture.
Isn’t a lot of Vietnamese culture Chinese though? 🤔🥴
@@letsgowalk depends on outlook. Would you say scottish is just Italian culture? Language is totally different , customs, language, we even have better female general heroes.
However if ne being a vietnamese person has any say they are similar but vastly different.
@@aaronmontgomery2055
Vietnamese is more sino-ized than Korean or Japanese. Let’s be real
Asian men with beautiful latinas stand up ⬆️ 🧍♂️
I’m a white guy, I don’t like seeing Asian women bashing Asian men. A lot of Asian men are based, successful and are stand up guys….
me neither
They don’t like us. No females really do lol it’s pretty fucking tough when we have the worst stereotypes also
And short
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Asian women hate their own race. That is why they like Cute Tall Alpha Chad white dudes.
Love how you Gents handled this topic. You've covered every possibility.
Insecurity in small amounts is healthy. A healthy insecurity drives performance.
At the end of the day, we're responsible for improving every area of our lives.
You work with what you got and can't worry about the circumstances or what others think.
Just an Asian guy here who was born and raised in a small town of Wisconsin. To all my Asian brothers out there who are struggling.....rejections and failures will help you become stronger, smarter, and definitely better so get out of your comfort zones and you will find out that a lot of guys regardless of race.....also feel the same too. I have friends from different ethnicity/races and believe me - they struggle to attract the opposite gender even those from their own ethnicity/race. The Reality - most are just average people out there.
Best advice I think I've seen in some time. Best part is how simple it is. Bravo!
Lmao this isn't rejection, this is racism against asian men bro.
This is Asian on Asian hate don't forget that. The cause is white brainwashing. The ignorant hate tears up the Asian communities. This is exactly what the white want.
Although I agree that there is some internal racism against Asian men, I believe the reality is that all ethnicities/races struggle cuz like you said most people are just average. When I was in high school, I was the typical awkward, nerdy-looking Asian guy and was completely overshadowed by the white "jocks" in my class. As I got older into my early 20s, I glowed up and also started to take my appearance more seriously. Now, I get plenty of attention (both explicitly and implicitly) from women. On numerous occasions, women have approached me at bars/clubs and called me very handsome. In my predominately white medical school class, guys and girls knew me as the "hottest dude" in the class. Point is, yes, Asian guys are at a slight disadvantage, but if you work on yourself in ALL aspects (looks, money, status), you will do well no matter your race.
hoeflation has hit all races. You can try to fight the fire or settle for greener pastures.
I’m not going to lie. As a mixed black dude who has always had at-least 2-3 Asians friends in his life every year. I had always thought Asian men would do well because back then you saw Asians in masculine roles (Jet Li. In “Triple X”, “Rush Hour” franchise). I personally feel that emasculation of Asian males happens mainly because it would be threatening to the hierarchy 😅 if one of the largest (if not the largest) socioeconomically efficient demographics was ALSO seen as masculine. When you present a whole demographic in this fashion it does make an impact on how people perceive them as a whole. That being said, anyone who has internalized racism in dating or talks down on what they came from should be avoided. Women who think like this are only headaches at the end of the day. Stay strong my Asian brothers!
Spot on brother. Not even just socio economic status in their own countries but on a global scale. Asians have been the biggest threat to white hegemony for the past century. Whites gave us economic power in their countries to uphold the model minority myth but they will never give us sexual power. That's why most hyper masculine Asian males you've seen portrayed in the media like Jet Li or whomever will still never get the girl.
You're the wrong messenger. Black men and male biricals like you are even worse than any Asian woman.
Those are old though. Not a lot of new western media that shows Asian men in a masculine light. Like sports, movies, music etc. Pretty dominated by black and white men. Also I think a lot of Asian men are more shy and introverted so that doesn't help. Plus the decades of negative stereotypes.
Naa i disagree its honestly not to sound rude their looks man .
I am a first generation Asian American from a traditional immigrant family. I was raised with traditional Asian values and culture, but always wanted to be part of the American culture. I believed that played the biggest role in eventually dating and marrying out of my race/ethnic group. From my experience it is better to date but not marry outside your race/ethnic group, especially if you are brought up in your culture. There are too many cultural differences to overcome for a long term relationship to work, unless one party is willing to completely assimilate to the others.
Self-hate is a goofy look
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Very no matter the race or age.
Lol what?
I didn't choose to be Asian. I'm enslaved by my own skin. What doesn't killl me makes me stronger
Yup, in every race
I’m Hispanic and married to an Asian for almost 18 years and we have two beautiful kids. He is calm, honest, put together, smart, family orientated, educated, hard working, faithful Catholic and consistently eats clean and works out. Not a womanizer, not a drinker, not a smoker. I feel like I hit the lottery and I’ve seen this in many Asian men overall. They are high quality men.
Have you seen a couple where the gender was reversed?
Being an older, 57, Asian (Taiwanese) man married to a white woman, for the last 28 years, I started dating white girls because of being rejected by Asian girls early in my life, who "looked down" of deny Asian men...my wife started dating me for me, not because I am Asian. Be yourself and not to be judged by your ethnicity or skin color. Plus: Asian girls are who don't like Asian men are missing out, we don't have body hair and smell of "BO!" :)
Congrats! You look 40 for someone nearly 20 years older
I prefer AF but AF are racist and superficial to an alarming degree. I think non-AF are just kinder....
Watch the Fung Bros everyday. Especially love the longer discussions.
Men of all races should come together and stop dating self hating women like this because if you ended up having sons with women like this, how would she treat the half Asian sons? Think about that.
She didn't think ahead shes gonna have an Asian son.
@@exalkalibor924 Yes, and people have to be ok with saying that this is *unacceptable* loudly and urgently. By the way, this applies to men and women of all races.
@@hayvebromier2158what is inaccurate, exactly? Also, in certain Asian cultures, half-white/half-asian children are highly coveted.
is it "hate" or just preference?
@@maciejnowak666 Depends on the way it's displayed. You can have preferences but choose to talk about them in a positive or neutral way. "I usually prefer dating white girls" vs "I don't date asian girls". One is a demonstrated preference in a neutral-positive way, the other achieves a similar thing but with an added agenda or plain ignorance.
I feel like growing up in a non-Asian environment isn't necessarily the best excuse either. In high school, most of my friends were white and I had two Asian friends. There were few Asians. However, I still sought to identify with my culture when I went to college and joined Asian clubs. If you really want to do it, you can. It's more of a mindset.
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This was a weird outlier back when I was dating, nearly 30 years ago - I only liked the Asian guys who were in my Honors/AP section through HS.
I had at least four fatty crushes and I would eventually tell them, “Hey, I really like you… will you consider asking me out or tell me I should get over it because it’s a nonstarter?”
They were all very plain and explained that they were definitely attracted to me, definitely wanted to ask me out, but their parents would never accept it.
