It's improved, but it still has a long way to go. As long as Western media keeps pushing negative Asian male stereotypes, it will continue to hold us back. Asians need more solidarity like some other minority groups.
"As long as Western media keeps pushing negative Asian male stereotypes" - Exactly, SOFT POWER. That's why POSITIVE image and representation matters. It's the world including Asian females vs Asian men.
As a Hispanic/Latino male I’m happy to see my fellow Asian brothers dating life become hugely improved. I’ve always felt that Asian men got the short end of the stick when it comes to the media representation and dating. I hope one day we live in a society where race won’t matter when it comes to dating.
I have no doubt that dating for asian males is way better than it ever has been in the past 15 years but at the sametime... it still has a ways to go as well
I'm 46 year old Asian male. In HS I was pretty much invisible. I hit the gym when I started college, my confidence and self worth improved. The window opened up for me with different races (majority Latina). Looking back, it's more the confidence and personality that attributed to my change. Being Asian was a secondary thing to the girls. Even at 46 I still get looks from girls much younger than me.
You were the beta male until you hit them weights 😂. Good 👍 job. But always remember whats real will always be there in the end dont change your character and physiques to fit in. Happiness is something that should come naturally.
@JTXBUFFY At around our age group its all about being happy for the remainder of our lives lol. Caring about how people/society thinks of you how they view you and say about you was back in the teenager/young adult days. Just like how this video doesn't validate anything for me doesn't define asian males in american society and the world as a whole.
Im a mixed Blackman and a huge shout out to my Asian brothers. We are all in this together whether Black, White, Asian or Latino males. I'm glad dating is getting better for my Asian brothers but for our Asian sisters, please stop hating on Asian males if you are dating outside your race. We are all human beings 😊.
There is a lot of internal racial hate from Asian women. When I was in Thailand, almost every Asian girl would flock to non-Asian men and they would ignore all Asian men. Only when I spoke to them and having perfect English did they even consider engaging in conversation since they knew I was an America and not a local Thai.
I'm a 52 year old asian dude and you young dudes have it easy compared to when I was young. Even an old dude like me is doing pretty good in dating nowadays. Don't slack off. Get out there.
Yup, back in our days bro we were viewed as either nerds or gangsters, gullible or feared. Dating a non-Asian girl did not even cross my mind because that was simply impossible or at least extremely unlikely to happen.
CMB data isn't typical. Most users are Asian, with 80% being Asian males, so naturally, they get the majority of the likes. Instead of looking at total likes by race, the ratio of being liked back or likes per person might give a clearer picture. But I do agree, dating life is improving for Asian males.
True, I think that data doesn't make sense as white men still seem to be seen as the most attractive. I think Asian men have become number 2 though or on par with Hispanic looking men.
@@goodbad-boy Not for me it ain’t… lol I have the highest response rate on CMB. The only reason I gave up on it and switched to Hinge is cause CMBs app is terrible. Hinge has been pretty good too but not as good as CMB. I bet if I tried the same test again I’d get a different results. So it all depends on the timing, and the city you live one There are surges and dips in any app
No that's bullshit. They released their demographic data and asian people make up around 40% which is alot but that also means asian men make up 25% of that amount
The reason asian men do very on CB is because its a serious dating app, and asian on average where 25% more likely to put down ''looking for a serious relationship'', they also spent 18% more time on the app than any other group. So, in essence CB is a more traditional dating service, the women on CB (unlike tinder) are actually looking for a relationship rather than a hookup. And asian men are looking for the same more than any other group. so asian men do much better there, which is great!
I actively avoided dating apps for years and tried to meet women irl. After years of fruitlessness, I signed up for Coffee Meets Bagel and within a year I met my now wife.
It has happened to Asians, the same thing that happened to Latinos in the past with the “Latin Lover” stereotype. In the case of Asians, it is largely driven by Kpop and Kdrama. I just think this romanticization is kind of dangerous, and this applies to any ethnic group.
I do admit that there is an element of risk-averseness in Asian parenting, because part of filial piety requires making parents feel secure, which discourages risk taking as it may make parents feel insecure, and in case of failure, make them feel ashamed
I’m not even Asian, yet I’m hooked. You guys are very naturally entertaining and I’ve always been interested in other cultures, but the Asian cultures were ones that I didn’t hear a lot of information on. Almost like a mystery. Keep the videos coming please. 👍
As an Asian-American, I use to feel underrated when it comes to this type of stuff, but now looking back I’m actually glad that I was over seen, and it doesn’t bother me anymore. I just do me and my own thing. Keeping it 💯 #iykyk
I am asian american and been married to my latina wife for 23 years. We recently went to mexico for mission trip and many asking my wife how it was married to a korean, so much more interest than it was 10 years ago.
I think like most forms of racism, we need to have two thoughts in our head at the same time: 1) Yes, things have gotten better for Asian men on the dating scene 2) It's still not perfect and we still have a long way to go We need to be able to appreciate the progress we've made while still trying to push to make the world even better. 60 years ago interracial marriage of all kinds was explicitly illegal in the US; getting interracial marriage legalized was a huge step forward, but wasn't as if people woke up the next day and everything was fixed and there was no more racism in America. One step at a time. We've taken several steps forward for Asian men, but we're done climbing yet, at the same time.
Im no social scientist but the youth culture was definitely the most favorable to asians and asian males in late 2021 and especially early to mid 2022. That was the real rise of asian masculinity imo, without the signs of insecurity and pretense of asian americans beforehand. After that the old culture kind of flared back, around when andrew tate blew up. I think its still that way but I see signs of it washing away recently. All I can say is the more redpill-ish and netflix emo vintage style people and social cultures are, the more hostile to asian guys. While the more "tiktok" like and generally the less alternate & nerdy the social atmosphere is, the more favorable to asian guys. A strong pattern I've seen.
@MichaelWadhwania who you? Everyone knows about our cultural fusion. My family Is from st Elizabeth it's common. I'm from Montego Bay I know many mixed kids
i know that one race of women who always gave love to the asian dudes were black women. I remember David Choe once said the same thing, saying how in the dating pool the LEAST desirable to date in each gender was Asian males and Black females, respectively.
This is why I never sweat the game, I knew time for Asian men to shine would eventually come thru. Right now our light skin Asians are getting love, soon it'll be the southeast dark guys too.
Some southeast Asians are really pale. As a Filipino I have fair skin. 🇵🇭I hope my South Asian brothers and sister succeed as well and I’m talking about countries like INDIA 🇮🇳.
People weren't racist in the past. Asian men, especially East Asian men are just shy. You need to approach white girls if you want to date them, and you need to be able to socialize with them. As a Vietnamese guy, white girls approach me all the time.
