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How to Handle Situations That Are Out of Your Control

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 เม.ย. 2012
  • This video will help you handle situations that are out of your control. For my free guided meditations, go to gabbybernstein.com.
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  • @drossmartin
    @drossmartin 12 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    "Man makes plans and God laughs"
    - and -
    "Don't push the river, it runs by itself."

  • @elenatravels
    @elenatravels 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you, I've learned this over & over again being a entrepreneur...Surrendering time lines and situations to the divine plan can't mess with that goodness.

  • @alfredomendoza9526
    @alfredomendoza9526 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That which we cannot control, and potentially interfering with the natural order of things: a priceless message and of course at a perfect time for me! The value of what you offer is, literally, immeasurable!

  • @thakeo1003
    @thakeo1003 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    'I pray for the highest good, A thought of more loving.' Thank you Gabby for sharing as always!!!😘❤️

  • @carolinagbb
    @carolinagbb 10 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Hi Gabrielle, I just want to thank you because I asked for an answer to a situation i´m passing and I just enter youtube and this video came in the recommendations, I wasn´t even suscribed to your channel, thanks, jus what I needed

  • @gabriellebernstein
    @gabriellebernstein  12 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    everything i teach is totally non-denominational so the answer is no. my goal is to help you create a spiritual relationship of your own understanding:) xo

    • @bobhunley6336
      @bobhunley6336 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Gabrielle I didn't know who you are as an Author. I see this Angel Beautiful, and I was sad and I bought it. Your pic gave me peace. When I opened it up and your mentioned The Course Of Miracals. I looked up (out of habit) and I admit I said to the Ethereal landscape ( parking lot) and whispered." a bikini would be nice" . By the time I got home i was into The Universe has your back. Anyway thanks. I don't use the net much. I did but it slows my Awareness to my Zen Living. Sort of speak. Bob Hunley.

    • @bobhunley6336
      @bobhunley6336 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Type o : I bought your book at the right time to rev up my Course studies.

    • @bobhunley6336
      @bobhunley6336 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      One more thing. Typing you I was nervous. I'm still affected by one of my exes who hurled abuse(verbally, a little smack here and there) so the self split( already was)as Kenneth Wapnik would say. I better bail. Tears. Duality.

  • @MonicaSancio
    @MonicaSancio 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much, Gabby! You are beautiful + wonderful + purposeful with your life! Keep being an INSPIRATION for the world!

  • @turnstogold3729
    @turnstogold3729 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Trusting and surrendering and accepting the highest good is coming forward. LOVE.

  • @jjt181
    @jjt181 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    I accept that there is a plan greater than mine -- I struggle with needing to know a lot, and I inevitably get in my own way. I am going to really focus on trusting the universe, thank you so much for the encouragement and the recognition that you are me :)

  • @Girlinafoodfrenzypage
    @Girlinafoodfrenzypage 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the way the universe works! Gabby your beautiful message is just as relevant today as it was 10 years ago and it’s advice very much needed by me today. Thank you 🙏 ✨🤍

  • @johnbehneman1546
    @johnbehneman1546 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much!!!! You met me where I am at. I just need to let go and enjoy my life. Which means build my business and build my hot rods. My wife will show up when she wants to show up. That is out of my control.

  • @LAisyourgirl
    @LAisyourgirl 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    My goodness this is some serious truth! I used your mediations and surrendering exercises during my very stressful veterinary school application cycle. 100% worked and I am so happy I just let go and surrendered. My life got a whole lot brighter, and the moment I surrendered is the moment I heard back from my vet schools :) thanks gabby! Couldn't have survived without you

  • @ems2576
    @ems2576 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this a great reminder for things in my life currently. I love this message. I was just journaling for a sign last night and here I am listening to this video. can we say perfect timing? bless you!

  • @dulcesirenitainspiraciones7489
    @dulcesirenitainspiraciones7489 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Natural orders? Wow!!! I love that.