I was so bummed out because I really liked each of them but never got a chance to even have a make out story because their parents, as immigrants, would not tolerate them dating outside their race.
Now looking at the dating culture and so many girls are sleeping on the Asian guys who arguably are the most loyal, the smartest, the most charming when you speak to them, the best at most anything they apply themselves…. I could go on.
The most critical and attractive quality of Asian men is far and away and in the broadest spectrum - THEY HAVE THEIR SHIT TOGETHER AND GET ON THE PATH TO SUCCESS SOONER THAN ALL THEIR MALE PEERS. Ladies, stop sleeping on Asian guys, you’re only playing yourselves.
Honestly I think that self-respect is such a lost quality in modern young women that they just keep choosing the cheaters and shitbags because they crave drama and chaos and need excuses to complain and compete in the race to the bottom.
As an Asian guy i wouldn't ever date a women who suddenly after years of being run over by guys of other races and refused to date Asians now all of a sudden is open to dating Asian only as a last resort
Awesome insights
I think you are quite good looking though. Not sure why they wouldn’t date you? Probably because they were thinking of marriage than just dating for fun. That is a hood quality.
Dang… I can’t blame ‘em if it really was because of their folks but if they were just making an excuse, they trippin’ lol. I would’ve said yes to you in a heartbeat 😆 😍
@@thekensilva Awh, thank you! That's such a nice compliment to hear, especially at my dusty age!!
22:04: This cannot be more true. I only dated a few women in my life and all of them were Chinese-American and I assumed I would marry one. Instead non of them worked out and later I met a black woman online and it worked out. We have been married for over 3 years now.
It looks like Latino women prefer Asian men more than Asian women do
That's why a lot of Asian men r starting to not care anymore about their women dating out now because why would they when they have these other options
Asian women only want white men
You Hispanic women don’t know what you have with Your Hispanic men. Most Asian men ain’t gonna cook for you and they don’t know how to love their women (expressive). It’s a cultural thing that Asian dont show public display. I see a lot of Hispanic men cooking, cleaning, working hard while their wife still getting loved. Asian these days are not handy anymore useful around fixing the home. The mother in law is the worst she’ll make your life miserable to the core. Even more if you come from a broken family no father in the household, no higher college education n degree, and your reputation matters.
Ends up with a lot of divorce cause then you Hispanic girls find out your Hispanic men actually treats y’all way better!!! They cook clean handy man while Asian men expect you to do all that. Asian men these days ain’t handy anymore. If you come from a background with no father, reputation, and low education …good luck cause that all determine if your accepted.
😂 take our Asian men and we Asian women will take your Hispanic men. Your Hispanic men is so handy built on hard work, can build us mansions, cook, clean, help us rear children. On the other hand, most Asian men weren’t taught to do this so y’all be doing all the ABOVE! 🙌 Y’all can be their mothers! 😂 this is exactly why “everyone” I know who is an Asian men never last with a Hispanic women. Increase rate in divorce and broken families with these two combo mix culture. Culture is too different, she ends up going back to Hispanic men. In our culture, when an Asian women do this no Asian guy wants her anymore cause she choose someone outside of her race!
As black dude is the same cringe I get when some black dudes say they don’t date black women. Creating such hard line for large group of people is wild and racist asf even more fucked when its your own people mad cringe 😬
Brother, almost every single black man you see with a woman from another ethnic group was rejected multiple times by BW.
BW are the most demanding and have the highest requirements of all women. Their requirements for what a man needs to have and be are off the ritcher scale
If you are good guy who respects them and treats them nice they will make you swest and work to get with them, if you are Pooky or a Ray Ray who gives them the tingles they will give it to you for free.
Im just curious . How do you feel about black women who say they don’t date black men?
I am binge watching those videos. As an Asian female, I feel so ashamed by those comments made by my gender. Honestly, Asian men are so caring, attentive, intelligent and family oriented. They really deserve way better than this! I am rooting for Asian men! For Asian women who have those malicious opinions about Asian men, how would you feel if they were to say "Asian women are not physically curvousy and fun like white girls." Does that hurt? Think before you say something offensive.
These women are just brainwashed by Hollywood.
They cannot think straight because they are accepted into mainstream society. People who think straight tend to be ostracized by society
As a 1st generation Asian American man in my 30s, I grew up in a majority white neighborhood in the East coast and I can relate to this 100%. From my childhood, I was always the token Asian guy in the class full of white people. There's a good chance there happens to be a token Asian American girl in the class too. When this happens, all the white people assume you two like each other, because mostly all white people all think Asian people are the same (this happened in the 90s), and it makes for this uncomfortable and awkward situation. You feel the stares from all the white people and the white guys may egg you on to talk to this Asian girl. I have nothing against this Asian girl, but what happened was that I simply distanced myself from this Asian girl any way that I could so that I could avoid the situation. I am unsure what that particular Asian girl experienced or what they experience in general but maybe they feel some sort of bullying from their side too. There were a few other Asian American girls that I liked growing up, but they all mostly rejected me maybe because I was really nerdy and not like the cool white guys. But, what I think may contribute the most to Asian American girls not liking Asian American guys besides emasculation is probably because of statistics. These Asian American girls grew up in the same mostly white neighborhoods and there's just simply not that many Asian guys that they interacted with growing up. What are the chances that they happen to like me or the one or two other Asian guys in the entire grade or school? I think its like a numbers thing against Asian American guys. There's just simply more white guys to pick from, and many of them probably are popular.
I was also bullied/socially rejected by an Asian American girl in High school who was in my homeroom class because I was nerdy and probably made her look bad. Let me explain, given that the average white person lumps all Asian people together, what you (as an Asian guy) does is always judged. What one random Asian guy does affects how you are treated. Thus, you have this weight of needing to represent your culture in the best light possible. Basically, you have to factor in racism. SO, this Asian girl was hanging out with the popular white girls and she probably wanted to be accepted by them, so she needed to rid herself of anything that was holding her back, i.e. - me. I was Asian and was nerdy, so I looked bad. Her peers see that she has an Asian face, so by proxy, she looks bad. There's a certain level of assimilation that you have to do in order to socially survive I guess. Some Asians, male or female tend to completely reject their own heritage and culture to the point of making fun of themselves in order to be accepted in another group too.
There's a lot more to say. Maybe what little I wrote here may resonant with some other Asian American males.
So this girl will shamelessly say that she doesn't date Asian men, and no one barely bats an eye, god forbid, if Brian the host says that he will never date a black woman, boy would he get some huge backlash and might be cancelled. some racial double standards here really
That's because progressives believe in a racial hierarchy where the ones lower can attack the ones higher but not the other way around. If Tariq Nasheed was white and said half the shit he said, he would have been banned from all social media platforms years ago.
