What creeps me out most is he asks if she has kids, then starts talking about how he wanted to do things to her as a kid. That dude was definitely looking to do something with her kids if she had any. Edit: Why did this have to be my first top comment on a charlie vid
and the fact that he still goes on to "ask her out" implies that he would have done it to their own kids together if things had gotten that far. fucking sickening.
Also that was his first question to her, feels weird to ask someone from 10+ years ago 'u have any kids?' not even a 'you married? start a family? How you been?' im sure if she said she had kids he wouldve asked for photos (to probably get off to)
it gives no hint as to what they're about to say, so how tf are you supposed to know if you want to hear it? all you know is that it's not innocent enough that they could just say it, but they don't warn you whether it's sexual/sad/upsetting/personal so they could be talking about their grandma dying or they could be talking about how attracted they are to middleschool you and you just have to say yes or you're an asshole
@@markphaser5166No it doesn’t. Especially as a woman who has ever been approached by men. You don’t need to have a full blown convo to know something is wrong, off and it should end. But social expectations make people accept way more than they want to.
@@MonetAllDay how are you gonna deduce personality from one text as you specified (which btw I didn't say a full blown convo I said a few messages) and it's not social standards it's basic politeness ya egit
i feel like women sometimes refrain from blocking these kinds of guys immediately because like, what if he intends to do something dangerous? if you see his texts, at least you know what you're dealing with. and more importantly, have evidence with which to protect yourself should things get truly dangerous.
It does make sense from that perspective. Odds are, these dudes probably have a history of unhinged behavior. So having a few receipts to prove that on record can help others avoid them.
@@Prismate no if he has his mind set on something what you do next isnt gonna stop him. in situations like these you just have to use your common sense and try your best to maneuver cuz its def NOT a one size fits all
Him asking if she had kids after mentioning knowing her from middle school sent chills down my spine. Especially before he starts FANTASIZING about CHILD HER. I hope to god he doesnt live anywhere near her or anyone else's children. Disgusting.
It’s possible, and likely, the fantasising was done when he was the same age. Unless I’m missing a huge piece of the puzzle, I don’t see why that is the most creepy thing he did.
@@Middleseedit’s just the fact that he brought it up with her, and the fact that he did means he definitely at least still thinks about it which is off putting to say the least
@@Jacob-sr2wd Yeah, but I’d say all the weird shit he told her about what he used to (potentially still) think about doing to her was worse than him asking about kids. Which I see as far more of a way to probe whether she’d be willing to hook up with him, which was all but confirmed by his second question about being in a relationship. Still really weird, but not as bad as attempting to be a predator.
@@Middleseed because it sounds a lot like he's saying "Hey, do you have someone that looks like you when you were in middle school? Because you looked super sexy back then." Which (to me at least) is very obviously implying that he wants to know because he thinks the kid will be attractive. So it's either he's trying to get off to images of a child that looks like her, or just trying to straight up assault/kidnap her kid. Almost like he's trying to get a second chance now that he's older and could overpower someone that age
I'd 100% put money on him being a pedo. He was wanting a child version of her. If he just wanted to know if she was in a relationship he'd have started with "do you have a boyfriend/husband?" not "do you have kids?" Dude needs to be on a list if not in jail
@@lux0rd01 Or he just had a good idea of how she would fill out in her adolescent years. We men are excellent prognosticators when it comes to things like this. The flatter she is, the greater the reliance on cosmetics when she reaches her 20s.
You know what's really the most disturbing about this. He opened the conversation asking her if she had kids yet. He's a predator and needs to be on a list.
The fact he was not only fantasizing about her from back in middle school, but was also creepy enough to reach out and try and express those messed up feelings. Already shows this guy is a danger to kids, since his sense of reality is already so distorted that he somehow thought that was an okay thing to do, and there was a possibility of getting a good reaction.
@@desteny1393Some people want to avoid having a relationship with people that already have kids. But in this guy's case, guess you never sure what his intentions actually are.
Why is it 9 times out of 10 someone tries to insult someone's intelligence, they do it in broken English? Can't even insult someone without making a mistake but somehow they're the genius.
I love how in the second one she immediately predicted this dude is kinda misogynistic and he goes and proves her right after getting a pushback, fellas if the conversation doesn't go well instead of mentally breaking down just chill with it instead of ruining it even further
@@scottkrafft6830Paradox games does not represent the entire gaming industry use your brain I'm a woman and all of my friends play games. No they don't just play Sims, (and they'd still be a gamer if they did!!!!). Women have been playing games since the first game was made. A lot of us. We just used to get shit on and bullied out of community spaces.
It's also interesting how men like these always bring up mainstream, casual pvp games as "real games" where more often than not you're playing against kids
It's a legitimate question. If she were to be childless, it would bespeak her purity. Women shouldn't get so offended when we ask them about their past.
This is so bad this man sounds like a kid the way he talks.. very illiterate and if he said that to me after the poor spelling already I would hit the block button like nobody's business❤
the second guy was so upset about the rejection he was facing he had to try and turn the tables to make him feel like he was the one rejecting her. he probably walked away from the conversation thinking he rejected her, and she’s missing out on him. i’ve noticed many people do this when they can’t handle rejection. whatever keeps their precious fragile egos intact 🙄
The fact that this guy was wanting her so badly just based off of what she looked like and wore in middle school, when she is undoubtably an adult now; is extremely disturbing.
A pattern I’ve noticed with people saying “[blank] game isn’t a real game!” Is that the games they refer to are often games with simulated social aspects like Animal Crossing, Stardew Valley, etc etc. it makes sense that they don’t consider them to be real games, because a lot of the core gameplay of those titles is based around being good at socially interacting with others, something that they clearly don’t understand/aren’t very good at.
