I 1000% guarantee this guy views himself as a “nice guy” and when she inevitably leaves him he’ll complain that good guys finish last or some dumb bs like that
If you think about the situation with any form of rigor you realize that she's been with someone who behaves like that for over 7 months. Maybe she DOES have issues if she kept him around that long, don't you think? Having an extended braindead conversation over text with someone who can't form coherent messages.
@@skorpers Oh yes, i have thought about that. But many times this shit doesn't happen overnight or it needs a trigger lol. It could also be the person just wanted to really give a second or third chance or whatever. I actually cannot believe you unironically tried to loop the blame into the woman regardless of what happened lol
And for someone who is afraid to say "bad words," he sure does spew a lot of things that are ACTUALLY cruel and vicious. Wow, what a squeaky-clean saint. 🙄
Oh, don't beat yourself up over it tbh. Ineffective people get into relationships with other ineffective people all the time. I'd say about 80% of people are like this since there's no focus on dialectics or self-validation or actually processing emotions and taking accountability when we're brought up as kids and many adults just don't learn it.
I believe that, even when you're mad, you should never try to actually "hurt" your significant other during an argument. There's a difference between being mad at a situation and hating your partner. You can't take words back
If you knowingly hurt your partner, you deserve to be single. It’s fine to fight, it happens sometimes, but going for something to truly hurt them just shows you’re a bad person tbh
exactly like what the hell. if you wouldn't do it to your friends you ESPECIALLY shouldn't do it to your partner. theyre supposed to be your BEST friend
@@Knifedog212 tbf many people try to hurt others when they feel they themselves are being hurt, so I don't think it makes you an awful person for hurting your partner to growing enough maturity to recognize that is wrong. Like saying stuff like "fuck you", is obviously you trying to hurt your partner (btw not talking about her, she said that after he was hurting her) but I don't thing you are the worst for doing that as, even though it sounds cruel you probably have done it, I have done it, a lot of people have done it. And it comes from us feeling hurt as well. However, what this guy did was honestly a step beyond that. I don't think he is unforgivable but he surely needs to straighten up
@@magmamaze69Any time someone uses something personal against you is an immediate dealbreaker, which "no wonder your friends and exs left you" definetly falls under, even "f you" is really, really bad and if youre put in a situation to want to say that more than like a handful of times in your lifelong relationship, then thats probably not one that should exist
It was bad enough seeing him say it'll "be funny when she's six feet under," but then she replied with "Oh boy here we go again." I can't imagine seeing a more depressing response than that. Hopefully she can find someone who treats her better after this.
@spozznik9246 that didn't originate from gta and it definitely isn't being used in that context whenever it's said lol I doubt that even crossed her mind.
He wasn’t threatening her. He was talking about the drugs and her response was probably he gave her some long speech about drugs do to you in previous “call”. She doesn’t seem to be scared of him in that way based on these texts.
I could never NEVER talk to my girlfriend like this. It just astonishes me that someone could flip out this much over something minor like this. My gf is recovering from addictions as well as depression and never in a million years would i stoop so low to aay "thats why your friends and exes left you" smh not everybody deserves a relationship
Hot take: this has little to do with drugs. He randomly brought up her friends and ex twice. He's extremely insecure and jealous, and for whatever reason associates her social circle with drugs. This is his way of shaming her into social isolation. Even if it's subconscious, that's exactly what he's trying to achieve - keeping her all to his grubby little self.
Fun fact: sending the speech to text messages will automatically censor your curse words in most cases so it's highly likely that he was using speech to text
Can't say I've ever used it before but not sure that'd be the case? Just there's different lengths of asterisks used by him so would have thought it'd either be the same each time or it would give the appropriate number relating to letters missing? Like the single message from 5:42 onwards has 3, 2 and 1 asterisks at different points which seems like an angry twat making mistakes with his self-censoring. As I say, never used it so could be wrong but seems more like his hands were malfunctioning as much as his brain to me.
I want to know how these guys can say this crazy ass shit and the conversation goes on as long as it does. How are they not dumped immediately? Lol how do they have a gf in the first place?
@@mattheweurt26 No kidding, man. I'm not sure how these nutballs land a date in the first place, let alone reach the "I love you" stage. You can't hide this kind of shit lol. He must have been attractive or something if she put up with it that long. All I can think of.
i feel so bad for this girl, when you love someone it's so hard when they show their true, distilled, unfiltered cringe. like you realize that if you really were in trouble, they'd be all overwhelmed with their own emotions and they'd refuse to help you
& why does he keep telling her not to call him bro, when she didn’t call him bro lol Either we’re missing context or his reading comprehension is lacking, because that was really confusing me lol
His weird series of emotional segues from having countless meltdowns to "Btw how's your day?" makes me want to read his messages in Tommy Wiseau's voice.
Also why do people argue by texting each other Calling someone or meeting someone is the best approach to resolving conflicts I find texting harder and also you can't feel what they are saying
@@pbsuitei’ve seen you comment this under other comments 😭 in the post, OP said that they talked about it already over the phone but it didn’t go too well, and her bf brought it up on text. if you’re generally asking, then idk, people have different ways of preferred communication & not everyone feels about texting the way you do ig
Well that's f*** unfortunate, cause it' pretty f*** hard to read a long a** sentence with all the f**** censored word lol sorry that was no good words sorry baby
You will. If you watch Charlie's series where he reads text messages like this and act the opposite of these people, you are already better then a huge part of people who want to date. It's insane how many people just don't know the very basics of a relationship.
His insulting her deeply (you have no friends, this is why exes left you. Your 1 step away from crackhead) every time he gets frustrated. He repeatedly tells her she’s worthless and unworthy of being loved. Then his apology consists of “that was awful to say”. Notice he does NOT say “those things aren’t true, I only said out of anger”. He only says that it was awful to say: Tells her only HE cares about her enough. He’s very insecure about this relationship, and thinks that “flaws” like her prior teen drug history and whatever else she revealed to him in vulnerability, are what make him worthy of somebody out of his league. The controlling behavior is only a sign of his insecurity and immaturity, but not the worst thing about him. He doesn’t respect her but he knows she’s too good for him. And only way to feel secure is putting her down and being the one who fixes her. Positioned himself as the arbiter of her worth . But even if she doesn’t articulate it, she can feel its icky and no way this lasts. Ironic thing is she probably recognizes the qualities that he tries to lord over her, but he’s too insecure and immature to stop throwing it in her face (and to stop throwing any of her past mistakes in her face). I’d be curious to see what these two look like.
@@CommentCorrection I’m just wondering why you think charlie is going at this guy without the full picture because clearly the guy is extremely unhinged. Also why you are pasting this same reply everywhere. To your “learn english” I say that the “l” in “learn” must be capitalized since it is the start of a sentence and there must be a “.” at the end of your sentence since it is the end of a sentence. Maybe you should also learn english.
@@CatKingSolan(no offense, I just want to be annoying) However, I have noticed in your detailed paragraph that you are missing two major capital letters. Both of them being nouns. The first one is missing in “charlie” as you forgot the “C”. The second one has been forgotten for “english” as it should be “English”. Thank you for your time.
The fact that Charlie doesn't realize that the censoring is due to his using voice text which in my opinion makes it funnier because he was actually yelling at his phone about this😂
Nah. For the first message where it's supposed to be censored, it has the appropriate amount of * 's. In the next main burst, fucking is f*** for the for first one and f** for the next three. After that, shit is s*, then back to f** for the next two "fucking"s followed by a f*** for the final fucking. That shit was definitely typed out. And then an uncensored retard shortly after. Completely inconsistent. That was typed out with human hands.
this guy seems like a genuine danger to be around, legit bullying his girlfriend for even bringing up fucking mushrooms and snapping at her for calling him bro and constantly insisting he's not her friend like he's def controlling and probably even abusive at least mentally
Second part is not justified but tbf the first part could be in his eyes maybe his mom or dad was a huge drug addict and he refuses to live in a house like that again and he’s telling her straight up and to bring a convo up from the night before isn’t weird either man it’s his girlfriend so it’s a lot of emotions and to say you’ve not been pissed the next day still would be wrong everyone gets like this we have no idea who the guy is and what his life has been like
@@billyrobertson5213I’m surprised no one else thought of this. Like he could have trauma from drug use and that is what’s setting him off - to him drug use is a make it or break it factor. Seems like this whole thing might be a little bit biased towards the girl… though the dudes response is still childish.
The temper tantrums aside, if your SO won't drop things they disagree with that you’ve already discussed and moved on from, leave. They'll do it for anything they find unacceptable, and they are telling you that they are not willing to grow past anything that may crop up, big or small. I've had the misfortune of dating one of those. Started over small disagreements and slowly escalated until I realized the pattern as it became less trivial. They were not as embarrassing as this one, but just as holier than thou, and they basically just want someone to do exactly as they say without question.
She gave him so many chances to stop. But he just kept choosing to go down the path he did. 100% on him, I hope he gains a little perspective from what he's chosen to lose
Mans a narcissist. He wont ever learn anything sadly. Especially if he is 29 and acting like this. I stopped being that way at like 14 Edit: and I wasnt even bad like that. Hes worse, thats depressing.
It's only about mushrooms too. Nobody has ever gotten addicted to shrooms, in fact there are countless stories about people no longer feeling depressed and becoming far more at peace with life and their existence after experiencing shrooms.
