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“If that doesn’t help you…… Im gonna still find a way to help you..” You a real one for that.
yeah i thought he was gonna say "I don't know what will" but him saying "im still gonna find a way to help you" made me trust him so much more this guy is an absolute king
1500 likes and 1 comment
Let's fix that
@@SuS_sfr
That hit different
The fact that nobody talks about the forbidden book Charmflow Secrets on Vexoner speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance
thank you for advice jimi hendrix
LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOO fr he has that peaceful vibe
THAT'S LITERALLY WHAT I WAS THINKING LMAO
bro i literally thought the same exact thing lmao
Prince
He’s Himi Hendrix
half fake laugh to straight face so real
4:05
5:45
he got the "my bad teach, my bad" laugh
This guy looks like a prince
LITTLE RED CORVETTE🎸🕺🏾
@@AskShimon yo can u help me
Nigerian prince
@@AskShimon fart on me
hes smooth
I believe this guy. he's got the charisma and the rizz. he's the type of guy that can start a cult.
what
yappology
you used charisma twice in the same sentence
Tf are you on 😂
If he had a cult I’m following
"are you afraid to die?"
the accent he put on that 😭
💀
the strings after were so impactful too 😂
not gonna lie
I would do that
I died laughing!! 😂😂
Haha I know right 😂😂
Remember it’s not always your fault, some other people just aren’t good at it or couldn’t care less. So if u feel as if a convo is dry don’t worry too much
Facts
And not everyone is gonna like you (now if no one likes you that’s on you, what’s the common theme there) you don’t gotta please everyone 😎
Purple is a great colour and it suits you I think, those guitars are pretty nice too.
Purple is my favorite color❤️and thank you
Bro didn't focus on the video but the color he was wearing.. I had to watch it twice to notice it...
@@Rocky-od5mycan’t focus on both?
@@AskShimon give me that johnson
same@@AskShimon
Conversation is great honestly. I talked to this girl once about my interests and her interests and she said she couldn’t get me off her mind. We’re dating now.
@hidetakamiyazaki1825It’s one and the same if you want good conversation ask how said person is doing. Then regular conversation should follow!!
are you an actual horse
what a very human experience
@hidetakamiyazaki1825i had. basically what im doing is seeing everyone as humans instead of girls and guys, that way i don't get the wrong idea or intention about a girl, you know being friends with girls and guys is awesome, just be open about yourself and smile. makes all the difference
Lil advice needed was it just you asking the questions or did she also or was it more U. If it was u feel u was interviewing them
Summary
- Love language: how they want to be loved, mught be physical touch, affirmations...etc and follow them
-Food, drinks and snacks:buy her some food that she loves as it can also be a future date idea
-Curiosity: ask questions that show genuine interest in them and ask them for their opinion
+ Conversation starters are talking points that are gateway to know the other person.Dont rely on them
+ Youre not gonna be compatible with everybody
thank you bro means alot
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thanks man, i lost my social skills in 2020 this shit helps
It's my pleasure everybody. Ik it helps a lot especially for us who have ADHD and I try to do the same on other videos. I'd you find them leave a like :)
@@hittitheza It does
This guys whole vibe is amazing💀
Fr
Bro really said🕺🏾
Straight out of the 70s ahh
You're the big brother we all need
i lost my big brothers at 5, didn’t really know them. this helps.
@@Xx_lifeofthe-sigma_xX You have my condolences dude. Stay strong.
@@MichaelFields-lu5duthis ain't trauma dumping.
40 years later than our predictions but big brother is here
@@MichaelFields-lu5dudo yk what trauma dump is ?
this is like talking to my best friend bro. this guy is so chill.
It feels like i'm having conversation with someone i have known for ages
The point you make about shallow people is very interesting because these can be people who are scared to open up because of past issues. If you manage to get past their shell then they may end up being a really fun talker!
This is what I was thinking, some people just have a wall up because of the past. I’m currently working through this in therapy
This and probably they didn't have much common things to talk about. I had people I could talk with for hours and ones we just stood silent where every questions / answers were really awkward. I don't think not being able to communicate with somebody makes us shallow.
@davidd836 Yikes, good luck with your past traumas my man… I resonate with a handful of things you’re going through so I get how hard things can be.
