finding out I have Stage 4 Hodgkin's Lymphoma at 21
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 29 ก.ย. 2024
- It’s been a month now. A month consisting of 3 surgeries, 3 infusions, with 3 new scars that will be with me forever. It’s been a month of tests, tears, and trying to understand the full story of what was going on.
On June 24, 2020, I got the call explaining that they believed to have found lymphoma; a cancer in my lymph node system. Today, one month later, I was officially diagnosed with Stage 4 Nodular Sclerosis Lymphoma. To say this past month has been a journey is an understatement. But today I’ve found light in knowing what’s truly going on so that we can start planning my treatment.
I am fearful for the unknowns ahead, but I know deep in my heart that I am strong and that I can get through this. I have an amazing medical team, family, and friends who have been at my side since day 1.
I can 100% say this is not what I was expecting right now, in life, at 21. Cancer was a word that was distant, unfamiliar. It was in movies, in stories, connected to people that I care about. But this time, it’s connected to me. It’s in this body I live and breath in everyday. It’s new and scary and unfamiliar, but it’s real and I’m doing my best to process it all.
These next few months are going to be a lot for this lil body of mine! I appreciate any good thoughts or prayers so so much right now.
Thanks for watching.
Love, Kam.
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Dear sweet girl, I came across this video randomly. I want you to know I'll be thinking of you. I hope you are ok.
Hope your doing well 😘
Her 2nd to last vid was her last chemo :)) she’s doing good!!
My sister was stage 4 same cancer. She is cancer free 12 years now.
Wow! What kind of treatment did she get?
@@Classified564 6 months chemo. She also did radiation. Her tumors were crushing her heart. I think the radiation was every day for a month.
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@@unitedstatesirie7431 you’re a snake oil salesman and need to leave
My brother was 20, relapsed a second time, had stamcell therapy and now 14 years later, has a kid and is cancer free. There is hope for you. Don't give up.
Hello
Stemcell?
You are right. Hope is life. Patient of myeloma from mauritius
Same...💪🏼
@@melaries1823 bone marrow transplant
It is normal.to be scared....i cried for 3 days when doctors told me my odds of surviving were not good!! However i told them i didnt plan on dying anytime soon. Thay was 7 years ago...i am cancer free!! God is good💕 stay positive
I couldn’t even imagine, that really sucks. It really freaking sucks. Wishing you the best, you seem like a sweet soul.
Just stumbled on this video and my heart soared seeing the titles of your most recent uploads. So proud of you for so bravely documenting your journey. Sending love always :’)
thank you so much ❤️
You are an amazing and strong girl!! God loves You, and I pray to God for you, be blessed and full of healthy! You have such a beautiful smile... :)
My little brother also and they decided to do some treatment and he would live but he had a phobia of hospitals so he just lived his life without doctors until he didn't. I miss him but it was his choice. I wish you well, hugs xxx God Bless
I Look at your eyes and I cry. I don't know you, bu I need you to know that I will be looking at your channel and care for you. The world is too evil enough to cry abut it. Me and my wife are expecting a baby girl and I hoppe it looks like you I would LOVE her even more. Take care, be positive and be well. Love you.
I too had stage 4 Hodgkins 23 years ago. I had chemo for 6 months and as we in the Hodgkins family say “Thomas Hodgkins died Sept. 1999.
You are so so brave!!!
Get well soon love ❤️💌
Such a cute Smile. I hope you are ok?
You are lucky that it is less aggressive than Non-Hodgkins lyphoma. I think you will be just fine
I will be praying. Give it to God with allnuour heart.
Im have cancer to.. stage 3 hodskin.. 😭😭😭😭how are u now?
my father was diagnosed with hodgkin's lymphoma about five years ago. just yesterday he called me and told me he had his very last check-up: he is officially cancer free. I believe it's a sign that this video came up in my recommended just a few hours after that call. do not give up, you are strong
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Happy to hear
When I was 16 (29 now) my mom was diagnosed with non Hodgkin’s lymphoma and only given 6 months to live, if that. She is still here today to see her grandchildren. Keep your head up, staying positive is the main thing I sware cancer feeds on sadness and anger... and if you can, try some marijuana! It gave my mom appetite and helped her mentally like nothing else. Stay strong you have so much to look forward to!