@@thenuttednutter2669 I wouldn't be so quick to play the narcissist card. I don't condone the guy's behaviour, but it could be that he has some trauma regarding the subject. Maybe a family member died of an overdose or something. It should probably go without saying, but we don't have the information to diagnose based on a single text exchange and attempting to do so just makes it harder to take the word seriously when it's actually being accurately applied.
@@UsernameyMcUsernameFace We all go through something traumatic, but it doesn’t excuse therefore putting somebody else through a horrendous experience.
The patience that the woman showed in this text exchange is remarkable. She was polite and respectful despite the disparaging comments for far longer than I would have managed
@@joshstubs2927 People are allowed to change. This man was clearly unhealthy for her, seeing as she wasn't choosing anything. His lack of compassion is what killed the relationship. He chose to belittle her instead of showing compassion and empathy as someone who truly cared about her would. If you wish to be happy in a relationship yourself, compassion will prove invaluable. Keep going on your journey, and allow yourself to be malleable in your thoughts and opinions. No one is omniscient, yourself included. Grow. Learn. May you find yourself better by the day my friend. I'm rooting for you. You can do it. Peace, Josh.
@@joshstubs2927 99.99999% of all women would choose to be addicted to fentanyl on the streets than have a physical relationship with some one like you. that's why you're on here completely oblivious that the dude is a complete schizoid abusive idiot, and you are on his side. let me guess, you cried when r/incel was banned ?
@@joshstubs2927did you not watch the video? The woman clearly stated that she is not interested in drugs much except the SLIGHT thought of shrooms and the bf flipped off and escalating the situation for no good reason. His way of showing disapproval is very demeaning and not very productive for the relationship except to hurt her feelings. If he reacts like that towards a simple disagreement like this, how can you expect him to react to REAL problems in the relationship later on? Think before you comment man.
@@ihiredasamurai6292 I really don't care for your explanation lil dude. She did COKE. A HARD drug incase you've forgotten. Clearly you don't know the dangers of drugs besides 'they're cool/and give a nice feeling' and if she's still this interested in taking drugs, run. He said what he said to make her stay away from drugs. NOW, she's probably taking shrooms with a chance of suffering from a seizure. Sorry your complacent and part of the problem.
I wouldn’t never date someone I could say I’m not friends with but also I don’t think anyone wants their girlfriend calling them “bro” unless they’re in like middle school, he’s just incapable of articulating himself
He was telling her to stop using colloquialisms and slang around him. His name is not "bro", "dude", or "babe". Whatever happened to feminine propriety? Now we have young women talking and dressing like boys!
Nahh, dude behaved like a weinerwat. I only ever use the words dude or bro with my partner when he really, really pissed me off during an argument. That's usually a sign that I'm hella over whatever we are arguing about. When Charlie read that part I felt like it was the same with this woman. She asked him to drop it countless times and he didn't. She was D O N E. Don't act like a fool and you won't be treated like one. @@RobbieStacks90@2oqh
I'm honestly disturbed she put up with this shit during dating and 7 months of a *relationship,* meaning she somehow developed *feelings* for this person. Like, how buried underground does your self-esteem have to be. We really need to socialize women and girls to not put up with this shit.
The vitriol against her friends is a red flag. Obviously nobody can get along with everyone, but a friend group is comprised of people that someone chooses to spend their time with and likely holds values in common. If he thinks her friends are stupid and not worthy of his respect, I'd assume that includes the parts of her that she shares in common with her friends
Yeah, but then there's some exceptions to the rule. Like how my gf had to log into her fb from her best friend's phone one time to contact me, because her phone was broken. You would think a friend in general would log out of their friend's fb, because thats an obvious invasion of privacy, right? This psycho decided to stalk our private messages for over 4 months That includes the sexual photos we've sent to each other. Obviously I didn't even need to say anything for her to cut that friend off.
@@Girthqueen dang i apologize for making a joke about broken homes. i just meant this guy texting the girl is fatherless, but if someone's fatherless it doesn't automatically mean they will be as cringe as this guy, it's not even something i wanna joke about :/ this guy is maybe not even fatherless i mean i have no way of knowing so it is slandering people who grew up without both parents for no reason at that point. my b
This whole encounter threw me back to when I dated a guy who would start fights over the dumbest things to show he had control. One night, we were out with friends, and I wanted to try a beer. I was young and had never had that particular brand. From across the room, he pointed at me and scolded me like a bad dog. I took the beer, drank some of it, and simply told him, "we're doing this outside." We fought for 45 minutes out in the parking lot about how disrespectful he was, and just because he didn't like beer, that didn't mean i wasn't allowed to drink it. Anyways, that relationship lasted a total of 9 months, and I left him when he showed signs that he would get physical with me. I'm glad this girl is leaving the dude in this text, too. He will go down the same route eventually. It's not worth it.
@@faze_kd3524 Thats not what she said. She said if she were to have drugs the only thing she was curious to try were shrooms. But she doesnt wanna do drugs
Oh my god, same. I also left my ex after less than a year after he became so extremely controlling, starting arguments and accusing me of cheating out of nowhere. Turns out I WAS THE AFFAIR! The other girl found out about me and texted me. She was extremely mad at me, but I couldn't feel any anger towards her, it wasn't her fault. So glad to be out, but the guy is still stalking me online, yeears later.
the fact that OP just stated a hypothetical situation and the dude gets riled up over it is insane. she's so patient with this asshole too, i'd had just drop a 'we're done here' text then block him forever
Be careful whom you block. This guy was unhinged, but if you block someone who hasn't done anything inappropriate or said anything rude just because you "don't feel like talking to him", then don't be surprised when he shows up at your job as a customer and demands answers. You can't get away with blocking everybody. Are you going to block your boss if he calls you on your day off and asks you to work?
@@GooseIsShark Women need to justify their actions. They can't just block people because they feel like it. If the other person says or does something inappropriate or makes some kind of veiled threat, then blocking is an acceptable measure. Otherwise, they need to be prepared to face the consequences because a lot of guys don't take kindly to being blocked.
This guy shows extreme signs of BPD. My ex had it and she could go hot/cold like that guy and it was wild to deal with. I read books on it, talked to medical professionals about it, spent over a 1000 hours in group therapy with people who had it. So I got to know quite a bit about it because the way I saw it was just because she has BPD doesn’t mean she doesn’t deserve love. Problem is if the person with BPD isn’t willing to work on their behavior then there is nothing you can do… and that guy had so little self awareness that I can guarantee that he doesn’t think there is anything wrong with himself, and that’s scary to deal with!
This was cathartic for me to read because i had a "friend" who tried a VERY similar thing with me when i used the word "crack" in a sentence (i was saying some things might be fun in the moment but not worth it like crack). He said i triggered him and would NOT leave it alone, he was so persistent i was questioning my sanity and humanity by the end of the friendship. Also tried to guilt me for not being remotely interested in polyamory 😂 i learned a lot about manipulation from that friendship
Polyamory makes no sense lmfao.. I had a girl wig out with me after we met on a dating app, and 5 months down the road when were very serious, she brings up Polyamory might be something she's into, while the entire time I made it very clear I find it VERY dumb. I'm not jealous, but if I openly know somebody else is screwing my girl, yeah Im gonna get a wee bit jealous lmfao. Hence why I told her the same thing I'm telling you. She ended up blocking me, and making up some wild shit about me saying I made sexual advances on her the first date, when in reality she was the one who did that, and I declined, I couldn't make a move for a solid 1.5 months, because of how bashful I am when it comes to those things, and how actually important another person comfortability is to me.... People are so bizarre, and should be screened before signing up for dating apps
I found myself in a poly relationship many years ago. Or at least that was the claim. I'd asked a girl out and she said she wanted to be friends. She was fun so that was fine. About a year later we were at a party and she said she wanted to try moving things into a more intimate relationship. It wasn't until a few weeks later when she initially said she was going to visit a friend who lived in another state that she told me they sleep together and are in a poly relationship. That was tough to hear. I was already in love so I made the mistake of agreeing to this new arrangement where she'd fly to see him every few weeks. I thought maybe if I never meet him I'd deal with it but it was like a dagger to the heart when she'd call me while she was with this other guy. Now, the twist. Turns out the guy was the one who suggested this arrangement because he wanted to see her but she didn't want to get into anything serious so this is where he landed. I couldn't keep doing this so we stopped seeing each other but, perhaps foolishly, I still wanted her in my life. I said we should stop contacting each other for at least 6 months and see what happens. Not long after we'd started easing back into each other's lives as we were catching up she tells me she slept with the friend of the guy who got her into polyamory. Any guesses to his reaction? Not the happiness that should come from this kind of thing. Apparently sleeping with other people didn't include anyone he personally knew which confirmed the whole thing was a lie which made everyone upset. Turns out he'd been telling his family they'd been in a monogamous relationship for years so a couple of months later she had to pretend they were together to attend his sister's wedding. Near the end of that day she called me in tears because he let her have it and was furious she did exactly what they'd agreed to and slept with someone else. So that was the end of that. Ultimately she gave up on polyamory after trying to convince herself it was actually possible to do without someone getting hurt.
Given his overall behavior, I bet he was even more upset though, he probably punched his own pillow and screamed it into afterwards, and then cried himself to sleep lol
There isn't any further info needed the dude was being a dick and bringing up her past from singular instances. Dude deserved to be made fun of. And you do too thinking there's "more evidence" @@CommentCorrection
Im pretty sure that "commentcorrection" guy is a bot because he's spammed that same comment under like 50 different reply chains. Ironic because contrary to his username, his little "correction" here is invalid because THE ORIGINAL REDDIT THREAD IS NOT THAT HARD TO FIND
you'd think you watched Charlie long enough to realize you shouldn't say stupid stuff to your significant other and get exposed but somehow common sense doesn't click with some people. almost like people like you and me have a neurological, automated light switch for common sense and people like the guy in the video have a manual light switch that they constantly forget to turn on and it shows
I just love when Charlie shows how much he is a down home guy when he says things like "Heavens to Betsy". The content is great, but he is also such a likable dude.