How does it feel to have all the tech CEO's in the west being Indian? 5 million strong diaspora in the USA and one of the largest and fastest growing global diasporas on the planet? JD Vance's wife Usha, Vivek, Tulsi, etc.? Chad and upper level genes Indian men can easily get hot white women. Of course the really ugly guys are stuck at the bottom, but that's true of all races
That's funny since in the U.S indian men are married 10k more then Indian women but for east asians the women are married 500k more then the men so there's a huge difference between east asian guys and Indian guys, which shows that East asian guys have problems getting women in general. Also where's the proof that east asian men are "moving up" as a whole, using specific examples doesn't prove what the situation is in general.
🤔 so you gotta put down other Asians to make yourself feel better ? East Asians are in more developed countries so is southeast Asians aren’t really out here worrying about media and culture.
@@Phaminator525 how am i putting them down, you incel!? East asian especially korean men's stock has increased in the dating scene, while indians/pakistanis decreased if anything
@@eugenechin2863 then she's not the special lady by definition (at least not in my book). Or I guess both of you spend on each other which is fine. If I feel like I have to spend a lot of money to keep a girl then it proves she doesn't like me enough.
Really?? China olympic weight lifters 🏋️♂️ 💪 👌 been dominating the weight lifting olympics for the past 10 15 years. Lu Xiaojun, Li Dayin and many more. They're not Hollywood movied they're the real stuff.
@youtubeguest5494 I'm not saying there hasn't been great athletes from Asia, I'm saying the popularity of the TV show made Western audiences pay more attention. The average woman in the US probably doesn't watch weight lifting competitions enough to know that Chinese athletes are successful. Also, physical 100 isn't Hollywood, it's a competition show with real people.
@@stacie1595 so you're saying that athletic, masculine, tall and average height asian male changed the perception of western none asian womens on how they think of asian males??
@youtubeguest5494 ... yes. Is that not what the video was talking about? That the visibility of Asian men in western media has changed the way women perceive them? Is that not the thesis?
Yes and it's called soft power. China does have soft power but it is not welcomed in wRacist Murika. I mean, look how impressive the 2008 Beijing Summer Olympics was. No one can top that. And right now, we have Tik Tok taking over the other apps where they're trying really hard to ban and the EV automobile and mobile industry where they won't allow to step foot here. KPOP/DRAMA is not a threat to US hegemony or else they'll ban it too. But it's also that SK and Japan are US vassals. @@youtubeguest5494
I can't help but be intrigued by the impressive shoe and basketball collections in the background. That's cool. 😊 It's great to see Asian men receiving the recognition they deserve.😊
You guys should check out walking vlogs of Seoul on youtube such as Hongdae night walk. You'll see so many white girls and foreigners with korean guys and not vice versa. Tables are definitely starting to change
Yeah in woman go to Korea for the guys, while the foreign men have trouble there. It’s definitely changed, to give perspective 20 years ago Korea was still selling themselves to men.
The thing that blew my mind the most is how younger Asian women are more willing to give an Asian guy a chance now. It’s night and day how different Asian women over 30 and under 25 view Asian guys
@@HakeemNana-mc9czHallyu Wave, spread of Korean culture via Kpop, kdramas and movies. Started in early 2000s and really exploded when gangnam style and BTS came out.
The bestest it's ever been bro. Got laid from several different European woman during my trips to both Europe and South East Asia. It was the best time of my life. Go travel my asian brothers you might get lucky like I did.
Thank you kpop, kdrama, Steven yuen, Simi Liu and many others in the early days. But these 4 folks stand out the most initially. Glad there's alot more Asian figures in Hollywood media than who we started with
Said myboyfriend (now husband) is Asian, people lost their minds negatively… now some of those same people are like “does he have a brother?“ brahhh 👀 😅😂
I think it has something to do with the apps' algorithms being racist against Asian men, and I think that was gradually corrected, and after Hollywood released Crazy Rich Asians and other films favorable to Asian men, it definitely helped for Asian men, and with the increasing popularity of Kpop music, that also boosted the appeal for Asian men.
Watching the local news in a town with significant Asian population, half are black, half are white (or hispanic), not a single Asian news person. If not for the internet, Asian men would still be seen as "hey hot stuff" Dong.
We're taking about frequency and being talked about and being desired, and considered as an option. Do you want to keep hearing yt/blk/Hispanic/Arab men and ASIAN women talking shit about East Asian men? It's EVERYONE vs Asian men.
You're describing the overwhelming majority of the Western women out there. They don't have a mind of their own. They're all a part of a hivemind. Whichever way the wind blows, that's the direction they're going in regardless of what their personal feelings are on the matter. Women ONLY care about perception. Wake up, man.
I think you're making a spurious correlation between media representation and dating outcomes. I'm not saying it's not an influence, but having more Asian male faces in Hollywood doesn't necessarily mean women IRL will suddenly be more open-minded if they weren't already considering Asian men as potential suitors before. Did some cursory research on CMB, and apparently it's only available in metropolitan cities like SF, Boston, and NYC? Not sure you can really extrapolate the data to dating patterns in other American cities, especially in more rural areas with very few Asians. If I had to guess, I would assume most non-Asian women would be open to the idea of dating an Asian guy, but the biggest barrier pertains to Asian men being more reserved in terms of making sexual advances. Since women generally don't approach or make the first move, they occupy the passive role of vetting their incoming options. Asian men are probably shooting their shot at a fraction of men of other races.
As an Asian man, growing up, dating was easy for me. Dated all kinds of women, white, latina, black, asian, European... 90% of people still to this day, mistake me for Japanese...I'm like bruh, I'm full filipino 😂.
Now Asian men have become the number one most desired men. I also noticed that Asian men who are in relationships with non Asian women are much happier and have healthier relationships.
Like Andrew said, they want commitment and cute and softer masculinity than the average American. Asian K-pop idols and K-dramas display this so much. We wouldn't see them being fuckboys...
I've been active on the asian subreddit since I was 14 when everything I heard about dating as an asian men was terrible with all the Lu's and Trans making it worst for us to get not just Asian girls but girls of all races. Safe to say 10 years later, dating hasn't been hard at all as long as you strive to make the best version of yourself. For gen Z, dating is just as hard as men of other races imo.
I feel like Asian American men are the least likely to have children due to having an incredibly difficult time finding a partner in the past. Now these single, childless Asian men who focused on themselves and made money, are sought after by the women(now with kids and baggage) who turned them down way back when. I’m a single mom magnet and while I appreciate the advances, I don’t want kids or step kids. I’ve no problem with casual though. I want to thank the women who’ve ignored me and rejected me in the past for allowing me to be the best possible version of myself with even more room to grow.
In my view asian men facing all these tough time and tough environment and tough attitude for them but still manage to rise , I call this a racial supermacy. I even think that is because asian men are actually very sexy no matter which field so the white boy feel insecure so to break down asian men confidence by being racist
The current generation of young Asian men are richer, taller, and better looking ...than my generation... the bar is higher still given K pop's influencers. I just hope they are smarter, wiser, and better negotiators than my generation.