  • @adnanaelenapusa3463
    @adnanaelenapusa3463 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I would like to thank you for your shared wisdom! I was in great need of forgiving myself, I finally was honest with myself and forgave me. Thank you for you!

  • @cydneymar
    @cydneymar 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gabby,
    This was absolutely the message I needed to hear tonight at the moment when I needed someone to tell me to let go, to enjoy life " in the meantime " , to know the Universe has greater plan than mine... God Bless you...

  • @pst8040
    @pst8040 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are such an angel, Gabby. Every video you made is so inspiring and always lift me up.

  • @yayamcbride
    @yayamcbride 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am truly blessed as I prayed and asked for answers to certain situations THIS video popped up, ALONG with the image of the book I have started reading! I totally thought you did this recently yet see it was made in 2012, 6 years ago. It answered my prayer and I GENUINELY believe that the highest good will happen naturally. Gracias!

  • @angellavocals2147
    @angellavocals2147 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow! Thank you so much. I needed to hear this message so I can trust the universe to bring me the highest good.

  • @LoriWattnz
    @LoriWattnz 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I let go of my situation that I can't control I prayed to my angels to take the energy of the problem give me positive aspect for the lesson.

  • @marilenamous
    @marilenamous 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    oh, and I absolutely LOVE that u teach what u need 2 learn!

  • @koukla008
    @koukla008 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    really needed this right now, since I obsess so much during exam period! so glad it came up in my videos. not interfering really releases me from so many terrible and negative thoughts, so helpful! thank you for all that you do :)

  • @debrushton6778
    @debrushton6778 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're a breath of light and love ❤️ thanks for your insight and wisdom

  • @juliemaloney9449
    @juliemaloney9449 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this. Thanks Gabi. xxoo

  • @yka5299
    @yka5299 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks You !

  • @bobhunley6336
    @bobhunley6336 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You Rock! I'm a student of The Course, survivor of Narcissistic abuse , I have OCD. These are legit diseases but I say Fear and my self imposed crisises. I'm not much of a internet fan. I am into Theater and good rock on You tube and I don't care about likes and dislikes. Ive achieved 20 years of sobriety. Oh you first(Congratulations on your Sobriety Gabrielle. 😎

  • @TheLipstickhippie
    @TheLipstickhippie 12 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I like to say, "I trust life"

  • @beccilewis1491
    @beccilewis1491 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow so needed to hear this right now..

  • @LeastComicStanding
    @LeastComicStanding 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was really hoping to see you do this one while sitting in the middle of the street. Good thing you just told me how to handle a situation like this!

  • @marilenamous
    @marilenamous 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank u so much for what you're doing :) I wake up w/ your vlogs every day, and I make each topic the theme of the day ;) God bless you!

  • @leola65
    @leola65 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you! This was also good timing for me. Having one of those days of doubting my surrendering feelings and its as if I'm not taking the right action.

  • @justsaying8868
    @justsaying8868 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It was hard to get through this. I was holding on to a lot of resistance.. Winding up here is no coincidence. .Thanks.

  • @johary2966
    @johary2966 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Gabrielle. Thank you so much for sharing this video. I finally found a way to handle a situation that is out of control. Indeed, I just need to acknowledge the fact that I'm powerless and that I should simply pray for the highest good. :)

  • @gabriellebernstein
    @gabriellebernstein  12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you for this post! blessings!

  • @kubenkain7169
    @kubenkain7169 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you. A piece of advise that is so important and doable.

  • @gregdamata5853
    @gregdamata5853 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Gabrielle...you're so inspirational

  • @lilybuckner29
    @lilybuckner29 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolutely love your positive energy.

  • @clariceohagan5734
    @clariceohagan5734 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your videos ❤

  • @PhilFeedback
    @PhilFeedback 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good information, thanks for sharing your video with us! Kudos to you

  • @joesatva
    @joesatva 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just what I needed to hear. Thank you so much for sharing!!
    God bless!

