Relationship Anxiety or Gut Feeling?
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Hi there, we are Eva & Sean Harrison.
A married couple that has overcome retroactive jealousy, ROCD and general relationship anxiety. The first few years together we really struggled with these issues and today we work together to help individuals and couples who feel overwhelmed, anxious, frustrated and stuck due to intrusive thoughts and mental movies regarding their partner’s past and/or doubts about their relationship today.
Whether you suffer from Retroactive Jealousy, ROCD, Relationship Anxiety or just want some invaluable relationship advice we hope our content helps you.
If you’re an individual or couple suffering with anxiety, confusion, anger, disgust, judgement, intrusive thoughts, trust issues, numbness, uncertainty in your relationship and are trying to keep it together on the outside but are suffering daily on the inside or if you’ve Googled or looked up “Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy”, “Overcoming ROCD”, “Relationship Anxiety symptoms”, “ROCD / Retroactive Jealousy why do the thoughts feel so real?”, “How to stop wishing your partner's past was different”, “How to treat ROCD”, “Intrusive thoughts and compulsions in relationships”, “Feeling doubt/questioning my relationship”, “Cure for Retroactive Jealousy?”, “How to overcome Retroactive Jealousy”, “ROCD / Relationship Anxiety or wrong relationship?”, “Relationship OCD urge to break up”, “ Retroactive Jealousy symptoms”, “ROCD symptoms” you’ve come to the right place.
The people we have worked with have experienced and processed how and why these things showed up in their relationships. As well as how it lead to them having intrusive thoughts, feeling angry, sad, anxious and like they are self sabotaging their relationship.
DISCLAIMER: Any information or advice we give is purely based on our own experience, learning and research as well as the methods utilised in Rapid Transformational Therapy, NLP and Hypnotherapy. These methods can be used to get to the root cause of any issue but are not for everyone. There is no guarantee as there are many variables that will impact your success. We are not doctors and always encourage you to work with your doctor for your medical care. If you are in a life threatening situation or contemplating suicide, please seek appropriate medical and professional help.
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the cause of suffering is indecision... I'll take note of that... thank you
Well I feel like you cleared up my anxiety in at 1 minute 15 seconds
Sincerely what I have needed answers to for the past 3 months. I find myself in my head saying 'I can' t do this' and then when I think I'm leaving this relationship I realise how wrong it feels and how much I miss the person even though it hasn't happened. Thank you for distinguishing the two. I really rate this video as I'm going through therapy now and I couldn't explain what you have provided the diagnosis to xx
I was like you and eventually break up my relationship with my ex. And anxiety was killing me inside but I think that was the best decision because that person ended with another man on the next week. She never love me
@@ale18309I’m sorry. You deserve to be loved and accepted completely
Made me cry. I’m feeling seen and heard for the first time. Thank you.
Thank you for your comment! I am so happy to know it helped:)
I’ve been having anxiety bad since my breakup I’ve never felt this in my entire life it’s so hard and devastating
I need this chain broken 💔
Facts about what you said about the fear of pain causing pain. I don’t trust my partner anymore and I don’t know why. I have done so much to sabotage our connection and he has gotten tired of me too. It’s been hard for me to trust him ever since the start of us because he did something extremely shady and bad to me at the start. This set how I approached the relationship and now he has flipped it on me and I guess me resenting him for that and sticking around was worse than me just leaving him so o get where he is coming from. But he put up a good fight to keep me after that situation so I stayed because I thought his fighting attitude would make me want him. But I never opened up to him again and the entire time I was uncomfortable with him
He also got deported for a while and we are long distance. None of this was my fault and my feelings are valid. My only fault is that I decided to stay with this person. He is right when he says I need to make a choice and stick by that. Do I really want to deal with someone like this forever?
One more thing - I feel extremely wrong in this relationship. I don’t think this is how I’m meant to feel like in a relationship. I have tendencies to feel depressed in relationships but I don’t know why this one is so confusing and what it has come into my life to teach me
@@User-uw7uw did you escape this situation yet?
I feel same way but he didn’t do what he did to me except he was shady I even want to hurt him sooo bad
Wow, just searched for random words describing how I felt, this video came up first, and now my anxiety is gone 😄
Just what I needed to hear, thank you! ❤️
Thank you for your delivery of such beautiful organized heartful advices.
this means so much to me, who
is being in here, having no one I can rely on or talk
to deeply and openly with trust.
best wishes for you in return
Thank you, so glad you find the videos helpful!!
This is very helpful! Thank you for the 21 days checklist.. I love it.
This is what I’ve been needing to hear
I really needed this EXACTLY today in this moment. Thank you so much lovely, very helpful💗😊
I’m not afraid of a someone cheating. I’m afraid of going on any more dates because I’m afraid of being raped and/or violently attacked again. I had a GAD diagnosis before I survived this. Appreciate your video topic.