It has gotten better for me on CMB, but honestly it is a mixture of many things. For one i am older so i feel i am more desirable because most likely one has their shit together by now. The other thing is online is the norm now so most people have to use the app. Finally dating in general is toxic filled with uncommitted. So yes overall more matches, but better matches? Probably not. Better for asian representation? Probably but not only due to asian representation (the pull part) but also because toxic dating culture (the push part)
Nothing to do with stereotypes, but with physical attraction. Musclinity, height, face, eye colors are things that are more important to women than men.
As a Vietnamese/Chinese American Asian Man 1st generation in US in his late 30s, I have recently married my American/American that sounds like a white woman in her early 30s. I do agree that I've seems a lot positive Asian male representation on the screen more often vs 10 years ago. It is day and night different. Over my dating career, I did have a lot more "luck" with black women, than latin, asian then white.
It seems to me like certain Eastern Europe countries were always more accepting of Asian dudes. I visited Poland around 9 years ago. This was before the rise of KPop in the Western audience. I received more attention than usual from Polish women. I was in Poland because a friend invited me on his trip there to visit his Polish wife's family. Her best friend was also getting married so I got to attend the wedding. Many of the single Polish girls were pulling me to dance with them. They wanted me to drink Vodka with them too.
It's definitely easier for Asian guys these days but it depends on where you are. In Canada, it wasn't too much of a problem for me. I'm a bit taller than most Asian guys and mostly looked really fit in my younger years. Had dates and stares from beautiful women. Don't walk around with achip on your shoulder. Just go out and be confident and don't take dating too seriously.
It makes me feel better for my son as he is a second generation Asian American. The trend is positive, but surveys are surveys, in reality I'm still not seeing a lot of Asian guy and non-Asian girl couples out there.
There's a difference between being diligent and being a nerd. They are mutually exclusive things. Being nerd doesn't guarantee any measure of financial security. But being hardworking does. And security leads to success. And success leads to confidence. And projecting real confidence is key in dating for dudes.
It just keeps getting better and better. Imagine how invisible Asian men were from the 1920s-1980s compared to now! Interracial marriage wasn't even allowed for the majority of that time period.
I have a question Fungbros , do you think us Asian guys are losers who cry about Asian women’s Choices??? I think we should stop talking about yellow fever or Asian women and whatever , remember communities fall short when people don’t appreciate each other or talk down on each. Like the African American community, the women talk bad about the men and the men talk bad about the women. We are so fortified so people want in the community more so.
Compared to the early 2000's it's a night and day difference. But it's still difficult. Asian guy with another race used to be very rare. Today, I wouldn't use the word common but you see it a lot more. I think it's because of kpop/anime/kdrama/asian influencers/youtubers.
@@Baphomet-bk7cx I'm not surprise about Europe as I think they are more open minded compared to America. The Korea example doesn't really count. Any white girl in Korea doesn't have much choice to date Korean. That's all there is. But the fact that they're in Korea means they like the culture.
@@tgo007 I just replied your words about typing "Asian guy with another race is rare". Yeah it's rare in the US but the world it's not only America lol. That's why i told that place outside america like Korea, Russia, Europe, turkey even china AMWF is much more common Than WMAF especally for the Gen Z
You can't just expect the media to improve your image. You have to work on yourself: fitness, fashion, finances, personality, etc. Once you look the complete opposite of the media stereotype of an Asian male, women can finally tell you apart and give you some attention
Azn men shouldn't need to do that to get attention. Do you think Azn women need to do that? Or white boys? You could be an obese Azn chick or mid-balding white guy and still make out like a bandit lol
The problem is that a lot of the Asian male doomers use the anti-Asian stereotypes as an excuse to not fix themselves. This is literally the same toxic mindset of white incels who blame all their problems on feminism
Naw. A majority of asian males tend to date/marry and breed their own species because it's been instilled in them it's an expectation from the asian species it's kind of like a duty. And asian males are less attractive and less appealing because they hold onto their culture and beliefs and have not yet allowed western influences western culture to completely dominate them and asian culture and influences is different from the west and the west is much more modernized compared to the east. As asian males progress and keeps assimilating to western culture asian males will look more common and have more in common with whites and blacks. The human species tend to go for commonness because commonness secures their faith and trust and confidence. Asian females on the other hand I think it all started after world war 2 when white men came to the asian continent to spread western influences like freedom democracy and to combat and oppose the differences which created hate and genocide which made asians percieved white men as the super hero and life saver. And asian females with white males is more like asian females gets the beta white males ive never seen an asian female with an alpha white male. Asian female is overhyped because white girls and some light skinned white mixed with black girls are the best looking and most attractive. And the asian female white male couple is exegerated western culture does a lot of exegeration too as eastern culture is mor humble.
Oddly enough, there are more Asian players in hockey than one might expect. Jason Robertson (half Filipino) is one of the elite players in the NHL right now.
I disagree with #2 also isn't coffee meets bagel are mostly Asian men? And catered towards Asian men dating? During my time as a single Asian man my luck was not the best, and this was about 2 years ago, also I think it's more Koreans that women are interested. What also blows my mind is when Asian women say they won't date Asian men because it's like dating their "brother"
It's wild how muchedia Influences things. I swear if all the rooms and super hero movies pushed short guys.they would be popular with women within 5 years
Good to know! As Asian guys' popularity increases I hope there will be more and more oportunities for their--and everyone else's--dating and marriage statistics to even out--hopefully trans-racially to strengthen the human genome and of course eliminate "racial" tensions in the long run. BTW, even though China happens to be viewed unfavorably or mostly unfavorably due to clashes of perceived nartional interests (77%), As of Feb 2024 Japan is currently viewed favorably or mostly favorably by 83% of Americans. For South Korea, 72%; Taiwan, 77%; and even Vietnam--whom we fought and lost a war with and which continues to be viewed negatively by many Vietnamese Americans--was still rated more favorably than unfavorably (43% to 39%). Anyway, note that given the popularity of Taiwan--as well as other Asian "allied" countries--most Americans are not basing their opinions on what has often been portrayed falsely as "Asian hate." Yes, race hatred does exist towards all races on a certain scale--including hatred of whites--but I would posit that "racial" hatred or prejudice is lower in the U.S. than in many Asian countries themselves.
East Asians are still not part of the popular culture in the West. Kpop and Kdrama, maybe popular on the web but it's not integrated into mainstream Western culture like Black culture is. It still feels like a foreign import because that's what it is.
Does it really matter though? Black American pop culture is killin' it, but it's not like it's helping black people dominate the dating world. Like, I'm very into hip hop/rap since I was in high school, but there was never a point in my life that it made me consider wanting to date a black girl. You know what I mean?
@@ponuni I know what you mean because becoming popular does not necessarily make you more physically attractive. It just helps to break down cultural barriers, so that interracial relationships become less taboo.