Bingo!!
Keep black women out of your mouth...... they have nothing to do with this. whats the matter with ya'll?
Brian only wants asian and white women, and he's made that clear multiple times.
and thats horrible too, we cant justify her bad behavior cuz its been done before to a diff race, no one should be race hating on any race
I’m a Boomer AM. This shit has been going on since I was a teen. I think it was even worse in the 70’s/80’s believe it or not. It’s never going to change.
Oh wow
One of my uncles somehow overcame it. He moved to America from Burma in the mid 70s and ended up marrying a white woman. They were together for over 20 years, even after she became disabled and until she passed away. Some years later he married another white woman.
yeah it is. its a bit better now with KPOP and anime going mainstream. I hear in some foreign countires asians are killing it. just not in the USA, we are still looked as a small penis, nerdy , not sexualized
@@mitch20003huh? So now you wanna be sexualised due to your race in order to gain attention from other races/ethnicities? You say that as if being sexualised is a good thing (coming from a south american myself).
Better off being known for good values and culture than just a sex machine.
@@mitch20003huh? So now you wanna be sexualised due to your race in order to gain attention from other races/ethnicities? You say that as if being sexualised is a good thing (coming from a south american myself).
Better off being known for good values and culture than just a sex machine.
These sort of things only happens in Anglo Saxon countries like US, Canada or Australia. As an Asian American, I lived in Venezuela for more than 10 years and these sort of self racism biased does NOT exist. As a matter of fact, the playing field of Asian man with white latina pairing is quite common too. Ive also been told that this applies to pretty much all the latin american countries. So I blame the mainstream media of the US that purposely influence this mindset to Asian women. This is probably why they purposely aired this clip which I suspect they cherry picked these ASian women who have these sort of self racism mindset. But I know most Asian women dont think like that just like us Asian men who may find white women attractive but DOT NOT limit ourself to only white women, we love women regardless of their ethnicity.
Same with the Soviet bloc/Eastern European countries. While racism on a individual level can exists obviously, communism did not allow for systematic racism against Asians which meant no emasculation and equal opportunities for Asian men.
I hear asians do terrible in those countries, dating wise , eastern europeans are open to asians from what i hear. that makes sense, you have the Stan countries near by which is pretty much just asians and whites living there@@Rob-iz6nm
Exactly. I commented the same thing
100% spot on. I been traveling abroad and I've only noticed this trend of internalized racism from asian women that grew up in predominatly Anglo Saxon countries. They hate on their own men aka disassociate as a means of assimilating to western society. In South central america eastern europe and asia(east and south east) are not brainwashed by these negative stereotypes of asian men.
@@불루재이 So you are an Asian man living in eastern Europe?
Asian girls saying dating asian guys is like dating their brother is the most dumbest excuse. Not every asian dude looks and acts like your brother.
Right
Yea that’s a totally Bs excuse. Most people in the world are Asian right? Imagine if all the Asian women thought like that hahaha
Not just that, but white women, black women, Hispanic women when they encounter man who looks like their brother father, they are insanely attracted to that man. It is only the Asian woman that thinks the opposite
By their logic, people wouldn't marry people of their own country/culture
I’m 1/2 Asian and 1/2 white but look Latino. I’m attracted to girls from pretty much all races, but it’s been pretty much only short Asian girls that would date me. Latina girls that seemed to be interested in me backed off really quickly when they found out that I’m not Latino. I’ve learned to accept that and I have fun with it now. My favorites are girls from around the Mediterranean. The long dark hair, almond eyes, and the olive skin gets me every time. The important thing to remember in the end is to find someone who is a good and reasonable person. If someone won’t date you because of your race then of course you’re better off.
I'm Mexican, and I could say this is happening in Hispanic communities as well. No so much the talking down of Hispanic men but the idea that dating a white dude to a Mexican woman is considered a "come up."
An interesting layer to add to this however, something that was slightly hinted at in this video, is that, as much as it's looked upon as a step up economically or social status wise by Hispanic women to date a white American man, it is just as much looked at as a step down in terms of masculinity.
I've seen this happen multiple times at multiple parties where a Mexican girl that's dating a white dude gets into an altercation with another Hispanic female, and as soon as the men they're dating get involved, if the other Mexican girl is dating a Mexican guy, suddenly the first girl switches up her energy. The first girl would start trying to pull her boyfriend away and try to get him to go back to the car, as if to say, "You're out of your element whiteboy, these Mexican dudes are about to fucc you up." Where the second girl if anything is cheering her man on and saying stuff like, "Fucc this asshole up, baby!"
So as much as Hispanic or Latina women fetishize the idea of dating a handsome white guy from a good background, they very much share this underlying belief that white dudes are not as masculine, macho or aggressive as the standard Hispanic or Latino male, which I guess is a weird area of prejudice that Asian men don't necessarily get to benefit from.
Wow
This reads as cope in the latter half. Most Hispanics are quite short.
This cracks me up.... LOL I don't totally agree with white guys being demasculinized but funny none the less.
Depends where the white guys are from. If they are Irish from the Rockaways in Queens you are in deep trouble. Those border brothers will be running all the way back to Mexico. Also South Boston. The Irish don't play.
Cuz mexican have native american blood, which mean u look similar to Asian men, thus they hate u
Don’t victimize yourself and not do shit about it. If you encounter a women that focuses on race than you as a person than she’s clearly not the one. Keep it pushing and work on yourself (physically or financially) so that you can offer the best version of yourself.
If it was a few like say 10% of them, I don't mind. It's close to 50% of them. That's an alarming rate.
Study shows Asian men need to earn a lot more to be similarly attractive to women sadly.
@@MyLife-og2kronly because you're idolizing Asian women
Thanks ❤🫂🙏
Asian men rock. I find Asian men to be wonderful company. With me, They have had a strong presence, been straightforward yet polite and respectful, and delightful conversationalist. Also, Clean and presentable with a delicate yet deliberate touch and more.
Complimenting but yet low key insinuating stereotypes to pass off as “good”….must be White
White women appreciate asian men more than asian women do
It's a cultural thing in certain countries. They are brought up differently, watch different movies and shows, speaks only English. Asian guys elsewhere are doing just fine.
@Raymak, I wanted to defend you since 2015! You are amazing. And that’s an understatement. Thanks for doing what you do
Don’t date a hater. Your energy and happiness are not the trouble with these haters.
The hate is real. It's honestly depressing. Not just Gen X. From my experience, the WORST racism and discrimination against Asian men are from many second generation Asian women (or ABCs) that were born and raised in North America. I mentioned "second gen" because i have encounter too many that fetishize White men (thanks to Hollywood and American media), and I've experience straight up rejections from ABC women before because they ONLY prefer White guys (you know, the typical 6 foot, jacked, blonde hair or brunette, athletic ones). My best advice, if you want to date an Asian women, be like me, find ones that AREN'T second gen Asian. Find ones that were born and raised in Asia and either came here to study or work. Alternatively, look for other races, especially Latinas (they seem to love Asian men). You WILL have more chances of meeting "the one".