Time usually will tell when you commit to conversing with people but there's always a point where you'll know for sure
That’s straight up me💯
There is a book called Casanova optimization of Attraction, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts. It's the real deal.
Why isn't anyone replying to this comment
The book doesn't exist! 🤖
@@mihaiteodorescu9548 😅bots right?
@Smurphticklerit’s boosted by bots, fake comment fake book
I don't think a straight girl in a relationship is part of your intended demographic, but I still watched the whole video. Your vibe is so comforting, and I still took a couple things away. Keep this up, you're really helping a lot of people! 💗
where is your pfp from? is it from an ado song?
It's always interesting to know how the other side flirt. We're all victim of curiosity.
our partners are ever changing and we should never stop getting to know them :)
*Asking open-ended questions that allow her to share stories instead of just yes/no answers is such an effective way to get her talking.*
seeing other dudes feeling empowered from your videos without blaming everything on women and everyone else around them makes me feel better for our future, keep doing your thing man
watching a dude with the most disco looking setting i have ever seen, with the voice of the most chill person you have ever met talking about how i can interact with people is the best 12 minutes i've have all month, thanks man!
Go to church
Disco?
@@jonathanpanga1382go to bed
@@TheJayson8899I think it’s because of the afro, shirt, and lighting
this guy made me realise when to leave people and move on w life.
you a real one bro.
if you think hes real you live in fake reality.
Listening to him feels like kickin it with the homies💯
Couldn’t have said it better
"THE REAL POINT OF THIS VIDEO IS TO JUST ASK" BRO IS SO REAL, INSTANT SUB
This is the first advice channel that I actually like and just feels like a conversation with one of the homies and not a lecture
your voice, features, space, gesturing, hair, clothes, thought process is all so endearing. hope you're having a good time man. people around you are lucky to have you as a friend
You seem genuine bro not like you’re pitching a course trying to “improve” people’s lives but under the surface ur just trying to make a profit. Most TH-camrs have no interest in helping others and give genuine advice, they give u what’s believable and sounds good for their own monetary gain. Keep it up brotha glad to see somebody legit on here
i really feel that on just not saying nothing to your girl for hours & being comfortable in silence, enjoying each other's company..
you basically just start communicating with touch and affection, don't need all that talking for the most part, y'all basically telepathic now.
takes work to get to that point tho like you said.
& these are some very fye pointers to get you towards that if you really vibin with said person 👌🏾
Brodie making me crack up then locking in like bro I can’t stop laughing 😂
I miss her
She didn’t leave me or anything I just don’t get to see her a lot and it eats at me
@@ultramemeguy1013 i have a crush on a girl from my school and i want to be with her idk how i get so in love for her i feel like u bro
@@ultramemeguy1013 hope u got more time or something to be more with her 😿🫂
“Everyone from River Ridge is a slut” 👿
Today, after a long time, I had an interaction with a woman and I spoke as if it were a conversation between friends! I found it very inspiring and a step towards being someone who is very sociable ❤️🙏🏼
W but this comment made me laugh 😂
when I feel like a loser at one point in my life I’ll remember this comment to remind myself how many losers exist on this planet
@@beags9995100% facts
Awh that's good! I'm proud of you, also some of the replies here are kinda harsh, you did something out of your comfort zone, so just continue doing that!
The replied to this comment are so uncalled for.
That's crazy.
Good job my guy. (Was that so hard y'all? Damn!)
Me and this girl have been talking for a week and have agreed to start as friends and see where things go I'm naturally a shy speaker and some of these things are helpful thank you!
To be honest to tell if a girl is really into you the conversations are gonna be really easy to have especially on her side. She’s going to ask you questions and trying to figure out what you like also so take that in mind.
yep that's what to look for. if she ain't talking to you and trying to know you, move on to someone that does.
yeah i just had a 2 hour convo. 😂
@@I_like_sk8inW
I agree with this unless she's shy, awkward, or just nervous. She might really want to talk but may be afraid to embarrass herself, as a girl who knows a lot of girls many are pretty shy around guys they like. Of course just by vibes you can kind of tell if she's shy or just disinterested but do keep that in mind
Exactly. Nothing to sweat.
ty man, strange you actually helped me realize why me and my ex stopped working. helping me realize more reasons i was only still there for the love and affection, i wasnt really into her as a person as much anymore. it's only been a couple weeks and ive still got a lot to understand
I'm not even personally in need of a video like this, but you have some good advice and your calmness/chill factor is through the roof. This had me smiling cus its just good vibes and you don't sugar coat it.