They are games, yes. But you can be social on plenty of games. Co-op, multiplayer, MMO. People are talking more about a learning curve of skill and practice more than basic simulators or Candy Crush. The more skill involved, the more respect for a game, usually. That said, group Scrabble is one of the more basic games but it doesn't mean I'm not impressed by someone that is really good at it. It usually takes quick response or being resourceful/knowledgeable. AC and SV can be played solo, and frequently are. Friending someone at their island, decorating or gardening/bartering together is only properly social if you are actively chatting and getting to know the person. I love solitaire, House Flipper and puzzle games when I want to just relax or challenge myself solo. House Flipper is different than MMO raiding or MOBA. My friends play AC and SV in their downtime when we aren't on our toes or practicing.They can map the amount of stress hormone and brain activity produced when someone plays a game, and those fall lower in the scale of difficulty or developing new skills(mostly). Personally, I have to put effort into really learning how to keep up with my husband in Co-op Elden Ring. Which we do in the same room. Coordinating with people on an MMO or being in a guild where you form proper relationships that involve video and voice chat is very social. A lot of us visit each other irl. Actively communicating and learning is something that is needed for anything collaborative and challenging. There is a lot of etiquette involved. In PvP it works best when you communicate in voice to coordinate and have a regular team. Similar with certain games, especially cooperative ones like It Takes Two or A Way Out. I'd kinda think about that a bit more, why you assume why people mock walking simulators, AC, and SV.
I’ve only noticed it with mobile games, which I agree with for most of them. Mobile game are often so barebones they can’t be considered fully fledged games.
The first guy was clearly one of those Indonesian scam bots that you find on Snapchat, WhatsApp, etc. English is definitely not his first language, and he keeps using "dear", which is an address they commonly use but not something used today by most American men. They definitely didn't go to middle school together. She just wasn't sure of his identity, and maybe he shared the same name of someone she actually did go to middle school with, so she considered it a possibility.
I was dealing with these conversations at least once a week, both familiar faces and strangers alike, and it seems like the majority are steering the conversation towards a more intimate direction. It led me to a decision, I cleared out all my social media accounts except for Insta, and even there, I've set it to private. In our current era, it appears that virtually every girl faces this type of discourse, be it in the digital realm or face-to-face. It's genuinely disheartening
So true! I gave up the Standard of guys beginning normal/entertaining/valuable conversation w me w/o having a romantic and or sexual Intention So i delete DMs saying "Hey" right away
I set all my social media to private the moment I realised deep fakes were a thing. People online are WEIRD. Now all I get are the occasional scam message I get is from dodgy "homework helps accounts because the only thing in my bio is that I am a vet student
A couple of years ago a guy from middle school contacted me (we are over 40 now). He was one of the nice guys. After a polite chat, absolutely nothing sexual, he wanted me to send him pictures of my genital area. Nothing suprises me anymore on this planet.
Thats when you go online and find a picture of a wort covered genitalia from a health website, possibly from an opposite sex then what he was expecting.. lol
In my experience, someone asking “can I tell you something” in this context is, I think, a way for them to try to make you feel like you were the one that brought it on. They realize that saying something deplorable out of nowhere is bad, so they want to create the illusion that it’s your fault.
That, and/or they unironically think that saying yes is consent. You'd be surprised how many guys seriously think that both saying yes or being silent equals consent.
@@hecrosegreat3943 Just because someone says yes, that does not mean that they consent. Often times, people say yes out of shock and fear of what will happen if they say no.
The biggest thing about these kinds of interactions isn’t that they are creepy. They are dangerous. Women have to play along and hope a subtle rejection won’t send the creep on a stalker warpath of “if I can’t have her, no one can”. I’ve had guys message me out of the blue like this (that I’ve known in the past) and it can get really scary.
Yup. I had an exterminator call me to try asking me out. Of course I’m awkward laughing and just using “maybe” as an excuse. The guy knows my address so I can’t exactly complain or tell him to fuck off.
Yo do realise this happens to men too right? It happens quite a bit actually. Men do indeed have stalkers that are women. Men also have to play along and hope a subtle rejection doesn't send a stalker their way.
Guys like this are really all who ever contact me. It started to take a toll on my self esteem. I'm glad to see "call outs". It's time others know how creepy people are behind the scenes.
This kind of stuff is so upsetting to hear and know about, it not only makes all of us look like creeps but also lose hope in human decency and the future of mankind tbh. It's especially upsetting knowing so many nice kind decent people around me who are not actually able to find someone and be happy.
its always these guys that say women are too sensitive that completly get emotional when the conversation partner says something mildly against that person
It's certainly a big shocker that the "Why can't I find myself a Gamer Girlfriend?" guys are in the same group with "You're not playing "REAL" games." people.
Or the 'man I wish I knew girls who liked video games...' 'I like video games!' 'Oh???? Then name (super obscure fact about some game that barely anybody knows) or else youre not a real gamer ; ) ' Or they just hit with 'lol stardew valley and animal crossing dont count'
@@shipper-of-heart8898Never heard anyone say those aren’t real games, I mostly hear it said about mobile games. Which tbf, most mobile games are just kind of shit.
@@AshlynTeague that's not degrading that someone asking for permission. That way if they do do it anyway, you can say that you made it very clear and block them immediately. But a lot of them do get scared by very firm boundaries and shutting them down immediately.
As a polite woman, I hate how some of us are too polite. It gets taken advantage of. That bit about the skirt and making her his was so out of pocket and yet she responsded so politely.
For the second interaction, negging is never a great way to treat other people and a person who does that, avoid at all costs. Another thing to avoid is if someone says something insulting to you and brushes it off by saying "Just kidding" or "You're too sensitive", because there is truth behind those insults of what they feel about you.
>"Just kidding" or "You're too sensitive" Funniest parts are: 1) They claim they are "honest", but, in reality, they are just too infantile to even having a basic tact. 2) The moment they have something they don't like, they whine and bitch even more than "le snowflakes." In short, they love to dish it out, while being completely averse to taking it.
