If she leaves , you deserve better plain and simple if you treated her right . Dont waste you heart and soul into someone who dont value you and have thesame feelings towards you .
@@cdm1250uhf1 @marguskiis7711 : Yes sadly it is so ,all to much of todays " western " women have lost the core values and the feminin side , the caring emotional side of being a humble partner back towards her man with thesame mindset of values , emotional awareness and bring the love and peace , with loyalty to the table/relationship. Something that used to be common sense in peoples hearts but the modern age and extremist leftside have brain washed todays western women , woke moment, distancing the man and the woman core beings more and more , we are being trashed on over and over , so many of us have just stop engaging women , why bother if they only want to play games and ruin your life in the end with these games that obviously is the norm for MANY of them today ...yes it's hard to find someone today who still " got it " together inside.
Why am I stuck on her? Is it the confusion in the questioning of why she would leave me without justifiable reason? I’m angry at myself for loving her so much , knowing she has BPD and is a dismissive avoidant?
@@cdm1250uhf1 the harder it is the more high mantanance she is and the more weak of a man you are. A super strong man will keep any woman interested all the time but the moment even the strongest man has feelings for her the more complex the games become. So they ain't worth it. Women ain't worth it. Honestly my advice is work on you and become your best version. When you get there you'll find peace inside. Believe me man you won't even need a woman any more. From my own experience it isn't worthy having feelings. Women do honestly get put off by them. They are allowed and is essential that they have those excited passionate feelings about you but your not allowed them. A woman who doesn't know you will think logically to what I'm saying here and she will say this dint true that women want a man who's emotionally open etc to them exclusively. NOOPE. When a woman feels for you if you show emotions that are all about her she will be put off. This is why she says women always like it mysteriously. They want a man hidden inside so they have to question does he like me or not does he love me or not is he seeing other women or not? These feelings that make them question in there own heads like this cause them to feel all emotional about you. While it may seem like a good challenge and an emotional roller coaster to a woman that keeps them attracted to you it doesn't benefit the man in the slightest. This is why mens suicide rates are much higher because we ain't allowed to feel. Again from a logical point of thinking by a woman she will say and see this is ludacrus and not true but once she has feelings she's run by her emotions for that specific guy her logical reasoning goes out the window. Logic also goes out the window for men when we are in love to., not as much as women but it does go out the window some what because we are all emotional about her and emotions blind us. It's alot more for women as they are more emotional. But I am here to tell you that in order for a man to truly love a woman he must show his emotions to her. He must. As I say unfortunely it just doesn't work this way as women can't feel that emotional roller coaster when you've shown that comitment form your heart. So as I say my advice is. Work on your self so you don't need them. You'll find your own peace. You'll begin to like that peace you'll then learn to love that peace and genuinely only want that peace and nothing that's effects it will ever serve you. This wil cause women to chase you and you won't even care. But because your not showing anything toward them this causes the emotional roller coaster. Obviously if you ignore them for to long they can go but yea you'll notice by just talking to them and having fun like laughter and jokes as a man at that level within himself even the most sexiest women will start flirting and trying to chase you when your suddenly like all focused on you and you can just walk on by. Like I'll give an example. Say you spent the day with a woman with a group of friends and you whwre the strongest man in the group, trust me people smell it if it's genuine you don't even have to say anything either. If you the strongest say funny also makes it even faster to get attracted to you. She start having a laugh with you for the day. Trust me she will ask for your number even if the other guys are simping on her she don't give a scrap. Then she will text you the next day or wherever maybe you reply couple times then you to about your business coz you genuinely don't care about her coz u got your own peace inside. Believe me she's chasing you for some time. Texting why won't you text back? What's wrong with me etc. Especially if your like yo we r just friends she will feel so rejected the more needy and high mantanance she is the more she is head over heals for you when you didn't even care or need to try. Women don't see this but yea on the other side of the fence in a mans mind believe me we ain't even thinking of them and thar makes them wanr you more. If you find your own peace she ain't changing that unless she is 1 in a billion soul connection believe me. That is why men are walking away now to find peace because they are so sick and tired of expressing feelings and then being left. Women genuinely dint realise but by 2030 those statsrics about 51 percent of women being childless and single are true because of this reason. They can't expect to have a man heart broken or feel feelings over and over again to just get nothing out of it. It's forced me to find themselves and the more he finds himself the more he genuinely does need her the clock runs out to zero.