Careful to not get them pregnant. They're kinda creamy
Yeah Asian "women" born and raised in America & other Western countries are a lost cause, they don't deserve the committment, time, energy and resources of Asian men. The more Westernised/Americanised the Asian girl the more you need to stay away from her.
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Hi there! You said Asian women only prefer jacked, 6ft tall White guys but can they actually get those? I’ve never seen an Asian women in real life with a “Chad” white man before. There’s a difference between preferring and actually getting. Just curious.
@@meheh3197 I've seen several in San Francisco Bay Area
Hi 😁 guys.... I'm a black woman and I've heard this this issue before. It's something black women face. We are put in box of negatives and seen as less attractive. It really comes down to the individual person. Not everyone is the same and to say one or more persons represent a whole race is crazy. I've seen attractive men in many races, and Asian men are one of them. If you have a preference then that's one thing,but once you group everyone together and say, they are all this and that, it's bull . I wonder if Simu Liu the actor which I find attractive was still working in a office. Walking down the street, would you see him in the same light? He's been on everything in the last year. How is he seen? He wasn't always famous. It's nice he came out of his office 😎
Hes fit and has a great sense of humor. I think he wouldve done fine even without the fame.
It's similar but not the same. White women are not dating black men en masse the way white men are dating Asian women
@@wil_LOddly in public I see more BM with WW or even AW than I do see AW with WM. With that said in my Asian area in LA I see mostly AW with AM. But around UCLA I know younger AW verbally even say they prefer WM. But I was just chiming in on the en masse BM with WW comment because it's the most common interracial coupling I see still. Though I am starting to see more BW with WM.
Simu Liu would pull women of any race. If you are fit with a good face and personality you're going to transcend whatever bad racial stereotypes people may have. This goes for any gender. Even if they are not normally attracted to your race they could be highly attracted to you, if your in shape or even just have a certain vibe.
😃 True.. he's a charmer ... I always look sideways at a person who says, I'm not attracted to that race. It's so many different people and you can't lump everyone together. You never know who you might match with 😘
This is a US phenomena, as a chinese oversea from latin america, its pretty weird for chinese girls to not date their kind. In fact, most of the people overhere think chinese girls dont date outsiders.
It probably has to do with how america society portrait asian men
It has everything to do with the stereotypes. Humans are naturally supposed to find all races attractive. This heirarchy of racial attractiveness is all manufactured by media and agendas.
Oh it absolutely is due to the insane 200+ years of insane racial stereotyping that crushes and diminishes other races while elevating White European as the epitome of attractiveness, success, intelligence, etc... It's so pervasive children as young as 4-5 automatically point to white, blonde dolls when asked which is the "pretty/beautiful" toy.
So on one hand I don't blame these women for being raised in a toxic mire that actively turns them against their own ethnic group, on the other? They're adults and have the responsibility of being aware of this shit and self-correcting.
Not just a US thing. In Singapore, we still have women we call SPGs (for Sarong Party Girl) who only date White men. A hangover since colonial times.
@@jsurfin1 Eh SPG, bule hunter, faarang lover, all those native Asian women who only want to do date white guys are minuscule compared to the total population. Singapore actually keep a pretty detailed record about interracial marriage (including interethnic for Asians) in their country, you can check it out. Most (95%) of Singaporeans still end up marrying people of the same ethnicity. The same can't be said with Asian American women who more than half marry interracially. Having said that, something like 35% Asian American men also marry interracially, which is not bad considering Asian men aren't considered desirable there.
Nah in Asia too. I am asian from Asia, asian girls here also worship white men. Though not as bad as Asian american girls, but not much different if u ask me.
When I was a young man, it was surprising how many Asian women I knew who had never dated an Asian man. And they had no interest in ever doing so.
Guys, keep in mind that these airheaded Asian girls in the video do not define all Asian girls, so it really means nothing. I personally have met many Asian girls that prefer Asian guys over other ethnic men and it is usually 1 out of 10 that would be open to non-Asian men. It depends on the area and the culture and also it all comes down to preference, just know that there are many options out there with women.
I hope the asian guys out there are smarter than to mess with the OF girls. If i had to guess they will either be eventually cat women or single moms in the future. When i last look Asian men are statistically more likely stay married, have a higher education level, and have the highest income on avg.
During WW2, French women got with the Nazi's and the same women went full circle when the Nazi's were defeated by the Allies. It's all about survival and hypergamy.
Sure same can be said about certain Chinese/Korean women siding w Japanese colonizer.
Women do not create nations and have no allegiances, they go where they feel the most secure for their future offspring.
This is a crucial point. Reverse colonialism
Antn, I love your pfp lol
The weakest link in the history of weakest links. Them showing their face for the world to see is a blessing in disguise.
great work guys, keep bringing up issues like this for discussion
As a black man who is raised in born in California, I never looked at black women, and said to myself, I could never date a black woman, I love black women, I think black women are beautiful, but I think all women are beautiful, you have beauty in every race, but I also noticed that among my Asian female friends, they always say exactly what these girls were saying, “I could never date and Asian guy or I feel like it’s the equivalent of dating my brother, “I have no idea what that means, but that strikes me seriously as odd, and just downright weird, there are a lot of good looking Asian guys, and I don’t know why these women wouldn’t date an Asian man, I’m not gay or anything, but I do have quite a few good looking Asian guy friends, so I really would like to understand why they would feel like that, I am not sure if that has anything to do with being exposed to western culture or specifically being around white people, I grew up around white people as well, but that did not make me look at them as superior or look at black women as inferior, I just see the beauty in both, but as perplexing as it is, I also want to know why these women think like this or Asian women as a whole. The only thing that I would say, is to Asian women as a man and a man of color, don’t look necessarily or specifically on the outside, look at how he treats you, and if he happens to be Asian, then why not? We are all the same and there is nobody superior or inferior, we don’t have the choice of selecting who we are, when we are born, there’s beauty in all men and all women, regardless of race or ethnicity. Always keep an open mind and when you do that you’ll find the perfect person eventually.
Exactly! How often do you hear black, white, or even Hispanic women say this about how dating within their own race is like an incestual relationship?
My theory is that these type of Asian women are trying to socially become "less Asian" and become assimilated with western society. You don't see too many Asians making moves in the sports, music, or entertainment industry where they are considered a cultural icon in the USA. Women want to be in the social spotlight and not on the sidelines, even if it means they are just a sidepiece. So the next best thing for Asian women to not come out as being openly racist against your own race is saying I am not into incest. As an Asian male, I could care less. I never want to be with a racist woman who has this mentality. There are plenty of beauitufl women of all colors and backgrounds that can see men for who they are in the world that I don't have time to worry about what specific small group of racist Asian women think.