  • @joannecooper
    @joannecooper 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    acim changed my life forever... for me I had to learn what was not before I could know what is.. I would so love to sit down with you. thank you for your willingness to spread light messages xx (o:

  • @kikibarrios
    @kikibarrios 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very wise. Thank you

  • @reyaarora2949
    @reyaarora2949 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was actually trying to control something and it made me feel worse and then this video popped up

  • @Awaregirl
    @Awaregirl 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow! This ; this was the one I am searching when I am going through a sad phase; got all the answers

  • @MissJhane
    @MissJhane 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    I learned a lot about myself through this video. Thank you Gabby!!

  • @LPresents415
    @LPresents415 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just what I needed this morning.. Thanks.

  • @kmontagna1
    @kmontagna1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this sign. Romantic love and acknowledgement feeling right now. Was asking for a sign.

  • @phooongtion
    @phooongtion 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ank you so much, you you helped reduce so much stress in my mind

  • @SunUp08
    @SunUp08 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is me and it's gotta stop!

  • @TheMagdalena1964
    @TheMagdalena1964 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you how well said. I just looked up for something, that could help me to let go of stressfull thoughts.

  • @phillipriggins9295
    @phillipriggins9295 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for posting this video, I clicked the Like button!

  • @nieveskinal5096
    @nieveskinal5096 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for this video Gabrielle! Very nice tips!

  • @KayleeSteiff
    @KayleeSteiff 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just the message I needed today! Thank you!

  • @VictoriaMorrisa
    @VictoriaMorrisa 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you. This is so important

  • @TanjaHebbrecht
    @TanjaHebbrecht 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wauw, exactly what I needed to hear now. Thank you Gabby, thank you Universe!

  • @Lidialazo111
    @Lidialazo111 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love you. I needed this. Thank you.

  • @nathandunlap9717
    @nathandunlap9717 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very good topic.. running into woman like you who are helpful could be a good start

  • @lisaweng9291
    @lisaweng9291 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you gabrielle for all your amazing videos. this one was also very helpful =) bless u

  • @annabelladaily
    @annabelladaily 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved this Gabby! Absolutely perfect timing for it to drop into my mailbox in my subscription feed!! - annabella:-)

  • @carolthompson2588
    @carolthompson2588 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thankx so much Gabby

  • @JG16riffin
    @JG16riffin 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    LOVE THIS!!! Soooo helpful.

  • @DarleneSterling
    @DarleneSterling 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was just so good. Highly needed. Thank you

  • @palakarora858
    @palakarora858 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you gabrielle

  • @xw6475
    @xw6475 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for sharing

  • @SEYNEB2011
    @SEYNEB2011 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much, gabs 😘

  • @jalaj61
    @jalaj61 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Exactly talking like mine situation. Thanks needed badly.

  • @WhitneyDeivory
    @WhitneyDeivory 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank You For The Video💚

  • @dinamarieocchipinti3627
    @dinamarieocchipinti3627 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    💙Your videos and words have truly changed my life. Thank you. I am planning my wedding for thus June 29 2014 at 40 st marriage and MANY videos are a huge help for me now esPECIALLY.
    CONGRATS on your wedding. SADHANA
    Dina Marie

  • @alishaamir9491
    @alishaamir9491 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    ...awesome!Thank you !Please continue to post more and more videos they are really changing my life :) !

  • @clairobics
    @clairobics 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    Some of the best things have happened to me/doors opened up when I could do not more and had no option to just let go and go with it...

  • @kristal11122omw
    @kristal11122omw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel powerless In relationships.
    I want to commit to not interfere and get out of my own I will notice my efforts will not change the situation. I pray for the highest good for all

  • @Viaamtrak
    @Viaamtrak 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like this.; Good job, GB. Personally, I have learned the ancient Ecuadorian arts of the Quechua of the Andes, and offshoot of the Incan Empire. This involves mind control and mental discipline. Your videos remind me of many of the principles that I have learned.