Hey Kam - I have this feeling that you’re going to be not just OK, but so good. Life throws us crazy challenges....how amazing will it be to look back and see all that you’ve overcome. Hang in there sweet girl. There’s a light at the end of this tunnel. ❤️
I feel it too. You are gonna be just fine. Hang in there we love you
I just happened across this. I am wishing the best for this girl. She seems so sweet. And to see one of my fav you tubers commenting such positivity and love is everything.
I had it when I was 20 old and now I am healthy. It was 2015. Hugs to you, everything going to be well 👍❤️ greetings from Finland.
This disease selected the wrong opponent. It is no match for the bravery in your heart, the strength of your will, and the beauty in your soul. Love you Kam.
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I was diagnosed with hodgekins lymphoma stage 4 when I was 15. After chemo & radiation it was gone. Never had another reacurance to this day. It wasn't easy but I'm 50 now! If I can do It so can you!! Hang in there & pray for God to help get you through it. Prayers for you!!
I have had this swollen lymph node for 3 years but it never really grew anymore and I haven’t really felt the other symptoms yet, what was it like for you?
@@Mohammad-st5ez go see a doctor i have one on my neck i was diagnosed with Hodgekins lymphoma and i don’t have any other’s symptoms
Can i plz contact u i have the same cancer
@rachel Goldman can i plz contact u i want to ask some questions
Bloody hell, I got diagnosed with stage 4 hodgkin's lymphoma at age 21 as well, 6 years ago! Hope you're doing okay these days chick ❤ you'll get through it!
Wow... This happened to me too at 21, they told me stage 4 also... I didn't have any of the symptoms they told me i should have. I asked if they mixed up the files. I believe I had this for about a day or 2. They called me back and told me they mixed up the files and that is when I cried for the other person... I realized they told that person they didn't have it, now they did... I'm sorry for anyone who has to go through this, but please all hang in there... I will be praying for anyone going through cancer or other health problems. 🙏🙏🌹💓💗.
Cancer treatments are changing now. They're starting to do more with immunotherapy and whatnot and it looks promising. Cancer scares the shit out of me so I feel for you honey. Hopefully, you'll outlast it. Good luck...
I had leukemia at 13, now almost 7 years in remission and doing well. Wish you the best, you’re totally gonna kick cancer’s ass I’m sure if that! :D
aw im 14 and I cant imagine, I am so happy you are at least better ❤️
nice
When I was diagnosed with cancer, telling people was the hardest part in the beginning. I get it.
I had Hodgkin’s Lymphoma when I was 13, I’m 16 years cured. I am in medicine now. You got this, stay strong!!
be careful man, my mom got Hodgkin’s Lymphoma at 1999 and 21 (!!!!) years later in 2020 it backs with non-Hodgkin’s Lymphoma 4 stage and thats more bad cancer, now we passed all possible treatment lines (its because Russian medicine is a shit (mostly not all) and they dont care about protocols passing) and everything bad. Just be careful.
Do you think a main cause is diet?
Who’s here after she posted that she’s CANCER FREEEEEE WOOHOO 🥳 🥳 so proud of you girl! Congrats!!
omg really?! YAYYYY!!!❤️❤️❤️💗
I’m 38 and in September last year I was diagnosed with stage four metastatic breast cancer which spread to my spine and fractured my back and is strangling my spine meaning I’m having to relearn to walk so I know your battle I know your pain and coming this year I will have my first ever surgery I will have to have a oophorectomy or a full hysterectomy to help with my cancer battle but we got this I know we do
Sending Hugs & Prayers🙏❤🌠!!!
God bless you both!!!