The amount of women being attracted to asian guys after being exposed to attractive asians from kpop, kdrama, or other American films/shows has def increased significantly. And it’s something I noticed a lot in real life too
@@what3899 It's not all what you think though. When I asked females in the comment section of the BTS music video Dynamite, if they are sexually attracted to the group members. The common response was: "no, we just like them because they're cute" It's like females see them as cute puppy dogs but would not sleep with them. However the masculine attractive Asian males have always been attractive but only recently given exposure, so it's not surprising that more Western females are searching them out. So I agree with you that some Asian males are receiving more attention from Western females but how much of that attraction is superficial?
@@tommyh4116 I think it just depends on the group, there are a lot of different ones and some are seen as more attractive while others are seen as just more cute. But yea physical attraction is superficial in general, although thats how dating starts for most people
Hold on...The shift is related to the change in generation. 10 years removed, you have a lot. of people getting married...travelling....eventually, people discover other things than dating and usually, they stop using apps for one reason or another. The people using aps today have grown up with KPOP (and other content that exposes asian cultures to non-asians as a normal thing)..they are more comfortable with the asian culture..because women don't like us because we are asian..they didn't like us because of the culture they did not understand...that's why there was so much difficulty. Dudes..as a genx asian..I have so much wisdom to give 8). If you're interested, I would love to come on a podcast.
CMB don't count because all of the non-mainstream/non-hot women and/or wholesome or conservative girls who look for "real relationships" are on there. It's a common attitude towards the app so you'll fine more genuine people sure. But you 100% will not find down to earth that are mainstream-hot. But can't have your cake and eat it too. Anyways, CMB data makes sense, but also, the type of person vs just the ethnicities matters more.
im black with R&B, rap & pop music... made it very easy for us blacks to date white women. i hope with k-pop, it will do the same for our wonderful asian bros. God bless
so asian guys are number 1 in relatioship material, but we still last on tinder, but i'll take it, being top in one and bottom in another is better than bottom in both :P
tinder is for hookups mostly and fun. try other sites. althought ive had the most success on tinder, 9/10 times compare to other dating apps and im only 167cm 32yr old but latina womens love asian men especially if you look east asian, not SE asian
@@TheOne_isGOD Congrats in the success! What are some tips to optimize your profile, and does having muscles help? And how much did your location matter? I'm 22 year old east asian man and have lifted weights for quite a bit and I'm 170 cm, looking for hookups as well
It's improved, but it still has a long way to go. As long as Western media keeps pushing negative Asian male stereotypes, it will continue to hold us back. Asians need more solidarity like some other minority groups.
"As long as Western media keeps pushing negative Asian male stereotypes" - Exactly, SOFT POWER. That's why POSITIVE image and representation matters. It's the world including Asian females vs Asian men.
Fax up on fax and get your passport as well
@@itsatrap4986 fax upon fax
@GentleTraveler-999just curious, why?
true ， its all about the impression
As a Hispanic/Latino male I’m happy to see my fellow Asian brothers dating life become hugely improved. I’ve always felt that Asian men got the short end of the stick when it comes to the media representation and dating. I hope one day we live in a society where race won’t matter when it comes to dating.
Right now Asian men are monopolizing the dating scene. For a woman to have an Asian boyfriend, is the equivalent to finding gold.
Thanks Senor Goku 👍
@@yellowantonio-nado7761 No problem I’m just here supporting my fellow minorities.
Mind your own business
@@UnstableYT-u7kstop
I have no doubt that dating for asian males is way better than it ever has been in the past 15 years but at the sametime... it still has a ways to go as well
Dating for men in general is kinda crappy
It’s bad for all men. That’s why everyone’s leaving the West.
But Asian American men live on hard mode in americas dating market. Leave america
I'm 46 year old Asian male. In HS I was pretty much invisible. I hit the gym when I started college, my confidence and self worth improved. The window opened up for me with different races (majority Latina). Looking back, it's more the confidence and personality that attributed to my change. Being Asian was a secondary thing to the girls. Even at 46 I still get looks from girls much younger than me.
You were the beta male until you hit them weights 😂. Good 👍 job.
But always remember whats real will always be there in the end dont change your character and physiques to fit in. Happiness is something that should come naturally.
@@youtubeguest5494 No doubt. At my age I can care less of what people think and what's trending.
@JTXBUFFY At around our age group its all about being happy for the remainder of our lives lol.
Caring about how people/society thinks of you how they view you and say about you was back in the teenager/young adult days. Just like how this video doesn't validate anything for me doesn't define asian males in american society and the world as a whole.
boo hoo im sorry, anyway, go get a $180 flight to Lima Peru, enjoy the coastline, and having over 1000 matches on bumble tinder and tantan
Im a mixed Blackman and a huge shout out to my Asian brothers. We are all in this together whether Black, White, Asian or Latino males. I'm glad dating is getting better for my Asian brothers but for our Asian sisters, please stop hating on Asian males if you are dating outside your race. We are all human beings 😊.
Latinas always gave me muuuuch more love than any other race
There is a lot of internal racial hate from Asian women. When I was in Thailand, almost every Asian girl would flock to non-Asian men and they would ignore all Asian men. Only when I spoke to them and having perfect English did they even consider engaging in conversation since they knew I was an America and not a local Thai.
yeah and viet girls since im viet/chinese american but getting latinas is soo easy, white chicks.... not so much especially americans and im 167cm
Depends where you’re from
As a black man, I saw shout out to the Asian wave. Much deserved!!
I'm a 52 year old asian dude and you young dudes have it easy compared to when I was young. Even an old dude like me is doing pretty good in dating nowadays. Don't slack off. Get out there.
Yup, back in our days bro we were viewed as either nerds or gangsters, gullible or feared. Dating a non-Asian girl did not even cross my mind because that was simply impossible or at least extremely unlikely to happen.
It was difficult to date non Asian girls but not impossible. You just needed to be more outgoing and social.
boo hoo im sorry, anyway, go get a $180 flight to Lima Peru, enjoy the coastline, and having over 1000 matches on bumble tinder and tantan
@@proTRUMPproREALMADRID LOL Who's crying here? But sure fly on out of here, Peter Wu
CMB data isn't typical. Most users are Asian, with 80% being Asian males, so naturally, they get the majority of the likes.
Instead of looking at total likes by race, the ratio of being liked back or likes per person might give a clearer picture. But I do agree, dating life is improving for Asian males.