And in general who would want to hang out with someone who treats your feelings like a joke. Like you need to validate your feelings to deserve their acknowledgement.
Many people believe that if they didn’t intend to be sexist means they can’t be sexist. It’s like saying “It’s just a word” after saying a racial slur.
whoever believes in the Lord Jesus shall be saved repent hes returning to judge the living and the dead amen. repent from ur sins Jesus is returning amen
Thats what makes people like this crazy, not really because of there actions but because they genuinely thought what they said/did would somehow end positively
I often struggle with myself, but seeing those weirdos interact with women definitely helps my self-esteem, and makes me reconsider how we survived the screening as a species.
@@letsreadtextbook1687well it's hard to creepily say "hi". I would argue these mfers descend into creepiness at neck-breaking speed, even before they get rejected
I had a boyfriend that spoke to me like this once...and sadly, he was a childhood friend of mine. I was young when he began talking like this to me. Talking about dark kinks like knives, and the younger me and how he addressed me as that girl than that he wanted to "cut open as he f*** me". I didn't know better. Now I regret for not contecting authorities for his behavior just before he moved states. I understand this situation and glad to report if I ever ran into something like this again❤
@@Aria__1700 This is exactly why parents need to do a better job of monitoring whom their children make friends with. You were probably a little rebel who wanted to immerse herself in the counterculture. If you were my daughter, I would have allowed you the freedom to make friends with anyone until you proved to me that you were not responsible enough to befriend the right people.
The way he fantasizes about her as a 12-13 year old is extremely dangerous, bro might dead ass go out and do some wild shit if he's talking about a younger version of an older woman.
I love how Charlie keeps unintentionally reminding us every now and then that no matter how many video games we play, how much time we spend on youtube, or however bad grades we get, there are people like this walking the same Earth so we have no real reason to be ashamed of ourselves. It's unbelievable how unhinged some people can get over absolutely no provocation at all.
Times have really changed since I was a teenager and 20 year old trying to meet a girl on the internet. As a 41 year old married man now, I’m so glad all that difficult back and forth between a man and a woman when they are first meeting is over. I met my wife on MySpace back in 2007 and we connected through just chatting about random things movies, books, tv shows, who we are as people before we met each other and all that too. Damn time flies, in October it would be 17 years already since my wife and I been together as a couple and been married for 9 of those 17 years. Before meeting my wife, I will say that it was very rare to meet a girl who played and loved video games, I had never met a girl who had during my days of hanging out and dating random women, some of them would even tell me that I needed to grow up and stop playing video games when I would tell them that I played video games and loved them. Times really are different now, and you would think it would be easier for men to connect with women who play and love video games too, but after seeing this video, and witnessing other horror stories of gamer guys being so awkward and failing to get with a gamer girl, it apparently isn’t easy at all.
It's so important to read the signals correctly in any form of communication, especially when it comes to romantic interest. Some people really need to learn to respect boundaries.
You can admit to someone, as a friend, that you had a crush on them back when you were kids without making yourself look like a pdf file. You can also do so without admitting your cringeworthy sex fantasies with them from your youth.
I remember a girl I had a crush on in middle school, no fucking clue where she is now or even how she looks for that matter but if someone showed me a picture of her from the yearbook or whatever I'd be like "Oh yeah that's Rebecca, I totally had a crush on her" its not weird to have a memory, it is weird to fantasize about having sex with a middle schooler though.. this guy is a nut
Pro tip. To make sure u never end up the creep, be sure to read every message u get and send to the lady’s, with the voice and tone of Charlie in mind.
Sounds like bro was so distracted by her in middle school, he missed every single English class he had. 💀
LMAOO
Fuckin hate dudes who type like this
Lmao help I just burst out laughing 😭
Bro😭💀
not even grammarly is helping him 💀
"No grilfriemd" is the best pickup line ever created
Definitely no red flags here, no sir.
I had to write it down
simple error, he must’ve been referring to his primary care provider Dr. Grill Fries, MD
Poor guy, has no friend to grill things together.
@@CantTellYou🤣
I need to investigate this guy
yes please, this guy is f*cked up
😂
yes he needs to be put on watch list 🤣😭
his search history says it all
He needs to get Skeeted™.
"Communicating with Dobby if Dobby was hitting whippets" is an INSANE line
I absolutely lost it at that line. It's such an insane description yet it paints a perfect picture in your head lol
We never saw what happened to Dobby when he got that sock.
@@carlcoetzee5678yes we did lol.
keep it at 666 likes everyone...
As if he didn't already sound like he was in the movies
Creeps being exposed is a confidence boost we all need, because no matter who we are at least we’re not them
My farts are better than Charlie's farts
I agree, not being one of them of course.
@@p-__
That's not the achievement that you think it is...
speak for yourself bro. It’s my full time job to creep on my victims
@@p-__ Didn’t ask, i make content
What creeps me out most is he asks if she has kids, then starts talking about how he wanted to do things to her as a kid. That dude was definitely looking to do something with her kids if she had any.
Edit: Why did this have to be my first top comment on a charlie vid
Damn I didn’t even realize that. He was most def looking for a woman with children to creep on
and the fact that he still goes on to "ask her out" implies that he would have done it to their own kids together if things had gotten that far. fucking sickening.
Somebody needs to check his computer
It bothers me that I didn't connect those dots by myself... kinda scares me tbh
Also that was his first question to her, feels weird to ask someone from 10+ years ago 'u have any kids?' not even a 'you married? start a family? How you been?' im sure if she said she had kids he wouldve asked for photos (to probably get off to)
Not only is his mind set stuck at middle school romance, but his writing level is also stuck in middle school.
I don’t think his writing skills made it past preschool levels, LOL.