So it’s ok when you say it but not her? Got it…lol
@@carguy1697 y'all hate seeing black men with white women but encourage asian women to intermix and anandon asian men
Why do Asian women have to stick to their race when you don’t even stick to yours? 😂
no one cares
It’s part of the “mad at dad” phenomenon
I’m a Black girl married to a Japanese guy for 12 years. When we started out black women and Asian girls were like “why?!?” grimacing. What’s interesting is now with BTS & Anime etc becoming hipster 😅 my black friends are now like “oh so cool, does he have a brother 😂” yet my Asian friends are still like nope 😂 (unless they are in Asia I’m in Tokyo now).
so your asian female friends don't approve you dating an asian male?
Asian women hating on their own men phenomenon is only seen in america or western countries.
@@daebak7370 cause they would get their ass beat at home lol they just protected by the west and plus non asian white knights around everywhere
@@daebak7370That is because white has been thrown in front of people’s face for all of our lives in the US. Every race of male for a while was usually shown as secondary to the white male character. This in turn made them seem more powerful than others.
@@daebak7370 I think every race has this issue.
Another angle to this is like two nerdy kids (boy/girl) growing up and always getting picked on by others. One day one of the nerdy kid, the girl, gets into the cool crowd and then turns her back on the other nerdy kid. In fact, she now bullies the other nerdy kid and actually doubles down on the bullying of the other nerdy kid as a way to further distant herself from the past trauma from bullying.
I'm using nerdy kids as a trait because it carries a negative connotation that's multi generational.
I don't care what anyone says... if you think we're in such progressive times where it's not acceptable to say you wouldn't date a certain race... if asian men is brought up, people just nod and say yeah without question
@jaygallardo5252 black women have been telling the world their men ain't ish for about 30 years and no one batted an eye either. It's not just an Asian thing, western society just has no issue with women's preferences or talking in derogatory terms about men especially if they're the same race.
Where’s your pfp from?
It's from the Legend of Zelda Majora's Mask, and the SyFy show Krypton@@xXPurpleLoliTranceXx
Asian people are submissive by nature so that is a great honest response
@@TomSNC That's a very good point.
The most ridiculous thing is not everyone can tell that girl is half Asian so if she treats Half Asian guys the same as full Asians she's basically self hating and even disciminating people for being even slightly Asian.
WTF are these people even.
His advice to move to a better location is spot on. For Asian guys, all you have to do is move from SoCal to NorCal. You'll go from ditzy SoCal girls dissing you about your car not being cool, to NorCal, you walking into an office meeting at work or a room at a social event and feeling the stare of Asian girls eyes excited that you as an Asian guy have entered the room.
I am a Vietnamese American born in Saigon, and raised in Orange County. 2 Asian women I knew from a sub-culture of dancing Lindy Hop aka Jitterbug expressed this to me, "I don't date Asian men." I immediately told them to go f*ck themselves. As much as I wanted to have friends, I wanted to have more self respect than be around women from my own ethnicity who did not see me as a choice or desirable.
While they expressed interest in going to some events I would attend within the entertainment industry with me, they didn't feel that I wasn't worthy of dating and made it very clear to me right after they asked if they could come "hangout " with me at the prestigious gatherings. This was all during in my late 20s to early 30s.
Fast forward to now... I am married to a beautiful, amazing, intelligent, loving and talented Brazilian.
The thing that resonates with me especially now that I am a bit longer in the tooth is their views of Asian men are the result of the propaganda against Asian men in the media for so long. The efforts to immaculate us especially within film and television have become so blatant. In all... The 2 Asian women I knew were most likely conditioned in our society to believe Asian men were not worthy of dating.
You should've specified, white media owned by white men have done this no one else.
It is most likely stemming from parental pride. The parents were embarrassed about their own culture, so they tried to hide it and/or did not instill pride in speaking their native language and appreciating their culture. So, their children grow up no wanting to speak the language and get the idea that their culture and the humans in that culture are not an option. So, don't pass that on to your children.
Shouldn't even have female friends regardless let alone these ones
This phenomenon of asian women hating on their own men is only seen in america and western nations. This shows just how powerful media is and just how impressionable/conditioned women are.
@@daebak7370 Don't just blame the media, but the parents that raised those children. instilling in them a sense of hate in themselves, their language and culture. Look at how many American Asians (especially American Chinese Asian) are ashamed to speak their mother's language compared to Spanish speaking individuals.
I live in the middle of the USA. Never used dating apps, but I get a few compliments here and there. I don't usually have a problem talking to girls and there have been many instances where the girl came up to me first. It really is just about confidence. Know when to back off and stop pursuing. Learn social cues. Also, You need to take care of yourself and put in the effort to look the best you can.
Yessir, I've been chased by women before. I'm no celebrity that's for sure. I've been with multiple races and I'm with a Portuguese woman now. I'm only 5'7" too.
Judging by your pfp, you're a good looking dude. Regardless of race, you'll have little trouble with women when you are good looking. I think in specific with what they're talking about it becomes more of an issue for your "average" asian guy.
If you're pfp is you then you look kinda like those stunning k-pop characters.
Ofc you'll have zero issues finding girls with that kinda look.
Compare an average white guy to an average Asian guy. Average Asian guy would definitely face difficulties
@@ChrisM-dx8up Thank you man. Although I didn't always look like this. I used to be overweight, have acne, wore glasses, and had a bowl cut my mom would give me. Also had a pretty strong accent until high school. I always made jokes and never took anything too seriously. I skateboarded A LOT. That's all I did. I think that helped with girls still wanting to talk to me despite my appearance. I also have a weird history with girls who had problems with their dad. Idk man.
As an Asian guy I also get compliments and have chicks of other ethnicities get giddy in front of me, however this is not about that. The issue is about Asian women bashing Asian guys.
My experience when in college (Gen X) was I wasn’t a very good looking guy so I get it... BUT I had a buddy that was super built and looked like a model (chiseled features etc) plus was a friendly outgoing guy - and the amount of returned interest he received from both white and Asian American women was shockingly low vs his “stats”. But I will say he was popular with the various Asian exchange student ladies.
Not to toot my own horn but I've had a similar experience as your buddy. In decent shape and am pretty social with new people. I've had way higher success rates with foreign born women than American born. If I had to guess it was because I am westernized but still am Asian, so they see me as still exotic but with a comfortability factor as well. Hahah
is your buddy asian male?
@@quincy189 Yes, of course or else why would I tell that story? I’m also Asian
Younger guy here. I’m a gen z. Also not to toot my own horn or anything like that lol, but i’m also like your friend.