Just remember, if you're single and you feel bad that this guy can get in a relationship and you can’t, it’s because this guy is so weird that he’s probably asked out most women he’s interacted with and if you do that long enough eventually some unlucky soul will say yes.
That's the 'wide net' strategy. There's pros and cons. On one hand I'm jealous of the confidence it must take but at least I'll never be in a Charlie video.
I've had this exact same situation with someone. And they were only a friend. Couldn't drop the conversation, couldn't let it be, started saying awful things and suddenly tries to apologise when it's too late. Worst part is when they said "I think I should get a partner." Stay the hell away from these kinds of people, they can fuck you up. I almost was.
I had a really bad drug problem before I met my current girlfriend and she was understanding and never judged me for it. She was always there when I went thru withdrawals. I’m now almost 4 years sober and I couldn’t have done it without her. This guy is an example of how to not treat an addict.
If it weren't for the fact this guy is 29 and I know my ex is 36, I would have thought this was him. 💀 I'd always end up trapped in these kinds of "discussions" with him. And no matter if I backed down and surrendered or kept fighting for my opinion, it still ended the same. With him insulting me and making me feel like shit. I hope this girl gets away from him soon. Block his ass and never speak to him again.
Spazzin-out like his age is more like those two numbers added together. Yo, good for you for getting outta that nerve-deteriorating ''Cailou'' situation
The whole "not your dude/bro/friend" was already weird when it comes from teenagers (I remember a friend telling me an ex of her said the same kind of things, we were 19 and even back then it felt childish and controlling). But a 29 yo man ?? Wtf. This dude is dangerous, and need therapy ASAP. There is no doubt he will ruin his life and the ones of everyone around him until he does get therapy. It will only get worse with time if he doesn't.
What we have here is what i've called a "punishment loop" it happends in many text to text relationships where one will proceed to barate the other person, lie to them, or victimize themselves first, then later blame the other person or make them feel responsible, before cooling off with a few apologies and repeating the same thing again with slightly different context. It is a massive problem that i've noticed going around and people use this strategy for clout, attention, bullying and emotional abuse. If anyone here notices this pattern you need to know that you don't have to deal with cycling problems like this, do not feel responsible for other people who will take advantage of your time over text.
Charlie calls these types of guys goofy goobers and whatnot too, it’s his thing to name send out childish insults. I agree the boyfriend is an unhinged abusive asshole, of course, but I assure you that Charlie isn’t trying to downplay this fact with his name calling
Jesus these armchair psychologists...The guy probably have good intentions,he doesnt want his GF to do drugs ( you dont know the guy,maybe someone in his family had serious drug problems,thats why he is overprotective). He is a weirdo for sure,but what so dangerous about this? The point is,you dont know anything about the guy,or the girl for that matter and psychoanalyzing them is so incredibly stupid...You took 20 lines of text for granted without any knowledge about the individuals.
Imagine how low the trust levels up in this relationship. There must so difficult to bring some serious topics, deep dilemmas up if that is the kind of reactions you are getting.
This one hits a little bit closer to home, I have a friend who was doing this same back and forth with me about a subject and I was ready to explode. It was just 30 minutes of me basically asked them to leave me alone or change the subject but they’d incessantly claim they’re just looking out for me when clearly it was an attempt to be holier-than-thou. We’re still friends but whenever they bring the subject up again I want to tear my eyelids out.
i hate people who do that, especially when they dont drop the subject and try to give advice when they dont even follow their own advice?? girl bye. Half the reason why i dont open up to anyone like that, they'll start having a savior complex, no one asked you to help, it goes a long way to just be there for that person.
The rate at which this dude changes his emotions is astounding, it’s like he’s possessed by the asshole demon and keeps switching between getting control and getting possessed
Thats what aome abusers do. They try to hurt you into submission with words that doesnt work so they try to be seeet and guilt trip its a cycle. 2 of my exes done that and after i dumped them its like they were on steroids with that back and forth mess so ofc i blocked em lol
I believe his text was all mumble jumbled up because he was using speech to text. I think it also censors swears with a certain setting, so that makes the most sense to me. Dude was probs literally screaming through the texts
The most aggravating types of people are the ones who ignore you when you've told them to drop it and they just keep talking. This guy is that type of person
He was definitely using speech to text to send those, which is somehow ever worse because what you're reading is just his unfiltered and unedited stream of thoughts- and they're completely unhinged.
@@Noddle1532it’s voice to text definitely the reason some things are bold is because in whatsapp typing asterisks on either side of something make it bold and remove the asterisks. So that’s why some things are bold and why some asterisks are missing
Christ. I’ve been with my gf for over a year, I can’t imagine talking to her this way? Treating her like I’m her authority figure or something, over a hypothetical. Glad she got out of there.
Yea, same here, been with mine for two years and I just could never imagine talking to her like this. It's just...wtf. I could never imagine thinking that I control her or something, like she is somehow beneath me. I genuinely don't understand how people can look at their partner that way.
Yupp, sadly not. I wish I knew a good way to adress things like this with young men, mainly, so they don't become toxic creeps who see women as dirt. It seems a lot of this misogynistic thinking comes from growing up around toxic masculinity, whether in social circles, online, or in your own family.@@Anna.T.
I'm sure that he is terrified of being abandoned by her and is panicking. Drugs are an excuse, it's so foreign to him that it's horrifying to him that she even considered it (and tried it before) I've been there, I recognise the patterns, he needs psychological help. This is definitely unintentional
i REALLY love the fact these embarrassing text videos trend every time, so its possible the cringe culprit himself sees how many people think he's a loser
She's incredibly patient and nice to someone who doesn't deserve it, I hope she finds someone better Also gotta love that swears are forbidden and need to be censored, but the slur he drops doesn't
She's patient because the relationship is built upon lust. I was in a 12 year relationship. I bet if you could look back you would see that the women has had way worse freak outs. The difference? The man would never show this to the world.
I think him censoring himself is a self soothing thing in a way. He feels like the bigger person for censoring himself makes him somehow in his twisted mind feel less guilty for lashing out as he does. He clearly has been behaving this way for his entire life
None of you kids know what your talking about. "Dph trip to meet the hatman" I've seen that video floating around. Still not watching it coz I known it's one of those drug videos specifically to freak out kids who know nothing about the chemistry or even what's truly unsafe.
how she doesnt end this relationship immediately is mind boggling, why do people keep themselves in abusive relationships with such pathetic excuses for wastes of space
People keep going in a relationship like this cause they remember the good days. This guy certainly wasnt't like this 24/7, and she was in love, ignoring the red flags. This is why toxic relationships happen and are so difficult to get out. It's easy to say that people are desperate or have no self respect when you are watching from outside.
He should change it up a little bit, and show some text messages where it's the woman being the shitty person in the relationship. There are plenty of them out there ... don't know why he always focuses on the ones where it's a dude.
Having gone through something similar, I hope she really does drop this guy. He's not worth it and she'll have a much better, stress-free life with him not around.
I always love when Charlie talks about these bc I lurk the sub he pulls these from and there’s some crazies out there 😭 Makes me glad I’m happily engaged with someone emotionally mature and normal
Always remember that the reason people like this can get dates and you (seemingly) can't is because sociopaths are good at manipulating people and decent people are not.
Its also baseless confidence, stupidity, and a lack of self awareness. Its why people perceive 'bad boys' as getting girls when a pretty decent amount is a risk-taking individual is just more likely to ask someone out, as they don't have that fear of rejection, or even factor rejection in. Ive known way too many girls with looks, money, and intelligence who date absolute losers because theyre literally the only ones who engage with them lmao.
I don't understand how she had the patience. I would have blocked him so fast. I don't let anyone speak to me that way. Never settle for someone who berates or emotionally abuses you. Set your boundaries and walk away from the relationship if someone can't respect you and your boundaries.
Easier said than done 😓🤷♀️ especially when there’s years of control and words/treatment to make you think you’re the messed up one. Then you realize it too late and it leaves you with no given direction or what to do and the sad part is your all alone.
She had so much patience with the guy, even said she would talk to him first. I can tell this was a fresh relationship since she apparently did not know he was like this and STILL fought for their relationship and tried defusing the whole thing. But, homie just couldn’t stop nuking the relationship 😂
He's not really mad about the drugs. Hes mad that she wouldnt just relent and promise never to try them at all period. He wanted that control. He wanted her to change her mind at his behest and he wanted most of all to be right and feel superior. This is a precursor to an abusive relationship. Seen it SO many times. It starts like this. The guilt tripping about how you made them feel over your decision about YOUR body. The need to be right "for once" needing to feel superior. They keep revisiting the time they were "right" for that dopamine hit and then the pleasure of putting you down/ putting you in your place. Correcting how you talk to them when youre just speaking how you normally would... I know to some this may sound dramatic or blown out of proportion, but if youve been through it, you know.
I know people like this and it's maddening. People who will never shut up about an argument _they_ made even when you let them have it. They just keep twisting the knife until you kindly ask them to shut up, at which point they then pretend you're just angry they were right all along. They act like they can't comprehend you actually do not care about the specific topic, you're just annoyed they keep trying to ignite an argument that isn't there. They act like you're just offended at what they're saying and so they argue even more for no reason. These are the kind of people you can never be happy with because conflict resolution doesn't exist in them.