I like how he has his own style to a topic so most people would give a list of convo starters instead of telling how to learn how connect with people
Bro you're funny as hell 😂 But also serious and getting the point across smoothly. Good vid.
Right 😭🤣
This video felt very personal and it feels like I’m genuinely talking to you I’ve never seen a video achieve this in the way you have and it’s actually helped also I love the whole purple vibe thank you
this guy makes me feel so calm and gets rid of anxiety lol
Exquisite cinematography and 24 carat content and delivery. Man I'm jealous of your outfit
I’m a senior in college, been single for about 4 years now and just been off the grid
I kinda forgot what it’s like to really interact and get down to earth wit a shawty, your words reminded me of that process and brought back some good memories
Maybe I’ll get back out in the field one of these days, thanks for the reminder
I’m a sophomore and been single for a yr and a half, honestly I feel the same way. If you ever take the leap can u slide me some advice?
Being off the grid is so real 😭😭 I’ve been so boring lately
he is so serious but he silly wit it and i love it. and this man has actually helped me so much with many of his videos and i didnt realize that until a few weeks later when i was in a situtaion where his words were something that happened so, thankyou.
this was actually pretty helpful, i do admit i am embarassed to be here because i cant start nor keep a conversation going because i am so awkard
the song in the background is what got me i learned so much and i hope i dont become an npc when i do talk to her.
Best things that help:
Be aware that silence is okay aswell
Be aware that you are 50% of it and not 100% you cant influence how others act you can only try to get into a convo. It wont work everytime.
"Life is a movie but it ain't that one" I like that quote a lot
“Most people like to talk about themselves, and those that don’t, really do” Fr lol
I want this man or some version of him, he knows what's up and that is so important to me!
Fr! We need more positive masculine icons for young men. My brother put me on this guy and it explained his calm nature
Yes, this exactly! @@afrofaeries
1:46 I love that you said to ask these kinds of questions bc I want to ask these, but I never do out of fear that they’re tropey, overdone, or uninteresting
I’m an extrovert who is learning I have kinda narcissistic tendencies. I am very self centered out of a place of insecurity. So this was helpful because I’m trying to learn to be curious. I wanna understand before I’m understood. I wanna be understood through my energy and open to engaging with people where I don’t always have to relate it back to me. This video helps. Giving me good questions to ask will help me extend myself more than be self centered. Thank you sir!
you aren’t narcissistic if you can recognize your flaws big dawg
thats crazy how good its to listen to u, like ur voice is perfect for talking
4:00 bro immediately realized how weird that sounded 💀💀🤣🤣. Honestly this video helped a lot, but most of the stuff I do in a conversation already, although improvement is much needed and this video still helps me, thank you very much.🔥🔥. In a way you gotta be slick with your questions as well, like you did ask them, write them down, four months later she's like how did you know, or like you can ask "What is your favorite place to go", if she says mini golf, then like a bit later down the line take her out mini golfing, do it when she least expects it. P.S sorry for yappin just wanted to expand on your point.
bro thankyou. I depend on you to line up with my conversation skills. something I really want to know is how to communicate boundaries with family. like my dad went through my stuff when I wasn't in the room and i wanna let him know about my boundaries without being disrespectful. and I'm super grateful for your content, the tribe is on the rise
Yo bro i needed this keep going you a legend.
Imma change my mindset and try to be whole.
You changed a life bro dont forget that.
All love brother. ❤
Glad that I found you out. You are like a secret treasure that I found that has the best reward out there. Keep up the good work you are doing an amazing job
Pause gang
He is so chill I wish the people in my life were this chill 🙄I ask questions and get more questions instead of answers 🙄I'm just gonna let him go
I feel like if I ask a girl “what’s your love language” she’s gonna feel creeped out 😭
Try it and see … you can edit the question “what’s your idea of love … how do you like to be love ?”
Thanks you ❤
My guy you a G...I can literally feel the light bulb moments!!