I noticed that white girls like asian males more than the 2nd generation or the adopted asian girls. The ones that do like asians have a strong family bond with their culture or a community where they can gather with eachother. Think like the white conservatives, who marry white people like themself. I think kpop and tiktok def contributed.
@@jskitjbslgolodbg5031 Wait what? So you are saying conservative white women who have a strong sense of cultural identity are into Asian men more? If they are conservative they are also liberal then because they are open minded about getting into interracial relationships.
Shout out to the asian girl in the white blouse. She's a real one for not throwing all asian dudes under the bus😂
part of it is historical racism, part of it is some things that are less preferable, like height, lack of facial hair, and asian culture not being as outgoing. I will say that a lot of it is also just feminism and hypergamy, especially with online dating. It used to be mainly just Asian guys feeling the awfulness of Tinder and Bumble, etc. Now nearly every guy of every race is feeling it. I will say as an Asian man that was an adult in the late 90s and 2000s, (peak asian emasculation), things have come a long way. Also I've been with a lot of women by now from all over the world. Your attitude is most important for real life, whereas looks is most important for online. Just focus on being skilled, confident, and proud of what you make yourself. I'm average height, naturally very skinny, and have plenty of shortcomings in looks, but I've had hot girlfriends of various races, and even a wife. Most of my exes even met me when I was out of work and poor. But I work hard on my goals, have many skills, and genuinely care about others.
Idk what their talking about when they say this isnt a gen z thing. Older gen z here and i can confirm that all the positive representation for asian men is very recent. For most of my upbringing esp high school through college, being outright racist to asian men was pretty normalized, esp in the dating scene. Also i didnt like the subtle anti-mixed racism with the whole "its ok if the mixed girl doesnt like us" rhetoric. Mixed asians are part of the community too and we also should have pride in our culture.
I use to know a mixed Korean girl and she would never admit she's half because her Korean mother taught her how all Korean men were bad and no good. She only started to admit or hint at accepting that she's half Asian when we hung around in the same circle and all the white friends accepted me and had positive things to say about my Asianess. Representation and role model matters.
Fk dem happa hores
The mixed girl actually has an Asian dad, she’s an Asian dad wasian. Lol the irony
You had me in the first half 😂
@@usersixnine347thats wild 😂
I got into martial arts and weight training when I was 13 and have been doing so till now I am 45! Iv had both Chinese and white girlfriends! Yes I would consider myself more masculine than the average Asian.Iv never had trouble with dates so I think maybe the masculine frame is a major factor! And yes it does sadden me when I see Asian women hating on their own! Each to their own! But like you said,don’t let what others think pull u down and affect you! Keep fighting the good fight!
Be strong…Be a MAN!!! 😎💪🏻💪🏻👍🏼
as a half asian man who grew up in Germany, it was very hard to date , they always had that stereotype asian man have small **** so immediatly they thought ur are not a fit for them😂, i managed to date one German Girl in Highschool, we talked suprsingly she said there are actually others girls who liked me but the things that they were afraid their parents wouldnt approve them dating an asian man. it could be that the racist stigma of asian man are not treating their woman well what seems still presist with the older generation . later on i went to uni in asia and suddenly dating was much more easier
I have it the same way. I grew up in Czechia. And it's hard out here.
But these many Westerners seem to think East Asians (especially Chinese) are the most racist group in the world. Based on East Asian's lighter complexion (today's Western uber liberalism seems to view light complexion as sign of racist tendencies), homogenrous population, no immigration, etc.
@@Rob-iz6nm wow yeah makes sense thanks for your insight. At one point it became so racist , that i just left Germany for Asia, now it is much better , never felt that acceptance before in my live
@@Ninja_86R That's good. Just forget about Germany, it's not worth it.
@@Ninja_86R
Just curious, are you half-white or half-black?
Regardless, best wishes to you bro.
Im a Cambodian born in the states.
My dating experience was VERY different…Los Angeles of all places right? I am a bit taller, I was 6ft and some change right at 20 yrs of age, tan skin, and wasnt aggressive when dating. I dated a lot outside my “race”
Black, white, and latinas, I guess they just loved the “ethnic” look I had.
But I noticed that I had a lot of push back from most Asian women that were born here. Japanese, Korean, and Chinese women were totally into my Cambodian American heritage thing I had going on, but I guess a lot of those “Americanized” Asian women dissociated dating Asian men very early on. I guess I got fairly lucky despite the asian stereotype.
Cambodian dudes in America stands on business thats why we date outside of our kind more than Cambodian woman 😂
@@Kodeuk i see hella Cambodians date outside their race. But I gotta say, my Korean and Filipino brothers be killing the game.
@@SomeAftermath ye Korean and Fillipino are getting up there to.
I will never understand people thinking Asian men aren’t desirable. I highly disagree. my boyfriend’s ethnicity it Taiwanese. He often expresses how he always felt like he wasn’t attractive. Guys, my guy is VERY attentive. I can’t believe he never thought he was. It’s terribly sad.
Yeah my bf is Korean
What's your ethnicity
I'm Hispanic but I've seen many Asian American women say they only date Asian guys just because the parents want them. It's cool people have a preference but damn they really like to dig that dislike Asian men thing real deep. I noticed the Asian women from Asia don't think this way as much, but, it's still prevalent.
Wtf? No this is not prevalent in Asia..just stay out the convo
@@kimckawa Learn to read stupid I said it's not as prevalent in Asia. You don't even have a profile picture, the hell you telling anyone to stay out of a conversation, you need to go buy an education cause apparently comprehension you can learn on your own.
Its only in west.
This does happen in Asia, e.g. Japan - Gaijin hunters. Be for real bro
@@we1rdfuk It's a different context though. It's due to fetishization of people that are not common there. Of course, the American soft power and some lvl of internalized racism exists as well.
I wonder what these women will tell their future sons that might look asian
They’ll continue projecting their own self hate and openly shame their own son in public. I’ve seen it happen.
Their future sons will look Asian lol. Half White Half Asians always look Asian ... Asian genes are strong
They're not gonna have a spouse with that kind of attitude.
Yes, I think the same, not all asian-european mixs are Keanu Reeves. Ann curry, a japanese-american journalist, whose father was White, anglo-white, looks Absolutely asian, good-looking, but fully asían, I was needed to be told she was half-white to even imagine.
@@genxfobGOODNESS😱
Gen X here. Yup this still exists. It's taught. This used to bug me in high school then I joined the army, traveled and found better things. I lived in Europe and now living in Japan. Asian gals looking down on Asian men isn't new. These gals were taught to be like this or influenced to do so. Outside of CONUS (Continental United States) I don't see this.
Yep this phenomenon exists in predominantly Anglo saxon countries.
You guys are killing it great job homies.
