hi pastor is there a limitationa which and what to share? what if he doesnt want to even talk about what he purchased or where he went etc. What if he keeps on insisting to talk about the problem and always telling he is nit doing anything. What is the best thing should do to make our relationship open with each other? Thank u and Gid bless
@Anjj Pineda, Thank you for watching and commenting. Yes, there are limits in regards to the intention in sharing. In other words, our communication and sharing with one another must be with the intention of edification. (Does what we share help to build or to destroy the listener?) When our sharing is only meant to prove a point, or to win, it is rooted in selfishness; which by the way, is a destroyer of Intimacy and the relationship. The beginning of healthy conversation and Intimacy, is not in talking but in truly listening!
@Jill Young, thanks for watching and responding. Great question. Sharing is necessary for building trust through transparency. However, in a case of infidelity, to share every detail will often produce visuals in your partner that's extremely hard to recover from. In those cases, confession and rededication is more important than the details. I hope this helps. Bless you!
pastor food for throught, God is speaking to me. I needed this as today is my 20th wedding anniverary
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AMEN, and may God bless you and your husband on this anniversary with many more to come.
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hi pastor is there a limitationa which and what to share? what if he doesnt want to even talk about what he purchased or where he went etc. What if he keeps on insisting to talk about the problem and always telling he is nit doing anything. What is the best thing should do to make our relationship open with each other? Thank u and Gid bless
@Anjj Pineda, Thank you for watching and commenting. Yes, there are limits in regards to the intention in sharing. In other words, our communication and sharing with one another must be with the intention of edification. (Does what we share help to build or to destroy the listener?) When our sharing is only meant to prove a point, or to win, it is rooted in selfishness; which by the way, is a destroyer of Intimacy and the relationship. The beginning of healthy conversation and Intimacy, is not in talking but in truly listening!
Can you clarify what you mean by sharing everything but not give details about certain things? I'm not exactly sure I understand what you mean.
@Jill Young, thanks for watching and responding. Great question. Sharing is necessary for building trust through transparency. However, in a case of infidelity, to share every detail will often produce visuals in your partner that's extremely hard to recover from. In those cases, confession and rededication is more important than the details. I hope this helps. Bless you!