He obviously has a mental handicap
His writing skills are fucking prehistoric.
Writing skills?
Bro wouldn't even pass kindergarten writing like that 😂 surprised he made it past elementary school
"when you were in middle school..."
"You there???"
😅😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
you there???
"Can I tell you something?" gives me such anxiety for all the reasons you just stated. So so accurate.
It's never followed with something positive.
it gives no hint as to what they're about to say, so how tf are you supposed to know if you want to hear it? all you know is that it's not innocent enough that they could just say it, but they don't warn you whether it's sexual/sad/upsetting/personal so they could be talking about their grandma dying or they could be talking about how attracted they are to middleschool you and you just have to say yes or you're an asshole
exactly this^ Couldn't have said it any better myself but this is the truth.@@bumblerbree
@@KynrieFairyCan I tell you something?
Hey give me your phone #
I’m shocked he hasn’t got a wife yet with how charming he is he definitely won me over
I love your restaurants bro
@@crono3339 Didn’t ask, i make content
@@crono3339they are very much so mid tier
U have kids yet?
No. Not yet, but I have a boyfriend.
How these creeps don't get insta blocked after the first sentence is beyond me
That's a kind of stupid sentiment, takes a few messages to actually tell if someone is a creep
@@markphaser5166No it doesn’t. Especially as a woman who has ever been approached by men. You don’t need to have a full blown convo to know something is wrong, off and it should end. But social expectations make people accept way more than they want to.
@@MonetAllDay how are you gonna deduce personality from one text as you specified (which btw I didn't say a full blown convo I said a few messages) and it's not social standards it's basic politeness ya egit
@@markphaser5166 I said what I said. If you wanna know how, go learn in the streets where you reside with the rest of the critters 🪳 😀
As a woman, you can tell from like the first 3 messages or so what sort of guy you're dealing with on the other side.
i feel like women sometimes refrain from blocking these kinds of guys immediately because like, what if he intends to do something dangerous? if you see his texts, at least you know what you're dealing with. and more importantly, have evidence with which to protect yourself should things get truly dangerous.
It does make sense from that perspective.
Odds are, these dudes probably have a history of unhinged behavior. So having a few receipts to prove that on record can help others avoid them.
the more you entertain these people the more obsessed and thereby the more dangerous they become
“Avoid at all costs” is a saying for a reason
@@Prismate no if he has his mind set on something what you do next isnt gonna stop him. in situations like these you just have to use your common sense and try your best to maneuver cuz its def NOT a one size fits all
Or they just want to be nice and give the guy a chance to you know not be creepy
Some women also like to give people the benefit of the doubt. I used to be one of them until I learnt the hard way.
Him asking if she had kids after mentioning knowing her from middle school sent chills down my spine. Especially before he starts FANTASIZING about CHILD HER. I hope to god he doesnt live anywhere near her or anyone else's children. Disgusting.
It’s possible, and likely, the fantasising was done when he was the same age. Unless I’m missing a huge piece of the puzzle, I don’t see why that is the most creepy thing he did.
@@Middleseedit’s just the fact that he brought it up with her, and the fact that he did means he definitely at least still thinks about it which is off putting to say the least
@@Jacob-sr2wd Yeah, but I’d say all the weird shit he told her about what he used to (potentially still) think about doing to her was worse than him asking about kids. Which I see as far more of a way to probe whether she’d be willing to hook up with him, which was all but confirmed by his second question about being in a relationship. Still really weird, but not as bad as attempting to be a predator.
@@Middleseed trust me I agree. I wouldn’t want to be within a city wide radius from this guy with the way he acts haha
@@Middleseed because it sounds a lot like he's saying "Hey, do you have someone that looks like you when you were in middle school? Because you looked super sexy back then." Which (to me at least) is very obviously implying that he wants to know because he thinks the kid will be attractive. So it's either he's trying to get off to images of a child that looks like her, or just trying to straight up assault/kidnap her kid. Almost like he's trying to get a second chance now that he's older and could overpower someone that age
The middle school obsession this dude has makes the opening "do you have kids" question really, really fucking sus.
I'd 100% put money on him being a pedo. He was wanting a child version of her. If he just wanted to know if she was in a relationship he'd have started with "do you have a boyfriend/husband?" not "do you have kids?"
Dude needs to be on a list if not in jail
!!! 😶
@@lux0rd01 Or he just had a good idea of how she would fill out in her adolescent years. We men are excellent prognosticators when it comes to things like this. The flatter she is, the greater the reliance on cosmetics when she reaches her 20s.
@@ZenigundamPut this guy on a list “how to beat a restraining order” yikes
@@Zenigundamwtf
You know what's really the most disturbing about this. He opened the conversation asking her if she had kids yet. He's a predator and needs to be on a list.
I totally buy it
Damn, didn’t notice that. This world is scary
check his hard-drive. its atleast a few terabyte’s
why did no one notice he literally said “you’re already past your good years” 💀by good years he means teenage years😭fucking creep
I’ve noticed that guys who self-proclaim themselves as the “nice guy” are so quick to turn on you if things don’t go their way.
True.... 💔💔💔💔
Preach. Fake niceness and seeing everything as transactional
They call themselves nice guys because they wanna be treated like nicely, not because they wanna put the work to deserve it
Wow groundbreaking. Never thought of that before and or heard that statement hahaha
@@rougeegamer98 wooooow sarcasm. Never seen that before.
"it's like communicating with Dobby if Dobby was hitting whippits"
i genuinely laughed out loud so hard lmfaoo
A sock? Master has presented Dobby with a sock. Master has given Dobby clothes! Dobby is a free elf.
