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As a man who has failed many times with women, I can tell you that a woman MUST feel safe, secure, and comfortable with you in order to be with you. Trust me, gentlemen.
Hey Christine, I love how you broke that down. It’s so true-looks and money can get you in the door, but if you don’t make a woman feel something genuine, that attraction can fade fast. It’s all about the vibe you create, right? Women can pick up on that energy immediately. If you’re being authentic, playful, and showing her a side of you that’s confident without being over the top, that’s when things really click. And yeah, the way you handle rejection? That’s a game-changer. Walking away with confidence shows you’re secure, and that’s honestly way more attractive than pushing for something she’s not into. The idea of being upfront with your intentions really resonates with me. It’s funny how many guys get caught up in trying to be “just friends,” when they really want something more. It’s like... why not just be honest? Women appreciate authenticity so much more, and it makes everything feel more natural. And you’re right-women want to feel comfortable, and the best way to get there is to make sure you're having fun and keeping things lighthearted. It’s so easy to overthink, but when you focus on just enjoying the moment, that’s when the connection really deepens. Thanks for sharing all that. Definitely some solid advice here!
*The way you make a woman feel will always outweigh what you say or do. Focus on creating positive energy and connection, and everything else will follow.*
I have learnt about dating most women in the past, I made them, feel happy, safe, and comfortable. But there were some girls who wanted money, gifts, and free holidays.
000 now this is EXACTLY IT. What you have doesnt make her FEEL anyway. Yea it shows you could be a provider that gives her a sense of security, but that is not what will make her grow FEELINGS for you. It was what you say and/or do that has a direct impact on how she FEELS that will cause her to grow attraction and even attachment to a man.
Im in early. Thanks for all the good advice has given me an edge. She doesn't know I consume so much of this content, and she doesn't need to know . Shadow work
What if you’re like me and don’t like banter? What if you just enjoy being nice to everyone unless they are nasty or disrespectful? Can I not just be my genuine self with the occasional wit instead of being a performing monkey?
In a word it's TRUST. The trust factor covers loads of issues in the dating game. Plus if you've got a personality which can make her laugh Wells it's winner, winner chicken dinner
8:13 I think because as she gave the "thought just friends" crap and I didnt pressure her, I pulled back, I didnt deal with her any way differently, maybe that is making her come back around again.
6:02 lol, I not too sure on that, unless she was playing a whatever thing. I was away for awhile, a girl replied to almost every post i made, 3 times she asked me when I coming back. I said when I back we got dates, find some places. As I am back, SHE MESSAGED ME TO MEET UP, we did ONE ON ONE, this was few days before her bday. So I returned it and we met up ONE ON ONE for her bday. I INVITED HER TO MY PLACE FOR A DINNER DATE, I said DATE, she came. Going away again I said "when I am back we do more dates".. she goes "DATES, WHAT DATES THOUGHT JUST FRIENDS". SMH!! We both pulled back, yeah she start coming around again but listen to me, i am NOT making any move unless she does. She initiated a go out, we did, I initiate a go out for next month, so will see. She has a Libra Mars and that could be what has her in and out, dont know.
Oh Christine! You're doing an amazing job, I wish I could send this back to my 20yo self! You could save a whole generation of incels from reinventing the wheel with this correct advice! I hope you get big, keep doing the universe a favour! Much appreciation from a happily married man of 11 years!
That is interesting but I am wondering, could someone be authentically interested being both her friend and be involved romantically or does the two dont mix?
Yesterday I messed up a date by asking her to split the bill 🤦♂️ I did it unconsciously cause I always go out w my friends and we always split. It was after saying that I realized I messed up
@slight3814 if she likes you she'd not even expect a free meal if she's not staying in touch it's time to move on the meal wasn't the reason. Do not cling on to her if she giving you half arsed attention it's over save yourself any more time on to the next one.
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As a man who has failed many times with women, I can tell you that a woman MUST feel safe, secure, and comfortable with you in order to be with you. Trust me, gentlemen.
A guy who unpredictably does too little is a mystery. A guy who unpredictably does too much is a liability.