"told her to fart??"💀☠ (3:50)
Wow your advice helped me so much,I applied it for the first day and I made multiple and I even I got into a deeper convos with a 50 year old British lady, thank u
9:06 i feel like the person he is describing right here. i feel uninteresting and shallow, like someone could use these conversation starters on me and we’d have maybe 3 sentences back and forth and it would end. people try to start conversations or small talk with me and i just draw a blank or i just awkwardly laugh because i never know what to say. i used to be so confident and charismatic and i could have a room of people laughing, but after i graduated and all my friends moved off to college i only talk to my girlfriend and her family every day and i can barely even talk to them. my conversations with my girl get drier by the day too, i find myself just repeating simple phrases like “you’re my favorite” or “ilysm” instead of any kind of coherent conversation. all i do all day is work, hangout with my girl, and maybe play video games for an hour, and it has been this way for over a year, just the same looped day. what am i supposed to talk about? life sucks, how can i not complain? nothing makes me happy anymore, i’m losing myself and my mind slowly, and this is just a cry for help that will be ignored
what makes you happy? I think you should just find a few things you love doing, take it easy and try to find yourself amongst them
bro is prince, hendrix and purple rain all at once, love it!!
He had that river ridge comment ready 😭❤
finally a video like this that’s actually considerate towards the other person instead of just saying things that’ll keep you talking. when you’re just saying stuff so the conversation doesn’t die the other person will notice, so try to be genuine and actually listen to what they’re responding. worst thing you can do is spend the time the other person’s talking to think what you’re gonna say next, instead of actually paying attention and engaging. anyways, that’s just how i see it :)
I always done that way. I’m not very social able and pretty shy person. I’m not great at talking and having a full on conversation with someone. I thought it would help if I was thinking what I should say next so the person I’m talking to wouldn’t think I’m boring or dry. But now I saw your comment I realize it wasn’t genuine and that way is wrong And I pay so much attention to what I should say next I didn’t even think of paying attention what the other person is saying and just engage. Also sorry for this long paragraph I just wanted to say thank you and you made me realize what I’ve been doing is wrong just really wanted to take a moment to tell you thank you and I hope you have a great day and doing good and thank you for listening to me
I mean taking the time out of your day to listen to me
@@alpacaperson1629 your comment was so sweet, thank you. i’m also quite introverted so this used to happen to me all the time, but then i realized the conversation actually flows so much better when you’re engaging. it took me a while to understand that i wasn’t letting people know me or know them because i was living in my head instead of being present. anyways i’m glad it helped 🫶🏼
Yo you funny as hell “are you a afraid to die?” 👀uuuh yea 😂
Bro, even in the first 30 seconds you already gave me such a big tip. I would always talk a lot in chat to get people interested, and even if it's recieved well, it really isn't worth the effort at the end. Cause I could have told the same things in real life or through voice chat, and it would leave a way bigger impression on them. Thanks prince.
I’m in a long distance relationship and pretty much everything you said still applies! The hardest part is having our love language be touch, but not being able to do it yet.. I hope we can make it to that point!
Long distance relationship always end up not working 99% of the time and I hope you're ready for that, you'd thing well there's still that 1 percent left but remember it's that hope that kills 🙂
@@seyenxeditz5002 Yep, I went into it knowing I wouldn’t get to have physical touch for awhile and that it usually doesn’t work out.. but we both want it anyways. We’re both far from perfect but I think in the time before we meet in person, we’ll both be able to develop and make it work. Pray for us?
@@masu5781 I will pray for you guys but I have 1 tip to share that anyone on youtube on internet rarely does on Ldr(Long distance relationship) , Even if your Ldr works and you guys get to meet just remember and prepare for it before you meet, at first you guys will be very happy to meet but somethings may not match up as of what you had them in your mind, because whatever happens you can't really tell about a person by just chatting because you have all that time to type and a confirmation of sending it and video calling at the right time when you both are in a stable emotion condition, Because sometimes we have the significant other in the mind as something else but irl when we meet it's often disappointing so maybe both tou discuss about that and keep an open mind to that, Always look at the intentions and not the words cause intentions speak much more those words. In love we just ignore their flaws but some are important to look at that if it works you have to live with them your whole life. Good luck to you guys and I hope you guys prove me wrong and get married at stuff if you're ready for it in the future.