@@flickstr2606 I've just been standing here doing nothing Dobby...I think you have a problem
same lmaoo
@@Deeptunester Master has freed Dobby, Dobby wants to get high now
God I fucking love dobby so this definitely made me giggle
The fact he was not only fantasizing about her from back in middle school, but was also creepy enough to reach out and try and express those messed up feelings. Already shows this guy is a danger to kids, since his sense of reality is already so distorted that he somehow thought that was an okay thing to do, and there was a possibility of getting a good reaction.
Yea and ALSO the first thing he asks her is “do you have kids yet” which after seeing how he is that sentence it quite jarring
@@anticringehero sorry English is my second language 😭
they meant "which after seeing how he is, that sentence is quite jarring" i think@@anticringehero
@@tezzla6358thanks for explaining, I had no clue what he was saying
@@desteny1393Some people want to avoid having a relationship with people that already have kids. But in this guy's case, guess you never sure what his intentions actually are.
Why is it 9 times out of 10 someone tries to insult someone's intelligence, they do it in broken English? Can't even insult someone without making a mistake but somehow they're the genius.
I like responding with "Skip" over and over again if someone gets creepy with me in DMs like it's a video game
might adopt this strategy
@@BlisaBLisahow about i adopt you instead
@@lordofdogz whats wrong with you? find a bridge
"Can I tell you something?" Is like the universal sign that stuff is about to be said that should have stayed in the brain.
In most contexts
Can I tell you something?
@@Skelterbane69 whats up?
@@GalaxyStandard77 Nah, this should def stay in my brain
Fuck it, just go full throttle, don't ask because you're going to do it anyway.😂
I love how in the second one she immediately predicted this dude is kinda misogynistic and he goes and proves her right after getting a pushback, fellas if the conversation doesn't go well instead of mentally breaking down just chill with it instead of ruining it even further
@@scottkrafft6830😐
@@scottkrafft6830Paradox games does not represent the entire gaming industry use your brain
I'm a woman and all of my friends play games. No they don't just play Sims, (and they'd still be a gamer if they did!!!!).
Women have been playing games since the first game was made. A lot of us. We just used to get shit on and bullied out of community spaces.
It's also interesting how men like these always bring up mainstream, casual pvp games as "real games" where more often than not you're playing against kids
@@scottkrafft6830Would love to see where you got that statistic
@@promethiadahis incel manifesto
First guy was def typing with one hand
Lmaoo
or toes
typing with his last brain cell
And doing God knows what with his other hand…
After having to read his messages im convinced he hasn't aged cognitively since middle school which would explain his obsession with it
Yes.
You would be 100% right
You know it's gonna be banger of a conversation when a complete rando hits you with a "Hey, do you have kids yet?"
It's a legitimate question. If she were to be childless, it would bespeak her purity. Women shouldn't get so offended when we ask them about their past.
@@Zenigundamthis has to be a bait
@Zenigundam this can't be real bro 💀
@@Zenigundam you guys smell that?
@@jagm1365 This guy has been trolling for attention in Charlie's comment section for months. Don't pay him any mind. That's all he craves
“Can I tell you something”
“No”
The End lol
We would all pray for that.
This is so bad this man sounds like a kid the way he talks.. very illiterate and if he said that to me after the poor spelling already
I would hit the block button like nobody's business❤
Then they’ll respond with “I’m going to tell you anyway!”.
Yea there was no getting out of being told about it anyway what a Creep like SUPER CREEP
the second guy was so upset about the rejection he was facing he had to try and turn the tables to make him feel like he was the one rejecting her. he probably walked away from the conversation thinking he rejected her, and she’s missing out on him. i’ve noticed many people do this when they can’t handle rejection. whatever keeps their precious fragile egos intact 🙄
The fact that this guy was wanting her so badly just based off of what she looked like and wore in middle school, when she is undoubtably an adult now; is extremely disturbing.
A pattern I’ve noticed with people saying “[blank] game isn’t a real game!” Is that the games they refer to are often games with simulated social aspects like Animal Crossing, Stardew Valley, etc etc. it makes sense that they don’t consider them to be real games, because a lot of the core gameplay of those titles is based around being good at socially interacting with others, something that they clearly don’t understand/aren’t very good at.
I recognize that screen as one of those “free text” apps (I had one) that dude was just talking to her on her throwaway number lol she played it smart
Bro is a Stanford psychologist 🧠 go get your degree king 👑
@@anticringeherogirl as if call of doodie players do 😂😂
They are games, yes. But you can be social on plenty of games. Co-op, multiplayer, MMO. People are talking more about a learning curve of skill and practice more than basic simulators or Candy Crush. The more skill involved, the more respect for a game, usually. That said, group Scrabble is one of the more basic games but it doesn't mean I'm not impressed by someone that is really good at it. It usually takes quick response or being resourceful/knowledgeable. AC and SV can be played solo, and frequently are. Friending someone at their island, decorating or gardening/bartering together is only properly social if you are actively chatting and getting to know the person.
I love solitaire, House Flipper and puzzle games when I want to just relax or challenge myself solo. House Flipper is different than MMO raiding or MOBA. My friends play AC and SV in their downtime when we aren't on our toes or practicing.They can map the amount of stress hormone and brain activity produced when someone plays a game, and those fall lower in the scale of difficulty or developing new skills(mostly). Personally, I have to put effort into really learning how to keep up with my husband in Co-op Elden Ring. Which we do in the same room.
Coordinating with people on an MMO or being in a guild where you form proper relationships that involve video and voice chat is very social. A lot of us visit each other irl. Actively communicating and learning is something that is needed for anything collaborative and challenging. There is a lot of etiquette involved. In PvP it works best when you communicate in voice to coordinate and have a regular team. Similar with certain games, especially cooperative ones like It Takes Two or A Way Out. I'd kinda think about that a bit more, why you assume why people mock walking simulators, AC, and SV.
I’ve only noticed it with mobile games, which I agree with for most of them. Mobile game are often so barebones they can’t be considered fully fledged games.
That first guy legitimately needs to go on some sort of watchlist.