In a perfect world, things like these are easily talked through and resolved in an efficient manner. But since we don't live in one we get to kick back, grab popcorn, and watch secret psychos have their temper tantrums and bipolar-esque meltdowns. This one in particular is borderline restraining order-worthy. What a lovely day.
A restraining order over text messages? 😂 The problem with today's world is that this general precept holds in America: the more attractive the woman, the more illogical the creature. We need to be willing to accept a trade-off between beauty and intelligence. It just won't work if she's too attractive.
The problem here in America is that for the longest time this general precept has held true: the more attractive the woman, the more illogical she is. I always instruct young men to find out what the women they're interested in read before dating them. You learn a lot about a woman based on her reading habits.
I 1000% guarantee this guy views himself as a “nice guy” and when she inevitably leaves him he’ll complain that good guys finish last or some dumb bs like that
"my girlfriend chose drugs over me"
If you think about the situation with any form of rigor you realize that she's been with someone who behaves like that for over 7 months.
Maybe she DOES have issues if she kept him around that long, don't you think? Having an extended braindead conversation over text with someone who can't form coherent messages.
@@skorpers Oh yes, i have thought about that. But many times this shit doesn't happen overnight or it needs a trigger lol. It could also be the person just wanted to really give a second or third chance or whatever.
I actually cannot believe you unironically tried to loop the blame into the woman regardless of what happened lol
@@callmecharlie4250 obviously how are you going to get her high with out drugs
@@Uchigatana-MHFZZmaybe its the weirdos alt acc
For someone who is against the drugs, he sure does make it seem like he is on them 24/7
And for someone who is afraid to say "bad words," he sure does spew a lot of things that are ACTUALLY cruel and vicious. Wow, what a squeaky-clean saint. 🙄
No seriously it sounds like he’s on some shrooms…no wonder he is against her getting on them, the pig is keeping them all too his self
The dude should seriously consider trying drugs. It might make him less of a moron... it certainly can't make him more of one anyway.
@@dex1lsphi
He's on them pharmaceuticals.
The fact this guy can get into a relationship and I can’t is very embarrassing.
Oh, don't beat yourself up over it tbh. Ineffective people get into relationships with other ineffective people all the time. I'd say about 80% of people are like this since there's no focus on dialectics or self-validation or actually processing emotions and taking accountability when we're brought up as kids and many adults just don't learn it.
Nice bedard pfp
Fr same
Not every relationship is equally worth getting into
@@R_got_a_name_changeyeah
I believe that, even when you're mad, you should never try to actually "hurt" your significant other during an argument. There's a difference between being mad at a situation and hating your partner. You can't take words back
If you knowingly hurt your partner, you deserve to be single. It’s fine to fight, it happens sometimes, but going for something to truly hurt them just shows you’re a bad person tbh
@@Knifedog212 only purpose of a partner for a narcissist is to degrade them to feel superior
exactly like what the hell. if you wouldn't do it to your friends you ESPECIALLY shouldn't do it to your partner. theyre supposed to be your BEST friend
@@Knifedog212 tbf many people try to hurt others when they feel they themselves are being hurt, so I don't think it makes you an awful person for hurting your partner to growing enough maturity to recognize that is wrong. Like saying stuff like "fuck you", is obviously you trying to hurt your partner (btw not talking about her, she said that after he was hurting her) but I don't thing you are the worst for doing that as, even though it sounds cruel you probably have done it, I have done it, a lot of people have done it. And it comes from us feeling hurt as well. However, what this guy did was honestly a step beyond that. I don't think he is unforgivable but he surely needs to straighten up
@@magmamaze69Any time someone uses something personal against you is an immediate dealbreaker, which "no wonder your friends and exs left you" definetly falls under, even "f you" is really, really bad and if youre put in a situation to want to say that more than like a handful of times in your lifelong relationship, then thats probably not one that should exist
It was bad enough seeing him say it'll "be funny when she's six feet under," but then she replied with "Oh boy here we go again." I can't imagine seeing a more depressing response than that. Hopefully she can find someone who treats her better after this.
even if he didn't mean it as a threat, how oblivious can you be to not realise what you are saying just sounds that bad.
@@mickdunn7291yeah its definitely not a threat but to say that to anyone, especially your S/O😂
She did hit him with the San Andreas meme respect to that girl lolll 😅
@spozznik9246 that didn't originate from gta and it definitely isn't being used in that context whenever it's said lol I doubt that even crossed her mind.
He wasn’t threatening her. He was talking about the drugs and her response was probably he gave her some long speech about drugs do to you in previous “call”.
She doesn’t seem to be scared of him in that way based on these texts.
I love these freak videos cause I know no matter how socially awkward I am there's always someone worse than me
@OfficerVuuduu2024 nerd
exactly! it gives me peace of mind, lol
These fucking bots man
@OfficerVuuduu2024 bot
@@BestHighQualityContent nerd
Sometimes I need Charlie to remind me that being lonely is better than being constantly disrespected
Yep, and this is true for guys and for girls. It's better to be alone than to be abused.
it also makes me feel better about my own social skills
Yea sometimes I feel like a fuck up but these kind of men make me feel better 😂
deadASS! lord have mercy...
@@FizzLeeaguestop coping bro there is a middle ground😂😂 bunch of great people you just have to be smart about choosing not a complete pos .
I could never NEVER talk to my girlfriend like this. It just astonishes me that someone could flip out this much over something minor like this. My gf is recovering from addictions as well as depression and never in a million years would i stoop so low to aay "thats why your friends and exes left you" smh not everybody deserves a relationship
and shrooms out of any drug is the least of anyone's problem, most likely come out the other end of the trip a better person
you don’t have a girlfriend dude
@@adamxx3mf you can't be talking your girlfriend is probably your fucking left hand 😂
@@adamxx3 projection 101
@@ban___anja no u
Hot take: this has little to do with drugs. He randomly brought up her friends and ex twice. He's extremely insecure and jealous, and for whatever reason associates her social circle with drugs. This is his way of shaming her into social isolation. Even if it's subconscious, that's exactly what he's trying to achieve - keeping her all to his grubby little self.
Yes she needs to leave him 😂
Yeah, lmao you might be right
💯 been there before. These types of people lure you in by being all sweet and then try to guilt you away from your loved ones.
I call these kind of creeps social vampires.
You are exactly correct, although i wouldn’t exactly call this a “hot take” lmao i think most people would agree with you
Fun fact: sending the speech to text messages will automatically censor your curse words in most cases so it's highly likely that he was using speech to text
That makes so much sense, also explains why his sentences were so fucked up
Can't say I've ever used it before but not sure that'd be the case? Just there's different lengths of asterisks used by him so would have thought it'd either be the same each time or it would give the appropriate number relating to letters missing? Like the single message from 5:42 onwards has 3, 2 and 1 asterisks at different points which seems like an angry twat making mistakes with his self-censoring. As I say, never used it so could be wrong but seems more like his hands were malfunctioning as much as his brain to me.
@@Macephtophelestry to use it and see for yourself
@@Macephtopheles Agreed. Also I'd imagine speech to text would have a better grasp of punctuation than this goober had.
Was going to comment this. My samsung does this and it's annoying
I'ma keep saying it. These videos never fail to make me feel better about who I am. God speed to you for upholding this sacred duty, Charlie.
I want to know how these guys can say this crazy ass shit and the conversation goes on as long as it does. How are they not dumped immediately? Lol how do they have a gf in the first place?
@@mattheweurt26 No kidding, man. I'm not sure how these nutballs land a date in the first place, let alone reach the "I love you" stage. You can't hide this kind of shit lol. He must have been attractive or something if she put up with it that long. All I can think of.
@@mattheweurt26 I'm saying. This buffoon should have been dumped and blocked after the first few messages.
You still probably suck. Just someone else also sucks
Same
Beeping beepity beep, Batman! That one was beeping unhinged!
Hey can you stop swearing that’s really offensive
Whoa whoa whoa!! Watch your beeping mouth you little beep!
Reported. the feds are on their way.
Watch your mouth there buster!
SHUT UP YOU LITTLE *BLEEP* 😡😡
i feel so bad for this girl, when you love someone it's so hard when they show their true, distilled, unfiltered cringe. like you realize that if you really were in trouble, they'd be all overwhelmed with their own emotions and they'd refuse to help you
"distilled, unfiltered cringe" so what is it
@@testy4976 sssshhhhhh
That's a hell of a head-scratcher, you're right.
& why does he keep telling her not to call him bro, when she didn’t call him bro lol Either we’re missing context or his reading comprehension is lacking, because that was really confusing me lol
@isitoveryet9525 yeah looked like he had a whole mental breakdown
His weird series of emotional segues from having countless meltdowns to "Btw how's your day?" makes me want to read his messages in Tommy Wiseau's voice.
😂 right?
“ great story Mark”
"anyway how is your sex life" lol
It’s a great example of Borderline Personality Disorder
Also why do people argue by texting each other
Calling someone or meeting someone is the best approach to resolving conflicts
I find texting harder and also you can't feel what they are saying
@@pbsuitei’ve seen you comment this under other comments 😭 in the post, OP said that they talked about it already over the phone but it didn’t go too well, and her bf brought it up on text. if you’re generally asking, then idk, people have different ways of preferred communication & not everyone feels about texting the way you do ig
bro got safechat settings on
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f**
Well that's f*** unfortunate, cause it' pretty f*** hard to read a long a** sentence with all the f**** censored word lol
sorry that was no good words sorry baby
The ####
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This guy unironically gave me hope that I could find someone to share my life with
The bar is in hell lmao, we just got put ourselves out there more ig, but I don’t wannnnnaaaa lol
You will. If you watch Charlie's series where he reads text messages like this and act the opposite of these people, you are already better then a huge part of people who want to date. It's insane how many people just don't know the very basics of a relationship.