She is 1,000% Correct!!! When it come to women its Feelings>>>>>>>Facts. #Period
Hey Christine, I love how you broke that down. It’s so true-looks and money can get you in the door, but if you don’t make a woman feel something genuine, that attraction can fade fast. It’s all about the vibe you create, right? Women can pick up on that energy immediately. If you’re being authentic, playful, and showing her a side of you that’s confident without being over the top, that’s when things really click. And yeah, the way you handle rejection? That’s a game-changer. Walking away with confidence shows you’re secure, and that’s honestly way more attractive than pushing for something she’s not into. The idea of being upfront with your intentions really resonates with me. It’s funny how many guys get caught up in trying to be “just friends,” when they really want something more. It’s like... why not just be honest? Women appreciate authenticity so much more, and it makes everything feel more natural. And you’re right-women want to feel comfortable, and the best way to get there is to make sure you're having fun and keeping things lighthearted. It’s so easy to overthink, but when you focus on just enjoying the moment, that’s when the connection really deepens. Thanks for sharing all that. Definitely some solid advice here!
*The way you make a woman feel will always outweigh what you say or do. Focus on creating positive energy and connection, and everything else will follow.*
I have learnt about dating most women in the past, I made them, feel happy, safe, and comfortable. But there were some girls who wanted money, gifts, and free holidays.
It's not a minority of women who want wealthy men...
000 now this is EXACTLY IT. What you have doesnt make her FEEL anyway. Yea it shows you could be a provider that gives her a sense of security, but that is not what will make her grow FEELINGS for you. It was what you say and/or do that has a direct impact on how she FEELS that will cause her to grow attraction and even attachment to a man.
Im in early. Thanks for all the good advice has given me an edge. She doesn't know I consume so much of this content, and she doesn't need to know . Shadow work
Even if she knew, there’s nothing wrong with being better. Still works in her favour.
Good luck :)
Christine casually making sure blokes know how not to mess up and be called "just like the others" for a little bit longer.
What if you’re like me and don’t like banter? What if you just enjoy being nice to everyone unless they are nasty or disrespectful? Can I not just be my genuine self with the occasional wit instead of being a performing monkey?
In a word it's TRUST. The trust factor covers loads of issues in the dating game. Plus if you've got a personality which can make her laugh Wells it's winner, winner chicken dinner
8:13 I think because as she gave the "thought just friends" crap and I didnt pressure her, I pulled back, I didnt deal with her any way differently, maybe that is making her come back around again.
Precisely. Thank you ❤
6:02 lol, I not too sure on that, unless she was playing a whatever thing. I was away for awhile, a girl replied to almost every post i made, 3 times she asked me when I coming back. I said when I back we got dates, find some places. As I am back, SHE MESSAGED ME TO MEET UP, we did ONE ON ONE, this was few days before her bday. So I returned it and we met up ONE ON ONE for her bday. I INVITED HER TO MY PLACE FOR A DINNER DATE, I said DATE, she came. Going away again I said "when I am back we do more dates".. she goes "DATES, WHAT DATES THOUGHT JUST FRIENDS". SMH!! We both pulled back, yeah she start coming around again but listen to me, i am NOT making any move unless she does. She initiated a go out, we did, I initiate a go out for next month, so will see. She has a Libra Mars and that could be what has her in and out, dont know.
Nice guys finish last
6:12 lmfao!!
I love it when you wear your hair like this!
Maybe all of your viewers are watching your videos because of your beauty or cuteness ❤
Az well az knowledge and brain
6:00 Each time you see a cat in the video ... ;-)
LOLZ
Oh Christine! You're doing an amazing job, I wish I could send this back to my 20yo self! You could save a whole generation of incels from reinventing the wheel with this correct advice! I hope you get big, keep doing the universe a favour! Much appreciation from a happily married man of 11 years!
I chase money
get a life then
That is interesting but I am wondering, could someone be authentically interested being both her friend and be involved romantically or does the two dont mix?
Yesterday I messed up a date by asking her to split the bill 🤦♂️ I did it unconsciously cause I always go out w my friends and we always split. It was after saying that I realized I messed up
You didn't mess up
messed up why? You not her dad, dont pay for anything
If she likes you she will gladly split the bill buying affection is a losing position
Been feeling pretty down about it. This helps
@slight3814 if she likes you she'd not even expect a free meal if she's not staying in touch it's time to move on the meal wasn't the reason. Do not cling on to her if she giving you half arsed attention it's over save yourself any more time on to the next one.
Does your mom know it's past your bedtime?
She is married you know. Must be a new person to the channel
@@casualstartrekfan3379 Come on mate! It is wayyyy past her bedtime.
The only thing you as a guy needs is for her to find you physically and mentally attractive.
Don't think people appreciate you because you are giving them attractive advice, they are watching you because of your so attractive.
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