He seems heavily mentally impaired, he needs to go to the loony bin.
He probably is
The first guy was clearly one of those Indonesian scam bots that you find on Snapchat, WhatsApp, etc. English is definitely not his first language, and he keeps using "dear", which is an address they commonly use but not something used today by most American men. They definitely didn't go to middle school together. She just wasn't sure of his identity, and maybe he shared the same name of someone she actually did go to middle school with, so she considered it a possibility.
@@Zenigundam Oh, really? I don't use snapchat, whatsapp and the others so I was unaware of this.
@@Zenigundamthe only thing that makes me think it may not be, is because he named the middle school they went to. But who knows lol
I was dealing with these conversations at least once a week, both familiar faces and strangers alike, and it seems like the majority are steering the conversation towards a more intimate direction. It led me to a decision, I cleared out all my social media accounts except for Insta, and even there, I've set it to private. In our current era, it appears that virtually every girl faces this type of discourse, be it in the digital realm or face-to-face. It's genuinely disheartening
So true! I gave up the Standard of guys beginning normal/entertaining/valuable conversation w me w/o having a romantic and or sexual Intention
So i delete DMs saying "Hey" right away
I set all my social media to private the moment I realised deep fakes were a thing. People online are WEIRD. Now all I get are the occasional scam message I get is from dodgy "homework helps accounts because the only thing in my bio is that I am a vet student
It's validating to know that other women have done the same thing.
It’s crazy to me that people like this exist.
Like whenever I feel stupid, it makes me feel 10 times better that people like this are real.
This makes the awkward flirting I had in high school look like level 10 rizz
A couple of years ago a guy from middle school contacted me (we are over 40 now). He was one of the nice guys. After a polite chat, absolutely nothing sexual, he wanted me to send him pictures of my genital area. Nothing suprises me anymore on this planet.
😭
How does something go so well and go to the shitter so fast 😭😭😭
I would'nt even know how to find someone i went to middle school with and I'm 42.😂
Thats when you go online and find a picture of a wort covered genitalia from a health website, possibly from an opposite sex then what he was expecting.. lol
Dude this guy I went to college literally sends me porn all the time and I tell him to stop. I don’t understand. Cause he’s 32 now.
Charlie pulling out his Hunger Games level acting skills to reenact each text is making my stomach hurt from laughing 😂
Hunger games has Charlie level acting seems to be more accurate. He is the greatest actor of all time after all
“1.1k likes and only 1 comment? Lemme fix that” 🤓
I can't blame girls being so worried now about trying anything with guys lately
Let's not forget he opened with "do you have kids?"
This guy needs to be on a registry
She should share these screenshots to his friends/family so they all know he's into kids
I doubt she knows them
@@mossypebblescould probably ask him for his facebook in a "oh i want to talk to you there" or whatever and then just find his family it
@@meowster_chiefIs sodikken your pfp?
@@rathost7996 yes :3 i love them
@@meowster_chief Same. :)
In my experience, someone asking “can I tell you something” in this context is, I think, a way for them to try to make you feel like you were the one that brought it on. They realize that saying something deplorable out of nowhere is bad, so they want to create the illusion that it’s your fault.
That, and/or they unironically think that saying yes is consent. You'd be surprised how many guys seriously think that both saying yes or being silent equals consent.
@@gabetalks9275saying yes in what context?
@@hecrosegreat3943 Just because someone says yes, that does not mean that they consent. Often times, people say yes out of shock and fear of what will happen if they say no.
@@gabetalks9275 SO....what actually IS consent?
@@hecrosegreat3943 if you really need it defined in such a way, then you clearly can't understand the concept.
The entire time charlie speaks after 7:38 out of context is HILARIOUS
7:23 …BARBIE JEEP RACING?!?! That sounds awesome I haven’t heard of tht one !
The biggest thing about these kinds of interactions isn’t that they are creepy. They are dangerous. Women have to play along and hope a subtle rejection won’t send the creep on a stalker warpath of “if I can’t have her, no one can”. I’ve had guys message me out of the blue like this (that I’ve known in the past) and it can get really scary.
It sucks that it's just something that happens all the time too. On behalf of men, I'm sorry dude 🥲
Yup. I had an exterminator call me to try asking me out. Of course I’m awkward laughing and just using “maybe” as an excuse. The guy knows my address so I can’t exactly complain or tell him to fuck off.
Yo do realise this happens to men too right? It happens quite a bit actually. Men do indeed have stalkers that are women. Men also have to play along and hope a subtle rejection doesn't send a stalker their way.
@@ferretyluv it's bad enough but on the job?? That's insane.
@@applesaretasty2731 then maybe we should do something about this shitty behavior instead of defaulting to a “whatabout-ism.”
The best way to start my morning is with a frown on my face, I'm glad Charlie understands!
My farts are better than Charlie's farts
😂😂😂😂😂
im doing tribute
@@OfficerBMT i hope you never make it big bro. I am praying for your downfall
@@OfficerBMT I feel sorry for your mother.
Guys like this are really all who ever contact me. It started to take a toll on my self esteem. I'm glad to see "call outs". It's time others know how creepy people are behind the scenes.
He's so unhinged that he can't type correctly. But somehow, it's just literate enough that we can understand how badly he needs a cell
Watching videos like this makes me feel good about myself
Who are you
Losers compare themselves to bigger losers to make themselves feel better. Winners compare themselves to the people they strive to be.
@@ponternalshut up 😂
@@ponternalthat’s called narcissism
😂
says the most nauseating out of pocket statement, proceeds to finish it with “hope you don’t get mad”
Didn’t ask, i make content...
*basically admits to being a pedophile and wanting to do things to a 12yo*... "hope you don't get mad"
“Hey I like middle schoolers.