True, I think that data doesn't make sense as white men still seem to be seen as the most attractive. I think Asian men have become number 2 though or on par with Hispanic looking men.
girls on CMB are the worst at replying compared to. the other apps
@@goodbad-boy Not for me it ain’t… lol I have the highest response rate on CMB. The only reason I gave up on it and switched to Hinge is cause CMBs app is terrible. Hinge has been pretty good too but not as good as CMB. I bet if I tried the same test again I’d get a different results. So it all depends on the timing, and the city you live one There are surges and dips in any app
No that's bullshit. They released their demographic data and asian people make up around 40% which is alot but that also means asian men make up 25% of that amount
The reason asian men do very on CB is because its a serious dating app, and asian on average where 25% more likely to put down ''looking for a serious relationship'', they also spent 18% more time on the app than any other group. So, in essence CB is a more traditional dating service, the women on CB (unlike tinder) are actually looking for a relationship rather than a hookup. And asian men are looking for the same more than any other group. so asian men do much better there, which is great!
I actively avoided dating apps for years and tried to meet women irl. After years of fruitlessness, I signed up for Coffee Meets Bagel and within a year I met my now wife.
Omg all this is making me wanna try it, I've only ever used bumble, tinder, OkCupid and tantan where I had some success.
It has happened to Asians, the same thing that happened to Latinos in the past with the “Latin Lover” stereotype. In the case of Asians, it is largely driven by Kpop and Kdrama.
I just think this romanticization is kind of dangerous, and this applies to any ethnic group.
I do admit that there is an element of risk-averseness in Asian parenting, because part of filial piety requires making parents feel secure, which discourages risk taking as it may make parents feel insecure, and in case of failure, make them feel ashamed
I’m not even Asian, yet I’m hooked. You guys are very naturally entertaining and I’ve always been interested in other cultures, but the Asian cultures were ones that I didn’t hear a lot of information on. Almost like a mystery. Keep the videos coming please. 👍
As an Asian-American, I use to feel underrated when it comes to this type of stuff, but now looking back I’m actually glad that I was over seen, and it doesn’t bother me anymore. I just do me and my own thing. Keeping it 💯 #iykyk
I am asian american and been married to my latina wife for 23 years. We recently went to mexico for mission trip and many asking my wife how it was married to a korean, so much more interest than it was 10 years ago.
I think like most forms of racism, we need to have two thoughts in our head at the same time:
1) Yes, things have gotten better for Asian men on the dating scene
2) It's still not perfect and we still have a long way to go
We need to be able to appreciate the progress we've made while still trying to push to make the world even better. 60 years ago interracial marriage of all kinds was explicitly illegal in the US; getting interracial marriage legalized was a huge step forward, but wasn't as if people woke up the next day and everything was fixed and there was no more racism in America.
One step at a time. We've taken several steps forward for Asian men, but we're done climbing yet, at the same time.
You need to thanks to korea Without them you e at the botto.
Coffee Meets Bagels isn't representative at all of dating apps in USA. Asian guys get a lot of matches there because 50%+ of their userbase is Asian.
They acknowledged that.
Yep. The data is there for one app. What you do or how you feel about it...is up to you! Maybe it's encouraging and maybe it doesn't mean much *shrug*
☕️+🥯=❤
It's still an improvement, so what ur logic? Improve still not happy?
Really? I guess that's why 4/5 women I met on that app were Asian. Funny enough the 1 who wasn't Asian was black and she is the one I married.
Im no social scientist but the youth culture was definitely the most favorable to asians and asian males in late 2021 and especially early to mid 2022. That was the real rise of asian masculinity imo, without the signs of insecurity and pretense of asian americans beforehand. After that the old culture kind of flared back, around when andrew tate blew up. I think its still that way but I see signs of it washing away recently. All I can say is the more redpill-ish and netflix emo vintage style people and social cultures are, the more hostile to asian guys. While the more "tiktok" like and generally the less alternate & nerdy the social atmosphere is, the more favorable to asian guys. A strong pattern I've seen.
As a black Jamaican woman, I can say us Jamaican women have been riding for asian men from jump
lol no
@MichaelWadhwania who you? Everyone knows about our cultural fusion. My family Is from st Elizabeth it's common. I'm from Montego Bay I know many mixed kids
@@toyintoyas representation of the Asian Asian community we appreciate you Miss Jamaica big black woman but we don't think we can handle y'all😂
Cap
@@jacksonmashionadamjuanitol117 Most black women are not “big”. That’s an American stereotype.
i know that one race of women who always gave love to the asian dudes were black women. I remember David Choe once said the same thing, saying how in the dating pool the LEAST desirable to date in each gender was Asian males and Black females, respectively.
No offence but Asians want Asian or white.
black women can be hot, nice curves, butts and will defend you aggressively
Weak genes is real with this one.
@@NoName-bt6xd you're an asian woman trying to lie your way out of this
thats the only reason they want asian men. Its cause its two of the bottom of the barrel matching up with each other out of desperation.
This is why I never sweat the game, I knew time for Asian men to shine would eventually come thru. Right now our light skin Asians are getting love, soon it'll be the southeast dark guys too.
Some southeast Asians are really pale. As a Filipino I have fair skin. 🇵🇭I hope my South Asian brothers and sister succeed as well and I’m talking about countries like INDIA 🇮🇳.
Filipino guys dont need help tbh. they be pullin the most imo lol
I think the main reason is just that people are more progressive and less racist nowadays and asian men benefit the most from that
People weren't racist in the past. Asian men, especially East Asian men are just shy. You need to approach white girls if you want to date them, and you need to be able to socialize with them. As a Vietnamese guy, white girls approach me all the time.
@@OGtruthserum People WERE racist in the past. Tf you're talking about.
@@R4GNAR0G Never experienced it then.
Shout out to Korean Wave!
what wave?
@@MichaelWadhwaniak pop wave
Hallyu represent
east asian men moving up, south asian men stuck at the bottom
How does it feel to have all the tech CEO's in the west being Indian? 5 million strong diaspora in the USA and one of the largest and fastest growing global diasporas on the planet? JD Vance's wife Usha, Vivek, Tulsi, etc.?
Chad and upper level genes Indian men can easily get hot white women. Of course the really ugly guys are stuck at the bottom, but that's true of all races
That's funny since in the U.S indian men are married 10k more then Indian women but for east asians the women are married 500k more then the men so there's a huge difference between east asian guys and Indian guys, which shows that East asian guys have problems getting women in general. Also where's the proof that east asian men are "moving up" as a whole, using specific examples doesn't prove what the situation is in general.
🤔 so you gotta put down other Asians to make yourself feel better ? East Asians are in more developed countries so is southeast Asians aren’t really out here worrying about media and culture.
@@Phaminator525 how am i putting them down, you incel!? East asian especially korean men's stock has increased in the dating scene, while indians/pakistanis decreased if anything
no one wants south asian just ew disgusting
For sure. Asian guys killing it rn
I'm enjoying being "undesirable and underrated" lots of peace and more money in the bank 😂
Dating doesn't have to cost much money if u find the right women
@@adelb7897extremely rare
@@adelb7897 To finally find that special lady you have to spend..lol
@@eugenechin2863 then she's not the special lady by definition (at least not in my book). Or I guess both of you spend on each other which is fine. If I feel like I have to spend a lot of money to keep a girl then it proves she doesn't like me enough.