  • @adgirlatx3641
    @adgirlatx3641 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you - exactly what I needed to hear today :)

  • @hienienguyen6766
    @hienienguyen6766 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    i am very controlling out of everything in my life and it keeps on manifeast in my life and i let people make me feel bad when i shouldn't. my efforts i always think that i can overachieve more but i always do this . i will finally pray for everything that is more loving and accept the bad from the good

  • @bhauvana
    @bhauvana 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you thank you thank you!

  • @gabriellebernstein
    @gabriellebernstein  12 ปีที่แล้ว

    bless you!

  • @cathyellis767
    @cathyellis767 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can tell you have a Recovery background...LET GO AND LET GOD! Trying to stay in my own HULA HOOP! 🙏🏼🙌✌🐛🦋

  • @maliwacsh9561
    @maliwacsh9561 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    love to you too Gabby.

  • @jrwaugh72
    @jrwaugh72 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great advice thanks!

  • @gabriellebernstein
    @gabriellebernstein  12 ปีที่แล้ว

    love that!

  • @YogawithMukesh
    @YogawithMukesh 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    amazing.

  • @JoshDayTV
    @JoshDayTV 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was nice and helpful of you!

  • @Wordsley
    @Wordsley 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    These rock!

  • @pennieoliver2586
    @pennieoliver2586 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you this help me a lot this morning :-)

  • @heleinakasa2792
    @heleinakasa2792 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    just what i needed. thank you

    • @isabeller2115
      @isabeller2115 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too! Thank you Gabby, lov'you !

  • @kobidreamer
    @kobidreamer 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wholly sympathize with the aspirations here but encouraging people to surrender to some unknowable higher power, comforting as it may be, has perverse consequences. Facing adversity in a healthy manner is a crucial part of a better life and even a better world. But intertwining such vital notions with baseless wishful magical thinking does a great disservice to the inherent goal. The further our inner reality is from the factual, the more we suffer as a whole.

  • @gretchstars
    @gretchstars 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish I could tattoo this on my hand so I remember it! lol

  • @hackingspirituality9625
    @hackingspirituality9625 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    ok this one hit the mark an awakening is rough.

  • @coolnilima
    @coolnilima 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really lovely

  • @doireannschoonheim9446
    @doireannschoonheim9446 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    YOU ARE AMAZING!!!!!!

  • @BENKCHAFIK-ef3gt
    @BENKCHAFIK-ef3gt 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    GOOD MORNING GABRIELLE FROM SYDNEY AUSTRALIA IN LOVE AND LIGHT, STAY BLESSED.

  • @nbn1018
    @nbn1018 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @akkaside
    @akkaside 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm reading your book at the moment. Do you believe you need to have a strong religious view in order to be able to practice the things you teach to the highest potential? Thanks

  • @sathsah1593
    @sathsah1593 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I needed to hear this message today but then i think if i had know Abhraham Hicm theory i could have obtained the right outcome

  • @riedjal81
    @riedjal81 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Are you an angel of heaven? You're so beautiful. More than that, this is absolutely a beautiful topic too. Enjoy every moment of our life by accepting the powerlessness.
    Sometimes.. we thought that...we're already working so hard. But the result is not like what we hope. Like what we expected. At this moment.. we should accept that we're powerless to control the result. But... maybe... that's because the universe wants us to find another ways to reach the goal.
    I am sorry, I am not good in english. But thanks for this topic.

  • @calsitup
    @calsitup 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    nice video very good wise young woman

  • @ladiesinprofit
    @ladiesinprofit 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Praying for the highest good and committing to non-interference.

  • @ShepherdsRest
    @ShepherdsRest 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Religion of the self, it's the best church :)

  • @Arkhangael
    @Arkhangael 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    I hear Michael's voice at the beginning (black or white), but the other line is not from a known song. Can you help me? What MJ song is this?

  • @bparchambault9533
    @bparchambault9533 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Not that you will respond to this post but I am struggling through someone else's storyline about my behavior.
    How do I stop the snowball of gossip and toxic conversation that is happening?
    My intuition told me this is what is happening; I was so correct. It is so juicy, people can't help but spread it.