Hope you don’t get mad about me saying that lol” like yes that guy right there officer
this guy seriously thought that lady would leave her bf for him, what an absolute loser
hope ur not mad at mi 👉👈
That "can i tell you something" genuinely sent a chill down my spine lol
This kind of stuff is so upsetting to hear and know about, it not only makes all of us look like creeps but also lose hope in human decency and the future of mankind tbh. It's especially upsetting knowing so many nice kind decent people around me who are not actually able to find someone and be happy.
its always these guys that say women are too sensitive that completly get emotional when the conversation partner says something mildly against that person
It's certainly a big shocker that the "Why can't I find myself a Gamer Girlfriend?" guys are in the same group with "You're not playing "REAL" games." people.
Or the 'man I wish I knew girls who liked video games...'
'I like video games!'
'Oh???? Then name (super obscure fact about some game that barely anybody knows) or else youre not a real gamer ; ) '
Or they just hit with 'lol stardew valley and animal crossing dont count'
@@shipper-of-heart8898Never heard anyone say those aren’t real games, I mostly hear it said about mobile games. Which tbf, most mobile games are just kind of shit.
Even if it was a game, he would be stuck in Bronze, wondering why and blaming his healers and the game! Eventhough it's him... the problem is him.
@@Middleseedand if a girl plays mobile games that's still being a gamer. idk why we keep gatekeeping people out of the community
@@LazoGT Yeah, was just saying how I usually hear it used. And a general statement on the quality of mobile games.
If someone texted me out of the blue asking if I had kids yet, I’d reply “yes I have 17 children and we live on a corn farm in Kansas”
Typically, as adults, you'd come back after such a long time to apologize for speaking this way in middle school, not the other way around.
"and you're already past your good years"
From the context of the conversation, her "good years" were when she was 12-15 years old.
nope, this is different people, first dialogue has nothing to do with second
you didnt understand the video did you?
@@jjjt_ considering the fact gamer bro is a Redditor, I wouldn’t be surprised if he was a pedo like the previous guy.
@@jjjt_ he's saying redditors like this one are groomers
@@eero9033 you're not superior just bcs you understood a random commentary youtube video
The way you present these conversations is hilarious 😂😂
The first guy gives you the creeps, the second guy gives you the cringe. A bit of everything, thank you Charles.😩
The way this guy types makes me think he never left middle school.
I'm guessing that changed after the court order
I was thinking the same thing lol
I just feel so uncomfortable watching this conversation go down. This guy should probably have his search history looked at by authorities.
2:15 the best way to respond is by saying "if it's anything even *_remotely_* sexual in any way, then *no."*
It's really not the best way to respond. There's no talking a predator down off a cliff. If he/she wants to degrade you, then they will find a way.
@@AshlynTeague that's not degrading that someone asking for permission. That way if they do do it anyway, you can say that you made it very clear and block them immediately. But a lot of them do get scared by very firm boundaries and shutting them down immediately.
charlie saying “tee hee” with a straight face made me laugh so hard omg
The only thing better than coffee in the morning is having my flight or fight triggered by horrifying messages from creepy dudes.
My farts are better than Charlie's farts
That’s the spirit!
@@p-__ Didn’t ask, i make content
My content is not better than charlie's content!
WHO ASKED + CHARLIES FARTS ARE BAD (not a bot either just wanted to feel included)
“Predatory rizz” is what got me lmfao 🤣
EDP rizz
@@SillyArchie indeed
That’s not rizz
Bro has that cupcake rizz
@@lamp9109 these jokes got me cracking up
As a polite woman, I hate how some of us are too polite. It gets taken advantage of. That bit about the skirt and making her his was so out of pocket and yet she responsded so politely.
Yeah... and then polite women get victim blamed 🤷♀️
Charlie's delivery and some of this dialogue made for some really great sound bites out of this video
"Back in middle school"
"And you're already past your good years"
Yes Officer that man right there
9:00 the way Charlie said "eUgH Goddddd" was so on point, even his facial expression was perfect 😭
13/10 Hunger Games actor
Hes like 😲....😒
5:08 me when I walk outside in the morning and it's raining deer
I appreciate that when Charlie hit us with the Eeyore "ohh okay" he sounded exactly the same
My man is speaking in cave paintings
NNNAAAHHHHH 😭😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏🙏‼️‼️‼️‼️
For the second interaction, negging is never a great way to treat other people and a person who does that, avoid at all costs. Another thing to avoid is if someone says something insulting to you and brushes it off by saying "Just kidding" or "You're too sensitive", because there is truth behind those insults of what they feel about you.
>"Just kidding" or "You're too sensitive"
Funniest parts are:
1) They claim they are "honest", but, in reality, they are just too infantile to even having a basic tact.
2) The moment they have something they don't like, they whine and bitch even more than "le snowflakes." In short, they love to dish it out, while being completely averse to taking it.
And in general who would want to hang out with someone who treats your feelings like a joke. Like you need to validate your feelings to deserve their acknowledgement.
Lol ''you're too sensitive'' is more of a glimpse into what they think about themselves than what they think about you.
It’s less about truth and more about respecting one another’s feelings
@@phishcattyeah like they’re constantly worried about how their actions and words are perceived
“i don’t think you intentionally compatible with me” is absolutely hilarious. self awareness 100
"I wanted to do this to you"
Is so ominous without context and somehow even more so here with it.
Many people believe that if they didn’t intend to be sexist means they can’t be sexist. It’s like saying “It’s just a word” after saying a racial slur.
If I ever feel bad about myself I tell myself these people exist.
I honestly think these kinds of people should be in prison
@@Beanzops let's face it, you make CP
whoever believes in the Lord Jesus shall be saved repent hes returning to judge the living and the dead amen. repent from ur sins Jesus is returning amen
@@terransunited😮
@@terransunited wtf is wrong with you?