I've seen so many women tune into physical 100 and walk away changed.
Really?? China olympic weight lifters 🏋️♂️ 💪 👌 been dominating the weight lifting olympics for the past 10 15 years. Lu Xiaojun, Li Dayin and many more. They're not Hollywood movied they're the real stuff.
@youtubeguest5494 I'm not saying there hasn't been great athletes from Asia, I'm saying the popularity of the TV show made Western audiences pay more attention. The average woman in the US probably doesn't watch weight lifting competitions enough to know that Chinese athletes are successful.
Also, physical 100 isn't Hollywood, it's a competition show with real people.
@@stacie1595 so you're saying that athletic, masculine, tall and average height asian male changed the perception of western none asian womens on how they think of asian males??
@youtubeguest5494 ... yes. Is that not what the video was talking about? That the visibility of Asian men in western media has changed the way women perceive them? Is that not the thesis?
Yes and it's called soft power. China does have soft power but it is not welcomed in wRacist Murika. I mean, look how impressive the 2008 Beijing Summer Olympics was. No one can top that. And right now, we have Tik Tok taking over the other apps where they're trying really hard to ban and the EV automobile and mobile industry where they won't allow to step foot here. KPOP/DRAMA is not a threat to US hegemony or else they'll ban it too. But it's also that SK and Japan are US vassals. @@youtubeguest5494
It's about time, my brother's been getting disrespected one too many time's!
I can't help but be intrigued by the impressive shoe and basketball collections in the background. That's cool. 😊 It's great to see Asian men receiving the recognition they deserve.😊
That shade on suburban Ohio is uncalled for, when there are whole suburbs filled with Asian Americans here, mostly Indian, but still.
You guys should check out walking vlogs of Seoul on youtube such as Hongdae night walk. You'll see so many white girls and foreigners with korean guys and not vice versa. Tables are definitely starting to change
Yeah in woman go to Korea for the guys, while the foreign men have trouble there. It’s definitely changed, to give perspective 20 years ago Korea was still selling themselves to men.
Idk I’ve watched those videos and I’ve seen a lot of vice versa
Because in 2023, 10 million foreign women visited S Korea vs 3 million foreign men
@@jasonw3055 Guess it’s time to start pushing the narrative that those women “couldn’t get a man in their own country”.
@YightLagami-zt4mv I've been to Korea too lol. Have you?
No post on Zhilei Zhang, as boxing fan and a fan of your show have been really hoping for one.
At 41, Zhang is a dinosaur in boxing. I hope he gets the AJ fight and wins as a last hooyah retirement fight.
The thing that blew my mind the most is how younger Asian women are more willing to give an Asian guy a chance now. It’s night and day how different Asian women over 30 and under 25 view Asian guys
All thanks to Korean Wave😂
Who's this Korean wave that you speak of?
@@HakeemNana-mc9czHallyu Wave, spread of Korean culture via Kpop, kdramas and movies. Started in early 2000s and really exploded when gangnam style and BTS came out.
Nope, the attractive white girls are still not into Asian men.
Leave America, it’s way better in europe
You guys are right on dating landscape is changing for Asian men
Every year has been great. Attractive men have their own race. Stay fit and get your game up.boys. remember you are the prize.
The bestest it's ever been bro. Got laid from several different European woman during my trips to both Europe and South East Asia. It was the best time of my life. Go travel my asian brothers you might get lucky like I did.
I think outside of the USA it has never been of a big issue....
Black women rank Asian men over black men is something that surprises me.
I think a sub-sec of black women will, but I suspect it’s not the majority.
Thank you kpop, kdrama, Steven yuen, Simi Liu and many others in the early days. But these 4 folks stand out the most initially. Glad there's alot more Asian figures in Hollywood media than who we started with
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@@MichaelWadhwaniacope mayocel
@@MichaelWadhwania paki?
Said myboyfriend (now husband) is Asian, people lost their minds negatively… now some of those same people are like “does he have a brother?“ brahhh 👀 😅😂
I'm still enjoying my passport bro lifestyle. It's better overseas. Trust me.
well it's mostly younger generation asian guy benefited it. Not so much for older generation like us.
Where you had your biggest success overseas? Where would you recommend we go?
Wtf 18 years old acc
@@yellowantonio-nado7761I bet Eastern Europe.
You sure are right about that
I think it has something to do with the apps' algorithms being racist against Asian men, and I think that was gradually corrected, and after Hollywood released Crazy Rich Asians and other films favorable to Asian men, it definitely helped for Asian men, and with the increasing popularity of Kpop music, that also boosted the appeal for Asian men.
Watching the local news in a town with significant Asian population, half are black, half are white (or hispanic), not a single Asian news person. If not for the internet, Asian men would still be seen as "hey hot stuff" Dong.
At the end of the day do you really want to date a woman who gets her views of the cultures from just media?
We're taking about frequency and being talked about and being desired, and considered as an option. Do you want to keep hearing yt/blk/Hispanic/Arab men and ASIAN women talking shit about East Asian men? It's EVERYONE vs Asian men.
You're describing the overwhelming majority of the Western women out there. They don't have a mind of their own. They're all a part of a hivemind. Whichever way the wind blows, that's the direction they're going in regardless of what their personal feelings are on the matter. Women ONLY care about perception. Wake up, man.
Everyone is impacted by what they see. That's why advertisers pay big money to get their product seen by the most amount of people.
When I was in school, I was basically invisible. Glad to see the scene is changing for the younger generation. 😎😎🎉🎉
I think you're making a spurious correlation between media representation and dating outcomes. I'm not saying it's not an influence, but having more Asian male faces in Hollywood doesn't necessarily mean women IRL will suddenly be more open-minded if they weren't already considering Asian men as potential suitors before.
Did some cursory research on CMB, and apparently it's only available in metropolitan cities like SF, Boston, and NYC? Not sure you can really extrapolate the data to dating patterns in other American cities, especially in more rural areas with very few Asians.
If I had to guess, I would assume most non-Asian women would be open to the idea of dating an Asian guy, but the biggest barrier pertains to Asian men being more reserved in terms of making sexual advances. Since women generally don't approach or make the first move, they occupy the passive role of vetting their incoming options. Asian men are probably shooting their shot at a fraction of men of other races.
Yup, Asian guys are just not as outgoing compared to other guys.
As an Asian man, growing up, dating was easy for me. Dated all kinds of women, white, latina, black, asian, European... 90% of people still to this day, mistake me for Japanese...I'm like bruh, I'm full filipino 😂.
As a White German Male no Matter what the girls think, you are my asian Brothers🔥🤝
Great ❤
Fellow german bro 👊/ I am one of those german born vietnamese
Yes. It rising and getting better!