@@walkertranger5746 Do what your passionate about. Overtime you will attract someone with your interests. If they treated you badly ignore them and continue on your path. Not sure if you should give them a second chance, maybe if they seem sincere and respectful. But I seem to be thinking nowadays when people show you who they are, believe them.
As a man im giving you best advise love yourself and dont listen to all this nonsense and mind games, you dont need to all this crap when a person values you it will show, if you try your best just walk away peacefully
Great advice. Life is too short to have these women waste your time with flakeyness and stringing you along. Best to put your time and energy into yourself and if they want to be part of your life they will contact you.
You helped me get over my ex last year. Thank you Christine. Hope you're getting clients off the back of this. You deserve them. You're doing us men a great service.
Howdy Christine, I have been listening to you and just wanted to say you look pretty every day but this top/ t-shirt make you look prettiest. You do geat work with no bs. Keep doing it.
As always with female dating advice, it's just about doing stuff centred around her, don't take dating advice off females guys. If she plays games, drop her. Stop playing to her games. Just drop her and move on. Don't give them second chances. if she likes you she will show it. She likes chad, he calls the shots. Don't encourage these childish games.
Not all people are same in this world some are good and some are bad same way not all girls are kind that's why if someone leave you then let them go, keep busy yourself to achieve your Goal which make you a true man. A woman glow up with makeup a man glow up with his purpose.
This is the equivalent of a woman saying I don't care how I look and am not going bother. Women's seduction is psychological, mens is physical, if you don't want to become more attractive in the way females desire you to be, don't blame them for not an taking extended interest in you. The advice in the video is sound and actually just basic fundamentals.
Not commenting the clip. I love your channel just discovered it. I resonate with a lot of stuff I say and I have similar observations. I hope your message will get to a lot of ppl.
Don't chase people that don't want to get to know you or aren't curious about you! I'm sorry if you are in pain but the fact is they're not that into you and nothing you do will be enough. The right woman makes it easy.
Your advice makes a lot of sense, except that I personally don't care if my wife of 35 years misses me. I tend to think that my wife needs a secure marriage, my children a safe family and that is down to me. So I am dependable, predictable and always available to lean on. Yeah, my wife tends to take me for granted and I am boring, but I think in a good way. And no, I don't play relationship games. I know I will be missed when I am gone.
I'm happy living alone that is it I don't want waste my time and energy my advice is don't please women please your self improve your self that is what iam doing
Don’t chase replace it when you find someone younger and better looking take a picture of both of you and send it to the narcissist. Drive the point home that you don’t need them one bit and watch watch how that narcissist will just totally be attracted to you now that you’ve moved on and someone else is interested. I’ve been playing with narcissist women for 40 years and I played a win.
Will this work for a friend, me and her not in a relationship and unfriend me. I don’t have feelings for her, but me and her were a couple? See works well. I haven’t added her back, she forgot my name? Do I add her back if she lost my name. Both of us are long distance. I have not talk to her 4 months “this is 3 month close to be 4”. I forgot is saying something to her and think is a rude way. I said “that wasn’t PG at all” in humor? Okay, I’d believe is bad.
Been there my self. Work on yourself and change your life. Find your soul calling within that your career, your passions your hobbies. You'll only level up insanely high then no woman can effect you. Not one single one. In fact you'll have women begging you and simping in you. So go for it.
I have seen a lot of your videos already. There is a lot of good points.I have an idea for video however not sure if its good. As a man i look for some video on womans hormones as its unusual for me. I wonder if this is importnant in dating/relationship context
If I feel insecure about her unpredictable movements. And she is saying "please stay positive" What should I do? Because I know if someone know that you are insecure about what they have done in the past, if they truly want you to feel safe in your head and heart, they would naturally do things to make you not have doubt in their actions. What should I do? How should I feel?
Just get rid of her and find another woman. All women are the same. I have dumped hundreds of thousands of dollars on women and it was a big waste of money. I am 50 now and have been paying child support since my 20's. I'm Good with your dating advice.