So sorry to hear this happened to you. Your feelings are valid and I hope you are able to find a trained professional in your area to help you through what you are experiencing should you feel you need to. I wish you all the best!!
This was actually quite helpful. Thank you :)
A really great, in depth analysis of this subject, thank you 🙏🏽
Your pointers are so helpful. This video is exactly what I was hoping to find. I've had this problem for years, in different relationships, and I want it to stop. I'm so indecisive in general. I want to stay and I don't want to leave but I've been so anxious. Thank you for sharing these tips and advice with us ❤
Wow!!!! I needed to hear this! everything you said is how Iv'e been feeling!
So happy it helped:)
THANK You! omg I’ve been struggling with the difference between the two!
Thank You So much , this was needed and very Helpful young lady you are a blessing ❤🙏🏾 keep helping others … this really helped me on the decisions. I need to meet no one. I might be OK either way.
Thank you so much for this video! I am beginning a relationship with someone, and all I’ve been doing in getting lost in my anxiety. Your words in this video were very enlightening, and I’m glad I found it. Thank you so much, I wish you the best!
Thank you! I’m glad you found it helpful!
Between 4-5minutes was amazing. Thank you
Thank you so much for this video! This was much needed! God bless you
Thank you, I’m glad it helped:)
Simple and easy, explination for intuition vs intrusive toughts coming from anxiety.
Much aprecciate🎉
Thank you I needed this❤
These are excellent. Have never found an explanation this clear and simple but accurate and that resonates with me. Thanks 🙏🏼
So happy it helped. Thank you for your comment:)
Thanks so much for this video. You are wise beyond your years
Thank you:) happy to hear it helped!!
Oh wow this is so what I needed to hear honestly thank you
Happy it helped:)
This video was presented so well!! You nailed every point I felt like this video was made specifically for me😂. This helped tremendously thank you!!
I am so glad to hear that, thank you:)
Thank you. I have a lot of anxiety and it's so intense that I sometimes delude myself into believing the fears. This has really helped me
I’m glad it helped:) thank you for taking the time to comment!
Thank you! ❤ That's exactly what I needed
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I feel like I can relate to this
Not only am I in a healthy relationship, but I don’t feel any relationship anxiety when I’m around him. I feel the opposite actually. I feel good around him and secure in our relationship.
I feel more relationship anxiety when we’re apart, because it’s easier for me to get in my head with “what if” fear based thoughts of us not working out, because I’ve had previous relationships of mine when I really liked someone but they were clearly not for me lol. And I don’t want a repeat of that. But not only has he proven multiple times he’s for me, whenever I’d have a doubt creep in, it’s always proven wrong.
Most valuable video ever! Thank you, thank you!
Thank you for taking the time to comment! I am glad you found it helpful.
Thank you so much for this ❤
Happy you found it helpful:)
You're amazing girl. Thank you
Thank you for your comment. I am happy it helped:)
Thank you so much for this video, I find myself for years battling in my mind whether or not my feelings are intuition or sabotage. I get this flare up of anxiety whenever I really like someone, it’s happening now and I’m so glad I took the time to watch this video because it definitely gave me tools to overcome this in a healthy way.
So happy you found it valuable! Wishing you all the best:)
Thank you, this is very helpful!
Thank you! Glad you enjoyed it:)
Exceptional advice well presented.
Thank you, so happy it to hear it helps:)
i just wanna thank you so much ❤for
Really great advice 💛
Thank you 💕
Please stay in this field and help people
thank you for your comment:)
Thank you so much🤍
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This was so good. Thank you for this explanation
Wow, I needed this! Thank you!
Valuable information
Thank you!!
Great video
very helpful, thank you.
Thank you! Happy it helped:)
Thank You! 💙
Glad it helped:)
Great video!!!! Love the 21 day exercise
Thank you! I hope it helps:)
This video is extremely helpful. I am going through relationship anxiety now (I have been diagnosed with general anxiety disorder). I am asking my girlfriend if she wants to be with me because I am experiencing some things with her that are triggering like how she uses her cell phone (seems suspicious at times). However, that could be me projecting and my anxiety.
This video is going to help me rein that in. I am in therapy as well and this is a huge addition to it. Thank you.
We don't trust 👩🏽's gng she cheatin
Crazy how the two can co-exist? And you can be anxious now because you ignore you gut feeling? This is very complex
It is! I recommend seeking help from a professional if this is how you feel. This video talks about Relationship Anxiety more generally but there can be a lot more to it.