The Hongdae fboys love them meme stock matches 😂
you make these videos every week
Lies
Now Asian men have become the number one most desired men. I also noticed that Asian men who are in relationships with non Asian women are much happier and have healthier relationships.
cope
@@artshothey are not most desired but are doing lot better than before. Seen lot of AMWF. You are coping
that didnt sound asian
Only the young generation asian guys, not older generation like me. Funny, although I am 32, but I look 21.
Like Andrew said, they want commitment and cute and softer masculinity than the average American. Asian K-pop idols and K-dramas display this so much. We wouldn't see them being fuckboys...
I've been active on the asian subreddit since I was 14 when everything I heard about dating as an asian men was terrible with all the Lu's and Trans making it worst for us to get not just Asian girls but girls of all races. Safe to say 10 years later, dating hasn't been hard at all as long as you strive to make the best version of yourself. For gen Z, dating is just as hard as men of other races imo.
I feel like Asian American men are the least likely to have children due to having an incredibly difficult time finding a partner in the past. Now these single, childless Asian men who focused on themselves and made money, are sought after by the women(now with kids and baggage) who turned them down way back when. I’m a single mom magnet and while I appreciate the advances, I don’t want kids or step kids. I’ve no problem with casual though. I want to thank the women who’ve ignored me and rejected me in the past for allowing me to be the best possible version of myself with even more room to grow.
In my view asian men facing all these tough time and tough environment and tough attitude for them but still manage to rise , I call this a racial supermacy. I even think that is because asian men are actually very sexy no matter which field so the white boy feel insecure so to break down asian men confidence by being racist
The current generation of young Asian men are richer, taller, and better looking ...than my generation... the bar is higher still given K pop's influencers. I just hope they are smarter, wiser, and better negotiators than my generation.
It has gotten better for me on CMB, but honestly it is a mixture of many things. For one i am older so i feel i am more desirable because most likely one has their shit together by now. The other thing is online is the norm now so most people have to use the app. Finally dating in general is toxic filled with uncommitted. So yes overall more matches, but better matches? Probably not. Better for asian representation? Probably but not only due to asian representation (the pull part) but also because toxic dating culture (the push part)
all i gotta say as an CA is
get you a black/latina queen
your life will absolutely change,
Shout out to yall for putting Indians in there with Asians lol. I’m not Indian but it’s nice to see 💪
Nothing to do with stereotypes, but with physical attraction. Musclinity, height, face, eye colors are things that are more important to women than men.
I’m a 45 year old Latina dating my first Asian 💛
I think Asian men are handsome. Always have.
As a Vietnamese/Chinese American Asian Man 1st generation in US in his late 30s, I have recently married my American/American that sounds like a white woman in her early 30s. I do agree that I've seems a lot positive Asian male representation on the screen more often vs 10 years ago. It is day and night different. Over my dating career, I did have a lot more "luck" with black women, than latin, asian then white.
It seems to me like certain Eastern Europe countries were always more accepting of Asian dudes. I visited Poland around 9 years ago. This was before the rise of KPop in the Western audience. I received more attention than usual from Polish women. I was in Poland because a friend invited me on his trip there to visit his Polish wife's family. Her best friend was also getting married so I got to attend the wedding. Many of the single Polish girls were pulling me to dance with them. They wanted me to drink Vodka with them too.
It's definitely easier for Asian guys these days but it depends on where you are. In Canada, it wasn't too much of a problem for me. I'm a bit taller than most Asian guys and mostly looked really fit in my younger years. Had dates and stares from beautiful women. Don't walk around with achip on your shoulder. Just go out and be confident and don't take dating too seriously.
Go for latinas and hispanic girls. Love em mayne
As a BM, I've yet to have any such luck. Don't blow it fella's!😮
It makes me feel better for my son as he is a second generation Asian American. The trend is positive, but surveys are surveys, in reality I'm still not seeing a lot of Asian guy and non-Asian girl couples out there.
It's gotten a bit better but still needs a lot of improvements.
There's a difference between being diligent and being a nerd. They are mutually exclusive things. Being nerd doesn't guarantee any measure of financial security. But being hardworking does. And security leads to success. And success leads to confidence. And projecting real confidence is key in dating for dudes.
It just keeps getting better and better. Imagine how invisible Asian men were from the 1920s-1980s compared to now! Interracial marriage wasn't even allowed for the majority of that time period.
I have a question Fungbros , do you think us Asian guys are losers who cry about Asian women’s Choices???
I think we should stop talking about yellow fever or Asian women and whatever , remember communities fall short when people don’t appreciate each other or talk down on each. Like the African American community, the women talk bad about the men and the men talk bad about the women. We are so fortified so people want in the community more so.
Compared to the early 2000's it's a night and day difference. But it's still difficult. Asian guy with another race used to be very rare. Today, I wouldn't use the word common but you see it a lot more. I think it's because of kpop/anime/kdrama/asian influencers/youtubers.
Only in america in korea 70% of korean dude got white gf and even in europe all young gen z asian dude have white european gf
@@Baphomet-bk7cx I'm not surprise about Europe as I think they are more open minded compared to America. The Korea example doesn't really count. Any white girl in Korea doesn't have much choice to date Korean. That's all there is. But the fact that they're in Korea means they like the culture.
@@tgo007 I just replied your words about typing "Asian guy with another race is rare". Yeah it's rare in the US but the world it's not only America lol. That's why i told that place outside america like Korea, Russia, Europe, turkey even china AMWF is much more common Than WMAF especally for the Gen Z
I see women with Asian dudes all the time in LA .
You can't just expect the media to improve your image.
You have to work on yourself: fitness, fashion, finances, personality, etc.
Once you look the complete opposite of the media stereotype of an Asian male, women can finally tell you apart and give you some attention
Azn men shouldn't need to do that to get attention. Do you think Azn women need to do that? Or white boys? You could be an obese Azn chick or mid-balding white guy and still make out like a bandit lol
The problem is that a lot of the Asian male doomers use the anti-Asian stereotypes as an excuse to not fix themselves. This is literally the same toxic mindset of white incels who blame all their problems on feminism
Shoutout to my Asian brothas fr
Hey as a black man, I think it's a new century for the Asian brothers when it comes to the ladies, and I support 100.
Naw. A majority of asian males tend to date/marry and breed their own species because it's been instilled in them it's an expectation from the asian species it's kind of like a duty. And asian males are less attractive and less appealing because they hold onto their culture and beliefs and have not yet allowed western influences western culture to completely dominate them and asian culture and influences is different from the west and the west is much more modernized compared to the east. As asian males progress and keeps assimilating to western culture asian males will look more common and have more in common with whites and blacks. The human species tend to go for commonness because commonness secures their faith and trust and confidence. Asian females on the other hand I think it all started after world war 2 when white men came to the asian continent to spread western influences like freedom democracy and to combat and oppose the differences which created hate and genocide which made asians percieved white men as the super hero and life saver. And asian females with white males is more like asian females gets the beta white males ive never seen an asian female with an alpha white male. Asian female is overhyped because white girls and some light skinned white mixed with black girls are the best looking and most attractive. And the asian female white male couple is exegerated western culture does a lot of exegeration too as eastern culture is mor humble.