Your biggest mistake was saying you won't ever text any more. The mysteriousness and keeping her wondering has vanished. You've told her. Women don't want honesty I don't care what they say. Logically they do but they are built to run off there emotions so don't be honest if you want he rto chase you.
question, so i begged for her to stay (knowing now that it was wrong) but she was the one to let me go and now i am doing no contact, is this a good step in the right direction?
Firstly you where never in the wrong. You felt emotions for her and you where actually being authentic real and honest. You learnt a lesson though that yea she's now gone. Shes after a man who can make her feel and that means he could even be a psychopath while your a nice guy who'd treat her super Wlel showing feelings it really means nothing. Being nice is nothing. It really is. Be nice because that's genuinely you as. A kind human but Yeha anyway. Women r supremely complex like SUPREMELY. My advice brother is to work on you until you become your best self. Find your soul passion and career. You'll find your own peace that way and then no woman what so ever can ever hurt you. In fact they'll be begging you for attention and to know why you don't want them. If you want them to stick around you also don't be honest you can dangle a carrot in front of there face if you really wish to. As I say women don't like the truth they want lies logically they will know they want honesty but emotionally it doesn't serve them then trying to get with a man.
What if you shared your past with your ex and she got jealous and dumped you twice because of it, even if l wanted to be honest and upfront with her? I am not bothering her but l still love her
where was you around 12 years ago i watch lots of your videos and the stuff you say i have learned the hard way over the years. but i still watch to see if there more to learn. thankyou
Women are children pretty much it is true. So yeah in a sense treat accordingly. You ever notice at Christmas so many women excited like even 30 years old excited for gifts etc while as men we are like nah it all about the kids faces etc. For a woman it's about both but she is a child her self beduase she is run by emotions while men are run by logic. This is why they are children because kids are also run by there emotions to. So yeah. In a way it really is like when a man becomes his strongest best version of him self he doesn't truly need a woman. She will deep down subconsciously look to him as her new father. Even if she's unaware of it. Purely because they are children. If she has a great father already then it's not exactly the same but to a degree you will be like her new father. That's why fathers give away there daughters at weddings. Lol. So yeah they are children while men like real men who work on themselves are adults. Maturity and soul wisdom purely comes from. The soul it has nothing to do with human age what so ever.
I dont like tit for tat communication....write when you have something or want to....but also avoid messaging because of routine. Some people are more enthusiastic after the other person initiates, and thats not a bad thing unless you ate trting to do less
Let me say this IF U CAUSED ALOT OF Emotional and mental pain and abuse and never HAD remorse!. And she came to you with her concerns and you continue to mistreated her She’s not gonna miss you. U can WALK AWAY 100 times or thousands or for good Don’t let this channel fool you this is called pandering to a certain audience word salad.
If she leaves , you deserve better plain and simple if you treated her right . Dont waste you heart and soul into someone who dont value you and have thesame feelings towards you .
IT'S JUST REALLY HARD TO DO!!
@@cdm1250uhf1 @marguskiis7711 : Yes sadly it is so ,all to much of todays " western " women have lost the core values and the feminin side , the caring emotional side of being a humble partner back towards her man with thesame mindset of values , emotional awareness and bring the love and peace , with loyalty to the table/relationship. Something that used to be common sense in peoples hearts but the modern age and extremist leftside have brain washed todays western women , woke moment, distancing the man and the woman core beings more and more , we are being trashed on over and over , so many of us have just stop engaging women , why bother if they only want to play games and ruin your life in the end with these games that obviously is the norm for MANY of them today ...yes it's hard to find someone today who still " got it " together inside.
Why am I stuck on her? Is it the confusion in the questioning of why she would leave me without justifiable reason? I’m angry at myself for loving her so much , knowing she has BPD and is a dismissive avoidant?