There's not much i can say that you're family and friends haven't told you, i'm just a stranger who accidentely clicked on your video on youtube, but what i can tell you is that you are a beautiful person, the fact that you keep smiling through all the pain and fear that you must feel everyday tells me that you are alive, really alive and even if you are sick you are going to fight this (fucking cancer) because you are the kind of person who lives a life that is worth fighting for, i don't believe in god so i won't pray for you, all i can do is promise you that i'll work harder for people like you to have a better chance and have better weapons to fight this (i work in a cancerology department in France).
One of my best friends learned she has Hodgkin’s lymphoma at 20. Today she’s a month out from her wedding and pregnant with her first lil baby. The journey was long and hard, she hates when people say Hodgkin’s lymphoma is an “easy cancer”, but she (like you!) made it to the happiest side of life now.
I was diagnosed with stage 4 non Hodgkin’s lymphoma at 19, I’m going to be 26 this year. I’ve been in remission 6 years, just trust in god, thank him for every day you are still here, have faith, be as strong as you can be. You will get through it. God is the only thing that got me through it. Praying for you.
Kam, your family was there for me when I was In the hospital so many times during elementary school at illahee. I’m mad we weren’t really close after high school but I want to be that support system you can reach out to. I want you to know you’re not alone and if you feel that way, hit me up and I’ll remind you physically and mentally. You CAN get through this. There’s not a more determined girl I know who can get through something like this. I have complete faith in you, and you’re 110% in my prayers. I’ll pray from here on out for YOU. HMU if you EVER need anything. 💜💜💜
I know you may not read this, but 23 years ago my husband was diagnosed with stage 4 Hodgkins Lymphoma. This is how we ended up meeting. He went through chemo infusions and radiation, and we were able to have 2 children. Blessed. Look for God in this journey and what He is leading you to. Blessings! ♥️
Dear brave cousin, thank you for sharing your story so honestly. Your mom Kristen is my first cousin, your grandpa Jim is my mom's brother. Hugs to you and your family. I saw the link to this clip on FB from your aunt Mary. My family, friends and women's group the Samaritan guild will be praying for your recovery. My husband Don had Hodgkin's lymphoma back in 1978, had radiation and recovered so be hopeful. I'm up the road in Olympia so if there's any way to be of help let me know. Maggie Foran ( aka Margaret Mary Becker)
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I was diagnosed with stage 3 Hodgkin's lymphoma a week after my 27th birthday. It took up 85% of my right lung. I had to do 2.5 years of chemo treatments but it turns out I was in the only 3% of people that chemo doesn't work and had to get a stem cell transplant so if I can make it you can make it. Today is my 36th birthday so best of luck to you and your family.
Hlo bro i have the same cancer can i contact u
I just want to ask some questions
I have two daughters in their early 20s and I just want to hug you
This was in my recommended and I’m 100% along this journey with you. I’m 24 and have been struggling with Heath issues of my own. It’s terrifying.
✨ you are so strong and resilient ✨
My dad is 1 year cancer free so far after having stage 3 non-Hodgkin’s.
i have no clue who you are, but your video came on my recommendations. i truly believe in the power of prayer. i will be praying for you and i hope you are doing well. stay strong, you’ve got this!
I just want to let you know, you’re probably one of the bravest women I’ve came across I’m rooting for you ❤️
Bless you darling, i hope you have good news. I can totally understand that you didn't want to worry your family and friends but believe me - they want to help and be supportive
Omg I am praying for you . I had stage 4 back in April . And I’ve been in the hospital from April 9 to August 25th of last year. I’m now a stage 2 . I get chemo every 3 weeks . It’s very hard . It’s very depressing . But you’ll fight this . Keep going strong girly 💪❤️
Hope your doing ok x
You should be in movies. I can imagine so many characters you could play. A dreamy girl but also a badass.
I had Hodgkin’s lymphoma I’m 5 years out in remission was diagnosed at 13 it was so hard but it really shaped who I am now it’s a blessing God is letting you go through it because he knows you are strong enough to get through it. you got this though es gonna be all good.