Practice good hygiene and mind your manners and you'll do better than 80% of these dudes. Just smell good and say please and thank you. Ez life
8:10 “You are not you when you are tired!” Get this guy a Snickers bar stat!
Keep putting yourself out there! Most women won’t be interested, but some will and you’ll find the right gal for you.
His insulting her deeply (you have no friends, this is why exes left you. Your 1 step away from crackhead) every time he gets frustrated. He repeatedly tells her she’s worthless and unworthy of being loved. Then his apology consists of “that was awful to say”. Notice he does NOT say “those things aren’t true, I only said out of anger”. He only says that it was awful to say:
Tells her only HE cares about her enough.
He’s very insecure about this relationship, and thinks that “flaws” like her prior teen drug history and whatever else she revealed to him in vulnerability, are what make him worthy of somebody out of his league.
The controlling behavior is only a sign of his insecurity and immaturity, but not the worst thing about him.
He doesn’t respect her but he knows she’s too good for him. And only way to feel secure is putting her down and being the one who fixes her.
Positioned himself as the arbiter of her worth . But even if she doesn’t articulate it, she can feel its icky and no way this lasts. Ironic thing is she probably recognizes the qualities that he tries to lord over her, but he’s too insecure and immature to stop throwing it in her face (and to stop throwing any of her past mistakes in her face).
I’d be curious to see what these two look like.
This is a detailed analysis, I agree 100%.
What past even? She used to smoke weed for a time and one time tried coke lol
Lord farquad and Fionna
I’d say something similar to Zendaya and Boogie2988 (specifically from like the early 2010s when he was still huge)
i’m iooiio
I dated a guy like this once. He didn't even need a "serious issue" to do stuff like this. It's really mentally taxing. Glad we aren't dating anymore.
@@CommentCorrectionBro what?
It def a bot no human with an IQ over room temp would say that
@@CommentCorrection I’m just wondering why you think charlie is going at this guy without the full picture because clearly the guy is extremely unhinged. Also why you are pasting this same reply everywhere. To your “learn english” I say that the “l” in “learn” must be capitalized since it is the start of a sentence and there must be a “.” at the end of your sentence since it is the end of a sentence. Maybe you should also learn english.
Same, reminded me of him and why I left. Hope she leaves. People like him never change, no matter how often they promise
@@CatKingSolan(no offense, I just want to be annoying)
However, I have noticed in your detailed paragraph that you are missing two major capital letters. Both of them being nouns.
The first one is missing in “charlie” as you forgot the “C”.
The second one has been forgotten for “english” as it should be “English”.
Thank you for your time.
It's not about him caring for her, it's about him having power of her.
Exactly.
What are you talking abt
The fact that Charlie doesn't realize that the censoring is due to his using voice text which in my opinion makes it funnier because he was actually yelling at his phone about this😂
I actually didn't know that myself. that's actually kinda worse somehow
no clue that was a thing, siri and imessage just straight up swear at you or relay swears to the other person hahaha
Nah. For the first message where it's supposed to be censored, it has the appropriate amount of * 's. In the next main burst, fucking is f*** for the for first one and f** for the next three. After that, shit is s*, then back to f** for the next two "fucking"s followed by a f*** for the final fucking. That shit was definitely typed out. And then an uncensored retard shortly after. Completely inconsistent. That was typed out with human hands.
@@ashtonb3948that is WhatsApp and I’m pretty sure it censors over there lmao
i thought that too but the grammar is so bad that i think he genuinely is censoring it
this guy seems like a genuine danger to be around, legit bullying his girlfriend for even bringing up fucking mushrooms and snapping at her for calling him bro and constantly insisting he's not her friend like he's def controlling and probably even abusive at least mentally
Second part is not justified but tbf the first part could be in his eyes maybe his mom or dad was a huge drug addict and he refuses to live in a house like that again and he’s telling her straight up and to bring a convo up from the night before isn’t weird either man it’s his girlfriend so it’s a lot of emotions and to say you’ve not been pissed the next day still would be wrong everyone gets like this we have no idea who the guy is and what his life has been like
And who tf goes to bed randomly at 7:00 pm maybe he suspects cheating also
@@billyrobertson5213 well he should break up with her then instead of harassing her and being a fucking dick
@@billyrobertson5213 2nd part isn't justified? He seems pretty focused and against friends and exes
@@billyrobertson5213I’m surprised no one else thought of this. Like he could have trauma from drug use and that is what’s setting him off - to him drug use is a make it or break it factor.
Seems like this whole thing might be a little bit biased towards the girl… though the dudes response is still childish.
Charlie repeatedly saying BEEP is the funniest thing I've witnessed all day.
too true hahaha
too true baaaahahahaghghh
Same here XD
too true BAHABHAAHYBAHGDHABSH
it’s cringe just like you people
The temper tantrums aside, if your SO won't drop things they disagree with that you’ve already discussed and moved on from, leave. They'll do it for anything they find unacceptable, and they are telling you that they are not willing to grow past anything that may crop up, big or small. I've had the misfortune of dating one of those. Started over small disagreements and slowly escalated until I realized the pattern as it became less trivial. They were not as embarrassing as this one, but just as holier than thou, and they basically just want someone to do exactly as they say without question.
yeah life is too short to put up with that stuff
She gave him so many chances to stop. But he just kept choosing to go down the path he did. 100% on him, I hope he gains a little perspective from what he's chosen to lose
Mans a narcissist. He wont ever learn anything sadly. Especially if he is 29 and acting like this. I stopped being that way at like 14
Edit: and I wasnt even bad like that. Hes worse, thats depressing.
It's only about mushrooms too. Nobody has ever gotten addicted to shrooms, in fact there are countless stories about people no longer feeling depressed and becoming far more at peace with life and their existence after experiencing shrooms.
@@thenuttednutter2669 I wouldn't be so quick to play the narcissist card. I don't condone the guy's behaviour, but it could be that he has some trauma regarding the subject. Maybe a family member died of an overdose or something. It should probably go without saying, but we don't have the information to diagnose based on a single text exchange and attempting to do so just makes it harder to take the word seriously when it's actually being accurately applied.
@@UsernameyMcUsernameFace We all go through something traumatic, but it doesn’t excuse therefore putting somebody else through a horrendous experience.
This gives me the soft of vibes where she is actually 65, he's a Nigerian Prince and they have only ever spoken over text or the phone.
The patience that the woman showed in this text exchange is remarkable. She was polite and respectful despite the disparaging comments for far longer than I would have managed
Yeah for a druggie, I'm glad she chose shrooms over a physical relationship. Not.
@@joshstubs2927 People are allowed to change. This man was clearly unhealthy for her, seeing as she wasn't choosing anything. His lack of compassion is what killed the relationship. He chose to belittle her instead of showing compassion and empathy as someone who truly cared about her would. If you wish to be happy in a relationship yourself, compassion will prove invaluable. Keep going on your journey, and allow yourself to be malleable in your thoughts and opinions. No one is omniscient, yourself included. Grow. Learn. May you find yourself better by the day my friend. I'm rooting for you. You can do it. Peace, Josh.
@@joshstubs2927 99.99999% of all women would choose to be addicted to fentanyl on the streets than have a physical relationship with some one like you. that's why you're on here completely oblivious that the dude is a complete schizoid abusive idiot, and you are on his side. let me guess, you cried when r/incel was banned ?
@@joshstubs2927did you not watch the video? The woman clearly stated that she is not interested in drugs much except the SLIGHT thought of shrooms and the bf flipped off and escalating the situation for no good reason. His way of showing disapproval is very demeaning and not very productive for the relationship except to hurt her feelings. If he reacts like that towards a simple disagreement like this, how can you expect him to react to REAL problems in the relationship later on? Think before you comment man.
@@ihiredasamurai6292 I really don't care for your explanation lil dude. She did COKE. A HARD drug incase you've forgotten. Clearly you don't know the dangers of drugs besides 'they're cool/and give a nice feeling' and if she's still this interested in taking drugs, run. He said what he said to make her stay away from drugs. NOW, she's probably taking shrooms with a chance of suffering from a seizure. Sorry your complacent and part of the problem.
"I'm not your friend" is some real good "relationship" mindset for someone you "totally" care about.
I wouldn’t never date someone I could say I’m not friends with but also I don’t think anyone wants their girlfriend calling them “bro” unless they’re in like middle school, he’s just incapable of articulating himself
I think he was saying he isn't her fuck boy but he said fuck friend instead. Still weird.
my bf literally says i’m his best friend… like bro 💀 this man is insane
He was telling her to stop using colloquialisms and slang around him. His name is not "bro", "dude", or "babe". Whatever happened to feminine propriety? Now we have young women talking and dressing like boys!
Nahh, dude behaved like a weinerwat. I only ever use the words dude or bro with my partner when he really, really pissed me off during an argument. That's usually a sign that I'm hella over whatever we are arguing about. When Charlie read that part I felt like it was the same with this woman. She asked him to drop it countless times and he didn't. She was D O N E.