The “huh!?” In the beginning killed me bro! Steve Harvey, that you? ☠️
These podcasts get way more attention than they need to
People with podcasts are now the equivalence of Instagram "Entrepreneurs" back then
Lots of incels and repiller/blackpillers watch that show
@@kaym7704I hate that incels are grouped into red pill. Red pill to me is about self improvement, accountability to yourself, traditional masculine values. Complete opposite of a whiny incel bitch.
The problem is there's just not enough Asian men in the western society. In the US the total Asian population is about 7.2%. As an Asian male who grew up in the US, I was only attracted to western women until I met more Asians later in life. I started dating only Asian women and later married an Asian. Same thing happened to two buddies of mine who are also Asian. So I don't blame these girls for their preference in men because Asian men are pretty scarce compared to other ethnic groups unless you're in China town or Korea town.
I also want to add that I was pretty muscular when I was single so I was attractive to many women of all ethnicities. So to my Asian bros please hit the gym.
11:50: this hit me deep. I grew up without any males in my family, my father died when I was a kid and I had no male relatives near me. I feel like I missed out a lot because of it.
I've never personally hear women from other ethnicities say the same about dating men of their own ethnicity.
In fact they get on their knees real fast when they meet a man who looks like their brother. Every race of women prefer their own except the Asian woman
Amazing right? And look how successful, healthy, and model citizens most Asian American men are in comparison to say African American. I guess it just goes to show it's all about the long penis 🤷🏻♂️.
it is what it is. Its kinda like you know its there and you just hope you dont see it. Like spiders in the house..." oh it's been a while since I saw one, i guess I'm safe.... but then out of nowhere... bammmm. you see one. and you are like... oh fuck"
Asian guys Don't want to date them either 😂
I doubt that
@@kobe8034Latinas and White girls are way hotter. Asian girls got no body.
Cope asian women have an option to date white or black male whereas asian men need to compensate by having game or something
@@toppa7954you’re the exception. Asian women do date whoever including blk, but the majority are against it
@darthvadeth6290 wait? You don't think Asian women don't date black men? I think the one who's ignorant is the person you look at in the mirror each morning. You must be a white dude?
As a black man I’m aware that when society pictures a man that can provide, protect, and all the other great traits that goes into a father figure someone with my skin color doesn’t come up. I just ignore that perception and go on about my business. The people that know me now what type of man I am and dating have always been more of an opportunity.
Provide protect is such a blk ppl thing, asian women usually go for white men cause they want to get away from that traditionalism of gender roles, and they see white men as more open minded on it
You should be worried about black men doing this to black women.
@@aquarius-woman5364he spoke it because some black women do this to black men aswell. You needlessly shifted the conversation because it made you uncomfortable
Providing and being responsible is something you can actually change. Your race and peenees size you cannot change so Black men still have it easier. Once you have commitment mindset you are far ahead and quite a surprise for many women
Being short, bald, or unattractive are god’s gifts to weed out shallow people in your life. These gifts can be given to you indirectly like these self hating women. Consider yourself blessed for not running into these people.
Can you do an episode on Night life in Japan. It’s so interesting from what I was told. Maybe I will be Made in Japan not Maid in America after this . It’s gonna be interesting how deep you will into this topic
Asian women want a guy who is “Americanized” not some FOB. Plain and simple. My sister in law said she has never met a member of our ethnicity who didn’t exhibit the common short comings.
I am GenX late 40sF who grew up in an Asian town in SoCal. Most kids my age were first generation American like me. Was barely exposed to white people until I went to college in small town PA and it was like 95% white with very few Asians/minorities there. I dated two Asians during school, but ended up marrying a white guy with whom I am now divorced. To your point about developing masculinity and personality - this is my exact sentiment. I would totally date any Asian, as long as they're developed beyond work. Not that I'm really dating now LOL. But hey, more and more Asians are moving to where I live (mid-size city) and I admit that I wish I was younger because I find many of the Millennial Asian men attractive.
As an asian guy I don’t care if some asian girls doesn’t want to date there own race. If your rizz game is so good they will make you the exception! Plus there lots of hot non asian girls who want to date asian guys! There just waiting for us to approach them!
Does Filipinos count?
Filipino mindset falls under Latin America so Filipino guys are accepted everywhere
Some of them are hating on themselves. That’s why ❤️🔥
I'm a black heterosexual male and if a black woman were to say that she doesn't date black men I guarantee that I wouldn't lose a second of sleep over it.
I'm a vietnamese american guy who grew up in a white environment on the east coast. It's definitely weird, always felt like i didn't really fit in, but for my part, I didn't really know what to do, even if a chick liked me. I was an awkward, small, quiet, nerdy kid
All that changed when I joined the army after high school. It broke me out of my shell and I slowly started to open up, working out more, learning how to fight, how to talk to women, how to pick them up and give them a good time, etc..
My first gf was a southern-accented half-asian, half-white chick from alabama--- about as much of a misfit as I was
After the army I moved out west, started a new life, and then started doing things which took me around the world. Since then I've dated chicks of all different cultures and ethnicities
I think for the guys who are the type of guy I was in middle or high school---- work on yourself (work out physically, learn a martial art like BJJ or kickboxong, force yourself to talk to strangers, and also--- learn about female nature, for its pluses and minuses). Then develop a plan of where to meet chicks and ask out as many hot ones as you can. Learn from each interaction and relationship
If chicks won't date you for your race, it actually does you a favor by screening out the shallow ones with low intelligence. Also---- chicks in different areas of the country and world have different tastes in men, so you might be seen as unattractive in one area, but when you move or travel, you may have chicks approaching you (obviously don't get married in a rush, watch out for scams and prostitutes, etc..)
Asian guys like us may start at a disadvantage in regular dating culture because of our traditional culture, but that doesn't mean you can't do the work and improve your results/situation. It's all about how you play the cards you're dealt
Let people love who they want. There are plenty of Asian guys (like me) who also NEVER date Asian girls. Why should we shame people for having preferences? And for the record, I'm a Gen Xer so I've experienced plenty of racism from Asian and non-Asian women. But I would argue that the dating scene is getting much better for Asian guys, especially if you are Korean and living in Los Angeles. It's a gold rush out here. From my experience, for every 3 women who talk smack about Asian guys, there's at least 1 who is totally into Asians.
Your comment is right only on a superficial level. We should be able to like or love who we want, except Asian women do it while putting out hate towards men of their race. And when it isn't a one off thing but a overwhelmingly disproportionate observable action, there is something bigger going on here than just having a "preference". It has gotten to the point where you can no longer tell if an AFWM couple really even likes each other or it's just out of spite.
I say this because I've seen quite often barely average looking Asian women with white guys who have the same "negative" qualities Asian women claim to not like in Asian men, as in not physically masculine, nerdy looking, and not that tall (to top it off these white guys have worse qualities such as balding before 25 than most Asian men).