@@masu5781 how are u guys?
man, actual quality knowledge in this video. should be taught in schools cuz i been struggling with this shit
Subtitles said “And when I told her to fart” @3:52 😂😂
i had to replay to make sure i wasn’t seeing things, that had me laughing so hard
😂😂😂,,,av got to subcribe now,,,,a genuine laghter av just heard while still learning,,,, you're a vibe,,, yo!
4:04 bro locked in 😭
I honestly appreciate how you just get right to the point from the beginning. No wasting time. I love your videos.
3:00 "They hard to pet" got me gigglin 😭🙏
Not even gunna lie this is some of the best advice I’ve gotten thank you so much!
I keep laughing after he laughs then puts on the serious face. Guy's hilarious.
thank you! i have trouble making friends, and when I do make a friend I feel like I'm not being affectionate or attentive enough for them. this video helps a lot!
Thanks alot my guy, your voice as well as your words really comforting and strangely enough, it's a breath of fresh air, atleast from the content I mostly view for these sorta stuff- I think I can actually do something and have that genuine energy I'm seeking in that regard.
The silly little giggles, this man has their memorys w their ex rounding his head the whole vid, i like that
She playing hard to get fr, she got a restraining order on me 😂 I’ll get her soon
Because she only wants validation and Chad
This sudden wave of TH-camrs/content creators giving real, human advice like if they were parents/older siblings is exactly what I like to see here.
Something I learned recently (and always know just didn't want to admit): if you express your feeling toward her and she says she is scared or still healing from the past or not ready for a relationship, it means she doesnt want to have a relationship with you! Girls like this will usually just use you as somebody that they can dump their emotions on, and if you start thinking that you could fix her, mabye, but it certainly didn't work for me. We even cuddled once but if she doesnt text you first and doesnt text you even if you dont text her for a couple of days, it just means shes not into you. Move on. I guess this is kinda a message for myself lol
i feel you bro, get you someone who cares, all love brother
Not necessarily true, turned into a good 3 year long relationship for me
True for girls too. I understood that my favourite had't loved me, because he chose not me for conversations at free time. Have you telegram? I want to talk with you.
@@ashasha451 i do, but I'm not sure how it works. Wanna conntect somehow?
@@Jonas-Zu @Ust78888
It's my nickname. My profile photo is huge crocodile.
This has to be the best video I've found under this topic all day. Thanks a lot bro
This felt personal as hell, enjoyed every second of it, I will be subscribing
The laugh as he thinks its crazy to be touchy like a baby😂😂
start a podcast
Truuu he should fr
Yes 100%
'you got a bunch of great words in your dictionary man , great deep down warmness in your voice ' Thankyou..
Idk if you remember me from when you had like 1.5k subscribers and i told you you'd blow up soon, I just saw your channel again and now you have 100x the subscribers in like 2 months congrats
I enjoy meeting people like him in real life.
i like u bro u rlly chill fr🗣️
Bro seems so chill to be around
Im good at conversions its just the people i talk to be dry asl an by them being dry it leaves me speachles 😂😂
FACTS its always so refreshing when you meet someone who actually isnt afraid to show their personality...
Literally omg
Soo true
Took the words outta my mouth fr 😭
@@DuhAnimeProtagonist facts
You’re a real gem, Shimon. I have this feeling we would absolutely be good friends had the world been a little smaller.
It'll be a good meme. 4:06😂
Thank you, my bro. we do like your videos, keep rising 🙌🏾🔥
@@txstdmmy9774 😂😂
Ikr
the purple sweater, guitars in the back and the afro give off Jimi Hendrix vibes, you earned a new subscriber
This the first video I watched from this guy. Awesome! Super funny and charming, but still very informative
vexoner - forbidden women books (thank me later)
this is a scam
I love this person energy so chill and also helping us at the same time.
these are so relaxing to listen to while also getting great advice. new sub
“That sounded crazy…. *laughs* - *stops laughing*🤣🤣
Whenever the convo starts to get dry I just say "activating free will power" and then walk away and then pretend like it never happened when they ask about it the next day
damn idk how to describe the vibe this guy gives off, but i really like it
brother, its nice to watch your vids, you give chill vibes