Don't act like a fool and you won't be treated like one. @@RobbieStacks90@2oqh
imagine loving someone and then they not just hurt you but THREATENS you, I hope the best for this woman
I'm honestly disturbed she put up with this shit during dating and 7 months of a *relationship,* meaning she somehow developed *feelings* for this person.
Like, how buried underground does your self-esteem have to be. We really need to socialize women and girls to not put up with this shit.
The vitriol against her friends is a red flag. Obviously nobody can get along with everyone, but a friend group is comprised of people that someone chooses to spend their time with and likely holds values in common. If he thinks her friends are stupid and not worthy of his respect, I'd assume that includes the parts of her that she shares in common with her friends
Have you tried filling in the censored swears? I'm 90% sure he's calling them the homophobic f slur
Yeah, but then there's some exceptions to the rule. Like how my gf had to log into her fb from her best friend's phone one time to contact me, because her phone was broken. You would think a friend in general would log out of their friend's fb, because thats an obvious invasion of privacy, right? This psycho decided to stalk our private messages for over 4 months That includes the sexual photos we've sent to each other. Obviously I didn't even need to say anything for her to cut that friend off.
True, also a red flag of him possibly trying to isolate her from her friends, a common tactic used by abusers.
Conversely, if your partner hangs around cheaters/changes into a completely different person/puts you down around their friends...that's a dealbreaker
"Don't call me bro, I'm not one of your little friends" I feel like he's just regurgitating what he's already heard his entire life
😟nobody's my bro...... all my entire life ive never had bros *flash back to mother's divorce
Right, like that's something you'd hear from your mom💀
@@Girthqueen dang i apologize for making a joke about broken homes. i just meant this guy texting the girl is fatherless, but if someone's fatherless it doesn't automatically mean they will be as cringe as this guy, it's not even something i wanna joke about :/ this guy is maybe not even fatherless i mean i have no way of knowing so it is slandering people who grew up without both parents for no reason at that point. my b
@@wotsthis8148 I wasn’t even replying to you? I was replying to the original comment
@@wotsthis8148thats funny bro
This whole encounter threw me back to when I dated a guy who would start fights over the dumbest things to show he had control. One night, we were out with friends, and I wanted to try a beer. I was young and had never had that particular brand. From across the room, he pointed at me and scolded me like a bad dog. I took the beer, drank some of it, and simply told him, "we're doing this outside." We fought for 45 minutes out in the parking lot about how disrespectful he was, and just because he didn't like beer, that didn't mean i wasn't allowed to drink it. Anyways, that relationship lasted a total of 9 months, and I left him when he showed signs that he would get physical with me. I'm glad this girl is leaving the dude in this text, too. He will go down the same route eventually. It's not worth it.
@@faze_kd3524 Thats not what she said. She said if she were to have drugs the only thing she was curious to try were shrooms. But she doesnt wanna do drugs
Oh my god, same. I also left my ex after less than a year after he became so extremely controlling, starting arguments and accusing me of cheating out of nowhere. Turns out I WAS THE AFFAIR! The other girl found out about me and texted me. She was extremely mad at me, but I couldn't feel any anger towards her, it wasn't her fault. So glad to be out, but the guy is still stalking me online, yeears later.
@@faze_kd3524"weak ah parents"
How old are you exactly?
@@maschaorsomethingYour bro is trying to be a victim
Hahaha what an amazing movie twist lol @@maschaorsomething
Ngl this is so disturbing. As someone who's dated someone who argued in a similar way, I really hope the girl is okay
the fact that OP just stated a hypothetical situation and the dude gets riled up over it is insane. she's so patient with this asshole too, i'd had just drop a 'we're done here' text then block him forever
And get a restraining order after the 6ft under comment!YIKES!
Be careful whom you block. This guy was unhinged, but if you block someone who hasn't done anything inappropriate or said anything rude just because you "don't feel like talking to him", then don't be surprised when he shows up at your job as a customer and demands answers. You can't get away with blocking everybody. Are you going to block your boss if he calls you on your day off and asks you to work?
@@RobbieStacks90I can't tell if you're being serious and ignorant or super genius and funny and that scares me
@@GooseIsShark Women need to justify their actions. They can't just block people because they feel like it. If the other person says or does something inappropriate or makes some kind of veiled threat, then blocking is an acceptable measure. Otherwise, they need to be prepared to face the consequences because a lot of guys don't take kindly to being blocked.
@@RobbieStacks90Probably a troll. But possibly just an absolute moron - even kids know better than this 😂.
This woman needs an award for being this patient. Most people would have blocked his lame ass after the first outburst
Root beer 🍺 😋 👌
ong yo@@Number1_radio_flyer_fan
He's not just a weirdo he is legitimately INSANE.
Does strike me as an emotional wreck.
@XanderRaidon Shit, I have BPD and even I think this guy lives in cray cray land😂
This guy shows extreme signs of BPD. My ex had it and she could go hot/cold like that guy and it was wild to deal with. I read books on it, talked to medical professionals about it, spent over a 1000 hours in group therapy with people who had it. So I got to know quite a bit about it because the way I saw it was just because she has BPD doesn’t mean she doesn’t deserve love. Problem is if the person with BPD isn’t willing to work on their behavior then there is nothing you can do… and that guy had so little self awareness that I can guarantee that he doesn’t think there is anything wrong with himself, and that’s scary to deal with!
@@wolfpecker5710 .
@wolfpecker5710 Only emotion I don't even try to regulate are the happy tears I get when I talk about her lol.
I don't know why, but your "beeps" kept making me laugh harder and harder each time.
This was cathartic for me to read because i had a "friend" who tried a VERY similar thing with me when i used the word "crack" in a sentence (i was saying some things might be fun in the moment but not worth it like crack). He said i triggered him and would NOT leave it alone, he was so persistent i was questioning my sanity and humanity by the end of the friendship. Also tried to guilt me for not being remotely interested in polyamory 😂 i learned a lot about manipulation from that friendship
Polyamory makes no sense lmfao.. I had a girl wig out with me after we met on a dating app, and 5 months down the road when were very serious, she brings up Polyamory might be something she's into, while the entire time I made it very clear I find it VERY dumb. I'm not jealous, but if I openly know somebody else is screwing my girl, yeah Im gonna get a wee bit jealous lmfao. Hence why I told her the same thing I'm telling you. She ended up blocking me, and making up some wild shit about me saying I made sexual advances on her the first date, when in reality she was the one who did that, and I declined, I couldn't make a move for a solid 1.5 months, because of how bashful I am when it comes to those things, and how actually important another person comfortability is to me.... People are so bizarre, and should be screened before signing up for dating apps
@@jleif7736🔥
@@jleif7736bro started venting
That makes sense, though? Who in their right mind would think crack would be fun even in the moment? Sounds like youre just not normal.
I found myself in a poly relationship many years ago. Or at least that was the claim. I'd asked a girl out and she said she wanted to be friends. She was fun so that was fine. About a year later we were at a party and she said she wanted to try moving things into a more intimate relationship. It wasn't until a few weeks later when she initially said she was going to visit a friend who lived in another state that she told me they sleep together and are in a poly relationship. That was tough to hear. I was already in love so I made the mistake of agreeing to this new arrangement where she'd fly to see him every few weeks. I thought maybe if I never meet him I'd deal with it but it was like a dagger to the heart when she'd call me while she was with this other guy. Now, the twist. Turns out the guy was the one who suggested this arrangement because he wanted to see her but she didn't want to get into anything serious so this is where he landed. I couldn't keep doing this so we stopped seeing each other but, perhaps foolishly, I still wanted her in my life. I said we should stop contacting each other for at least 6 months and see what happens. Not long after we'd started easing back into each other's lives as we were catching up she tells me she slept with the friend of the guy who got her into polyamory. Any guesses to his reaction? Not the happiness that should come from this kind of thing. Apparently sleeping with other people didn't include anyone he personally knew which confirmed the whole thing was a lie which made everyone upset. Turns out he'd been telling his family they'd been in a monogamous relationship for years so a couple of months later she had to pretend they were together to attend his sister's wedding. Near the end of that day she called me in tears because he let her have it and was furious she did exactly what they'd agreed to and slept with someone else. So that was the end of that. Ultimately she gave up on polyamory after trying to convince herself it was actually possible to do without someone getting hurt.
He couldn't have picked a worse time to message her all that, she was about to go to sleep. You know how hard it is to fall asleep when you're angry?
Given his overall behavior, I bet he was even more upset though, he probably punched his own pillow and screamed it into afterwards, and then cried himself to sleep lol
I love these videos. It shows how easy it is to not be a horrible human being.
@CommentCorrection Boohoo. Context or not, this guy is a pos. She tried to handle it respectfully and he didn't want to.
@@CommentCorrectionman shut tf up you keep posting that text to every comment NOBODY CARES
There isn't any further info needed the dude was being a dick and bringing up her past from singular instances. Dude deserved to be made fun of. And you do too thinking there's "more evidence" @@CommentCorrection
@@SKBROOSE it's like looking at a domestic violence case and going "what'd she say"
Im pretty sure that "commentcorrection" guy is a bot because he's spammed that same comment under like 50 different reply chains. Ironic because contrary to his username, his little "correction" here is invalid because THE ORIGINAL REDDIT THREAD IS NOT THAT HARD TO FIND
People like this need to be put on some kind of watchlist
I agree.
imagine being a fan of Charlie and seeing him cover an argument you had with your GF
Good, let it be a valuable learning experience that doesn't cost any cent
This is exactly what I was thinking
Atleast he has a massive source of material now, this is as commen as a house fly.