My father in law was diagnosed with Hodgkin’s cancer at the age of 21
The only treatment they had back in the early 60’s was cobalt treatments
He lived to be 83
Stay strong and keep a strong faith
You can beat this
I’m 64 myself and I’ve got 4th stage cancer
My prayers are with you
Just watched your 'last chemo ever' video. Wish there was a time machine that could be used to travel back to you at this point in your life and someone could let you know...You're going to be doing great in 2021. You're doing great!! xx
i had a huge hard swollen lymph node on my neck and i was panicked the entire time waiting for answers. i hope everything goes well with you and your journey.
Hello Tara
I had (have) one too and I'm 21. What happened to her is my biggest nightmare. I got a sonogram and the doc said it's nothing to worry about. But what if its is :/
My husband was diagnosed with stage 4 hodgkins at the age of 15. Even though he’s had to battle it 4 more times, he’s still here and doing incredible well. You’ve got this!
My sister had non-Hodgkin's Disease at the age of 18. she had her spleen removed, bone marrow surgery, many many surgeries, chemo and radiations. She beat it. She got married at 22. she was told she could not have children, God gave her 2 miracle kids daughter who is 23 and son who is 21. She passed away from heart failure in 2007 shy of her 37th birthday. You got this, you are young and strong!
Man You are such a sweet and pure soul. I am 22 and I cried watching this just cause I could not imagine what it would be like to feel this immense amount of anxiety and fear of the unknown. My mother had the same type of cancer but has been cancer free for 4 years and I know for a fact that you will be too !!! I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers ! The light shines in the darkness and the darkness has not overcome it. Keep on being that light that you are! Much love from Germany 🤍🦋
thank you so much 🤍
I had stage 4 hodgkins lymphoma when i was 18. I'm 29 now cancer free. While i was going through that I just didnt even process it. I just was like a robot just doing what the Dr told me. Getting my chemo. There was soooo many days where i would just sob like out loud screaming crying cause it was so hard. Don't be scared to go to a spychiatrist or talk to your oncologist if you're getting really depressed. I didn't really know about that back when i was that age. But I made it through it. You'll make it through too. But I do have joint issues now. I was diagnosed with rheamatoid arthritis last year. So just be aware you might have complications later on in life.
when you get started with treatment, take vitamin D3 at the highest dose you can find! it helped my dad a lot with bone aches and joint pain during his ongoing treatments :)) STAY POSITIVE!
PLs do not take any medication without talking with your doctor!
@@marovas.3850 Vitamin D3 not going to hurt.
@@scoobymc3375 yes it can, it’s important to have your doctor chart your supplements, as even supplements can interact with medications and alter it’s effectiveness
Hey, same situation 20 years ago, now happy, cancer free and 5 kids richer! Don’t give up, go for it, make every day the best day ever!
My heart goes out to you. I had stage 2b breast cancer and am now in remission. I know how difficult it is to find out you have cancer. I can’t imagine how hard it must be for someone of your age. Prayers going up for you 🙏🏻
I am sorry to hear you are going through all of that, how you are going through all of this is very inspiring. We have a lot to learn from you.
I was 15 when I was diagnosed with non-hodgkins lymphoma, I was only stage 1. but almost 15 years later and I am still alive.
I’m a twin, our momma had hodgkins lymphoma when she was 19. She beat it & to this day she is our hero. So, fight hard girly. Your future family love you & need you so so much 💓
Youre the sweetest! Your voice reminds me of Liv Tyler’s voice, so lovely and soothing. Would love to see more of your photography, the journal looked great. I’m so sorry this shit of a thing has happened to you, sending lots of love!
Something is not right in this life time. Why are people getting sick so much more than what it used to be?