@@cdm1250uhf1 the harder it is the more high mantanance she is and the more weak of a man you are. A super strong man will keep any woman interested all the time but the moment even the strongest man has feelings for her the more complex the games become. So they ain't worth it. Women ain't worth it. Honestly my advice is work on you and become your best version. When you get there you'll find peace inside. Believe me man you won't even need a woman any more. From my own experience it isn't worthy having feelings. Women do honestly get put off by them. They are allowed and is essential that they have those excited passionate feelings about you but your not allowed them. A woman who doesn't know you will think logically to what I'm saying here and she will say this dint true that women want a man who's emotionally open etc to them exclusively. NOOPE. When a woman feels for you if you show emotions that are all about her she will be put off. This is why she says women always like it mysteriously. They want a man hidden inside so they have to question does he like me or not does he love me or not is he seeing other women or not? These feelings that make them question in there own heads like this cause them to feel all emotional about you. While it may seem like a good challenge and an emotional roller coaster to a woman that keeps them attracted to you it doesn't benefit the man in the slightest. This is why mens suicide rates are much higher because we ain't allowed to feel. Again from a logical point of thinking by a woman she will say and see this is ludacrus and not true but once she has feelings she's run by her emotions for that specific guy her logical reasoning goes out the window. Logic also goes out the window for men when we are in love to., not as much as women but it does go out the window some what because we are all emotional about her and emotions blind us. It's alot more for women as they are more emotional. But I am here to tell you that in order for a man to truly love a woman he must show his emotions to her. He must. As I say unfortunely it just doesn't work this way as women can't feel that emotional roller coaster when you've shown that comitment form your heart.
So as I say my advice is. Work on your self so you don't need them. You'll find your own peace. You'll begin to like that peace you'll then learn to love that peace and genuinely only want that peace and nothing that's effects it will ever serve you. This wil cause women to chase you and you won't even care. But because your not showing anything toward them this causes the emotional roller coaster. Obviously if you ignore them for to long they can go but yea you'll notice by just talking to them and having fun like laughter and jokes as a man at that level within himself even the most sexiest women will start flirting and trying to chase you when your suddenly like all focused on you and you can just walk on by.
Like I'll give an example. Say you spent the day with a woman with a group of friends and you whwre the strongest man in the group, trust me people smell it if it's genuine you don't even have to say anything either. If you the strongest say funny also makes it even faster to get attracted to you. She start having a laugh with you for the day.
Trust me she will ask for your number even if the other guys are simping on her she don't give a scrap.
Then she will text you the next day or wherever maybe you reply couple times then you to about your business coz you genuinely don't care about her coz u got your own peace inside. Believe me she's chasing you for some time. Texting why won't you text back? What's wrong with me etc. Especially if your like yo we r just friends she will feel so rejected the more needy and high mantanance she is the more she is head over heals for you when you didn't even care or need to try.
Women don't see this but yea on the other side of the fence in a mans mind believe me we ain't even thinking of them and thar makes them wanr you more. If you find your own peace she ain't changing that unless she is 1 in a billion soul connection believe me.
That is why men are walking away now to find peace because they are so sick and tired of expressing feelings and then being left. Women genuinely dint realise but by 2030 those statsrics about 51 percent of women being childless and single are true because of this reason.
They can't expect to have a man heart broken or feel feelings over and over again to just get nothing out of it. It's forced me to find themselves and the more he finds himself the more he genuinely does need her the clock runs out to zero.
@@walkertranger5746 Do what your passionate about. Overtime you will attract someone with your interests. If they treated you badly ignore them and continue on your path. Not sure if you should give them a second chance, maybe if they seem sincere and respectful. But I seem to be thinking nowadays when people show you who they are, believe them.
BOYS let her go never chase 5 years later she will be on the dating apps 50 pounds heavier
exactly what happened to my ex. but now shes lonely because she hit the wall.....hard!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
There’s so many women out there. No need to obsess over just one.
As a man im giving you best advise love yourself and dont listen to all this nonsense and mind games, you dont need to all this crap when a person values you it will show, if you try your best just walk away peacefully
I never thought I would ever need this advise in my life
If she wanna go, just simply let her go as she didn't value ur worth and love for her
Give them no emotions no talk no phone calls.let her miss you forever while she feels unloved if she wants to play games
Absolutely 💯
@@marguskiis7711 Men also do have options.
@@marguskiis7711 Not if u did something that she won't forget
@@marguskiis7711 they don't. Not the guys that they really want.
Men have plenty of options as well
Great advice. Life is too short to have these women waste your time with flakeyness and stringing you along. Best to put your time and energy into yourself and if they want to be part of your life they will contact you.
You helped me get over my ex last year. Thank you Christine. Hope you're getting clients off the back of this. You deserve them. You're doing us men a great service.
Thank you for your kind words. I hope you are doing well. I wish you health and happiness
My ex just got engaged to the new person months after leaving me. Never chase, always let them go
Feel u bro
If she wanna go, just simply let her go as she didn't value ur worth and love for her
I feel bad for you but keep remember, first accept the situation that she leaves forever, secondly move on and keep yourself busy on creative work.