If it happens, you done messed up anyway.
you'd think you watched Charlie long enough to realize you shouldn't say stupid stuff to your significant other and get exposed but somehow common sense doesn't click with some people. almost like people like you and me have a neurological, automated light switch for common sense and people like the guy in the video have a manual light switch that they constantly forget to turn on and it shows
This is insane. She was so level headed and nice, too.
This is garbage
She should see,she doesn't need that baggage around her!
If you click 11:35 you will hear Charlie malfunction
“What am I 🎶reading🎶?”, lmaoooooo.
Hearing Charlie refer to a nearly 30-year-old man as a baby boy had me dying.
@@OfficerAtomZeereported
Didn’t ask, i make better content than the bots.
lol he legit got scared when she said “fuck” without self-censoring it with an inordinate amount of asterisks.
20 not 30
@@LazyLoonz I hate when people correct others when they don’t anything themselves
Charlie having breakdowns over the grammatical errors was too hilarious
fr
I just love when Charlie shows how much he is a down home guy when he says things like "Heavens to Betsy". The content is great, but he is also such a likable dude.
Chimney/Jimminy Christmas 😂
The Granny in the Tweety Bird Looney Tunes cartoons always said that. So he's most likely well versed in the classics.
Omg, I say heavens to Betsy but I always think of Kathy Bates in Misery when i say it and hear it.
I've always preferred heavens to murgatroyd.
@@RobbieStacks90 Exit stage left!
Not me and my partner literally working together to decode his "***" lol
Just remember, if you're single and you feel bad that this guy can get in a relationship and you can’t, it’s because this guy is so weird that he’s probably asked out most women he’s interacted with and if you do that long enough eventually some unlucky soul will say yes.
But also the guy is clearly very manipulative. Sounds quite machiavellian
@@Puzomorniccolo Machiavelli actually had a great ability to communicate, the knobwit in the messages clearly is an absolute diaper-stain.
Ah yes, motivation.
That's the 'wide net' strategy. There's pros and cons. On one hand I'm jealous of the confidence it must take but at least I'll never be in a Charlie video.
For 7 months though?
Holy shit, that girl was definitely a keeper just for having enough patience to talk to that guy for more than 5 minutes.
I've had this exact same situation with someone.
And they were only a friend.
Couldn't drop the conversation, couldn't let it be, started saying awful things and suddenly tries to apologise when it's too late.
Worst part is when they said "I think I should get a partner."
Stay the hell away from these kinds of people, they can fuck you up.
I almost was.
What are you talking about?
"im not your ex, fucking remember that" makes the most sense, autocorrect got yahboy adding the 's.
I had a really bad drug problem before I met my current girlfriend and she was understanding and never judged me for it. She was always there when I went thru withdrawals. I’m now almost 4 years sober and I couldn’t have done it without her. This guy is an example of how to not treat an addict.
congratulations! im glad you were able to sober up & that you had a good support system. that is so so important
But she isn’t an addict? (Girl in the video)
I’m dumb ignore me lol
@@pokeystar101no she’s not. She was supportive and understanding and pushed me to better myself and not belittle me for my flaws
@@pokeystar101your good lol
If it weren't for the fact this guy is 29 and I know my ex is 36, I would have thought this was him. 💀 I'd always end up trapped in these kinds of "discussions" with him. And no matter if I backed down and surrendered or kept fighting for my opinion, it still ended the same. With him insulting me and making me feel like shit.
I hope this girl gets away from him soon. Block his ass and never speak to him again.
i wouldnt blame him because arguing with people who dont back down on their argument is so annoying
@@Seinsmelled ?
glad ur out of that situation! that sounds awful
Spazzin-out like his age is more like those two numbers added together. Yo, good for you for getting outta that nerve-deteriorating ''Cailou'' situation
glad you're out, that's classic controlling behaviour on your exes behalf. "my partner is my object to own" type shit.
charlie weirdo content brings so much happiness
@BangerContentnerd
@BangerContent nerd
fr
u didnt even watch the video bruh it literally came out 1 minute ago
I asked.
The whole "not your dude/bro/friend" was already weird when it comes from teenagers (I remember a friend telling me an ex of her said the same kind of things, we were 19 and even back then it felt childish and controlling).
But a 29 yo man ?? Wtf.
This dude is dangerous, and need therapy ASAP.
There is no doubt he will ruin his life and the ones of everyone around him until he does get therapy.
It will only get worse with time if he doesn't.
8:30 It's true. I tried drugs once, and boom, that was it. Died right there.
RIP friend. Condolences
What we have here is what i've called a "punishment loop" it happends in many text to text relationships where one will proceed to barate the other person, lie to them, or victimize themselves first, then later blame the other person or make them feel responsible, before cooling off with a few apologies and repeating the same thing again with slightly different context. It is a massive problem that i've noticed going around and people use this strategy for clout, attention, bullying and emotional abuse. If anyone here notices this pattern you need to know that you don't have to deal with cycling problems like this, do not feel responsible for other people who will take advantage of your time over text.
Is that at all related to the cycle of abuse?
Writing this guy off as a "weirdo" is dangerous imo. He's clearly abusive and it's not a silly little gaff.
Charlie calls these types of guys goofy goobers and whatnot too, it’s his thing to name send out childish insults. I agree the boyfriend is an unhinged abusive asshole, of course, but I assure you that Charlie isn’t trying to downplay this fact with his name calling
No reallll😭😭 Bro is not just abusive but also so protective and controlling I’m half way through the vid! Did she broke up with him cause bruh😭😭💀
If he treats his partner like this, how does he treat his family, friends( if he has any), and strangers on the streets!?
Think it's just an autistic guy that thinks he's being protective.
Jesus these armchair psychologists...The guy probably have good intentions,he doesnt want his GF to do drugs ( you dont know the guy,maybe someone in his family had serious drug problems,thats why he is overprotective). He is a weirdo for sure,but what so dangerous about this?
The point is,you dont know anything about the guy,or the girl for that matter and psychoanalyzing them is so incredibly stupid...You took 20 lines of text for granted without any knowledge about the individuals.
Imagine how low the trust levels up in this relationship. There must so difficult to bring some serious topics, deep dilemmas up if that is the kind of reactions you are getting.
This one hits a little bit closer to home, I have a friend who was doing this same back and forth with me about a subject and I was ready to explode. It was just 30 minutes of me basically asked them to leave me alone or change the subject but they’d incessantly claim they’re just looking out for me when clearly it was an attempt to be holier-than-thou. We’re still friends but whenever they bring the subject up again I want to tear my eyelids out.
Sounds like torture being friends with someone like that
i hate people who do that, especially when they dont drop the subject and try to give advice when they dont even follow their own advice?? girl bye. Half the reason why i dont open up to anyone like that, they'll start having a savior complex, no one asked you to help, it goes a long way to just be there for that person.
@@blaNkEuLa well when dumb people want to make dumb decisions some people just want to help🤷♂️
Noo fr!! I'm ready to fire back when that happens, then IM the one being rude and getting defensive
Try having it be your parent💀😭 you can never win
The rate at which this dude changes his emotions is astounding, it’s like he’s possessed by the asshole demon and keeps switching between getting control and getting possessed
Bro tried to make a Charlie joke and flopped hard
@@Doomman213 true
You watch way too much Charlie man it’s okay don’t try so hard
Not an asshole demon but an a****** demon
Thats what aome abusers do. They try to hurt you into submission with words that doesnt work so they try to be seeet and guilt trip its a cycle. 2 of my exes done that and after i dumped them its like they were on steroids with that back and forth mess so ofc i blocked em lol
I feel like a man-child sometimes but this man makes me feel as mature as an old librarian
@OfficerVuuduu2024bait used to be believable
@OfficerVuuduu2024 Didn’t ask, i make better content than the UTTP bots.
@@chrxnoaf W
I believe his text was all mumble jumbled up because he was using speech to text. I think it also censors swears with a certain setting, so that makes the most sense to me. Dude was probs literally screaming through the texts
Ah, I'm so happy. I've been waiting for another one of these glorious "Creepy texts" videos so anxiously. They always brighten up my day.
He should be covering the Jonathan Majors text messages.
These videos remind my low esteem brain that there are worse people out there.
The most aggravating types of people are the ones who ignore you when you've told them to drop it and they just keep talking. This guy is that type of person
As someone who had a father with behavior eerily similar to this at some points, it serves as a great childhood lesson for how NOT to live your life
when you were beeping out the words verbally I literally lost it 😂🤣
If it was literally, what did you loose?
Did you find it?
That shit had me dying 😂
He was definitely using speech to text to send those, which is somehow ever worse because what you're reading is just his unfiltered and unedited stream of thoughts- and they're completely unhinged.
i thought it could be translated to english because some of the texts were bolded and it would explain the weird language
@@Noddle1532it’s voice to text definitely the reason some things are bold is because in whatsapp typing asterisks on either side of something make it bold and remove the asterisks. So that’s why some things are bold and why some asterisks are missing
I am absolutely hooked on this creep messages series
Oh you still think these are real lol that’s hilarious
@@Memorial24Not everything posted online is fake. You know abuse really does happen irl right? It's not uncommon, unfortunately.
@@Memorial24 This just in: Local YT commenter basically claims that abuse like this never actually happens 💀
there's nothing like starting off the year with a brand new weirdo with Charlie!