Now those were regular looking Asian women, not the typical "hot girl" look who naturally (as in every race of that type of girl) only go for "Chad" or a thug, so why don't they go for an average Asian guy?
That's not a flex...
@@Drownedinbloodwhy you say that
3 is too many. Why not just tell them the truth? Why don't you just tell them that other race just wanted them for their tight cat-hole?
The real question should be: Why is not the other way around? I mean shouldn’t it be that “for every 3 women that are totally into Asians, there 1 that talks smack” Now repeat and add Lation or Black instead of Asian. 🤔 Why is it not like that? That’s were the root of the problem exists! 👁
This shows that looks/genetics matter the most, importance of looks in order
1.race
2.face
3.height
Absolutely not. Nothing to do w actual genetics but how they’re marketed by dominant media. If Asians owned Hollywood, believe me Asian men be on top. White men will perceived as hairy spilt milk overgrown unintelligible buffoons. Why would any classy modern women want to get on w neanderthal? You see my point?
actually there was an experiment where they showed people from all different countries pictures of people from all different countries. On the whole they found people their own races higher than they rated other races. So its obvious that this is conditioning of asian women in the usa. The other aspect was facial symetry.
And you can ONLY BUY ONE...HEIGHT. F*CKED UP AIN'T IT.
I'm Mexican (Indigenous), who grew up in the States, and always wondered how I'm perceived since I look much different from mestizos and Chicanos that I see here in California.
Great analysis guys. Hypergamy. The desire to climb. These are all things that factor in and finally after decades, people have finally been able to elucidate this as a reasonable explanation . The climber, who is a goner. Excellent metaphor.
Do really rich Asian guys have this problem?
@@gurujr Bro after lots of hard work, I’m well off, and I still feel it.
Thanks so much bro for sharing this. I agree, self improvement is very important. I think quitting masturbation is definitely helpful for self improvement.
My fellow Asian brothers, do NOT let these girls ruin your day!
From my experience as an Asian myself (Korean), I've found that by defying stereotypes, we can stand out the most in the game compared to guys of other races/ethnicities.
I am a former Kpop trainee (the pretty boy type), have a nice voice, am pretty fit, and bilingual. I give no damn and approach a girl if I find her attractive (cuz I know I'm good looking and being Asian makes me stand out even more). Girls usually like it more when a guy approaches them while they're with their friends because that shows the guy is bold and confident.
So yeah, I'm actually thankful that I was born a good-looking "Asian" man (I know, such a small sample size for everyone to agree w/ me but I know y'all good looking popular Asian guys exist).
Also, I had some Asian girls, like the ones in the video, legitimately tell me, 'I don't usually date Asian guys, but you're pretty cute.' I clapped back at them, saying, 'lol thx but I like pretty girls tho XD"
As an Asian man I’ve only dated white girls (not a preference) they’re just more open minded. I haven’t dated an Asian girl yet.
Yes - the way I like to frame it is this:
Date who you want, but at least don't throw your own people (and by implication - ur own siblings, parents, and cousins) under the bus.
_ _ _ 🚌💨
As a guy, I don’t clean up someone’s second-hand mess
The problem is a "cultural " problem whereby Asians (Mostly East Asian , A Huge Percentage South East Asian, South Asian to a certain extend ) do not have internal pride of themselves due to the "politeness in their culture " which manifest in submissiveness and non confrontation .
Hence , this is seen in the way the culture expresses itself in entertainment , social engagement and other facets in society.
While good for trade and diplomacy , it is bad on a personal level and you see manifestations of this as seen in women in their society not have actual pride to promote and pick men of their own culture because it is viewed as "weak and inferior " as compared to the more " dominant " Anglo Saxon culture.
However, I notice this is not so much the case with Asian women from Central Asia which I suspect has got to do with the language, lack of direct engagement with the west and due to the influence of the Soviet Union.
I feel for my Asian brothers. Women of Chinese or Korean descent I’ve dated would make disparaging remarks about their own men when I would ask if they’ve been in a relationship with someone of their own background. Despicable behavior. Don’t know of any other ethnicity who put their own men down like this.
As mildly successful Asian dude who's never have problem dating girls of any race, I typically don't date these types of girls due to my conservative upbringing. They're the motel hookup types that you generally hit a few times until you hookup with the conservative Asian girl.
Lmao.
Amen
They're for the streets, not for the keeps
White men should date them so they will have future broken divorce marriage.
Keep talking about this. This is a legit phenomena especially in the Asian American diaspora. Keep talking about it until we raise enough awareness where all parties can have a serious discussion and evaluation of why this is even a thing. There's no denying its not a thing anymore, that's for sure. #stopasianhate
Except talking about only adds fuel to their reasoning for hating Asian men to begin with. It's a lose/lose situation. I get many Asian men do not have the physical features Western women desire but Asian women, and only Asian women make up shit on top of stating that like "Asian men remind me of my brother". No other race of women says that about men within their own race. They truly are making self racist comments, because if Asian men remind you of your male relatives because they look alike, then Asian females also all look alike.
To sum it up, they have the audacity to claim we are bitter, when it was they who have fed us poison our entire lives.
The girls in the video are bad examples because they are just the average unintelligent white party girls (using the word "like" every other word, ditzy, club/party/selfie 247/7) in yellow/half yellow skin but the phenomenon all remains the same because even smart Asian women with something going for them feel the same way.
Personal fact: My sister was a whites only Asian women who is now in her 50s, unmarried, no children, complains about loneliness; and I do not have an ounce of sympathy for her. It isn't because she's Asian (she's an alpha widow), but the whites only part is the relevant part.
lol well this even happens in many asian countries too. White guys just have it easier. Men you most focus on what you can improve and focus on the good things always.
You are mad that Asian woman don’t want you cry
I feel like we are rehashing the same point over and over again
This is why no matter what anyone tells you, representation matters!! Until recently I had only ever been attracted to one Asian guy in my life growing up. He worked in a boutique designer store and was undeniably beautiful. In the UK there was very little exposure to East/Southeast Asian men or culture. On mainstream tv it was like… good luck spotting the Asian. But with the rise of online streaming services, web dramas and the discovery of K-pop kDrama and BLs. People outside of Asia were exposed to more about asian countries, culture values etc and significantly they got to see Asian men as love interests. In the west the representation on tv and films is still overwhelmingly white despite the diversity. We kinda didn’t know what we were missing out on. You can’t miss what you never had. Also the truth is Asian men have had a massive glow up in the last 15 years. Wow. They deserve all the attention they are getting now. Funny thing is many Asian men themselves can and often do have the same blinkered attitude towards dating a different race. White worship is real and It’s still looked down on to date black and brown people in Asian countries. Plenty of Asian men only want to date white or Asian women so what’s the difference between them and these women? The more things change, the more they stay the same.
Maybe it's because the west is majority white. Facts and logic, oh no.