Whether she lost feelings or not . Go no contact is the way
For one so young, you give such sage advice, have followed all of your advice and it works wonders...Mwah!
I appreciate you!
Christine is very spot on with her knowledge awesome lady
I appreciate you brother!
Howdy Christine, I have been listening to you and just wanted to say you look pretty every day but this top/ t-shirt make you look prettiest. You do geat work with no bs. Keep doing it.
As always with female dating advice, it's just about doing stuff centred around her, don't take dating advice off females guys. If she plays games, drop her. Stop playing to her games. Just drop her and move on. Don't give them second chances. if she likes you she will show it. She likes chad, he calls the shots. Don't encourage these childish games.
Not all people are same in this world some are good and some are bad same way not all girls are kind that's why if someone leave you then let them go, keep busy yourself to achieve your Goal which make you a true man. A woman glow up with makeup a man glow up with his purpose.
100%
If you got to do all this it’s time to move around! Too old for the games ain’t no body got time that!!! 😂😂😂😂
This is the equivalent of a woman saying I don't care how I look and am not going bother. Women's seduction is psychological, mens is physical, if you don't want to become more attractive in the way females desire you to be, don't blame them for not an taking extended interest in you. The advice in the video is sound and actually just basic fundamentals.
Always let them go, get a dog they actually love you.
"Match & Mirror" baby😜(time index 3:53)
Im so grateful for finding your channel❤
Not commenting the clip. I love your channel just discovered it. I resonate with a lot of stuff I say and I have similar observations. I hope your message will get to a lot of ppl.
Welcome. Thank you for being here.
Don't chase people that don't want to get to know you or aren't curious about you! I'm sorry if you are in pain but the fact is they're not that into you and nothing you do will be enough. The right woman makes it easy.
Your advice makes a lot of sense, except that I personally don't care if my wife of 35 years misses me.
I tend to think that my wife needs a secure marriage, my children a safe family and that is down to me. So I am dependable, predictable and always available to lean on. Yeah, my wife tends to take me for granted and I am boring, but I think in a good way. And no, I don't play relationship games. I know I will be missed when I am gone.
I'm happy living alone that is it I don't want waste my time and energy my advice is don't please women please your self improve your self that is what iam doing
brilliant advice. thank you.
I appreciate you!
Great content Christine. In what you say I see a lot of resemblance with Corey Wayne, are you familiar with his work?
Don’t chase replace it when you find someone younger and better looking take a picture of both of you and send it to the narcissist. Drive the point home that you don’t need them one bit and watch watch how that narcissist will just totally be attracted to you now that you’ve moved on and someone else is interested. I’ve been playing with narcissist women for 40 years and I played a win.
You seems very kind ❤
There is another one just around the corner. Never look back. Her loss. ;)
@@marguskiis7711 True! Flaking in 90%.
@@marguskiis7711Only in west
If u treated sum1 right & they broke ur heart... don't move on. Make ur life's purpose tp destroy their lives. Revenge.
take a number and sit down. then wait for your name to get called. it's no more complicated than that... never move on just move around.
Will this work for a friend, me and her not in a relationship and unfriend me. I don’t have feelings for her, but me and her were a couple? See works well. I haven’t added her back, she forgot my name? Do I add her back if she lost my name. Both of us are long distance.
I have not talk to her 4 months “this is 3 month close to be 4”.
I forgot is saying something to her and think is a rude way. I said “that wasn’t PG at all” in humor? Okay, I’d believe is bad.
im in sooo much pain
Go to the gymn bro !
Eat really healthy and gym really good,
Been there my self. Work on yourself and change your life. Find your soul calling within that your career, your passions your hobbies. You'll only level up insanely high then no woman can effect you. Not one single one. In fact you'll have women begging you and simping in you. So go for it.
I have seen a lot of your videos already. There is a lot of good points.I have an idea for video however not sure if its good. As a man i look for some video on womans hormones as its unusual for me. I wonder if this is importnant in dating/relationship context
If I feel insecure about her unpredictable movements. And she is saying "please stay positive"
What should I do?