Thats what makes people like this crazy, not really because of there actions but because they genuinely thought what they said/did would somehow end positively
I am outraged and shocked by this!!! Thanks for covering the important topics charlie.
It still astounds me how so many dudes act like this. Like come on guys, get a grip.
It's honestly shocking how people will act like this
Gives us content and a person to laugh at
Lots of in cels in the world
So many is an overstatement, but any at all is terrifying
He was definitely gripping something from the way he was typing.
I often struggle with myself, but seeing those weirdos interact with women definitely helps my self-esteem, and makes me reconsider how we survived the screening as a species.
Species
@@a-liminal thanks
Remember, it's normal being normal person then rejected, rather than creepy person (which would also be then rejected)
@@letsreadtextbook1687well it's hard to creepily say "hi". I would argue these mfers descend into creepiness at neck-breaking speed, even before they get rejected
Hearing that unsent message made me have a convulsion
"outrageous creep" that one's going into insult storage for later. so simple, yet so colorful
“Past your good years” is wild
“the best way to start your morning is with a frown on your face” so true Charlie so true
@@SpaceCow-le5zino you don’t
@@SpaceCow-le5zi Didn’t ask, i make content
Charlie is the greates morning routine expert of all time
Wasn't gonna like your comment, but felt you needed the hundredth like
@@ActuallyUnicycleWheelie thank you for your service
3:44 my father walked in on that 😐
I had a boyfriend that spoke to me like this once...and sadly, he was a childhood friend of mine. I was young when he began talking like this to me. Talking about dark kinks like knives, and the younger me and how he addressed me as that girl than that he wanted to "cut open as he f*** me". I didn't know better. Now I regret for not contecting authorities for his behavior just before he moved states. I understand this situation and glad to report if I ever ran into something like this again❤
Bro are you okay
@@TheDragonSeer Yeah that was a little over three years ago since I last spoke to him
Holy shit bro gl
He is a future serial killer
@@Aria__1700 This is exactly why parents need to do a better job of monitoring whom their children make friends with. You were probably a little rebel who wanted to immerse herself in the counterculture. If you were my daughter, I would have allowed you the freedom to make friends with anyone until you proved to me that you were not responsible enough to befriend the right people.
You are so right. Whenever I hear that “can I ask you something” I feel dread and anxiety 😭
hard to believe that guy even went to school
I love that argument, "you're just a cosplay girl you're just paid to be hot" yeah, and you aren't, ugly
I get so stressed the moment someone asks if they can tell me something
Hey. Can I tell you something
@@charizardoreosure
@@IronDoomI want fuit gummy
@@charizardoreofuit
Can I tell you something
The way he fantasizes about her as a 12-13 year old is extremely dangerous, bro might dead ass go out and do some wild shit if he's talking about a younger version of an older woman.
this series goes crazy
I usually get blocked after “Hello!”
So honestly maybe these creeps have it figured out
These creeps are the reason you get blocked after hello
I love how Charlie keeps unintentionally reminding us every now and then that no matter how many video games we play, how much time we spend on youtube, or however bad grades we get, there are people like this walking the same Earth so we have no real reason to be ashamed of ourselves. It's unbelievable how unhinged some people can get over absolutely no provocation at all.
I love when people keep the bar that low so I don't have to try hard being a decent person either!
as a guy these interactions give me the worst second hand embarrassment ever
Times have really changed since I was a teenager and 20 year old trying to meet a girl on the internet.
As a 41 year old married man now, I’m so glad all that difficult back and forth between a man and a woman when they are first meeting is over.
I met my wife on MySpace back in 2007 and we connected through just chatting about random things movies, books, tv shows, who we are as people before we met each other and all that too.
Damn time flies, in October it would be 17 years already since my wife and I been together as a couple and been married for 9 of those 17 years.
Before meeting my wife, I will say that it was very rare to meet a girl who played and loved video games, I had never met a girl who had during my days of hanging out and dating random women, some of them would even tell me that I needed to grow up and stop playing video games when I would tell them that I played video games and loved them.
Times really are different now, and you would think it would be easier for men to connect with women who play and love video games too, but after seeing this video, and witnessing other horror stories of gamer guys being so awkward and failing to get with a gamer girl, it apparently isn’t easy at all.
“It’s like Dobby but if Dobby did whippits” STOPPP😂😂😂😂
It's so important to read the signals correctly in any form of communication, especially when it comes to romantic interest. Some people really need to learn to respect boundaries.
why do all your comments sound like chat gpt
Bro forget boundaries, the dude in this vid needs to learn basic communication and social skills first.
You can admit to someone, as a friend, that you had a crush on them back when you were kids without making yourself look like a pdf file. You can also do so without admitting your cringeworthy sex fantasies with them from your youth.
Didn’t ask, i make content..
@@BeanzopsI asked shut up
@@railroadforest30 thank you
@@Beanzops what the fuck is the matter with you?
@@particleman5893 why are you being so rude?
god i love these videos. please don’t ever stop
I loved the “big rigs over the road racing” Easter egg there
Recalling gals from senior class is kinda strange, but recalling children from your middle school is absolutely wild.
I remember a girl I had a crush on in middle school, no fucking clue where she is now or even how she looks for that matter but if someone showed me a picture of her from the yearbook or whatever I'd be like "Oh yeah that's Rebecca, I totally had a crush on her"
its not weird to have a memory, it is weird to fantasize about having sex with a middle schooler though.. this guy is a nut
@@christopherjones8448 hey chris it's rebecca
@@christopherjones8448There’s a difference between remembering someone you liked and whatever tf shit this man was doing.
@@CrystalRose1111 The first line of the op's comment is, "Recalling gals from senior class is kinda strange, "
which I disagree with hence my comment
Pro tip. To make sure u never end up the creep, be sure to read every message u get and send to the lady’s, with the voice and tone of Charlie in mind.
All I hear is Charlie saying the n word