Radioactivity, pesticides, we’re screwing the environment and creating “superbugs”( and “super viruses”)
They are not, that’s why there are 6 billion people on the planet, and not under 1 Billion like some centuries ago
@@ellagaleao3184 please don't spread lies. Detection etc is much better so illnesses are caught and diagnosed.. the media presence is huge so people hear more about illness and are more aware
People live a lot longer so more chance of illness too unfortunately
I had a similar diagnosis in august 2020, I know how you feel, keep going you’ll have good days and bad, just don’t loose yourself
Good luck xxx
Hi TH-cam recommend your video and I’ve being watching. I want to admire your positivity through your healing process... also admire the relationship you have with your dad. Stay positive *virtual hug* new subscriber btw :)
Praying for a speedy recovery and sending love to you and your family
Hey Kam, this video appeared on my TH-cam. I'll pray for you to get better and I send you love
The "good" thing about getting sick in your early 20's is health insurance can still be covered by your parents, Paying for health issues without insurance is more of a stressor tbh so its really good to be able to have that security.
Hello
I am a non-Hoskins lymphoma survivor of over 20 years. I had chemo and radiation. God and I had a lot serious conversations. You are stronger than you.
Understand that it’s natural to feel bad for the ones that love you and guilty or whatever it’s weird, but remember it is not your fault, you didn’t ask for this and they love you because you’re awesome x
My best friend had stage 4 Lymphoma over 30 years ago. She’s now a mom of 3 boys and a grandmother of 2!
You're beautiful and after you get done with the cancer you're going to be even more beautiful inside and out. Fuck cancer.
God bless you! What gets me is the prices of the treatments you have to get for Cancer, soo sad how ridiculous the prices they charge. Hope you get better and kick cancer's butt.
I am 21 and woke up with huge lymph nodes the other day, blood check showed a blast of immature white blood cells, lymph nodes are still swollen but not as bed. Doctor was still worried and told me they want me checked for lymphoma immediately. Neck does hurt and sleep isn’t easy. Still waiting for my second blood test and waiting for my petscan so im just waiting. Still don’t know the severity of my situation but im scared. Tried to work out today and i was exhausted quick unfortunately. Hopefully just and infection. I know i’ll be fine, i just hope i don’t become a burden to my family if the worst comes to worst.
My mom also got diagnosed with stage 4 Hodgkin lymphoma exactly 5 months back. We all family members were devastated. But she is getting better only two chemo left. Wish you all the best for your recovery. Stay strong 💪 💪
Kam, I am a mom to a 21 year old son. You are such a beautiful, kind, and amazing young lady. You have got this! Praying for you. 🙏🥰
my fiancé was just recently diagnosed with stage 4 hodgkin’s lymphoma. he’s already started his chemo treatment and he still has his beautiful smile on his face everyday. I know he’s going to get through this and so will you. sending you so much love and light ✨
sending you and your fiancé so much love!!
God bless you Kam, you'll be in my prayers. Sending you lots of love
I had lymphoma; I have been in remission since May 2017. Between January 2017 and May 2017, I had 6 rounds of R-Chop. It was hard because I have three children. I will be praying.
Hi...Please don't worry. I'm also in the same boat. We are too young and the strongest opponents for this cancer. Stay strong girl. It does miracles. You are gonna be alright in just 6 months. ABVD is not that strong to make you physically upset
God bless 😉
Hello Rose
I was diagnosed with Stage 4 Non-Hodgkins Lymphoma at 30 years old. I feel your pain and I know how awful that felt. But 17 years later, I'm still here, and you can be too! Stay positive and envision yourself already through on the other side. It helps, for sure. Treatments make it soooo possible these days.
This video is really amazing, and I think it’s incredible of you to document this experience. We don’t know each other super well but we went to PG brand camp together and you told me all about UW and helped me decide on it. You are so strong and I look up to you a lot, I wish you all the best and hope you have a smooth and speedy recovery. Sending love ❤️
Hello
I found out I had Hodgkins at 21 as well! I had a very difficult and unique journey with mine but extremely grateful/happy that I am now 34 and doing great. I wish you well and the knowledge that you are not alone.