Because I know if someone know that you are insecure about what they have done in the past, if they truly want you to feel safe in your head and heart, they would naturally do things to make you not have doubt in their actions.
What should I do?
How should I feel?
Just get rid of her and find another woman. All women are the same. I have dumped hundreds of thousands of dollars on women and it was a big waste of money. I am 50 now and have been paying child support since my 20's. I'm Good with your dating advice.
yup, very good vid.
I'm a man!! You are awesome! :)
I'm already a world clazz guitarizt baby ; ya juzt ain't heard of me yet.😜❤🔥
I told her, I won't text you anymore, you got my number. After screwing up no contact, now back into no contact
You did the right thing
@@Someonne_dot_com I hope so
Delete her number and your convo and don't look back. She will contact you when/if she's ready.
Your biggest mistake was saying you won't ever text any more. The mysteriousness and keeping her wondering has vanished. You've told her. Women don't want honesty I don't care what they say. Logically they do but they are built to run off there emotions so don't be honest if you want he rto chase you.
@@gobbledeegouup6578 now what should I do? " accidentally " pocket text her?🤷🏻♂️🤣
Is this right to be a conservative person sometimes?
question, so i begged for her to stay (knowing now that it was wrong) but she was the one to let me go and now i am doing no contact, is this a good step in the right direction?
Firstly you where never in the wrong. You felt emotions for her and you where actually being authentic real and honest. You learnt a lesson though that yea she's now gone. Shes after a man who can make her feel and that means he could even be a psychopath while your a nice guy who'd treat her super Wlel showing feelings it really means nothing. Being nice is nothing. It really is. Be nice because that's genuinely you as. A kind human but Yeha anyway. Women r supremely complex like SUPREMELY. My advice brother is to work on you until you become your best self. Find your soul passion and career. You'll find your own peace that way and then no woman what so ever can ever hurt you. In fact they'll be begging you for attention and to know why you don't want them. If you want them to stick around you also don't be honest you can dangle a carrot in front of there face if you really wish to. As I say women don't like the truth they want lies logically they will know they want honesty but emotionally it doesn't serve them then trying to get with a man.
What if you shared your past with your ex and she got jealous and dumped you twice because of it, even if l wanted to be honest and upfront with her? I am not bothering her but l still love her
where was you around 12 years ago i watch lots of your videos and the stuff you say i have learned the hard way over the years. but i still watch to see if there more to learn. thankyou
@@marguskiis7711Care to explain?
10:00
So basically I need to do like if I am talking to a kid ?
Women are children pretty much it is true. So yeah in a sense treat accordingly.
You ever notice at Christmas so many women excited like even 30 years old excited for gifts etc while as men we are like nah it all about the kids faces etc. For a woman it's about both but she is a child her self beduase she is run by emotions while men are run by logic. This is why they are children because kids are also run by there emotions to.
So yeah. In a way it really is like when a man becomes his strongest best version of him self he doesn't truly need a woman. She will deep down subconsciously look to him as her new father. Even if she's unaware of it. Purely because they are children. If she has a great father already then it's not exactly the same but to a degree you will be like her new father. That's why fathers give away there daughters at weddings. Lol. So yeah they are children while men like real men who work on themselves are adults. Maturity and soul wisdom purely comes from. The soul it has nothing to do with human age what so ever.
No she won't
If you're too vague and mysterious, they think you're running around on them.
@@kathleenmaclachlan1541
True
But believe me you'll get her wondering why and she will chase you more if she's attracted to you. That's her problem though not yours.
@@kathleenmaclachlan1541 don't like the facts do you. You don't even know your own self so I say make a conscious effort to want to.
I dont like tit for tat communication....write when you have something or want to....but also avoid messaging because of routine. Some people are more enthusiastic after the other person initiates, and thats not a bad thing unless you ate trting to do less
I am man.... manly characteristics
Desi ek jan mil gaya 😂
Let me say this IF U CAUSED ALOT OF Emotional and mental pain and abuse and never HAD remorse!. And she came to you with her concerns and you continue to mistreated her She’s not gonna miss you. U can WALK AWAY 100 times or thousands or for good Don’t let this channel fool you this is called pandering to a certain audience word salad.
You're tooo cute ; can i love ya ridge? haha.😁❤
Yoooo
'but what i did t'day ain't az good az watchin' one of your vidz zweety!'😜❤