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Good on y’all.
Oddly enough, there are more Asian players in hockey than one might expect. Jason Robertson (half Filipino) is one of the elite players in the NHL right now.
Omg White caucasian females must be attracted to him. 😆
Halfs dont count lmao
I disagree with #2 also isn't coffee meets bagel are mostly Asian men? And catered towards Asian men dating? During my time as a single Asian man my luck was not the best, and this was about 2 years ago, also I think it's more Koreans that women are interested. What also blows my mind is when Asian women say they won't date Asian men because it's like dating their "brother"
Andrew and David have been high-key looksmaxxing. They've got to have lost 8-10% bf each over the past 2-3 years..
It's wild how muchedia Influences things. I swear if all the rooms and super hero movies pushed short guys.they would be popular with women within 5 years
This is true. Back in 70/80s when Italian actors were all the rage (DeNiro, Stallone, Pacino etc..) Italian mens heights were never an issue.
White women most common intermarriage was with Filipino males (12,000)
Yes Queen's, NY has a lot of Asians especially on Elmhurst, astoria , Woodside, maspeth etc.
everybody needs to say thank you to K-pop
K-pop, k-drama, Netflix wave.
@radiofreeurope I agree, but your and my opinions do not matter. People in general like it very much
@radiofreeurope I meant k-pop music sucks to no end, but korean movies/dramas are the best
I swear it still sucks being Asian... I'm literally invisible everywhere i go
Don't fret. Go somewhere else where it is not white centric. Try it :)
Have you looked in the mirror? So many ugly Asian American men blame their race instead of some self-reflection.
WE UP!! 🗣🗣🗣
Good to know! As Asian guys' popularity increases I hope there will be more and more oportunities for their--and everyone else's--dating and marriage statistics to even out--hopefully trans-racially to strengthen the human genome and of course eliminate "racial" tensions in the long run.
BTW, even though China happens to be viewed unfavorably or mostly unfavorably due to clashes of perceived nartional interests (77%), As of Feb 2024 Japan is currently viewed favorably or mostly favorably by 83% of Americans. For South Korea, 72%; Taiwan, 77%; and even Vietnam--whom we fought and lost a war with and which continues to be viewed negatively by many Vietnamese Americans--was still rated more favorably than unfavorably (43% to 39%). Anyway, note that given the popularity of Taiwan--as well as other Asian "allied" countries--most Americans are not basing their opinions on what has often been portrayed falsely as "Asian hate." Yes, race hatred does exist towards all races on a certain scale--including hatred of whites--but I would posit that "racial" hatred or prejudice is lower in the U.S. than in many Asian countries themselves.
East Asians are still not part of the popular culture in the West. Kpop and Kdrama, maybe popular on the web but it's not integrated into mainstream Western culture like Black culture is. It still feels like a foreign import because that's what it is.
Does it really matter though? Black American pop culture is killin' it, but it's not like it's helping black people dominate the dating world. Like, I'm very into hip hop/rap since I was in high school, but there was never a point in my life that it made me consider wanting to date a black girl. You know what I mean?
@@ponuni I know what you mean because becoming popular does not necessarily make you more physically attractive. It just helps to break down cultural barriers, so that interracial relationships become less taboo.
The amount of women being attracted to asian guys after being exposed to attractive asians from kpop, kdrama, or other American films/shows has def increased significantly. And it’s something I noticed a lot in real life too
@@what3899 It's not all what you think though. When I asked females in the comment section of the BTS music video Dynamite, if they are sexually attracted to the group members. The common response was: "no, we just like them because they're cute" It's like females see them as cute puppy dogs but would not sleep with them. However the masculine attractive Asian males have always been attractive but only recently given exposure, so it's not surprising that more Western females are searching them out. So I agree with you that some Asian males are receiving more attention from Western females but how much of that attraction is superficial?
@@tommyh4116 I think it just depends on the group, there are a lot of different ones and some are seen as more attractive while others are seen as just more cute. But yea physical attraction is superficial in general, although thats how dating starts for most people
miami we get love, look at kid trunkz the rapper , his gf is latina, he was on fresh and fit years ago
Hold on...The shift is related to the change in generation. 10 years removed, you have a lot. of people getting married...travelling....eventually, people discover other things than dating and usually, they stop using apps for one reason or another. The people using aps today have grown up with KPOP (and other content that exposes asian cultures to non-asians as a normal thing)..they are more comfortable with the asian culture..because women don't like us because we are asian..they didn't like us because of the culture they did not understand...that's why there was so much difficulty. Dudes..as a genx asian..I have so much wisdom to give 8). If you're interested, I would love to come on a podcast.
I think MMA particularly Onechampionship helps the positive athletic perspective as well.
CMB don't count because all of the non-mainstream/non-hot women and/or wholesome or conservative girls who look for "real relationships" are on there. It's a common attitude towards the app so you'll fine more genuine people sure. But you 100% will not find down to earth that are mainstream-hot. But can't have your cake and eat it too. Anyways, CMB data makes sense, but also, the type of person vs just the ethnicities matters more.
Is this a re upload?
One day they say yes, the next day they say no. It is best to ignore the idea of "Asian" or "xyz" and look and be your best.
Look how cool Jensen Huang is! He's a rock star in Taiwan! He signed some girl's chest. I wish I could be that cool.
You're comparing a billionaire vs a regular Joe. But also, these celebrities and wealthy people doesn't do anything positive for the Asian male image.
I agree! Its def getting better esp bc kpop making us asians look better 😂
Here in europe if you are asian dude and have kpop looking style it's really easy to bang any white women you want
im black with R&B, rap & pop music... made it very easy for us blacks to date white women. i hope with k-pop, it will do the same for our wonderful asian bros. God bless
Let's thank our lucky starts for Kdramas and 옥택연.
so asian guys are number 1 in relatioship material, but we still last on tinder, but i'll take it, being top in one and bottom in another is better than bottom in both :P
Dating apps are tough for men period. If you get some, enjoy it.
tinder is for hookups mostly and fun. try other sites. althought ive had the most success on tinder, 9/10 times compare to other dating apps and im only 167cm 32yr old but latina womens love asian men especially if you look east asian, not SE asian
@@TheOne_isGOD
Congrats in the success! What are some tips to optimize your profile, and does having muscles help? And how much did your location matter?
I'm 22 year old east asian man and have lifted weights for quite a bit and I'm 170 cm, looking for hookups as well
CMB is predominately known for people who wants to date Asian compared to other apps. So you have to take the data with a grain of salt..