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Hello, I am in remission from Classic Hodgkin Lymphoma, so I understand how you are feeling. Please don't panic, HL is very treatable whatever stage it's at. The treatment for Stage 1 is the same treatment as for Stage 4 . I remember feeling numb too when they told me my diagnosis, but they were very reassuring. I had 6 months of ABVD chemotherapy and it shrunk the cancer almost immediately. I remember the PET scans and waiting for the results, it was really nerve wracking but trust me, as soon as you hear that word remission you will celebrate so hard :) xxx
Praying for you!! You seem like such a kind person! May God bless you and keep you healthy. Amen
Hello
You’re so amazingly strong!!! God’s still got big plans for you
I got diagnosed with cancer (age 24) during quarantine too! Thyroid so not as intense :/ but you got this girl! Finding out is awful, I wouldn't wish hearing those words out loud on anyone.
I’m here because my 16yo cousin that is the closest thing i have to a sister got diagnosed in december with stage 3 hodgkin’s lymphoma and recently almost lost her life to sepsis due to complications. she has had to stop treatment and is trying to recover still. seeing other people take this on and do well gives me hope❤️
I’m new and I see you’re fighting it. My good friend is in remission for NHL and I went to her last chemo with her. She’s doing well almost 10 years ago this was already. Hugs to you beauty.
Hi girl! My mom has stage 4 non-hodgkins lymphoma. She just passed her 5 year anniversary. She's doing great. If you ever want to talk or even talk to my mom I will be happy to help. ❤
God bless you. I saw this video out of no where. I’m a nursing student and have seen many cases of lymphoma. It really is a lot to take in. Just know you will get through this and I wish you 100 more healthy years for you. I’m praying for you beautiful
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I was diagnosed with leukemia a month after turning 19 and relapsed at age 20. The toughest battle mentally and physically your not alone. I felt helpless and misunderstood for so long but found peace in seeing other people’s stories like yours and being able to relate, thank you for being strong enough to share! You’ve got this💕
Hey, thanks for sharing this moment with us. This was raw and intimate and someway for us to get a little glimpse into what you are going through. I will be praying for you and I hope that you will keep making art while this is going on. Stay strong Kam.
thank you so much, micah 🥺
Ahh bless you sweetheart 💖 you will beat this no problem, you are strong and positive. BIG hugs to you xxxx
I pray the best for you! My uncle had lymphoma and is now 17 years in remission!!! You are young and beautiful and you have all of us at your side for support!!
There is hope. That’s been my favorite word, guess I’m corny!
Your charisma and charm shine through in every interaction captured in your vlogs. Watching you work makes me wish I could join you on one of your flights!
I was 16. This year I’ll be 10 years free from it! You can do this! Many power hugs for you❣️❣️❣️❣️
Hi Kim, I was diagnosed with Stage 4 B HD in 1994 and the age of 23. Needless to say Im still around at 51 and you will be too! Keep your spirits up! after you are pronounced in remission you will still have to have scans periodically for a few years. HD is the most curable cancer and you are now part of our little family!
Hello sir can i plz contact i have the same cancer and i am 18
Was wondering if you could please tell me what your symptoms were and how did they find it? Was your blood work normal did u have any swollen lymph nodes? Any information is very much appreciated... sending positive vibes your way ❤ 🙏❤ keep your head up
Hi Kam! Stay strong, it's not unbeatable! My cousin had that same cancer and stage, more than a decade ago. She is now cancer free! Wasn't easy but it wasn't too hard, either! She now looks, better than ever, no one can tell that she was ill. Also, my dad's friend lived with and after it, for almost 40 years! He was over 80 years old when he died! So, you will be just fine, don't worry! I just wanted you to know this! 😊😘💖
My friend had that but non Hodgekins which is worst. She has been cancer free for 20 years, the doctor had given her 6 months to live. You will get over this!
Your video just showed up on my timeline . I just want to give you the biggest hug right now. You’re so beautiful and so brave! I’m so sorry you’re going through this. You’re in my thoughts and prayers. 🤍🌸🔆
I am praying for you. Lots of love from Germany :)