@BangerContentreport this dumbass he's spamming this garbage everywhere
SILENCE BOTS
Wholesome af ❤❤❤ (I was hacked yet again 😭)
@Kid9boy368wild
@@connorfourfr bro I wish there was a font bigger then caps
Partners LOVER when information shared in an intimate conversation gets used as ammunition in an argument.
charlie reading that aneurism of a text at 6:05 made my day 😭
Christ. I’ve been with my gf for over a year, I can’t imagine talking to her this way? Treating her like I’m her authority figure or something, over a hypothetical. Glad she got out of there.
Yea, same here, been with mine for two years and I just could never imagine talking to her like this. It's just...wtf. I could never imagine thinking that I control her or something, like she is somehow beneath me.
I genuinely don't understand how people can look at their partner that way.
As a woman, I completely agree, and always love seeing men talk about their girlfriends with such love and respect.
- Sadly not always the case.
Yupp, sadly not. I wish I knew a good way to adress things like this with young men, mainly, so they don't become toxic creeps who see women as dirt. It seems a lot of this misogynistic thinking comes from growing up around toxic masculinity, whether in social circles, online, or in your own family.@@Anna.T.
I can't imagine talking like this to anyone, let alone someone I supposedly love... the dude is really fucked up
I'm sure that he is terrified of being abandoned by her and is panicking. Drugs are an excuse, it's so foreign to him that it's horrifying to him that she even considered it (and tried it before)
I've been there, I recognise the patterns, he needs psychological help.
This is definitely unintentional
i REALLY love the fact these embarrassing text videos trend every time, so its possible the cringe culprit himself sees how many people think he's a loser
losing once doesnt make you a loser
love how people are so positive and uplifting until you mess up then they absolutely want you to kill yourself
one can hope lol... and theres now way this guy only lost once with that attitude 😅
@chroniclefox8549 except it does, for that instance. Otherwise, the terms "Win" and "Loss" would lose meaning.
@@poolandcarsyou must be the guy in the video lol loser
6:32 the beeps are killing me 😂😂
I love how Charlie's more offended by the self censoring than the shitty behavior 😂
I love videos like these, it reminds me that no matter how socially inept I am there is always worse… much worse.. thanks for helping me sleep Charlie
@BangerContentDumbass
You're not as socially inept as all these bots that straight up jumped you.
@@JohnDoe_Gaming Man these bots are so socially inept that I’m not even sure what their goal is most of the time
Didn’t ask, i make better content than the bots.
@@JohnDoe_GamingThis is a stolen comment so non zero chance it’s a copy paste bot
Edit:
Wait nvm they’re worded differently I was wrong
She's incredibly patient and nice to someone who doesn't deserve it, I hope she finds someone better
Also gotta love that swears are forbidden and need to be censored, but the slur he drops doesn't
Facts.
Which slur?
She's patient because the relationship is built upon lust. I was in a 12 year relationship. I bet if you could look back you would see that the women has had way worse freak outs. The difference? The man would never show this to the world.
@@blitzkrogg2589 I had the same thing with my ex-girlfriends back in the days too.
@@ronansilverknight8218 he says r*t*rd in one of the texts charlie doesnt read
bro i just found u on youtube and its 2 am and im watching videos like this of you for the last 3 hrs u are so hillarious like ur words and language
I think him censoring himself is a self soothing thing in a way. He feels like the bigger person for censoring himself makes him somehow in his twisted mind feel less guilty for lashing out as he does. He clearly has been behaving this way for his entire life
Definitely an ego thing
I thought he was using speech to type
Looking way too deep into it I think lol.
Nice armchair psychology
It's speech to text. It auto-censors swear words in this way, it looks exactly like this when I drop a bunch of fucks using that feature lol.
a dyphenhydramine trip to meet the hatman would be more of a good time then having any kind of comversation with this guy 😂
I’d rather see the spiders on the wall again tbh
I boof dph and dxm
@@acballer Glad to see r/drugscirclejerk is bleeding into the mainstream
Lmao you never boofed a god dose of shrooms before?
None of you kids know what your talking about.
"Dph trip to meet the hatman"
I've seen that video floating around. Still not watching it coz I known it's one of those drug videos specifically to freak out kids who know nothing about the chemistry or even what's truly unsafe.
how she doesnt end this relationship immediately is mind boggling, why do people keep themselves in abusive relationships with such pathetic excuses for wastes of space
Fr… I don’t understand
Holy shit these bots
Eh some people have no self respect or their situation is grim or grave so they have to stick around, it's sad but sadly it happens
Because they’re scared to leave? who knows what their abuser will do if they leave.
People keep going in a relationship like this cause they remember the good days. This guy certainly wasnt't like this 24/7, and she was in love, ignoring the red flags. This is why toxic relationships happen and are so difficult to get out. It's easy to say that people are desperate or have no self respect when you are watching from outside.
my worry is to avoid being like a creep and end up acting like a creep because of social anxiety
Just when I think I'm weaned off, Charlie lures me into an alley with the good stuff
He should change it up a little bit, and show some text messages where it's the woman being the shitty person in the relationship. There are plenty of them out there ... don't know why he always focuses on the ones where it's a dude.
@@hastur-thekinginyellow8115muh feminism
@@hastur-thekinginyellow8115 He has done those tho, what do you mean?
@@hastur-thekinginyellow8115 I just watched one where he did ?
Charlie malfunctioning at 11:30
i like how he was like "this isnt my problem this is your problem" when he's clearly turned it into his problem
I'm glad I saw this. It builds on my self-esteem, seeing how bad some people can drop the ball.
Having gone through something similar, I hope she really does drop this guy. He's not worth it and she'll have a much better, stress-free life with him not around.
I always love when Charlie talks about these bc I lurk the sub he pulls these from and there’s some crazies out there 😭
Makes me glad I’m happily engaged with someone emotionally mature and normal
what's the sub they come from?
congrats!!
Like I need more trash content in my life, but I would also love to know what the thread is 😂
@@IceFire1800 found it! 😂 It's r/texts
what subreddit is it?
this girl has patience levels of an angel.
Yeah I woulda been pissed after the first text if we already discussed it before. Also why you kinda hot
Since all of these conversations are scripted, the women always make themselves look like angels
Nah, she just has no backbone or self respect
Are both of these replies human? Did we really evolve into this or is it a program. I hope it's AI
@@monkeyman2074 the two above you are prob sexist
These are hands down my favourite videos you do🤣🤣🤣
Always remember that the reason people like this can get dates and you (seemingly) can't is because sociopaths are good at manipulating people and decent people are not.
Spot on.
Its also baseless confidence, stupidity, and a lack of self awareness. Its why people perceive 'bad boys' as getting girls when a pretty decent amount is a risk-taking individual is just more likely to ask someone out, as they don't have that fear of rejection, or even factor rejection in. Ive known way too many girls with looks, money, and intelligence who date absolute losers because theyre literally the only ones who engage with them lmao.
I don't understand how she had the patience. I would have blocked him so fast. I don't let anyone speak to me that way. Never settle for someone who berates or emotionally abuses you. Set your boundaries and walk away from the relationship if someone can't respect you and your boundaries.
Easier said than done 😓🤷♀️ especially when there’s years of control and words/treatment to make you think you’re the messed up one. Then you realize it too late and it leaves you with no given direction or what to do and the sad part is your all alone.
It's made clear that this was a 7 month long relationship. It'd be very easy to cut that off.
She was being so patient and respectful too.
I would bet so much money that this dude goes into his next relationship (if he gets one) all like "yeah my last ex was a crazy dr*g addict" lolololol
She had so much patience with the guy, even said she would talk to him first. I can tell this was a fresh relationship since she apparently did not know he was like this and STILL fought for their relationship and tried defusing the whole thing. But, homie just couldn’t stop nuking the relationship 😂
He's not really mad about the drugs. Hes mad that she wouldnt just relent and promise never to try them at all period. He wanted that control. He wanted her to change her mind at his behest and he wanted most of all to be right and feel superior. This is a precursor to an abusive relationship.
Seen it SO many times. It starts like this.
The guilt tripping about how you made them feel over your decision about YOUR body.
The need to be right "for once" needing to feel superior.
They keep revisiting the time they were "right" for that dopamine hit and then the pleasure of putting you down/ putting you in your place.
Correcting how you talk to them when youre just speaking how you normally would...
I know to some this may sound dramatic or blown out of proportion, but if youve been through it, you know.
I know people like this and it's maddening. People who will never shut up about an argument _they_ made even when you let them have it. They just keep twisting the knife until you kindly ask them to shut up, at which point they then pretend you're just angry they were right all along. They act like they can't comprehend you actually do not care about the specific topic, you're just annoyed they keep trying to ignite an argument that isn't there. They act like you're just offended at what they're saying and so they argue even more for no reason.
These are the kind of people you can never be happy with because conflict resolution doesn't exist in them.
"What am i reading!!"....te he he😂😂😂😂
In a perfect world, things like these are easily talked through and resolved in an efficient manner. But since we don't live in one we get to kick back, grab popcorn, and watch secret psychos have their temper tantrums and bipolar-esque meltdowns. This one in particular is borderline restraining order-worthy. What a lovely day.
Merry Christmas 🎄
A restraining order over text messages? 😂
The problem with today's world is that this general precept holds in America: the more attractive the woman, the more illogical the creature. We need to be willing to accept a trade-off between beauty and intelligence. It just won't work if she's too attractive.
The problem here in America is that for the longest time this general precept has held true: the more attractive the woman, the more illogical she is. I always instruct young men to find out what the women they're interested in read before dating them. You learn a lot about a woman based on her reading habits.
It’s fake.
@@baboon1233Oh wow, just because you said so? How about some proof