But I've been havin a gut feeling for months, and I've been noticing little things that add up
@@atmant05 it’s probably best to talk to a professional in this case. General advice from the internet (even my own) can be helpful but each individual is dealing with their specific situation and sometimes it is best to talk to someone about it.
Can’t gut feelings transform into anxiety though? If the gut feeling is negative, even if it is not true, the more it is thought about the more it can be daunting.
Do you mean like a self fulfilling prophesy?
I believe that’s what it is, yeah@@overcomingrelationshipanxiety
@@cupcake_goop yes, it can definitely happen.
THANK YOU I am in a new relationship we are going on 4 months and i have been through really crappy relationships where I was put 2nd. This new guy is absolutely amazing and so patient and sucha good guy. He came out of nowhere too but I am scared I am going to self sabotage the relationship. Breaking up feels wrong it feels like I'm supposed to be with him.
How’s it going? I’m going through a similar thing and I can’t tell if it’s my gut feeling or anxiety that I should leave them.
@@izzypayneeyes I’d like to know too :) in the same situation
@@izzypaynee I'm feeling the same
@@alishaalam3144 if you wanted an update, I ended up being right, it was my gut feeling. They turned out to be really shady and they ghosted me a week after telling me I would fit into their family. I wish I had listened three months ago to my gut feeling!
Same but it's also little things I notice and I'm kinda convinced she can't be trusted. I think I needa leave the relationship for good. @@izzypaynee
"the root of suffering is indecision"
I think I had or might have relationship anxiety, I didn't know this til she left
Amazing
I am happy you found value in the video! Thank you for taking the time to comment:)
This is happening to me because there are many problems in my relationship or I am overthinking about the past or I am being bold in yelling at my partner because I am feeling very bad, I am sorry because I love you or want to live better. but I am the one who has created the problem.
Eva, what are the rates for the therapy that you offer. I need help now more than ever . Thank you
Hi, I would recommend booking a discovery call using this link calendly.com/eva-thomson/45min
This way we will be able to assess your situation, establish whether we can help you and explain how the therapy works as well as prices and payment plans available
What if it's both anxiety and intuition? I'm very confused about my own discernment
It could be. If you are confused we recommend talking to someone about it. If you wish there is a link to a discovery call in the description we will be happy to talk to you.
@@overcomingrelationshipanxiety thank you 🙏
feel this way too! confusing, as always 😩
Trust that gut feeling or it's gonna hurt you in the future
People who seek out these videos are those who want it confirmed to be relationship anxiety, instead of confronting the feeling. It is like chain smokers going to videos of cigarette companies who are telling them that smoking is not unhealthy lmao
Sorry, I don’t understand your comment can you please elaborate? I am not insinuating relationship anxiety is “healthy” but you need to be able to first know what something is before looking into overcoming it, finding resources, books etc.
@@overcomingrelationshipanxietyI am saying that people want it to be relationship anxiety instead of having to confront the idea that the person is not the one because of fear of being alone. So they attribute their thoughts to relationship anxiety and self confirm by watching rocd therapists who talk about nothing else. And the same therapists have no other topic typically, convincing those poor people that it could be relationship anxiety even if its not
@@elisabettajdj335 Anxiety is a real thing. And so is a gut feeling..She explained it very clearly. Sometimes something is just off about someone and you just know it and that's it to me that's a gut feeling.. but the feeling doesn't impact you in any way. It's just something you acknowledge. Anxiety is more crippling there could be nothing wrong with the partner but obsession over "What ifs" and things that havent even happened cause the person to be in pain daily as they obsess over things.. which most people with anxiety do when it comes to making big decisions.On the flip side I think your comment can harm people who really DO just have anxiety and don't know how to calm their minds down when big life decisions arise.
@@elisabettajdj335 no such thing as not the one when both choose faith and God in the relationship
At elisa how u jnow whst peiple sre seeking these videis fir and what the rather it be ?? Lmao u better stick to ur day job.
Cool content
Thank you!!
Thanks for the video. I recommend getting a better microphone for your voice
My husband literally gave her leftover wrapping paper 3 years into our relationship. They have no kids together or anything and she asked for wrapping paper. Tell me im wrong.
I have both lol
Sorry to hear this, it can be confusing. I recommend talking to a professional about your symptoms in order gain more clarity..
Your voice echoes
I got one question… I dont ask myself „does this feel right ?“… It dont feel right … Is there a difference ?.. Or does this feeling come from ROCD
Does it not feel right the entire time? If so maybe reflect on what is keeping you in the relationship.
Ugh really wish you had a microphone geez, it’s very hard to hear you from your laptop microphone or whatever you’re using during this video. This is good content though.
Hi, sorry about that. I have a blue yeti mic but the settings were not correct. Im glad you found the content useful.
thank you so much for making this video 🤍 i hope everyone here gets healed